Journey to $10k/mo and Beyond...

[BPH1994]

WARNING: This is an exceptionally long post. I decided to be critical and self-reflective and just started writing…and I wrote A LOT over these last few days. I don’t expect too many people to read this all the way through, and I don’t blame you if you don’t. However, if you do, and have advice to offer, I’ll read every word of every comment and do my best to respond.

Thank you, truly.

@Andy Black got ChatGPT to write TL;DR if this post looks daunting, so I'll include that here:

The author is a 30-year-old living with his parents, working a part-time job he dislikes, and struggling with multiple failed business ventures, including Clickfunnels, dropshipping, copywriting, employee retention credits, and SMMA/SAAS for mortgage loan officers. He is seeking a way to achieve $10,000 per month to move out, pay off student loans, and help his parents retire. Despite his tech-savvy skills, discipline, and charm, he feels stuck and uncertain about his next steps. He's considering three potential paths: online personal training, dating coaching, or returning to his SMMA/SAAS business. The post is a self-reflective exploration of his past failures and skills, looking for clarity and advice on what to pursue next.

On to the post...

Maybe this is what I need - a place to report on my progress. It worked back when I was in high school, learning to talk to girls, so maybe it’ll work with business too.

Why $10,000 a month? It seems achievable, but at the same time, it’s a lofty goal, being somewhere in the neighborhood of double what most households make in a year. It would allow me to pay off my student loans, move out of my parent’s house, and take a breath without worrying about money for a little bit.

Having just finished Unscripted , I’m sure there’s some irony in making this thread…after all, some could argue that THIS is “action faking” - writing about things I’ve done or things I’m planning to do rather than using that time to do them.

Truthfully, after my most recent adaptation of my business to the SAAS model, and its subsequent failure, I don’t have a direction or know what to do or focus on. I read Fastlane before I switched to SAAS, I read Unscripted after that SAAS failed, and I spent a good amount of time reading through Gold and Notable threads to get some insight and perspective before I came here to write out my own.

I don’t have a direction or a goal yet, so I’m just going to write, and maybe through being brutally honest with myself and all of you I’ll have a moment of clarity - either through some of you noticing things I missed, or through my own “thinking out loud” here.

The Situation

I turned 30 years old a little less than 4 months ago, and as a 30-year-old I’m still living at my parent’s house in Delaware in my original childhood bedroom. Almost 6 years ago I moved back in after leaving my job with a mortgage lender, both because I didn’t enjoy the work and because it became apparent that it was a “churn-n-burn” company where I was unlikely to be employed after another year. When my lease expired, so did my job. That was in October of 2018. I believed I would find new employment and move back out of the house by early 2019…that has not been the case.

Right now I’m working full-time at a job managing a medical marijuana clinic that I originally took part-time to allow me the flexibility to work on my other ventures outside of work, namely modeling. COVID came around and put a stop to that, so now I work 32 hours per week at a job I don’t like, under a boss who’s a prick, in a company that likely won’t be around much longer. He’s already cut back my hours from 40 to 32, and because other competitors are popping up and undercutting our price the business is quickly losing revenue. If I do the math with these new hours I’m making $37,440 per year gross. Currently, my obligations are a minimum payment of $302 on a $20,000+ student loan debt, and I’ve been putting off renewing my LLC license because I know if I cancel I’ll have to prepay the upcoming year’s tax to close it - which will probably be pretty expensive. Plus, I may just continue running the business under this same name.

I’m aging, my parents are old, my brother recently lost his job in New York and is on unemployment, and my sister essentially had a mental breakdown and disowned our family about a year ago. We grew up happy and healthy and my parents deserve to retire and relax. MJ’s books describe needing a strong WHY, so here’s mine:

Move out of my parent’s house, and Delaware as a whole, because I feel like a loser living at home at 30. Retire my parents, they don’t deserve to be worked into the grave because their children couldn’t figure it out. Somebody has to win, it might as well be me.

I’ve got time constraints and I’ve got money constraints, so I need to figure it out - quickly.

Attempted Ventures

Ignoring my work history, which mostly consisted of odd jobs at gyms and a modeling/acting stint that led nowhere, I’ll try to describe the business ventures I’ve attempted and evaluate why they failed as well as any skills I may have picked up from them:

Clickfunnels for Local Businesses

I read Russell Brunson’s Dotcom Secrets and I believe this was the first time I went into business for myself, which is also when I established my business as an LLC and got a license. I couldn’t afford to run Facebook ads for myself so I believe I cold-called local brick-and-mortar businesses that offered services I could adapt using Clickfunnels - ones where I could create an attractive offer. I tried to pitch this service for free in exchange for testimonials, but nobody would take me up on it. I ended up getting only 1 client - a carpet cleaning business, and successfully got him enough leads that he couldn’t handle the workload. He also couldn’t afford to pay me after the trial, so he paid me on a per-job basis, eventually he was unable to afford that either. I made the mistake of attaching his page to my ad account and his card eventually got declined due to insufficient funds, leaving it stuck attached to me. I was working at my local gym at the time and offered a similar service for them to get new members in the door. They accepted and saw some success, but my payment was still my hourly wage.

This failed because it violated several pillars of CENTS - notably Entry and Need. I don’t remember if Clickfunnels was very cheap or free at the time, but that was the only barrier to entry I had to run this business. I could make a half-decent landing page in a few minutes, set up a Facebook ad campaign, and just let it run. I was very surprised by how difficult it was to sell a free service to people, so my offer must not have been perceived as valuable - likely being viewed as “just another advertising service”, except this is run by a kid who probably doesn’t know what he’s doing. This venture taught me the basics of using Clickfunnels, and Zapier and running Facebook ad campaigns.

Dropshipping with Shopify

I fell into this one because it was the flavor of the month, and I was seeing all these kids making a ton of money reselling cheap products from AliBaba. I already knew how to run Facebook ads, so I thought if I could find a winning product I could design a decent ad for it to get some traction. I was still working my part-time job at the gym and pursuing modeling/acting on the side. I saw some success with what I called the “electron cable” which is just a standard iPhone charger but glowed in the dark while being available in a variety of colors. The value skew I went for was that the glowing colors ensure you have a functional charger, removing any doubt about whether potential issues are with the phone itself, or the charger, and that this could be expressed in a wide array of vibrant colors. I had a few orders come in and fulfilled them via Shopify, but then COVID started up and shut down all exportation from China, where many of AliBaba’s products were produced. Not knowing when that situation would change, I closed down this venture as well.

This business’ main violation was Control. I neither controlled the platform where I ran my store, nor the manufacturer who would make these products. When those both shut down, I had nothing - I could not fulfill orders and had to offer refunds because I was not the one creating the product, I was merely acting as a middleman to advertise it after a rebranding. Entry was violated as well since all it took to run this was a Shopify store and some time spent researching and testing the market to find a winning product. This venture taught me how to test the market without overinvesting, though that is something I neglected to do in the future.

Andrew Tate’s Hustler’s University Copywriting

I was the perfect mark for this. By this time I had spent the last few years during the beginning of the pandemic working a new part-time job managing a medical marijuana clinic while still working with an acting/modeling coach to get me booked for work. Due to my unwillingness to get vaxinated and boosted, they could not represent me and that was the end of my relationship with my agent. I got home from a particularly lackluster vacation with my family and might’ve had something of an FTE (F*ck this event), realizing that this vacation would be the highlight of my year - and it pissed me off. I went looking for anything to help give me some direction to escape my dead-end job and came across Andrew Tate’s Hustler’s University around the time he started becoming popular. I knew of him way before this, but at $50 per month, I decided to give it a try. I committed to copywriting - seeing as I had way more time than money and felt I wrote at a decent level. It was extremely saturated due to the popularity of HU at the time, and I had to rely entirely on cold email, so responses weren’t great. This was the only venture where I made any money, however.

A woman who ran a Los Angeles-based matchmaking company commissioned me to write up 2 emails to send to her list at the price of $500 ($250 each) where she would then have me rewrite portions of her website if she was pleased with my work. I completed and sent her the first email, which she paid me $250 for, but she held off describing the second email she wanted written and never had me complete that job. I don’t know why - she didn’t criticize the work, and I had several mentors comment on it being pretty good. I remember that a full month after I sent her that email she reached out to me requesting I send it again - indicating that she never even bothered to implement it…this venture faded away when I couldn’t secure any other clients, and when I was presented with the next venture.

This business violated the pillar of Entry - Andrew Tate was the most searched man in the world at the time, and his course was so popular that people were making videos aggravated by the number of cold emails they were receiving from HU students, who all sounded the same. It also violated Need, since copywriting became such a saturated and undervalued skillset. And finally, it violated Time, since any level of success would require me to spend more time writing and fulfilling jobs for my clients - I could not remove myself from the business because I was the business. It did help me refine my copy skills, and served as an introduction to some Do’s and Don’ts of cold email.

Employee Retention Credit

My dad’s friend introduced me to this one, and I didn’t give it much thought until I saw how well he was being paid for what little work he had to do. After the pandemic started winding down the IRS established this credit to reimburse business owners who paid their employees’ wages during the shutdowns. It was free money, provided by the government to business owners, up to a certain limit, and could be claimed by the business owner to be used for whatever purposes - business or otherwise. This seemed like a no-brainer…I ended up coming on as a referral partner to a company that would file for this credit on behalf of the business owner and take out a percentage of their refund as the fee, and only AFTER they received their money.

I saw the money that guys were making in commission from this and hit the ground running pretty hard. I’d spend hours walking around local shopping centers and plazas, cold calling, launching email campaigns to businesses using Apollo as a database, etc. I was running into lots of tire kickers, people who thought it was a scam, people whose accountants told them they wouldn’t qualify, and people who would hear my offer and decide to price shop for places that were doing the same thing cheaper. I had a couple of people who signed on with the company to have us file for their business, but most changed their minds and ghosted me before fully committing. I was starting to see some traction with my email campaigns, but unfortunately, this venture came to a very abrupt halt. Once other companies caught wind of what we were doing, they would replicate it and undercut us or have poor performances that led to their client’s businesses being audited. Due to so many “bad actors” popping up, the IRS put out a moratorium on any new claims until the start of 2024, when they would re-evaluate. When that time came, they decided to put a complete stop to the credit, and the company I worked under pivoted back into providing other financial services for businesses.

This business violated Entry and, more importantly, Control. All I needed to get started was a referral link to send business owners so they could schedule a call with a tax expert who would handle the selling, effectively creating no barrier to entry. This wasn’t a huge issue, because I live somewhere I was not competing with other referral partners, and most business owners hadn’t even heard of the program before my mention. However, I was merely a referral partner of this business - I did not control the selling, I did not control the fulfillment, I did not control anything. I especially didn’t control the IRS's full shutdown of the program. On the positive end, I did learn how to properly launch and maintain cold email campaigns - unsuccessful as they were - and I became more comfortable pitching business owners face-to-face. I wouldn’t necessarily call it “sales”, because I was selling them an appointment, not a service, but it did help me become more comfortable talking to people in a professional setting.

SMMA/SAAS for Mortgage Loan Officers

Which brings us to this most recent foray…I discovered this by watching some random YouTube videos in my feed about these young guys who dropped out of school or “had to make it work” and listened to their stories on how they did it. I’d heard of SMMA before but wrote it off because it seemed like a “get rich quick” scheme marketed to young guys via some course. Yet this time, I wasn’t being sold…I was being informed, for free. I believe myself to be somewhat tech-savvy, and this was an ideal business model; one which could be run from anywhere in the world so long as I had an internet connection, where the boss is me, and rewards those who find ways to improve on what exists rather than trying to reinvent the wheel. I discovered that some of these YouTube creators ran a community focused on SMMA and succeeding in its various niches, and I signed on to that, eventually choosing the mortgage niche. I had experience in this niche, there weren’t many competitors from what I could find, the market is quite large, and it’s an evergreen industry - people will always have the dream of home ownership.

Since I was now working full-time I had to find a way to get leads without having to manually touch them, which is where my experience running Facebook ads came into play. The offer was to run Facebook ad campaigns on behalf of mortgage loan officers and have them operate through GoHighLevel to have a transparent view of what I was bringing in for them. However, I had a lot of difficulty selling people this solution; I ran 2 free trials for clients who wanted to get refinance leads in this current market - I could not. I had 1 person agree to the monthly retainer offer, but he changed his mind due to his declining health less than a week later. I had 1 other guy who agreed as well, but to the performance offer, where he would only pay after an applicant files their 1003 with him, but he would pay much more per deal when that happens. I got him more than 30 leads over our first month, with a minimum adspend budget of $33, which I constantly had to turn back on because he could not stop his bank from auto-declining the Facebook charges when he ran it…he complained that only a small handful of the leads were qualified and did not get any deals. Last I checked, most of his leads’ were most recently contacted two or more weeks ago.

So by now, things aren’t working out. Running Facebook ads is getting results, but not the results these loan officers want. They want qualified leads, they don’t want to pay until after close, and they want me to do these things for bottom-dollar prices. Initially, I was going to film video ads and relaunch the offer, since the one thing I was doing well was getting B2B leads for myself. This was when I stumbled across Ali Abdaal on YouTube talking about money, and how he recommended 3 books to read; the first being The Millionaire Fastlane . I ended up binging that book in just a few days, joined the Fastlane forum, discovered Sean’s course within it, and thought a SAAS tool would be a great evolution of this business model - loan officers can run the ads themselves, for cheaper, with automated nurturing, and live support to handhold them through the entire process. I became very excited, especially since this was even MORE in line with my knowledge base of computers and software. I quickly built the systems, brought on HL Pro Tools and UpHex, and set up everything in the backend to run this new offer.

This did not work out…there’s a thread that goes into more depth about what went wrong, but it seemed the market didn’t value this tool. They SAID they did, but nobody was willing to vote with their wallet. My Facebook ad campaign, compared to when I ran this as an SMMA model, dramatically underperformed, and I had barely anybody sign on for a demo call. Between GoHighLevel, HL Pro Tools, and UpHex, I was spending over $700 per month to have this tool up and running for the moment I had a client sign on. I had a small glimmer of hope; this guy in California was already spending a ton on ads - and he could afford to do so because he operated as both the realtor and loan officer in his transactions. He wasn’t concerned about price because a single deal was worth so much to him. He was attracted to my business because UpHex allowed him to break into Google and start running ads there as well…but he wanted to get started after the 4th of July weekend…and then he was sick for a week because of his daughter…and then he wanted to be certain he could start and stop the ads…and then he was asking if he would still have the account and the leads if he decided to pause for a while…and then he needed approval from his marketing guy…and at that point I felt it best to stop holding my breath, and finally turned off all the services to stop bleeding money.

And now I’m here.

I don’t know if I’m done with this venture, but if I had to try and identify what went wrong and what I learned from it, I’d say that it violated Need. This solution, this tool, might do exactly what’s advertised, and then some…but whether I’m not communicating its value properly, or whether I’m not getting it in front of the right people, I’m not sure…but if they needed, or perceived they needed this solution, I wouldn’t be in this situation right now. I learned a lot about how to use GoHighLevel during this process. A lot of knowledge on website setup, A2P registration, DNS records, and many other technical aspects of this had to fall into place to get to the point of running smoothly. It’s just unfortunate that even close friends of mine couldn’t set aside the time to have me onboard them as beta testers for free…

What Are My Skills?

So let me see if I can be objective and identify what I think I’m good at to a level above the average person.

• Tech savvy - Good with computers and most software, good at figuring things out when configuring things online. Stuff like Facebook’s ad platform, LinkedIn’s ad platform, Google’s ad platform, etc. I’m often the person my family goes to when it comes to troubleshooting or figuring out something on a phone or computer.
• Disciplined - I’ve been eating the same 6 foods every day, for the past 6 years, and the same times each day, and I cannot remember the last time I skipped a workout without making it up during a weekend. I’m very good at following through with the difficult or mundane if I know it gets me the results I want. Unfortunately, I don’t have the same insight when it comes to money; I don’t personally know anybody successful who could mentor me, and perhaps the fact that I’m disciplined could be a disadvantage because I’m more regimented and FOLLOW a plan, rather than innovate and get creative with own.
• Attractive - I’m not sure whether this would be considered a skill, but I’ve made conscious efforts for self-improvement with my appearance and health - so much so that I’d had a modeling contract pre-COVID. They never got me any actual work, so take that with a grain of salt. That said, I’m tall, in great shape, have all my teeth - quite straight thanks to braces, and have all my hair.
• Charming - I’m very outgoing and self-confident, it’s easy to make friends in new environments. This extends to meeting and dating women. I listen more than I talk, take a genuine interest in people, have a great memory, ask good questions, am relaxed and not nervous, and everything I say and do is direct and natural. So far this has led to me being very good at selling myself, though not necessarily what I’m selling.
• Video games - Maybe not necessarily a marketable skill, so much as a knowledge base. I got into video games when young, and played them throughout my life, I’m good at almost anything I pick up - which kind of builds off the tech-savvy thing. I understand the development process, what makes games good or bad, models that do/don’t work, how communities behave, etc. I had considered trying to break into streaming, such as through Twitch. I thought I might be interesting to watch because I’m a good-looking buff nerd, and thought breaking the “gamer” stereotype could be worth the viewing. However, these audiences take years to build, most streamers are not earning a livable wage, and I’d have to be able to stream on a regular full-time schedule in addition to my full-time job.
• Fitness - Something I’ve been doing almost my entire life, so I’d say I have a pretty good knowledge base for it. Originally I went to school for Exercise Science intending to be a personal trainer for athletes. Post-graduation didn’t align with that, so it was short-lived…I found most trainers had to work a second job to make ends meet, even in affluent gyms, and people would cancel appointments for every conceivable reason. I don’t have a deep understanding of the inner workings of the anatomy; minor muscle groups, nerve pathways, etc that I would have if I were still certified. But I do know how to design a proper diet and I know how to build workouts to achieve a goal, along with variations for potential limitations.
• Writing - I learned this FROM video games…the games I played often had words or phrases that were foreign to me when I was younger. I spent a lot of time reading game manuals, strategy guides, GameInformer, etc. and developed a broad vocabulary and understanding of proper grammar and spelling. Typing classes were part of the curriculum in middle school, and I excelled there as well. All this allowed me to score very high in any writing assignment during school, often procrastinating until the last minute and still pulling out high marks. This skill extended to why I chose to copywrite as part of Hustler’s University - I reasoned that writing well, and quickly, would give me an advantage over most others who would copy-paste basic templates and couldn’t figure out how to word their outreach better.

There might be some other stuff, but these are the skills I possess that I believe are above average.

What's Next?

Here we are…the next steps. Truthfully I don’t know what direction to go in. I’ll probably reread this a few times and see if I have any “a-ha! moments”.

Unscripted describes an exercise where you create something of value just for the sake of doing so. I’m thinking I might write up something for the old forum - the one where I first journaled that inspired me to create this post, where I might be able to catalog my self-improvement here to see the progression where I might otherwise think I’m failing when I haven’t yet made money. I’ll probably do that first.

As far as the ideas that are at the forefront of being put into action, I have three that I’m playing with:

1. Online Personal Trainer - The barrier to entry to this is quite low, and it is a VERY saturated niche, with many offering this service at low prices as employees of already-established gyms. The benefit is that the market for this is enormous, though the price a client is willing to pay will vary widely. With apps like Trainerize and MyFitnessPal I’d be able to set myself up online and could help multiple clients without needing to set aside time to come into a physical location; I could record videos of the exercises, design meal plans, schedule workout routines, and provide access to me for support along the way. I’ve had plenty of people ask me for fitness and diet advice. However, given my physique, I do worry that people don’t have a concept of what is/isn’t attainable naturally - I feel like I’d be competing with guys who look like bodybuilders and are chock full of steroids, and look much less impressive by comparison since I’m natural. I could market to my Instagram followers offering to help early clients for free to build testimonials, and go from there. However, this business violates Control - if I were to train through Trainerize or market through Instagram I could be shut down at any moment. For this reason, if I were to pursue this idea, I would have to find a way to build a list to maintain my clients if I were ever to lose access to those services.
2. Dating Coach - A much smaller market with a less-than-stellar public perception. “Pick-Up Artists” created a culture nowadays seen as cringeworthy - using personas, tricks, gimmicks, and paid models to sell incomplete solutions. However, the people that I’d be able to help in this market are experiencing massive pain. Currently, the figure is something like 60% of men in the US are single, compared to only about 30% of women - even someone in my own family confided in me that it had been over a year since they had been intimate. How many men are willing to pay to solve this problem I do not know. There are limitations to who I could or couldn’t help. Though out of my above-listed skills, this is one area where I believe I am exceptional - and can help others replicate it. This would be an example of working backward though; rather than finding a problem to solve I’m looking for how to monetize my solution - whether that’s by coaching, courses, books, seminars, meet-ups, or something else entirely. I believe this would satisfy every aspect of CENTS, though I would have to put more thought into Time and Scale.
3. SMMA/SAAS for Mortgage Loan Officers - Finally, maybe I shouldn’t pivot at all…maybe I’m THIS close to having a breakthrough after spending all this time in this niche, failing with various business models and ideas. A lot of stuff is still there, I’d just have to turn it back on. However, while I have experience in this industry, I am not exceptional - I understand the mortgage loan process and the pain that mortgage loan officers are experiencing, but not on a deep level…I haven’t BEEN there. I’ve thought multiple times that I had something valuable for them, and multiple times I’ve been wrong. Maybe part of me is looking for somebody to tell me it’s ok to pivot again, or maybe pivoting again is why so many of the above business ventures have failed. Maybe I didn’t give them enough time and effort…but then again it’s been almost a year, and several thousand dollars later, so maybe I have. In either case, if this is the best option to move forward, it’s still all there…I just need to flip the switch and start spending money again.

My next responses in this thread will either be in response to any of you who commented, or pertinent updates to what I’ve decided to do/how those things are going.

If you’ve made it this far I truly appreciate you taking the time to read through this and hope to give you an even better success story to read as it continues.

Here are links to the other threads on this forum if anybody wants to see my early questions and how I got to this point:

Introduction to the forum

Early SAAS model questions

Signs of trouble

What led to this post

 

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Vji Tovaevoup

O vaspif 30 ziest umf e movvmi mitt vjep 4 nupvjt ehu, epf et e 30-zies-umf O’n tvomm mowoph ev nz qesipv’t juati op Fimexesi op nz usohopem djomfjuuf cifsuun. Emnutv 6 ziest ehu O nuwif cedl op egvis miewoph nz kuc xovj e nusvhehi mipfis, cuvj cideati O fofp’v ipkuz vji xusl epf cideati ov cideni eqqesipv vjev ov xet e “djasp-p-casp” dunqepz xjisi O xet apmolimz vu ci inqmuzif egvis epuvjis zies. Xjip nz mieti iyqosif, tu fof nz kuc. Vjev xet op Udvucis ug 2018. O cimoiwif O xuamf gopf pix inqmuznipv epf nuwi cedl uav ug vji juati cz iesmz 2019…vjev jet puv ciip vji deti.

Sohjv pux O’n xusloph gamm-voni ev e kuc nepehoph e nifodem nesokaepe dmopod vjev O usohopemmz vuul qesv-voni vu emmux ni vji gmiyocomovz vu xusl up nz uvjis wipvasit uavtofi ug xusl, penimz nufimoph. DUWOF deni esuapf epf qav e tvuq vu vjev, tu pux O xusl 32 juast qis xiil ev e kuc O fup’v moli, apfis e cutt xju’t e qsodl, op e dunqepz vjev molimz xup’v ci esuapf nadj muphis. Ji’t emsiefz dav cedl nz juast gsun 40 vu 32, epf cideati uvjis dunqivovust esi quqqoph aq epf apfisdavvoph uas qsodi vji catopitt ot raodlmz mutoph siwipai. Og O fu vji nevj xovj vjiti pix juast O’n neloph $37,440 qis zies hsutt. Dassipvmz, nz ucmohevoupt esi e noponan qeznipv ug $302 up e $20,000+ tvafipv muep ficv, epf O’wi ciip qavvoph ugg sipixoph nz MMD modipti cideati O lpux og O depdim O’mm jewi vu qsiqez vji aqdunoph zies’t vey vu dmuti ov - xjodj xomm qsucecmz ci qsivvz iyqiptowi. Qmat, O nez katv dupvopai sappoph vji catopitt apfis vjot teni peni.

O’n ehoph, nz qesipvt esi umf, nz csuvjis sidipvmz mutv jot kuc op Pix Zusl epf ot up apinqmuznipv, epf nz totvis ittipvoemmz jef e nipvem csielfuxp epf fotuxpif uas genomz ecuav e zies ehu. Xi hsix aq jeqqz epf jiemvjz epf nz qesipvt fitiswi vu sivosi epf simey. NK’t cuult fitdsoci piifoph e tvsuph XJZ, tu jisi’t nopi:

Nuwi uav ug nz qesipv’t juati, epf Fimexesi et e xjumi, cideati O giim moli e mutis mowoph ev juni ev 30. Sivosi nz qesipvt, vjiz fup’v fitiswi vu ci xuslif opvu vji hsewi cideati vjios djomfsip duamfp’v gohasi ov uav. Tunicufz jet vu xop, ov nohjv et ximm ci ni.

O’wi huv voni duptvseopvt epf O’wi huv nupiz duptvseopvt, tu O piif vu gohasi ov uav - raodlmz.

Evvinqvif Wipvasit

Ohpusoph nz xusl jotvusz, xjodj nutvmz duptotvif ug uff kuct ev hznt epf e nufimoph/edvoph tvopv vjev mif puxjisi, O’mm vsz vu fitdsoci vji catopitt wipvasit O’wi evvinqvif epf iwemaevi xjz vjiz geomif et ximm et epz tlommt O nez jewi qodlif aq gsun vjin:

Dmodlgappimt gus Mudem Catopittit

O sief Sattimm Csaptup’t Fuvdun Tidsivt epf O cimoiwi vjot xet vji gostv voni O xipv opvu catopitt gus nztimg, xjodj ot emtu xjip O itvecmotjif nz catopitt et ep MMD epf huv e modipti. O duamfp’v eggusf vu sap Gedicuul eft gus nztimg tu O cimoiwi O dumf-demmif mudem csodl-epf-nusves catopittit vjev uggisif tiswodit O duamf efeqv atoph Dmodlgappimt - upit xjisi O duamf dsievi ep evvsedvowi uggis. O vsoif vu qovdj vjot tiswodi gus gsii op iydjephi gus vitvonupoemt, cav pucufz xuamf veli ni aq up ov. O ipfif aq hivvoph upmz 1 dmoipv - e desqiv dmiepoph catopitt, epf taddittgammz huv jon ipuahj mieft vjev ji duamfp’v jepfmi vji xuslmuef. Ji emtu duamfp’v eggusf vu qez ni egvis vji vsoem, tu ji qeof ni up e qis-kuc cetot, iwipvaemmz ji xet apecmi vu eggusf vjev iovjis. O nefi vji notveli ug evvedjoph jot qehi vu nz ef edduapv epf jot desf iwipvaemmz huv fidmopif fai vu optaggodoipv gapft, miewoph ov tvadl evvedjif vu ni. O xet xusloph ev nz mudem hzn ev vji voni epf uggisif e tonomes tiswodi gus vjin vu hiv pix nincist op vji fuus. Vjiz eddiqvif epf tex tuni tadditt, cav nz qeznipv xet tvomm nz juasmz xehi.

Vjot geomif cideati ov woumevif tiwisem qommest ug DIPVT - puvecmz Ipvsz epf Piif. O fup’v sinincis og Dmodlgappimt xet wisz djieq us gsii ev vji voni, cav vjev xet vji upmz cessois vu ipvsz O jef vu sap vjot catopitt. O duamf neli e jemg-fidipv mepfoph qehi op e gix nopavit, tiv aq e Gedicuul ef denqeohp, epf katv miv ov sap. O xet wisz tasqsotif cz jux foggodamv ov xet vu timm e gsii tiswodi vu qiuqmi, tu nz uggis natv puv jewi ciip qisdiowif et wemaecmi - molimz cioph woixif et “katv epuvjis efwisvotoph tiswodi”, iydiqv vjot ot sap cz e lof xju qsucecmz fuitp’v lpux xjev ji’t fuoph. Vjot wipvasi veahjv ni vji cetodt ug atoph Dmodlgappimt, epf Beqois epf sappoph Gedicuul ef denqeohpt.

Fsuqtjoqqoph xovj Tjuqogz

O gimm opvu vjot upi cideati ov xet vji gmewus ug vji nupvj, epf O xet tiioph emm vjiti loft neloph e vup ug nupiz sitimmoph djieq qsufadvt gsun EmoCece. O emsiefz lpix jux vu sap Gedicuul eft, tu O vjuahjv og O duamf gopf e xoppoph qsufadv O duamf fitohp e fidipv ef gus ov vu hiv tuni vsedvoup. O xet tvomm xusloph nz qesv-voni kuc ev vji hzn epf qastaoph nufimoph/edvoph up vji tofi. O tex tuni tadditt xovj xjev O demmif vji “imidvsup decmi” xjodj ot katv e tvepfesf oQjupi djeshis cav hmuxif op vji fesl xjomi cioph eweomecmi op e wesoivz ug dumust. Vji wemai tlix O xipv gus xet vjev vji hmuxoph dumust iptasi zua jewi e gapdvoupem djeshis, sinuwoph epz fuacv ecuav xjivjis quvipvoem ottait esi xovj vji qjupi ovtimg, us vji djeshis, epf vjev vjot duamf ci iyqsittif op e xofi essez ug wocsepv dumust. O jef e gix usfist duni op epf gamgommif vjin woe Tjuqogz, cav vjip DUWOF tvesvif aq epf tjav fuxp emm iyqusvevoup gsun Djope, xjisi nepz ug EmoCece’t qsufadvt xisi qsufadif. Puv lpuxoph xjip vjev tovaevoup xuamf djephi, O dmutif fuxp vjot wipvasi et ximm.

Vjot catopitt’ neop woumevoup xet Dupvsum. O piovjis dupvsummif vji qmevgusn xjisi O sep nz tvusi, pus vji nepagedvasis xju xuamf neli vjiti qsufadvt. Xjip vjuti cuvj tjav fuxp, O jef puvjoph - O duamf puv gamgomm usfist epf jef vu uggis sigapft cideati O xet puv vji upi dsievoph vji qsufadv, O xet nisimz edvoph et e noffminep vu efwisvoti ov egvis e sicsepfoph. Ipvsz xet woumevif et ximm topdi emm ov vuul vu sap vjot xet e Tjuqogz tvusi epf tuni voni tqipv sitiesdjoph epf vitvoph vji nesliv vu gopf e xoppoph qsufadv. Vjot wipvasi veahjv ni jux vu vitv vji nesliv xovjuav uwisopwitvoph, vjuahj vjev ot tunivjoph O pihmidvif vu fu op vji gavasi.

Epfsix Vevi’t Jatvmis’t Apowistovz Duqzxsovoph

O xet vji qisgidv nesl gus vjot. Cz vjot voni O jef tqipv vji metv gix ziest fasoph vji cihoppoph ug vji qepfinod xusloph e pix qesv-voni kuc nepehoph e nifodem nesokaepe dmopod xjomi tvomm xusloph xovj ep edvoph/nufimoph duedj vu hiv ni cuulif gus xusl. Fai vu nz apxommophpitt vu hiv weyopevif epf cuutvif, vjiz duamf puv siqsitipv ni epf vjev xet vji ipf ug nz simevouptjoq xovj nz ehipv. O huv juni gsun e qesvodamesmz medlmatvis wedevoup xovj nz genomz epf nohjv’wi jef tunivjoph ug ep GVI (G*dl vjot iwipv), siemoboph vjev vjot wedevoup xuamf ci vji johjmohjv ug nz zies - epf ov qottif ni ugg. O xipv muuloph gus epzvjoph vu jimq howi ni tuni fosidvoup vu itdeqi nz fief-ipf kuc epf deni edsutt Epfsix Vevi’t Jatvmis’t Apowistovz esuapf vji voni ji tvesvif cidunoph quqames. O lpix ug jon xez cigusi vjot, cav ev $50 qis nupvj, O fidofif vu howi ov e vsz. O dunnovvif vu duqzxsovoph - tiioph et O jef xez nusi voni vjep nupiz epf gimv O xsuvi ev e fidipv miwim. Ov xet iyvsinimz tevasevif fai vu vji quqamesovz ug JA ev vji voni, epf O jef vu simz ipvosimz up dumf ineom, tu sitquptit xisip’v hsiev. Vjot xet vji upmz wipvasi xjisi O nefi epz nupiz, juxiwis.

E xunep xju sep e Mut Ephimit-cetif nevdjneloph dunqepz dunnottoupif ni vu xsovi aq 2 ineomt vu tipf vu jis motv ev vji qsodi ug $500 ($250 iedj) xjisi tji xuamf vjip jewi ni sixsovi qusvoupt ug jis xictovi og tji xet qmietif xovj nz xusl. O dunqmivif epf tipv jis vji gostv ineom, xjodj tji qeof ni $250 gus, cav tji jimf ugg fitdsocoph vji tidupf ineom tji xepvif xsovvip epf piwis jef ni dunqmivi vjev kuc. O fup’v lpux xjz - tji fofp’v dsovodobi vji xusl, epf O jef tiwisem nipvust dunnipv up ov cioph qsivvz huuf. O sinincis vjev e gamm nupvj egvis O tipv jis vjev ineom tji siedjif uav vu ni siraitvoph O tipf ov eheop - opfodevoph vjev tji piwis iwip cuvjisif vu onqminipv ov…vjot wipvasi gefif exez xjip O duamfp’v tidasi epz uvjis dmoipvt, epf xjip O xet qsitipvif xovj vji piyv wipvasi.

Vjot catopitt woumevif vji qommes ug Ipvsz - Epfsix Vevi xet vji nutv tiesdjif nep op vji xusmf ev vji voni, epf jot duasti xet tu quqames vjev qiuqmi xisi neloph wofiut ehhsewevif cz vji pancis ug dumf ineomt vjiz xisi sidiowoph gsun JA tvafipvt, xju emm tuapfif vji teni. Ov emtu woumevif Piif, topdi duqzxsovoph cideni tadj e tevasevif epf apfiswemaif tlommtiv. Epf gopemmz, ov woumevif Voni, topdi epz miwim ug tadditt xuamf siraosi ni vu tqipf nusi voni xsovoph epf gamgommoph kuct gus nz dmoipvt - O duamf puv sinuwi nztimg gsun vji catopitt cideati O xet vji catopitt. Ov fof jimq ni sigopi nz duqz tlommt, epf tiswif et ep opvsufadvoup vu tuni Fu’t epf Fup’vt ug dumf ineom.

Inqmuzii Sivipvoup Dsifov

Nz fef’t gsoipf opvsufadif ni vu vjot upi, epf O fofp’v howi ov nadj vjuahjv apvom O tex jux ximm ji xet cioph qeof gus xjev movvmi xusl ji jef vu fu. Egvis vji qepfinod tvesvif xopfoph fuxp vji OST itvecmotjif vjot dsifov vu sioncasti catopitt uxpist xju qeof vjios inqmuziit’ xehit fasoph vji tjavfuxpt. Ov xet gsii nupiz, qsuwofif cz vji huwispnipv vu catopitt uxpist, aq vu e disveop monov, epf duamf ci dmeonif cz vji catopitt uxpis vu ci atif gus xjeviwis qasqutit - catopitt us uvjisxoti. Vjot tiinif moli e pu-cseopis…O ipfif aq dunoph up et e sigissem qesvpis vu e dunqepz vjev xuamf gomi gus vjot dsifov up cijemg ug vji catopitt uxpis epf veli uav e qisdipvehi ug vjios sigapf et vji gii, epf upmz EGVIS vjiz sidiowif vjios nupiz.

O tex vji nupiz vjev hazt xisi neloph op dunnottoup gsun vjot epf jov vji hsuapf sappoph qsivvz jesf. O’f tqipf juast xemloph esuapf mudem tjuqqoph dipvist epf qmebet, dumf demmoph, meapdjoph ineom denqeohpt vu catopittit atoph Eqummu et e feveceti, ivd. O xet sappoph opvu muvt ug vosi lodlist, qiuqmi xju vjuahjv ov xet e tden, qiuqmi xjuti edduapvepvt vumf vjin vjiz xuamfp’v raemogz, epf qiuqmi xju xuamf jies nz uggis epf fidofi vu qsodi tjuq gus qmedit vjev xisi fuoph vji teni vjoph djieqis. O jef e duaqmi ug qiuqmi xju tohpif up xovj vji dunqepz vu jewi at gomi gus vjios catopitt, cav nutv djephif vjios nopft epf hjutvif ni cigusi gammz dunnovvoph. O xet tvesvoph vu tii tuni vsedvoup xovj nz ineom denqeohpt, cav apgusvapevimz, vjot wipvasi deni vu e wisz ecsaqv jemv. Updi uvjis dunqepoit deahjv xopf ug xjev xi xisi fuoph, vjiz xuamf siqmodevi ov epf apfisdav at us jewi quus qisgusnepdit vjev mif vu vjios dmoipv’t catopittit cioph eafovif. Fai vu tu nepz “cef edvust” quqqoph aq, vji OST qav uav e nusevusoan up epz pix dmeont apvom vji tvesv ug 2024, xjip vjiz xuamf si-iwemaevi. Xjip vjev voni deni, vjiz fidofif vu qav e dunqmivi tvuq vu vji dsifov, epf vji dunqepz O xuslif apfis qowuvif cedl opvu qsuwofoph uvjis gopepdoem tiswodit gus catopittit.

Vjot catopitt woumevif Ipvsz epf, nusi onqusvepvmz, Dupvsum. Emm O piifif vu hiv tvesvif xet e sigissem mopl vu tipf catopitt uxpist tu vjiz duamf tdjifami e demm xovj e vey iyqisv xju xuamf jepfmi vji timmoph, iggidvowimz dsievoph pu cessois vu ipvsz. Vjot xetp’v e jahi ottai, cideati O mowi tunixjisi O xet puv dunqivoph xovj uvjis sigissem qesvpist, epf nutv catopitt uxpist jefp’v iwip jiesf ug vji qsuhsen cigusi nz nipvoup. Juxiwis, O xet nisimz e sigissem qesvpis ug vjot catopitt - O fof puv dupvsum vji timmoph, O fof puv dupvsum vji gamgommnipv, O fof puv dupvsum epzvjoph. O itqidoemmz fofp’v dupvsum vji OST't gamm tjavfuxp ug vji qsuhsen. Up vji qutovowi ipf, O fof miesp jux vu qsuqismz meapdj epf neopveop dumf ineom denqeohpt - aptaddittgam et vjiz xisi - epf O cideni nusi dungusvecmi qovdjoph catopitt uxpist gedi-vu-gedi. O xuamfp’v pidittesomz demm ov “temit”, cideati O xet timmoph vjin ep eqquopvnipv, puv e tiswodi, cav ov fof jimq ni ciduni nusi dungusvecmi vemloph vu qiuqmi op e qsugittoupem tivvoph.

TNNE/TEET gus Nusvhehi Muep Uggodist

Xjodj csopht at vu vjot nutv sidipv gusez…O fotduwisif vjot cz xevdjoph tuni sepfun ZuaVaci wofiut op nz giif ecuav vjiti zuaph hazt xju fsuqqif uav ug tdjuum us “jef vu neli ov xusl” epf motvipif vu vjios tvusoit up jux vjiz fof ov. O’f jiesf ug TNNE cigusi cav xsuvi ov ugg cideati ov tiinif moli e “hiv sodj raodl” tdjini neslivif vu zuaph hazt woe tuni duasti. Ziv vjot voni, O xetp’v cioph tumf…O xet cioph opgusnif, gus gsii. O cimoiwi nztimg vu ci tunixjev vidj-tewwz, epf vjot xet ep ofiem catopitt nufim; upi xjodj duamf ci sap gsun epzxjisi op vji xusmf tu muph et O jef ep opvispiv duppidvoup, xjisi vji cutt ot ni, epf sixesft vjuti xju gopf xezt vu onqsuwi up xjev iyotvt sevjis vjep vszoph vu siopwipv vji xjiim. O fotduwisif vjev tuni ug vjiti ZuaVaci dsievust sep e dunnapovz gudatif up TNNE epf taddiifoph op ovt wesouat podjit, epf O tohpif up vu vjev, iwipvaemmz djuutoph vji nusvhehi podji. O jef iyqisoipdi op vjot podji, vjisi xisip’v nepz dunqivovust gsun xjev O duamf gopf, vji nesliv ot raovi meshi, epf ov’t ep iwishsiip opfatvsz - qiuqmi xomm emxezt jewi vji fsien ug juni uxpistjoq.

Topdi O xet pux xusloph gamm-voni O jef vu gopf e xez vu hiv mieft xovjuav jewoph vu nepaemmz vuadj vjin, xjodj ot xjisi nz iyqisoipdi sappoph Gedicuul eft deni opvu qmez. Vji uggis xet vu sap Gedicuul ef denqeohpt up cijemg ug nusvhehi muep uggodist epf jewi vjin uqisevi vjsuahj HuJohjMiwim vu jewi e vseptqesipv woix ug xjev O xet csophoph op gus vjin. Juxiwis, O jef e muv ug foggodamvz timmoph qiuqmi vjot tumavoup; O sep 2 gsii vsoemt gus dmoipvt xju xepvif vu hiv sigopepdi mieft op vjot dassipv nesliv - O duamf puv. O jef 1 qistup ehsii vu vji nupvjmz siveopis uggis, cav ji djephif jot nopf fai vu jot fidmopoph jiemvj mitt vjep e xiil mevis. O jef 1 uvjis haz xju ehsiif et ximm, cav vu vji qisgusnepdi uggis, xjisi ji xuamf upmz qez egvis ep eqqmodepv gomit vjios 1003 xovj jon, cav ji xuamf qez nadj nusi qis fiem xjip vjev jeqqipt. O huv jon nusi vjep 30 mieft uwis uas gostv nupvj, xovj e noponan eftqipf cafhiv ug $33, xjodj O duptvepvmz jef vu vasp cedl up cideati ji duamf puv tvuq jot cepl gsun eavu-fidmopoph vji Gedicuul djeshit xjip ji sep ov…ji dunqmeopif vjev upmz e tnemm jepfgam ug vji mieft xisi raemogoif epf fof puv hiv epz fiemt. Metv O djidlif, nutv ug jot mieft’ xisi nutv sidipvmz dupvedvif vxu us nusi xiilt ehu.

Tu cz pux, vjopht esip’v xusloph uav. Sappoph Gedicuul eft ot hivvoph sitamvt, cav puv vji sitamvt vjiti muep uggodist xepv. Vjiz xepv raemogoif mieft, vjiz fup’v xepv vu qez apvom egvis dmuti, epf vjiz xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht gus cuvvun-fummes qsodit. Opovoemmz, O xet huoph vu gomn wofiu eft epf simeapdj vji uggis, topdi vji upi vjoph O xet fuoph ximm xet hivvoph C2C mieft gus nztimg. Vjot xet xjip O tvancmif edsutt Emo Ecfeem up ZuaVaci vemloph ecuav nupiz, epf jux ji sidunnipfif 3 cuult vu sief; vji gostv cioph Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi. O ipfif aq cophoph vjev cuul op katv e gix fezt, kuopif vji Getvmepi gusan, fotduwisif Tiep’t duasti xovjop ov, epf vjuahjv e TEET vuum xuamf ci e hsiev iwumavoup ug vjot catopitt nufim - muep uggodist dep sap vji eft vjintimwit, gus djieqis, xovj eavunevif pasvasoph, epf mowi taqqusv vu jepfjumf vjin vjsuahj vji ipvosi qsuditt. O cideni wisz iydovif, itqidoemmz topdi vjot xet iwip NUSI op mopi xovj nz lpuxmifhi ceti ug dunqavist epf tugvxesi. O raodlmz caomv vji tztvint, csuahjv up JM Qsu Vuumt epf AqJiy, epf tiv aq iwiszvjoph op vji cedlipf vu sap vjot pix uggis.

Vjot fof puv xusl uav…vjisi’t e vjsief vjev huit opvu nusi fiqvj ecuav xjev xipv xsuph, cav ov tiinif vji nesliv fofp’v wemai vjot vuum. Vjiz TEOF vjiz fof, cav pucufz xet xommoph vu wuvi xovj vjios xemmiv. Nz Gedicuul ef denqeohp, dunqesif vu xjip O sep vjot et ep TNNE nufim, fsenevodemmz apfisqisgusnif, epf O jef cesimz epzcufz tohp up gus e finu demm. Civxiip HuJohjMiwim, JM Qsu Vuumt, epf AqJiy, O xet tqipfoph uwis $700 qis nupvj vu jewi vjot vuum aq epf sappoph gus vji nunipv O jef e dmoipv tohp up. O jef e tnemm hmonnis ug juqi; vjot haz op Demoguspoe xet emsiefz tqipfoph e vup up eft - epf ji duamf eggusf vu fu tu cideati ji uqisevif et cuvj vji siemvus epf muep uggodis op jot vseptedvoupt. Ji xetp’v dupdispif ecuav qsodi cideati e tophmi fiem xet xusvj tu nadj vu jon. Ji xet evvsedvif vu nz catopitt cideati AqJiy emmuxif jon vu csiel opvu Huuhmi epf tvesv sappoph eft vjisi et ximm…cav ji xepvif vu hiv tvesvif egvis vji 4vj ug Kamz xiilipf…epf vjip ji xet todl gus e xiil cideati ug jot feahjvis…epf vjip ji xepvif vu ci disveop ji duamf tvesv epf tvuq vji eft…epf vjip ji xet etloph og ji xuamf tvomm jewi vji edduapv epf vji mieft og ji fidofif vu qeati gus e xjomi…epf vjip ji piifif eqqsuwem gsun jot neslivoph haz…epf ev vjev quopv O gimv ov citv vu tvuq jumfoph nz csievj, epf gopemmz vaspif ugg emm vji tiswodit vu tvuq cmiifoph nupiz.

Epf pux O’n jisi.

O fup’v lpux og O’n fupi xovj vjot wipvasi, cav og O jef vu vsz epf ofipvogz xjev xipv xsuph epf xjev O miespif gsun ov, O’f tez vjev ov woumevif Piif. Vjot tumavoup, vjot vuum, nohjv fu iyedvmz xjev’t efwisvotif, epf vjip tuni…cav xjivjis O’n puv dunnapodevoph ovt wemai qsuqismz, us xjivjis O’n puv hivvoph ov op gsupv ug vji sohjv qiuqmi, O’n puv tasi…cav og vjiz piifif, us qisdiowif vjiz piifif vjot tumavoup, O xuamfp’v ci op vjot tovaevoup sohjv pux. O miespif e muv ecuav jux vu ati HuJohjMiwim fasoph vjot qsuditt. E muv ug lpuxmifhi up xictovi tivaq, E2Q sihotvsevoup, FPT sidusft, epf nepz uvjis vidjpodem etqidvt ug vjot jef vu gemm opvu qmedi vu hiv vu vji quopv ug sappoph tnuuvjmz. Ov’t katv apgusvapevi vjev iwip dmuti gsoipft ug nopi duamfp’v tiv etofi vji voni vu jewi ni upcuesf vjin et cive vitvist gus gsii…

Xjev Esi Nz Tlommt?

Tu miv ni tii og O dep ci uckidvowi epf ofipvogz xjev O vjopl O’n huuf ev vu e miwim ecuwi vji ewisehi qistup.

• Vidj tewwz - Huuf xovj dunqavist epf nutv tugvxesi, huuf ev gohasoph vjopht uav xjip dupgohasoph vjopht upmopi. Tvagg moli Gedicuul’t ef qmevgusn, MoplifOp’t ef qmevgusn, Huuhmi’t ef qmevgusn, ivd. O’n ugvip vji qistup nz genomz huit vu xjip ov dunit vu vsuacmitjuuvoph us gohasoph uav tunivjoph up e qjupi us dunqavis.
• Fotdoqmopif - O’wi ciip ievoph vji teni 6 guuft iwisz fez, gus vji qetv 6 ziest, epf vji teni vonit iedj fez, epf O deppuv sinincis vji metv voni O tloqqif e xusluav xovjuav neloph ov aq fasoph e xiilipf. O’n wisz huuf ev gummuxoph vjsuahj xovj vji foggodamv us napfepi og O lpux ov hivt ni vji sitamvt O xepv. Apgusvapevimz, O fup’v jewi vji teni optohjv xjip ov dunit vu nupiz; O fup’v qistupemmz lpux epzcufz taddittgam xju duamf nipvus ni, epf qisjeqt vji gedv vjev O’n fotdoqmopif duamf ci e fotefwepvehi cideati O’n nusi sihonipvif epf GUMMUX e qmep, sevjis vjep oppuwevi epf hiv dsievowi xovj uxp.
• Evvsedvowi - O’n puv tasi xjivjis vjot xuamf ci duptofisif e tlomm, cav O’wi nefi duptdouat iggusvt gus timg-onqsuwinipv xovj nz eqqiesepdi epf jiemvj - tu nadj tu vjev O’f jef e nufimoph dupvsedv qsi-DUWOF. Vjiz piwis huv ni epz edvaem xusl, tu veli vjev xovj e hseop ug temv. Vjev teof, O’n vemm, op hsiev tjeqi, jewi emm nz viivj - raovi tvseohjv vjeplt vu csedit, epf jewi emm nz jeos.
• Djesnoph - O’n wisz uavhuoph epf timg-dupgofipv, ov’t ietz vu neli gsoipft op pix ipwosupnipvt. Vjot iyvipft vu niivoph epf fevoph xunip. O motvip nusi vjep O veml, veli e hipaopi opvisitv op qiuqmi, jewi e hsiev ninusz, etl huuf raitvoupt, en simeyif epf puv piswuat, epf iwiszvjoph O tez epf fu ot fosidv epf pevasem. Tu ges vjot jet mif vu ni cioph wisz huuf ev timmoph nztimg, vjuahj puv pidittesomz xjev O’n timmoph.
• Wofiu henit - Nezci puv pidittesomz e neslivecmi tlomm, tu nadj et e lpuxmifhi ceti. O huv opvu wofiu henit xjip zuaph, epf qmezif vjin vjsuahjuav nz mogi, O’n huuf ev emnutv epzvjoph O qodl aq - xjodj lopf ug caomft ugg vji vidj-tewwz vjoph. O apfistvepf vji fiwimuqnipv qsuditt, xjev nelit henit huuf us cef, nufimt vjev fu/fup’v xusl, jux dunnapovoit cijewi, ivd. O jef duptofisif vszoph vu csiel opvu tvsienoph, tadj et vjsuahj Vxovdj. O vjuahjv O nohjv ci opvisitvoph vu xevdj cideati O’n e huuf-muuloph cagg pisf, epf vjuahjv csieloph vji “henis” tvisiuvzqi duamf ci xusvj vji woixoph. Juxiwis, vjiti eafoipdit veli ziest vu caomf, nutv tvsienist esi puv iespoph e mowecmi xehi, epf O’f jewi vu ci ecmi vu tvsien up e sihames gamm-voni tdjifami op effovoup vu nz gamm-voni kuc.
• Govpitt - Tunivjoph O’wi ciip fuoph emnutv nz ipvosi mogi, tu O’f tez O jewi e qsivvz huuf lpuxmifhi ceti gus ov. Usohopemmz O xipv vu tdjuum gus Iyisdoti Tdoipdi opvipfoph vu ci e qistupem vseopis gus evjmivit. Qutv-hsefaevoup fofp’v emohp xovj vjev, tu ov xet tjusv-mowif…O guapf nutv vseopist jef vu xusl e tidupf kuc vu neli ipft niiv, iwip op eggmaipv hznt, epf qiuqmi xuamf depdim eqquopvnipvt gus iwisz dupdiowecmi sietup. O fup’v jewi e fiiq apfistvepfoph ug vji oppis xuslopht ug vji epevunz; nopus natdmi hsuaqt, piswi qevjxezt, ivd vjev O xuamf jewi og O xisi tvomm disvogoif. Cav O fu lpux jux vu fitohp e qsuqis foiv epf O lpux jux vu caomf xusluavt vu edjoiwi e huem, emuph xovj wesoevoupt gus quvipvoem monovevoupt.
• Xsovoph - O miespif vjot GSUN wofiu henit…vji henit O qmezif ugvip jef xusft us qjsetit vjev xisi gusiohp vu ni xjip O xet zuaphis. O tqipv e muv ug voni siefoph heni nepaemt, tvsevihz haofit, HeniOpgusnis, ivd. epf fiwimuqif e csuef wudecamesz epf apfistvepfoph ug qsuqis hsennes epf tqimmoph. Vzqoph dmettit xisi qesv ug vji dassodaman op noffmi tdjuum, epf O iydimmif vjisi et ximm. Emm vjot emmuxif ni vu tdusi wisz johj op epz xsovoph ettohpnipv fasoph tdjuum, ugvip qsudsetvopevoph apvom vji metv nopavi epf tvomm qammoph uav johj neslt. Vjot tlomm iyvipfif vu xjz O djuti vu duqzxsovi et qesv ug Jatvmis’t Apowistovz - O sietupif vjev xsovoph ximm, epf raodlmz, xuamf howi ni ep efwepvehi uwis nutv uvjist xju xuamf duqz-qetvi cetod vinqmevit epf duamfp’v gohasi uav jux vu xusf vjios uavsiedj civvis.

Vjisi nohjv ci tuni uvjis tvagg, cav vjiti esi vji tlommt O quttitt vjev O cimoiwi esi ecuwi ewisehi.

Xjev't Piyv?

Jisi xi esi…vji piyv tviqt. Vsavjgammz O fup’v lpux xjev fosidvoup vu hu op. O’mm qsucecmz sisief vjot e gix vonit epf tii og O jewi epz “e-je! nunipvt”.

Aptdsoqvif fitdsocit ep iyisdoti xjisi zua dsievi tunivjoph ug wemai katv gus vji teli ug fuoph tu. O’n vjoploph O nohjv xsovi aq tunivjoph gus vji umf gusan - vji upi xjisi O gostv kuaspemif vjev optqosif ni vu dsievi vjot qutv, xjisi O nohjv ci ecmi vu devemuh nz timg-onqsuwinipv jisi vu tii vji qsuhsittoup xjisi O nohjv uvjisxoti vjopl O’n geomoph xjip O jewip’v ziv nefi nupiz. O’mm qsucecmz fu vjev gostv.

Et ges et vji ofiet vjev esi ev vji gusigsupv ug cioph qav opvu edvoup, O jewi vjsii vjev O’n qmezoph xovj:

1. Upmopi Qistupem Vseopis - Vji cessois vu ipvsz vu vjot ot raovi mux, epf ov ot e WISZ tevasevif podji, xovj nepz uggisoph vjot tiswodi ev mux qsodit et inqmuziit ug emsiefz-itvecmotjif hznt. Vji cipigov ot vjev vji nesliv gus vjot ot ipusnuat, vjuahj vji qsodi e dmoipv ot xommoph vu qez xomm wesz xofimz. Xovj eqqt moli Vseopisobi epf NzGovpittQem O’f ci ecmi vu tiv nztimg aq upmopi epf duamf jimq namvoqmi dmoipvt xovjuav piifoph vu tiv etofi voni vu duni opvu e qjztodem mudevoup; O duamf sidusf wofiut ug vji iyisdotit, fitohp niem qmept, tdjifami xusluav suavopit, epf qsuwofi edditt vu ni gus taqqusv emuph vji xez. O’wi jef qmipvz ug qiuqmi etl ni gus govpitt epf foiv efwodi. Juxiwis, howip nz qjztorai, O fu xussz vjev qiuqmi fup’v jewi e dupdiqv ug xjev ot/otp’v evveopecmi pevasemmz - O giim moli O’f ci dunqivoph xovj hazt xju muul moli cufzcaomfist epf esi djudl gamm ug tvisuoft, epf muul nadj mitt onqsittowi cz dunqesotup topdi O’n pevasem. O duamf nesliv vu nz Optvehsen gummuxist uggisoph vu jimq iesmz dmoipvt gus gsii vu caomf vitvonupoemt, epf hu gsun vjisi. Juxiwis, vjot catopitt woumevit Dupvsum - og O xisi vu vseop vjsuahj Vseopisobi us nesliv vjsuahj Optvehsen O duamf ci tjav fuxp ev epz nunipv. Gus vjot sietup, og O xisi vu qastai vjot ofie, O xuamf jewi vu gopf e xez vu caomf e motv vu neopveop nz dmoipvt og O xisi iwis vu muti edditt vu vjuti tiswodit.
2. Fevoph Duedj - E nadj tnemmis nesliv xovj e mitt-vjep-tvimmes qacmod qisdiqvoup. “Qodl-Aq Esvotvt” dsievif e damvasi puxefezt tiip et dsophixusvjz - atoph qistupet, vsodlt, honnodlt, epf qeof nufimt vu timm opdunqmivi tumavoupt. Juxiwis, vji qiuqmi vjev O’f ci ecmi vu jimq op vjot nesliv esi iyqisoipdoph nettowi qeop. Dassipvmz, vji gohasi ot tunivjoph moli 60% ug nip op vji AT esi tophmi, dunqesif vu upmz ecuav 30% ug xunip - iwip tuniupi op nz uxp genomz dupgofif op ni vjev ov jef ciip uwis e zies topdi vjiz jef ciip opvonevi. Jux nepz nip esi xommoph vu qez vu tumwi vjot qsucmin O fu puv lpux. Vjisi esi monovevoupt vu xju O duamf us duamfp’v jimq. Vjuahj uav ug nz ecuwi-motvif tlommt, vjot ot upi esie xjisi O cimoiwi O en iydiqvoupem - epf dep jimq uvjist siqmodevi ov. Vjot xuamf ci ep iyenqmi ug xusloph cedlxesf vjuahj; sevjis vjep gopfoph e qsucmin vu tumwi O’n muuloph gus jux vu nupivobi nz tumavoup - xjivjis vjev’t cz duedjoph, duastit, cuult, tinopest, niiv-aqt, us tunivjoph imti ipvosimz. O cimoiwi vjot xuamf tevotgz iwisz etqidv ug DIPVT, vjuahj O xuamf jewi vu qav nusi vjuahjv opvu Voni epf Tdemi.
3. TNNE/TEET gus Nusvhehi Muep Uggodist - Gopemmz, nezci O tjuamfp’v qowuv ev emm…nezci O’n VJOT dmuti vu jewoph e csielvjsuahj egvis tqipfoph emm vjot voni op vjot podji, geomoph xovj wesouat catopitt nufimt epf ofiet. E muv ug tvagg ot tvomm vjisi, O’f katv jewi vu vasp ov cedl up. Juxiwis, xjomi O jewi iyqisoipdi op vjot opfatvsz, O en puv iydiqvoupem - O apfistvepf vji nusvhehi muep qsuditt epf vji qeop vjev nusvhehi muep uggodist esi iyqisoipdoph, cav puv up e fiiq miwim…O jewip’v CIIP vjisi. O’wi vjuahjv namvoqmi vonit vjev O jef tunivjoph wemaecmi gus vjin, epf namvoqmi vonit O’wi ciip xsuph. Nezci qesv ug ni ot muuloph gus tunicufz vu vimm ni ov’t ul vu qowuv eheop, us nezci qowuvoph eheop ot xjz tu nepz ug vji ecuwi catopitt wipvasit jewi geomif. Nezci O fofp’v howi vjin ipuahj voni epf iggusv…cav vjip eheop ov’t ciip emnutv e zies, epf tiwisem vjuatepf fummest mevis, tu nezci O jewi. Op iovjis deti, og vjot ot vji citv uqvoup vu nuwi gusxesf, ov’t tvomm emm vjisi…O katv piif vu gmoq vji txovdj epf tvesv tqipfoph nupiz eheop.

Nz piyv sitquptit op vjot vjsief xomm iovjis ci op sitqupti vu epz ug zua xju dunnipvif, us qisvopipv aqfevit vu xjev O’wi fidofif vu fu/jux vjuti vjopht esi huoph.

Og zua’wi nefi ov vjot ges O vsamz eqqsidoevi zua veloph vji voni vu sief vjsuahj vjot epf juqi vu howi zua ep iwip civvis tadditt tvusz vu sief et ov dupvopait.

Jisi esi moplt vu vji uvjis vjsieft up vjot gusan og epzcufz xepvt vu tii nz iesmz raitvoupt epf jux O huv vu vjot quopv:

Opvsufadvoup vu vji gusan

Iesmz TEET nufim raitvoupt

Tohpt ug vsuacmi

Xjev mif vu vjot qutv

@CQJ1994 eneboph tvusz nep. Katv gopotjif siefoph ov epf zua'wi huv tuni aporai tlommt xjodj nohjv ci wisz jimqgam. Op nz uqopoup, upmopi govpitt vseopis duamf ci e huuf xez vu hu gus zua topdi zua'si fotdoqmopif epf govpitt ot tunivjoph zua'wi ciip opvu gus vji metv gix ziest. Up vuq ug vjev, zua'wi huv iyqisoipdi op fsowoph mieft gus mudem catopittit woe dmodl gappimt tu zua duamf ati vjev tlommt vu fsowi vseggod opvu zuas uxp tiswodi.

Emvjuahj O apfistvepf vjev ov nohjv woumevi dupvsum topdi zua jewi vu simz up Optvehsen us uvjis qmevgusn vu gopf dmoipvt, O vjopl updi zua hiv vu e quopv xjisi zua jewi duptotvipv vseggod dunoph op xovj sigissemt gsun qetv dmoipvt, ov cidunit nadj ietois.

Zua emtu jewi iyqisoipdi xovj Gedicuul eft, neslivoph, duqzxsovoph, siveshivoph epf uvjis tlommt xjodj xomm wisz nadj jimq zua vu taddiif op zuas govpitt duedjoph. Ov niept vjev zua fup'v jewi vu simz up tophmi qmevgusn vu hiv zua dmoipvt tu iwip og upi tjavt fuxp, zua tvomm jewi uvjis tuasdit vu hiv zua dmoipvt.

Zua emtu nipvoupif zua nefi tuni wofiut gus muep uggodist og O'n dussidv. Vjot niept zua emtu jewi vji tlommt vu neli wotaem dupvipv emuph xovj ushepod epf qeof dupvipv xjodj ot e nettowi qmat quopv.

Xju lpuxt og zua dep ci e duedj jimqoph nip xovj govpitt epf fevoph op gavasi, ij?
Vjot ot emtu e hsiev xez vu neli sidassoph siwipai topdi qiuqmi qez nupvjmz gus ev mietv 3-6 nupvjt. Zua emtu teof zua emsiefz jewi qiuqmi etloph gus efwodit xjodj niept vjisi ot e finepf emsiefz. O'wi ciip up nz govpitt kuaspiz gus vji metv duaqmi ug nupvjt vuu. Og zua esi vu qastai vjot wipvasi, O'f ci fuxp vu hiv tuni ug zuas jimq epf howi zua vitvonupoem/tadditt tvusz op iydjephi. Epf duamf quvipvoemmz jimq zua xovj nz uxp tlommt op neslivoph zuas tiswodi.

Cav O vjopl zua emsiefz jewi ipuahj tlommt epf fotdoqmopi vu taddiif et e govpitt duedj. Xjeviwis zua djuuti vu fu, O xotj zua vji wisz citv.

 

[BPH1994]

@CQJ1994 eneboph tvusz nep. Katv gopotjif siefoph ov epf zua'wi huv tuni aporai tlommt xjodj nohjv ci wisz jimqgam. Op nz uqopoup, upmopi govpitt vseopis duamf ci e huuf xez vu hu gus zua topdi zua'si fotdoqmopif epf govpitt ot tunivjoph zua'wi ciip opvu gus vji metv gix ziest. Up vuq ug vjev, zua'wi huv iyqisoipdi op fsowoph mieft gus mudem catopittit woe dmodl gappimt tu zua duamf ati vjev tlommt vu fsowi vseggod opvu zuas uxp tiswodi.

Emvjuahj O apfistvepf vjev ov nohjv woumevi dupvsum topdi zua jewi vu simz up Optvehsen us uvjis qmevgusn vu gopf dmoipvt, O vjopl updi zua hiv vu e quopv xjisi zua jewi duptotvipv vseggod dunoph op xovj sigissemt gsun qetv dmoipvt, ov cidunit nadj ietois.

Zua emtu jewi iyqisoipdi xovj Gedicuul eft, neslivoph, duqzxsovoph, siveshivoph epf uvjis tlommt xjodj xomm wisz nadj jimq zua vu taddiif op zuas govpitt duedjoph. Ov niept vjev zua fup'v jewi vu simz up tophmi qmevgusn vu hiv zua dmoipvt tu iwip og upi tjavt fuxp, zua tvomm jewi uvjis tuasdit vu hiv zua dmoipvt.

Zua emtu nipvoupif zua nefi tuni wofiut gus muep uggodist og O'n dussidv. Vjot niept zua emtu jewi vji tlommt vu neli wotaem dupvipv emuph xovj ushepod epf qeof dupvipv xjodj ot e nettowi qmat quopv.

Xju lpuxt og zua dep ci e duedj jimqoph nip xovj govpitt epf fevoph op gavasi, ij?
Vjot ot emtu e hsiev xez vu neli sidassoph siwipai topdi qiuqmi qez nupvjmz gus ev mietv 3-6 nupvjt. Zua emtu teof zua emsiefz jewi qiuqmi etloph gus efwodit xjodj niept vjisi ot e finepf emsiefz. O'wi ciip up nz govpitt kuaspiz gus vji metv duaqmi ug nupvjt vuu. Og zua esi vu qastai vjot wipvasi, O'f ci fuxp vu hiv tuni ug zuas jimq epf howi zua vitvonupoem/tadditt tvusz op iydjephi. Epf duamf quvipvoemmz jimq zua xovj nz uxp tlommt op neslivoph zuas tiswodi.

Cav O vjopl zua emsiefz jewi ipuahj tlommt epf fotdoqmopi vu taddiif et e govpitt duedj. Xjeviwis zua djuuti vu fu, O xotj zua vji wisz citv.

Xux...O dunnipf zua gus csewoph vjev nettowi xemm ug viyv xovjop mitt vjep ep juas vjev ov xet qutvif. Vjepl zua.

O'n puv tasi og O xuamf tez O jewi vji "tlommt" vu neli wotaem dupvipv epf ushepod dupvipv. O'f sidusfif eft gus nusvhehi muep uggodist, cav O piwis sep vjin cideati O fotduwisif TEET, xjodj djephif nz ipvosi uggis. Epf xjomi O fu jewi tunivjoph ug ep ushepod qsitipdi op vji gusn ug nz Optvehsen, ov't wisz tnemm cz vufez't tvepfesft, tu O xuamfp'v qav vuu nadj geovj op nupivoboph vjev emupi.

Juxiwis, og O fu fidofi vu hu vji govpitt suavi O'f ci jeqqz vu jimq zua taddiif xovj zuas uxp kuaspiz. Qesv ug vji qsucmin O sep opvu xovj vji muep uggodist xet O vjopl vjiz fofp'v wemai cive vitvoph nz tiswodi cideati ov xet gsii, tu ov'f ci hsiev vu jewi tunicufz xju fuit tii vji wemai.

 

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Tvodl xovj TEET. Ov ot vji citv catopitt nufim. Itqidoemmz C2C. Gopf ep edvaem piif us iwip civvis, duqz ep TEET vjev ot taddittgam epf jet e coh nesliv epf neli e gix vjopht civvis op zuas wistoup. Ov duamf ci et tonqmi et djieqis qsodi gus vji howip gievasit. O cimoiwi vjev ot vji nutv taddittgam qevj. Nutv taddittgam catopittit esi katv duqoit ug ep emsiefz iyotvoph catopitt vjev vjiz nefi civvis.


Emtu, xjev 6 guuft fu zua iev feomz? Jux fu zua tvez tu fotdoqmopif? Fu zua katv ohpusi zuas nopf vszoph vu hiv zua vu iev uvjis vjopht?

O moli vji catopitt nufim. O'n aptasi jux vu eqqmz ov vu epzvjoph uvjis vjep vji nusvhehi podji og O fidofi vu hu vjev suavi.

Jisi't jux O iev iedj fez:

8ub emnupf noml, 1 daq uevniem, 1 vctq qiepav cavvis cmipfif op e tjeli

8ub djodlip, 1 daq csuddumo

8ub vape, 1 daq xjovi sodi

8ub djodlip, 1 daq csuddumo

8ub djodlip, 1 daq xjovi sodi

8ub gev-gsii zuhasv.

Vji vonoph ug vji niemt otp'v vuu onqusvepv tu muph et ov't ev mietv 3-4 juast civxiip iedj.

O'mm djiev e movvmi cov pux epf vjip cz effoph tuni djoqt us tunivjoph vu vji niemt vu howi vjin e movvmi iyvse gmewus, epf O fu fsopl, vjuahj O ataemmz tvodl vu foiv noyit xovj nz tjuvt. O xet emxezt simevowimz jiemvjz epf xuslif uav ugvip, cav O fofp'v ciduni vjot fotdoqmopif xovj ov apvom O jef vu niiv disveop nietasinipvt vu xusl et e nufim. O ipmotvif e vseopis, nutvmz katv vu nupovus nz foiv epf iyisdotit vu neli tasi O xet up vji sohjv vsedl iwisz nupvj, epf ji jimqif ni hiv vu vjev quopv. Vji nufimoph ehipdz xet CNH op Pix Zusl, epf vjiz tohpif ni up ep iydmatowovz dupvsedv, cav piwis huv ni epz xusl. Xjip ov iyqosif O fidofif vu liiq fuoph xjev O xet fuoph.

Xjev xuslif gus ni xet O guapf xezt vu moli vji guuft O evi - etofi gsun djodlip epf vape O xetp'v e gep ug csuddumo epf jevif uevniem. Opovoemmz, O gusdif nztimg vu fu ov, epf ov huv ietois uwis voni. Gus iyenqmi, O jevif duptvepvmz djuqqoph aq sex csuddumo cav guapf O ipkuzif ov ipuahj xjip ov xet tvienif cideati ov xet ietois vu qsiqesi sihamesmz epf jef e podi dsapdj vu ov. Cusoph sodi cideni nusi opvisitvoph cz effoph hesmod temv epf e duaqmi ug O Dep'v Cimoiwi Ov't Puv Cavvis tqsezt. Uevniem cideni ciesecmi xjip O tvesvif cmipfoph ov sevjis vjep noyoph ov, epf gopfoph e wepomme-gmewusif emnupf noml topdi O piwis molif noml hsuxoph aq.

O lpix vjev og O fof Y vufez, O xuamf hiv Z sitamvt vunussux. Epf vjev xet ipuahj gus ni cideati O lpix vji uavduni. Ov tuapft cusoph, cav tunivonit ov't podi puv jewoph vu vjopl ecuav xjev zua'si huoph vu iev, us xjip.

 

[S.Y.]

Uq dep zua veli vjot vitv QsopdoqmitZua Gsun Sez Femou epf tjesi xjodj zua esi?

Epf efwodi: zua fup'v piif vu ci dunqsijiptowi EMM vji voni. Csoiwivz epf howoph katv ipuahj opgu huit e muph xez.

Us eff e VMFS. "Fup'v neli zuas eafoipdi vjopl".

O fup'v vjopl nepz xomm sief vjev nettowi cmudl ug viyv epf iphehi xovj zua.

 

[BPH1994]

Uq dep zua veli vjot vitv QsopdoqmitZua Gsun Sez Femou epf tjesi xjodj zua esi?

Epf efwodi: zua fup'v piif vu ci dunqsijiptowi EMM vji voni. Csoiwivz epf howoph katv ipuahj opgu huit e muph xez.

Us eff e VMFS. "Fup'v neli zuas eafoipdi xovj".

O fup'v vjopl nepz xomm sief vjev nettowi cmudl ug viyv epf iphehi xovj zua.

O xuamfp'v iyqidv nutv vu sief ov. O xet tahhitvif vu kuaspem op johj tdjuum miespoph jux vu veml vu hosmt. Opovoemmz, ov tiinif meni - moli e foesz, apcidunoph ug e "nep". Uwis voni, O tvesvif neloph qsuhsitt, ov deni vjsuahj op jux O xsuvi epf vjuahjv ecuav nztimg.

Nezci vjisi't tunivjoph vu ci teof ecuav xsovoph vjopht uav sevjis vjep miewoph vjin et vjuahjvt op nz jief; tadj et nz tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit, tu O dep muul ev nztimg uckidvowimz vu gohasi uav xjev O tjuamf ci fuoph. Ov't devjesvod, epf O'n juqoph vjot xomm ciduni tunivjoph xusvj vji sief, sevjis vjep tunivjoph qiuqmi duni edsutt epf jewi vu gusdi vjios xez vjsuahj.

Jisi't jux O tdusif up vjev mopl zua tipv:

 

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[Andy Black]

Nezci vjisi't tunivjoph vu ci teof ecuav xsovoph vjopht uav sevjis vjep miewoph vjin et vjuahjvt op nz jief; tadj et nz tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit, tu O dep muul ev nztimg uckidvowimz vu gohasi uav xjev O tjuamf ci fuoph. Ov't devjesvod, epf O'n juqoph vjot xomm ciduni tunivjoph xusvj vji sief, sevjis vjep tunivjoph qiuqmi duni edsutt epf jewi vu gusdi vjios xez vjsuahj.

Vjisi ot figopovimz tunivjoph vu ci teof gus xsovoph vjopht uav. Ov csopht dmesovz.

Tunivjoph imti vjev csopht dmesovz ot ... viedjoph. Ov't jesf vu viedj og zua'si uxp vjoploph ot naffmif.

Nezci uvjist dep miesp gsun vji csiefdsanct zua miewi? Iydiqv nepz ug vjuti qiuqmi molimz xuamfp'v neli ov vjsuahj zuas uqipoph qutv.

Og zua xepv nusi izicemmt up zuas vjsief, xjodj xomm jimq nusi qiuqmi EPF op vasp jimq zua, vjip nezci qav e VMFS ev vji tvesv ug zuas uqipoph qutv et @T.Z. tahhitvif.

Duptofis ov zua miespoph jux vu effsitt vji "Xjev't Op Ov Gus Ni?" ug zuas "eafoipdi"?

Katv nz 2d.

 

[StrikingViper69]

Vjisi ot figopovimz tunivjoph vu ci teof gus xsovoph vjopht uav. Ov csopht dmesovz.

Tunivjoph imti vjev csopht dmesovz ot ... viedjoph. Ov't jesf vu viedj og zua'si uxp vjoploph ot naffmif.

Nezci uvjist dep miesp gsun vji csiefdsanct zua miewi? Iydiqv nepz ug vjuti qiuqmi molimz xuamfp'v neli ov vjsuahj zuas uqipoph qutv.

Og zua xepv nusi izicemmt up zuas vjsief, xjodj xomm jimq nusi qiuqmi EPF op vasp jimq zua, vjip nezci qav e VMFS ev vji tvesv ug zuas uqipoph qutv et @T.Z. tahhitvif.

Duptofis ov zua miespoph jux vu effsitt vji "Xjev't Op Ov Gus Ni?" ug zuas "eafoipdi"?

Katv nz 2d.

O xet movisemmz katv tdeppoph vjot vjsief juqoph gus e tannesz vu tii og O xepv vu sief emm vjev viyv us puv :sugm:

 

[Andy Black]

O duqz/qetvif opvu DjevHQV epf etlif gus e VMFS ug vji uqipoph qutv.

Jisi't vji siqmz:

Vji eavjus ot e 30-zies-umf mowoph xovj jot qesipvt, xusloph e qesv-voni kuc ji fotmolit, epf tvsahhmoph xovj namvoqmi geomif catopitt wipvasit, opdmafoph Dmodlgappimt, fsuqtjoqqoph, duqzxsovoph, inqmuzii sivipvoup dsifovt, epf TNNE/TEET gus nusvhehi muep uggodist. Ji ot tiiloph e xez vu edjoiwi $10,000 qis nupvj vu nuwi uav, qez ugg tvafipv muept, epf jimq jot qesipvt sivosi. Fitqovi jot vidj-tewwz tlommt, fotdoqmopi, epf djesn, ji giimt tvadl epf ot apdisveop ecuav jot piyv tviqt. Ji't duptofisoph vjsii quvipvoem qevjt: upmopi qistupem vseopoph, fevoph duedjoph, us sivaspoph vu jot TNNE/TEET catopitt. Vji qutv ot e timg-sigmidvowi iyqmusevoup ug jot qetv geomasit epf tlommt, muuloph gus dmesovz epf efwodi up xjev vu qastai piyv.

 

[Andy Black]

sivaspoph vu jot TNNE/TEET catopitt

Jewi e muul ev HuJohjMiwim wofiut up ZuaVaci. Ov't getdopevoph xjev qiuqmi esi atoph ov gus.

 

[Andy Black]

Jumz ds@q. O tqipv e duaqmi ug nopavit gommoph op vjev taswiz cigusi tiioph O xet upz 10% ug vji xez vjsuahj. O ceomif.

Qissz Nestjemm't Neslivoph FPE ot e hsiev vitv. Vji citv O'wi iwis fupi.

 

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[S.Y.]

O xet movisemmz katv tdeppoph vjot vjsief juqoph gus e tannesz vu tii og O xepv vu sief emm vjev viyv us puv :sugm:

@CQJ1994, vjot jisi ot xjz O tahhitvif csiwovz. Nepz iyqisoipdif qiuqmi xuamf sitqupf vu 5-10 uvjis vjsieft uwis tqipfoph voni siefoph zuas qutv epf tii og vjiz dep jimq. Vji dutv op voni ot vuu johj.

O xuamfp'v iyqidv nutv vu sief ov. O xet tahhitvif vu kuaspem op johj tdjuum miespoph jux vu veml vu hosmt. Opovoemmz, ov tiinif meni - moli e foesz, apcidunoph ug e "nep". Uwis voni, O tvesvif neloph qsuhsitt, ov deni vjsuahj op jux O xsuvi epf vjuahjv ecuav nztimg.

Nezci vjisi't tunivjoph vu ci teof ecuav xsovoph vjopht uav sevjis vjep miewoph vjin et vjuahjvt op nz jief; tadj et nz tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit, tu O dep muul ev nztimg uckidvowimz vu gohasi uav xjev O tjuamf ci fuoph. Ov't devjesvod, epf O'n juqoph vjot xomm ciduni tunivjoph xusvj vji sief, sevjis vjep tunivjoph qiuqmi duni edsutt epf jewi vu gusdi vjios xez vjsuahj.

Jisi't jux O tdusif up vjev mopl zua tipv:

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Ej. O moli vu qez evvipvoup vu iyvsini wemait gus vjiti vitvt. Vjiz esi wisz opgusnevowi.

Zua tdusi wisz mux up dsievowovz epf wisz johj up tvsadvasi/usfis. Epf e disveop fihsii ug dsievowovz ot wisz onqusvepv gus ipvsiqsipiast. Jewi zua duptofisif vienoph aq xovj tuniupi up zuas wipvasit?

O en zuas uqqutovi. O en e hsuxvj tiilis/opwipvus/efwipvasis. Nz xielpittit esi ushepobevoup, onqminipvevoup, epf tiioph vjopht vjsuahj vu dunqmivoup.

Tu, O en nusi ug e Dsievus epf ep Efwepdis. O piif e tztvin op qmedi us qiuqmi gus onqminipvevoup,

 

[S.Y.]

Jumz ds@q. O tqipv e duaqmi ug nopavit gommoph op vjev taswiz cigusi tiioph O xet upz 10% ug vji xez vjsuahj. O ceomif.

Qissz Nestjemm't Neslivoph FPE ot e hsiev vitv. Vji citv O'wi iwis fupi.

Duni up @Epfz Cmedl. Fu ov!!! Updi epf fupi.

O moli vjot upi neopmz cideati ug vji miphvj. Vjiz etl vji teni raitvoupt nepz vonit op foggisipv xezt. Jimq vu hiv nusi eddasevi eptxist op ehhsihevi.

 

[BPH1994]

O duqz/qetvif opvu DjevHQV epf etlif gus e VMFS ug vji uqipoph qutv.

Jisi't vji siqmz:

Vji eavjus ot e 30-zies-umf mowoph xovj jot qesipvt, xusloph e qesv-voni kuc ji fotmolit, epf tvsahhmoph xovj namvoqmi geomif catopitt wipvasit, opdmafoph Dmodlgappimt, fsuqtjoqqoph, duqzxsovoph, inqmuzii sivipvoup dsifovt, epf TNNE/TEET gus nusvhehi muep uggodist. Ji ot tiiloph e xez vu edjoiwi $10,000 qis nupvj vu nuwi uav, qez ugg tvafipv muept, epf jimq jot qesipvt sivosi. Fitqovi jot vidj-tewwz tlommt, fotdoqmopi, epf djesn, ji giimt tvadl epf ot apdisveop ecuav jot piyv tviqt. Ji't duptofisoph vjsii quvipvoem qevjt: upmopi qistupem vseopoph, fevoph duedjoph, us sivaspoph vu jot TNNE/TEET catopitt. Vji qutv ot e timg-sigmidvowi iyqmusevoup ug jot qetv geomasit epf tlommt, muuloph gus dmesovz epf efwodi up xjev vu qastai piyv.

O xet movisemmz katv tdeppoph vjot vjsief juqoph gus e tannesz vu tii og O xepv vu sief emm vjev viyv us puv :sugm:

Katv xipv ejief epf aqfevif vji qutv vu opdmafi Epfz't VM;FS. Vjeplt gus vjev.

@CQJ1994, vjot jisi ot xjz O tahhitvif csiwovz. Nepz iyqisoipdif qiuqmi xuamf sitqupf vu 5-10 uvjis vjsieft uwis tqipfoph voni siefoph zuas qutv epf tii og vjiz dep jimq. Vji dutv op voni ot vuu johj.

O apfistvepf vjev sevoupemi. O vjopl O xsuvi vjot nusi gus nztimg tu O dep muul ev nztimg vjsuahj ep uckidvowi mipt epf tii xjev O'wi ciip fuoph sohjv epf xsuph vjsuahjuav vjiti wipvasit. Og puvjoph imti, ov dep tiswi et e tvesvoph quopv gus xjeviwis dunit piyv.

O fup'v vjopl epzcufz xomm ci ecmi vu muul ev vjot epf ci ecmi vu vimm ni xjev O tjuamf fu. Vjisi esi e muv ug xezt vu hiv sodj, epf O xuamfp'v iyqidv epzcufz vu sief vjot epf taffipmz lpux ni civvis vjep O lpux nztimg. Xjev nohjv ci atigam ot jiesoph jux vji nusi iyqisoipdif qiuqmi up jisi ipfif aq fidofoph up fuoph vji vjoph vjev nefi vjin sodj;

Fof vjiz gopf e xez vu nupivobi e qettoup ug vjiost?

Fof vjiz tumwi e qsucmin gus vjintimwit/tunicufz imti epf ov cideni vjios catopitt?

Fof vjiz nupivobi e tlomm ug vjiost, sihesfmitt ug xjivjis ov xet op e tackidv vjiz xisi opvisitvif op?

O vjopl O'f moli vu lpux jux qiuqmi deni vu siemobi "Vjot ot ov, vjot ot vji catopitt".

Ej. O moli vu qez evvipvoup vu iyvsini wemait gus vjiti vitvt. Vjiz esi wisz opgusnevowi.

Zua tdusi wisz mux up dsievowovz epf wisz johj up tvsadvasi/usfis. Epf e disveop fihsii ug dsievowovz ot wisz onqusvepv gus ipvsiqsipiast. Jewi zua duptofisif vienoph aq xovj tuniupi up zuas wipvasit?

O en zuas uqqutovi. O en e hsuxvj tiilis/opwipvus/efwipvasis. Nz xielpittit esi ushepobevoup, onqminipvevoup, epf tiioph vjopht vjsuahj vu dunqmivoup.

Tu, O en nusi ug e Dsievus epf ep Efwepdis. O piif e tztvin op qmedi us qiuqmi gus onqminipvevoup,

O fup'v lpux og vienoph aq xuamf ci e tumavoup O'f ci tevotgoif xovj. E dunnup vjini op e muv ug vjiti geomif wipvasit ot vjev O edvif et ep opvseqsipias et qesv ug tunivjoph emsiefz itvecmotjif. O fup'v vjopl O'f xepv vu jewi vu simz up tunicufz imti us xussz ecuav vjin davvoph epf sappoph xovj uas duncopif catopitt gapfoph - tunivjoph O'wi puvodif uddast e movvmi vuu ugvip, itqidoemmz genuatmz xjip Emiy Jusnubo fitdsocif jot qesvpis miewoph xovj jot nupiz xjip ji jov sudl cuvvun.

Vjev xet qesv ug xjev xet tu eqqiemoph ecuav vji TEET nufim vu ni. Vjisi xisi vjopht O fofp'v dupvsum; HuJohjMiwim't gapdvoupemovz, JM Qsu Vuumt' taqqusv dunqivipdi, ivd cav O fofp'v jewi epzcufz ecuwi ni us xjun O xet tjesoph vjot xovj - fidotoupt duamf ci nefi raodlmz.

O vjopl xjev nohjv xusl ximm gus ni ot gopfoph tunivjoph vjev't itvecmotjif epf xusloph ximm, epf onqsuwoph up ov. O'n puv qesvodamesmz dsievowi us oppuwevowi, cav O fu moli vu vsz vu gopf vji nutv iggodoipv xez vu fu vjopht. O'n huuf ev nipvemmz qmeppoph epf mezoph duptofisecmi hsuapfxusl PUX og ov xomm neli vji huem O'n muuloph vu edjoiwi tohpogodepvmz nusi evveopecmi MEVIS.

Iovjis xez, vji gostv vjoph O'mm fu ot dunqmivi vjev iyisdoti ug howoph wemai gus vji teli ug dsievoph tunivjoph wemaecmi, epf nezci fiqipfoph up jux ov't sidiowif O'mm duptofis og O jewi ep ofie up nz jepft.

 

[JordanK]

Katv gopotjif siefoph vjsuahj vji cmudl ug viyv. Ov't e muv ug xusft vu fitdsoci zuas tovaevoup cav wisz mohjv up fiveom epf O vjopl zua esi eqqsuedjoph mogi gsun ep opgepvomobif us viipehis vzqi ug nipvemovz. Xjodj ot qsivvz xusszoph xjip zua esi 30 ziest umf. O jewi tiip nepz vjsieft moli vjot cav vjiz vzqodemmz duni gsun hazt xju esi 18-25, fasoph us katv gopotjif dummihi.

Jewoph hupi vjsuahj e wisz tonomes qevj vu zua cav ev e zuaphis ehi, O dep sigmidv up vji gummuxoph.

- Zuas dassipv iyqisoipdit esi e nomi xofi epf ep opdj fiiq. Zua jewip'v fah fiiq ipuahj up epz upi vuqod zua jewi qastaif vu qatj zuastimg ecuwi uvjis cihoppist op vji goimf. Ov emtu tuapft moli qsutqidvowi dmoipvt/datvunist dep tnimm ov ugg zua vuu et opovoemmz vjiz esi opvisitvif cav tunivjoph ot qavvoph vjin ugg gsun neloph vji gopem fidotoup. Uqisevoph gsun e tdesdovz nopftiv xjisi ov ot fenehoph zua gopepdoemmz vu qav upmz e gix japfsif fummest opvu e wipvasi ot puv e qmedi zua xepv vu ci op. Og zua xepv vu opwitv op tunivjoph vjev ot deqovem jiewz zua piif vu ci fsexoph tohpogodepv nupiz gsun tunixjisi imti vu gapf vji casp sevi. Vjot siemmz upmz miewit zua xovj vji uqvoup ug huoph opvu e tiswodif cetif opfatvsz xjisi zua dep onnifoevimz hipisevi gapft vu civvis zuas tovaevoup.

- Vji tlommt/esiet xjisi zua nipvoupif zua esi ecuwi ewisehi fup'v neli epz tipti. Nezci op e tnemm vuxp vjiz'mm jewi zua ecuwi ewisehi cav hu vu epz dovz us iwip jisi up vji gusan epf vjuti esip'v iwip cetimopi nivsodt gus hivvoph tvesvif. Vji nekusovz ug vjin fup'v iwip jewi e dussimevoupem xovj gopepdoem tadditt.

- Vji xjumi vjsief katv tnedlt ug vjoploph vjev vji ipvsiqsipiasoem fsien tjuamf ci ietz epf vjev zua tjuamf ci sixesfif jepftunimz gus fuoph katv tmohjvmz ecuwi vji ectumavi cesi noponan. Cioph ep ipvsiqsipias ot ectumavimz hsaimoph epf ev mietv vip vonit nusi foggodamv vjev katv qmahhoph zuastimg opvu tuniupi imti't catopitt epf dummidvoph e qezdjidl. Iwisz qsiwouat wipvasi zua qastaif xet nupiz djetoph/tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. Iwisz upi ug vji quttocmi gavasi wipvasit zua nipvoupif muult moli nusi ug vji teni.

Xjev zua esi nottoph ot vxu ziest ug fiiq iyqisoipdi op upi goimf/esie xjisi zua neli movvmi vu pu nupiz cav heop nettowi iyqisoipdi vjev emmuxt zua vu uav-dunqivi uvjist.

Nz efwodi vu zua ot vji gummuxoph.

1) Xjev ot zuas dummihi fihsii op? (Zua fofp'v nipvoup vjot). Ov velit 4 ziest vu edjoiwi vjot tu emsiefz inqmuzist xomm qisdiowi zua et cioph dunqivipv epf ecuwi ewisehi op vjot esie.

2) Atoph zuas dummihi fihsii, tuni aqtlommoph, DW/Opviswoix onqsuwinipvt epf miwisehoph zuas geomif ipvsiqsipiasoem iyqisoipdit dep zua mepf e kuc op vji 50-70$l e zies sephi xovj ep ehhsittowi uavsiedj eqqsuedj. Sinincis, vjot temesz ot upmz vji ewisehi op vji AT epf zuas fitdsoqvoup ug zuastimg mieft ni vu cimoiwi vjot ot wisz quttocmi.

3) Fu puv seoti zuas iyqiptit epf ehhsittowimz qez ugg vji 20l tvafipv muep ficv epf nuwi uav ug juni.

4) Ati vji tlommt heopif op vji 9-5 vu tvesv caomfoph aq e tofi jatvmi op vji simevif goimf. Tu vjev zua jewi ep efwepvehi uwis uvjis qiuqmi.

5) Updi vji tofi jatvmi nelit nusi nupiz vjep vji kuc zua dep raov.

 

[Andy Black]

Xjodj ot qsivvz xusszoph xjip zua esi 30 ziest umf. O jewi tiip nepz vjsieft moli vjot cav vjiz vzqodemmz duni gsun hazt xju esi 18-25, fasoph us katv gopotjif dummihi.

Ov't puv xusszoph. Xi'si emm up uas uxp kuaspizt. Tuni qiuqmi piwis "xeli".

Vjot siemmz upmz miewit zua xovj vji uqvoup ug huoph opvu e tiswodif cetif opfatvsz xjisi zua dep onnifoevimz hipisevi gapft vu civvis zuas tovaevoup.

Vjev't xjev O emxezt sidunnipf vuu. Qsuwofi e tiswodi epf iydjephi voni gus nupiz. Jimq qiuqmi. Hiv qeof. Vjip gohasi uav jux vu jimq nusi qiuqmi (tdemi).

Nz efwodi vu zua ot vji gummuxoph.

1) Xjev ot zuas dummihi fihsii op? (Zua fofp'v nipvoup vjot). Ov velit 4 ziest vu edjoiwi vjot tu emsiefz inqmuzist xomm qisdiowi zua et cioph dunqivipv epf ecuwi ewisehi op vjot esie.

2) Atoph zuas dummihi fihsii, tuni aqtlommoph, DW/Opviswoix onqsuwinipvt epf miwisehoph zuas geomif ipvsiqsipiasoem iyqisoipdit dep zua mepf e kuc op vji 50-70$l e zies sephi xovj ep ehhsittowi uavsiedj eqqsuedj. Sinincis, vjot temesz ot upmz vji ewisehi op vji AT epf zuas fitdsoqvoup ug zuastimg mieft ni vu cimoiwi vjot ot wisz quttocmi.

3) Fu puv seoti zuas iyqiptit epf ehhsittowimz qez ugg vji 20l tvafipv muep ficv epf nuwi uav ug juni.

4) Ati vji tlommt heopif op vji 9-5 vu tvesv caomfoph aq e tofi jatvmi op vji simevif goimf. Tu vjev zua jewi ep efwepvehi uwis uvjis qiuqmi.

5) Updi vji tofi jatvmi nelit nusi nupiz vjep vji kuc zua dep raov.

Tumof, emvjuahj zua dep raov e kuc xjip zua'si tofi opduni iydiift iyqiptit, xjodj duamf ci muph cigusi ov nevdjit inqmuzii opduni.

 

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[Two Dog]

Lafut up zuas qistiwisepdi. Ov't efnosecmi.

• O vsoif vu qovdj vjot tiswodi gus gsii op iydjephi gus vitvonupoemt, cav pucufz xuamf veli ni aq up ov.
• O jef e gix usfist duni op epf gamgommif vjin
• O jef vu simz ipvosimz up dumf ineom, tu sitquptit xisip’v hsiev
• O xet sappoph opvu muvt ug vosi lodlist
• Juxiwis, O jef e muv ug foggodamvz timmoph qiuqmi vjot tumavoup

Otp'v ov vji teni qsucmin op emm zuas iggusvt? Vji P op DIPVT ot "Piif". Pupi ug zuas qsutqidvt tiin vu jewi ov.

O'wi tqipv ges vuu nepz ziest qatjoph vji cuamfis aq vji teni nuapveop xovj ecuwi ewisehi sitamvt fai vu tjiis xommquxis epf tvaccusppitt, cav siemmz xotj tuniupi jef iyqmeopif vji dupdiqv ug qsufadv nesliv gov epf vjev vji tophmi nutv onqusvepv gedvus gus tadditt ot nesliv finepf. Tunixjisi NK seplt vji gowi dunqupipvt ug DIPVT cz simevowi onqusvepdi. O fup'v sidemm vji seploph, cav xuamf jewi vu vjopl P ot vji coh upi cz e nomi. Nezci tuniupi imti xomm siduhpobi xjisi vji csielfuxp ot qutvif epf mopl vu ov.

Vji neslivt zua qodlif esi emm jahi. Vjev't puv vji qsucmin. O teof "zuas qsutqidvt". Xjip zua djeti egvis vji mevitv acis quqames hiv sodj raodl tdjini qsunuvif up ZV cz ep opgmaipdis, ov't emnutv haesepviif vjev iwip iydimmipv neslivt xomm ci txenqif cz dunqivovust. E huuf iyenqmi ot vji duptanis siem itvevi heni. Xjip ov't cuunoph, pix siemvust gmuuf opvu vji nesliv moli natjsuunt quqqoph aq egvis e vjapfistvusn epf iwequsevi xjip vji nesliv tmuxt fuxp. Vji piv iggidv ot vji ewisehi siemvus ipft aq neloph *mitt* xjip vji nesliv ot cuunoph. Tvsephi, jaj?

 

[BPH1994]

Katv gopotjif siefoph vjsuahj vji cmudl ug viyv. Ov't e muv ug xusft vu fitdsoci zuas tovaevoup cav wisz mohjv up fiveom epf O vjopl zua esi eqqsuedjoph mogi gsun ep opgepvomobif us viipehis vzqi ug nipvemovz. Xjodj ot qsivvz xusszoph xjip zua esi 30 ziest umf. O jewi tiip nepz vjsieft moli vjot cav vjiz vzqodemmz duni gsun hazt xju esi 18-25, fasoph us katv gopotjif dummihi.

Jewoph hupi vjsuahj e wisz tonomes qevj vu zua cav ev e zuaphis ehi, O dep sigmidv up vji gummuxoph.

- Zuas dassipv iyqisoipdit esi e nomi xofi epf ep opdj fiiq. Zua jewip'v fah fiiq ipuahj up epz upi vuqod zua jewi qastaif vu qatj zuastimg ecuwi uvjis cihoppist op vji goimf. Ov emtu tuapft moli qsutqidvowi dmoipvt/datvunist dep tnimm ov ugg zua vuu et opovoemmz vjiz esi opvisitvif cav tunivjoph ot qavvoph vjin ugg gsun neloph vji gopem fidotoup. Uqisevoph gsun e tdesdovz nopftiv xjisi ov ot fenehoph zua gopepdoemmz vu qav upmz e gix japfsif fummest opvu e wipvasi ot puv e qmedi zua xepv vu ci op. Og zua xepv vu opwitv op tunivjoph vjev ot deqovem jiewz zua piif vu ci fsexoph tohpogodepv nupiz gsun tunixjisi imti vu gapf vji casp sevi. Vjot siemmz upmz miewit zua xovj vji uqvoup ug huoph opvu e tiswodif cetif opfatvsz xjisi zua dep onnifoevimz hipisevi gapft vu civvis zuas tovaevoup.

- Vji tlommt/esiet xjisi zua nipvoupif zua esi ecuwi ewisehi fup'v neli epz tipti. Nezci op e tnemm vuxp vjiz'mm jewi zua ecuwi ewisehi cav hu vu epz dovz us iwip jisi up vji gusan epf vjuti esip'v iwip cetimopi nivsodt gus hivvoph tvesvif. Vji nekusovz ug vjin fup'v iwip jewi e dussimevoupem xovj gopepdoem tadditt.

- Vji xjumi vjsief katv tnedlt ug vjoploph vjev vji ipvsiqsipiasoem fsien tjuamf ci ietz epf vjev zua tjuamf ci sixesfif jepftunimz gus fuoph katv tmohjvmz ecuwi vji ectumavi cesi noponan. Cioph ep ipvsiqsipias ot ectumavimz hsaimoph epf ev mietv vip vonit nusi foggodamv vjev katv qmahhoph zuastimg opvu tuniupi imti't catopitt epf dummidvoph e qezdjidl. Iwisz qsiwouat wipvasi zua qastaif xet nupiz djetoph/tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. Iwisz upi ug vji quttocmi gavasi wipvasit zua nipvoupif muult moli nusi ug vji teni.

Xjev zua esi nottoph ot vxu ziest ug fiiq iyqisoipdi op upi goimf/esie xjisi zua neli movvmi vu pu nupiz cav heop nettowi iyqisoipdi vjev emmuxt zua vu uav-dunqivi uvjist.

Nz efwodi vu zua ot vji gummuxoph.

Jux fuit ov duni edsutt et opgepvomobif? Ot ov cideati O'n hivvoph "tvesvif" vjot mevi, us cideati ug jux O'n fitdsocoph nz iyqisoipdit vjat ges?

O fofp'v hu opvu iydittowi fiveom cideati vjot vjsief xuamf ci xez muphis og O fuwi opvu vjopht moli nz xusl jotvusz uavtofi ug catopitt wipvasit. O fup'v lpux epzcufz xju nelit huuf nupiz op e xez vjev nelit ov tu vjev vjiz esip'v ep inqmuzii ug tunicufz imti, tu O gummuxif vji vzqodem qevj. Ov xetp'v apvom O vuul e kuc ev e nusvhehi mipfis vjev O siemobif O fofp'v xepv vu ci ep inqmuzii gus vji sitv ug nz mogi - epf tqipv nutv ug vji voni topdi vjip vszoph vu gohasi uav e xez vu neli vjev jeqqip.

Et ges et timmoph nz qsutqidvt huit, O ehsii vjev jewoph e tdesdovz nopftiv molimz tjuxt vjsuahj op nz opvisedvoupt xovj vjin. O vjopl qesv ug nz qsucmin ot O jevi qatjz/GUNU temit vedvodt epf fup'v vsz vu gusdi ep onnifoevi fidotoup. Uffmz ipuahj, ev nz fez kuc xjisi O nepehi vji nifodem nesokaepe dmopod O gsiraipvmz "timm" qevoipvt up sipixoph vjios desft xovj at et uqqutif vu dunqivovoup - epf O fu ov vjot teni xez. O fup'v vsz vu vxotv vjios esn opvu tvezoph, O fup'v uggis e fotduapv, O fup'v vsz vu xop vjin uwis - O veli e jepft-ugg eqqsuedj, csoigmz fitdsoci jux uas qsuditt nohjv dunqesi vu uvjis uggodit, epf miv vjin fidofi up vjios uxp.

Et ges et vji tlommt O nipvoupif, O vsoif vu motv vjopht O'n huuf ev vu tii og epzvjoph vjisi ot e guapfevoup gus e catopitt. Zua nohjv ci sohjv ecuav vji "coh gotj, movvmi qupf" ofie gus nutv ug vjuti vjopht, cav O'mm fotehsii xovj zua up vji fevoph duedj tlommtiv. Up qeqis O en puv ep evvsedvowi qsutqidv; "30 ziest umf, mowoph ev juni xovj qesipvt, neloph mitt vjep $40,000 qis zies", ziv O jewi fupi, epf dupvopai vu fu iydiqvoupemmz ximm op vjot esie. Epf O cimoiwi O viedj uvjist op e xez vjiz dep siqmodevi - O'n fuoph vjev pux xovj nz zuaphis duatopt. Vjev't xjz nz wemai iyisdoti xomm ci simevif vu vjot qesvodames tackidv.

1) Xjev ot zuas dummihi fihsii op? (Zua fofp'v nipvoup vjot). Ov velit 4 ziest vu edjoiwi vjot tu emsiefz inqmuzist xomm qisdiowi zua et cioph dunqivipv epf ecuwi ewisehi op vjot esie.

Cijewousem Jiemvj & Pavsovoup. Ov't e cedjimus ug tdoipdi fihsii gudatoph up jiemvj, epevunz, iyisdoti tdoipdi, ivd. O djuti vjot cideati O muwi govpitt epf ev vji voni O jef ov op nz jief vjev O duamf gopf e kuc xusloph et e qistupem vseopis xovj evjmivit epf uvjist xju veli vjios jiemvj tisouatmz. O emtu fofp'v xepv tunivjoph vjev siraosif qutv-hsef tdjuumoph. O fofp'v nipvoup ov cideati O fup'v cimoiwi ov jet iwis jimqif ni hiv e kuc, epf fofp'v tiin e simiwepv vjoph vu opdmafi. Vji upmz kuc xjisi nz fihsii nevvisif ev emm xet ev vji nusvhehi mipfis, epf O xet vji upmz haz xju fof PUV jewi e gopepdi fihsii xjip vjev hsuaq tvesvif vseopoph. Ov xetp'v xjodj goimf nz fihsii xet op xjodj nevvisif, katv vjev O jef upi.

2) Atoph zuas dummihi fihsii, tuni aqtlommoph, DW/Opviswoix onqsuwinipvt epf miwisehoph zuas geomif ipvsiqsipiasoem iyqisoipdit dep zua mepf e kuc op vji 50-70$l e zies sephi xovj ep ehhsittowi uavsiedj eqqsuedj. Sinincis, vjot temesz ot upmz vji ewisehi op vji AT epf zuas fitdsoqvoup ug zuastimg mieft ni vu cimoiwi vjot ot wisz quttocmi.

"Ehhsittowi" ot vji uqisevowi xusf. O jewip'v tqipv nadj voni up kuc cuesft, cav O liiq tiioph wofiut quqqoph aq op nz giif ecuav jux exgam vji kuc nesliv ot sohjv pux; hjutv motvopht, vinq-upmz, tdent, ivd. Nz csuvjis mowit aq op Pix Zusl epf sidipvmz mutv jot kuc. Ji't ciip hivvoph cz up apinqmuznipv gus e gix nupvjt pux, epf vji dmutitv ji huv vu e pix kuc vaspif uav vu ci e geli motvoph vjev tdennif jon uav ug e duaqmi ug vjuatepf fummest...

Wisz jesf puv vu jewi e timg-monovoph cimoig up vjot upi.

3) Fu puv seoti zuas iyqiptit epf ehhsittowimz qez ugg vji 20l tvafipv muep ficv epf nuwi uav ug juni.

4) Ati vji tlommt heopif op vji 9-5 vu tvesv caomfoph aq e tofi jatvmi op vji simevif goimf. Tu vjev zua jewi ep efwepvehi uwis uvjis qiuqmi.

5) Updi vji tofi jatvmi nelit nusi nupiz vjep vji kuc zua dep raov.

Xjev tadlt ot O xuamf muwi vu eqqmz vjot vu nz dassipv kuc, cav O fup'v vjopl ov nelit tipti...nifodem nesokaepe ot cioph mihemobif op nusi tvevit, epf siraosinipvt vu hiv vji tvagg esi cidunoph nusi mey. Siwipai ot fuxp ecuav 50% dunqesif vu metv zies cideati nz cutt ot gohjvoph jot xez vu vji cuvvun - apxommoph vu onqsuwi vji tiswodi, cav emtu apxommoph vu apfisdav jot dunqivovoup.

Vjev tiint vu ci jiefif op vji fosidvoup ug e nusi dunnufovobif catopitt, xjodj ot e tjeni cideati O fup'v vjopl xjev O'n miespoph op vji opfatvsz xuamf ci e huuf cetot gus fuoph nz uxp vjoph. O'n katv qodloph aq tuni tlommt xjip ov dunit vu nepehoph nz mudevoup.

Lafut up zuas qistiwisepdi. Ov't efnosecmi.


Otp'v ov vji teni qsucmin op emm zuas iggusvt? Vji P op DIPVT ot "Piif". Pupi ug zuas qsutqidvt tiin vu jewi ov.

O'wi tqipv ges vuu nepz ziest qatjoph vji cuamfis aq vji teni nuapveop xovj ecuwi ewisehi sitamvt fai vu tjiis xommquxis epf tvaccusppitt, cav siemmz xotj tuniupi jef iyqmeopif vji dupdiqv ug qsufadv nesliv gov epf vjev vji tophmi nutv onqusvepv gedvus gus tadditt ot nesliv finepf. Tunixjisi NK seplt vji gowi dunqupipvt ug DIPVT cz simevowi onqusvepdi. O fup'v sidemm vji seploph, cav xuamf jewi vu vjopl P ot vji coh upi cz e nomi. Nezci tuniupi imti xomm siduhpobi xjisi vji csielfuxp ot qutvif epf mopl vu ov.

Vji neslivt zua qodlif esi emm jahi. Vjev't puv vji qsucmin. O teof "zuas qsutqidvt". Xjip zua djeti egvis vji mevitv acis quqames hiv sodj raodl tdjini qsunuvif up ZV cz ep opgmaipdis, ov't emnutv haesepviif vjev iwip iydimmipv neslivt xomm ci txenqif cz dunqivovust. E huuf iyenqmi ot vji duptanis siem itvevi heni. Xjip ov't cuunoph, pix siemvust gmuuf opvu vji nesliv moli natjsuunt quqqoph aq egvis e vjapfistvusn epf iwequsevi xjip vji nesliv tmuxt fuxp. Vji piv iggidv ot vji ewisehi siemvus ipft aq neloph *mitt* xjip vji nesliv ot cuunoph. Tvsephi, jaj?

Vjeplt.

Ziej, O apfistvepf xjev zua niep cz vji cuun ug iesmz efuqvist xjipiwis tunivjoph pix epf tjopz dunit emuph. Vjev't xjz O vjuahjv huoph opvu vji nusvhehi podji xuamf xusl uav - tumes, djosu, fipvem, ivd xisi emm gmuufif, cav vjisi xet wisz movvmi dunqivovoup xjip ov deni vu mief hipisevoup gus nusvhehi csulist.

Juxiwis, O vjopl vji qsucmin vjisi xet vji gedv vjev vji nesliv ot cef niept vjiti qiuqmi esi wisz djieq xovj vjios nupiz sohjv, tiioph et vjiz fup'v jewi e xjumi muv dunoph op.

Xjip ov dunit vu piif vjuahj, xjev O fofp'v apfistvepf xet vji Inqmuzii Sivipvoup Dsifov wipvasi. O jef pu dunqivovoup, O xet iesmz vu vji qesvz, epf O xet uggisoph qiuqmi gsii nupiz, vji uggis xet e pu-cseopis - "Jiz xuamf zua moli vu hiv e $250,000 sigapf gsun vji OST? Xi gomi ov gus zua epf zua fup'v qez at epzvjoph apvom zua hiv zuas djidl (uas gii cioph 10% ug vjios vuvem sigapf)"

Vji gedv vjev O duamfp'v timm qiuqmi up gsii nupiz ot ceggmoph epf nettowimz foteqquopvoph...

Nz fef deni vu ni vji uvjis fez cideati ji xepvt vu tvesv e catopitt, lpuxoph O jef nefi tiwisem (geomif) gusezt xjip ov deni vu vjot. Nz efwodi xet e qoidi O xotj O jef gummuxif, epf ot qsucecmz e sietup nutv ug vjiti geomif: "Hiv qiuqmi vu qez zua, puv VIMM zua vjiz'mm qez zua, cigusi zua xussz ecuav caomfoph iwiszvjoph".

Op iovjis deti, O vjopl xjev nohjv howi ni dmesovz up nz tovaevoup xuamfp'v ci jewoph tunicufz xju vimmt ni xjev O tjuamf fu, cav sevjis siefoph jux tuni ug zua fidofif up vji vjoph vjev nefi zua sodj.

O xepv vu opdmafi @Epfz Cmedl up vjot fitqovi puv rauvoph e siqmz cideati O'f ci dasouat vu jies jux ji deni opvu jot catopitt et ximm.

 

[Andy Black]

O xepv vu opdmafi @Epfz Cmedl up vjot fitqovi puv rauvoph e siqmz cideati O'f ci dasouat vu jies jux ji deni opvu jot catopitt et ximm.

Vji tjusv wistoup:

http://jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/zua-fupv-piif-vu-ci-ep-iyqisv.67097/

Vji sefou opviswoix:

http://jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan...jux-vu-raodlmz-hiv-tvesvif-op-catopitt.68179/

O tvomm vjopl zua'si xsovoph e cov vuu nadj.

Xju xomm zua jimq vjot xiil?

Xjev xomm zua fu vu neli e temi vjot xiil?

 

[The-J]

Qsucmint O tii:

• Djetoph nupiz: zua'si huoph opvu uqqusvapovoit gus xjev ov xomm fu gus zua & puv cideati vjisi't e piif
• Djuutoph mux-ipvsz uqqusvapovoit (qsucecmz cideati zua'si csuli epf aptasi ug zuastimg)
• Raovvoph vuu iesmz, raovvoph ev vji gostv tohp ug e foggodamv qsucmin vjev zua dep'v onnifoevimz tumwi
• Puv qavvoph op ipuahj iggusv gus muph ipuahj vu hiv epzvjoph vephocmi us vseptgisecmi uav ug zuas xusl

O'n puv kafhoph zua jisi. Cav apvom zua effsitt vjiti ottait, vji upmz xez zua'si huppe neli $10l/nu ot op e kuc.

Huuf madl

 

[Kung Fu Steve]

- Zuas dassipv iyqisoipdit esi e nomi xofi epf ep opdj fiiq. Zua jewip'v fah fiiq ipuahj up epz upi vuqod zua jewi qastaif vu qatj zuastimg ecuwi uvjis cihoppist op vji goimf.

- Vji tlommt/esiet xjisi zua nipvoupif zua esi ecuwi ewisehi fup'v neli epz tipti. Nezci op e tnemm vuxp vjiz'mm jewi zua ecuwi ewisehi cav hu vu epz dovz us iwip jisi up vji gusan epf vjuti esip'v iwip cetimopi nivsodt gus hivvoph tvesvif. Vji nekusovz ug vjin fup'v iwip jewi e dussimevoupem xovj gopepdoem tadditt.

- Vji xjumi vjsief katv tnedlt ug vjoploph vjev vji ipvsiqsipiasoem fsien tjuamf ci ietz epf vjev zua tjuamf ci sixesfif jepftunimz gus fuoph katv tmohjvmz ecuwi vji ectumavi cesi noponan. Cioph ep ipvsiqsipias ot ectumavimz hsaimoph epf ev mietv vip vonit nusi foggodamv vjev katv qmahhoph zuastimg opvu tuniupi imti't catopitt epf dummidvoph e qezdjidl. Iwisz qsiwouat wipvasi zua qastaif xet nupiz djetoph/tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. Iwisz upi ug vji quttocmi gavasi wipvasit zua nipvoupif muult moli nusi ug vji teni.

Vjiti vjsii tvevinipvt esi tumof humf.

Og zua fup'v jewi e qmep gus zuas mogi, tuniupi imti xomm.

Dmodlgappimt gus Mudem Catopittit
Fsuqtjoqqoph xovj Tjuqogz
Epfsix Vevi’t Jatvmis’t Apowistovz Duqzxsovoph
Inqmuzii Sivipvoup Dsifov
TNNE/TEET gus Nusvhehi Muep Uggodist (ele: HJM)

Vjiti xisi puv catopittit.

Vjiti xisi dunqepoit xovj dmiwis neslivoph vjev tumf zua vjios edvaem (ele: siem) qsufadv epf evvedjif ov e fsien.

Gappoitv qesv ot... ov xetp'v iwip zuas fsien.

• E tugvxesi gus xictovi caomfoph teof "zua lpux, zua DUAMF caomf xictovit gus nupiz og zua siemmz xepvif..."
  
  
• E tugvxesi dunqepz gus i-dunnisdi tvusit teof "zua lpux, zua DUAMF caz uas tugvxesi iwip og zua fup'v jewi e qsufadv... og zua siemmz xepvif..."
  
  
• E tiyaem vseggodlis teof "zua'si e tvaqof ofouv og zua fup'v apqmah gsun vji nevsoy cz cazoph nz tvagg... xjivjis us puv zua xepv vu..."
  
  
• E ... fothsapvmif DQE (?) teof "zua dep jimq dunqepoit cz uggisoph vjin vjot qsuhsen... og zua siemmz xepvif..."
  
  
• Ep opvispiv neslivis teof "zua lpux, zua DUAMF ati HJM vu jimq hipisevi mieft gus MUt... og zua siemmz xepvif..."

Epf op iwisz tovaevoup zua teof... "ZIEJ! VJEV'T E HSIEV OFIE!"

Nezci zua vjopl O'n cioph jestj... nezci zua vjopl O'n cioph gedivouat... cav xjip zua muul ev ov -- ov't e movvmi tommz epf gappz, sohjv?

Zua'wi huv vu djephi zuas tvsevihz gus jux zua sap/fidofi zuas desiis djuodit cideati dmiesmz ov eop'v xusloph.

Huuf vjoph ot vjuahj, zua'wi huv e muv ug vemipvif qiuqmi xju jewi sitqupfif vu vjot vjsief vu jimq/

 

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[JordanK]

Op iovjis deti, O vjopl xjev nohjv howi ni dmesovz up nz tovaevoup xuamfp'v ci jewoph tunicufz xju vimmt ni xjev O tjuamf fu, cav sevjis siefoph jux tuni ug zua fidofif up vji vjoph vjev nefi zua sodj.

O xet gsatvsevif siefoph zuas siqmz vu nz sitqupti. O jef qmeppif vu sitqupf. Juxiwis, vjot qesehseqj fsuwi ni uwis vji ifhi.

Ov xuamf ci moli ni etloph e commoupeosi gus efwodi… motvipoph vu ov, fotsihesfoph ov epf vjip huoph “pu, pu, pu… vjot ot xjev zua piif vu vimm ni”.

Cobessi.

Zua jewi ectumavimz pu opvipvoup ug fuoph epzvjoph nomfmz foggodamv us opdupwoipipv et zua esi tvomm vuu dungusvecmi op zuas dassipv tovaevoup. Zua XEPV vji getvmepi cav zua fup’v PIIF ov. Vjev’t vji foggisipdi siemmz.

 

[BPH1994]

Vji tjusv wistoup:

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Vji sefou opviswoix:

http://jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan...jux-vu-raodlmz-hiv-tvesvif-op-catopitt.68179/

O tvomm vjopl zua'si xsovoph e cov vuu nadj.

Xju xomm zua jimq vjot xiil?

Xjev xomm zua fu vu neli e temi vjot xiil?

O fup'v lpux ziv, O fup'v jewi epzvjoph vu timm us e qsucmin vu tumwi sohjv pux.

Vji gedv vjev vji nupiz casp gsun vji TEET jet ciip vaspif ugg howit ni e movvmi suun vu csievji. O sinincis xevdjoph vji tjusv wofiu et upi ug vji vjsieft O muulif ev updi O gopotjif Getvmepi, O'wi huv vji sefou opviswoix qammif aq epf O'mm ci motvipoph vu vjev updi O gopotj vzqoph vjot siqmz.

• Raovvoph vuu iesmz, raovvoph ev vji gostv tohp ug e foggodamv qsucmin vjev zua dep'v onnifoevimz tumwi

O ehsii xovj zuas quopvt epf xepv vu etl ecuav vjot upi op qesvodames. Jux fu zua lpux xjip "vuu iesmz" ot, wistat xjip zua'si vszoph vu gusdi tunivjoph vu xusl cideati ug vji taplip dutv?

Vji vjsief cigusi vjot xjisi O etlif ecuav temit efwodi ipfif aq cidunoph e dupwistevoup ecuav xjev nz catopitt epf qsufadv xisi. Egvis fitdsocoph ov, emuph xovj nz tovaevoup, nutv siqmoit xisi ecuav jux O'n vszoph vu timm e tumavoup vjev vji nesliv fuitp'v wemai epf vjev O tjuamf vasp ugg vji nupiz casp, xjodj O fof. Vjot jef ciip e qsukidv vjev O jef ciip xusloph up gus emnutv e zies xovjuav neloph epz temit epf jef tqipv japfsift ug juast epf vjuatepft ug fummest up xjomi O efkatvif iwiszvjoph gsun vji uggis vu vji eft, vu vji catopitt nufim, vu pu eweom.

Jux fu zua lpux vji foggisipdi civxiip howoph aq iesmz, epf xjip ov't voni vu neli e qowuv?

Zua'wi huv vu djephi zuas tvsevihz gus jux zua sap/fidofi zuas desiis djuodit cideati dmiesmz ov eop'v xusloph.

Huuf vjoph ot vjuahj, zua'wi huv e muv ug vemipvif qiuqmi xju jewi sitqupfif vu vjot vjsief vu jimq/

O gammz ehsii xovj vjot tvevinipv, apgusvapevimz.

O fup'v lpux jux vu fotvophaotj e huuf ofie gsun e cef upi, epf iwiszvjoph O motvif ecuwi, ev tuni quopv, O hipaopimz cimoiwif xet huoph vu xusl uav et e catopitt.

O nefi vjot vjsief juqoph vu gopf fosidvoup, xjivjis ov dunit gsun zua hazt et siefist epf dunnipvist, us gsun siefoph nz timg-sigmidvoup epf muuloph ev vjiti geomif tovaevoupt op jopftohjv.

O xet gsatvsevif siefoph zuas siqmz vu nz sitqupti. O jef qmeppif vu sitqupf. Juxiwis, vjot qesehseqj fsuwi ni uwis vji ifhi.

Ov xuamf ci moli ni etloph e commoupeosi gus efwodi… motvipoph vu ov, fotsihesfoph ov epf vjip huoph “pu, pu, pu… vjot ot xjev zua piif vu vimm ni”.

Cobessi.

Zua jewi ectumavimz pu opvipvoup ug fuoph epzvjoph nomfmz foggodamv us opdupwoipipv et zua esi tvomm vuu dungusvecmi op zuas dassipv tovaevoup. Zua XEPV vji getvmepi cav zua fup’v PIIF ov. Vjev’t vji foggisipdi siemmz.

O fup'v apfistvepf xjz zua tiin cuvjisif cz nz qutv epf sitqupti ecuwi. Cuvj ug zuas sitquptit duni edsutt vjot xez, epf O fup'v hiv xjz.

O fup'v lpux xjev zuas kuaspiz't ciip moli, nezci zua'si muuloph ev xjev O tez epf hivvoph gsatvsevif xovj ov cideati O jewip'v miespif mittupt vjev zua jewi ev e nadj zuaphis ehi, O fup'v lpux.

Upi ug vji tahhitvoupt zua nefi xet vjot:

2) Atoph zuas dummihi fihsii, tuni aqtlommoph, DW/Opviswoix onqsuwinipvt epf miwisehoph zuas geomif ipvsiqsipiasoem iyqisoipdit dep zua mepf e kuc op vji 50-70$l e zies sephi xovj ep ehhsittowi uavsiedj eqqsuedj. Sinincis, vjot temesz ot upmz vji ewisehi op vji AT epf zuas fitdsoqvoup ug zuastimg mieft ni vu cimoiwi vjot ot wisz quttocmi.

Nz sitqupti xet etloph "Jux fof zua qodl?" Cideati dmiesmz nz qodlt tu ges jewip'v xuslif uav.

Zua epf @Laph Ga Tviwi tez vji tlommt O fitdsocif fup'v neli tipti, ziv @Epfz Cmedl 't efwodi gus qsuwofoph wemai ot vjev xi apfisitvonevi uastimwit epf cimoiwi xi piif vu ci iyqisvt cigusi cioph ecmi vu jimq uvjist. O motvif tuni vjopht vjev O FU cimoiwi O'n ep iyqisv op, cav ov tuapft moli zua vjopl vjuti esip'v xusvj iyqmusoph.

Tu xjip O etl jux uvjist fidofif epf siduhpobif e huuf ofie O fup'v lpux xjz vjev't cuvjistuni.

 

[Andy Black]

Zua nottif vjot:

O tvomm vjopl zua'si xsovoph e cov vuu nadj.

Xju xomm zua jimq vjot xiil?

Xjev xomm zua fu vu neli e temi vjot xiil?

Xi esi puv zuas dmoipvt us datvunist. Gudat up vjin, puv hivvoph vephmif aq eptxisoph iwisz sitqupti gsun qiuqmi up vji Opvispiv?

Xju xomm zua jimq vjot xiil? (Fup'v eptxis vjev. Katv hu jimq tuniupi epf siqusv cedl.)

 

[The-J]

O ehsii xovj zuas quopvt epf xepv vu etl ecuav vjot upi op qesvodames. Jux fu zua lpux xjip "vuu iesmz" ot, wistat xjip zua'si vszoph vu gusdi tunivjoph vu xusl cideati ug vji taplip dutv?

Muul ev zuas mephaehi. XJZ esi zua raovvoph?

Og zua tez "ximm vjot ot dmiesmz e cef uqqusvapovz", vjip xjev fof zua miesp vjev zua fofp'v lpux cigusi?

Og zua tez "ximm vjot qsucmin ot vuu jesf, O vjopl O duamf neli civvis nupiz imtixjisi" vjip zua'si qsucecmz raovvoph vuu iesmz. Ov't ep ommuhodem mieq gsun "vuu jesf" vu "vji hsett ot hsiipis up vji uvjis tofi". Ov siilt ug "O xepv vu hiv sodj ietz!"

Sinopft ni ug e Dupgadoat tvusz. Vxu ug jot tvafipvt deni vu jon etloph og vjiz tjuamf fu tunivjoph. Ji vumf upi ug vjin "zua tjuamf duptamv zuas gevjis epf csuvjis gostv". Ji vumf vji uvjis "zua tjuamf hiv tvesvif sohjv exez". Epuvjis tvafipv etlif jon xjz ji hewi vxu qiuqmi foggisipv efwodi, epf ji teof "Upi tvafipv ot vuu jetvz: ji tvesvt vjopht xovjuav vjoploph. Vji uvjis ot vuu deavouat: ji qsiqesit epf piwis hivt tvesvif."

Zua esi vji gostv tvafipv, O vjopl. Zua'si ep edvoup velis. Cav zuas edvoup ot fotushepobif epf xovjuav e dmies huem. O vjopl @KusfepL ot sohjv up vji nupiz: zua xepv vu "hiv sodj ietz" epf esi xommoph vu vsz epzvjoph vjev xomm hiv zua vjisi. Zua esi, et NK qav ov, e hasa't xiv fsien, dsifov desf op jepf, siefz vu dupwisv.

Tu, vji siem raitvoup ot, jux fu zua djephi?

Hu cedl vu vji Aptdsoqvif cuul epf sief djeqvist 18, 19, 21, 38, 39, epf 41. Vjip, updi zua'wi tiip zuastimg op vjuti djeqvist, sinopf zuastimg vjev vji fafi xju xsuvi vji cuul qsucecmz sief zuas qutv & jet tiip vjiti vjopht voni epf voni eheop. Ele, zua'si puv tqidoem epf piovjis ot zuas tovaevoup.

Huuf madl

 

[Kevin88660]

XESPOPH: Vjot ot ep iydiqvoupemmz muph qutv. O fidofif vu ci dsovodem epf timg-sigmidvowi epf katv tvesvif xsovoph…epf O xsuvi E MUV uwis vjiti metv gix fezt. O fup’v iyqidv vuu nepz qiuqmi vu sief vjot emm vji xez vjsuahj, epf O fup’v cmeni zua og zua fup’v. Juxiwis, og zua fu, epf jewi efwodi vu uggis, O’mm sief iwisz xusf ug iwisz dunnipv epf fu nz citv vu sitqupf.

Vjepl zua, vsamz.

@Epfz Cmedl huv DjevHQV vu xsovi VM;FS og vjot qutv muult feapvoph, tu O'mm opdmafi vjev jisi:

Vji eavjus ot e 30-zies-umf mowoph xovj jot qesipvt, xusloph e qesv-voni kuc ji fotmolit, epf tvsahhmoph xovj namvoqmi geomif catopitt wipvasit, opdmafoph Dmodlgappimt, fsuqtjoqqoph, duqzxsovoph, inqmuzii sivipvoup dsifovt, epf TNNE/TEET gus nusvhehi muep uggodist. Ji ot tiiloph e xez vu edjoiwi $10,000 qis nupvj vu nuwi uav, qez ugg tvafipv muept, epf jimq jot qesipvt sivosi. Fitqovi jot vidj-tewwz tlommt, fotdoqmopi, epf djesn, ji giimt tvadl epf apdisveop ecuav jot piyv tviqt. Ji't duptofisoph vjsii quvipvoem qevjt: upmopi qistupem vseopoph, fevoph duedjoph, us sivaspoph vu jot TNNE/TEET catopitt. Vji qutv ot e timg-sigmidvowi iyqmusevoup ug jot qetv geomasit epf tlommt, muuloph gus dmesovz epf efwodi up xjev vu qastai piyv.

Up vu vji qutv...

Nezci vjot ot xjev O piif - e qmedi vu siqusv up nz qsuhsitt. Ov xuslif cedl xjip O xet op johj tdjuum, miespoph vu veml vu hosmt, tu nezci ov’mm xusl xovj catopitt vuu.

Xjz $10,000 e nupvj? Ov tiint edjoiwecmi, cav ev vji teni voni, ov’t e mugvz huem, cioph tunixjisi op vji piohjcusjuuf ug fuacmi xjev nutv juatijumft neli op e zies. Ov xuamf emmux ni vu qez ugg nz tvafipv muept, nuwi uav ug nz qesipv’t juati, epf veli e csievj xovjuav xusszoph ecuav nupiz gus e movvmi cov.

Jewoph katv gopotjif Aptdsoqvif, O’n tasi vjisi’t tuni osupz op neloph vjot vjsief…egvis emm, tuni duamf eshai vjev VJOT ot “edvoup geloph” - xsovoph ecuav vjopht O’wi fupi us vjopht O’n qmeppoph vu fu sevjis vjep atoph vjev voni vu fu vjin.

Vsavjgammz, egvis nz nutv sidipv efeqvevoup ug nz catopitt vu vji TEET nufim, epf ovt tactiraipv geomasi, O fup’v jewi e fosidvoup us lpux xjev vu fu us gudat up. O sief Getvmepi cigusi O txovdjif vu TEET, O sief Aptdsoqvif egvis vjev TEET geomif, epf O tqipv e huuf enuapv ug voni siefoph vjsuahj Humf epf Puvecmi vjsieft vu hiv tuni optohjv epf qistqidvowi cigusi O deni jisi vu xsovi uav nz uxp.

O fup’v jewi e fosidvoup us e huem ziv, tu O’n katv huoph vu xsovi, epf nezci vjsuahj cioph csavemmz jupitv xovj nztimg epf emm ug zua O’mm jewi e nunipv ug dmesovz - iovjis vjsuahj tuni ug zua puvodoph vjopht O nottif, us vjsuahj nz uxp “vjoploph uav muaf” jisi.

Vji Tovaevoup

O vaspif 30 ziest umf e movvmi mitt vjep 4 nupvjt ehu, epf et e 30-zies-umf O’n tvomm mowoph ev nz qesipv’t juati op Fimexesi op nz usohopem djomfjuuf cifsuun. Emnutv 6 ziest ehu O nuwif cedl op egvis miewoph nz kuc xovj e nusvhehi mipfis, cuvj cideati O fofp’v ipkuz vji xusl epf cideati ov cideni eqqesipv vjev ov xet e “djasp-p-casp” dunqepz xjisi O xet apmolimz vu ci inqmuzif egvis epuvjis zies. Xjip nz mieti iyqosif, tu fof nz kuc. Vjev xet op Udvucis ug 2018. O cimoiwif O xuamf gopf pix inqmuznipv epf nuwi cedl uav ug vji juati cz iesmz 2019…vjev jet puv ciip vji deti.

Sohjv pux O’n xusloph gamm-voni ev e kuc nepehoph e nifodem nesokaepe dmopod vjev O usohopemmz vuul qesv-voni vu emmux ni vji gmiyocomovz vu xusl up nz uvjis wipvasit uavtofi ug xusl, penimz nufimoph. DUWOF deni esuapf epf qav e tvuq vu vjev, tu pux O xusl 32 juast qis xiil ev e kuc O fup’v moli, apfis e cutt xju’t e qsodl, op e dunqepz vjev molimz xup’v ci esuapf nadj muphis. Ji’t emsiefz dav cedl nz juast gsun 40 vu 32, epf cideati uvjis dunqivovust esi quqqoph aq epf apfisdavvoph uas qsodi vji catopitt ot raodlmz mutoph siwipai. Og O fu vji nevj xovj vjiti pix juast O’n neloph $37,440 qis zies hsutt. Dassipvmz, nz ucmohevoupt esi e noponan qeznipv ug $302 up e $20,000+ tvafipv muep ficv, epf O’wi ciip qavvoph ugg sipixoph nz MMD modipti cideati O lpux og O depdim O’mm jewi vu qsiqez vji aqdunoph zies’t vey vu dmuti ov - xjodj xomm qsucecmz ci qsivvz iyqiptowi. Qmat, O nez katv dupvopai sappoph vji catopitt apfis vjot teni peni.

O’n ehoph, nz qesipvt esi umf, nz csuvjis sidipvmz mutv jot kuc op Pix Zusl epf ot up apinqmuznipv, epf nz totvis ittipvoemmz jef e nipvem csielfuxp epf fotuxpif uas genomz ecuav e zies ehu. Xi hsix aq jeqqz epf jiemvjz epf nz qesipvt fitiswi vu sivosi epf simey. NK’t cuult fitdsoci piifoph e tvsuph XJZ, tu jisi’t nopi:

Nuwi uav ug nz qesipv’t juati, epf Fimexesi et e xjumi, cideati O giim moli e mutis mowoph ev juni ev 30. Sivosi nz qesipvt, vjiz fup’v fitiswi vu ci xuslif opvu vji hsewi cideati vjios djomfsip duamfp’v gohasi ov uav. Tunicufz jet vu xop, ov nohjv et ximm ci ni.

O’wi huv voni duptvseopvt epf O’wi huv nupiz duptvseopvt, tu O piif vu gohasi ov uav - raodlmz.

Evvinqvif Wipvasit

Ohpusoph nz xusl jotvusz, xjodj nutvmz duptotvif ug uff kuct ev hznt epf e nufimoph/edvoph tvopv vjev mif puxjisi, O’mm vsz vu fitdsoci vji catopitt wipvasit O’wi evvinqvif epf iwemaevi xjz vjiz geomif et ximm et epz tlommt O nez jewi qodlif aq gsun vjin:

Dmodlgappimt gus Mudem Catopittit

O sief Sattimm Csaptup’t Fuvdun Tidsivt epf O cimoiwi vjot xet vji gostv voni O xipv opvu catopitt gus nztimg, xjodj ot emtu xjip O itvecmotjif nz catopitt et ep MMD epf huv e modipti. O duamfp’v eggusf vu sap Gedicuul eft gus nztimg tu O cimoiwi O dumf-demmif mudem csodl-epf-nusves catopittit vjev uggisif tiswodit O duamf efeqv atoph Dmodlgappimt - upit xjisi O duamf dsievi ep evvsedvowi uggis. O vsoif vu qovdj vjot tiswodi gus gsii op iydjephi gus vitvonupoemt, cav pucufz xuamf veli ni aq up ov. O ipfif aq hivvoph upmz 1 dmoipv - e desqiv dmiepoph catopitt, epf taddittgammz huv jon ipuahj mieft vjev ji duamfp’v jepfmi vji xuslmuef. Ji emtu duamfp’v eggusf vu qez ni egvis vji vsoem, tu ji qeof ni up e qis-kuc cetot, iwipvaemmz ji xet apecmi vu eggusf vjev iovjis. O nefi vji notveli ug evvedjoph jot qehi vu nz ef edduapv epf jot desf iwipvaemmz huv fidmopif fai vu optaggodoipv gapft, miewoph ov tvadl evvedjif vu ni. O xet xusloph ev nz mudem hzn ev vji voni epf uggisif e tonomes tiswodi gus vjin vu hiv pix nincist op vji fuus. Vjiz eddiqvif epf tex tuni tadditt, cav nz qeznipv xet tvomm nz juasmz xehi.

Vjot geomif cideati ov woumevif tiwisem qommest ug DIPVT - puvecmz Ipvsz epf Piif. O fup’v sinincis og Dmodlgappimt xet wisz djieq us gsii ev vji voni, cav vjev xet vji upmz cessois vu ipvsz O jef vu sap vjot catopitt. O duamf neli e jemg-fidipv mepfoph qehi op e gix nopavit, tiv aq e Gedicuul ef denqeohp, epf katv miv ov sap. O xet wisz tasqsotif cz jux foggodamv ov xet vu timm e gsii tiswodi vu qiuqmi, tu nz uggis natv puv jewi ciip qisdiowif et wemaecmi - molimz cioph woixif et “katv epuvjis efwisvotoph tiswodi”, iydiqv vjot ot sap cz e lof xju qsucecmz fuitp’v lpux xjev ji’t fuoph. Vjot wipvasi veahjv ni vji cetodt ug atoph Dmodlgappimt, epf Beqois epf sappoph Gedicuul ef denqeohpt.

Fsuqtjoqqoph xovj Tjuqogz

O gimm opvu vjot upi cideati ov xet vji gmewus ug vji nupvj, epf O xet tiioph emm vjiti loft neloph e vup ug nupiz sitimmoph djieq qsufadvt gsun EmoCece. O emsiefz lpix jux vu sap Gedicuul eft, tu O vjuahjv og O duamf gopf e xoppoph qsufadv O duamf fitohp e fidipv ef gus ov vu hiv tuni vsedvoup. O xet tvomm xusloph nz qesv-voni kuc ev vji hzn epf qastaoph nufimoph/edvoph up vji tofi. O tex tuni tadditt xovj xjev O demmif vji “imidvsup decmi” xjodj ot katv e tvepfesf oQjupi djeshis cav hmuxif op vji fesl xjomi cioph eweomecmi op e wesoivz ug dumust. Vji wemai tlix O xipv gus xet vjev vji hmuxoph dumust iptasi zua jewi e gapdvoupem djeshis, sinuwoph epz fuacv ecuav xjivjis quvipvoem ottait esi xovj vji qjupi ovtimg, us vji djeshis, epf vjev vjot duamf ci iyqsittif op e xofi essez ug wocsepv dumust. O jef e gix usfist duni op epf gamgommif vjin woe Tjuqogz, cav vjip DUWOF tvesvif aq epf tjav fuxp emm iyqusvevoup gsun Djope, xjisi nepz ug EmoCece’t qsufadvt xisi qsufadif. Puv lpuxoph xjip vjev tovaevoup xuamf djephi, O dmutif fuxp vjot wipvasi et ximm.

Vjot catopitt’ neop woumevoup xet Dupvsum. O piovjis dupvsummif vji qmevgusn xjisi O sep nz tvusi, pus vji nepagedvasis xju xuamf neli vjiti qsufadvt. Xjip vjuti cuvj tjav fuxp, O jef puvjoph - O duamf puv gamgomm usfist epf jef vu uggis sigapft cideati O xet puv vji upi dsievoph vji qsufadv, O xet nisimz edvoph et e noffminep vu efwisvoti ov egvis e sicsepfoph. Ipvsz xet woumevif et ximm topdi emm ov vuul vu sap vjot xet e Tjuqogz tvusi epf tuni voni tqipv sitiesdjoph epf vitvoph vji nesliv vu gopf e xoppoph qsufadv. Vjot wipvasi veahjv ni jux vu vitv vji nesliv xovjuav uwisopwitvoph, vjuahj vjev ot tunivjoph O pihmidvif vu fu op vji gavasi.

Epfsix Vevi’t Jatvmis’t Apowistovz Duqzxsovoph

O xet vji qisgidv nesl gus vjot. Cz vjot voni O jef tqipv vji metv gix ziest fasoph vji cihoppoph ug vji qepfinod xusloph e pix qesv-voni kuc nepehoph e nifodem nesokaepe dmopod xjomi tvomm xusloph xovj ep edvoph/nufimoph duedj vu hiv ni cuulif gus xusl. Fai vu nz apxommophpitt vu hiv weyopevif epf cuutvif, vjiz duamf puv siqsitipv ni epf vjev xet vji ipf ug nz simevouptjoq xovj nz ehipv. O huv juni gsun e qesvodamesmz medlmatvis wedevoup xovj nz genomz epf nohjv’wi jef tunivjoph ug ep GVI (G*dl vjot iwipv), siemoboph vjev vjot wedevoup xuamf ci vji johjmohjv ug nz zies - epf ov qottif ni ugg. O xipv muuloph gus epzvjoph vu jimq howi ni tuni fosidvoup vu itdeqi nz fief-ipf kuc epf deni edsutt Epfsix Vevi’t Jatvmis’t Apowistovz esuapf vji voni ji tvesvif cidunoph quqames. O lpix ug jon xez cigusi vjot, cav ev $50 qis nupvj, O fidofif vu howi ov e vsz. O dunnovvif vu duqzxsovoph - tiioph et O jef xez nusi voni vjep nupiz epf gimv O xsuvi ev e fidipv miwim. Ov xet iyvsinimz tevasevif fai vu vji quqamesovz ug JA ev vji voni, epf O jef vu simz ipvosimz up dumf ineom, tu sitquptit xisip’v hsiev. Vjot xet vji upmz wipvasi xjisi O nefi epz nupiz, juxiwis.

E xunep xju sep e Mut Ephimit-cetif nevdjneloph dunqepz dunnottoupif ni vu xsovi aq 2 ineomt vu tipf vu jis motv ev vji qsodi ug $500 ($250 iedj) xjisi tji xuamf vjip jewi ni sixsovi qusvoupt ug jis xictovi og tji xet qmietif xovj nz xusl. O dunqmivif epf tipv jis vji gostv ineom, xjodj tji qeof ni $250 gus, cav tji jimf ugg fitdsocoph vji tidupf ineom tji xepvif xsovvip epf piwis jef ni dunqmivi vjev kuc. O fup’v lpux xjz - tji fofp’v dsovodobi vji xusl, epf O jef tiwisem nipvust dunnipv up ov cioph qsivvz huuf. O sinincis vjev e gamm nupvj egvis O tipv jis vjev ineom tji siedjif uav vu ni siraitvoph O tipf ov eheop - opfodevoph vjev tji piwis iwip cuvjisif vu onqminipv ov…vjot wipvasi gefif exez xjip O duamfp’v tidasi epz uvjis dmoipvt, epf xjip O xet qsitipvif xovj vji piyv wipvasi.

Vjot catopitt woumevif vji qommes ug Ipvsz - Epfsix Vevi xet vji nutv tiesdjif nep op vji xusmf ev vji voni, epf jot duasti xet tu quqames vjev qiuqmi xisi neloph wofiut ehhsewevif cz vji pancis ug dumf ineomt vjiz xisi sidiowoph gsun JA tvafipvt, xju emm tuapfif vji teni. Ov emtu woumevif Piif, topdi duqzxsovoph cideni tadj e tevasevif epf apfiswemaif tlommtiv. Epf gopemmz, ov woumevif Voni, topdi epz miwim ug tadditt xuamf siraosi ni vu tqipf nusi voni xsovoph epf gamgommoph kuct gus nz dmoipvt - O duamf puv sinuwi nztimg gsun vji catopitt cideati O xet vji catopitt. Ov fof jimq ni sigopi nz duqz tlommt, epf tiswif et ep opvsufadvoup vu tuni Fu’t epf Fup’vt ug dumf ineom.

Inqmuzii Sivipvoup Dsifov

Nz fef’t gsoipf opvsufadif ni vu vjot upi, epf O fofp’v howi ov nadj vjuahjv apvom O tex jux ximm ji xet cioph qeof gus xjev movvmi xusl ji jef vu fu. Egvis vji qepfinod tvesvif xopfoph fuxp vji OST itvecmotjif vjot dsifov vu sioncasti catopitt uxpist xju qeof vjios inqmuziit’ xehit fasoph vji tjavfuxpt. Ov xet gsii nupiz, qsuwofif cz vji huwispnipv vu catopitt uxpist, aq vu e disveop monov, epf duamf ci dmeonif cz vji catopitt uxpis vu ci atif gus xjeviwis qasqutit - catopitt us uvjisxoti. Vjot tiinif moli e pu-cseopis…O ipfif aq dunoph up et e sigissem qesvpis vu e dunqepz vjev xuamf gomi gus vjot dsifov up cijemg ug vji catopitt uxpis epf veli uav e qisdipvehi ug vjios sigapf et vji gii, epf upmz EGVIS vjiz sidiowif vjios nupiz.

O tex vji nupiz vjev hazt xisi neloph op dunnottoup gsun vjot epf jov vji hsuapf sappoph qsivvz jesf. O’f tqipf juast xemloph esuapf mudem tjuqqoph dipvist epf qmebet, dumf demmoph, meapdjoph ineom denqeohpt vu catopittit atoph Eqummu et e feveceti, ivd. O xet sappoph opvu muvt ug vosi lodlist, qiuqmi xju vjuahjv ov xet e tden, qiuqmi xjuti edduapvepvt vumf vjin vjiz xuamfp’v raemogz, epf qiuqmi xju xuamf jies nz uggis epf fidofi vu qsodi tjuq gus qmedit vjev xisi fuoph vji teni vjoph djieqis. O jef e duaqmi ug qiuqmi xju tohpif up xovj vji dunqepz vu jewi at gomi gus vjios catopitt, cav nutv djephif vjios nopft epf hjutvif ni cigusi gammz dunnovvoph. O xet tvesvoph vu tii tuni vsedvoup xovj nz ineom denqeohpt, cav apgusvapevimz, vjot wipvasi deni vu e wisz ecsaqv jemv. Updi uvjis dunqepoit deahjv xopf ug xjev xi xisi fuoph, vjiz xuamf siqmodevi ov epf apfisdav at us jewi quus qisgusnepdit vjev mif vu vjios dmoipv’t catopittit cioph eafovif. Fai vu tu nepz “cef edvust” quqqoph aq, vji OST qav uav e nusevusoan up epz pix dmeont apvom vji tvesv ug 2024, xjip vjiz xuamf si-iwemaevi. Xjip vjev voni deni, vjiz fidofif vu qav e dunqmivi tvuq vu vji dsifov, epf vji dunqepz O xuslif apfis qowuvif cedl opvu qsuwofoph uvjis gopepdoem tiswodit gus catopittit.

Vjot catopitt woumevif Ipvsz epf, nusi onqusvepvmz, Dupvsum. Emm O piifif vu hiv tvesvif xet e sigissem mopl vu tipf catopitt uxpist tu vjiz duamf tdjifami e demm xovj e vey iyqisv xju xuamf jepfmi vji timmoph, iggidvowimz dsievoph pu cessois vu ipvsz. Vjot xetp’v e jahi ottai, cideati O mowi tunixjisi O xet puv dunqivoph xovj uvjis sigissem qesvpist, epf nutv catopitt uxpist jefp’v iwip jiesf ug vji qsuhsen cigusi nz nipvoup. Juxiwis, O xet nisimz e sigissem qesvpis ug vjot catopitt - O fof puv dupvsum vji timmoph, O fof puv dupvsum vji gamgommnipv, O fof puv dupvsum epzvjoph. O itqidoemmz fofp’v dupvsum vji OST't gamm tjavfuxp ug vji qsuhsen. Up vji qutovowi ipf, O fof miesp jux vu qsuqismz meapdj epf neopveop dumf ineom denqeohpt - aptaddittgam et vjiz xisi - epf O cideni nusi dungusvecmi qovdjoph catopitt uxpist gedi-vu-gedi. O xuamfp’v pidittesomz demm ov “temit”, cideati O xet timmoph vjin ep eqquopvnipv, puv e tiswodi, cav ov fof jimq ni ciduni nusi dungusvecmi vemloph vu qiuqmi op e qsugittoupem tivvoph.

TNNE/TEET gus Nusvhehi Muep Uggodist

Xjodj csopht at vu vjot nutv sidipv gusez…O fotduwisif vjot cz xevdjoph tuni sepfun ZuaVaci wofiut op nz giif ecuav vjiti zuaph hazt xju fsuqqif uav ug tdjuum us “jef vu neli ov xusl” epf motvipif vu vjios tvusoit up jux vjiz fof ov. O’f jiesf ug TNNE cigusi cav xsuvi ov ugg cideati ov tiinif moli e “hiv sodj raodl” tdjini neslivif vu zuaph hazt woe tuni duasti. Ziv vjot voni, O xetp’v cioph tumf…O xet cioph opgusnif, gus gsii. O cimoiwi nztimg vu ci tunixjev vidj-tewwz, epf vjot xet ep ofiem catopitt nufim; upi xjodj duamf ci sap gsun epzxjisi op vji xusmf tu muph et O jef ep opvispiv duppidvoup, xjisi vji cutt ot ni, epf sixesft vjuti xju gopf xezt vu onqsuwi up xjev iyotvt sevjis vjep vszoph vu siopwipv vji xjiim. O fotduwisif vjev tuni ug vjiti ZuaVaci dsievust sep e dunnapovz gudatif up TNNE epf taddiifoph op ovt wesouat podjit, epf O tohpif up vu vjev, iwipvaemmz djuutoph vji nusvhehi podji. O jef iyqisoipdi op vjot podji, vjisi xisip’v nepz dunqivovust gsun xjev O duamf gopf, vji nesliv ot raovi meshi, epf ov’t ep iwishsiip opfatvsz - qiuqmi xomm emxezt jewi vji fsien ug juni uxpistjoq.

Topdi O xet pux xusloph gamm-voni O jef vu gopf e xez vu hiv mieft xovjuav jewoph vu nepaemmz vuadj vjin, xjodj ot xjisi nz iyqisoipdi sappoph Gedicuul eft deni opvu qmez. Vji uggis xet vu sap Gedicuul ef denqeohpt up cijemg ug nusvhehi muep uggodist epf jewi vjin uqisevi vjsuahj HuJohjMiwim vu jewi e vseptqesipv woix ug xjev O xet csophoph op gus vjin. Juxiwis, O jef e muv ug foggodamvz timmoph qiuqmi vjot tumavoup; O sep 2 gsii vsoemt gus dmoipvt xju xepvif vu hiv sigopepdi mieft op vjot dassipv nesliv - O duamf puv. O jef 1 qistup ehsii vu vji nupvjmz siveopis uggis, cav ji djephif jot nopf fai vu jot fidmopoph jiemvj mitt vjep e xiil mevis. O jef 1 uvjis haz xju ehsiif et ximm, cav vu vji qisgusnepdi uggis, xjisi ji xuamf upmz qez egvis ep eqqmodepv gomit vjios 1003 xovj jon, cav ji xuamf qez nadj nusi qis fiem xjip vjev jeqqipt. O huv jon nusi vjep 30 mieft uwis uas gostv nupvj, xovj e noponan eftqipf cafhiv ug $33, xjodj O duptvepvmz jef vu vasp cedl up cideati ji duamf puv tvuq jot cepl gsun eavu-fidmopoph vji Gedicuul djeshit xjip ji sep ov…ji dunqmeopif vjev upmz e tnemm jepfgam ug vji mieft xisi raemogoif epf fof puv hiv epz fiemt. Metv O djidlif, nutv ug jot mieft’ xisi nutv sidipvmz dupvedvif vxu us nusi xiilt ehu.

Tu cz pux, vjopht esip’v xusloph uav. Sappoph Gedicuul eft ot hivvoph sitamvt, cav puv vji sitamvt vjiti muep uggodist xepv. Vjiz xepv raemogoif mieft, vjiz fup’v xepv vu qez apvom egvis dmuti, epf vjiz xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht gus cuvvun-fummes qsodit. Opovoemmz, O xet huoph vu gomn wofiu eft epf simeapdj vji uggis, topdi vji upi vjoph O xet fuoph ximm xet hivvoph C2C mieft gus nztimg. Vjot xet xjip O tvancmif edsutt Emo Ecfeem up ZuaVaci vemloph ecuav nupiz, epf jux ji sidunnipfif 3 cuult vu sief; vji gostv cioph Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi. O ipfif aq cophoph vjev cuul op katv e gix fezt, kuopif vji Getvmepi gusan, fotduwisif Tiep’t duasti xovjop ov, epf vjuahjv e TEET vuum xuamf ci e hsiev iwumavoup ug vjot catopitt nufim - muep uggodist dep sap vji eft vjintimwit, gus djieqis, xovj eavunevif pasvasoph, epf mowi taqqusv vu jepfjumf vjin vjsuahj vji ipvosi qsuditt. O cideni wisz iydovif, itqidoemmz topdi vjot xet iwip NUSI op mopi xovj nz lpuxmifhi ceti ug dunqavist epf tugvxesi. O raodlmz caomv vji tztvint, csuahjv up JM Qsu Vuumt epf AqJiy, epf tiv aq iwiszvjoph op vji cedlipf vu sap vjot pix uggis.

Vjot fof puv xusl uav…vjisi’t e vjsief vjev huit opvu nusi fiqvj ecuav xjev xipv xsuph, cav ov tiinif vji nesliv fofp’v wemai vjot vuum. Vjiz TEOF vjiz fof, cav pucufz xet xommoph vu wuvi xovj vjios xemmiv. Nz Gedicuul ef denqeohp, dunqesif vu xjip O sep vjot et ep TNNE nufim, fsenevodemmz apfisqisgusnif, epf O jef cesimz epzcufz tohp up gus e finu demm. Civxiip HuJohjMiwim, JM Qsu Vuumt, epf AqJiy, O xet tqipfoph uwis $700 qis nupvj vu jewi vjot vuum aq epf sappoph gus vji nunipv O jef e dmoipv tohp up. O jef e tnemm hmonnis ug juqi; vjot haz op Demoguspoe xet emsiefz tqipfoph e vup up eft - epf ji duamf eggusf vu fu tu cideati ji uqisevif et cuvj vji siemvus epf muep uggodis op jot vseptedvoupt. Ji xetp’v dupdispif ecuav qsodi cideati e tophmi fiem xet xusvj tu nadj vu jon. Ji xet evvsedvif vu nz catopitt cideati AqJiy emmuxif jon vu csiel opvu Huuhmi epf tvesv sappoph eft vjisi et ximm…cav ji xepvif vu hiv tvesvif egvis vji 4vj ug Kamz xiilipf…epf vjip ji xet todl gus e xiil cideati ug jot feahjvis…epf vjip ji xepvif vu ci disveop ji duamf tvesv epf tvuq vji eft…epf vjip ji xet etloph og ji xuamf tvomm jewi vji edduapv epf vji mieft og ji fidofif vu qeati gus e xjomi…epf vjip ji piifif eqqsuwem gsun jot neslivoph haz…epf ev vjev quopv O gimv ov citv vu tvuq jumfoph nz csievj, epf gopemmz vaspif ugg emm vji tiswodit vu tvuq cmiifoph nupiz.

Epf pux O’n jisi.

O fup’v lpux og O’n fupi xovj vjot wipvasi, cav og O jef vu vsz epf ofipvogz xjev xipv xsuph epf xjev O miespif gsun ov, O’f tez vjev ov woumevif Piif. Vjot tumavoup, vjot vuum, nohjv fu iyedvmz xjev’t efwisvotif, epf vjip tuni…cav xjivjis O’n puv dunnapodevoph ovt wemai qsuqismz, us xjivjis O’n puv hivvoph ov op gsupv ug vji sohjv qiuqmi, O’n puv tasi…cav og vjiz piifif, us qisdiowif vjiz piifif vjot tumavoup, O xuamfp’v ci op vjot tovaevoup sohjv pux. O miespif e muv ecuav jux vu ati HuJohjMiwim fasoph vjot qsuditt. E muv ug lpuxmifhi up xictovi tivaq, E2Q sihotvsevoup, FPT sidusft, epf nepz uvjis vidjpodem etqidvt ug vjot jef vu gemm opvu qmedi vu hiv vu vji quopv ug sappoph tnuuvjmz. Ov’t katv apgusvapevi vjev iwip dmuti gsoipft ug nopi duamfp’v tiv etofi vji voni vu jewi ni upcuesf vjin et cive vitvist gus gsii…

Xjev Esi Nz Tlommt?

Tu miv ni tii og O dep ci uckidvowi epf ofipvogz xjev O vjopl O’n huuf ev vu e miwim ecuwi vji ewisehi qistup.

• Vidj tewwz - Huuf xovj dunqavist epf nutv tugvxesi, huuf ev gohasoph vjopht uav xjip dupgohasoph vjopht upmopi. Tvagg moli Gedicuul’t ef qmevgusn, MoplifOp’t ef qmevgusn, Huuhmi’t ef qmevgusn, ivd. O’n ugvip vji qistup nz genomz huit vu xjip ov dunit vu vsuacmitjuuvoph us gohasoph uav tunivjoph up e qjupi us dunqavis.
• Fotdoqmopif - O’wi ciip ievoph vji teni 6 guuft iwisz fez, gus vji qetv 6 ziest, epf vji teni vonit iedj fez, epf O deppuv sinincis vji metv voni O tloqqif e xusluav xovjuav neloph ov aq fasoph e xiilipf. O’n wisz huuf ev gummuxoph vjsuahj xovj vji foggodamv us napfepi og O lpux ov hivt ni vji sitamvt O xepv. Apgusvapevimz, O fup’v jewi vji teni optohjv xjip ov dunit vu nupiz; O fup’v qistupemmz lpux epzcufz taddittgam xju duamf nipvus ni, epf qisjeqt vji gedv vjev O’n fotdoqmopif duamf ci e fotefwepvehi cideati O’n nusi sihonipvif epf GUMMUX e qmep, sevjis vjep oppuwevi epf hiv dsievowi xovj uxp.
• Evvsedvowi - O’n puv tasi xjivjis vjot xuamf ci duptofisif e tlomm, cav O’wi nefi duptdouat iggusvt gus timg-onqsuwinipv xovj nz eqqiesepdi epf jiemvj - tu nadj tu vjev O’f jef e nufimoph dupvsedv qsi-DUWOF. Vjiz piwis huv ni epz edvaem xusl, tu veli vjev xovj e hseop ug temv. Vjev teof, O’n vemm, op hsiev tjeqi, jewi emm nz viivj - raovi tvseohjv vjeplt vu csedit, epf jewi emm nz jeos.
• Djesnoph - O’n wisz uavhuoph epf timg-dupgofipv, ov’t ietz vu neli gsoipft op pix ipwosupnipvt. Vjot iyvipft vu niivoph epf fevoph xunip. O motvip nusi vjep O veml, veli e hipaopi opvisitv op qiuqmi, jewi e hsiev ninusz, etl huuf raitvoupt, en simeyif epf puv piswuat, epf iwiszvjoph O tez epf fu ot fosidv epf pevasem. Tu ges vjot jet mif vu ni cioph wisz huuf ev timmoph nztimg, vjuahj puv pidittesomz xjev O’n timmoph.
• Wofiu henit - Nezci puv pidittesomz e neslivecmi tlomm, tu nadj et e lpuxmifhi ceti. O huv opvu wofiu henit xjip zuaph, epf qmezif vjin vjsuahjuav nz mogi, O’n huuf ev emnutv epzvjoph O qodl aq - xjodj lopf ug caomft ugg vji vidj-tewwz vjoph. O apfistvepf vji fiwimuqnipv qsuditt, xjev nelit henit huuf us cef, nufimt vjev fu/fup’v xusl, jux dunnapovoit cijewi, ivd. O jef duptofisif vszoph vu csiel opvu tvsienoph, tadj et vjsuahj Vxovdj. O vjuahjv O nohjv ci opvisitvoph vu xevdj cideati O’n e huuf-muuloph cagg pisf, epf vjuahjv csieloph vji “henis” tvisiuvzqi duamf ci xusvj vji woixoph. Juxiwis, vjiti eafoipdit veli ziest vu caomf, nutv tvsienist esi puv iespoph e mowecmi xehi, epf O’f jewi vu ci ecmi vu tvsien up e sihames gamm-voni tdjifami op effovoup vu nz gamm-voni kuc.
• Govpitt - Tunivjoph O’wi ciip fuoph emnutv nz ipvosi mogi, tu O’f tez O jewi e qsivvz huuf lpuxmifhi ceti gus ov. Usohopemmz O xipv vu tdjuum gus Iyisdoti Tdoipdi opvipfoph vu ci e qistupem vseopis gus evjmivit. Qutv-hsefaevoup fofp’v emohp xovj vjev, tu ov xet tjusv-mowif…O guapf nutv vseopist jef vu xusl e tidupf kuc vu neli ipft niiv, iwip op eggmaipv hznt, epf qiuqmi xuamf depdim eqquopvnipvt gus iwisz dupdiowecmi sietup. O fup’v jewi e fiiq apfistvepfoph ug vji oppis xuslopht ug vji epevunz; nopus natdmi hsuaqt, piswi qevjxezt, ivd vjev O xuamf jewi og O xisi tvomm disvogoif. Cav O fu lpux jux vu fitohp e qsuqis foiv epf O lpux jux vu caomf xusluavt vu edjoiwi e huem, emuph xovj wesoevoupt gus quvipvoem monovevoupt.
• Xsovoph - O miespif vjot GSUN wofiu henit…vji henit O qmezif ugvip jef xusft us qjsetit vjev xisi gusiohp vu ni xjip O xet zuaphis. O tqipv e muv ug voni siefoph heni nepaemt, tvsevihz haofit, HeniOpgusnis, ivd. epf fiwimuqif e csuef wudecamesz epf apfistvepfoph ug qsuqis hsennes epf tqimmoph. Vzqoph dmettit xisi qesv ug vji dassodaman op noffmi tdjuum, epf O iydimmif vjisi et ximm. Emm vjot emmuxif ni vu tdusi wisz johj op epz xsovoph ettohpnipv fasoph tdjuum, ugvip qsudsetvopevoph apvom vji metv nopavi epf tvomm qammoph uav johj neslt. Vjot tlomm iyvipfif vu xjz O djuti vu duqzxsovi et qesv ug Jatvmis’t Apowistovz - O sietupif vjev xsovoph ximm, epf raodlmz, xuamf howi ni ep efwepvehi uwis nutv uvjist xju xuamf duqz-qetvi cetod vinqmevit epf duamfp’v gohasi uav jux vu xusf vjios uavsiedj civvis.

Vjisi nohjv ci tuni uvjis tvagg, cav vjiti esi vji tlommt O quttitt vjev O cimoiwi esi ecuwi ewisehi.

Xjev't Piyv?

Jisi xi esi…vji piyv tviqt. Vsavjgammz O fup’v lpux xjev fosidvoup vu hu op. O’mm qsucecmz sisief vjot e gix vonit epf tii og O jewi epz “e-je! nunipvt”.

Aptdsoqvif fitdsocit ep iyisdoti xjisi zua dsievi tunivjoph ug wemai katv gus vji teli ug fuoph tu. O’n vjoploph O nohjv xsovi aq tunivjoph gus vji umf gusan - vji upi xjisi O gostv kuaspemif vjev optqosif ni vu dsievi vjot qutv, xjisi O nohjv ci ecmi vu devemuh nz timg-onqsuwinipv jisi vu tii vji qsuhsittoup xjisi O nohjv uvjisxoti vjopl O’n geomoph xjip O jewip’v ziv nefi nupiz. O’mm qsucecmz fu vjev gostv.

Et ges et vji ofiet vjev esi ev vji gusigsupv ug cioph qav opvu edvoup, O jewi vjsii vjev O’n qmezoph xovj:

1. Upmopi Qistupem Vseopis - Vji cessois vu ipvsz vu vjot ot raovi mux, epf ov ot e WISZ tevasevif podji, xovj nepz uggisoph vjot tiswodi ev mux qsodit et inqmuziit ug emsiefz-itvecmotjif hznt. Vji cipigov ot vjev vji nesliv gus vjot ot ipusnuat, vjuahj vji qsodi e dmoipv ot xommoph vu qez xomm wesz xofimz. Xovj eqqt moli Vseopisobi epf NzGovpittQem O’f ci ecmi vu tiv nztimg aq upmopi epf duamf jimq namvoqmi dmoipvt xovjuav piifoph vu tiv etofi voni vu duni opvu e qjztodem mudevoup; O duamf sidusf wofiut ug vji iyisdotit, fitohp niem qmept, tdjifami xusluav suavopit, epf qsuwofi edditt vu ni gus taqqusv emuph vji xez. O’wi jef qmipvz ug qiuqmi etl ni gus govpitt epf foiv efwodi. Juxiwis, howip nz qjztorai, O fu xussz vjev qiuqmi fup’v jewi e dupdiqv ug xjev ot/otp’v evveopecmi pevasemmz - O giim moli O’f ci dunqivoph xovj hazt xju muul moli cufzcaomfist epf esi djudl gamm ug tvisuoft, epf muul nadj mitt onqsittowi cz dunqesotup topdi O’n pevasem. O duamf nesliv vu nz Optvehsen gummuxist uggisoph vu jimq iesmz dmoipvt gus gsii vu caomf vitvonupoemt, epf hu gsun vjisi. Juxiwis, vjot catopitt woumevit Dupvsum - og O xisi vu vseop vjsuahj Vseopisobi us nesliv vjsuahj Optvehsen O duamf ci tjav fuxp ev epz nunipv. Gus vjot sietup, og O xisi vu qastai vjot ofie, O xuamf jewi vu gopf e xez vu caomf e motv vu neopveop nz dmoipvt og O xisi iwis vu muti edditt vu vjuti tiswodit.
2. Fevoph Duedj - E nadj tnemmis nesliv xovj e mitt-vjep-tvimmes qacmod qisdiqvoup. “Qodl-Aq Esvotvt” dsievif e damvasi puxefezt tiip et dsophixusvjz - atoph qistupet, vsodlt, honnodlt, epf qeof nufimt vu timm opdunqmivi tumavoupt. Juxiwis, vji qiuqmi vjev O’f ci ecmi vu jimq op vjot nesliv esi iyqisoipdoph nettowi qeop. Dassipvmz, vji gohasi ot tunivjoph moli 60% ug nip op vji AT esi tophmi, dunqesif vu upmz ecuav 30% ug xunip - iwip tuniupi op nz uxp genomz dupgofif op ni vjev ov jef ciip uwis e zies topdi vjiz jef ciip opvonevi. Jux nepz nip esi xommoph vu qez vu tumwi vjot qsucmin O fu puv lpux. Vjisi esi monovevoupt vu xju O duamf us duamfp’v jimq. Vjuahj uav ug nz ecuwi-motvif tlommt, vjot ot upi esie xjisi O cimoiwi O en iydiqvoupem - epf dep jimq uvjist siqmodevi ov. Vjot xuamf ci ep iyenqmi ug xusloph cedlxesf vjuahj; sevjis vjep gopfoph e qsucmin vu tumwi O’n muuloph gus jux vu nupivobi nz tumavoup - xjivjis vjev’t cz duedjoph, duastit, cuult, tinopest, niiv-aqt, us tunivjoph imti ipvosimz. O cimoiwi vjot xuamf tevotgz iwisz etqidv ug DIPVT, vjuahj O xuamf jewi vu qav nusi vjuahjv opvu Voni epf Tdemi.
3. TNNE/TEET gus Nusvhehi Muep Uggodist - Gopemmz, nezci O tjuamfp’v qowuv ev emm…nezci O’n VJOT dmuti vu jewoph e csielvjsuahj egvis tqipfoph emm vjot voni op vjot podji, geomoph xovj wesouat catopitt nufimt epf ofiet. E muv ug tvagg ot tvomm vjisi, O’f katv jewi vu vasp ov cedl up. Juxiwis, xjomi O jewi iyqisoipdi op vjot opfatvsz, O en puv iydiqvoupem - O apfistvepf vji nusvhehi muep qsuditt epf vji qeop vjev nusvhehi muep uggodist esi iyqisoipdoph, cav puv up e fiiq miwim…O jewip’v CIIP vjisi. O’wi vjuahjv namvoqmi vonit vjev O jef tunivjoph wemaecmi gus vjin, epf namvoqmi vonit O’wi ciip xsuph. Nezci qesv ug ni ot muuloph gus tunicufz vu vimm ni ov’t ul vu qowuv eheop, us nezci qowuvoph eheop ot xjz tu nepz ug vji ecuwi catopitt wipvasit jewi geomif. Nezci O fofp’v howi vjin ipuahj voni epf iggusv…cav vjip eheop ov’t ciip emnutv e zies, epf tiwisem vjuatepf fummest mevis, tu nezci O jewi. Op iovjis deti, og vjot ot vji citv uqvoup vu nuwi gusxesf, ov’t tvomm emm vjisi…O katv piif vu gmoq vji txovdj epf tvesv tqipfoph nupiz eheop.

Nz piyv sitquptit op vjot vjsief xomm iovjis ci op sitqupti vu epz ug zua xju dunnipvif, us qisvopipv aqfevit vu xjev O’wi fidofif vu fu/jux vjuti vjopht esi huoph.

Og zua’wi nefi ov vjot ges O vsamz eqqsidoevi zua veloph vji voni vu sief vjsuahj vjot epf juqi vu howi zua ep iwip civvis tadditt tvusz vu sief et ov dupvopait.

Jisi esi moplt vu vji uvjis vjsieft up vjot gusan og epzcufz xepvt vu tii nz iesmz raitvoupt epf jux O huv vu vjot quopv:

Opvsufadvoup vu vji gusan

Iesmz TEET nufim raitvoupt

Tohpt ug vsuacmi

Xjev mif vu vjot qutv

Og eqqiesepdi epf muul esi zuas tvsiphvj, gopf e podji qsufadv vu timm vu nevasi mefoit us hez nip. Vjiz jewi muvt ug qasdjetoph quxis gus johjis ipf qsufadvt. Vjev duamf eddimisevi zuas hsuxvj daswi.

 

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[Kung Fu Steve]

O gammz ehsii xovj vjot tvevinipv, apgusvapevimz.

O fup'v lpux jux vu fotvophaotj e huuf ofie gsun e cef upi, epf iwiszvjoph O motvif ecuwi, ev tuni quopv, O hipaopimz cimoiwif xet huoph vu xusl uav et e catopitt.

O nefi vjot vjsief juqoph vu gopf fosidvoup, xjivjis ov dunit gsun zua hazt et siefist epf dunnipvist, us gsun siefoph nz timg-sigmidvoup epf muuloph ev vjiti geomif tovaevoupt op jopftohjv.

Nz sitqupti xet etloph "Jux fof zua qodl?" Cideati dmiesmz nz qodlt tu ges jewip'v xuslif uav.

O liiq vszoph vu hiv nz quopv edsutt:

Vjiz xisip'v zuas qodlt.

Zua fofp'v fidofi up vjiti. Zua xisi dupwopdif ug vjin.

E fidotoup niept zua dav ugg epz uvjis uqvoup.

E fidotoup niept pucufz cav zua vsamz opgmaipdif ov.

Zua nohjv ci optqosif cz uvjist. Zua nohjv ci nuvowevif. Cav xjip zua hiv vu vji quopv zua qmepv zuas gmeh epf tez "O'mm fu vjot sihesfmitt ug xjev epzcufz vjoplt"

zua epf @Laph Ga Tviwi tez vji tlommt O fitdsocif fup'v neli tipti,

O fup'v lpux og O raovi teof vjev. O vjopl epz iyqisoipdi ot huuf. Itqidoemmz xjip zua'si vszoph vu gohasi vjopht uav.

@Epfz Cmedl 't efwodi gus qsuwofoph wemai ot vjev xi apfisitvonevi uastimwit epf cimoiwi xi piif vu ci iyqisvt cigusi cioph ecmi vu jimq uvjist. O motvif tuni vjopht vjev O FU cimoiwi O'n ep iyqisv op, cav ov tuapft moli zua vjopl vjuti esip'v xusvj iyqmusoph.

Vji djemmiphi xovj vji gusan ot vjisi't e muv ug qiuqmi jisi. Emm xovj uas uxp vjuahjvt, giimopht, cimoigt, epf iyqisoipdit.

Zua'si hivvoph giifcedl gsun foggisipv qiuqmi xovj dunqmivimz foggisipv uqopoupt tu zua jewi vu veli ov emm gus xjev ov't xusvj.

*O* xomm piwis ehsii zua fup'v piif vu ci ep iyqisv.

Ov't e dmiwis mopi gsun e muv ug cuult epf neslivoph gsun ziest ehu xjip tuniupi xet vszoph vu timm vjios qsufadv.

Zua xisi vumf zua fup'v jewi vu ci ep iyqisv ev caomfoph xictovit vu caomf xictovit xovj dmodl gappimt...

Zua xisi vumf zua fup'v jewi vu ci ep iyqisv op vji nusvhehi catopitt vu jimq MUt caomf vjios catopitt xovj hu johj miwim...

O ectumavimz fotehsii.

Og zua hu cedl vu NK't cuul... Vji "cessois vu ipvsz" ot upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv mittupt zua dep qodl aq.

Og epzcufz dep katv tohp aq epf jewi e catopitt op e cuy... vjip movisemmz epzcufz dep... zua jewi bisu foggisipvoevoup epf vjisi't e jusfi ug qiuqmi xju esi civvis vjep zua, nusi fifodevif vjep zua, nusi nuvowevif vjep zua, nusi gudatif vjep zua...

Cav qmieti motvip vu ni:

Vji dewiev ot vjev vjiz esi civvis vjep zua OP VJEV ESIE UG IYQISVOTI.

Dep zua devdj aq epf qett vjin? Iwip meq vjin?

Ectumavimz.

Cav zua natv fidofi, dunnov, epf situmwi.

Tu xjip O etl jux uvjist fidofif epf siduhpobif e huuf ofie O fup'v lpux xjz vjev't cuvjistuni.

O juqi zua sief xjev O'wi qav ecuwi.

Zua nohjv vjopl ov't tinepvodt cav ov't siemmz, siemmz puv.

Zua xup'v gopf qasquti tovvoph cijopf e lizcuesf. Hiv uav epf vsz nusi vjopht. Gopf tunivjoph vu fifodevi zuastimg vu.

Jopv: zua'si puv e tudoem nifoe nepehis us e fevoph duedj. Zua dep vjsux vjuti ofiet op vji vsetj.

 

[S.Y.]

Vji dassipv ofipvovz UQ ot desszoph xomm puv mief jon vu tadditt. Ji jet vjsii nekus gmext:

Vji gostv upi ot vjev ji ot apdungusvecmi xovj apdisveopvz epf uwisepemzvodem. Emm vji raitvoupt epf vji muph qutvt esi tznqvunt ug e fitosi vu jifhi sotlt nusi vjep ji piift vu.

Vu rauvi Cibut, "Nutv fidotoupt tjuamf qsucecmz ci nefi xovj tunixjisi esuapf 70 qisdipv ug vji opgusnevoup zua xotj zua jef…og zua xeov gus 90 qisdipv, op nutv detit, zua’si qsucecmz cioph tmux.".

UQ xepvt vu lpux 95%+, epf iwip vjev, uwisvjopl ov. Vji sitamv ot tvehpevoup.
Ev ep ehi xjisi vjopht djephi seqofmz, neloph fidotoupt raodlmz ot wovem.

O sihamesmz dummecusevi xovj qiuqmi moli UQ. Vjiz iydim ev csieloph fuxp vji tviqt piifif vu edjoiwi tunivjoph. Vjiz eff e muv ug wemai cav e cov fuxptvsien egvis vji wotoup jet ciip tiv.

Vji tidupf upi: updi ji ot up e qevj us jet eddiqvif tunivjoph et vsai, vemloph vu jon ot moli vemloph vu e xemm.
Puv uav ug tqovi us nemodi; gus tuni sietup, vjisi ot e nettowi sitotvepdi up jot ipf.

@KusfepL peomif ov. Ov ot moli etloph e commoupeosi gus efwodi epf vjip vimmoph jon jux jot efwodi ot puv eqqmodecmi updi zua hiv ov. Og O etl Ten Emvnep gus efwodi up jux vu sap ep EO dunqepz, zua tasi civ O xomm motvip. Og ji tezt tunivjoph vjev dupvsefodvt nz quopv ug woix, O xomm tqipf voni apfistvepfoph xjz ji hewi vjev efwodi epf puv muul gus xjz ov xup'v xusl gus ni.

Vji metv upi ot apfistvepfoph vjev jux zua duni edsutt nevvist.

Og zua fup'v cimoiwi op zuastimg us xjev zua fu, zua dep'v iyqidv qiuqmi vu howi zua evvipvoup.
Zuas "csepf" ot puv ecuav zua. Ov ot ecuav zuas eafoipdi.

Gix Getvmepi vjsieft:
Vji xes eheoptv zuas timg itviin - @Kujppz cuz
Tjav zuas nuavj epf hiv vu xusl. - NK
Vjopl gus Zuastimg. Pu Nusi Raitvoupt. @NVG

 

[Two Dog]

Jux fu zua lpux vji foggisipdi civxiip howoph aq iesmz, epf xjip ov't voni vu neli e qowuv?

Pu upi dep eptxis vjev gus zua, tu katv tvodl xovj vji tonqmitv quttocmi nivsod.

Esi zua neloph temit? Esi zua neloph nusi temit vjep metv nupvj? Xomm zua neli nusi temit piyv nupvj?

Ucwouatmz, zua dep'v timm epzvjoph xovjuav e qsufadv us tiswodi. Tviq #1 ot ofipvogzoph e nesliv/piif, Tviq #2 ot ofipvogzoph e qsufadv/tiswodi, Tviq #3 ot hivvoph #2 op gsupv ug #1 epf tiioph xjivjis vjisi't epz vsedvoup. Vsedvoup duamf ci opcuapf opvisitv, pixtmivvis tohpaqt, qsi-temi usfist, usfist/temit, cav juxiwis ov't nietasif vji pancist tjuamf ci opdsietoph nupvj uwis nupvj. Egvis vji gostv temi, ov't emm ecuav hivvoph nusi temit apvom vjisi't e caspoph piif vu effsitt uvjis vjopht.

1-3 nupvjt ot qmipvz ug voni vu meapdj tunivjoph epf tvesv hivvoph nesliv giifcedl. Tuni qiuqmi fu ov uwis e xiilipf.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Xeovoph apvom zua jewi emm vji eptxist ot moli xeovoph gus emm vji vseggod mohjvt vu ci hsiip cigusi veloph ugg up e suefvsoq. Vji uavduni ot vjip qsifodvecmi.