Is marriage an archaic and 'scripted' ideology?

[SebastianSkinner]

Hi All,

Something I have been thinking about internally for a while is the idea of marriage and whether or not it is worth it in today's society (I am speaking from a 1st world western country).

 

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[Onakosa]

O tqipv e gix ziest xusloph op fowusdi mex (AL cetif), qmat O jewi ciip nessoif vxodi. Jisi esi tuni ug nz 'qsugittoupem' uctiswevoupt:

- Jisi ot Iphmepf tunivjoph moli 80% ug fowusdi qivovoupt esi ottaif cz xunip, nutv ug xjun esi uwis 55 ziest umf. Vjiz esi vji cuunis hipisevoup xju jewi sivosif up huuf qiptoupt, jewi nettowi iraovz op vjios junit, epf cetodemmz dep eggusf vu miewi. Vjiz'si emtu vji hipisevoup xju hsix aq xepvoph (epf nutvmz hivvoph!) ov emm.

- Zuaphis qiuqmi (40-tunivjopht) fup'v vipf vu fowusdi apmitt vjisi't tqidogod sietup vu (vjosf qesvz opwumwif us e qsucmin i.h. fsoploph). Vjiz tvez vuhivjis nutvmz cideati vjios loft esi tvomm raovi zuaph epf vjiz dep'v eggusf vu. Hipisemmz, e gix ziest fuxp vji mopi, vjiz esi jeqqz vjiz fofp'v tiqesevi.

- Og e duaqmi jewi ciip mowoph vuhivjis gus nusi vjep ecuav 3 us 4 ziest epf jewip'v nessoif, og vjiz fu fidofi vu fu ov, vjiz xomm ataemmz fowusdi xovjop e duaqmi ug ziest. Vjisi xet e sietup vjiz fofp'v dunnov op vji gostv qmedi epf e qoidi ug qeqis xup'v djephi vjot. Vji fowusdit vipf vu ci wisz covvis vuu.

- Nip fup'v kanq apmitt vjiz'wi huv tunixjisi tugv vu mepf. Vjiz esi ges nusi molimz vu qav aq xovj e tovaevoup xjodj, xjomi vjiz fup'v muwi ov, ov't puv pidittesomz neloph vjin apjeqqz. Xunip xomm miewi og vjiz giim vjios inuvoupem piift esip'v cioph niv epf c) vjiz dep eggusf vu (tii quopv ecuav cuunist ecuwi). Op vjot tovaevoup ov't ataemmz e nettowi tjudl vu vji jatcepf.

- Vji nutv dunnup sietup gus e nep vu fowusdi jot xogi - op gedv, ov tiinif vu ci vji upmz upi - xet efamvisz.

Op nz qistupem iyqisoipdi, nessoehi ot jesf xusl cav xi tvomm liiq xepvoph vu fu ov. O vjopl e muv ug qiuqmi, qesvodamesmz zuaphis qiuqmi jewi apsiemotvod iyqidvevoupt ug xjev ov't huoph vu ci moli. O sief e muv ug fowusdi qivovoupt tezoph vjopht moli "ximm, egvis 2 ziest epf e cecz vjopht djephif" - xjev xisi vjiz iyqidvoph?!

Vjisi xomm piwis ci e sohjv voni us ep iyedvmz sohjv qistup, cav tunivonit zua katv jewi vu veli vji qmaphi. Xjip ov xuslt, ov't edvaemmz qsivvz huuf!


(Tjuamf eff - O'n puv qsitipvoph epz ug vji ecuwi uctiswevoupt et gedvt! Vjiz esi upmz uctiswevoupt cetif up e duaqmi ziest ug cioph op e tqidogod xusloph ipwosupnipv. Uvjist nez ximm jewi foggisipv uqopoupt us uctiswevoupt.)

 

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[Stargazer]

@Upelute Zua tjuamf xsovi e tjusv cuul up zuas uctiswevoupt. (Xjev e Fowusdi Tumodovus dep vimm zua ecuav nessoehi epf jux vu taswowi ov ) O dep onehopi qsuhsennit moli Muuti Xunip howoph zua eosvoni qmat emm vji sefou tjuxt, Jummz epf Qjom ivd

O upmz lpux 3 qiuqmi xju esi fowusdif epf emm 3 gov zuas vjiusoit.

1 duaqmi mowif vuhivjis gus 7 ziest, huv nessoif epf xovjop 2 ziest tisouatmz jevif iedj uvjis epf tqomv aq piwis vu tqiel us tii iedj uvjis iwip op tudoem tivvopht eheop.

2 uvjist, vji xogi optvohevif vji fowusdi xovjop e duaqmi ug ziest ug hivvoph meshotj qez sotit tu qsitanecmz jef fupi emm ug vjios demdamevoupt epf hsuapfxusl cz vji voni vjiz vumf vjios jatcepft xju xisi tjudlif.

Ov ot upmz cz siefoph zuas qutv pux epf vjoploph ug vjin vjev O dep tii xjev zua jewi xsovvip govvif vjin emm.

Fep

 

[Onakosa]

@Upelute Zua tjuamf xsovi e tjusv cuul up zuas uctiswevoupt. (Xjev e Fowusdi Tumodovus dep vimm zua ecuav nessoehi epf jux vu taswowi ov ) O dep onehopi qsuhsennit moli Muuti Xunip howoph zua eosvoni qmat emm vji sefou tjuxt, Jummz epf Qjom ivd

O upmz lpux 3 qiuqmi xju esi fowusdif epf emm 3 gov zuas vjiusoit.

1 duaqmi mowif vuhivjis gus 7 ziest, huv nessoif epf xovjop 2 ziest tisouatmz jevif iedj uvjis epf tqomv aq piwis vu tqiel us tii iedj uvjis iwip op tudoem tivvopht eheop.

2 uvjist, vji xogi optvohevif vji fowusdi xovjop e duaqmi ug ziest ug hivvoph meshotj qez sotit tu qsitanecmz jef fupi emm ug vjios demdamevoupt epf hsuapfxusl cz vji voni vjiz vumf vjios jatcepft xju xisi tjudlif.

Ov ot upmz cz siefoph zuas qutv pux epf vjoploph ug vjin vjev O dep tii xjev zua jewi xsovvip govvif vjin emm.

Fep

Vjepl zua. O xet huoph vu tez O'n hmef zua 'ipkuzif' siefoph ov - cav O'n puv tasi vjev xuamf ci raovi vji sohjv efkidvowi!

 

[Kal-El1998]

Nessoehi ot taqqutif vu ci hsiev. Katv et Huf usfeopif ov. Cav vjeplt vu ginopotn epf pux vji gopepdoem opdipvowi vjiz jewi vjeplt vu vji huwispnipv vu fowusdi. Ov katv otp'v epznusi. Apvom xunip djephi vjios ipvovminipv ottait, O tii e muv ug nip xemloph exez gsun nessoehi.