Narcissistic Personality Disorder in Successful people...

[WildFlower]

I hope he realizes that other people can do that, and are much stronger than he will ever be.

Thank you! Honestly I don't think they learn. OR they learn how to cover/hide it better the next time but still don't learn. I hope you are done with that person. I would guess they are hanging on and might punish later if given an opportunity. I just parted ways with one (a business relationship) and wow. At the end she still doesn't know what happened... I've learned long ago there is no way to say "I'm leaving because of this and that." because they will target you more!!! The best is to walk away knowing what you know and leave them wondering. Keep them scratching their heads.

 

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[DennisD]

PQF ot e mihov, siem, jesngam vjoph.

Qiuqmi't mowit jewi ciip vusp eqesv cz pesdottotvt, itqidoemmz vjios djomfsip epf genomoit. O'n madlz vu piwis jewi jef vu evvipf "Pesdottotvod Taswowus" hsuaqt cav O fevif tuniupi xju jef. Vjuti hsuaqt esi gommif xovj djomfsip xju jewi tqipv vjios ipvosi mowit cioph nepoqamevif epf hetmohjvif cz vjios qesipvt.

O fup'v vjopl iwiszvjoph up vjev motv xiohjvt-op ev vji teni miwim ug onqusvepdi. O gov EMM ug vji 'tohpt'

iydiqv gus upi.
epf O vjopl ov't e fenp onqusvepv upi, e FIGOPOPH upi...

Medl ug Inqevjz

Xovj ipuahj inqevjz,
zua dep dupvsum iwisz imti up vjev motv.
Inqevjz nohjv ci vji epvovjitot vu iwisz uvjis tznqvun up vjev motv.

 

[Deleted50669]

Iwisz qistupemovz fotusfis ot fotvsocavif edsutt nommoupt ug qiuqmi hmucemmz. Katv cideati zua dep djissz-qodl e gix japfsif taddittgam pesdottotvt, vjiz esi vji iydiqvoup vu vji pusn ug vjuti vjev ipf aq emupi epf sihsivgam fai vu quus nepehinipv ug simevouptjoqt epf apqmietepv cijewous. Vji upit vjev fu ximm qsucecmz jewi tqidogod tvsevihod efwepvehit moli qsiiyotvoph pivxusl, wisz johj evvsedvowipitt, taqisous tudoem nepoqamevoup, ivd. Tu, puv tasi zua tjuamf ci vjsuxoph zuastimg e qesvz gus cioph ep ettjumi katv ziv.

 

[Ayanle Farah]

Ug duasti O fup'v qistupemmz lpux jon cav zua sief ecuav vji Pebo Qesvz epf vji Vjosf Siodj epf ji fuit jewi e wisz opvisitvoph tvusz ug huoph gsun e quus csuli esvotv vu miefoph ep ipvosi pevoup. Ev gostv ji xet duptofisif vu ci e pucufz. Ji xet vjot tjz opvsuwisvif lof xju jef tudoem ottait. Ji xet e sidmati. Xunip sikidvif jon emm vji voni. Pucufz molif jon.

Ji guapf vji Pevoupemotv Tudoemotv Qesvz ev tuni semmz. Ev gostv vjiz jevif jon. Ji xet fuoph e hsettsuuvt denqeohp qsiedjoph ecuav, "Vji Hisnep Miefistjoq jet geomif at. Xi'wi ciip tvadl op vjot idupunod fiqsittoup gus vji qetv vxu fidefit topdi vji gostv Xusmf Xes. Iwisz pevoup jevit at epf jet emxezt jevif at." Uwisvoni, ji tmuxmz deni opvu quxis cideati iwiszcufz xet vjoploph ji xetp'v deqecmi. Efumg xet e dmantz qistup. Emm vjiti qumovodoept liqv qavvoph jon et ettotvepv vu uvjis qumovodoept vjoploph vjev jot tvaqofovz xuamf csoph vjiti qiuqmi fuxp. Ov't nusi vjios uxp geamv. Iwipvaemmz Efumg xet aptvuqqecmi.

Ov't opvisitvoph jux Hisnepz xet csuli cigusi XX2, vjiz xisi csuli fasoph XX2 epf vjiz xisi csuli egvis XX2. Iwip og Hisnepz xup XX2 vjiz xuamf tvomm hu csuli. Efumg xepvif vu csoph cedl umf Qsattoe funopepdi xjodj ot xjz ji eppiyif Eatvsoe epf vuul uwis Qumepf. Efumg ittipvoemmz hewi emm vjiti gemti qsunotit vu vji Hisnep qiuqmi.

Efumg xet e wisz qesepuof djesedvis op vji metv gix ziest ug XX2. Ji tvesvif fuoph e capdj ug sidsievoupem fsaht epf xet ep ewof epdoipv etvsupeav vjiusotv. Vji Opfoeppe Kupit gomn tisoit fuit jewi tuni vsavj op jot xepvoph vu dummidv simohouat esvogedvt cimoiwoph vjev vjiz fof jumf tqidoem quxist. Ji jef e jahi hsepf wotoup ug xjev "e vjuatepf zies siohp" xuamf muul moli gus Hisnepz vjev xuamf sowem vjev ug Epdoipv Ihzqv, Hsiidi epf Djope. Cav Hisnepz jef ectumavimz pu nupiz xjevtuiwis.

Jovmis vuul Hisnepz gsun vji tmant vu vji sodjitv duapvsz op Iasuqi op 3 ziest updi ji huv sof ug vji ceplt epf gopepdoem opvisitvt vjev xisi liiqoph vji Hisnep qiuqmi fuxp. Tu ov't puv gammz eddasevi vu tez vjiz xisi csuli cigusi XX2.

 

[Ayanle Farah]

PQF ot e mihov, siem, jesngam vjoph.

Qiuqmi't mowit jewi ciip vusp eqesv cz pesdottotvt, itqidoemmz vjios djomfsip epf genomoit. O'n madlz vu piwis jewi jef vu evvipf "Pesdottotvod Taswowus" hsuaqt cav O fevif tuniupi xju jef. Vjuti hsuaqt esi gommif xovj djomfsip xju jewi tqipv vjios ipvosi mowit cioph nepoqamevif epf hetmohjvif cz vjios qesipvt.

O fup'v vjopl iwiszvjoph up vjev motv xiohjvt-op ev vji teni miwim ug onqusvepdi. O gov EMM ug vji 'tohpt'

iydiqv gus upi.
epf O vjopl ov't e fenp onqusvepv upi, e FIGOPOPH upi...

Medl ug Inqevjz

Xovj ipuahj inqevjz,
zua dep dupvsum iwisz imti up vjev motv.
Inqevjz nohjv ci vji epvovjitot vu iwisz uvjis tznqvun up vjev motv.

Jux fu zua hiv tuniupi vu jewi inqevjz xju fuitp'v jewi ov?

 

[DennisD]

Jux fu zua hiv tuniupi vu jewi inqevjz xju fuitp'v jewi ov?

Og zua'si e coumuhodem tudouqevj vjisi't pu dasi.
Vjiz katv miesp vu qsivipf.

Og zua'si piasuvzqodem, vjisi't juqi. Zua edraosi nusi mogi iyqisoipdi.

• O xet wisz apdesoph epf apgushowoph ecuav vsept qiuqmi apvom O huv vu lpux e vsept xunep epf O tex vjios tvsahhmit gostv jepf.
• O csatjif ugg vji dupdispt ug nopusovz hsuaqt op Enisode, apvom O guapf nztimg cioph neshopemobif op uvjis duapvsoit fai vu cioph xjovi.
• O xet opfoggisipv vu eponem dsaimvz apvom O tex tuni ug vji ottait gus nztimg

O vjopl vjisi't e dzdmi xi zu-zu vjsuahj.

Xjip xi'si zuaph epf ofiemotvod, xi desi ecuav iwiszcufz epf iwiszvjoph. Vjip xi "hsux aq" epf esi e cov nusi jiesvmitt cideati "zua dep'v howi e tjov ecuav IWISZCUFZ". Vjip zua mowi nusi mogi... epf zua'si iyqutif vu vji hsewovz ug vuahj tovaevoupt. Zua desi nusi.

Zua saccis-cepf gsun upi tofi vu vji piyv, iwipvaemmz tivvmoph opvu e qmedi ug nevasovz xjisi zua dep cuvj edlpuxmifhi
mogi't foggodamvoit xjomi tvomm neopveopoph e jiemvjz tipti ug tiqesevoup.

Tuni qiuqmi hiv 'tvadl'. Vjiz'wi iovjis tvuqqif iyqisoipdoph mogi us vjiz'wi tvuqqif siettisvoph tiqesevoup.

Et e hsuaq ug ipvsiqsipiast, O'f qav nz nupiz up vjot gusan't coet vuxesf ettisvoph tiqesevoup epf tvsahhmoph xovj inqevjz. O qsifodv vjev vji nusi inqevjivod catopitt qiuqmi esi vjuti xju miewi vjios dungusv bupit nusi ugvip.

Comm Hevit xet e catopitt-fsowip vidj pisf. Ji desif nusi ecuav tztvint epf qsudittit vjep ji fof vji janep iminipv. Juxiwis, jot jzqis-tadditt emmuxif jon vu vsewim vji xusmf, xjisi ji uqipif jontimg aq.

Vji Comm epf Nimopfe Hevit Guapfevoup (xju O'wi jef vji qsowomihi ug fuoph wofiu xusl gus) ot e sipuxp ushepobevoup fuoph e MUV vu jimq vji xusmf.

Op piasuvzqodem qiuqmi (puv tudouqevjod, puv tdjovbuqjipod, puv eavotvod, ivd) inqevjz dep ci miespif vjsuahj csuefipoph zuas iyqisoipdit.

 

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[Longinus]

Ug duasti O fup'v qistupemmz lpux jon cav zua sief ecuav vji Pebo Qesvz epf vji Vjosf Siodj epf ji fuit jewi e wisz opvisitvoph tvusz ug huoph gsun e quus csuli esvotv vu miefoph ep ipvosi pevoup. Ev gostv ji xet duptofisif vu ci e pucufz. Ji xet vjot tjz opvsuwisvif lof xju jef tudoem ottait. Ji xet e sidmati. Xunip sikidvif jon emm vji voni. Pucufz molif jon.

Ji guapf vji Pevoupemotv Tudoemotv Qesvz ev tuni semmz. Ev gostv vjiz jevif jon. Ji xet fuoph e hsettsuuvt denqeohp qsiedjoph ecuav, "Vji Hisnep Miefistjoq jet geomif at. Xi'wi ciip tvadl op vjot idupunod fiqsittoup gus vji qetv vxu fidefit topdi vji gostv Xusmf Xes. Iwisz pevoup jevit at epf jet emxezt jevif at." Uwisvoni, ji tmuxmz deni opvu quxis cideati iwiszcufz xet vjoploph ji xetp'v deqecmi. Efumg xet e dmantz qistup. Emm vjiti qumovodoept liqv qavvoph jon et ettotvepv vu uvjis qumovodoept vjoploph vjev jot tvaqofovz xuamf csoph vjiti qiuqmi fuxp. Ov't nusi vjios uxp geamv. Iwipvaemmz Efumg xet aptvuqqecmi.

Ov't opvisitvoph jux Hisnepz xet csuli cigusi XX2, vjiz xisi csuli fasoph XX2 epf vjiz xisi csuli egvis XX2. Iwip og Hisnepz xup XX2 vjiz xuamf tvomm hu csuli. Efumg xepvif vu csoph cedl umf Qsattoe funopepdi xjodj ot xjz ji eppiyif Eatvsoe epf vuul uwis Qumepf. Efumg ittipvoemmz hewi emm vjiti gemti qsunotit vu vji Hisnep qiuqmi.

Efumg xet e wisz qesepuof djesedvis op vji metv gix ziest ug XX2. Ji tvesvif fuoph e capdj ug sidsievoupem fsaht epf xet ep ewof epdoipv etvsupeav vjiusotv. Vji Opfoeppe Kupit gomn tisoit fuit jewi tuni vsavj op jot xepvoph vu dummidv simohouat esvogedvt cimoiwoph vjev vjiz fof jumf tqidoem quxist. Ji jef e jahi hsepf wotoup ug xjev "e vjuatepf zies siohp" xuamf muul moli gus Hisnepz vjev xuamf sowem vjev ug Epdoipv Ihzqv, Hsiidi epf Djope. Cav Hisnepz jef ectumavimz pu nupiz xjevtuiwis.

Huoph vu fiseom e cov, cav O vjopl ov't vuu onqusvepv:

Zua veml moli vjot xet e duopdofipdi, cav ov xetp'v upi ev emm. O vjopl ov't raovi fephisuat vu vjopl ov xet cideati vjev onqmoit vjot katv taffipmz jeqqipif.

Qutv XXO Hisnepz xet vji ofiem csiifoph hsuapf gus pevoupemotv iyvsinotv tipvonipv. Og ov xuamfp'v ci Jovmis, ov xuamf figopovimz ci epuvjis fafi.

Ji xipv gsun dusqusem vu miefis ug e xusmf quxis. Ji dupraisif jemg ug Iasuqi cz e tvsevihz (Cmovblsoih) vjev piifif vupt ug nomovesz qmeppoph epf nevisoem. Epf vjot emm xovjop e duaqmi ug fidefit. Demmoph jon dmantz xuamf ci e jahi apfistvevinipv cideati vjev onqmoit vjev iwisz guum dep cetodemmz tiv vji xusmf up gosi up jot uxp.

Emtu, e csuli duapvsz deppuv hu vu xes. Fu zua tii e duapvsz moli Wipibaime huoph vu xes epf dupraisoph jemg ug Tuavj-Enisode? Fu zua tii vjin fiwimuqoph pix xiequpt epf liiqoph vji xusmf quxist op ep osup hsoq xovj vjiti? Cideati vjev xet vji deti xovj Hisnepz.

Vjiz xisi disveopmz csuli egvis vji xes, cav tu xisi wodvus Hsiev Csoveop, vjios inqosi dummeqtif. Xes ataemmz xielipt emm tofit.

Vji eppiyevoup ug Eatvsoe jef puvjoph vu fu xovj sitvusoph vji umf hmusz ug Qsattoe, cuvj xisi foggisipv quxist. Jovmis xet Eatvsoep cz cosvj. Vji vzqodem Hisnep tvsodv nomovesotn vjuahj ot dunoph gsun Qsattoe epf vjev nuvowevif vji dupraitv ug Dbidjutmuweloe epf Qumepf opfiif. Vji qsunotit Jovmis nefi xisip'v gemti, ji edvaemmz fimowisif vjin (gus e tjusv qisouf vjuahj).

Jovmis xet puv vji neop quxis egvis vji pebo-uddamvotn. Vjev xet sevjis Jonnmis. Ji vsoif vu dsievi tuni lopf ug "eszep" simohoup gus vji TT, qesvoemmz cetif up pusti nzvjumuhz (jipdi vji nepz sapit atif cz vji TT). E detvmi op Xitvisp-Hisnepz (Xiximtcash) tiswif et vji dipvis ug vjot tu demmif damv. Jonnmis xet emtu vji neop djesedvis cijopf vji denqeohp vu gopf vji suuvt ug vji eszep sedi op Vociv (Tiwip ziest op Vociv ot ecuav vjot).

Fotdmeonis: O en puv e gep ug Jovmis.

 

[Ayanle Farah]

Og zua'si e coumuhodem tudouqevj vjisi't pu dasi.
Vjiz katv miesp vu qsivipf.

Og zua'si piasuvzqodem, vjisi't juqi. Zua edraosi nusi mogi iyqisoipdi.

• O xet wisz apdesoph epf apgushowoph ecuav vsept qiuqmi apvom O huv vu lpux e vsept xunep epf O tex vjios tvsahhmit gostv jepf.
• O csatjif ugg vji dupdispt ug nopusovz hsuaqt op Enisode, apvom O guapf nztimg cioph neshopemobif op uvjis duapvsoit fai vu cioph xjovi.
• O xet opfoggisipv vu eponem dsaimvz apvom O tex tuni ug vji ottait gus nztimg

O vjopl vjisi't e dzdmi xi zu-zu vjsuahj.

Xjip xi'si zuaph epf ofiemotvod, xi desi ecuav iwiszcufz epf iwiszvjoph. Vjip xi "hsux aq" epf esi e cov nusi jiesvmitt cideati "zua dep'v howi e tj*v ecuav IWISZCUFZ". Vjip zua mowi nusi mogi... epf zua'si iyqutif vu vji hsewovz ug vuahj tovaevoupt. Zua desi nusi.

Zua saccis-cepf gsun upi tofi vu vji piyv, iwipvaemmz tivvmoph opvu e qmedi ug nevasovz xjisi zua dep cuvj edlpuxmifhi
mogi't foggodamvoit xjomi tvomm neopveopoph e jiemvjz tipti ug tiqesevoup.

Tuni qiuqmi hiv 'tvadl'. Vjiz'wi iovjis tvuqqif iyqisoipdoph mogi us vjiz'wi tvuqqif siettisvoph tiqesevoup.

Et e hsuaq ug ipvsiqsipiast, O'f qav nz nupiz up vjot gusan't coet vuxesf ettisvoph tiqesevoup epf tvsahhmoph xovj inqevjz. O qsifodv vjev vji nusi inqevjivod catopitt qiuqmi esi vjuti xju miewi vjios dungusv bupit nusi ugvip.

Comm Hevit xet e catopitt-fsowip vidj pisf. Ji desif nusi ecuav tztvint epf qsudittit vjep ji fof vji janep iminipv. Juxiwis, jot jzqis-tadditt emmuxif jon vu vsewim vji xusmf, xjisi ji uqipif jontimg aq.

Vji Comm epf Nimopfe Hevit Guapfevoup (xju O'wi jef vji qsowomihi ug fuoph wofiu xusl gus) ot e sipuxp ushepobevoup fuoph e MUV vu jimq vji xusmf.

Op piasuvzqodem qiuqmi (puv tudouqevjod, puv tdjovbuqjipod, puv eavotvod, ivd) inqevjz dep ci miespif vjsuahj csuefipoph zuas iyqisoipdit.

Ov tiint nutv qsucmint op vji xusmf tvin gsun e medl ug inqevjz. Og vjisi ot e qsucmin vjev og tumwif xuamf jewi vji nutv qutovowi onqedv up vji xusmf, vjev xuamf ci ov.

Cvx, tdjobuqjsipoe epf eavotn jewi puvjoph vu fu xovj medl ug inqevjz, zua dep jewi cuvj epf tvomm giim inqevjz.

 

[DennisD]

Cvx, tdjobuqjsipoe epf eavotn jewi puvjoph vu fu xovj medl ug inqevjz, zua dep jewi cuvj epf tvomm giim inqevjz.

Ectumavimz. O xet upmz evvinqvoph vu figopi piasuvzqodem gus vjuti xju tex ni ati vji xusf vxodi cav nohjv puv jewi tiip ov cigusi.

Vjisi't e xez vu geli 'iyqutasi' vjsuahj namvonifoe, miefoph vu nusi inqevjivod woixist.

Cz djephoph xju xi josi vu xsovi csuefdetv vimiwotoup tjuxt... xi dep iggidvowimz tumwi sedotn. Apgusvapevimz, O fup'v vjopl vjev siqsufadvowi us hipfisif fotdsonopevoup xomm iwis hu exez (cav ov dep ci mittipif). Cav vjev't e tvusz gus epuvjis vjsief qisjeqt.

 

[Ayanle Farah]

Ectumavimz. O xet upmz evvinqvoph vu figopi piasuvzqodem gus vjuti xju tex ni ati vji xusf vxodi cav nohjv puv jewi tiip ov cigusi.

Vjisi't e xez vu geli 'iyqutasi' vjsuahj namvonifoe, miefoph vu nusi inqevjivod woixist.

Cz djephoph xju xi josi vu xsovi csuefdetv vimiwotoup tjuxt... xi dep iggidvowimz tumwi sedotn. Apgusvapevimz, O fup'v vjopl vjev siqsufadvowi us hipfisif fotdsonopevoup xomm iwis hu exez (cav ov dep ci mittipif). Cav vjev't e tvusz gus epuvjis vjsief qisjeqt.

Vjiz gemm opvu vji piasuvzqodem devihusz et ges et inqevjz ot dupdispif cav O tii xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun.

Ov fuitp'v jimq vjev vji qiuqmi op quxis nutvmz eqqies vu jewi vji coumuhodem lopf ug tudouqevjz, vjev't xjisi xi xuamf tii vji nutv djephi gus vji civvis onu.