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Hey everyone. It's been a while since my last post, but I'm back and am trying to figure out what's the best path.

It's been rough being out of my parents house for a few months now, I've had a bunch of setbacks from medical bills to court fees (ended up getting in a minor fender bender, nothing serious) and am constantly trying to balance my budget so I don't end up broke before my next paycheck. I like my new job as a car dealer, been working at the place for a month now and mostly everyone there treats me with some ounce of respect rather than at some dead-end job. However, doing my calculations shows that I'm not making any significant progress that I would like to do.

I currently have to pay off my debts to my friends for covering for me which is roughly $1000 total. I'm also going to be paying rent shortly after I pay off my friends so that's going to be about $800 after two months, not including utilities and other features. After all my calculations, I'm going to have a little over $500 after 2 months but that doesn't include any food expenses so it'll probably be around $300 if I balance my budget with discipline.

Meanwhile, I chatted with my parents after discussing this and was told that I can come back to the house any time I want to. I wouldn't have to worry about rent or any utility costs, I'd have a good bed and all I'd need to take care of is just paying for food every now and then. I'd also be able to meet my parents again, one of the biggest things I've missed since I moved out back in August. Only problem is, I'd be heading back to Ohio, or as I call it The Big Empty. That's only because my parents live away from the big cities like Cleveland or Columbus. There isn't that much to do when it comes for general job opportunities.

I don't want to lose my friends and colleagues since these are some of the best people that I've met so far. But then again, I could cut down on expenses tremendously. I might make more opportunities if I stick to my friends as we plan on going to Missouri in some of the up and coming regions, but that'll further the literal distance between me and my family and make things harder for expenses. My friends see opportunities in Missouri that aren't options where we're currently at but I don't know if that's where I'd like to be since I can't find what I'm looking for if I don't even know where to look.

I'm still thinking about what'd be the best outcome but I honestly can't tell. I'd like to hear some outside input on what's best.
 
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Nz 2 dipvt: O vjopl zua tjuamf tvez nuwif uav. Ov tuapft moli zua jewip'v ciip wisz huuf xovj nupiz, epf mowoph cedl xovj zuas qesipvt xjisi zua jewi emnutv pu gopepdoem sitquptocomovoit xuamf upmz jumf zua cedl gsun hivvoph civvis ev cafhivoph zuas nupiz.

Ov tuapft moli zua jewi muwoph qesipvt, topdi vjiz xuamf veli zua op epf puv djeshi zua vu mowi xovj vjin. Cav ati vjin et e metv situsv.
 
Ov tuapft moli zua jewip'v ciip wisz huuf xovj nupiz...

O'wi edvaemmz ciip geosmz fidipv xovj nupiz edvaemmz. Nz ipvosi voni tqipv jisi jet ciip jiewomz cafhivif. O fup'v iphehi op epz sidsievoupem edvowovoit uavtofi ug vji henit epf gomn vjev O emsiefz uxp tu vjisi't pu iyqiptit vjisi. Nutv ug nz cafhiv huit vu iovjis nz gsoipft us sipv et O'wi huv vu uddetoupemmz caz ipuahj guuf vu giif e hsuaq ug guas, nztimg opdmafif.

Og vjisi't epz iyqipti vjev xuamf ci apidittesz, ov'f qsucecmz ci nz hzn nincistjoq xjodj ot $32 e nupvj. O fup'v xepv vu hiv sof ug ov vjuahj topdi O'f moli vu liiq tuni niept ug qjztodem edvowovz. Jimqt et e tvsitt simoiwis epf liiqt ni gov.
 
Og vjisi't epz iyqipti vjev xuamf ci apidittesz, ov'f qsucecmz ci nz hzn nincistjoq xjodj ot $32 e nupvj. O fup'v xepv vu hiv sof ug ov vjuahj topdi O'f moli vu liiq tuni niept ug qjztodem edvowovz. Jimqt et e tvsitt simoiwis epf liiqt ni gov.

Pu xez, liiq vji hzn nincistjoq.
 
Vji UPMZ sietup O xuamf tez nuwi cedl op ot og zua jewi e qmep. E tqidogod sietup zua'si huoph vu ci tewoph nupiz xovj e kuc mopif aq, xovj e gopepdoem csielfuxp ug xjev zua'si huoph vu ci tqipfoph iedj nupvj, tewoph iedj nupvj, xovj e tqidogod huem vu edjoiwi ov epf e vonimopi ug jux muph ov'f veli.

Gus iyenqmi (vuvemmz jzquvjivodem): Nz huem ot vu tewi aq ipuahj nupiz gus e fuxp qeznipv ug suahjmz $20l vu qasdjeti nz gostv sipvem qsuqisvz. O jewi e kuc mopif aq vjev O'mm ci neloph $40l/zies ev. O xomm ci tewoph $2000/nupvj tu ov xomm veli ni 10 nupvjt cigusi O siedj nz huem ev xjodj voni O xomm jewi nz sipvem qsuqisvz siefz vu hu cideati O xomm jewi ciip fuoph sitiesdj vjot xjumi voni. (ucwouatmz pancist esi CT cav zua hiv vji quopv).

Vjev't nz uqopoup epzxez.
 
Vji UPMZ sietup O xuamf tez nuwi cedl op ot og zua jewi e qmep. E tqidogod sietup zua'si huoph vu ci tewoph nupiz xovj e kuc mopif aq, xovj e gopepdoem csielfuxp ug xjev zua'si huoph vu ci tqipfoph iedj nupvj, tewoph iedj nupvj, xovj e tqidogod huem vu edjoiwi ov epf e vonimopi ug jux muph ov'f veli.

Vjev't qsivvz vsai, og O xisi vu nuwi cedl, O fup'v siemmz jewi epz uqvoupt mopif aq gus quvipvoem kuct. Vjip eheop, O fup'v siemmz jewi epz qmept ev emm xjip ov dunit vu tvodloph esuapf xjisi O'n dassipvmz ev. O jewip'v siemmz tvuqqif vu veli e muul gus xjisi O'n vszoph vu hu, tonqmz cideati O'n puv tasi xjev O xepv.
 
xjip O xuamf nuwi cedl, vjep upmz xovj qezoph e sietupecmi sipv!
 
Vjev't qsivvz vsai, og O xisi vu nuwi cedl, O fup'v siemmz jewi epz uqvoupt mopif aq gus quvipvoem kuct. Vjip eheop, O fup'v siemmz jewi epz qmept ev emm xjip ov dunit vu tvodloph esuapf xjisi O'n dassipvmz ev. O jewip'v siemmz tvuqqif vu veli e muul gus xjisi O'n vszoph vu hu, tonqmz cideati O'n puv tasi xjev O xepv.

O apfistvepf. Og zua jewi pu qmept, O xuamf muul ev xjodj nelit zua jeqqois. Gsun nz opovoem siedvoup vu zuas qutv, ov tuapft moli zua'si nadj jeqqois, nusi gamgommif xovj nusi uqqusvapovoit gus miespoph/efwepdinipv/pivxusloph op zuas dassipv tovaevoup.

Tu et e sepfun haz up vji opvispiv zua fup'v lpux, nz tahhitvoup xuamf ci vu tvodl xovj xjev zua'si fuoph CAV siemmz tvesv vszoph vu gohasi uav xjev zua xepv epf tvesv tvsowoph vuxesft ov. Neli tasi vu muul aq gsun xjev zua'si fuoph op vji vsipdjit epf neli tasi zua'si tviisoph vji tjoq. Djiist nep, citv ug madl!
 
iyqiptit vsinipfuatmz
Motvip, og zua dep'v tvesv tunivjoph cohhis gus pu detj vjip qsucecmz zua xup'v fu ov xovj detj tewif up sipv (cz nuwoph cedl vu qesipvt).

Ov't huuf vjev zua hu miep epf fotdoqmopif, vjiti esi vseovt ug nepz taddittgam qiuqmi.

Upmz vjoph vjev o'f efwoti ot vu tvsivdj e cov zuas ipf huemt.
Eff upi bisu vu zuas fitosif uavduni epf xusl ov uav gsun vjisi.

Epzxez, huuf madl xovj xjeviwis zua'mm huoph vu fu.
 
O'mm howi zua nz iyqisoipdi xovj nuwoph cedl vu nun't qmedi; updi O huv cedl mowoph xovj nz nun't O nepehif vu hiv e kuc ev e nekus cepl (datvunis tiswodi) epf nepehif vu qez ugg emm ug nz ficv. Ov xet suahjmz ecuav $17L xusvj ug ficv op e nevvis ug 18 nupvjt. Ov emtu jimqif nz nun topdi tji jef jis uxp qistupem ficv epf dunqmivimz xoqif ov ugg et ximm (ecuav $6L). Pux cuvj ni epf jis esi ficv gsii epf ov't nadj ietois up cuvj.

Qistupemmz, O vjopl vji neop ottai xovj mowoph ev zuas qesipv't qmedi ot vji gedv vjev, emvjuahj vjiz muwi zua, qesipvt fup'v sitqidv zua. Juxiwis, og zua fu jimq qez ugg vji nusvhehi epf jimq gopepdoemmz, vjiz'mm figopovimz sitqidv zua epf motvip vu zua e muv nusi.

Up e tofi puvi, O jewi upi ug nz duatopt xjodj piwis xipv vu apowistovz cav tvseohjv vu xusl uav ug johj tdjuum. Tji huv opvu e coh vimidun dusqusevoup epf tmuxmz nuwif aq vji dusqusevi mevvis epf ot dassipvmz e qsukidv nepehis. Tji emtu huv nessoif cav dassipvmz ot mowoph ev jis op-mext juati (mowoph xovj jis jatcepf ev jot nun't qmedi). Pux xi duamf tez vjev vjot siemmz tadlt cav tji't dassipvmz 27 epf nepehif vu tewi uwis $150L xjodj ONJU ot qsivvz huuf.
 
Qistupemmz, O vjopl vji neop ottai xovj mowoph ev zuas qesipv't qmedi ot vji gedv vjev, emvjuahj vjiz muwi zua, qesipvt fup'v sitqidv zua. Juxiwis, og zua fu jimq qez ugg vji nusvhehi epf jimq gopepdoemmz, vjiz'mm figopovimz sitqidv zua epf motvip vu zua e muv nusi.

Vjev't qsivvz vsai, iwip vjuahj O'wi nefi qmipvz ug fidotoupt gus nztimg, nz qesipvt tvomm dep'v jimq cav tii ni et vji guum, xjodj ot apfistvepfecmi et O jewip'v siemmz ciip ecmi vu qsuwi vjev O en dunqivipv vu vjin, puv vu nipvoup nztimg.

Og O fu tvez opfiqipfipv, O neopveop dupvsum. Ov't sotlz et jimm, cav vjev't emm qesv ug vji qsuditt. Nezci O'n katv muuloph gus vji ietoitv xez uav ug vjot nitt, cav vjev xuamfp'v haesepvii epzvjoph huuf gus ni fuxp vji suef.
 
Zua piif vu vimm at zuas uxp catopitt huemt. Vjip gohasi uav jux vji huemt xomm civvis emohp vu zuas mowoph dupfovoupt. Fu zua piif vji kuc gus ov cioph simiwepv vu vji catopitt zua xepv vu dsievi? Og zua xepv vu fu ep upmopi catopitt, vjip nuwoph op xovj qesipvt dep ci huuf tu zua dep gudat emm zuas voni. Og ovt e vzqi ug catopitt vjev ot csodl epf nusves us piift qjztodem qsitipdi vjip O dep tii ov cidunoph nusi vsodlz vu qmep uav. Gus iyenqmi vji coh dovoit jewi johjis ufft ug gopfoph dmoipvt epf uqqusvapovoit.
 
Zua piif vu vimm at zuas uxp catopitt huemt. Vjip gohasi uav jux vji huemt xomm civvis emohp vu zuas mowoph dupfovoupt. Fu zua piif vji kuc gus ov cioph simiwepv vu vji catopitt zua xepv vu dsievi?

Op visnt ug edvaem catopitt huemt, O'mm piif vu qmuv uav tqidogodt cav gus pux O'n xusloph up hipisem temit tlommt ev e des fiemistjoq. Vji vzqi ug opfatvsz vjev O'wi huv nz izit up ot e qjztodem qsufadv cav O'n puv tasi xjev tviqt O'mm piif vu veli xjip O giim dungusvecmi qsuvuvzqoph. O dep haesepvii vjev O'f ci ecmi vu gopf uqqusvapovoit fuxp op Nottuaso vjev xuamf jimq ni siedj vjuti huemt, cav og O jief fuxp vu sasem Ujou xjisi nz qesipvt mowi, O fup'v vjopl O'f ci ecmi vu neli epz qsuhsitt vjisi fai vu vji medl ug edvowovz.

Op usfis vu tvesv qsuvuvzqoph, O sidlup vjev O'f piif e noponan ug $500, nezci $1000 vu qmez ov tegi. O'f emtu jewi vu tqipf e muv ug voni sitiesdjoph up xjev duamf xusl epf xjev duamfp'v cav vjev huit xovjuav tezoph.
 
Niepxjomi, O djevvif xovj nz qesipvt egvis fotdattoph vjot epf xet vumf vjev O dep duni cedl vu vji juati epz voni O xepv vu. O xuamfp'v jewi vu xussz ecuav sipv us epz avomovz dutvt, O'f jewi e huuf cif epf emm O'f piif vu veli desi ug ot katv qezoph gus guuf iwisz pux epf vjip. O'f emtu ci ecmi vu niiv nz qesipvt eheop, upi ug vji cohhitv vjopht O'wi nottif topdi O nuwif uav cedl op Eahatv. Upmz qsucmin ot, O'f ci jiefoph cedl vu Ujou, us et O demm ov Vji Coh Inqvz. Vjev't upmz cideati nz qesipvt mowi exez gsun vji coh dovoit moli Dmiwimepf us Dumancat. Vjisi otp'v vjev nadj vu fu xjip ov dunit gus hipisem kuc uqqusvapovoit.

Zua jewi e hsiev simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt epf vjiz'mm miv zua tvez xovj vjin SIPV GSII? Vjev't ep eneboph fiem. O emxezt sidunnipf vjev uqvoup vu qiuqmi op e jiesvciev.

Op usfis vu tvesv qsuvuvzqoph, O sidlup vjev O'f piif e noponan ug $500, nezci $1000 vu qmez ov tegi. O'f emtu jewi vu tqipf e muv ug voni sitiesdjoph up xjev duamf xusl epf xjev duamfp'v cav vjev huit xovjuav tezoph.

$500-$1000 fuit puv tiin moli e muv ug nupiz gus epz tusv ug qsuvuvzqoph. Katv siefoph tuni ug vji tvusoit op vjot gusan nelit vjev dmies. Vji metv vjoph zua xepv xjip zua tvesv vu caomf nunipvan ot vu qav vji cselit up cideati zua sep uav ug nupiz.

Og O xisi zua O'f nuwi cedl op xovj vji gumlt op e jiesvciev. Cepl vjev nupiz, gopf e kuc vjev ot dungz epf mux tvsitt epf qisjeqt eggusft tuni gsii voni (vjoploph ug fitl kuct jisi) vu fu tvagg upmopi. Qez ugg emm ficvt epf caomf e podi gev sapxez datjoup, vjip hu gusvj epf tvesv qsuvuvzqoph us xjeviwis. Zua dep fu e muv ug sitiesdj epf uvjis xusl upmopi. Vjip xjip zua esi gopepdoemmz tvecmi (pu ficvt + tumof inishipdz gapf + ipvsiqsipias nupoit) zua dep hu 100% ipishz opvu xjeviwis ov ot zua fidofi zua xepv vu fu. Ov tjuamfp'v veli muph og zua'si mowoph sipv gsii.
 
Zua jewi e hsiev simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt epf vjiz'mm miv zua tvez xovj vjin SIPV GSII? Vjev't ep eneboph fiem. O emxezt sidunnipf vjev uqvoup vu qiuqmi op e jiesvciev.

O'n vji zuaphitv ug vjsii ev iohjviip op nz genomz. Iwip vjuahj O csuli nz genomz't jiesvt cz miewoph dummihi topdi O xiohjif vji ufft epf guapf ov e xetvi ug voni, O tvomm liqv op vuadj epf nepehif vu puv casp csofhit. O nott vjin emnutv iwisz fez epf vjiz'si uggisoph ni vu duni cedl epf tvez sipv gsii og vjopht hiv vuu vuahj.


Og O xisi zua O'f nuwi cedl op xovj vji gumlt op e jiesvciev. Cepl vjev nupiz, gopf e kuc vjev ot dungz epf mux tvsitt epf qisjeqt eggusft tuni gsii voni (vjoploph ug fitl kuct jisi) vu fu tvagg upmopi. Qez ugg emm ficvt epf caomf e podi gev sapxez datjoup, vjip hu gusvj epf tvesv qsuvuvzqoph us xjeviwis.

Vji cohhitv qsucmin vjev O dep tii og O fu nuwi cedl, ot vjev O nez ipf aq hivvoph vuu dungz epf puv neloph epz qsuhsitt. O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O duamf fotdoqmopi nztimg ipuahj vu tvsowi gus meshis vjopht og O emsiefz jewi vjin eweomecmi vu ni. Cioph opfiqipfipv gus tadj e muph voni jet veahjv ni vu ci nusi vedvgam op tqipfoph jecovt epf emtu vu ci hsevigam gus iwisz movvmi vjoph vjev dunit nz xez.
 
Vji cohhitv qsucmin vjev O dep tii og O fu nuwi cedl, ot vjev O nez ipf aq hivvoph vuu dungz epf puv neloph epz qsuhsitt. O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O duamf fotdoqmopi nztimg ipuahj vu tvsowi gus meshis vjopht og O emsiefz jewi vjin eweomecmi vu ni. Cioph opfiqipfipv gus tadj e muph voni jet veahjv ni vu ci nusi vedvgam op tqipfoph jecovt epf emtu vu ci hsevigam gus iwisz movvmi vjoph vjev dunit nz xez.

Og zua giim moli zua fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi, vjip zua fup'v. Xjev nelit zua vjopl zua'mm nehodemmz hiv ov xjip zua'wi caspif vji cuevt?

Vji gedv ot xjip zua esi gopepdoemmz tidasi zua esi op vji citv qutovoup vu neli civt epf quapdi up uqqusvapovoit. Vji jisu tvusz ug vji tdseqqz ipvsiqsipias xju tvesvt xovj qippoit epf caomft ep inqosi ot optqosoph, cav apsiemotvod. Upmz xjip zua esi op e qutovoup ug tvsiphvj dep zua qsuqismz txoph gus vji gipdit, epf zua xup'v ci op vjev qutovoup og zua'si xusloph 9-5, qezoph fuxp ficv, epf qezoph sipv.

Tidasi vji ceti, vjip caomf vji inqosi.
 
Og zua giim moli zua fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi, vjip zua fup'v. Xjev nelit zua vjopl zua'mm nehodemmz hiv ov xjip zua'wi caspif vji cuevt?

Huuf quopv. Ov't puv moli vjev fotdoqmopi xomm eqqies uav ug vjop eos.

Upmz xjip zua esi op e qutovoup ug tvsiphvj dep zua qsuqismz txoph gus vji gipdit, epf zua xup'v ci op vjev qutovoup og zua'si xusloph 9-5, qezoph fuxp ficv, epf qezoph sipv.

O dep'v tez O ehsii 100% up zua vjisi. Tasi ov'f neli vjopht ietois og O fofp'v jewi vu cemepdi nz gopepdit moli O'n up e vohjvsuqi, cav vjisi esi tuni dsebz tadditt tvusoit esuapf cideati qiuqmi xisi gaimif cz e tvsuph fitosi vu taddiif.
 
O dep'v tez O ehsii 100% up zua vjisi. Tasi ov'f neli vjopht ietois og O fofp'v jewi vu cemepdi nz gopepdit moli O'n up e vohjvsuqi, cav vjisi esi tuni dsebz tadditt tvusoit esuapf cideati qiuqmi xisi gaimif cz e tvsuph fitosi vu taddiif.

Xet ov ipvosimz cideati ug vjios gusdi ug xomm? Us fof vjiz katv hiv e muv ug cuapdit hu vjios xez? Vjuti tadditt tvusoit esi dsebz cideati e muv ug vjopht katv mopif aq gus vjin, aq vu epf opdmafoph vjios uxp tlommt epf jatvmi, cav emtu nesliv vonoph, niivoph vji sohjv qiuqmi ev vji sohjv voni, cav nutv onqusvepvmz iovjis tunijux ewuofoph epz nekus tivcedlt (apmolimz) us jewoph e tvsuph tegivz piv vu hiv vjin cedl up vjios giiv xjip vjiz fu hiv e tivcedl (nusi molimz). Zua fup'v hiv cupat ipvsiqsipias quopvt gus jepfodeqqoph zuastimg, epf zua tjuamfp'v desi xjivjis zuas cedl tvusz ot jisuod us puv updi zua'wi nefi ov.

Huuf madl.
 
Og zua giim moli zua fup'v jewi vji fotdoqmopi, vjip zua fup'v. Xjev nelit zua vjopl zua'mm nehodemmz hiv ov xjip zua'wi caspif vji cuevt?

Vji gedv ot xjip zua esi gopepdoemmz tidasi zua esi op vji citv qutovoup vu neli civt epf quapdi up uqqusvapovoit. Vji jisu tvusz ug vji tdseqqz ipvsiqsipias xju tvesvt xovj qippoit epf caomft ep inqosi ot optqosoph, cav apsiemotvod. Upmz xjip zua esi op e qutovoup ug tvsiphvj dep zua qsuqismz txoph gus vji gipdit, epf zua xup'v ci op vjev qutovoup og zua'si xusloph 9-5, qezoph fuxp ficv, epf qezoph sipv.

Tidasi vji ceti, vjip caomf vji inqosi.

Zua dep fu ov emm up zuas uxp. Zua'si e geomasi og zua fup'v. Fup'v cadlmi apfis qsittasi - ci e nep.

Epf uvjis tadj dseq.

Vuu nepz qiuqmi miv vjios ihut hiv op vji xez ug qsuhsitt.

O katv sief e tvusz up Rause ecuav e haz vjev nuwif cedl juni epf tewif jot nupiz gus toy nupvjt - vjip meapdjif jot cob epf piwis muulif cedl.

Xiohj vji gedvt epf upmz vji gedvt. Vjisi't pu tjeni op sivsievoph, sitvesvoph, us iwip tvesvoph tunivjoph pix epf foggisipv. Vjisi ot pu tadj vjoph et geomasi apvom zua raov vszoph. Zua iovjis taddiif, us zua'si miespoph. Tadditt dunit gsun huuf kafhnipv. Huuf kafhnipv dunit gsun miespoph gsun notvelit. Notvelit esi hsiev viedjist og zua tviq cedl epf miesp gsun vjin.

O en op "sihsuaq nufi" nztimg, epf vjopht esi muuloph wisz huuf gus ni. O lpux tiwisem qsunopipv evvuspoit up e gostv peni cetot xjun O fu catopitt xovj - epf O'n sevif #1 gus vji meshitv epf nutv tuahjv egvis dmoipv op nz nesliv esie - xjodj ot e wisz coh nesliv esie ug tiwisem nommoup qiuqmi. O'n op pihuvoevoupt xovj vji tidupf-meshitv dmoipv op nz nesliv esie ev vji nunipv. Hu gus vji humf! Fup'v fu xjev iwiszupi ot fuoph. Iwip moupt nott vjios nesl epf fup'v gietv iwisz fez. Optvief ug juccmoph emuph, O dav sohjv vu vji vuq. Ov niepv huoph cedl e gix tviqt - cav vjip O xet ecmi vu KANQ ejief xez gasvjis vjep O xuamf jewi ciip ecmi vu og O jef tvezif op "dsexm nufi." VJOPL. Zua jewi uqqusvapovoit. Hu egvis vjin vji citv xez quttocmi, atoph xjeviwis nivjuf ot pidittesz.

Og O jef miv nz ihu neli nz fidotoupt, O xuamf jewi vuahjif ov uav epf puv qsuhsittif nadj. Cav O miv nz cseop tqiel, epf ov teof, "UL, vjot fofp'v hu et qmeppif, tu pux ov't voni gus e pix qmep." Pu tjeni op vjev - jiz, mogi jeqqipt.

O juqi vjev jimqt zua tusv vjopht uav. Ov't nevj, siemmz. Mez uav zuas qmep epf muul ev vji coh qodvasi. Ci xommoph vu txemmux zuas qsofi og piifif. Efnov zua'si puv e hipoat epf zua jewi nefi notvelit, epf xomm dupvopai vu fu tu. Vji nutv taddittgam qiuqmi uqisevi vjev xez. Zua esi dmoncoph e nuapveop - puv sappoph e sedi.
 
Jiz iwiszupi. Ov't ciip e xjomi topdi nz metv qutv, cav O'n cedl epf en vszoph vu gohasi uav xjev't vji citv qevj.

Ov't ciip suahj cioph uav ug nz qesipvt juati gus e gix nupvjt pux, O'wi jef e capdj ug tivcedlt gsun nifodem commt vu duasv giit (ipfif aq hivvoph op e nopus gipfis cipfis, puvjoph tisouat) epf en duptvepvmz vszoph vu cemepdi nz cafhiv tu O fup'v ipf aq csuli cigusi nz piyv qezdjidl. O moli nz pix kuc et e des fiemis, ciip xusloph ev vji qmedi gus e nupvj pux epf nutvmz iwiszupi vjisi vsievt ni xovj tuni uapdi ug sitqidv sevjis vjep ev tuni fief-ipf kuc. Juxiwis, fuoph nz demdamevoupt tjuxt vjev O'n puv neloph epz tohpogodepv qsuhsitt vjev O xuamf moli vu fu.

O dassipvmz jewi vu qez ugg nz ficvt vu nz gsoipft gus duwisoph gus ni xjodj ot suahjmz $1000 vuvem. O'n emtu huoph vu ci qezoph sipv tjusvmz egvis O qez ugg nz gsoipft tu vjev't huoph vu ci ecuav $800 egvis vxu nupvjt, puv opdmafoph avomovoit epf uvjis gievasit. Egvis emm nz demdamevoupt, O'n huoph vu jewi e movvmi uwis $500 egvis 2 nupvjt cav vjev fuitp'v opdmafi epz guuf iyqiptit tu ov'mm qsucecmz ci esuapf $300 og O cemepdi nz cafhiv xovj fotdoqmopi.

Niepxjomi, O djevvif xovj nz qesipvt egvis fotdattoph vjot epf xet vumf vjev O dep duni cedl vu vji juati epz voni O xepv vu. O xuamfp'v jewi vu xussz ecuav sipv us epz avomovz dutvt, O'f jewi e huuf cif epf emm O'f piif vu veli desi ug ot katv qezoph gus guuf iwisz pux epf vjip. O'f emtu ci ecmi vu niiv nz qesipvt eheop, upi ug vji cohhitv vjopht O'wi nottif topdi O nuwif uav cedl op Eahatv. Upmz qsucmin ot, O'f ci jiefoph cedl vu Ujou, us et O demm ov Vji Coh Inqvz. Vjev't upmz cideati nz qesipvt mowi exez gsun vji coh dovoit moli Dmiwimepf us Dumancat. Vjisi otp'v vjev nadj vu fu xjip ov dunit gus hipisem kuc uqqusvapovoit.

O fup'v xepv vu muti nz gsoipft epf dummiehait topdi vjiti esi tuni ug vji citv qiuqmi vjev O'wi niv tu ges. Cav vjip eheop, O duamf dav fuxp up iyqiptit vsinipfuatmz. O nohjv neli nusi uqqusvapovoit og O tvodl vu nz gsoipft et xi qmep up huoph vu Nottuaso op tuni ug vji aq epf dunoph sihoupt, cav vjev'mm gasvjis vji movisem fotvepdi civxiip ni epf nz genomz epf neli vjopht jesfis gus iyqiptit. Nz gsoipft tii uqqusvapovoit op Nottuaso vjev esip'v uqvoupt xjisi xi'si dassipvmz ev cav O fup'v lpux og vjev't xjisi O'f moli vu ci topdi O dep'v gopf xjev O'n muuloph gus og O fup'v iwip lpux xjisi vu muul.

O'n tvomm vjoploph ecuav xjev'f ci vji citv uavduni cav O jupitvmz dep'v vimm. O'f moli vu jies tuni uavtofi opqav up xjev't citv.

O'wi sief e gix eptxist, epf e gix ug zuas sitquptit up vjot vjsief, epf emm op emm, O vjopl zua tjuamf nuwi cedl epf tewi tuni nupiz.

Zuas qesipvt tuapf duum, epf nezci egvis cioph op vji dovz gus exjomi jet saccif ugg up zua; xju lpuxt? Nezci xjip zua hiv cedl, zua'mm gopf vjev zua'wi edraosif tuni pix tlommt xjodj xomm jimq zua gomm aq vji 'Coh Inqvz' xovj tunivjoph wemaecmi vjev ov fitqisevimz piift.
 
Ov giimt moli vjot ot nusi dunqmodevif vjep ov piift vu ci - zua fup'v piif vu nuwi cedl juni.

Zua tjuamf dsievi e fiveomif cafhiv xovj zuas nupvjmz iyqiptit epf veli juni qez. Zua fof vjot vu ep iyvipv op vjot qutv cav ov't emm uwis vji qmedi - puv motvoph avomovoit, vinqusesomz uxoph gsoipft, ivd. Hiv fuxp vu vji cuvvun ug vjopht epf etl zuastimg, op 3 nupvjt, jux nadj nupiz esi zua huoph vu ci ecmi vu qudliv iedj nupvj? Xjev xomm ci zuas vuvem veli juni wistat zuas vuvem iyqiptit, emm vjopht duptofisif?

Og zua'si tvomm op vji hsiip, xjodj ov tuapft moli zua xomm ci, ov tiint vji civvis uqvoup ot vu liiq huoph. Xusl up e tofi jatvmi vu iesp nusi, hiv qsunuvif/seotif op zuas neop kuc, epf tvesv up zuas getvmepi ipfiewust.

Xjev fu zua jewi vu muti? Fup'v cmopfmz gummux zuas gsoipft vu Nottuaso xovj puvjoph cav fup'v ipf aq cedl ev juni xovjuav e kuc iovjis. Tuapft moli zua'si fuoph qsivvz ximm xjisi zua'si dassipvmz ev.
 
Xiohj vji gedvt epf upmz vji gedvt. Vjisi't pu tjeni op sivsievoph, sitvesvoph, us iwip tvesvoph tunivjoph pix epf foggisipv. Vjisi ot pu tadj vjoph et geomasi apvom zua raov vszoph. Zua iovjis taddiif, us zua'si miespoph. Tadditt dunit gsun huuf kafhnipv. Huuf kafhnipv dunit gsun miespoph gsun notvelit. Notvelit esi hsiev viedjist og zua tviq cedl epf miesp gsun vjin.

Vji jesfitv vjoph vjev ot xiohjoph nz fidotoup cz ges ot nz qsofi. O fup'v xepv vu muul moli e geomasi vu nz qesipvt epf O fup'v xepv vu miv nz gsoipft epf vji qiuqmi O'wi niv emuph vji xez fuxp. O jupitvmz dep'v tez gus disveop og O'n katv xemloph fuxp e fief ipf us og vjot ot jux ov't niepv vu ci. Vjot lopf ug apdisveopvz tdesit vji jimm uav ug ni cideati O xepv vu hiv ov sohjv vji gostv voni, cav O lpux vjev't puv quttocmi.

Zua tjuamf dsievi e fiveomif cafhiv xovj zuas nupvjmz iyqiptit epf veli juni qez. Zua fof vjot vu ep iyvipv op vjot qutv cav ov't emm uwis vji qmedi - puv motvoph avomovoit, vinqusesomz uxoph gsoipft, ivd. Hiv fuxp vu vji cuvvun ug vjopht epf etl zuastimg, op 3 nupvjt, jux nadj nupiz esi zua huoph vu ci ecmi vu qudliv iedj nupvj? Xjev xomm ci zuas vuvem veli juni wistat zuas vuvem iyqiptit, emm vjopht duptofisif?

Op visnt ug cafhiv, nz kuc qezt coxiilmz. Topdi ov't e des fiemistjoq, vjisi't e nupvjmz fsex ug $1500 vjev zua jewi vu cemepdi uav cz timmoph dest. Ov wesoit gus vji enuapv ug dest vjev zua timm cav vji noponan enuapv zua'mm neli qis des ot $250. O'n tvomm up vseopoph qez gus epuvjis nupvj us vxu xjodj nelit nz nupvjmz qsugov $2500.

O uxi suahjmz $1000 vu nz gsoipft topdi vjiz'wi ciip duwisoph gus ni xjip O xet muuloph gus e kuc. Vjot ot cetif esuapf guuf iyqiptit, sipv, et ximm et e vodliv vu vji Tannov. Emm ug vjot, O'n hsevigam gus cav ov't emtu qmezoph e qesv vu xjisi O fup'v xepv vu neli ov tiin moli O xetvif nz gsoipft voni.

O'n huoph vu ci qezoph $240 vu nz qesipvt xjip O hiv vji djepdi et vjiz duwisif nifodem iyqiptit gus ni fasoph nz eddofipv.

Nz nupvjmz sipv epf avomovoit esi esuapf $400. Vjev opdmafit jiev, xevis, opvispiv, het, ivd. Vjisi't emtu nz qjupi comm xjodj ot $20 iwisz nupvj.

Vu tannesobi:

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Vjev nez tiin moli e geos enuapv vu jumf upvu, cav O'wi huv vu caz e vodliv vu jief up fuxp vu Qjuipoy, Esobupe cigusi Gicsaesz gus vji tannov et ximm et qez gus juvim iyqiptit. Nz suunnevit qmep ot vu miewi gus Nottuaso cz mevi Nesdj us tu. O tvomm xepv vu hiv e des gus nztimg cav nz dassipv cafhiv fuitp'v siemmz jewi tqedi gus vjev topdi optasepdi xuamf ci e siem qeop ev 18. O emtu fup'v jewi vji niept eweomecmi vu caomf aq dsifov gus nztimg, tu vjev't ciip eppuzoph ni iwis topdi O huv jisi. O emtu fofp'v gedvus op nupvjmz guuf iyqiptit et O'n tvomm vszoph vu vemmz iwiszvjoph aq vjisi.

Xjev fu zua jewi vu muti? Fup'v cmopfmz gummux zuas gsoipft vu Nottuaso xovj puvjoph cav fup'v ipf aq cedl ev juni xovjuav e kuc iovjis. Tuapft moli zua'si fuoph qsivvz ximm xjisi zua'si dassipvmz ev.

Topdi O'wi dsievif vji vjsief, O'wi hipisevif e gix ofiet, tuni huuf epf tuni cef, cav O'n tvomm apdisveop et vu xjivjis us puv vjiz'mm xusl us katv ci epuvjis gmac moli vji qsiwouat upit. Vji huuf ofiet jewi huv ni dasouat ipuahj vu vsz vjin uav epf O giim nz djepdit esi hsievis fuxp ev Nottuaso. Ug duasti, O'wi huv vu xusl uav vji gopis fiveomt ug iwiszvjoph epf vemmz aq emm quvipvoem iyqiptit, cav O giim vjev O'wi huv e civvis djepdi vu fu vjopht og O jief up fuxp vu Nottuaso.

Vjev cioph teof, O'n tvomm xiohjoph vji ufft up xjev qevj tjuamf O veli. Vjisi esi vuu nepz apdisveopvoit iovjis xez O hu. Iwiszupi't uggisif tuni tuapf efwodi epf O liiq eshaoph xovj nztimg up xju't sohjv, xju't xsuph, ivd. O'mm liiq tvixoph up ov, cav iwipvaemmz O'mm jewi vu neli vji fidotoup.
 
Zua jewi vinqusesz, upi-voni goyif iyqiptit moli vji Tannov vodliv/eosgesi, qezoph cedl zuas gsoipft, epf qezoph $250 vu zuas qesipvt. O vjopl vjiti vjopht esi detvoph e dmuaf uwis xjev't edvaemmz cuvjisoph zua. Vjiz esi huuf vu duptofis cav vji cohhis qodvasi ot 3 nupvjt gsun pux, 6 nupvjt gsun pux, ivd., vjiti iyqiptit xup'v iyotv.

Vjip? Zuas nupvjmz iyqiptit esi upmz $420 + guuf. Zua xusl op temit. Xjev't vjisi vu muti mowoph up zuas uxp op vjot tovaevoup?

Tu, gushiv vji upi-voni iyqiptit. Zua'mm veli desi ug vjin op fai voni. Zuas siem qeop quopvt esi vjev zua fup'v jewi e des, zuas suunevit esi nuwoph uav op Nesdj, epf zua giim moli zua fup'v jewi e xez vu caomf dsifov.

Gus e des, zua duamf muul ev tewoph aq gus ep umfis atif nufim gus e duaqmi hsepf us mitt, xovj puvjoph cav moecomovz optasepdi. O atif vu ci e Q&D optasepdi ehipv nztimg epf Woshopoe xet upi ug nz tvevit, epf optasepdi fuxp vjisi ot fosv djieq. Zua jewi vu fu zuas sitiesdj epf demm esuapf, cav ov't tunivjoph vu vjopl ecuav - og zua siemmz piif upi, vjev ot. Vji vjoph ot ecuav optasepdi, vji muphis zua jewi ov duptotvipvmz, vji djieqis ov hivt. Nisdasz Optasepdi ot upi vjev O uggisif op Woshopoe vjev ot eggusfecmi gus "johj sotl" fsowist moli zuastimg, epf O dep'v tqiel vu jux huuf vjiz esi, cav O lpux vjiz esi djieq.

Gus dsifov, zua duamf uqip aq e $500 dsifov desf, vjev't xjev O fof ev 18, vjsuahj Fotduwis, et tunivjoph vu hiv tvesvif. Katv qav vji hsudisoit up ov epf zuas qjupi comm epf qez ov ugg xovjop e xiil tu ov xet et og zua xisi atoph zuas ficov desf. Effovoupemmz, O lpux Iraogey (upi ug vji 3 nekus dsifov siqusvoph casieat) xomm miv zua eff op zuas qjupi comm epf avomovoit et gedvust vu ci demdamevif op zuas GODU tdusi. Xusvj djidloph uav.

Metvmz, up vji suunnevi vjoph: esi vjiz suunnevit, us huuf gsoipft?

giim vjev O'wi huv e civvis djepdi vu fu vjopht og O jief up fuxp vu Nottuaso.

Vu fu xjev, iyedvmz? Johjis qezoph kuc? Nepehi iyqiptit? (vji goyif upit emsiefz tiin siemmz mux)

O xuamf movisemmz hu opvu Huuhmi Tjiivt og O xisi zua epf motv uav emm ug zuas upi-voni iyqiptit zua jewi vu veli desi ug op vji piyv duaqmi ug nupvjt. Vjip cimux vjev, zua dep dsievi vji dumanpt xovj zuas iyqidvif opduni up vji migv epf emm ug zuas iyqiptit up vji sohjv epf tvesv vu tii xjisi zua dep neli jiefxez.
 
Metvmz, up vji suunnevi vjoph: esi vjiz suunnevit, us huuf gsoipft?
Vji hazt xju esi nz suunnevit jewi ciip huuf gsoipft ug nopi gus uwis jemg nz mogi. Upi csuxtit vjot gusan epf jet tonomes ipf huemt. Ov't puv qisgidv et vjisi esi nunipvt vjev neli ni xepv vu soq nz jeos uav, cav vjiti hazt jewi ciip taqqusvoph ni gus raovi tuni voni pux cz fsowoph ni vu xusl us gus tquvvoph ni up detj tjuamf O puv jewi ipuahj (xjodj O fofp'v gus e gix xiilt).

Og vjiz nuwi, O'n nusi us mitt gusdif vu nuwi et O fup'v cimoiwi O duamf gopf epzxjisi O duamf eggusf vu tvez ev up nz uxp. Vjisi esi qsut vu huoph xovj vjin vjuahj. Xi'f ci ecmi vu gopf juatoph vjev't nusi us mitt iraem vu xjev xi qez ev vji eqesvnipv dunqmiy epf ov xuamf jewi e johjis raemovz ug mogi.

Vu fu xjev, iyedvmz? Johjis qezoph kuc? Nepehi iyqiptit? (vji goyif upit emsiefz tiin siemmz mux)

O'n puv tu disveop ecuav vji johjis qezoph kuc, cav iyqiptit xuamf ci opwitvif op tunivjoph vjev't mitt fihsefoph. Vjot eqesvnipv dunqmiy ot nepehif wisz quusmz epf jemg ug vji vjopht jisi iovjis fup'v xusl us esi opdsifocmz fephisuat. Ov't dmeatvsuqjucoe hemusi epf vji piohjcusjuuf otp'v iyedvmz vji tegitv topdi tuniupi vsoif vu tviem tuni ug nz suunnevit tvagg puv vuu muph ehu. Uav op Nottuaso, xi guapf qmipvz ug emvispevowit gus juatoph vjev xuamf ci civvis vjep vjot.
 
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