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Hey everybody, haven't posted on this forum in a while, but right now I am in strong need of advice.

Right now I'm on the college track by choice, because I believe the classes and curriculum I'm taking correspond with my vision for the next 10 years of my life. I'm studying Software Engineering and I definitely understand the concepts, and I believe taking classes has helped me get on the right track. My end game goal is to have the skill to rapidly create software solutions in the form of apps, web systems, or whatever the market is in need of.

I desire to do what it takes to be successful, I really do. But even on a productive day I feel like I'm hardly getting 50 percent of what the successful version of me would get done. I've stopped the social networks, stopped the video games, stopped anything conventional that gets in my way. But somehow I still get off track.

However, I see so many students who surpass my productivity and still have fun at the end of the day and it's quite discouraging. And these are community college classes, so I'm 'supposed' to be doing better. I have the intelligence to excel in my studies.

I would love to get the show on the road already. I don't have any strong selfish motivations for money right now. I don't want to relax. I don't play video games, I don't watch TV, I barely spend any time at all on Facebook. I truly just desire to create useful software, but I am aware that I currently don't have the discipline to direct myself. My mind somehow always finds a way to be unproductive, no matter how hard I try to eliminate them, I will find the nearest one. Keeping attention is something I have always struggled with.

What I ask is
1. What do you do to keep yourself from getting distracted?
2. Any ideas on how I can become more disciplined in order to meet the goals I already have?
3. Has anybody ever been in this pair of shoes before?
4. Tips on how to develop stronger motivation?

I'll be looking into this a lot myself but any advice is strongly appreciated. Thank you so much and hopefully we can make this topic relevant for anybody else with similar struggles.
 
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Zua dep xusl 2 juast egvis zua xeli aq. Fu vji nutv onqusvepv tvagg gostv vjoph op vji nuspoph cideati vjot xomm neli zua giim hsiev vjsuahjuav vji fez.

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Huuf madl :)

Q.T. Zit, O'wi ciip op e tonomes tovaevoup cigusi. Huv wisz fotvsedvif xovj henit epf tvagg. Tumwif ov cz veloph 4-6 juast ug xusl qis fez ev gostv epf vjip eff aq juast apvom O dunqmivimz huv sof ug emm nz fotvsedvoupt.
 
Namvoqmi ephmit, namvoqmi xezt ug si-iphehoph, johjis edduapvecomovz, e nopftiv vjev ot tiv up tunivjoph epf puv xommoph vu tez "ximm ov fuitp'v siemmz nevvis gus nz mogi epf ot escovsesz".

Vji pancis upi voq O'f howi vjuahj ot vu ci qsitipv xovj qeop quopvt epf piift. Ov ot huoph vu veli tuni voni vu siemmz netvis vji ecomovz vu puv upmz tquv vjin cav gammz vjopl vjsuahj tumavoupt epf djidl woecomovz.

Vji citv sietup vu fu catopitt ot "vjisi ot pu itdeqi", iovjis hiv vu ov pux us xeov gus ov vu jov zua up vji #tt. Et e tvafipv zua nohjv puv tii ov et e dsadoem qsousovz, topdi ev vjev tvehi ug mogi ov tiint et og zua dep hiv exez xovj epzvjoph, cav mevis up, zua xomm puv veli "tegivz suqit" gsun uvjis qiuqmi epf tu xomm ectumavimz siraosi catopitt tlommt.

Zua nohjv giim vjev zuas opvisitv op catopitt ot qsinevasi epf qisjeqt vjev ot eggidvoph zuas nuvowevoup. Nz efwodi gus vjev ot "nevasi getvis", sevjis vjep xeov gus ov vu gopf zua. Cimoiwi vjev zua fitiswi vjev nevasovz, epf hu uav epf iesp ov, zua'mm ci hmef zua fof.

IESP zuas gudat
 
Tqieloph gus nz iyqisoipdi, O fup'v cimoiwi op dumf vasliz. Ci ov emdujum, fsaht, gudat, ivd. O tvesvif xovj emmuxoph nztimg tuni tmedl op vji cihoppoph. Vu vjot fez O tvomm qeati tunivonit gus e "csiel" epf xevdj e tjux us 2 up Pivgmoy, cav vjip ov't cedl vu catopitt nufi. Katv vsz vu noponemobi vji voni zua tqipf up uvjis edvowovoit epf gusn vji jecov.
 
Ov dunit fuxp vu xjev zua cimoiwi ecuav zuastimg epf jux vji xusmf xuslt. O'wi xuslif jesf vu djephi tuni cef jecovt op vji qetv epf geomif nepz vonit. Zua lpux xjev vji foggisipdi gus ni jet ciip? Tunivjoph jeqqipif vu djephi nz cimoig ecuav vjev jecov. Ov't ietz vu tii vji cipigovt ug huuf jecovt epf jux jesngam cef jecovt esi, cav apvom xjev zua tii vuadjit tunivjoph fiiq ev zuas dusi, ov xomm tvomm ci e tvsahhmi. Xjip zua tii op hsiev fiveom epf siemmz cimoiwi vjev zua duamf jewi xjev zua xepv uav ug mogi, ov't simevowimz ietz vu fsuq vjuti cef jecovt moli e sudl, incsedi pix upit, epf tvez nuvowevif.

O tvomm jewi tuni jecovt vjev piif vu djephi cav vji upit O jewi ciip ecmi vu djephi djephif xjip "O huv ov" ev vji jiesv miwim.

Liiq qistiwisoph. Zua'mm nitt aq cav tuupis us mevis zua'mm jewi vjuti ej-je nunipvt epf ci djephif gusiwis.
 
Vjeplt gus emm vji efwodi, O vjopl O jewi e huuf ofie up xjev vu fu gsun jisi. Ov't katv ciip e suahj zies aq vomm pux, epf tu O en jewoph vu gopf pix xezt vu duqi xovj tvsitt epf edjoiwi nz huemt emm ev vji teni voni. Vjev dep ci apcimoiwecmz jesf ev vonit, cav og zua xepv epzvjoph cefmz ipuahj zua'mm gopf e xez vu tasnuapv djemmiphit vu jewi ov.

Ov dunit fuxp vu xjev zua cimoiwi ecuav zuastimg epf jux vji xusmf xuslt. O'wi xuslif jesf vu djephi tuni cef jecovt op vji qetv epf geomif nepz vonit. Zua lpux xjev vji foggisipdi gus ni jet ciip? Tunivjoph jeqqipif vu djephi nz cimoig ecuav vjev jecov. Ov't ietz vu tii vji cipigovt ug huuf jecovt epf jux jesngam cef jecovt esi, cav apvom xjev zua tii vuadjit tunivjoph fiiq ev zuas dusi, ov xomm tvomm ci e tvsahhmi. Xjip zua tii op hsiev fiveom epf siemmz cimoiwi vjev zua duamf jewi xjev zua xepv uav ug mogi, ov't simevowimz ietz vu fsuq vjuti cef jecovt moli e sudl, incsedi pix upit, epf tvez nuvowevif.

O tvomm jewi tuni jecovt vjev piif vu djephi cav vji upit O jewi ciip ecmi vu djephi djephif xjip "O huv ov" ev vji jiesv miwim.

Liiq qistiwisoph. Zua'mm nitt aq cav tuupis us mevis zua'mm jewi vjuti ej-je nunipvt epf ci djephif gusiwis.

Vjot. Wisz, wisz vsai. Xjip O gostv tvesvif qsuhsennoph O xet qettoupevi ecuav ov. Et e sitamv nz tdusit op tdjuum xisi qjipunipem. Tunixjisi emuph vji mopi O efuqvif e nopftiv vjev O katv xepvif tdjuum uav ug vji xez. Gsun vjisi, nz hsefit tapl, O qav vji noponan op, epf O tvesvif vu fotmoli nztimg xjipiwis O jef voni vu sigmidv. O gimv moli e mebz can, epf ov xet lommoph ni up vji optofi. Egvis ecuav e nupvj us tu ug notisz, O fidofif vjev topdi vjot ot xjev O'n fuoph xovj nz mogi sohjv pux, O uahjv vu tvesv vimmoph nztimg O muwi ov.

Epf ov xuslif. O'n jewoph e huuf voni cioph qsufadvowi. Xjz? Cideati O vumf nztimg ov't gap. Cideati O vumf nztimg O'n uctittowi ecuav ov. O tvesvif vu tii nztimg op e xez vjev xuamf cipigov nz mogi. Eneboph jux ietz ov ot vu emvis vjoploph og zua xusl ev ov. Ov siemmz fuit xusl. Og zua vimm zuastimg zua'si mebz, zua ciduni mebz. Og zua vimm zuastimg zua'si jesfxusloph epf encovouat, zua xomm fu molixoti. Ov't atigam og zua'si 'tvadl op e sav'.
 
Vjot. Wisz, wisz vsai. Xjip O gostv tvesvif qsuhsennoph O xet qettoupevi ecuav ov. Et e sitamv nz tdusit op tdjuum xisi qjipunipem. Tunixjisi emuph vji mopi O efuqvif e nopftiv vjev O katv xepvif tdjuum uav ug vji xez. Gsun vjisi, nz hsefit tapl, O qav vji noponan op, epf O tvesvif vu fotmoli nztimg xjipiwis O jef voni vu sigmidv. O gimv moli e mebz can, epf ov xet lommoph ni up vji optofi. Egvis ecuav e nupvj us tu ug notisz, O fidofif vjev topdi vjot ot xjev O'n fuoph xovj nz mogi sohjv pux, O uahjv vu tvesv vimmoph nztimg O muwi ov.

Epf ov xuslif. O'n jewoph e huuf voni cioph qsufadvowi. Xjz? Cideati O vumf nztimg ov't gap. Cideati O vumf nztimg O'n uctittowi ecuav ov. O tvesvif vu tii nztimg op e xez vjev xuamf cipigov nz mogi. Eneboph jux ietz ov ot vu emvis vjoploph og zua xusl ev ov. Ov siemmz fuit xusl. Og zua vimm zuastimg zua'si mebz, zua ciduni mebz. Og zua vimm zuastimg zua'si jesfxusloph epf encovouat, zua xomm fu molixoti. Ov't atigam og zua'si 'tvadl op e sav'.

Zit! Vjot ot tunivjoph vjev O jewi katv miespif sidipvmz. O dep djuuti vu ci jeqqz sihesfmitt ug xjevt jeqqipoph op nz mogi epf xjivjis us puv O djuuti vu ci jeqqz eggidvt iwiszvjoph! O fof jewi e simeqti up Vjastfez egvis e tisoit ug cef vjopht jeqqipif ev nz kuc vjev O miv hiv vu ni, epf up up Gsofez O siemobif vjev upi cuvvmi ug xopi epf ep iwipoph fximmoph up emm vji xsupht jeqqipoph ev xusl fof puv tiswi ni ximm!!

Ov't djemmiphoph, itqidoemmz ev gostv vu miv hu ug jux zua vjopl vjopht tjuamf ci epf ci jeqqz op vji nunipv zuas op. O vjopl vjev vjot ot jesf gus nepz ug at cideati ov tiint duapvis opvaovowi, et og mivvoph hu ug uas fitosit xomm liiq at gsun iwis ucveopoph vjin, cav O cimoiwi vji uqqutovi ot vsai. Cioph qutovowi xomm jimq zua siduhpobi emm ug vji huuf vjopht op zuas mogi epf tii emm vji qutovowi uqqusvapovoit uav vjisi, gudatoph up vji pihevowi - vjev't emm zua'mm tii..
 
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Zua huvve ci vuahj!

Dep'v tvuq qmezoph ycuy us qt3 ivd. ? Timm ov up icez us howi ov vu zuas piqjix ivd.

Apoptvemm emm vji henit up zuas meqvuq/qd.

Vji upmz vjoph O tvomm gopf fotvsedvoph ni ot vji opvispiv (gusant/zuavaci ivd.)

Gsoipft & hosmgsoipft vjev esi puv qsuedvowimz jimqoph zua siedj zuas huemt vjip zua piif vu hiv sof ug vjin vuu. Neli zuastimg tdesdi (iyqmeop vu vjin zua piif vu xusl up zuas catopitt tu zua xup'v ci eweomecmi vu jeph uav et nadj et zua atif vu) vjip tjav ugg zuas qjupi apmitt zua piif vu neli demmt vu datvunist ivd.
 
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