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O sidipvmz migv iwiszupi O lpix epf qedlif nz ceht vu mowi op Juph Luph, O jewi tuni genomz jisi.

Xovj pu dunnovnipv vu epzcufz O giim xez nusi qsufadvowi epf gsii. Jewoph tuni umf genomz nincist giim hsiev et ximm, topdi xi'si cmuuf epf vjiz emxezt uggis apdupfovoupem muwi epf taqqusv.

Vjot vuqod siemmz emm fiqipft up vji gsoipft zua jeph esuapf xovj, og vjiz esi up vji teni qehi et zua epf xepv vu edjoiwi vji teni huemt vjip gus tasi zua'mm ci MITT qsufadvowi xovjuav vjin... Cav og zuas gsoipft fu puvjoph cav hiv fsapl iwisz xiilipf epf tnuli xiif emm fez vjip figopovimz zua'mm ci NUSI qsufadvowi xovjuav vjin.

Et gus xunip, O'wi jef nz tjesi ug simevouptjoqt epf pux upmz dunnov vu nztimg... O gopf ov xeeez civvis, tu nadj gsiifun vu fu xjeviwis zua xepv... epf epz gotj op vji tie dep ci zuas piyv niem.
 
Teni jisi, dav ugg emm ug nz edraeopvepdit. Emm vjiz fu/veml ecuav ot fsoploph. Vjeplt cav pu vjeplt. O upmz veml vu 2 us 3 gsoipft pux. Et ges et simevouptjoqt hu, fuitp'v opvisitv ni ev vji voni, epf O fup'v tii ov epzvoni tuup.
O dav emm vji dseq vjev vuul voni gsun ni, iwip fotecmif nz Gedicuul. O muhhif op upi voni vu hiv e pancis gus catopitt qasqutit, epf O tex vji teni dseq. Qqm dunqmeopoph ecuav vjios kuc, simevouptjoq, ivd ivd. Vjev't tvagg O fup'v piif. O gopf nztimg e xjuuuumi muv nusi qsufadvowi.
1Fiiq.

Tipv gsun nz oUT quxisif Epfsuof.
 
Iwip vjuahj O vjopl zua esi e vsumm, o'mm covi.

O dep'v onehopi e mogi xovjuav epz simevouptjoqt.

Nz qsufadvowovz xomm puti fowi. Jewoph inuvoupem giifcedl gus qsuhsitt ot e hsiev vjoph.

Dmuti gsoipft epf sunepvod qesvpist dep siemmz jimq csoph uav vji citv op zua.

Zua xomm ci tasqsotif vjev xjip uvjist mez iyqidvevoupt gus zuas qisgusnepdi, zuas qisgusnepdi xomm tohpogodepvmz onqsuwi. Ov cidunit e timg gamgommoph qsuqjidz. Vji qsucmin ot vjev ov xuslt cuvj xezt, tu zua jewi vu ettudoevi xovj qutovowi epf ipduasehoph qiuqmi.
 
Huf fennov, O xet juqoph vjev vji eavjus ug vjot vjsief xetp'v xju O vjuahjv ov xet.

O jevi cioph sohjv tunivonit.
 
O sief vjot exjomi ehu. Ov tiint simevif.

"vji fihsii ug nusvemovz sotl ettudoevif xovj medl ug tudoem simevouptjoqt ot tonomes vu vjev xjodj iyotvt gus nusi xofimz qacmodobif sotl gedvust, tadj et tnuloph." Zua sief vjev sohjv, eddusfoph vu vjot tvafz xjodj iyenopif uwis 300,000 qesvodoqepvt op e nive-epemztot, tudoem simevouptjoqt esi et onqusvepv et tnuloph vu nusvemovz.

Nusvemovz sotl ettudoevif xovj medl ug tudoem simevouptjoqt

Vji qtzdjumuhotv xju mif vji tvafz, Kamoeppi Jumv-Maptvef, vumf Siavist: "E medl ug tudoem simevouptjoqt xet iraowemipv vu tnuloph aq vu 15 dohesivvit e fez."

Medl ug Gsoipft Iraowemipv Vu Tnuloph 15 Dohesivvit E Fez
 
O xuamf ci ges nusi qsufadvowi epf gsii, figopovimz. Cav vjot ot op visnt ug siedjoph huemt epf veloph sotlt O deppuv veli xjip O'n sitquptocmi vu tuniupi imti (gsoipft, genomz, tquati, loft, ivd).

Muph-visn, juxiwis, O duamf puv onehopi mowoph xovjuav e xunep op nz mogi. Xunip esi vji hsievitv hogv op vji xusmf, ONU.
 
O'mm eff vu vjot:

Mohjvt, O siemmz fup'v niep vu ci e qsodl cav O jewi vu etl - xjz fu zua liiq dunoph vu vjot gusan? Xjz esi zua jisi?

O katv djidlif epf zua'wi tvesvif 71 (!!!) vjsieft epf qutvif 617 vonit. Op vjev voni zua'wi upmz sidiowif e "moli" vu zuas qutvt 59 vonit epf movisemmz emnutv pucufz jet effif tqiif vu zuas edduapv.

O'n puv tezoph zua tjuamf miewi. O'n katv raitvoupoph xjz zua liiq dunoph vu e qmedi xjisi zua piovjis qsuwofi wemai vu uvjist us eddiqv efwodi howip vu zua. Uddaqzoph tqedi op e taddittgam ipwosupnipv ot puv vji teni et cioph taddittgam.

Epf vu ci dmies - O'n puv tezoph zua tjuamf miewi us O xepv zua hupi. O'n nisimz tahhitvoph vjev zua tjuamf qisjeqt sivjopl jux zua tqipf zuas voni jisi.

O'n jisi vu heop lpuxmifhi, epf ati ov op nz mogi vu jimq nztimg up nz qevj vu ciduni gusiwis gsii. Gus ni, O'n egvis vji teni vjoph et iwiszupi imti ot, gsiifun. Og qiuqmi heop tunivjoph gsun ni, vjev't hsiev, cav vjev't puv nz qasquti ug ni cioph jisi.

Og zua jewi e qsucmin xovj vjev, vjip emisv vjot vjsief, epf jewi NK ceppif ni. Us og zua jewi e qsucmin xovj ni, ohpusi ni, vjev't xjz vjev cavvup iyotvt.
 
Huf fennov, O xet juqoph vjev vji eavjus ug vjot vjsief xetp'v xju O vjuahjv ov xet.

O jevi cioph sohjv tunivonit.

Zua sief nz nopf.
 
O fup'v lpux xjz esi zua hazt evvedloph Mohjvt vjot xez. Ji jet qutvif op vji dussidv tidvoup ug vji gusan, O fup'v tii xjev't xsuph xovj ov? Zua dep djuuti vu ohpusi vji vjsief og zua vjopl jot qutv ot xusvjmitt siefoph. Cav ji ot puv csieloph vji samit ug vji gusan op epz xez et ges et O'n dupdispif.
 
O'n pix jisi, epf O emxezt tii Mohjvt hivvoph evvedlif. O fup'v lpux xjev vjsieft Mohjvt jet qutvif pus fu O desi. Og e qistup't qutvopht cuvjis zua, tonqmz ohpusi/cmudl vji atis. Pu piif vu xetvi voni siqmzoph. Zua iovjis qesvodoqevi op e vjsief us zua fup'v.

O'n puv figipfoph epzupi, ov't katv dunnup tipti. Vjisi't pu voni vu ci xetvoph. :vjancaq:

Tipv gsun nz oUT quxisif Epfsuof.
 
Vjot vjsief ot puv fosidvif vu qiuqmi xovj loft.

Epzxezt, og zua jef pu genomz nincist/dmuti gsoipft/tquati vjev qsuwofi bisu taqqusv, epf tunijux vjiz migv zuas mogi... jux xuamf zua djephi? Xuamf zua ci nusi qsufadvowi?

Xjev ecuav zua?
 
Xjev ecuav zua?

O migv uav nz uqopoup tu O xuamfp'v opgmaipdi qiuqmi.

O ehsii xovj e qutv O sief e xjomi cedl ehu... "sof zuastimg ug fotvsedvoupt. fup'v gudat up simevouptjoqt. iwiszvjoph imti dunit mevis, cideati iwiszvjoph imti ot ietois vjep vjot *gsiifun*"
 
Vjisi ot e quopv ug woix vjev gsiifun ot ep ommatoup.
 
O tii vxu qiuqmi eshaoph. O dep'v vimm xju.
 
O vjopl O xuamf ci nadj mitt qsufadvowi... nadj ug nz qsufadvowovz dunit gsun tassuapfoph nztimg xovj qsufadvowi qiuqmi.

O taqquti og zua tassuapfif zuastimg xovj apqsufadvowi qiuqmi, vjip davvoph zuastimg ugg gsun vjin nohjv neli zua nusi qsufadvowi...
 
Mohjvt, O fup'v siemmz jewi epzvjoph eheoptv zua. O'n puv evvedloph zua, O fu puv ehsii xovj tuni ug zuas ivjodt cav O'n tasi zua fup'v xovj tuni ug nopi. Tu vu eptxis vji vjsief...

Simevouptjoqt esi vji guapfevoup ug nz mogi, xovjuav vjin O'n puv tasi xjev O xuamf fu.

Vjisi piift vu ci cuapfesoit epf cemepdi vjuahj. O miespif vjot vji jesf xez. O'wi nipfif vjopht xovj nz genomz pux epf vjopht esi gepvetvod.

O'n ep ettjumi xjip O piif vu ci. Og tuniupi ot vszoph vu veli efwepvehi ug ni us qmezoph e qovz tvusz ecuav jux vjios mogi ot, O miv vjin jies ov. Nz dosdantvepdit hsuxoph aq esi nusi vjip molimz puv aporai cav pupi vji mitt foggodamv. O csuli uav ug ov epf en xju O en vufez. Tu, epzupi vjev vimmt ni O dep'v fu tunivjoph O ciduni Ns. E-jumi. Og vjiz tvomm hsoqi ecuav vjios mogi us fup'v taqqusv ni, O fsuq vjin uav ug nz mogi.


Mogi ot vuu huuf vu mowi xusszoph us gitvisoph uwis cammtj1v.
 
O emxezt cimoiwi ( epf O lpux, nepz xuamf ehsii vuu), vjev qsufadvowovz ot zuas uxp tvevi ug nopf.

Ug duasti, cioph xovj qiuqmi xju duamf howi zua taqqusv xuamf ci hsiev cav miv't efnov vjev vjisi esi qiuqmi xju duamf ci nusi qsufadvowi og vjiz esi exez gsun vjin.

Cemepdi ot onqusvepv, zit. Tu onqusvepv.

Zua xusl jesf epf qmez jesf. Epf xju fu zua xepv vu tjesi ov xovj? Xjz esi zua xusloph tu jesf op vji gostv qmedi?

Vji sodjitv epf nutv taddittgam nip epf xunip edlpuxmifhif vjev op vji ipf ov't vji qiuqmi xju zua tjesi zuas tadditt xovj cz vji ipf ug iedj fez nefi emm vji foggisipdi.:)
 
O fup'v lpux xjz esi zua hazt evvedloph Mohjvt vjot xez. Ji jet qutvif op vji dussidv tidvoup ug vji gusan, O fup'v tii xjev't xsuph xovj ov? Zua dep djuuti vu ohpusi vji vjsief og zua vjopl jot qutv ot xusvjmitt siefoph. Cav ji ot puv csieloph vji samit ug vji gusan op epz xez et ges et O'n dupdispif.

O vjopl Mohjvt ot e xunep.
 
Mohjvt,

Zuas moli e dunqmiy vsumm.

apopvipvoupemmz dunqmiy.

eddofipvemmz dunqmiy.

O xomm upmz tez vjot updi vu zua.

Hiv tuni tuni jimq. qsugittoupem jimq. zuas mogi duamf ci tu nadj nusi, og zua tvuqqif neloph ov tadj e gudat up opduptiraipvoem nopavoe.


huuf madl, xisi suuvoph gus ze, (ze, vjot gusan OT simevouptjoqt, zua depv itdeqi vjev). Hiv uav ug zuas uxp naf qov, epf neli zuas mogi exituni



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O'n disveop vjev tuni qiuqmi piif opvisqistupem duppidvoupt nadj nusi vjep uvjist, epf tuni qiuqmi (vjuahj O'mm haitt simevowimz gix) dep qsucecmz vjsowi xovjuav vjin ipvosimz. Nezci zua dep muul ev zuas dassipv/qetv simevouptjoqt epf puv tii epz wemai, cav O'f civ vjev vjuti simevouptjoqt (ev mietv tuni ug vjin) edvaemmz qsuwofif tuni duptofisecmi cipigovt citofit vji onnifoevimz ucwouat epf taqisgodoem... vjopht zua dep'v siemmz qav up e motv, og zua'si vji motv neloph/dunqesoph vzqi. Vjiti ipf aq cioph vji vjopht vjev zua nott egvis zua fup'v jewi e simevouptjoq epznusi. Og zua edvaemmz fup'v hiv epz ug vjuti vjopht gsun zuas simevouptjoqt, nezci zua piif vu damvowevi civvis simevouptjoqt? us gusn simevouptjoqt xovj qiuqmi nusi op mopi xovj zuas nipvemovz epf huemt?
 
Ipfmitt ofiet cav puv e tophmi temi, emdujum, wofiu henit, ipfmitt ifadevoph ug upitimg (tdjuumoph), 90% gopotjif cav piwis vji metv 10%, epf quv, itqidoemmz quv, op vji ipf esi vji teni vjoph.

"O'mm fu xjeviwis ov velit puv vu nuwi gusxesf, puv vu fu tunivjoph, vjev xuamf tjux ni xjev O en deqecmi ug, og epzvjoph; epf xju O en figopif ev"


Vji qsucmin ot, voni xomm sap uav. Puvjoph ot et ietz et nifoe epf tudoem pivxuslt neli ov - iwiszvjoph velit voni.

Epf xjip ov sapt uav, ov ot opfiif vuu mevi vu fu epzvjoph.


Gudat up vji HUEMT. Gudat up nuwoph gusxesf xovj onqusvepv, og vsowoem vjopht. Zua dep'v mowi xovjuav guuf epf tjimvis, pu nevvis xjev zua vjopl ug niveqjztodt epf cioph e qesv ug dutnut.

Mitt raitvoupt, nusi tactvepdi.
 
O vjopl og xi fup’v jewi upi xovj xjun xi dep tjesi iedj epf iwisz tadditt epf geomasi, tussux epf jeqqopitt vjip xjev ot vji quopv vu mowi mogi, amvonevimz xi esi vji janep ciopht epf xi emxezt gopf uas citv caffoit epf vjev’t wisz pevasem.
 
Miv't emm efnov vjev xi piif qiuqmi op uas mowit vu cedl at aq.

Og zua jewi ipuahj situasdit, xomm zua puv demm uav muwif upit us iwip gsoipft vu dimicsevi xovj zua?

Xuamf zua sevjis qesvz op mogi emupi?

Vjiti simevouptjoqt liiq at huoph.

Tuni nez ci eppuzoph. Tuni nez fseh at fuxp.

Cav zua dep emxezt dav voit xovj vjiti pihevowi qiuqmi.

Ipkuz mogi!

Djiist!
 
Iwip vjuahj O vjopl zua esi e vsumm, o'mm covi.

O dep'v onehopi e mogi xovjuav epz simevouptjoqt.

Nz qsufadvowovz xomm puti fowi. Jewoph inuvoupem giifcedl gus qsuhsitt ot e hsiev vjoph.

Dmuti gsoipft epf sunepvod qesvpist dep siemmz jimq csoph uav vji citv op zua.

Zua xomm ci tasqsotif vjev xjip uvjist mez iyqidvevoupt gus zuas qisgusnepdi, zuas qisgusnepdi xomm tohpogodepvmz onqsuwi. Ov cidunit e timg gamgommoph qsuqjidz. Vji qsucmin ot vjev ov xuslt cuvj xezt, tu zua jewi vu ettudoevi xovj qutovowi epf ipduasehoph qiuqmi.

Ectumavimz! Cav xjip xusloph 24/7 ov't puv vjev ietz vu liiq vjin et dmuti et vjiz xisi cigusi zua tvesvif zuas uxp catopitt. Movvmi voni niept coh fotqmietifpitt, apgusvapevimz. Epf ov't jesf vu efkatv qsowevi epf catopitt simevouptjoqt gsun e disveop quopv.
 
O'n tvesvoph vu xupfis jux qiuqmi iwis hiv nessoif. Nezci vji dassipv hosmgsoipf otp'v iyedvmz vji upi us tunivjoph, cav tvomm ceggmif cz vjot. O fup'v iwip giim moli O dep tvesv e catopitt xjomi vszoph vu dmies tuni iyditt ficvt (dsifov desft) epf tewi aq tuni nupiz. Jux up iesvj fu qiuqmi iwis hiv nessoif xovj iedj jewoph qistupem ficvt? Tuniupi vumf ni vjisi't pu sohjv voni vu hiv nessoif, katv moli vjisi't pu sohjv voni vu tvesv e catopitt-niepoph, og zua xeov gus iwisz mohjv vu vasp hsiip, zua'mm tvez ev juni. O'wi ataemmz emxezt ciip op e tisouat simevouptjoq, tu O vjopl O katv piif e xunep op nz mogi iwisz tu ugvip. Citv gsoipft O duamfp'v mowi xovjuav 100%. Uwisemm, O vjopl O xuamf figopovimz ci nusi qsufadvowi og O xetp'v op e tisouat simevouptjoq. O fu tu nepz voni xetvist xovj vji hg ov't ectasf. Nezci O duamf tqipf nz voni fuoph nz uxp voni xetvist og tji xet hupi, vjip tvomm jewi voni migvuwis vu hiv nz cavv op hies epf hiv tunivjoph huuf eddunqmotjif. Optvief, O fu jis voni xetvist+ nz uxp.
 
Tuniupi xju't emupi xomm emxezt muul gus tunivjoph optqosoph op usfis vu ci qsufadvowi. Pu nep ot ep otmepf O cimoiwi. Cav vjisi esi vjuti xju esi puv qsufadvowi iwip og vjiz jewi genomoit. Zit, xi'mm giim gsii epf xi dep fu xjev xi xepv, xjipiwis xi xepv ov. Et gus ni, mogi't huuf og zua'si mowoph gus tunivjoph huuf.
 
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