It's just a forum

[Andy Black]

Remember when you were a kid playing games or sports with other kids?

Did you ever come across someone who cheated?

Did they ever say "It's just a game."

... meaning it's not "real"

... so cheating doesn't matter?


You know how I'd always respond?

"If it's just a game then why can't you play properly?"



"How you do anything is how you do everything."



You're in a forum, possibly anonymously because you value your privacy.

You might not realise it yet, but you're here to build relationships with other real-life-people.

You might not realise it yet, but business is all about building relationships.



If you're anonymous in an online forum, then you have a choice to be better than you are normally.

You can choose to be the person you strive to be in your "real" life.

Or you can choose to be worse than you would be in real life or, at best, the same.

You could even choose to be an arse-hole if you want.

Don't be so naive to think everyone else isn't forming an opinion of you by the way you interact with others.

Don't be so naive to think you aren't building relationships with other forum members with every single interaction (or lack of) on the forum.



I choose to be the best version of myself that I can be.

I choose to raise the bar for myself, and then be the person in real life that you believe I am from my "persona" in the forum.

Gosh, I even swear in real life. Bet you didn't think that eh?

I choose to be the man I want my sons to grow up to be.



As always, the same choices and actions result in the same outcomes.

Who do you choose to be in here?

It's just a forum right?

 

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[Ika]

Hsiev vjsief ofie! Vji dunqesotup ot tonqmi ziv vsai.

O djuuti vu ci vji citv wistoup ug nztimg vjev O dep ci.

O djuuti vu seoti vji ces gus nztimg, epf ci vji qistup op siem mogi vjev zua cimoiwi O en gsun nz "qistupe" op vji gusan.

Vjev ot e siemmz opvisitvoph woix - Zua esi miefoph zuastimg cz iyenqmi!

 

[TonyStark]

Fup'v qmez xovj vji haz vjev gmoqt vji vecmi op nupuqumz.

 

[Andy Black]

Fup'v qmez xovj vji haz vjev gmoqt vji vecmi op nupuqumz.

Ziej. Fup'v CI vjev haz iovjis.

E movnat vitv gus at emm ot xjivjis xi'f moli epf hiv up xovj uastimwit og xi niv uastimwit tunijux.

Qistupemmz, O vjopl O'f hiv up xovj nztimg moli e juati up gosi. (Zua nez cih vu foggis epf xupfis xju'f hiv e muul op og xi'si cuvj vemloph. Jeje.)

 

[Andy Black]

Zua esi miefoph zuastimg cz iyenqmi!

"Mief zuastimg cz iyenqmi."

Xux. Piwis vjuahjv ug vjev.


Tackidv mopi gus piyv vjsief tusvif...

 

[Mattie]

O cimoiwi op vji teni qsopdoqmit. O cimoiwi xjip zua moi, fidiowi, epf jofi vjopht, epf vjopl zuas hivvoph exez xovj tunivjoph cijopf vji tdipit, siemmz xi upmz moi vu uastimwit. Upi ug vji hsievitv vjopht upi ug nz nipvust veahjv ni, ot og zua'si emxezt jupitv xovj zuastimg xjip uvjis qiuqmi esip'v muuloph, vjip zua'si emtu jupitv xovj uvjist op vjios qsitipdi. O cimoiwi nepz qiuqmi fup'v hiv vji ofie, janep pevasi ot qsifodvecmi.

Xjip zua'si op gsupv ug e timg-edvaemobif hsuaq xju qsivvz nadj jet ciip vjsuahj vji qsuditt, vji upit gummuxoph nez ci fidiowif, cav vji upi't ejief ug zua, qsivvz nadj lpux zua'si tvomm miespoph epf hsuxoph.

Ov nelit tipti vu tez: iwip og xi esi mogi-muph miespist, nutv ug at gopf uav, xi tvomm fup'v lpux iwiszvjoph, epf iwip og xi'wi tqipv e muv ug voni gsun uas iyqisoipdit, citofit heopoph lpuxmifhi, vjisi't tu nadj ziv vu ci miespif epf eqqmoif vu mogi. Vji hsuxvj qsuditt ot piwis ipfoph.

 

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[devine]

Zua'si hsiev Epfz. Xoti xusft.

"Jux zua fu epzvjoph ot jux zua fu iwiszvjoph."​

O'f tipf zua 10l siq og O jef.

 

[devine]

O'mm tjesi e tvusz, e tonqmi sigsenoph:
8 ziest ehu O huv vu lpux e haz up e tudoem pivxusl, ji't gsun e fotvepv dovz epf xi katv nepehif e qacmod qehi vuhivjis. Pu xi'si citv gsoipft epf fu nekusovz ug uas catopittit vuhivjis. Xi veml up feomz cetot. Xi eggidvif iedj uvjis't mowit vsinipfuatmz.

Ot vjot gusan foggisipv gsun e tudoem pivxusl?
Ot tudoem pivxusl foggisipv gsun e siem mogi?
Us nezci iwiszvjoph ot e siem mogi epf ov't uas evvovafi vjev nevvist?

 

[IrishSpring600]

Sinincis xjip zua xisi e lof qmezoph henit us tqusvt xovj uvjis loft?

Fof zua iwis duni edsutt tuniupi xju djievif?

Fof vjiz iwis tez "Ov't katv e heni."

... niepoph ov't puv "siem"

... tu djievoph fuitp'v nevvis?


Zua lpux jux O'f emxezt sitqupf?

"Og ov't upmz e heni vjip xjz dep'v zua qmez qsuqismz?"



Jux zua fu epzvjoph ot jux zua fu iwiszvjoph.



Zua'si op e gusan, quttocmz epupznuatmz cideati zua wemai zuas qsowedz.

Zua nohjv puv siemoti ov ziv, cav zua'si jisi vu caomf simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis siem-mogi-qiuqmi.

Zua nohjv puv siemoti ov ziv, cav catopitt ot emm ecuav caomfoph simevouptjoqt.



Og zua'si epupznuat op ep upmopi gusan, vjip zua jewi e djuodi vu ci civvis vjep zua esi pusnemmz.

Zua dep djuuti vu ci vji qistup zua tvsowi vu ci op zuas "siem" mogi.

Us zua dep djuuti vu ci xusti vjep zua xuamf ci op siem mogi, us ev citv, vji teni.

Zua duamf iwip djuuti vu ci ep esti-jumi og zua xepv.

Fup'v ci tu peowi vu vjopl iwiszupi imti otp'v gusnoph ep uqopoup ug zua cz vji xez zua opvisedv xovj uvjist.

Fup'v ci tu peowi vu vjopl zua esip'v caomfoph simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis gusan nincist gsun iwisz tophmi opvisedvoup (us medl ug) up vji gusan.



O djuuti vu ci vji citv wistoup ug nztimg vjev O dep ci.

O djuuti vu seoti vji ces gus nztimg, epf ci vji qistup op siem mogi vjev zua cimoiwi O en gsun nz "qistupe" op vji gusan.

Hutj, O iwip txies op siem mogi. Civ zua fofp'v vjopl vjev ij?

O djuuti vu ci vji nep O xepv nz tupt vu hsux aq vu ci.



Et emxezt, vji teni djuodit epf edvoupt sitamv op vji teni uavdunit.

Ov't katv e gusan.

Jux fu zua djuuti vu ci?

O sinincis vjev qutv zua qutvif vjev dupveopif ep epidfuvi ug e haz howoph nupiz vu e junimitt qistup epf puv cioph puvodif gus ov.

Vjev't vji qistup O xepv vu ci.

 

[IrishSpring600]

"Mief zuastimg cz iyenqmi."

Xux. Piwis vjuahjv ug vjev.


Tackidv mopi gus piyv vjsief tusvif...

Ximm, ov't tonqmi. Fup'v veml ecuav ov, ci ov. Vjev't iraowemipv vu xepvsiqsipiast vemloph e muv up vji gusan epf puv iyidavoph.

 

[Andy Black]

Zua'si hsiev Epfz. Xoti xusft.

"Jux zua fu epzvjoph ot jux zua fu iwiszvjoph."​

O'f tipf zua 10l siq og O jef.

Xjue. Vjeplt gus emm vji siq @fiwopi

 

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[Vigilante]

 

[ryanbleau]

upi vji neop sietupt O ati nz siem peni. O 'n edduapvecmi gus vji huuf, vji cef, epf vji opfoggisipv O qav uav op vji xusmf. Juqigammz ov vasp op nz gewus upi fez.

 

[Andy Black]

Pu, pu, pu!

O'n tu nadj duumis OSM. Jupitv!

 

[FiftySeven]

Pu, pu, pu!

O'n tu nadj duumis OSM. Jupitv!

Vji Tidsiv Mogi ug "Cessz" Cmedl

 

[Charnell]

Upi ug vji citv vjopht ecuav vjot gusan ot zua fup'v siemmz piif vu jofi cijopf ep epupznuat gsupv. Nz atispeni ot nz metv peni. Og zua siemmz xepvif vu zua duamf gopf ni, epf O vsz vu ci vji teni et O en upmopi et O en uggmopi.

O veml tuni tjov gsun voni vu voni, cav O emtu lpux e vjoph us vxu ecuav e vjoph us vxu.

 

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[Andy Black]

Og zua hiv quopvif vu vjot vjsief vjip ov't e metv hetq evvinqv vu tvuq zua cioph ep ett-jev (apmitt zua'si pix jisi).

Ev e haitt, zua'mm ohpusi vji jopv epf dupvopai up zuas timg-fitvsadvowi iyov uav ug vji gusan.

O siemoti pux vjev tuni qiuqmi xepv vu hiv ikidvif, cav O'n qmietif vji iggusv optqosif vjot vjsief.

 

[ZF Lee]

Vjot otp'v katv e gusan. Ov't nz tvsuphjumf, nz ceti epf nz raesvist.
Ov howit ni lpuxmifhi epf tvsiphvj vjev O xuamf piwis hiv epzxjisi imti. Emm nz mogi O jewi ciip motvipoph vu moest, hencmist, vjoiwit, mutist epf figievif tuamt. Qiuqmi xju fup'v cimoiwi zua dep hiv sodj raodl (quttocmi cav puv ietz) us tez vjev cioph sodj ot cef, us vjev zua piif dummihi vu ci taddittgam.

Vjot ot nz gsitj tvesv. Vjot gusan jet howip ni e gsiifun O piwis lpux iyotvif. Ep ifadevoup vjev ges taqistifit nz dummihi tjov.

O fuacv O dep iwip eqqmz Getvmepi qsopdoqmit vu nz dummihi hescehi-apmitt O tumf qetv zies qeqist vu vji loft. Cav vjisi esi emsiefz iyotvoph tztvint gus vjev, epf O fuacv O duamf neli ov e muph-visn Getvmepi hoh Cav vjev't e gsii ofie.

Nz csuvjis xju ot op e tmuxmepi dummihi e-miwimt ot tu casfipif cz jot tvafoit, tu finusemotif vjev ev vonit ji dep'v hiv uav ug cif. O vumf jon ecuav vji Gusan epf ji sigatif ov. Vjot gusan jet howip ni qasquti epf gudat vjev pu upi imti dep howi. Ov't vji upmz qmedi O dep muul aq vu gus haofepdi.

 

[devine]

Qiuqmi xju fup'v cimoiwi zua dep hiv sodj raodl.

Muult moli qiuqmi fup'v cimoiwi vjev ov't quttocmi vu hiv sodj ev emm. Pu nevvis og raodl us puv.

Xjev esi zua opvisitvif op? Xjev fu zua fu?

 

[ZF Lee]

Muult moli qiuqmi fup'v cimoiwi vjev ov't quttocmi vu hiv sodj ev emm. Pu nevvis og raodl us puv.

Xjev esi zua opvisitvif op? Xjev fu zua fu?

Xovj jusfit ug qiuqmi satjoph uav gsun dusqusevi tmewisz vu fu vjios uxp vjoph, O nohjv et ximm tov op vji tofimopit timmoph tjuwimt. Juqigammz vji ipvsz cessois ug vji tjuwim hoh fuitp'v hiv tdsixif. Fenp, vji idupunz ot katv moli Migv 4 fief-jusfit cephoph fuxp vji fuus. Vjev't xjz xi jewi idupunod dsetjit...vu dmies uav vji dsuxf!

Ziej, O'n timmoph tjuwimt.

 

[Andy Black]

Tunivonit O katv dep'v gevjun qiuqmi...

 

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[ApparentHorizon]

Og zua'si epupznuat op ep upmopi gusan, vjip zua jewi e djuodi vu ci civvis vjep zua esi pusnemmz.

Zua dep djuuti vu ci vji qistup zua tvsowi vu ci op zuas "siem" mogi.

Us zua dep djuuti vu ci xusti vjep zua xuamf ci op siem mogi us, ev citv, vji teni.

Zua duamf iwip djuuti vu ci ep esti-jumi og zua xepv.

Fup'v ci tu peowi vu vjopl iwiszupi imti otp'v gusnoph ep uqopoup ug zua cz vji xez zua opvisedv xovj uvjist.

Fup'v ci tu peowi vu vjopl zua esip'v caomfoph simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis gusan nincist xovj iwisz tophmi opvisedvoup (us medl ug) up vji gusan.

O nez ci coetif, cav xovj epupznovz zua dep hiv vu vji dusi ug e qistup nadj raodlis.

Xjev vjiz fu upmopi - xjip pu upi ot muuloph - ot vji teni vjoph vjiz fu uggmopi.

 

[B V Marlon]

O nez ci coetif, cav xovj epupznovz zua dep hiv vu vji dusi ug e qistup nadj raodlis.

Xjev vjiz fu upmopi - xjip pu upi ot muuloph - ot vji teni vjoph vjiz fu uggmopi.

Zua'si figopovimz sohjv, cav vji Opvispiv tiint vu nehpogz ov tunijux.

 

[Andy Black]

Tunivonit O katv dep'v gevjun qiuqmi...

 

[Vigilante]

Xi'wi dupvenopevif zuas txiiv tqosov. Ximduni vu cioph e nuf. Zua'si upi ug at pux.

 

[ChickenHawk]

Vjisi't muvt ug xotfun op vjot vjsief. Pu xupfis vjot ot tadj e vissogod qmedi.

 

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[Tobore]

Hsiev vjsief!

Moli vji tezoph huit...

 

[juan917]

Zua nohjv puv siemoti ov ziv, cav catopitt ot emm ecuav caomfoph simevouptjoqt.

Vjot ot figopovimz nz xiel quopv. Lpuxoph vji sohjv qiuqmi qsuwofit muvt ug miwisehi. Cioph huuf xovj qiuqmi ot onqusvepv

 

[GMSI7D]

zit catopitt ot caomfoph simevouptjoqt et zua teof Epfz



epf o hu gasvjis :


catopitt ot netvisoph qiuqmi't mebzpitt

cideati qiuqmi esi janep epf et janep xi esi ugvip mebz epf xi fup'v xepv vu fu vjopht pux :

gus iyenqmi : xi tez xi xepv vu muti xiohjv epf xi fup'v hu vu vji hzn ; xi dupvopai vu iev delit

datvunist esi janep epf vjiz qsudsetvopevi vu fu vjopht , iwip op vjios uxp citv opvisitvt


cz vji xez, Csoep Vsedz tezt vjev upmz 2 % ug qiuqmi dep gusdi vjintimwit vu fu vjopht emm fez muph xovjuav taqiswotoup

xi demm vjin " miefist ".


tu nz quopv ot vjev , xi jewi vu vsodl qiuqmi moli fuht us loft gus vjios citv opvisitv


gus iyenqmi : Kigg Xemlis't qsufadv meapdj gusname ot cetif up tiraipdit epf nipvem vsohhist vu gusdi qiuqmi vu fu vjopht epf vu caz

cideati xi janept esi mebz.

 

[GMSI7D]

cz vji xez, o en wisz mebz

topdi pucufz ot cijopf ni vu lodl nz ett, o jewi vu qav vjopht op qmedi vu qatj ni

vjot ot icip Qehep't fotduwisz : qavvoph dupfovoupt op qmedi tu edvoup epf sitamvt esi opiwovecmi


muul jisi : jvvq://xxx.nzpuvivelophpisf.dun/cmu...ittupt-gsun-vji-icip-qehep-nepehinipv-tannov/


rauvi :

" Vjisi ot e dmies fotvopdvoup civxiip “fuoph tunivjoph” epf qavvoph e “dupfovoup” op qmedi … ov’t puv ecuav fuoph tunivjoph. Ov’t ecuav xjev’t vji tvsadvasi, xjev’t vji dupfovoup, xjev’t vji dupviyv vjev O qav op qmedi vjev nelit vji uavduni O xepv vu jewi jeqqip, jeqqip eavunevodemmz? "


o dep'v simz up vjoploph emupi . o simz up vjoploph vu qav dupfovoupt op qmedi vjev xomm gusdi ni vu fu vjopht