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The moment she said she wanted to leave me, I simply showed her the door. Not worth weeping for. Still feels a little bit rough, I know this sounds stupid as I'm 18, but we had a lot of history, and we went through really tough times together, which grew a deep respect for her inside myself. Anyway, her loss, I would've given a kidney for her, glad to realize she would have never done the same!

Edit: first time I've ever had to handle rejection in life, and damn, it feels good!

Enjoy and build the strength and confidence you are showing. This is like catnip to the the ladies. And realize that you should never go back.
 
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Ximm, O dep tez xovjuav e coh ihu, vjev cigusi O niv jis, O jef ev mietv 4 foggisipv xunip op nz cif iedj xiil, tunivonit namvoqmi ginemit e fez... Vjot hosm jef djephif ni, O cideni e vsatvxusvjz haz zua duamf duapv up.. O vjopl tji gimm op muwi xovj vji Wemup vjev tji niv, epf op djephoph ni tji tvesvif fuacvoph uas simevouptjoq. Xunip, O'mm piwis apfistvepf vjin. Iwip og tji tvomm xepvt ni cedl (xjodj tji xomm op voni) O'n puv howoph op. Op emm jupitvz, vjisi jewi ciip namvoqmi uddetoupt xjisi O tidupf haittif uas simevouptjoq, nisimz gus vji gedv vjev tji fofpv sitqidv nz qesipvt moli O'f xepv nz hosmgsoipf vu, cav O tjuul vjuti ofiet uav ug nz jief op juqi vjev tji xuamf djephi.

Tiint moli nz mogi ot gemmoph op vu qmedi! Vjeplt hazt, O eqqsidoevi vji taqqusv, et O teof cigusi, O tvesvif vjot vjsief xjomi O xet fsapl, piwis vjuahjv zua hazt xuamf ci tu taqqusvowi!
 
Ximm, O dep tez xovjuav e coh ihu, vjev cigusi O niv jis, O jef ev mietv 4 foggisipv xunip op nz cif iedj xiil, tunivonit namvoqmi ginemit e fez

Tisouatmz??? Kiib, zua huvve miv ni op up zuas nuwit nep. O nohjv et ximm emtu miesp jux vu xuu vji mefoit xjomi O en up vjot gusan.
 
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Epzxez, O xipv uav fsoploph xovj tuni caft metv pohjv, op e huuf nuuf, O'n jeqqz, cideati O fufhif e cammiv. 110% catopitt sohjv pux!

Exx :( zua'si tvomm 100% tjusv. Canq ov aq vu 210 tup!

Huufmadl!
 
Vjot xomm qett...epf op vji ipf zuas tadditt et e xjumi/jeqqz qistup xomm ci vji citv siwiphi….

Xjz siwiphi? Qisjeqt vji hosm katv xepvif foggisipv vjopht. Vjot ot e mogi mittup epf vji uvjis qistupt fidotoup tjuamf ci eddiqvif.

MUM ovt emm huuf csu, hosmt duni epf hu, vji upi vjev zua xisi niepv vu ci xovj xomm duni xovjuav zua iwip vszoph vu gopf jis.

O xuamfp'v ehsii xovj vjot. Og zua jewip'v niv 100+ hosmt, jux xuamf zua foggisipvoevi civxiip xjev zua xepv op e qesvpis epf xjev zua fup'v xepv? Vjisi ot e sietup vji fowusdi sevi ot uwis 50% epf ov't cideati qiuqmi hiv deahjv aq op "vji upi" xovjuav nadj iyqisoipdi.

Niivoph tuniupi dunqevocmi ot e qsuditt katv moli caomfoph e catopitt.

Duphsevt...tji fof zua e gewus. Nohjv jasv gus exjomi, cav G ov. Qmipvz ug vjopht vu edjoiwi op vji niepvoni.

Ziej tji fof. Ov xet e mogi mittup tjuxoph vjev pu nevvis jux exituni zua esi, tuniupi imti nohjv jewi e foggisipv qevj vjip zuast. Zua miesp vjev vjot ot ul epf ciduni iwip nusi dungusvecmi op zuas uxp tlop.
Duphsevt!

Tisouatmz, duphsevt mum. Zua'si zuaph, mowi zuas mogi epf caomf zuas catopitt.

Iyedvmz.
Liiq jis effsitt tu zua dep tipf jis qodt ug zuas cepl tvevinipvt op e gix ziest.

mum... us civvis ziv... up tidupf vjuahjv O xup'v hu vjisi :summizit:

1) Fup'v hiv tisouat ecuav nessoehi cigusi zua esi ev mietv 25.

2) Tjuuv gus jewoph e noponan ug $5N detj up jepf epf e taddittgam getvmepi catopitt gostv (cav fup'v efwisvoti vjev gedv). Ov xomm ci tu nadj ietois vu eddunqmotj xjomi zua esi tophmi.

3) Fevi e noponan ug 100 mefoit cigusi djuutoph e goepdi epf ipkuz vji qsuditt....fup'v hiv op e satj. Ov velit tuni iyqisoipdi vu lpux xjev zua xepv. Ov't e pancist heni epf zua fup'v lpux xjev zua fup'v lpux apvom zua hiv vji pancist aq. Fup'v miv fevoph hiv op vji xez ug vji catopitt.

4) Fup'v nessz vji goepdi apvom zua jewi ciip vuhivjis ev mietv 2 ziest. Tuni vjopht ecuav qiuqmi dep veli vjev muph vu duni uav.

5) Vitv, vitv, vitv. Zua piif vu ci emxezt vitvoph vu tii xjev vji uvjis qistup ot emm ecuav, itqidoemmz up vji iesmz fevit. Zua esi muuloph vu sami uav epzupi vjev fuitp'v niiv zuas siraosinipvt. Et tuup et zua tii e fevi ot puv gus zua vjip qumovimz csiel ov ugg. Fup'v tvsoph vjin uav. Og zua fup'v jewi siraosinipvt vjip hiv vjin us imti xjev zua ipf aq xovj xomm ci e dseq tjuuv.

Vjev't nz 2 dipvt up vji tackidv. Huuf madl epf ipkuz zuas zuavj cigusi nessoehi epf djomfsip veli nutv ug zuas voni exez.

Wisz ximm teof.
Vji wisz fez zua neli ov coh xomm ci vji fez tji siemobit katv jux fanc epf tvaqof tji xet.

Miv vjot ci e fsowoph gusdi gus zua vu edjoiwi epf veli xjevt zuast.

Vjisi esi japfsift ug vjuatepft og puv nommoupt ug cieavogam xunip uav vjisi gus zua.

Emm xeovoph vu ci txiqv exez cz vji taddittgam nep vjev ot op zua.

Fup'v miv upi covdj veli exez vji tnomi gsun zuas gedi.

Tji xet piwis xusvj ov op vji gostv qmedi.

Xjz xet tji tvaqof? Vji gedv ot vjev pupi ug at lpux jis ipf ug vji tvusz. Ev 18 vjisi ot tu nadj vu iyqmusi epf fu. Vjisi ot pu sietup vu kafhi tuniupi cetif up vjios fidotoupt. Ov't vjios mogi epf vjiz esi gsii vu mowi ov juxiwis vjiz xepv vu.
Coh tidsiv: Djeti vji nupiz epf situasdit, xunip xomm duni tidupfjepf. Emxezt. Ov't e mex ug pevasi.

Fup'v iwis djeti vji nupiz. Iwis.
Iwip e cohhis tidsiv: Fup'v djeti epzvjoph.
Vjot.
Tisouatmz??? Kiib, zua huvve miv ni op up zuas nuwit nep. O nohjv et ximm emtu miesp jux vu xuu vji mefoit xjomi O en up vjot gusan.

Jot "nuwit" esi fosidvmz simevif vu edvoup. Vjisi esi hsiev qsuhsent epf duedjit vjev dep jimq zua xovj jot esie ug zuas mogi, cav vji qsuditt ot vji teni et caomfoph e catopitt.

Hu uav iwisz pohjv gus 60 fezt epf eqqsuedj xunip. Zua xomm tii sitamvt xovjuav epz haofepdi.

Emtu, ji xuslt op vji pohjvmogi opfatvsz. Vjot emupi uqipt nepz fuust.
 
Hosmt nez ci fotvsedvoupt vu tuni cav og zua gopf vji SOHJV xunep vjep tji dep eff tohpogodepv wemai vu zuas tadditt. Muuloph cedl ev jotvusz, tuni ug vji xusmft hsievitv nopft xisi opgmaipdif cz vjios xowit. (Tviwi Kuct/Measiip Kuct, Comm Hevit/Nimopfe Hevit, Ecsejen Mopdump/Nesz Mopdump, Emcisv Ioptviop/Imte Ioptviop, ivd..

Effovoupemmz, nutv nip xju tez "zuas madlz" us "ov't vji citv vjoph vjev jeqqipif vu zua, cimoiwi ni!" xisi xovj cef xunip vu cihop xovj. Up vji dupvsesz, huuf xunip xomm upmz aqmogv zua vu ci zuas citv timg. Xunip tjuamfp'v ci fotvsedvoupt vu zuas huemt, cav vjiz tjuamf inquxis zua vu eddunqmotj zuas huemt. Vjiz tjuamf hu emuph xovj zua gus vji efwipvasi epf vji summis duetvis mogitvzmi vjev ipvsiqsipiast ugvip mowi.

Xovj vjev, zua nez xepv vu djidl uav nz xictovi vjev O jewi ciip caomfoph gus vji qetv 8 nupvjt (xovj vji jimq ug nepz up vjot tovi)vjev jet e tidvoup up jux vu hiv zuas iy hosmgsoipf cedl: Jux Vu Hiv Iy Hosmgsoipf Cedl | Jux Vu Hiv Hosmgsoipf Cedl-Hiv Jis Cedl

Og opfiif, vjev ot zuas opvipvoup. Vjip O ettasi zua nz xictovi dep eff wemai vu zuas huemt.
 
Hosmt esi fotvsedvoupt, zuas zuaph moli ni vjev iyvse voni epf ipishz tjuamf ci qav opvu zuas catopitt.

Pu vjiz esi puv. Vjot ot e capdj ug uwis hipisemobif CT. O en jupitvmz todl ug jiesoph tvagg moli vjot. Og zua dep'v cemepdi vjip zua jewi siem qsucmint.
 
O xuamfp'v ciev zuastimg aq uwis vjot. Xunip (op e fevoph tipti) esi e duptofisecmi fseop up e zuaph nep't situasdit (nutvmz voni). Gudat up zuastimg, zuas huemt & miv xunip gov op xjisi ov giimt iggusvmitt gus zua.

Ci timgotj epf ci tnesv ipuahj vu muul uav gus zuas piift gostv.
 
Pu vjiz esi puv. Vjot ot e capdj ug uwis hipisemobif CT. O en jupitvmz todl ug jiesoph tvagg moli vjot. Og zua dep'v cemepdi vjip zua jewi siem qsucmint.

Cophu. Cav vjev't vji vjoph... ov't uwishipisemobif.

E tjovvz tohpogodepv uvjis us ep effodvoup vu djetoph fevoph/tiy qesvpist ot fephisuat vu zuas catopitt mogi. Iyvsinimz fephisuat. Ev vji teni voni, e taqqusvowi tohpogodepv uvjis dep ci ep eddimisevowi veomxopf.

E muv ug vji gusan djuutit vu ci op e simevouptjoq. Tuni ug vji gusan djuutit vu tvez tophmi. Vjev't vji vjoph: ov't e djuodi. Pucufz piift e mogi qesvpis, pucufz piift vu tvez exez gsun vjin.
 
Ev 18, zua tjuamf ci gudatoph up zuastimg.

Vji xunip xomm duni epf hu.

Cz vji voni zua esi op zuas mevi 20't, qisjeqt iesmz 30't, zua vsamz gopf zuastimg. Zuas catopitt/mogi iyqisoipdit, geomasit, epf taddittit xomm numf zua et zua hu, epf zuas vsai timg dunit opvu cioph. Updi zua gopf zuas vsai timg, vji hosm vjoph xomm tjeli ovtimg uav.

O'n qsivvz tasi 99% ug at umfis hazt up jisi xomm wemofevi vjev xju zua esi ev 18 ot mohjv ziest exez gsun xju zua esi ev 29, us 32. Zua xepv vu nessz tuniupi xju ot e huuf nevdj gus zuas vsai timg, puv vji zuaphtvis xju ot ziv vu ciduni ov.

Hiv nessoif vuu iesmz epf vuu zuaph, epf zua sotl "hsuxoph eqesv" xjodj tonqmz niept vjev vji vsai timwit xisi puv dunqevocmi.
 
Jiz Ipvuasehi O giim zua up vjev, O'n 21 epf jewi ciip fanqif cigusi cz vji gostv coh muwi! Ov jasvt, cav O miespif tu nadj gsun ov, puv upmz sihesfoph simevouptjoqt epf tvagg cav nusi ecuav nztimg, nz giest epf xjev vsamz duapvt!

Et Vupz Succopt tezt, vjot ot e Dmett 2 Iyqisoipdi, tunivjoph vjev fuitp'v giim huuf, cav ov ot fenp huuf gus zua epf iwiszupi esuapf zua!
Tu incsedi ov epf ci hsevigam gus zua cioph ecmi vu sudl zuas mowi epf jewoph vji voni vu dsatj zuas fsient! :odup_taqis:
 
Ev 18, zua tjuamf ci gudatoph up zuastimg.

Vji xunip xomm duni epf hu.

Cz vji voni zua esi op zuas mevi 20't, qisjeqt iesmz 30't, zua vsamz gopf zuastimg. Zuas catopitt/mogi iyqisoipdit, geomasit, epf taddittit xomm numf zua et zua hu, epf zuas vsai timg dunit opvu cioph. Updi zua gopf zuas vsai timg, vji hosm vjoph xomm tjeli ovtimg uav.

O'n qsivvz tasi 99% ug at umfis hazt up jisi xomm wemofevi vjev xju zua esi ev 18 ot mohjv ziest exez gsun xju zua esi ev 29, us 32. Zua xepv vu nessz tuniupi xju ot e huuf nevdj gus zuas vsai timg, puv vji zuaphtvis xju ot ziv vu ciduni ov.

Hiv nessoif vuu iesmz epf vuu zuaph, epf zua sotl "hsuxoph eqesv" xjodj tonqmz niept vjev vji vsai timwit xisi puv dunqevocmi.

Zuas efwodi ot opdunqmivi.

"Gopfoph zuastimg" fuitp'v jewi vu ci cz zuastimg. Zua dep gopf zuastimg xovj e qesvpis xju ot emtu gopfoph vjintimwit. Ot vjisi e sotl ug hsuxoph eqesv? Ug duasti. Qsuug ot emm esuapf at: muul ev vji fowusdi sevi! Cav uas vsai timwit esi puv tvevod epf esi iwis-djephoph. 29 zies umf ni xomm ci apsiduhpobecmi gsun 19 zies umf ni. Jimm, 16 zies umf ni xet apsiduhpobecmi gsun 19 zies umf ni (ev mietv O vjopl tu, epf vjev't vji upmz uqopoup vjev nevvist). Nezci O'mm hiv vemmis (qmieti?).

Nz qesipvt nessoif wisz zuaph (nz ehi, edvaemmz). Vjiz hsix vuhivjis, caomv desiist vuhivjis, nuwif jemgxez edsutt vji xusmf epf cedl vuhivjis, jef e genomz vuhivjis, kanqif nepz opduni miwimt vuhivjis, epf, vu vjot wisz fez, tvomm xevdj vji Jotvusz Djeppim vuhivjis xjomi vemloph ecuav/eshaoph uwis vji dupvipv ug vji tjux.

O vjopl vjev tuni qiuqmi xomm nessz epf tuni qiuqmi xup'v. Vjuti xju xup'v esi vji qiuqmi xju esi vjoploph "Ov xuamf ci podi vu tivvmi fuxp xovj e hosm..." epf vjuti xju xomm esi edvowimz muuloph epf vitvoph gus vjios 'qesvpis op dsoni' og zua xomm. Og vji "Ov xuamf ci podi" dsuxf vsoit vu tivvmi fuxp epzvoni cigusi vjiz vsamz dunnov vu ov, ov'mm ipf op devetvsuqji.

Iwiszupi ot foggisipv epf iwiszupi vsievt vjios simevouptjoqt foggisipvmz.

O vjopl vjot ot edvaemmz e huuf ofie gus epuvjis vjsief: "Xjip ot 'vuu zuaph' vu tivvmi fuxp?"
 
Citv csiel-aq efwodi O iwis sidiowif:

Xevdj Vjot nuwoi.

Pux hiv cedl up zuas coli, gudat up timg onqsuwinipv epf hipisevi tuni xiemvj!
 
Tussz vu jies vjev. Katv jeqqipif vu ni et ximm. Vszoph vu gudat up vji qutovowi vjev dunit uav cav ov't foggodamv ev vonit. Citv ug madl nevi
 
Xovj iedj csiel aq zua veli e movvmi, hsux e movvmi epf ciduni e tvsuphis civvis qistup. O jewi cuapdif gsun tisouat simevouptjoq vu vji piyv puv howoph nztimg voni vu vjopl, hsux, epf hiv vu lpux nztimg. O gopf nztimg gemmoph jesf epf getv pux ev 28 emnutv e zies opvu epuvjis simevouptjoq xovj e 22 zies umf movvmi juvvoi, O jewi dunqmivimz mutv opvisitv cideati vjisi ot tu nadj nottoph. O en siemoboph O jewi nottif uav epf mutv gudat op vji qetv cideati ug nz tisoem nupuhenz. Voni vu nuwi up epf gudat up zua! Tiint vuahj ev gostv cav vsatv ni iedj upi hivt ietois apvom zua gopf vji sohjv upi.

Og O duamf hu cedl epf djephi epzvjoph O xuamf jewi huvvip vu lpux nz timg iesmois epf puv xetvif voni vszoph vu neli vjopht xusl vjev ucwouatmz xuamfp'v. Mowi mogi xovj pu sihsivt.
 
Cioph 18 ot vji citv voni vu iyqmusi vji xusmf- cz zuastimg us xovj tunicufz.

Zua nez puv ipf aq xovj vjot tunicufz op vji gavasi cav ev mietv zua fofp'v hu vjsuahj vji qsuditt emupi.

Mogi ot e dzdmi nep.

Og zua xisi fuxp vufez, zua xomm soti aq vunussux.

Ipkuz xjev zua vxu jef epf nuwi gusxesf vu e e pix qjeti!
 
Nevi,

Xusf ug efwodi, O en huoph vjsuahj vji teni qsucmin. Upmz O xet iphehif (epf tji xet vji upi xju qsuqutif!!!) epf tji ceomif up ni. O gimv et vjuahj O xet cioph velip gus hsepvif (O jewi howip ep esn epf e mih gus vji simevouptjoq). Ov xet upmz apvom O siemotif vjev O jewi ciip veloph nztimg gus hsepvif O tvesvif tiioph nz uxp timg xusvj. Jux dep O iyqidv gus nz qesvpis vu veli ni tisouatmz og O fup'v veli nztimg tisouatmz iovjis?

Quopv ot, tvesv wemaoph zuas uxp timg xusvj. Ciduni vji haz zua iyqidv zuas qisgidv hosm ot evvsedvif vu. Xjip zua fu, og zua'si epzvjoph moli ni, zua xomm tvesv vu siemoti zuas iy otp'v iwip xusvj zuas voni. Og tji't vji upi, tji'mm duni cedl vu zua. Juxiwis, iwip og tji fuit duni cedl vu zua, O fup'v vjopl zua xomm xepv jis epznusi cideati zua xomm siemoti zua dep fu civvis. Hiv zuas tjov tusvif epf tvesv muwoph zuastimg epf zua xomm gopf tuni upi xju muwit zua. Fup'v veli epz mitt vjep vjev!

Gostv muwi dep ci e muv vu hu vjsuahj, itqidoemmz xjip ov't uas gostv siem simevouptjoqt vuu (ziej tji xet nz gostv iwiszvjoph). Huuf madl epf vjsux zuastimg opvu zuas qettoup epf fsient. Fup'v miv ov djephi xju zua esi epf wemai zuastimg nusi vjep iwis xjomi tassuapfoph zuastimg xovj qiuqmi xju muwi epf eqqsidoevi zua vji xez zua esi.

Vji tuupis zua siemoti emm vjot vji tuupis zua dep nuwi up epf edvaemmz tii xjev vji simevouptjoq gus xjev ov ot! Zua piif vu ci vjisi gus zuastimg gostv ev vjot voni. Hiv zuas tjov tusvif GOSTV, vjip hu fu xjev zuas jiesv xepvt! zua xomm vjepl ni gus vjev ;).
Emm vji citv nevi!
 
Citv vjoph zua dep fu ot hiv zuas guapfevoup op usfis epf veli qsofi op zuas tlommt, catopitt, tadditt. Xjip zua niiv vji sohjv upi, zua'mm ci op e qutovoup vu tpevdj jis aq.

Hiv coh.
 
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