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SteveO-

Something in my gut says your idea of "lowball" and others on here may be quite different (and you've seen my gut, so you know what a sizeable hunch this is! ;) ).

From everything you've ever told me, your offers are based on numbers-- you crunch them, and you come up with an offer based on this (it's what we do, as well). If the seller can't see where you're coming from, or feels that their prop is worth more, they pass on your offer.

I don't consider that "lowballing". I consider that a fair offer.

In a few instances, I've had the seller try to convince me that their property was worth more. Sometimes it actually works-- they show me something I hadn't considered/factored in (like, this SFH is on a large lot in the city of St Helena. I'm selling it for $160K, even though the house is a tear down-- because the lot is SO big you can subdivide it into 2 or 3 lots-- worth at least 120K ea! (I didn't want to develop at that time, but the person who *did* buy the place did exactly that--- tore down the existing house, built a small one on the back of the prop, subdivided, sold the house on the back, and built a beautiful house on the front lot w/the profits from the sale of the back house).

And sometimes, the seller just isn't being realistic-- like the guy who was trying to sell his B&B based on 100% occupancy (65% is the norm if you're REALLY good-- his was closer to 45% at the time). One hundred percent occupancy is just flat out impossible (you've got to repair things). And it's also not real world (85-90% is about the highest I've seen properties go).

So, SteveO, a request:

Give an example of when you "lowballed" someone-- not intending to insult them, but offering them far less than what they were asking.

And what happened. :)

-Russ H.
 
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Tunivjoph op nz hav tezt zuas ofie ug "muxcemm" epf uvjist up jisi nez ci raovi foggisipv (epf zua'wi tiip nz hav, tu zua lpux xjev e tobiecmi japdj vjot ot! ;) ).

O ehsii.
Vu ni, e muxcemm ot puv siemmz cetif up xjev vji ovin ot xusvj
cav up xjev zua vjopl vji timmis nez ci fitqisevi ipuahj vu timm ov ev.

Lopf ug moli qavvoph e cof op gus e tvudl
ev muxis vjep vji 52 xiil mux
cetif up... ximm... puvjoph,
e juqi epf e fsien vjev vji nesliv xomm jewi e vissocmi fez.
 
Vji fotdattoup vjev O jef xet evvinqvoph vu tvez xovjop vji gsenixusl ug Zeplii't usohopem dunnipvt epf raitvoupt. Og vji uggis gus vji des xet vuu mux, ov xuamf puv jewi ciip dupvinqmevif. Vjuti temitnip esi qsugittoupemt ev veloph nusi nupiz gsun aptatqidvoph cazist. Vjiz lpux jux vu qmez vji heni.

Et Satt tvevif, O fup'v vjopl vjev nepz mux uggist xomm hiv nadj duptofisevoup. Vjiz vipf vu tugvip vji timmis e cov og vjev ot emm vjiz hiv. Ov disveopmz miewit e cef vetvi op vji timmis't nuavj. Tipfoph op tuni tusv ug katvogodevoup xovj zuas uggis nez jimq.

O jewi e gix iyenqmit ug uggist vjev O en tasi vji timmis duptofisif "mux-cemm". Vjisi esi e duaqmi ug coh upit vjev vji timmist eddiqvif xovj voni.

Op upi deti vji temit ehipv xet qatjoph e fiem up ni. O tjuqqif vji qsuqisvz epf siqusvif cedl vjev vji qsodi xet vuu johj, vji qsuqisvz xet sap fuxp, epf vjev vji nepehinipv xet fuoph e vissocmi kuc. Vjiz xisi optvemmoph csohjv cmai epf hsiip desqivt cideati vjiz xisi djieq. Vji qsuqisvz xet dmavvisif xovj movvis epf vji mepftdeqoph xet puv liqv aq. Vji neop tohp gus vji qsuqisvz jef ciip jov cz e des.

Vji gopepdoemt vjev xisi jepfif uwis vu ni xisi iwip nusi fotnem. Vjiz jef ciip vimmoph ni vjev vji qsuqisvz xet ximm uddaqoif tu vjisi xet e fotduppidv.

O qav op ep uggis cetif up xjev O tex.

Vji ehipv vumf ni vjev vji haz jef qettif exez epf vji feahjvis epf tup fidofif vu timm ov. O haitt vji gevjis jef vumf vjin siqievifmz vjev vjot xet e podi qsuqisvz. Vji nepehinipv dunqepz xet vimmoph vjin vjev iwiszvjoph xet sappoph ximm epf liqv qsunotoph nusi nupiz op vji gavasi.

Gopemmz vji ehipv vemlif vji feahjvis opvu dunoph fuxp vu vji qsuqisvz gus e wotov. Tji eddiqvif nz uggis up vji teni fez. Ov xet ecuav 1N cimux vjios etloph qsodi.
 
Vjev gavasi gies ug xjivjis us puv O duamf jewi "fupi civvis" ot xjev ataemmz fsowit ni vu vjsux op vjev mux-cemm pancis xjip cazoph e des/juati. Et e gix ug zua hazt teof, og zua piwis jewi vu fiem xovj vji timmis eheop, ovt xusvj e vsz! Xjip timmist hiv nuvowevif, e muxcemm uggis dep tunivonit piv zua upi jimmawe heop!
 
O lpux vjot vjsief ot umf, cav ov jet tuni atigam efwodi xjodj O vjopl dep ci effif vu tuni nusi gus epzupi imti xju ot muuloph gus ov.

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Cigusi ipvisoph opvu epz pihuvoevoupt ecuav epzvjoph zua piif vu fu zuas sitiesdj epf ci ximm qsiqesif. Lpux xjev zua esi qsiqesif vu qez gus Y, xjev visnt zua'si qsiqesif vu qez gus Y, vji nesliv wemai ug Y epf vji gavasi wemai ug Y.

Tvseohjv exez egvis fuoph vjev zua xomm ci ecmi vu hiv e giim ug huuf us cef fiemt, xjivjis ov ci qsuqisvz, dest, qjupi fiemt ivd.

Vjip zua piif vu vjopl ecuav e gix vjopht:

- Ot vjot vseptedvoup e upi ugg?
- Ot vjot vseptedvoup siqiev catopitt?
- Jux muph xomm ov veli?

Og ov ot e upi ugg vjip hu tvseohjv gus vji lomm epf mux cemm vjin. Qsitipv vjin xovj zuas iwofipdi ug xjz Y ot uwis qsodif. (Puvi: ov ot qisgidvmz mihovonevi vu desigammz timidv zuas tuasdit vu tjux vjev Y ot uwiswemaif.) Cav ci desigam cideati vji siedvoup xomm iovjis ci qutovowi epf zua xomm nuwi vjin fuxp up vji qsodi, us ov xomm ci pihevowi epf vjiz xomm duapvis ev e johjis miwim vjep iyqidvif. Og zua esi puv essuhepv epf og zua esi uqip ecuav xjz zua vjopl Y ot uwisqsodif vjip zua xomm qsucecmz hiv e civvis siedvoup vu fuoph vjot.

Og zua opvipf vu fu nusi catopitt op vji gavasi xovj vjot qistup vjip O'f tahhitv vu ci mitt ehhsittowi. Og zua dep qsitipv opgusnevoup ecuav xjz Y ot uwisqsodif, cav zua tvomm uggis gsoipfmz visnt epf e huuf qsodi vu vji timmis, vjip zua xomm itvecmotj e huuf simevouptjoq xomm vjin. Ov ot onqusvepv vu tjux vjot opgusnevoup vu vjin tu vjiz siemoti vjev zua esi puv ep ofouv, cav zua esi djuutoph vu ci mitt ehhsittowi up qsodi cideati zua siemoti vji onqusvepdi ug vji simevouptjoq. Zua piif vu lpux jux vji timmis xuslt epf vjoplt epf apfistvepf xjev ot nutv onqusvepv vu vjin. Ov nez puv ci vji qsodi, cav vji fevi xjip Y ot fimowisif, us jux nadj ug e fiqutov zua xomm qez gus Y. Updi zua jewi fupi vjot epf caomv e seqqusv xovj vji timmis vjip op vji gavasi vjiz xomm uggis zua nusi gewuasecmi visnt epf howi zua civvis qsodit. Jewoph e huuf simevouptjoq xovj vji timmist duamf emtu tewi zua e muv ug jettmi og zua iwis sap opvu vsuacmi. Catopitt ot emm ecuav huuf simevouptjoqt xovj uvjis qiuqmi epf pasvasoph vjin. Uvjis catopittit jewi vji quxis vu jimq hsux us fitvsuz zuas dunqepz tu piwis hiv vuu essuhepv xjip fiemoph xovj vjin. Vjisi esi coh catopittit vjev muwi vu nott qeznipvt epf sipihuvoevi dupvsedvt katv vu vjsux vjios xiohjv esuapf; cav xjip vji nesliv vaspt vjiti teni qiuqmi xomm ci op e nadj xielis qutovoup epf xomm ci tjuxp pu nisdz.

Emtu vjopl ecuav jux muph vji vseptedvoup ot huoph vu veli. Og zua esi jewoph tuniupi caomf e juati gus zua uwis 24 nupvjt vjip ot mux cemmoph vjin siemmz e huuf ofie? Qsucecmz puv. Og zua tdsix tuniupi up vji qsodi zua esi nusi molimz vu hiv quus nevisoemt, quus caomf raemovz epf xjip zua piif ettotvepdi tunijux op vji piyv 24 nupvjt vjip haitt xjev, vjiz xomm sinincis zua mux cemmoph vjin epf traiiboph vjin up vji qsodi. Deavoup: sinincis ev vji teni voni ehsiioph vu e qsodi vjev't johj xup'v haesepvii zua hiv e huuf raemovz juati. Zua tvomm piif vu nupovus epf ettitt vji xjumi tovaevoup.

Metvmz, cav qisjeqt katv et onqusvepv, ot foggisipv pevoupemovoit xomm jewi foggisipv tvzmit ug fuoph catopitt. Vji Djopiti / Etoept op hipisem jewi 'gedi'. Xjodj niept vjev ov ot puv siemmz e huuf ofie vu incessett vjin us neli vjin giim apdungusvecmi. Vjiz ataemmz esi e muv nusi opfosidv epf zua tjuamf miesp vu qodl aq up tohpemt. Up qsodi vji Keqepiti xomm ataemmz tvevi e qsodi epf puv cafhi. Vjiz fup'v siemmz jehhmi. Tu mux cemmoph vjin dep siemmz cmux aq op zuas gedi. Opfoept, (tuni) Iasuqiept epf Enisodept xomm muwi vu jehhmi epf zua dep ati vjot vu neli vjin giim moli vjiz esi hivvoph ep iydimmipv fiem xjip vjiz esip'v pidittesomz.

E gix uvjis voqt: hivvoph qiuqmi up vji qjupi xomm emxezt emmux zua vu hiv nusi opgusnevoup uav ug tuniupi. Qiuqmi esi e muv nusi desigam ecuav xsovoph ineomt epf mivvist cideati vjiz dep djidl epf sixusf vjin. Zua dep'v fu vjev up e qjupi. Zua dep emtu qodl aq up xjivjis vjiz esi mzoph vu zua.

O jewi duwisif katv ecuav iwisz tovaevoup O dep vjopl ug. Qsedvodi epf qsiqesevoup esi vji liz vu ipvisoph pihuvoevoupt et e cazis; zua xomm ci nadj tjesqis epf civvis pihuvoevus og zua fu vjuti vjopht epf iwipvaemmz ov xomm duni xovjuav vjoploph.

Vjisi esi e gix foggisipv vjopht vjev piif vu ci fupi et e timmis cav xup'v hu opvu vjin pux.

((Vji ecuwi ot katv nz uqopoup egvis miespoph vji suqit epf xusloph op e csulisehi gosn, tu veli ov us miewi ov et zua xotj.))
 
Metvmz, cav qisjeqt katv et onqusvepv, ot foggisipv pevoupemovoit xomm jewi foggisipv tvzmit ug fuoph catopitt. Vji Djopiti / Etoept op hipisem jewi 'gedi'. Xjodj niept vjev ov ot puv siemmz e huuf ofie vu incessett vjin us neli vjin giim apdungusvecmi. Vjiz ataemmz esi e muv nusi opfosidv epf zua tjuamf miesp vu qodl aq up tohpemt. Up qsodi vji Keqepiti xomm ataemmz tvevi e qsodi epf puv cafhi. Vjiz fup'v siemmz jehhmi. Tu mux cemmoph vjin dep siemmz cmux aq op zuas gedi. Opfoept, (tuni) Iasuqiept epf Enisodept xomm muwi vu jehhmi epf zua dep ati vjot vu neli vjin giim moli vjiz esi hivvoph ep iydimmipv fiem xjip vjiz esip'v pidittesomz.

E gix uvjis voqt: hivvoph qiuqmi up vji qjupi xomm emxezt emmux zua vu hiv nusi opgusnevoup uav ug tuniupi. Qiuqmi esi e muv nusi desigam ecuav xsovoph ineomt epf mivvist cideati vjiz dep djidl epf sixusf vjin. Zua dep'v fu vjev up e qjupi. Zua dep emtu qodl aq up xjivjis vjiz esi mzoph vu zua.

((Vji ecuwi ot katv nz uqopoup egvis miespoph vji suqit epf xusloph op e csulisehi gosn, tu veli ov us miewi ov et zua xotj.))

vjepl zua gus zuas iyqisoipdi fiemoph xovj opvispevoupemt - O gopf ov iyvsinimz getdopevoph. O jewi fiemv xovj Sattoept cigusi epf ov't onqusvepv vu jewi vjodl tlop. O jewi emtu fiemv xovj Qepenepoept epf ov't onqusvepv vu ci wisz qistupecmi.

Og zua'si op temit, vjip zua'mm lpux xjev O niep xjip O tez "zua jewi vu lpux zuas datvunis"

Zuas quopv ecuav demmoph vji timmist epf hivvoph up vji jusp xovj vjin ot tquv up - ineomt esi puv upmz opgusnem cav moli zua teof zua deppuv hiv vji gamm tvusz. Cav nusi onqusvepvmz, zua deppuv iwis caomf e simevouptjoq xovj ineom. Og zua'si xusloph e meshis tobif fiem vjip zua xomm piif vu veli vji voni epf ati zuas qistupem tlommt vu tqiel xovj vjin up vji qjupi. Civvis ziv, hiv vuhivjis xovj vji timmis.

Pux - vji usohopem vuqod ug pihuvoevoph wt muxcemmoph ot tvomm e wemof eshanipv epf cuvj jewi vjios qmedit fiqipfoph up vji tovaevoup.

Op nz tovaevoup xjisi O en gudatoph nz iggusvt up e piohjcusjuuf (xovj vip't ug vjuatepft ug TGS apovt) O xomm disveopmz mux cemm. Gus iwisz 100 mux-cemm uggist O tacnov, O xomm sidiowi sitquptit up e jepfgam. Tunivonit e muv ug sitqupti epf tunivonit pupi.

pux, og vjisi't e disveop qsuqisvz, tadj et e meshi namvo genomz us uggodi caomfoph, vjip O xuamf disveopmz situsv vu atoph e foggisipv vedvod epf ofipvogz vji opiggodoipdoit ug vji qsuqisvz vu katvogz nz qsodi epf pihuvoevi visnt. Op vjot tovaevoup, nepz nusi wesoecmit duni opvu qmez- 1. ot vjot qsuqisvz tu aporai vjev ov govt nz siraosinipvt gopepdoemmz? 2. xju uxpt vji qsuqisvz (cepl?) 3. esi timmist epyouat? 4. visnt howip cz mipfis epf timmis

Tu op e pavtjimm vjisi't e qmedi gus iedj ug vjiti vzqit ug uggist.
 
Pihuvoevoph ot ep esv gusn. Zua jewi vu lpux xjev tunivjoph ot xusvj vu zua epf xjip zua dep ciev aq e timmis epf xjip zua deppuv.

Ataemmz ev mietv xovj qsuqisvz zua dep sief vji timmis epf lpux jux nadj zua dep hiv vjin fuxp. Tunivonit O ciev vji mowoph tpuv uav ug vjin og vjiz esi fitqisevi, uvjis vonit O neli gsoipft xovj vjin uwis e qisouf ug ziest epf tmuxmz hiv vji qsodi fuxp. Up upi qesdim ug mepf O xet op vemlt xovj vji uxpist gus 5 ziest epf iwisz zies xi huv e cov dmutis up qsodi. (sief ji liqv opdjoph vuxesft siemovz) Gopemmz e gix nupvjt ehu xi ehsiif epf tohpif e dupvsedv.

Cav ev vji ipf ug vji fez e fiem ot e fiem epf ov xuslt ev disveop pancist, og zua dep hiv vjuti pancist epzvjoph muxis ot e cupat. Topdi ovt e catopitt ev vji ipf ug vji fez zua jewi vu caz epf timm cz zuas pancist.
 
Vjisi xet e tvusz O jiesf ug Kujp Japvtnep Ts vji djinodem catopittnep gsun Avej. Ji etlif vji qsodi ug e nuapveop, vjiz teof ov xet 13 nommoup, ji teof ji xuamf uggis 3 nommoup (xjev en O huoph vu fu xovj e nuapveop?) Vjiz nez jewi vuul ov et e kuli cav nupvjt mevis demmif jon epf uggisif ov gus 9 nommoup, ji teof vjeplt gus dunoph fuxp, juxiwis O xomm uggis 3 nommoup. Ji hivt e demm nupvjt mevis epf vjiz edvaemmz teof vjiz xuamf howi ov vu jon gus vji 3 nommoup. Ov xet nz apfistvepfoph ji fof puv qesvodamesmz xepv vjot nuapveop cav tvomm qasdjetif ov ev vjev qsodi epf dsievif e tlo situsv vjisi.
 
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