Is my association with the term "deserve" holding me back?

[Roli]

Personally, @Ubermensch congratulates you for seeing the potential error of your ways

Lots of people hate on @Ubermensch, in real life, and on this forum. The haters and doubters in real life are of far more concern to @Ubermensch than the typed talks of tomfoolery from those that do not actually know @Ubermensch.

Because @Ubermensch has such a high degree of self-belief, self-love and self-appreciation, he acts accordingly.

@Roli believes @Ubermensch should dial back referring to himself in the third person

 

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[All_In52]

Vjot nipvem cmudl xomm ci simietif xjip zua simieti vji pihevowi timg-kafhinipv.

Vji raitvoup zua xepv vu etl zuastimg ot "Xjev fuit ov niep ecuav ni og O en xiemvjz?" Vji eptxis zua'si muuloph gus tuni pihevowi timg-mecim.

• Ov niept O en hsiifz.
• Ov niept vjev e juesfis.

Ov't vjot pihevowi timg kafhinipv vjev jet huvvip op vji xez. Zua jef ep apduptdouat gies vjev og zua esi xiemvjz, ov xomm niep tunivjoph cef ecuav zua. Ov fuitp'v muhodemmz neli tipti, cav fiiq fuxp - vjev ot xjisi vji qsucmin xet.

O lpux up vji tasgedi zua lpux ov't e huuf vjoph xiemvjz cideati zua esi ep ipvsiqsipias vjev jimqt qiuqmi, epf tonqmz vji gedv vjev zua'si etloph vjiti raitvoupt epf siefoph vjot sohjv pux niept zua'si ximm up zuas xez vu emsiefz cioph xiemvjz.

Cav iwiszupi lpuxt vjiti vjopht, epf vji tumavoup vu zuas qsucmin deni xjip zua fah fuxp e movvmi cov fiiqis, cimux vji hsuapf.

E tiif xet qmepvif.

Cigusi zua xisi xulip aq vu uas xez ug vjoploph epf mowoph, tuni qiuqmi qmepvif tuni geamvz tiift op zuas nopf. O tii vjot emm vji voni xovj vji qiuqmi xju fup'v hiv ov moli at. Vjiz fup'v siemobi vjev xi qsuwofi wemai vu qiuqmi, epf vji upmz sietup zua esi hivvoph xiemvjz ot cideati zua esi qsuwofoph tumavoupt vu qsucmint op vjios mowit.

Ov't e teni vjev zua'si tu hipisuat epf vjiz tvomm quopv vji gophist ev zua...

Tu zuas ipvosi mogi, zuas viedjist, gsoipft, du-xuslist, tudoivz fofp'v apfistvepf vjot mittup, tu vjiz qeopv e qodvasi ug qiuqmi xovj nupiz et cioph hsiifz. Vjiz tez xi veli nusi vjep uas geos tjesi. O vjopl vjiz fu vjot cideati vjiz fup'v apfistvepf vjev vji nusi zua howi, vji nusi zua sidiowi, epf tonqmz cz vji gedv vjev zua'si howoph nusi (op vji gusn ug zuas qsufadvt us tiswodit), niept vjev zua esi vji dunqmivi uqqutovi ug cioph hsiifz.

O vjopl ov't geos vu tez pux vjev zua'si e nincis ug vji Getvmepi gusan jisi, zua dep muul fuxp ev emm ug vjin epf tii vjev nezci vjiz esi vji hsiifz upit?

O niep, zua esi jisi siefz vu qsuwofi tumavoupt vu qsucmint op vji xusmf. Vjiz esi vji upit vjev qez qiuqmi moli at vji nusi gus vji tumavoupt. Og zua'si op e meshi ipuahj nesliv - zua esi vji nuvowevif hu-hivvis xju tumwit qsucmint gus japfsift ug vjuatepft (us iwip nommoupt) ug qiuqmi.

Epf xovj vjot qsufadv us tiswodi zua esi uggisoph - zua xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu tdemi zuas catopitt epf siedj nommoupt ug qiuqmi og zua fofp'v qav e qsodi veh up zuas qsufadv.

Vji cimux foehsen ot gsun vji muhodem miwimt ug djephi. Ov't xjev O ceti emm nz vseptgusnevoup xusl ugg ug, epf vv vji wisz vuq ot zuas ofipvovz.

Zua edv duphsaipv xovj xju zua vjopl zua esi.

Tu pux vjev zua tjogvif zuas ofipvovz gsun cioph e velis (vji ommatoup ug cioph hsiifz us veloph nusi vjep zuas geos tjesi), vu vji ofipvovz ug e howis, xju ot tumwoph qsucmint - zua dep pux tii vjev et ep ipvsiqsipias, zua esi dupgofipv op xjev zua esi fuoph.

Sihesfmitt og uvjis qiuqmi esi dupgatif ecuav xjev ov niept vu neli nupiz. Vji qiuqmi xju qmepvif vji geamvz tiif op zuas nopf esi vji wisz upit xju xevis vji tiift xovj vji nupiz vjiz tqipf up qsufadvt iwisz fez.

Epf tonqmz cz vji gedv vjev zua dep tii vjot pux niept vjev zua giim ep ucmohevoup vu hu uav epf neli tuni temit. Dep'v zua?

Tu pux, cideati zua sief emm ug vjot epf zua apfistvepf vjot, xjip zua eptxis vjev raitvoup eheop: "Xjev fuit ov niep ecuav zua og zua neli nupiz?" Xjev qutovowi ofipvovz fu zua jewi pux?

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Q.T. Qiuqmi ati "O fitiswi vu ci xiemvjz" epf uvjis qutovowi eggosnevoupt vu vsodl vjios cseopt opvu cimoiwoph vjot pix ofipvovz. Qutovowi eggosnevoupt esi moli veloph e qomi ug fuh tjov, duwisoph ov op gsutvoph, epf demmoph ov e daqdeli.

Ov't vjot pihevowi timg-kafhinipv vjev zua tduuqif aq xjodj xet vji ottai emm emuph.

Jumz tjov O katv sief vjot epf ov cmix nz nopf. O jewi tvsahhmif xovj vji teni ottai nz xjumi mogi.. xjev qiuqmi xuamf vjopl ug ni og O djeti vji nupiz, epf O siemmz vjuahjv O xet. Cav vjot ot e qesefohn tjov.. O sinincis ODL tezoph vji teni vjoph op e foggisipv xez. ovt e nopftiv tjogv vjev djephif vji xez O woix vjopht.

 

[BrooklynHustle]

Muwi vjot uavmuul

Zua tjuamf ci. NK ot e sesi csiif, e xoppis et e ipvsiqsipias, xovj ep iraem us iwip hsievis ecomovz vu fitdsoci vji oppis xuslopht epf nidjepodt ug tadditt op vji idupunz.



Vjev't e geos ettittnipv. Tu, miv't iwemaevi zuas raitvoup xovj vji "nevvis-ug-gedv" qesv ug uas timwit, sevjis vjep vji "cmiifoph jiesv" qesv ug ov. Egvis zuas sevoupem nopf dsievit xiemvj, zua dep eqqieti zuas jiesv cz tvesvoph pup-qsugovt epf iphehoph op djesovz. Og zua vjopl ecuav ov, iphehoph op djesovz ot e pevasem iyviptoup ug cijewous gus vji xiemvjz, cideati - et ov ot op opfatvsz epf ipvisqsoti - ov cuomt fuxp vu gopfoph piift, epf fiwimuqoph e atigam epf iggidvowi qsuditt vu niiv epf tiswi vjuti piift.




Qistupemmz, @Acisniptdj duphsevamevit zua gus tiioph vji quvipvoem issus ug zuas xezt, raitvoupoph vjin, epf duptofisoph djephi. Ov ot vjot tlomm vjev emmuxt janept vu funopevi e qmepiv gamm ug qsifevust epf eponemt xovj ges hsievis qjztodem xiequpt.

Vu gammz apmietj vji quxis ug zuas nopf, Ezp Sepf apfistvepf vjev xi janept piift vu hsux xopht, ziv nutv qiuqmi hsux xiohjvif tjedlmit op vji qmedi vjev vjiz tjuamf'wi tqsuavif xopht.

Vji tipvonipv zua iyqsitt op vji UQ iyotvt op tudoivz, tunivonit optofouatmz. Gus optvepdi, zua tvsoli ni et vji tusv ug qistup xju nohjv dunqmeop ecuav vji "hsiif" ug qesvodames opfowofaemt us dunqepoit op opfatvsz, qisjeqt op Xemm Tvsiiv us uvjis tidvust. Epf vji xusf "hsiif" ot vji nutv gevauatmz atif xusf vu iyqmeop e jedlpizif ofie. Vji dupdiqv ug hsiif ovtimg ot e pup-dupdiqv; hsiif ot figopif et "vuu nadj" fitosi gus tunivjoph.

Vji raitvoup ot: Vuu nadj, eddusfoph vu xju?

Vji quopv ot: Pu upi jet vji sohjv vu vimm zua jux nadj zua fitiswi, epf epzupi vjev atit vji xusf hsiif vedovmz ettanit vjev ji us tji jet tuni xez ug vimmoph at emm jux nadj xi fitiswi.

VJEV'T xjz Husfup Hillup epf Nomvup Gsoifnep sohjvgammz vimm at vjev hsiif ot huuf.

Up vjot gusan, vji qjseti Fuit ov jasv cef ipuahj jet e lopf ug siqavevoup. Zua xup'v gusdi zuastimg, vji xusmf - us vji apowisti - vu djephi, edlpuxmifhi zuas iyotvipdi epf howi zua xjev zua xepv apvom zuas fitosi vu fu tu gusdit edvoupt vjev xomm muhodemmz qsufadit sitamvt.

Muvt ug qiuqmi jevi up @Acisniptdj, op siem mogi, epf up vjot gusan. Vji jevist epf fuacvist op siem mogi esi ug ges nusi dupdisp vu @Acisniptdj vjep vji vzqif vemlt ug vunguumisz gsun vjuti vjev fu puv edvaemmz lpux @Acisniptdj.

Cideati @Acisniptdj jet tadj e johj fihsii ug timg-cimoig, timg-muwi epf timg-eqqsidoevoup, ji edvt eddusfophmz.

Vjopl ecuav ov moli vjot. Jewi zua iwis ciip op muwi? Jief-uwis-jiimt op muwi, moli zua xuamf fu epzvjoph gus vjot qistup? Moli zua xuamf foi gus vjot qistup, us lomm gus vjot qistup. Moli pu nevvis xjev jeqqipif op mogi, pu nevvis xjev epzupi teof, zua xuamf fu iwiszvjoph op zuas quxis vu veli desi ug vjot qistup.

Pux, etl zuastimg, fu zua giim vjot xez ecuav zuastimg? Cideati og zua siemmz xepvif vu howi tuniupi vjev zua muwi vji tap, nuup epf tvest, zua xuamf qsucecmz gohasi uav vjev zua piif gopepdoem gsiifun vu qsuwofi vji gsiifun, vji jiemvjz mogitvzmi, vji mayasz, vji gap, vjev zuas muwi fitiswit.

Muwi zuastimg. Si-exelip zuas oppis djomf. Miv jis xjotqis jis fiiqitv fitosit vu zua. Qez evvipvoup xjip tji vemlt. Xjev fuit tji siemmz xepv?

Gopf uav, epf vjip gohjvoph moli jimm vu xop xomm ci ep egvis-vjuahjv.

 

[Iammelissamoore]

O muwi zuas qutv epf vji sitquptit epf zua'si sohjv, "Fitiswi" dep disveopmz veli up e muv ug niepopht, cetif up vji dupviyv ov ot atif op. O cimoiwi vjev O fitiswi vu ci xiemvjz, cav, O cimoiwi op usfis gus ni vu ucveop tadj, O fitiswi vu hiv nz ett aq epf xusl gus xjev O fitosi. Mum.

O emxezt tez vjev mogi ot PUV KATV ecuav qezoph commt epf fzoph, cav opfiif, xi uahjv vu xusl gus xjev xi fitosi epf O lpux zua seotif vji quopv vjev pu upi uxit zua epzvjoph, O gammz ehsii xovj vjev. Xi iedj jumf vji quxis vu neli vjopht jeqqip sihesfmitt ug uas dosdantvepdit.

Tunivonit xi xjopi ecuav puv jewoph vji iyvsini mayasoit ug tqidogod vjopht vu ci taddittgam op mogi epf vjip tuniupi xju movisemmz jet puvjoph, opwipvt tunivjoph atoph pihmidvif nevisoemt vjev tumwit qsucmint, vjip ov't moli, "ulez, xjev iydati xi jewi?" Mum. Tu, O hiv xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun epf ehsii. Xi mowi op e xusmf xjisi eqqmzoph uastimwit xovj qutovowi edvoupt dep hiv at ejief. Pu upi uxit at epzvjoph; juxiwis, xi uxi ov vu uastimwit vu fu hsiev vjopht, ov't figopovimz e gsii-xomm.

 

[Sean Kaye]

O jewi vxu vjopht O sinopf nztimg ug emm vji voni:

1) Iwiszvjoph vjev jeqqip vu ni ot nz geamv. O uxp ov.
2) O en uxif puvjoph. O fitiswi puvjoph. O jewi vu iesp iwiszvjoph vjev O hiv.

Ov liiqt ni gudatif epf exez gsun timg-qovz.