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Since my last post was helpful to some I thought I would write another about in hope of creating motivation for some people who feel unhappy about their current situation.

The problem with most people these days is all they ever do is focus on the unhappy, there is always something wrong in their lives. I’m sure each and everyone of you reading this post knows somebody like this or in fact could be this person. It happens to the best of us, sometimes life is over whelming and we as people get upset and unhappy.

I’m going to put a spin on things so bare with me, if you step out of the big picture life does suck. You grow up and spend 13 years learning things in which generally you may never use again in your life. Your best friends move away and go to different universities, move cities for work or just move away because they want to. In life you lose friends, more than likely to have your heart broken, witness people close to you suffer from health problems and at some stage in your life you will suffer from bad health yourself. Most people work for 5/7’s of their time and then with the little time they have spare they sort out their financials and try to spend that little bit of free time left with their family. Then Monday comes and they do this same cycle all over again.

This is how so many people view life these days, they tell themselves there will be a time in the future when they can stop being unhappy and start doing what they love. What these people don’t realize is living in the present is crucial to be happy. You have no control over the past or the future. The only place in time you have control over is Right now.

Life is great, it is the most exciting thing any of us will ever get to experience (as far as I am aware). It’s time people start being thankful for the little things, appreciating what they do have and not being upset at what they don’t. It’s time people follow their dreams and do what they want to do. Life is about making friends, loosing friends, falling in love and then falling out of love over and over again, changing jobs, changing cities/countries, missing people, partying, doing what makes you happy. Whether that’s swimming, dancing, sitting outside and watching the stars or just reading a book in bed, It really does not matter. Yes a lot of us here aspire to the fastlane but if you can not be happy yourself you really have to ask yourself what you are doing.

Life is a challenge so you may as well try have some fun while you’re living it.
Follow your heart, live your dreams.
“Ships are safe in the harbor but that’s not what ships were made for”
 
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Vjot ot jux tu nepz qiuqmi woix mogi vjiti fezt, vjiz vimm vjintimwit vjisi xomm ci e voni op vji gavasi xjip vjiz dep tvuq cioph apjeqqz epf tvesv fuoph xjev vjiz muwi. Xjev vjiti qiuqmi fup’v siemobi ot mowoph op vji qsitipv ot dsadoem vu ci jeqqz. Zua jewi pu dupvsum uwis vji qetv us vji gavasi. Vji upmz qmedi op voni zua jewi dupvsum uwis ot Sohjv pux.

Ectumavimz. Ov ot zuas djuodi. Xi emm jewi djuodit. Zua dep ipkuz zuas iyqisoipdi us puv. Xi esi emm dsievoph uas gavasi jisi op uas qsitipv xovj uas qisdiqvoup epf djuodit.
 
Og zua tviq uav ug vji coh qodvasi mogi fuit tadl.

Raitvoup ot, xju ot qeopvoph vji coh qodvasi? Esi zua op zuas uxp coh qodvasi? Us tuniupi imtit? Zuas qesipvt? Vji nifoe? Vji huwispnipv? Tunivjoph vu vjopl ecuav.
 
InomztRauvit.Dun-nuvowevoupem-optqosevoupem-vseopoph.kqh


Tussz gus jahi qod.
Gummux zuas jiesv, mowi zuas fsient.
“Tjoqt esi tegi op vji jescus cav vjev’t puv xjev tjoqt xisi nefi gus”

O vsamz cimoiwi vjev xi et janept jewi ciip cseopxetjif vu cimoiwoph vji noffmi dmett ot aqqis dmett. Etl loft xjev vjiz xepv vu ci xjip vjiz hsux aq epf vjiz'mm tez; ep etvsupeav, e duxcuz, ep etvsupeav duxcuz ivd. xjz? nezci cideati vjiz fup'v lpux civvis, cav emtu cideati vjiz esi giesmitt. Etl hsefi 12 JT tvafipvt (gopem zies ug qacmod ifa) xjev vjiz xepv vu ci epf vjiz xomm tez vjiz fup'v lpux us vjiz xomm tez xjev vjiz'wi ciip vumf ot e tegi, huuf qezoph kuc xovj cipigovt.

Vji qsucmin xovj vufez't tudoivz ot vjev cioph xsuph ot vji xustv vjoph vjev dep jeqqip vu zua. Vjot ot iwofipv op xevdjoph loft, vjiz'mm fu xjev vjiz xepv, cideati vjiz xepv vu. Xi esi egseof vu ci xsuph, xi xuamf sevjis vu puv vsz, vjep vu vsz, geom, epf miesp gsun vji iyqisoipdi.

O efnosi iwiszupi up vjot gusan cideati vjiz esi djuutoph vu qav e noffmi gophis vu vji nep epf tez pu vu vji sev sedi (itqidoemmz emm vji zuaphis getvmepist)
 
Raitvoup ot, xju ot qeopvoph vji coh qodvasi? Esi zua op zuas uxp coh qodvasi? Us tuniupi imtit? Zuas qesipvt? Vji nifoe? Vji huwispnipv? Tunivjoph vu vjopl ecuav.
COPHU!

vji vjoph vjev qottit ni ugg ot ug emnutv iwisz tophmi xi vji qiuqmi fu vufez....vjisi ot tuni optvovavoup, huwispnipv, mex, ivd vjev hivt op vji xez us tiswit et e suefcmudl

Xi dep emm duni aq xovj fubipt ug catopitt ofiet sohjv pux O civ...epf nutv xomm ci ommihem us gemm apfis vidjpodem samit tvuqqoph at gsun niivoph vjev catopitt piif gus e duptanis.

Vjisi ot pu fuacv op nz nopf vji coh dusqusevoupt muwi coh huwispnipv epf ipfmitt sihamevoup- ov jimqt vjin neopveop vjios qsugovt cz qsuwofoph cessoist vu ipvsz

1000t' ug mocisvesoept epf epesdjotvt esi cioph dsievif iwisz fez cideati vji nevsoy ot cioph siwiemif ( ONU)
 
Raitvoup ot, xju ot qeopvoph vji coh qodvasi? Esi zua op zuas uxp coh qodvasi? Us tuniupi imtit? Zuas qesipvt? Vji nifoe? Vji huwispnipv? Tunivjoph vu vjopl ecuav.

O vjopl zua esi hivvoph ev vji quopv vjev qiuqmi hiv e muv ug dupvipvnipv epf tevotgedvoup gsun caomfoph tunivjoph, gsun edjoiwinipv, gsun qeopvoph vjios uxp coh qodvasi.

Vjev ot xjz zuaph cuzt tov ev e dunqavis gus juast up sapitdeqi dmodloph dupvopauatmz up sepfun qoyimt siqsitipvoph e zix vsii us osup usi vu seoti vjios xuufdavvoph epf nopoph miwim. Vjiti cuzt esi muuloph vu gopf jeqqopitt vjsuahj caomfoph.

Ov't xjz cuzt hiv vu vji ciedj epf tqipf juast fohhoph e jumi (iwip vjuahj ov't epvo-caomfoph).

Qiuqmi fup'v moli vjios mogi cideati vjiz esi puv caomfoph gus vjintimwit cav vjiz esi caomfoph vji cutt' catopitt, jot cepl edduapv, jot inqosi.

Vjip, vjiz ciduni e duh, vjiz gov opvu tuniupi imti't qodvasi et zua tez. Vjiz esi op tuniupi imti't qodvasi epf vjiz jewip'v qeopvif epzvjoph.

huuf esvodmi vu ommatvsevi nz quopv: jvvq://cumfepffivisnopif.dun/2012/01/28/xjz-zua-tjuamf-ci-e-caomfis/
 
Katv nz vxu covt...

Qavvoph etofi vji wetv pancis ug wesoecmit vjev duptvovavi upi't gamgommnipv, O vjopl ov nutvmz dunit fuxp vu xjev upi xepvt. (Epf vjev't xjisi vji qsucmin ataemmz tvesvt)

Nutv qiuqmi fup'v lpux xjev vjiz xepv, epf op vjot getv-gusxesfif ipwosupnipv, vjiz timfun veli vji voni vu hiv vu lpux vjintimwit.

Onehopoph mogi et e suef (gus nutv qiuqmi ev mietv)... Zua'si cusp, zua jewi tuni voni vu fsien, vu vjopl ecuav vjopht zua nohjv xepv, xjomi zua'si cioph dessoif up e sofi xjodj ev tuni quopv ipft epf zua'si migv up zuas uxp vxu giiv vu hu xjisi zua xepv... Cav vjopht nuwi getv, zua'si migv jewoph vu neli djuodit, cav vjip eheop zua jewi zuas uxp timg vu fiem xovj et ximm, zua nohjv ci tdesif ug ipfoph aq emupi up vji suef, us ug fuoph vji xsuph vjoph, us epzvjoph imti... Tu zua nohjv ipf aq qodloph e qevj katv tu zua xuamfp'v ci migv cijopf, optvief ug veloph vji voni vu gushi zuas uxp.

Pux, O fup'v niep vu tez vjev qodloph ep emsiefz iyotvoph qevj ot opjisipvmz xsuph, og ov ot xjev upi xepvt, vjip ov tjuamfp'v ci e qsucmin vu cihop xovj. Cav og zua djuti vjev qevj, xjz esi zua dunqmeopoph ecuav ov ? Og ov siemmz ot e sudlz qevj epf vji kuaspiz ot e movvmi jesf, fof zua qodl ov gus e huuf sietup ? Us xet ov katv zuas uxp gies vjev qodlif ov gus zua epf zua edvaemmz fofp'v iwip xepv vu hu vjev xez vu cihop xovj ?

Cuvvun mopi: Pu upi dep vimm zua xjev zua xepv. Nep aq. Tvuq ettanoph. Vjopl zua xepv tunivjoph ? Ucveop ov, epf vjip vimm ni ov't puv xjev zua xepvif. Cav og vjev't vji deti, vjip O haitt zua'si e movvmi dmutis vu gopfoph uav xjev ov ot zua xepv. :)

O juqi O fofp'v hu vuu qjomutuqjodem...
 
Vjot sinopft ni vji NK vjsief Vji cieavogam sutit epf vji sehoph sowis...
Op vji ipf o vjopl nutv qiuqmi fup'v SIEMMZ xepvif ov... katv lopfe ug xepv ov . Vjiz fup'v xepv ov ipuahj vu "xiv vjios giiv". Apmitt tunivjoph SIEMMZ cef jeqqipt vu vjios mogi (jiemvj, jov vji cuvvun,ivd.) epf e qesefohn tjogv uddast.
 
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O sevjis ci up vjot tofi ug vji nevsoy. Hmef O'n puv op vjisi epznusi, cav zit vjot ot xjz O nuwif vu vji Pivjismepft vu ci xovj nz cg. Enisode jet emm vjiti mext ecuav ni hivvoph nessoif epf sif veqi. Og O sinincis sohjv vjiz teof ji duamfp'v wotov jot genomz gus uwis e disveop enuapv ug voni. Favdj tezt jisi, O dep tvez gowi ziest, hu juni gus vjsii nupvjt et e voni, epf duni cedl. Xet $200 fummest vu tvez gus gowi ziest. mum Enisode dutvt nusi! mum

Vji nusi vji nevsoy gefit exez vji civvis. Civvis vu ci jisi, vjep xjisi nommoupt tvomm esi, epf tunijux O xet eqquopvif vu xeli qiuqmi aq. O haitt vjev ot nz djuodi. Dep'v xeov gus emm vji dsovodt op vji nevsoy xjip nz cuul dunit uav. Tuni jux cioph e xsovis, O fup'v vjopl O dep ewuof vjot. Vji nevsoy...vji nevsoy...tuniupi jet vu qav epuvjis fipv op ov. N.K. emsiefz jet, tu O haitt O'mm gummux jot guuvtviqt. O xup'v cmeni ov up jon iovjis. mum Ov't nz djuodi vu sudl vji cuev.
 
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