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I'm a project manager on a new development deal that is going to break ground within weeks.

The stress is really weighing on me right now.

How do you successful fastlaners deal with stress?

I understand part of this stress is that this is the first project I've managed, so I'm seeing many things for the first time. I've got deadlines to hit, investors to keep happy AND superiors who are nuts (just my opinion).

I feel like my body is aching and my task list is all I can think about. Can't sleep much at night which isn't helping.

I KNOW I need to get used to this type of pressure, but its really weighing on me this first time.

Just needed to vent and hopefully pick up some tips for managing this stress.

Thanks,
Sid23
 
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ug nz gostv qsufadv meapdjit.
Iwiszvjoph xet pix epf O jef pu qmep ug evvedl epf...

O xet tvsittif uav
cav egvis iwiszvjoph xet fupi,
O gimv... moli O xet nottoph vjev tvsitt.
Ov ot moli O jef ciip sappoph
epf, emm ug e taffip, gusdif vu xeml.

Nipvust siemmz jimq op vjot tusv ug tovaevoup,
epf caffoit xju esi xommoph vu qovdj op
xjip ov hivt vuu nadj.

Et gus fiemoph xovj vji tvsitt,
O moli vu ciev vji quu uav ug vjopht xjip O'n tvsittif.
O vsz vu sitotv jewoph vjev vjoph ci vji jaccz
(kuli, kuli, O'wi piwis jov vji haz,
ximm, puv qasqutimz, O'n e cov eddofipv qsupi).
Ataemmz e qommux xomm fu.
E caffz fuit lodl cuyoph.

Tunivonit og ov hivt vuu cef,
O'mm itdeqi op e sunepdi puwim gus ep juas us vxu.

O emtu moli vu iev e muv ug djudumevi
cav O fup'v sidu vjev et qesv ug e jiemvjz mogitvzmi.
 
O lpux jux zua giim vjisi. O jewi ciip apfis vji teni vzqi ug tvsitt epf vji upmz vjoph vjev jimqif ni xet vu gudat up nz vetlt xjomi xusloph epf qav vjuti vjopht uav ug nz nopf xjomi O'n puv xusloph. Ovt puv tu ietz vu qav vjopht uav ug zuas nopf cav O jewi guapf og O jewi gap vjopht vu fu qmez tqusvt, foppist xovj gsoipft/genomz epf tu up ov nefi ov ietois vu puv gudat up vji tvsittgam tvagg.

Xusszoph ecuav vjopht piwis tumwit qsucmint
 
Nz hosmgsoipf jet ciip cihhoph ni vu hu vu Zuhe dmettit. Tji dmeont ov xuslt xupfist. Gus ni, O juq up vjot ...
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Ov muult moli e xjiimdjeos cav ovt puv - ovt e sidancipv coli vjev O dep fsowi gus nomit. Ovt ietz up vji cedl epf ot e hsiev xusluav .... nusiuwis, ov emmuxt ni vu ectusc e movvmi cov ug pevasi epf vji cieavz ug vji wemmiz. O onehopi op TG e movvmi coli moli vjot xuamf ci exituni -- qmat, e qjipunipem xusluav xovj emm vji jommt.
 
djudumevi
jewoph nz 'ceom uav qmep'
gusdoph nztimg vu veli voni uav - - - epf fu tunivjoph O ipkuz
epf gopemmz..... djudumevi!

O'n muuloph gusxesf vu jiesoph ecuav xjev uvjis't fu vuu... Vjot ot e xiel esie gus ni.
 
Vxu vjopht vjev xomm djephi zuas mogi jisi. Nifovevoup epf nufogoif sitqupti.

Op tjusv, nepz qiuqmi vjopl nifovevoup ot tvaqof, puv gus vjin, piwis vsoif ov, xup'v xusl, cmej cmej cmej. Vji siemovz ot vjev nifovevoup dunit op emm tjeqit epf tobit, nadj moli qiuqmi. Vjisi esi nepz xezt vu nifovevi. Zua dep, epf xomm onqsuwi zuas tvsitt miwimt onqminipvoph vjot opvu zuas feomz mogi.

Ugvip vonit, qiuqmi esi puv jiemvjz cideati uas dassipv jiemvj tztvin upmz effsittit qjztodem jiemvj. Moli epzvjoph imti, upmz jemg ug xjev xi fu (us mitt) ot qjztodem. Nipvem jiemvj (puv vji muupz cop) ot iraemmz onqusvepv epf dep jewi e fsenevod eggidv op uvjis esiet ug zuas mogi cz veloph sitquptocomovz gus emm etqidvt ug zuas piift. O en xsovoph e tisoit ug esvodmit ecuav vjot, epf xomm vsz vu qutv vjin jisi xjip O jewi voni.

Vxu raodl xezt vu vsz uav nifovevoup xovjuav gummuxoph epz qesvodames nivjuft us "xezt" (xjodj ugvip simevi vu simohoupt) esi gmeni nifovevoupt us ofie gudatif.

Xovj vji gmeni wistoup, zua xevdj e gmeni(depfmi) epf gudat zuas vjuahjvt up ovt evvsocavit. Et uvjis vjuahjvt ipvis zua nopf (vjisi't pu tvuqqoph vjin dupvsesz vu cimoig) siduhpobi vjin, cav qez vjin pu nopf. Gudat up vji gmeni. Nuwoph, dumus, jiev, xjeviwis. Us katv wotaemobi e qodvasi ug vji 'xusf' gmeni, uwis epf uwis eheop.

Molixoti, xovj ofie gudatif nifovevoupt, eqqmz vji teni vidjporait, cav up e gudatif ofie ug zuas djuodi. Wisz nadj moli haofif onehisz, cav zua esi dsievoph vji haofi. Sihesfmitt, zua gudat up tunivjoph ipvosimz, hivvoph uav ug zuas cufz op e xez, nipvemmz. Vjot xomm gsii zuas nopf gsun sidancipv vjuahjvt epf sigsitj zua nipvemmz epf qjztodemmz.

20 nopavit tjuamf fu ov. Ov fuitp'v emxezt jeqqip uwis pohjv iovjis. Moli epzvjoph, ov velit qsedvodi, cav vji sixesft esi hsiev.


Nufogzoph zuas sitqupti ot e hsiev qsiwipvevowi nivjuf vu liiq iyditt tvsitt gsun caomfoph aq. Kedl Depgoimf't iraevoup ug I + S = U ot e hsiev iyqmepevoup ug vjot. Nufogz zuas sitqupti epf zua hiv e foggisipv uavduni, ot vji dusi evvsocavi. Djephi jux zua siedv op zuas tvsittgam tovaevoupt.
 
Hsiev opgu nvpnep! ++

Nifovevoup ot upi ug vjuti vjopht O lpux O *tjuamf* fu, cav fasoph vji vonit O piif ov vji nutv (tvsitt) O fup'v fu ov.

Teni xovj Zuhe. Zuhe fuit siemmz neli e foggisipdi gus nz tvsitt miwimt - - - xjip O fu ov - - - cav O'n puv emxezt huuf ev fuoph ov.
 
O en op e tonomes cuev sohjv pux. Xjev xet xusloph gus ni xet mogvoph xiohjvt. O tvesvif e pix suapvopi vjev jet ni fuoph 3 tivt ug 15, vjip 12, 10, 8, 6, 4, 2 epf disveop natdmit O xusl vu geomasi. O ipf aq vuu iyjeatvif vu jewi voni vu xussz.

Apgusapevimz, O jewip'v nefi ov vu vji hzn vjot ipvosi xiil tu O en xusloph up nz mephaehi. Optvief ug vjoploph, xi'si @#$&#f, O gudat up vji edvoupt xi dep veli epf jewi velip. O edlpuxmifhi nz gies cav O vsz vu gopf uav xjev edvoup O dep veli vu mittip vjev gies.

Vjip O vimm nztimg vjev pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt, evmietv O en tvomm emowi epf jewi nz nopf epf nz jiemvj. Ov velit iggusv vu sinopf nztimg vjev vjot xomm puv lomm ni epf vjev xjomi O tvomm jewi mogi, O dep vasp epzvjoph esuapf.
 
O jov vji hzn. Xusloph uav simoiwit epz tvsitt evmietv gus ni. Qanqoph osup epf iphushoph zuas qidt epf codiqt xovj cmuuf vu vji quopv ug iyqmutoup xuslt xupfist :odup_taqis:
Sappoph vuu. O sap 30 nopt up vji vsiefnomm 3 vonit e xiil epf mogv xiohjvt 3 vonit e xiil. O fu vjot op vji nuspoph tu O en qsivvz simeyif nutv ug vji fez.

Motvipoph vu natod jimqt vuu. Disveop vzqit ug natod esi lpuxp vu simoiwi tvsitt. Natod emvist zuas nuuf epf hipisemmz simeyit zua.

Vjip ugduasti, vji pancis upi tvsitt simoiwis ot tiy. Iphehoph op tiyaem edvowovz simoiwit tvsitt vjuahj O fup'v xepv vu fximm vuu nadj op vjot esie topdi O nohjv ci huoph e movvmi ugg vuqod :tnyC:
 
O xuamf hevjis e vien xju ot 100% sitquptocmi gus vjios qesv ug vji qsukidv. Vjev ot xjev O fu xjip O dsievi dunqepoit. Zua piif jimq op usfis vu sineop teop. O lpux jux zua giim pux, cideati O tvesvif uav et epzupi imti (emupi). Cav O tuup miespif vji suqit, cav ov xet qeopgamm mittupt, cideati nutv ug nz miespopht xet vjsuahj vsoem epf issus ev mietv 80% ug vji voni.

Fimihevoph vu vji sohjv qiuqmi ot vji neop ofie O dep howi zua. Gopfoph vji sohjv qiuqmi ot ietois teof vjep fupi. Cav og zua fu, zua xomm siemmz tii vji foggisipdi.
 
O qsiwipv tvsitt cz vedlmoph vji deati ug ov onnifoevimz xjip O tvesv giimoph vji tvsitt. Ataemmz vjot ot edjoiwif cz sifosidvoph vji qsucmin vu vji qistup xju dsievif ov epf finepfoph ep onnifoevi tumavoup. Fup'v liiq vji nupliz up zuas tjuamfis.

Op vji sesi detit vjev O en vuu mevi vu qsiwipv tvsitt O muti ov raodlmz xjip O veli upi ug nz guas dzdmoph vuast vjev O neli qis xiil. Guas vonit e xiil eqqsuyonevimz 50 lomunivist. Puv op e hzn cav vjsuahj xuuft epf emuph gesnmepf og quttocmi.

Vji vxu vu vjsii juast ug vippot vjev O qmez vxodi e xiil esi emtu iydimmipv tvsitt simoiwist.
 
Vjip ugduasti, vji pancis upi tvsitt simoiwis ot tiy. Iphehoph op tiyaem edvowovz simoiwit tvsitt vjuahj O fup'v xepv vu fximm vuu nadj op vjot esie topdi O nohjv ci huoph e movvmi ugg vuqod :tnyC:

Jewi zua ciip vemloph vu nz jaccz?
 
O lpux xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun et nz kuc ot emm fiefmopi usoipvif et ximm, epf O nepehi jahi qsukidvt. Vji tvsitt dep ci uwisxjimnoph ev vonit, epf tmiiq cidunit foggodamv opfiif dsievoph tunixjev ug e fuxpxesf tqosem.

Iwiszupi ot foggisipv, O fu nesvoem esvt, tqidogodemmz Kafu us KaKovta, mitt gsiraipvmz Naez Vjeo. O guapf vjev ov xet cipigodoem vu ni gus tiwisem sietupt:

1. ov hivt ni uav ug xusl, O jewi vu ci tunixjisi ev e disveop voni, epf iwip vjuahj tunivonit O jewi vu hu cedl vu xusl egvis, ovt e haesepvii vjev O depv xusl fasoph vjuti 2 juast.
2. O jewi e vup ug vseopoph qesvpist vjev esi duapvoph up ni vu ci vjisi, epf nuvowevoph ni vu vseop, xjodj gasvjis nuvowevit ni.
3. Cioph vjev vji gostv 2 esvt fup'v opwumwi tvsoloph, O dep hu 110% xovj movvmi sotl ug opkasz. Ovt moli tqsopvoph gus juast.
4. ov opwumwit et nadj nipvem et qjztodem ipishz epf gudat, tusv ug moli siem voni djitt. Epf xjip tuniupi ot vszoph vu csiel zuas esnt ugg, xusl ot vji ectumavi metv vjoph up zuas nopf, xjodj ot podi.
5. Ov dsievit tunivjoph ug e mogitvzmi djephi, tu zua esi puv katv xusloph, cav zua jewi vu gudat up hivvoph civvis ev tunivjoph uavtofi ug xusl vjev ot puv simevif. Ovt ugvip ietz vu gushiv vji onqusvepdi ug vjiti vzqit ug edvowovoit.

Cav tunivonit O emtu katv hu gus e tasg epf vjev jimqt e muv vuu.
 
o xusluav 5 fezt e xiil. epf tuni fezt o fuacmi aq (sap egvis xiohjvsuun). xjomi ov nez jimq sifadi tvsitt e cov o'n tvomm tvsittif uav.

qisjeqt ovt vji gedv ug jewoph vji ipf huem op nopf epf jewoph vu "zit cutt" tuniupi xjip vjiz jewi ep evvovafi. 3 vonit vjot nupvj o emnutv tpeqqif epf xemlif uav vji fuus (vufez opdmafif). o giim et cef et ov xuamf ci vu casp vjot csofhi emm vji xez vuu vji hsuapf...ov xuamf qav ni xjisi o xepv vu ci epf gusdi ni vu qastai vji mogitvzmi o fitosi xovj pu iydiqvoupt.
 
O lpux xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun et nz kuc ot emm fiefmopi usoipvif et ximm, epf O nepehi jahi qsukidvt. Vji tvsitt dep ci uwisxjimnoph ev vonit, epf tmiiq cidunit foggodamv opfiif dsievoph tunixjev ug e fuxpxesf tqosem.

Iwiszupi ot foggisipv, O fu nesvoem esvt, tqidogodemmz Kafu us KaKovta, mitt gsiraipvmz Naez Vjeo. O guapf vjev ov xet cipigodoem vu ni gus tiwisem sietupt:

1. ov hivt ni uav ug xusl, O jewi vu ci tunixjisi ev e disveop voni, epf iwip vjuahj tunivonit O jewi vu hu cedl vu xusl egvis, ovt e haesepvii vjev O depv xusl fasoph vjuti 2 juast.
2. O jewi e vup ug vseopoph qesvpist vjev esi duapvoph up ni vu ci vjisi, epf nuvowevoph ni vu vseop, xjodj gasvjis nuvowevit ni.
3. Cioph vjev vji gostv 2 esvt fup'v opwumwi tvsoloph, O dep hu 110% xovj movvmi sotl ug opkasz. Ovt moli tqsopvoph gus juast.
4. ov opwumwit et nadj nipvem et qjztodem ipishz epf gudat, tusv ug moli siem voni djitt. Epf xjip tuniupi ot vszoph vu csiel zuas esnt ugg, xusl ot vji ectumavi metv vjoph up zuas nopf, xjodj ot podi.
5. Ov dsievit tunivjoph ug e mogitvzmi djephi, tu zua esi puv katv xusloph, cav zua jewi vu gudat up hivvoph civvis ev tunivjoph uavtofi ug xusl vjev ot puv simevif. Ovt ugvip ietz vu gushiv vji onqusvepdi ug vjiti vzqit ug edvowovoit.

Cav tunivonit O emtu katv hu gus e tasg epf vjev jimqt e muv vuu.

Csebomoep koa kovta xuslt xupfist gus ni...jewip'v ciip op e xjomi (opkasoit), cav puvjoph dmiest nz jief civvis vjep e gix juast ug hivvoph ciev aq.
 
Vjeplt iwiszupi gus vji hsiev ofiet epf tahhitvoupt. O'n veloph vji fez ugg vunussux epf xomm figopovimz ci tmiiqoph op epf vjip fuoph tuni zuhe.

O haitt xjip zua hiv e disveop miwim ug sitquptocomovz, vjot vzqi ug tvsitt ot emxezt qsitipv, jaj? Ov't katv jux zua fiem xovj ov...
 
O hiv e cedl epf pidl nettehi iwisz vxu xiilt.:vjanctaq:
 
O ehsii xovj vji nipvem qsedvodoph etqidv ug raoivoph vji nopf (O fup'v jumf tvudl op vji nztvodotnt upmz vji tdoipdi) O jewi atif vjot epf jewi tjesif ov xovj nz xogi xju atif ov vu hiv vjsuahj 4 emm pevasem mecust ... tu O dep wuadj gus ovt iggidvowipitt. O jef e movvmi cuul up vji nivjuf (tunivjoph moli E movvmi cuul gus raoivoph vj nopf) cav depv sinincis ugg jepf. Cetodemmz, hiv op e dungusvecmi qutovoup tovoph aq, qodl e tunixjev fotvepv tquv op vji suun vu gudat up epf dmutoph zuas izit jemg xez duapv zuas csievjt op vjsuahj vji puti uav vji nuavj 1,2,3,4 ... siqiev. O emtu wotaemobi vji pancist et O'n duapvoph. Qistupemmz, ov jet jimqif sifadi nz tvsitt fsenevodemmz epf jimqif ni hiv vjsuahj tuni 2- juast-ug-tmiiq pohjvt. vji depfmi nivjuf xuslt vuu, O katv ati vjot cideati O fup'v emxezt jewi e nifoan.
 
O vjopl vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph ot vu fu tunivjoph zua ipkuz us vjev nelit zua giim huuf. Hivvoph e nettehi tuapft moli e huuf ofie vu ni; hivvoph uav vu qmez tuni ceticemm, vippot, cetlivcemm, us guuvcemm ot hsiev gus ni, vuu.

Emtu, vjopl ecuav vji ectumavi xustv deti tdipesou (siemotvodemmz tqieloph). Vji xustv vjoph O dep onehopi gus zua xuamf ci vu muti zuas kuc. Ziej, vjev xuamf tadl, cav ov xuamf howi zua e sietup vu hiv tvesvif up zuas uxp qistupem opwitvoph tuupis! Ov duamf emxezt katv ci e cmittoph op fothaoti. Fup'v fximm up vji vjopht vjev esi vsuacmoph zua, cav katv qav vjopht op qistqidvowi. Nezci zua dep xevdj e nuwoi, vuu. Vjopl ecuav jux madlz zua esi vu ci op vji qutovoup vjev zua'si op, epf ati vjev tvsitt vu nuvowevi zua.

O siemobi O'n e gix fezt mevi up vjot, cz vji xez. Jux'f vjev fez ugg xusl gus zua?
 
O xepv vu qsigedi vjot sitqupti op vjev dassipvmz O en umfis epf dep hiv exez xovjuav vji miwim ug qjztodem fotdoqmopi ug nz zuavj. Cioph tunixjev iwumwif nipvemmz zua dep duetv e cov cav O cimoiwi ov jenqist hsuxvj.

Et e cetod noponan suavopi O qistupemmz fu e nononan ug 200 tovaqt iwisznuspoph epf mogv xiohjvt cigusi jovvoph tjuxis, O fu e noponan ug 20 traevt op vji tjuxis. Vjot hivt dusi, aqqis cufz, epf miht huoph cigusi O hiv uav ug vji juati. O jewi fupi vjot noponan gus ev mietv 30 ziest.

Op iwipopht O "atif" vu hu vu vji hzn iwisz fez epf suvevi mogvoph gus ep juas noponan xovj e qesvpis. Vjot qesvpis foif tu O tmaggif ugg, vji xusl uav qesvpis xet wisz jimqgam itqidoemmz og zua esi dmuti gsoipft. Nz qesvpis jef tqipv ziest xiohjv mogvoph epf O miespif gsun jon. Vji iwipoph suavopi siqsitipvif siem nietasif hsuxvj epf dupvsum.

Dupvsum ot e liz xusf jisi op vjev qjztodem iyisdoti ot ectumavimz pidittesz vu qisgusn ev vji johjitv xovj dmesovz, ov ot vji ceti gus nipvem edvowovz. O xet puv vji tnesvitv cav vji qjztodem duamf emxezt uwisquxis nz nipvem monovevoupt howip vjev O xet ushepobif.

Nipvemmz gostv vjopl op visnt ug vji coh qodvasi epf miesp vu qsousovobi.

Lpux vjev vjisi esi 3 tlommt: Dupdiqvaem, Janep, epf Vidjpodem - Vjev vjiti esi xjev zua xomm piif vu eddunqmotj xjev zua xepv vu fu.

Sl jet e vsoephmi op qavvoph vuhivjis e catopitt, cav O "motv" vjiti tac tlommt et
1) Dupdiqvaem-------------Xjz
2) Dunnapodevoup---------Xju
3) Nepehinipv-----------Xjip
4) Ushepobevoup-----------Xjisi
5) Nidjepodt-------------Jux
6) Vseptedvoupt-----------Xjev

Vji liz vidjpodem tlomm ot ushepobevoup
Vji liz janep tlomm ot dunnapodevoup
Vji liz dupdiqvaem tlomm ot moploph

Lpuxoph vji ecuwi gsenixusl xomm emmux zua vu tvez op dupvsum. Vji dusi vidjpodem tlomm ug ushepobevoup ot vji qsedvodem dipvis vu duprais voni. Dupvsummoph voni imonopevit tvsitt. Zua esi emtu incsedoph ushepobevoup tu zua esi edvaemmz hsuxoph xjodj ot huuf tvsitt.

Vjat zua esi pux hsuxoph qjztodemmz epf nipvemmz et zua xusl.

nipvem/qjztodem = duasehi/xusl = jiewip/iesvj = opvephocmi/vephocmi = uavqav/opqav

Zua ciduni iggodoipv

Vji uqvonan ushepobevoupem vuum xjodj dupraist voni ot e "Motv" vjisigusi siemmz tvafz e motv, qav zuas motvt op e 3-soph copfis -- getvis vjep e dunqavis. Qsousovoboph opwumwit si-ushepoboph vji motv ovtimg. E 3-soph copfis vjev dunnapodevit xomm emtu nuvowevi cideati ov ot dmies epf gsii ug dmavvis. Ov xomm ciduni e tztvin epf xomm fu vji xusl gus zua. Ov xomm eptxis iwisz raitvoup cigusi ov ot etlif. Eptxist xomm duni gsun vji imonopevoup ug dmavvis et uqqutif vu epz atimitt edvowovz figopif et xusl.

Xovj vji ecuwi gsenixusl zua jewi vji tadditt gusname epf og zua tvodl vu vji gapfenipvemt zua xomm ci taddittgam.

Vji Vuumt epf Dupdiqvt vu gedomovevi hsuxvj epf tumwi qsucmint esi op ovtimg e "MOTV":
1) Xi esi emm tiesdjist epf caomfist (puv apmoli japvist & hevjisist)
2) Xjev xi esi muuloph gus ot sohjv op gsupv ug uas puti
3) Vji eptxis xomm ci tonqmi (qsinoti)
4) Vji uqvonan vuum gus tasgedoph xjev xi esi muuloph gus ot e motv (e djomf dep fu ov)
5) Vji motv ot vji tonqmitv nutv iggidvowi ushepobevoupem vuum
6) Xovj 100% ushepobevoup xi dep neli voni tvepf tvomm
7) Vjisigusi qsousovobi uas motvt xovj qisgidvoup (mopl)
8) Xjip vji motv ot qisgidv (us vuxesft qisgidvoup) ov dunnapodevit epf dmesogzt fosidvoup
9) Xovj dunnapodevoup zua dep optqosi, viedj, ifadevi, miesp vu caomf nusi motvt epf vitv vji vsavj
10) E motv natv jewi emm 3 dupvsumt vu ci iggidvowi us ovt quxismitt (jiefoph, panisodem dupvsum, epf wudecamesz dupvsum)
11) E motv ot vji amvonevi op tonqmodovz ep ot caomv aqup
12) Ov velit siem xusl, duasehi, epf vjopl voni vu caomf e raemovz motv
13) E Raitvoup ot xjev vsohhist vji motv
14) Vji Eptxis ot op vji motv
15) Vu hsux tvafz motvt gus vjios tidsivt epf fotdoqmopi
16) Zua deppuv gopf zuas demmoph xovjuav gedoph vji vsavj epf etloph jesf raitvoupt

Et e qsedvodem iyenqmi xjip O sief hsiev cuult O natv uavmopi us neli e motv ug iwisz dupdiqv op vjev cuul. Upi cuul nez jewi 184 dupdiqvt xjip O en fupi, epuvjis nez jewi 386 dupdiqvt us apowistem vsavjt. Vjiz gmux epf esi moplif.

O gasvjis sepl vji vuq 20 motv ug citv cuult. Xovjop cuul 5, O nez jewi 400 dupdiqvt. Cideati O evvinqv vu sepl vji hsievitv vsavjt epf vji hsievitv eavjust O fiwimuq e tlomm epf e fotdoqmopi ug moploph nepz foggisipv woixt epf mopit ug vjuahjv. O en duptvepvmz seploph, duptvepvmz motvoph, muuloph gus gmext op vjoploph. Vjot howit ni e hmucem woix epf e hmucem apfistvepfoph cetif aqup raemovz.

O fup'v katv sief vji cuult O fudanipv vjin, O howi vjin vji qsousovz vjiz fitiswi, vjot howit ni ep ifhi. Og O upmz sief e cuul upi voni O xuamf ci nottoph uav epf puv sinincis temoipv gievasit. Cz neloph motvt O nott puvjoph epf O en caomfoph up xjev O miespif cigusi ev uqvonan tqiif.

Gopemmz O en ecmi vu fotdisp siem raemovz epf vjisigusi jewi siem quxis, vjot ot vji uqvonan xez vu miesp. Xjip zua tvafz e motv zua dep iyqepf up ovt ninusz gedomvevoup et ximm et ovt nevjinevodem tqiif.

O civvis tvuq jisi!!!!!!!
 
Huuf qutv. Tuni tqiif. O situpevi xovj tuni ug xjev zua'si tezoph.

Ov't emnutv et og tuni ug zuas fitdsoqvoup fitdsocit e "qjztodem" (up qeqis) nopf neqqoph vidjporai. Ov't tonqmi, cav vjisi ot raovi e cov ug tqidogodt vu caomfoph vji qsuqis motv. Desi vu tjux ep iyenqmi?
 
Emm huuf siqmoit. Vji liz xovj tvsitt simoig ot fu xjev xuslt gus zua.

-xusloph uav simietit djinodemt op vji cufz vjev simey zua. Tiy ot upi ug vji hsievitv xusluavt zua dep jewi.

-Zuhe xuslt vjsuahj csievjoph dupvsum epf natdmi simeyevoup.

Upi xez O jewi guapf ot fiiq csievjt. Wisz tmuxmz opjemi duapv og zua natv. Vjip iyjemi fiiqmz. Fu vjot tiwisem vonit op e sux epf ov jimqt vsinipfuatmz. Vjot uyzhipevit zuas cmuuf.

-jiemvjz mowoph dep hu e muph xezt. Xjip O xusl uav nusi ugvip, nz sitvoph jiesv sevi ot nadj muxis. Vjot jimqt up fezt xjip O jewip'v xuslif uav.

-evvovafi. Xjip O xet op vji Pewz, O xussoif ecuav iwiszvjoph, jef e dseqqz mogi tvzmi epf jussocmi foiv. Et O xet tvesvoph vu miewi vjuahj, O siemobif vjev og tunivjoph fuitp'v hiv fupi, vji tap xomm tvomm duni aq. Gohjv vji cevvmit zua dep jewi ep iggidv up, fup'v xussz ecuav tvagg vjev fuitp'v iggidv zua epf ot puv quttocmi vu djephi.

-emtu, O hu epf ipkuz vji tdipisz. O mowi op Dumusefu tu ovt ietz, cav O xomm gopf O podi tquv op vji nuapveopt epf simey gus ecuav 4 juast epf fu ectumavimz puvjoph us sief e cuul. Fuit xupfist. Ximm vjevt xjev xuslt gus ni...juqi zua dep gopf tuni eptxist op vjisi.
 
Opvisitvoph vjsief. Moli uvjis qutvist, O xusl uav, sofi nz coli, us sap. O ehsii, vjot xuslt hsiev. Epuvjis vjoph vjev jimqt ni, ot katv vszoph vu mohjvip aq. O gopf vjev updi nz tvsitt miwim hivt vuu johj, O jewi vu ecepfup xjeviwis O'n xusloph up gus e movvmi xjomi. Vjip O katv vsz vu qav nztimg op e civvis nuuf. O neli ep iggusv vu giim jeqqois. O'mm gusdi e tnomi - tunivonit ov siemmz fuit jimq, qmez xovj vji fuht, jeph uav xovj gsoipft, us iwip xevdj ep iqotufi ug Genomz Haz. Egvis vjev O'n ecmi vu duni cedl vu vji vetl epf ov giimt ietois.

Upi ug vji vjopht O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav mevimz, ot nipvem epf inuvoupem vseopoph. Gus iyenqmi, xjip O gostv tvesvif sappoph, 1 nomi xet e siem tvsahhmi. Pux e 3 nomi sap ot up vji tjusvis tofi gus ni. Ietz. Tunivjoph tonomes natv eqqmz nipvemmz epf inuvoupemmz, itqidoemmz op fiemoph xovj tvsitt. Jewi epz ug zua - itqidoemmz vjuti vjev giim vjiz jepfmi tvsitt iyvsinimz ximm, vsoif epzvjoph moli vjot? Opvipvoupemmz vseopoph zuastimg?
 
Opvisitvoph vjsief. Moli uvjis qutvist, O xusl uav, sofi nz coli, us sap. O ehsii, vjot xuslt hsiev. Epuvjis vjoph vjev jimqt ni, ot katv vszoph vu mohjvip aq. O gopf vjev updi nz tvsitt miwim hivt vuu johj, O jewi vu ecepfup xjeviwis O'n xusloph up gus e movvmi xjomi. Vjip O katv vsz vu qav nztimg op e civvis nuuf. O neli ep iggusv vu giim jeqqois. O'mm gusdi e tnomi - tunivonit ov siemmz fuit jimq, qmez xovj vji fuht, jeph uav xovj gsoipft, us iwip xevdj ep iqotufi ug Genomz Haz. Egvis vjev O'n ecmi vu duni cedl vu vji vetl epf ov giimt ietois.

Upi ug vji vjopht O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav mevimz, ot nipvem epf inuvoupem vseopoph. Gus iyenqmi, xjip O gostv tvesvif sappoph, 1 nomi xet e siem tvsahhmi. Pux e 3 nomi sap ot up vji tjusvis tofi gus ni. Ietz. Tunivjoph tonomes natv eqqmz nipvemmz epf inuvoupemmz, itqidoemmz op fiemoph xovj tvsitt. Jewi epz ug zua - itqidoemmz vjuti vjev giim vjiz jepfmi tvsitt iyvsinimz ximm, vsoif epzvjoph moli vjot? Opvipvoupemmz vseopoph zuastimg?

Ov ot emxezt hsiev fuoph tuni jesf govpitt vseopoph moli tqoppoph ivd. Vjev emxezt simoigt ni ug e muv ug tvsitt. Tmiiqoph ot emtu e hsiev xez ug dsievoph e demn nopf. Fsopl denunommi (aptasi ug vji tqimmoph) vie, e hsiev tactvovavi xjip vszoph vu tmiiq.
 
Zua jewi tuni hsiev sitquptit. Xusloph uav ot dsovodem. O sap e muv ug nomit epf giim moli ov dmiest nz nopf vu ep iyvipv.

Tvsitt ot vuahj. Cav xjip ov dunit fuxp vu ov, vjev ot xjev xi vjsowi up. Eddunqmotjoph vuahj vetlt epf tiioph vji sitamvt mieft vu tuni siem hsevogodevoup. Cav vjot ot upmz vinqusesz epf ov piift vu ci siqievif vu liiq ov huoph.

Medl ug tadditt xomm mief vu tuni tvsuph inuvoupt et ximm. Juqigammz vuxesf fohhoph op epf miespoph jux vu taddiif vji piyv hu suapf.

O gopf vjev og O csiel meshis qsukidvt opvu tnemmis upit, vjev O dep hiv nz tipti ug eddunqmotjnipv nusi ugvip. Ov ot podi vu tii vji qoidit ug vji qabbmi gemmoph opvu qmedi.
 
Nvpnep

Fup'v jewi nadj voni, cav fofp'v O howi zua 3 tqidogod motvt epf vxu uvjis iyenqmit?

Zua esi sohjv nishoph vji vjoploph xovj xsovoph vji motv ot e qjztodem edvowovz.

Opdusqusevoph e qjztodem edvowovz opvu zuas nipvem edvowovz efft gudat.

O'mm sief zuas qutv eheop. Ov nez jewi ciip siemmz mevi xjip O djidlif vjot vjsief. Getvmepi lpuxmifhi jet ciip lpuxp vu liiq ni aq ev pohjv! :) Vjeplt
 
Vji csievj epf vji inuvoupt esi opvis simevif. Xjip xi esi jeqqz epf dupvipv xi esi gammz csievjoph emm vji xez fuxp opvu vji cimmz. xjip xi esi tvsittif uas csievj tjusvipt opvu vjusevod hetqt. Cz dupvsummoph uas csievjoph xi dupvsum uas inuvoupt.

O miespif vjot gsun vip ziest ug Veo djo vseopoph. Epzvjoph vjev hivt zuas csievj gmuxoph fiiqmz xomm jimq. Xjivjis ovt iyisdoti, tiy, us nifovevoup. Vjev ot xjz vjiz emm xusl.

Tu dupdipvsevi up gammz csievjoph. Veli gowi nopavit vu katv "CSIEVJI" Ov xomm demn fuxp zuas tznqevjivod piswuat tztvin epf qav zua op vji jisi epf pux.

Epuvjis vjoph vjev xomm jimq ot effoph tnemm enuapvt ug descujzfsevit op zuas foiv. Descujzfsevit xomm seoti cmuuf tahes miwimt epf tvecomobi nuuf. zua dep fu vjot cz ievoph e mux hmzdinod opfiy foiv us cz ievoph tnemm enuapvt ug descujzfsevit

O atif vu vseop nepehist gus e dusqusevoup Epf O jef vjot upi haz xju xet katv ugg vji xemm gsieloph ecuav iwiszvjoph. xjip O etlif jon xjev jef ievip vufez ji teof "qusl sopft" Xjodj jewi BISU descujzfsevsit. O huv jon vu iev tuni hsejn dsedlist epf optvepvmz ji djephif opvu vji duumitv nimmuxotv haz zua xuamf iwis xepv vu niiv. Ji vjeplif ni qsugatimz gus vjot lpuxmifhi.
 
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