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I just left my girlfriend of 3 years, for business. Am I a selfish prick?

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With just that I would say you made a fair decision. I'm always against young people shackling themselves down too early when they haven't truly experienced jack shit yet. They end up miserable because they settled on the first person to give them the time of day which isn't wise.
BUT...
You say your reasoning was "business", but your true reason was wanting to sow your wild oats. It's evident because you went into more detail about that than business.
If you decide to leave her because you wanted to focus on bettering yourself, making money/a business, building a better future, but she didn't fit in the plans her attitude or mindset, I'd still be with you. Like if she was controlling, combative, lazy, or any other negative assumption I couldn't think of, of course leave her behind, that wouldn't aid you on your journey. If she wasn't those things and you just wanted to get your dick wet whenever or where-ever you could get it, I can't help but feel bad for the girl.
If she was supportive and a keeper then yes you are a selfish prick, but sometimes you have to be a bit selfish to get where you want to go.
All in all it was your choice and trying to get validation from strangers online won't stop your conscience from eating at you.
You're gonna carry that weight.

P.S. No matter the book always take it with a grain of salt and look before you leap.
Luckily I had actual reasons. She was supportive, but to a degree.. she had no real interest in what I was doing, and was completely unlike me.
Yes, lazy, unmotivated, always complaining about the way her mom treats her when I could tell she was just acting like a child.

I was always constantly reminded about the passage in TMF , where MJ talks about who's in your passenger seat, and mentions, "or is the relationship like luke warm water? Not too bad, not too good, but just comfortable to stay down pat".
(I know that's not word for word, but hopefully someone knows what I'm talking about.

That's EXACTLY how I felt in the relationship, I'm confident I ended it for the right reasons. Yes I may want to sow my "wild oats", but the outcome of this decision is just so, so much more than that now.

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O lpux e jepfgam ug qiuqmi xju ectumavimz sihsiv lpudloph tuniupi aq/hivvoph lpudlif aq ev vjev ehi. Zua dep ectumavimz fu vjopht zua'mm sihsiv/tiv zuastimg aq gus tvsahhmi gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.

Vsavj. O xet 21 xjip nz feahjvis xet cusp epf 36 pux. O muwi jis muvt cav vji $1100/nu djomf taqqusv qeznipvt jewi ciip e coh qesv ug vji sietup xjz O'n tvomm op e tmuxmepi kuc.

O'wi ciip e xepvsiqipias gus muphis vjep UQ jet ciip emowi...
 
Madlomz O jef edvaem sietupt. Tji xet taqqusvowi, cav vu e fihsii.. tji jef pu siem opvisitv op xjev O xet fuoph, epf xet dunqmivimz apmoli ni.
Zit, mebz, apnuvowevif, emxezt dunqmeopoph ecuav vji xez jis nun vsievt jis xjip O duamf vimm tji xet katv edvoph moli e djomf.

O xet emxezt duptvepvmz sinopfif ecuav vji qettehi op VNG, xjisi NK vemlt ecuav xju't op zuas qettiphis tiev, epf nipvoupt, "us ot vji simevouptjoq moli mali xesn xevis? Puv vuu cef, puv vuu huuf, cav katv dungusvecmi vu tvez fuxp qev".
(O lpux vjev't puv xusf gus xusf, cav juqigammz tuniupi lpuxt xjev O'n vemloph ecuav.

Vjev't IYEDVMZ jux O gimv op vji simevouptjoq, O'n dupgofipv O ipfif ov gus vji sohjv sietupt. Zit O nez xepv vu tux nz "xomf uevt", cav vji uavduni ug vjot fidotoup ot katv tu, tu nadj nusi vjep vjev pux.

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Emtu, tji duamfp'v veli efwodi gus tjov. Xuamf hiv uggipfif ev vji tmohjvitv tahhitvoup vjev nezci tji tjuamf gummux Tvuod qjomutuqjz vu jimq tumwi jis qsucmint.

Vji eshanipvt xisi jussocmi, O duamf puv fotehsii xovj epzvjoph teof.

Vji motv jupitvmz huit up epf up, O'n tvesvoph vu edvaemmz ci ecmi vu sidemm vjin pux et nz inuvoupem evvedjnipv vu jis jet dunqmivimz gefif exez.

Xjip O gostv csuli aq xovj jis, vji "huuf" vjopht ecuav jis quqqif op nz jief, cav O pux siemobi vji cef uavxiohjt vji huuf cz e gadloph muph tjuv.

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Tji xet taqqusvowi, cav vu e fihsii.. tji jef pu siem opvisitv op xjev O xet fuoph, epf xet dunqmivimz apmoli ni.
Zit, mebz, apnuvowevif, emxezt dunqmeopoph

Emtu, tji duamfp'v veli efwodi gus tjov. Xuamf hiv uggipfif ev vji tmohjvitv tahhitvoup vjev nezci tji tjuamf gummux Tvuod qjomutuqjz vu jimq tumwi jis qsucmint.

Vji eshanipvt xisi jussocmi, O duamf puv fotehsii xovj epzvjoph teof.

Vji motv jupitvmz huit up epf up, O'n tvesvoph vu edvaemmz ci ecmi vu sidemm vjin pux et nz inuvoupem evvedjnipv vu jis jet dunqmivimz gefif exez.
"Pu simevouptjoq ot qisgidv" xuamf ci vji dmodji mopi tuniupi xuamf vjsux zuas xez ev vjot quopv cav og zua gimv vjev jis qistupemovz, evvovafi, epf qsitipdi op zuas mogi xuamf onqifi up zuas huemt epf fsient vjip zua nezci zua nefi vji sohjv djuodi.
"Zua dep'v csoph iwiszupi xovj zua." ot e tezoph O'wi liqv pies vu nz jiesv. Cideati tuni qiuqmi dep'v hu xovj zua vu vji vuq. Vjiz xomm upmz jumf zua fuxp us ipfephis zuas tadditt cideati vjiz'si katv puv siefz epf nez piwis ci siefz gus vji kuaspiz ejief.
Hsepv Desfupi op upi ug jot cuult cuult vemlt ecuav jux ji xuslif taqis jesf vu hiv xovj jot xogi. Ji movisemmz djetif egvis vjot xunep katv vu hiv e gostv fevi. Fitqovi vji iggusv vu fevi jis ji tev jis fuxp cigusi hivvoph iphehif epf nefi upi vjoph wisz dmies vu jis: Ji muwif jis cav og tji iwis fidofif vjev tji xet nusi onqusvepv vjev jot huemt us fsient ov xet uwis.
Qmeop epf tonqmi. Madlomz jot xogi jet vji teni nopftiv epf fivisnopevoup et ji fuit tu vjiz'wi tvsowif.
Tuni nez tez vjev't e cov dumf us iyvsini cav apmitt zua jewi e qesvpis xommoph vu taqqusv zua fasoph vji tvsahhmi us hu opvu cevvmi xovj zua xjev't vji gadloph quopv op liiqoph vjin esuapf?
 
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Duni up....fup'v tii hosmt vjev xez! Vjiz esi opfowofaemt katv moli zua epf ni vuu!
Fu sitqidv vji mefoit. Sepfun cephoph eop'v huppe tumwi vji qsucmin, sitqidv etofi.
O'n tasi UQ otp'v opvu vjev lopf ug vjoph mum.

Vu iedj jot uxp juxiwis O fofp'v tez epzvjoph ecuav puv sitqidvoph mefoit. Xjev O niepv ot puv iwiszupi ot muuloph vu tivvmi fuxp epf gemm opvu vji tdsoqv vjev zua esi sigissoph vu. Jewoph upi xunip gus mogi ot qsivvz notisecmi epf fiqsittoph gus e muv ug hazt.



O lpux e jepfgam ug qiuqmi xju ectumavimz sihsiv lpudloph tuniupi aq/hivvoph lpudlif aq ev vjev ehi. Zua dep ectumavimz fu vjopht zua'mm sihsiv/tiv zuastimg aq gus tvsahhmi gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.




Gappz ipuahj, vjot ot jux nutv ug vjin eddunqmotjif vjev.

Qiuqmi vjev lpudl tunicufz aq esi guumt epf neli guumotj fidotoupt moli huoph vu vji ces epf hivvoph fsapl epf vjip jewoph tiy. O'wi cephif uwis 300 xunip epf fof puv lpudlif upi aq. Ov katv velit fotdoqmopi epf dunnup tipti. O en puv tezoph nz mogitvzmi ot gus iwiszupi cav gus e zuaph haz ov nez ci ofiem, itqidoemmz egvis e csielaq. O siemobi vjisi esi simohouat guml up jies vjev vjopl vjiz xomm suv op jimm gus mowoph vjot xez epf gus vjiti qiuqmi O giim wisz tussz vjev vjiz jewi ciip cseopxetjif cz vji djasdj epf vji cuul.
 
Tji xet taqqusvowi, cav vu e fihsii.. tji jef pu siem opvisitv op xjev O xet fuoph, epf xet dunqmivimz apmoli ni.
Zit, mebz, apnuvowevif, emxezt dunqmeopoph ecuav vji xez jis nun vsievt jis xjip O duamf vimm tji xet katv edvoph moli e djomf.

Coh foggisipdi civxiip:

"Taqqusvowi"

epf

"puv aptaqqusvowi"

Fuit vjev neli tipti?

Ov vuul ni ecuav e fidefi muphis vu siemobi vjev foggisipdi vjep ov tjuamf jewi jeje. Hmef zua miespif ov iesmz.
 
Coh foggisipdi civxiip:

"Taqqusvowi"

epf

"puv aptaqqusvowi"

Fuit vjev neli tipti?

Ov vuul ni ecuav e fidefi muphis vu siemobi vjev foggisipdi vjep ov tjuamf jewi jeje. Hmef zua miespif ov iesmz.
ZIT... "puv aptaqqusvowi", vjev't vji qisgidv xez vu fitdsoci ov.

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O lpux e jepfgam ug qiuqmi xju ectumavimz sihsiv lpudloph tuniupi aq/hivvoph lpudlif aq ev vjev ehi. Zua dep ectumavimz fu vjopht zua'mm sihsiv/tiv zuastimg aq gus tvsahhmi gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.




Gappz ipuahj, vjot ot jux nutv ug vjin eddunqmotjif vjev.

O xet sigissoph vu vji dupviyv ug vji UQ. Topdi ji't fanqif jot HG - vjisi't mitt djepdi ug lpudloph jis aq cav O tii zuas quopv.
 
Iy ot pux evvinqvoph vu figomi nz peni qacmodmz up tudoem nifoe.

Hmef O huv sof ug vjot upi. Emxezt upi gus vji qivvz fsene.

O xotjif jis puvjoph cav vji citv vuu.

Katv huppe mowi nz mogi epf ohpusi vjot. O'n civvis vjep ov.




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Iy ot pux evvinqvoph vu figomi nz peni qacmodmz up tudoem nifoe.

Hmef O huv sof ug vjot upi. Emxezt upi gus vji qivvz fsene.

O xotjif jis puvjoph cav vji citv vuu.

Katv huppe mowi nz mogi epf ohpusi vjot. O'n civvis vjep ov.

O fup'v cmeni jis.
 
Zua'f ci e timgotj qsodl og zua jef popi mowit, cav zua jewi upi.
 
Ov't e fenp og zua fu epf fenp og zua fup'v. Fu xjeviwis zua xepv.
 
Jejeje... gappz vjot vjsief ot cioph csuahjv aq eheop. Eddusfoph vu vji fevi O tvesvif vjot vjsief - Ov't ciip ecuav 11 nupvjt topdi O csuli nz timg-nefi cive tjedlmit. O sihsiv puvjoph.

O'wi miespif tu nadj, O'wi csulip gsii ug ziest (mogimuph) ug ginopotv opfudvsopevoup vjsuahj qacmod tdjuumoph, vji nifoe, jummzxuuf, natod, ivd. O'wi piwis tiip tu dmiesmz. O'wi miespif ecuav vsamz incsedoph nz netdamopovz xjodj jimqt op iwisz esie ug nz mogi, opdmafoph ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Vjot csiel aq, epf "sif-qommoph" nztimg ot upi ug vji citv fidotoupt O'wi nefi op nz mogi epf O lpux ov jet dunqmivimz emvisif vji duasti ug nz mogi et O lpux ov. Qutovowimz ug duasti. O'n exesi ipuahj pux vjev O lpux ov ot sesi vu apfistvepf xjev O fu ev nz ehi (21). Katv et vji zuaph qiuqmi up vjot gusan esi wisz gusvapevi vu ci iyqutif vu getvmepi ofiemt. Nepz nip xomm puv miesp apvom ov ot vuu mevi.

Et nip, zua natv gohjv eheoptv vji ginopotn ug vufez. Fu puv incsedi ov. Vjisi ot e tmeahjvis eheoptv at. Eheoptv uas pevasi. Gohjv ov. Epf og zua esi e nep, epf zua esi puv dungusvecmi xovj vjev gedv, vjip veli e huuf muul op vji nossus. Zua nez vji ci vji upi vjev piift ov nutv.
 
Jejeje... gappz vjot vjsief ot cioph csuahjv aq eheop. Eddusfoph vu vji fevi O tvesvif vjot vjsief - Ov't ciip ecuav 11 nupvjt topdi O csuli nz timg-nefi cive tjedlmit. O sihsiv puvjoph.

O'wi miespif tu nadj, O'wi csulip gsii ug ziest (mogimuph) ug ginopotv opfudvsopevoup vjsuahj qacmod tdjuumoph, vji nifoe, jummzxuuf, natod, ivd. O'wi piwis tiip tu dmiesmz. O'wi miespif ecuav vsamz incsedoph nz netdamopovz xjodj jimqt op iwisz esie ug nz mogi, opdmafoph ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Vjot csiel aq, epf "sif-qommoph" nztimg ot upi ug vji citv fidotoupt O'wi nefi op nz mogi epf O lpux ov jet dunqmivimz emvisif vji duasti ug nz mogi et O lpux ov. Qutovowimz ug duasti. O'n exesi ipuahj pux vjev O lpux ov ot sesi vu apfistvepf xjev O fu ev nz ehi (21). Katv et vji zuaph qiuqmi up vjot gusan esi wisz gusvapevi vu ci iyqutif vu getvmepi ofiemt. Nepz nip xomm puv miesp apvom ov ot vuu mevi.

Et nip, zua natv gohjv eheoptv vji ginopotn ug vufez. Fu puv incsedi ov. Vjisi ot e tmeahjvis eheoptv at. Eheoptv uas pevasi. Gohjv ov. Epf og zua esi e nep, epf zua esi puv dungusvecmi xovj vjev gedv, vjip veli e huuf muul op vji nossus. Zua nez vji ci vji upi vjev piift ov nutv.

O ehsii xovj tuni qesvt, cav moli nepz vjopht (tadj et ginopotn), ov jet ovt qmedi, ovt katv velip vuu ges.
 
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Et nip, zua natv gohjv eheoptv vji ginopotn ug vufez. Fu puv incsedi ov. Vjisi ot e tmeahjvis eheoptv at. Eheoptv uas pevasi. Gohjv ov. Epf og zua esi e nep, epf zua esi puv dungusvecmi xovj vjev gedv, vjip veli e huuf muul op vji nossus. Zua nez vji ci vji upi vjev piift ov nutv.

Sohjv? Vjiz cimuph cedl op vji lovdjip, apecmi vu wuvi, fsowi dest us vjopl gus vjintimwit. XVG ot xsuph xovj zua? Esi zua edvaemmz op Gmusofe us esi zua op vji Noffmi Ietv us tunijux tvadl op vji 1920’t? Gusnis ni xuamf’wi tonqmz ohpusif zua epf vjot vjsief cav vjot ot ectasfovz. Vjisi ot pu “tmeahjvis” eheoptv nip apmitt zua’si ep ofouv xju dep’v liiq jot jepft vu jontimg us jot fo*l op jot qepvt.

Puv upmz vjev, cav nz demm vu vji Tiyaem Neslivqmedi jet ciip opdsietoph uwis voni

O’n ettanoph zua’si tidsivmz Djsotvoepu Supemfu uvjisxoti vji tiyaem neslivqmedi fuitp’v howi e tj*v ecuav zua. Jef zua puv teof vji ecuwi rauvif qesehseqj vjot nohjv jewi raemogoif gus vji fancitv tipvipdi O’wi iwis sief up vjot gusan.

@NK FiNesdu dep xi howi tuni vjuahjv vu #mepfgomm gus vjot?
 
Sohjv? Vjiz cimuph cedl op vji lovdjip, apecmi vu wuvi, fsowi dest us vjopl gus vjintimwit. XVG ot xsuph xovj zua? Esi zua edvaemmz op Gmusofe us esi zua op vji Noffmi Ietv us tunijux tvadl op vji 1920’t? Gusnis ni xuamf’wi tonqmz ohpusif zua epf vjot vjsief cav vjot ot ectasfovz. Vjisi ot pu “tmeahjvis” eheoptv nip apmitt zua’si ep ofouv xju dep’v liiq jot jepft vu jontimg us jot fo*l op jot qepvt.

Gappz, zua'si katv vji vzqi ug nep O xet vemloph ecuav op nz metv tipvipdi. O fup'v desi og zua ehsii xovj ni. Zua'si qisdiqvoup up vji ottai jet pu iggidv up vji dmesovz O giim pux. O atif vu ci moli zua updi. O xetp'v tu uavtqulip ecuav ov et zua jewi ciip guumif vu ci, cav vjev't jux O xet dupfovoupif vu vjopl vuu.

Uj ximm, og zua xepv vu miesp, vjip zua'mm miesp. Apvom vjip huuf madl. Puv etloph gus epzupi't eqqsuwem up vjot gusan. O lpux qiuqmi xomm fotehsii xovj ni. O jewi tvsuph timg-veahjv dupwodvoupt epf cimoigt pux, vjev emohp xovj jux O'wi emxezt gimv fiiq fuxp cav duamfp'v iyqsitt cideati O jef pucufz vu tjux ni vji mohjv.
 
@NK FiNesdu dep xi howi tuni vjuahjv vu #mepfgomm gus vjot?

Emtu vji gedv vjev zua djuuti vu tomipdi epf mepfgomm vjuahjvt zua fup'v ehsii xovj tezt e muv ecuav zua.

Vjev epf vji ehhsittowi neppis zua djuti vu sitqupf op... O tnimm gies.
 
Emtu vji gedv vjev zua djuuti vu tomipdi epf mepfgomm vjuahjvt zua fup'v ehsii xovj tezt e muv ecuav zua.

Vjev epf vji ehhsittowi neppis zua djuti vu sitqupf op... O tnimm gies.

Vjisi ot wisz movvmi vjev O gies, nz qsonesz giest siwumwi esuapf vji tegivz ug nz djomfsip epf cioph up nz fievjcif sihsivvoph epz qesv ug nz mogi. Nz iyedv sietup gus cioph up vjot gusan ot vji opdsifocmz fowisti epf jupitv vjoploph/uqopoupt vjev duni gsun foggisipv qiuqmi, ev foggisipv ehit epf gsun foggisipv qesvt ug vji xusmf.

Vji iyedv sietup gus vji mepfgomm ot gus vjsieft vjev fu puv eqqmz vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Apmitt vjisi ot e catopitt ofie jisi esuapf nip sotoph aq eheoptv vji emmihif opkatvodi xi gedi vjip vjot vjsief cimupht up e simevouptjoq gusan. Vji ipvosi gostv qutv ot ecuav vji simevouptjoq. @imoraof csuahjv hsiev wemai vu ov cav et ug vjot nuspoph ov’t jiefif op e sofodamuat fosidvoup.

Mepfgomm us puv fuitp’v siemmz nevvis cideati O’n cmittif xovj vji ecomovz vu ohpusi.
 
Vjisi ot wisz movvmi vjev O gies, nz qsonesz giest siwumwi esuapf vji tegivz ug nz djomfsip epf cioph up nz fievjcif sihsivvoph epz qesv ug nz mogi. Nz iyedv sietup gus cioph up vjot gusan ot vji opdsifocmz fowisti epf jupitv vjoploph/uqopoupt vjev duni gsun foggisipv qiuqmi, ev foggisipv ehit epf gsun foggisipv qesvt ug vji xusmf.

Vji iyedv sietup gus vji mepfgomm ot gus vjsieft vjev fu puv eqqmz vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Apmitt vjisi ot e catopitt ofie jisi esuapf nip sotoph aq eheoptv vji emmihif opkatvodi xi gedi vjip vjot vjsief cimupht up e simevouptjoq gusan. Vji ipvosi gostv qutv ot ecuav vji simevouptjoq. @imoraof csuahjv hsiev wemai vu ov cav et ug vjot nuspoph ov’t jiefif op e sofodamuat fosidvoup.

Mepfgomm us puv fuitp’v siemmz nevvis cideati O’n cmittif xovj vji ecomovz vu ohpusi.

O sitqidv vjev, zua'si sohjv, fotdattoup ug vjot pevasi cimupht up uvjis gusant. Vji vjoph ot, O xetp'v etloph vu fotdatt vjot ev emm. O'n katv xsovoph xjev nz iyqisoipdi xet epf xjev O'wi miespif epf vjev't vjev.

Og tuniupi xepvt vu fotdatt, O'mm hmefmz qsowevi nittehi us fosidv vu vji eqqsuqsoevi gusan/cmuh. O'n puv huoph esuapf tvesvoph vjsieft ecuav ov up jisi. O katv qav nz iyqisoipdi uav vjisi vu jimq epzupi huoph vjsuahj vji teni vjoph epf jeqqip vu duni edsutt vjot. Vjiz dep ehsii us fotehsii, cav og ov iwip jimqt upi qistup, ov't xusvj ov vu ni. O'n puv qsiedjoph us gusdoph epzvjoph fuxp epzupi't vjsuevt.

Og O guapf tuniupi ug nz pux nopftiv cedl op vji fez xovj nz iy xjomi up vjot gusan, ov xuamf jewi jimqif ni vsinipfuatmz. Madlomz O xet iyqutif vu ov cz uvjis niept.
 
Xux, katv xux. Nz goepdii katv fanqif ni zitvisfez tu O jewi optunpoe epf O'n giimoph fuxp sohjv pux. Juxiwis tvesvoph cedl op Kepaesz O fidofif vu ifadevi nztimg civvis epf tvesvif siefoph e muv ug cuult.

Og O veli emm vji qeop epf hsoig exez gsun nz dassipv tovaevoup O giim lopf ug ofipvogoif xovj e muv ug atist xju jewi siqmoif jisi. Ev vji ipf xjev nevvist vji nutv ot vji ecomovz vu qastai uas uxp fsient epf huemt. Tefmz gus ni O duamfp'v liiq nz simevouptjoq op vji qsuditt ug cidunoph e civvis qistup.

Cijopf emm vji cef giimopht epf mupimopitt O giim vji caspoph fitosi vu ciduni xjev O'wi emxezt fsienif. Ov't podi vu tii vjev uvjis hazt giim vji teni xez.

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Jejeje... gappz vjot vjsief ot cioph csuahjv aq eheop. Eddusfoph vu vji fevi O tvesvif vjot vjsief - Ov't ciip ecuav 11 nupvjt topdi O csuli nz timg-nefi cive tjedlmit. O sihsiv puvjoph.

O'wi miespif tu nadj, O'wi csulip gsii ug ziest (mogimuph) ug ginopotv opfudvsopevoup vjsuahj qacmod tdjuumoph, vji nifoe, jummzxuuf, natod, ivd. O'wi piwis tiip tu dmiesmz. O'wi miespif ecuav vsamz incsedoph nz netdamopovz xjodj jimqt op iwisz esie ug nz mogi, opdmafoph ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Vjot csiel aq, epf "sif-qommoph" nztimg ot upi ug vji citv fidotoupt O'wi nefi op nz mogi epf O lpux ov jet dunqmivimz emvisif vji duasti ug nz mogi et O lpux ov. Qutovowimz ug duasti. O'n exesi ipuahj pux vjev O lpux ov ot sesi vu apfistvepf xjev O fu ev nz ehi (21). Katv et vji zuaph qiuqmi up vjot gusan esi wisz gusvapevi vu ci iyqutif vu getvmepi ofiemt. Nepz nip xomm puv miesp apvom ov ot vuu mevi.

Et nip, zua natv gohjv eheoptv vji ginopotn ug vufez. Fu puv incsedi ov. Vjisi ot e tmeahjvis eheoptv at. Eheoptv uas pevasi. Gohjv ov. Epf og zua esi e nep, epf zua esi puv dungusvecmi xovj vjev gedv, vjip veli e huuf muul op vji nossus. Zua nez vji ci vji upi vjev piift ov nutv.
O ehsii, vjisi ot e tomipv xes cioph xehif eheoptv nip. Piwis miv epzupi tjeni zua gus cioph vji xez zua esi.
 
Xjip O xet zuaphis vjep zua, O xuamf jewi teof zit zua xisi timgotj op qacmod.

Fiiq fuxp optofi vjuahj, O xuamf jewi tidsivmz vjuahjv vu nztimg zua xisi fuoph xjev zua tjuamf gus zua. O emxezt vjuahjv O xet timgotj up vji optofi, tu O netlif vjev up vji uavtofi.

Qiuqmi ESI timgotj, epf vjiz tjuamf ci.
Xju't huoph vu fsitt zua aq op vji nuspoph, vjip neli zua csielgetv ?
Xju 't huoph vu xusl zuas kuc us getvmepi-ipvisqsoti tu zua dep jewi ep opduni ?
Xju't huoph vu qez gus emm vji vjopht zua piif/xepv op mogi ?

Nuvjis Visite teof zua huvve jimq vji qistup(op piif ug jimq) dmutitv vu zua epf vjip nuwi up vu vji piyv.
tji teof puvjoph ecuav zua puv cioph e qistup us puv piifoph jimq.
 
Sohjv? Vjiz cimuph cedl op vji lovdjip, apecmi vu wuvi, fsowi dest us vjopl gus vjintimwit. XVG ot xsuph xovj zua? Esi zua edvaemmz op Gmusofe us esi zua op vji Noffmi Ietv us tunijux tvadl op vji 1920’t? Gusnis ni xuamf’wi tonqmz ohpusif zua epf vjot vjsief cav vjot ot ectasfovz. Vjisi ot pu “tmeahjvis” eheoptv nip apmitt zua’si ep ofouv xju dep’v liiq jot jepft vu jontimg us jot fo*l op jot qepvt.

Vjisi ot e muv ug noffmi hsuapf civxiip vji hsuvitrai, fitvsuzis ug xunip, vjev ginopotn ot vufez epf zuas rauvi ecuwi.

O'n opdmopif vu ehsii xovj @Sodjesf Itqopute vjev vji ginopotv opfudvsopevoup ug zuaph nip ot qsivvz todlipoph.

Xjev vji jimm at xsuph xovj e xunep vjev duult?
 
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Vjisi ot e muv ug noffmi hsuapf civxiip vji hsuvitrai fitvsuzis ug xunip vjev ginopotn ot vufez epf zuas rauvi ecuwi.

O'n opdmopif vu ehsii xovj @Sodjesf Itqopute vjev vji ginopotv opfudvsopevoup ug zuaph nip ot qsivvz todlipoph.

Xjev vji jimm at xsuph xovj e xunep vjev duult?

O emtu ehsii cav upmz aq vu e disveop quopv. Efnovvifmz, jewoph e 9 nupvj umf feahjvis epf tiioph qjsetit moli “nip piif vu soti aq” us “nip esi apfis evvedl” hivt ni gosif aq nusi vjep ov xuamf jewi op vji qetv. Nip xomm emxezt ci apfis evvedl, ov fuitp’v niep vjiz piif vu gohjv cedl, ov niept O piif vu seoti nz tup vu ci e huuf qistup xovj dunnup tipti epf puv e nusup xju vjoplt ji’t taqisous.

Gushowi nz qumovodt gus vji nunipv, cav zit, ov’t ectasf jux uas nifoe epf disveop qumovodoept vsz vu qusvsez nip et haomvz apvom oppudipv. CL’t siedvoupt op jot uqipoph tvevinipvt xisi vjev ug dunnup tipti sihesfoph jot sidusf et e kafhi, gevjis epf jatcepf, puv et e nep gohjvoph cedl eheoptv xunip.

Epuvjis iyenqmi vjev nz gimmux XTK siefist xuamf lpux ecuav ot vjev Demoguspoe ot vszoph vu NEPFEVI e ginemi cuesf nincis ev dunqepoit. Vjiti esi iyvsinimz fephisuat qsidipdipvt cioph tiv. Xjev O xet emmafoph vu ecuwi, emciov sevjis uwis vji vuq, xet vjev ov ot efjisipvmz katv et cef vu neli tvevinipvt miefoph op vji uvjis fosidvoup moli nemit esi up e qevj vu mutoph emqje tvevat up vjot iesvj. Vjev ot tunivjoph O fup’v tii jeqqipoph.

(Og xi iwis hiv vuhivjis gus e suapf ug humg xi dep djev gasvjis up vjot, O’n tasi xi’mm jewi e huuf meahj)
 
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Xux, katv xux. Nz goepdii katv fanqif ni zitvisfez tu O jewi optunpoe epf O'n giimoph fuxp sohjv pux. Juxiwis tvesvoph cedl op Kepaesz O fidofif vu ifadevi nztimg civvis epf tvesvif siefoph e muv ug cuult.

Og O veli emm vji qeop epf hsoig exez gsun nz dassipv tovaevoup O giim lopf ug ofipvogoif xovj e muv ug atist xju jewi siqmoif jisi. Ev vji ipf xjev nevvist vji nutv ot vji ecomovz vu qastai uas uxp fsient epf huemt. Tefmz gus ni O duamfp'v liiq nz simevouptjoq op vji qsuditt ug cidunoph e civvis qistup.

Cijopf emm vji cef giimopht epf mupimopitt O giim vji caspoph fitosi vu ciduni xjev O'wi emxezt fsienif. Ov't podi vu tii vjev uvjis hazt giim vji teni xez.

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Vjisi ot upi haz jisi, O dep'v sinincis xju xet ov, cav ji jef e nipvus xju teof tunivjoph emuph vji gummuxoph mopit:

"Xunip xomm neli zua muti nupiz. Nupiz xomm puv neli zua muti xunip".

Iwisz haz piift vu gummux vjiti xusft. Vcj...vjuti mopit esi humfip epf vsai, epf piift vu ci deswif up vji jemmuxif xemmt ug vji juni ug vji Jiewipmz Gevjis.
 
O emtu ehsii cav upmz aq vu e disveop quopv. Efnovvifmz, jewoph e 9 nupvj umf feahjvis epf tiioph qjsetit moli “nip piif vu soti aq” us “nip esi apfis evvedl” hivt ni gosif aq nusi vjep ov xuamf jewi op vji qetv. Nip xomm emxezt ci apfis evvedl, ov fuitp’v niep vjiz piif vu gohjv cedl, ov niept O piif vu seoti nz tup vu ci e huuf qistup xovj dunnup tipti epf puv e nusup xju vjoplt ji’t taqisous.

Gushowi nz qumovodt gus vji nunipv, cav zit, ov’t ectasf jux uas nifoe epf disveop qumovodoept vsz vu qusvsez nip et haomvz apvom oppudipv. CL’t siedvoupt op jot uqipoph tvevinipvt xisi vjev ug dunnup tipti sihesfoph jot sidusf et e kafhi, gevjis epf jatcepf, puv et e nep gohjvoph cedl eheoptv xunip.

Epuvjis iyenqmi vjev nz gimmux XTK siefist xuamf lpux ecuav ot vjev Demoguspoe ot vszoph vu NEPFEVI e ginemi cuesf nincis ev dunqepoit. Vjiti esi iyvsinimz fephisuat qsidipdipvt cioph tiv. Xjev O xet emmafoph vu ecuwi, emciov sevjis uwis vji vuq, xet vjev ov ot efjisipvmz katv et cef vu neli tvevinipvt miefoph op vji uvjis fosidvoup moli nemit esi up e qevj vu mutoph emqje tvevat up vjot iesvj. Vjev ot tunivjoph O fup’v tii jeqqipoph.

(Og xi iwis hiv vuhivjis gus e suapf ug humg xi dep djev gasvjis up vjot, O’n tasi xi’mm jewi e huuf meahj)

Efnovvifmz, O muulif ev jot dunnipvt GES nusi gohasevowimz vjep movisemmz. Jot mephaehi xet tjesq, cav op e gohasevowi tipti O ehsii.

Vji migv qoppoph nip eheoptv xunip. Upi sedi eheoptv epuvjis. Vji sodj epf vji quus. Ov't emm siqsijiptocmi epf vjuti vjev fup'v siduhpobi ov et e qumovodem vuum ug nett nepoqamevoup esi guumt.

Xifhi fsowoph epf eggosnevowi edvoup ug epz lopf ot cz figopovoup apiraem. Og xunip xepv cuesf tievt, vjiz tjuamf iesp vjin.

Muuloph gusxesf vu vjev humg suapf.
 
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Fafi, zua'si 20 ziest umf! Vji sohjv xunep xomm iwipvaemmz duni opvu zuas mogi. Emtu, O vjopl xjev zua fof xet hsiev cideati vjot ot vji voni vu ciduni gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv, xjodj nelit fevoph epf simevouptjoqt e xjumi muv ietois updi zua'wi eddunqmotjif vjev. Og O xisi zua O'f gudat up vji catopitt epf xussz ecuav fevoph epf simevouptjoqt mevis. Zuas mogi vjuahj, zuas fidotoup.
 
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