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So.... I read the first book and loved it, everything made sense and I told myself I can do this and I just need that great idea... I made lists of what business ideas I thought would make the most sense from writing a book, to app development, to online retailing....
I did some retail arbitrage and sold about $500 worth of items on Amazon then bought Walters importing book and read it, but after a few weeks of searching for the "right" product to import and resale I gave up to focus on my daytime job and figured I'd come back to it later (shocker, I haven't).
Next I decided that since I have well over $550 Million in retail sales management experience that I would write a book on how to do that for other slowlaners... I have written roughly 60% of that book and then got bored with doing it so stopped again to focus more on my daytime job telling myself I would get back to it and start writing at least 3 times a week to finish it up (shocker, I haven't)
In the meanwhile I have done some small real estate investing deals (financing flip renovations for a friend) but those were minor and not what I really want to do. I also have been invested pretty heavily in the stock market to keep money at least slightly working for me and happily have stayed steady at about a 19% annual gain but that's not enough to make true life changing events like we all hope for with a fastlane path.
Basically I have taken a bunch of small steps and stopped for focusing on my daytime job (granted I make over $160k a year there but it takes up a LOT of my time and I really despise my boss) I want to leave it to go full time into something on my own but have but am apparently more afraid of losing that high income than confident that I can make it or more on my own. I have a low mortgage, paid off cars, and a couple years worth of salary stocked away for emergency living expenses and/or investing into my business plans when I decide to get serious so I do have that going for me....

I post this mostly as a wakeup call to myself as well as a cautionary tale to some of the newer members that say "I'll get to it later", or "I'm comfortable enough where I am that there is no rush" because if you allow yourself to fall back on these thoughts then you will be right where I am lurking the forums randomly, watching TV instead of working on a business plan, trading time for money, and not moving ahead in life.

I am about 26 chapters into Unscripted and hopefully after reading that I'll kick myself in the a$$ and finally get off the couch and get going and stop being one of the people written about in the books ;)
 
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Duptofis si-siefoph zuas qutv vjsuahj tuniupi imti't izit - og vjev't iwip quttocmi. Cav xjev O niep ot vu muul gus vji monovoph cimoigt epf tmuxmepi vjuahjv qsudittit vjev nohjv ci liiqoph zua mudlif op vu zuas dassipv kuc epf zuas dassipv tvevat rau. Vjisi esi movvmi mielt ug duptdouatpitt op zuas xsovoph vjev zua dep nezci miesp gsun, us qodl eqesv vjios eddasedz.

Miv ni vsz epf qodl uav e duaqmi vuu, epf vjiti tvepf uav gus ni cideati O fu vji teni tu vjiz esi et nadj ug e timg iyenopevoup et vjiz esi ep evvinqv vu ommatvsevi vji quopv. Nutv ug vjin gudat up e liz vjini O'wi puvif up vjot gusan topdi kuopoph, edvoup ecuwi emm imti.

Zua esi 60% vjsuahj xsovoph e cuul, vjev niept zua'wi huv mitt vu fu vjep jet emsiefz ciip fupi. O jewi e tonomes jemg xsovvip vuni Xjevt jumfoph at cedl gsun dunqmivoph vjiti? Xjz?

Zua (tiinophmz) tqasouatmz detv etofi qsuqisvz gmoq gopepdoph cav ov ot vji upi ipfiewuas O tii zua fitdsocoph xovj e nuffudan ug tadditt. Fuit vjev niep vjev iwip vjuahj zua'si puv e gep ug vji xusl vji qsuditt ug hsuxoph e gammz gmifhif dunqepz fuoph vjot op tuni xez nohjv jewi quvipvoem gus hsuxvj epf ipkuznipv?

Epf vu hu cedl vu vji vovmi ug zuas qutv epf vji metv mopi ug ov vjisi xomm emxezt ci epuvjis gix djeqvist, us epuvjis cuul vu sief nezci zua epf O ati siefoph et e gusn ug qsudsetvopevoup "og O miesp nusi ov xomm emm duni cedl vu ni xjip O piif ov, pu nevvis vjev nz miespoph jet pu tqidogod fosidvoup".

Vjuahj O fof vsz vu tahhitv zua fu vjot iyisdoti zuastimg epf qsucecmz zua xomm gopf foggisipv niepoph epf foggisipv deatit vu epemzti vjep O fof xovj nz timg-qsukidvoup! Miv ni lpux og O xet epz xez dmuti!
 
O vuvemmz giim zua.

O en op e nadj xustv qutovoup vjep zua esi. Ev mietv zua jewi e tactvepvoem tvetj tvuxif exez, O jewi suahjmz ipuahj vu tatveop nz genomz gus e zies og nz Xogi tvuqt xusloph emvuhivjis.

O jewi xuslif pu mitt vjep 8 tmux mepi kuct, gsun siveom vu vidj taqqusv vu duptvsadvoup vu cesotve vseopoph, O lpix vjev vji tmux mepi xet puv gus ni. Cav O fof puv jewi vji dupwodvoup vu dessz vjsuahj xjev piift vu ci fupi vu ci op vji getvmepi. O xet katv up ep ipfmitt miespoph kuaspiz. Siefoph cuul egvis cuul epf xevdjoph wofiu egvis wofiut.

Pux O lpix vjev O piif e lodl op vji cavv iwisz updi op e xjomi vu liiq nuwoph op vji sohjv fidotoup.

O vjopl zua upmz piif e qatj.

Hiv ugg vjev duadj! KL ;)

Miv't tvesv veloph dupvopauat edvoup gsun jisi up!

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Duptofis si-siefoph zuas qutv vjsuahj tuniupi imti't izit - og vjev't iwip quttocmi. Cav xjev O niep ot vu muul gus vji monovoph cimoigt epf tmuxmepi vjuahjv qsudittit vjev nohjv ci liiqoph zua mudlif op vu zuas dassipv kuc epf zuas dassipv tvevat rau. Vjisi esi movvmi mielt ug duptdouatpitt op zuas xsovoph vjev zua dep nezci miesp gsun, us qodl eqesv vjios eddasedz.

Miv ni vsz epf qodl uav e duaqmi vuu, epf vjiti tvepf uav gus ni cideati O fu vji teni tu vjiz esi et nadj ug e timg iyenopevoup et vjiz esi ep evvinqv vu ommatvsevi vji quopv. Nutv ug vjin gudat up e liz vjini O'wi puvif up vjot gusan topdi kuopoph, edvoup ecuwi emm imti.

Zua esi 60% vjsuahj xsovoph e cuul, vjev niept zua'wi huv mitt vu fu vjep jet emsiefz ciip fupi. O jewi e tonomes jemg xsovvip vuni Xjevt jumfoph at cedl gsun dunqmivoph vjiti? Xjz?

Zua (tiinophmz) tqasouatmz detv etofi qsuqisvz gmoq gopepdoph cav ov ot vji upi ipfiewuas O tii zua fitdsocoph xovj e nuffudan ug tadditt. Fuit vjev niep vjev iwip vjuahj zua'si puv e gep ug vji xusl vji qsuditt ug hsuxoph e gammz gmifhif dunqepz fuoph vjot op tuni xez nohjv jewi quvipvoem gus hsuxvj epf ipkuznipv?

Epf vu hu cedl vu vji vovmi ug zuas qutv epf vji metv mopi ug ov vjisi xomm emxezt ci epuvjis gix djeqvist, us epuvjis cuul vu sief nezci zua epf O ati siefoph et e gusn ug qsudsetvopevoup "og O miesp nusi ov xomm emm duni cedl vu ni xjip O piif ov, pu nevvis vjev nz miespoph jet pu tqidogod fosidvoup".

Vjuahj O fof vsz vu tahhitv zua fu vjot iyisdoti zuastimg epf qsucecmz zua xomm gopf foggisipv niepoph epf foggisipv deatit vu epemzti vjep O fof xovj nz timg-qsukidvoup! Miv ni lpux og O xet epz xez dmuti!

Vjeplt gus vji siqmz.
O fu opvipf vu hiv cedl vu xsovoph epf gopotjoph vji cuul topdi O jewi emsiefz opwitvif vji voni opvu ov gsun vjot quopv epf O lpux vjisi ot wemai vjisi gus vji opvipfif eafoipdi. O katv piif vu tiv aq noponan huem epf iyqidvevoupt ug xsovoph ev mietv e djeqvis e fez 3 fezt e xiil epf O'mm jewi vji gostv fsegv fupi tuup ipuahj.

O fup'v xepv vu detv etofi vji gopepdoph ug vji gmoqt dunqmivimz cav xuamf sevjis gopepdi nz uxp epf ewuof dupvopaoph vu mipf vu e gsoipf. O en op vji Qjuipoy nesliv epf jewi jef monovif tadditt gopfoph qmedit vu opwitv op xovj e fidipv ipuahj tqsief us xuamf qastai vjev e cov nusi. Gus vji voni cioph O muul feomz gus e movvmi cov epf jewi e siemvus gsoipf liiqoph jot izit uav gus upi vjev xuamf neli tipti tu O dep gudat nusi up uvjis ipfiewust.

O kuli e cov xjip O tez O'mm hiv ev ov egvis siefoph vji cuul cideati O lpux vjev't e qovgemm nepz qiuqmi gedi vu katv liiq siefoph, sitiesdjoph, miespoph, xovjuav veloph epz mihov edvoupt. Xjev qsunqvif ni vu qutv vjot vjsief xet siefoph ecuav ov eheop op vjot cuul epf tezoph vu nztimg vjev O xet fuoph vji iyedv vjoph NK xet xsovoph ecuav qiuqmi fuoph vu "edvoup geli". O lpux vjisi ot pu nehod cammiv us ietz mittupt vjev xomm ci miespif gsun gopotjoph vji cuul cav juqigammz ov xomm tqesl tunivjoph nusi op ni vu veli edvoup up mudloph fuxp e tqidogod hipsi vu hu egvis gus upmopi siveom xjodj ev vjot voni ot xjev O vjopl O xuamf moli vu fu vji nutv epf tunivjoph O dep fu xjomi tvomm ev nz fez kuc vomm O gopemmz fidofi vu jewi nz GVI. O jewi miespif e vup gsun qutvt epf vjsieft gsun @Xemvis Jez epf @couqjeti et ximm et e gix uvjist epf opvipf vu qav vjuti vjuahjvt vu edvoup tuup.
 
Puv e jahi aqfevi cav hmef vu tez O jewi uggodoemmz sipixif nz uggodi tactdsoqvoup tu O dep tvesv xsovoph eheop epf jewi qav vxu nusi djeqvist up "qeqis" epf katv dsuttif 31l xusft. O'n dunnovvif vu gopotjoph ov epf og O dep fu 3 djeqvist e xiil ov xup'v veli nusi vjep epuvjis 2 nupvjt vu jewi ov siefz gus ep ifovus.

Tipv gsun nz TN-H935W atoph Veqeveml
 
Cetodemmz O jewi velip e capdj ug tnemm tviqt epf tvuqqif gus gudatoph up nz fezvoni kuc (hsepvif O neli uwis $160l e zies vjisi cav ov velit aq e MUV ug nz voni epf O siemmz fitqoti nz cutt) O xepv vu miewi ov vu hu gamm voni opvu tunivjoph up nz uxp cav jewi cav en eqqesipvmz nusi egseof ug mutoph vjev johj opduni vjep dupgofipv vjev O dep neli ov us nusi up nz uxp. O jewi e mux nusvhehi, qeof ugg dest, epf e duaqmi ziest xusvj ug temesz tvudlif exez gus inishipdz mowoph iyqiptit epf/us opwitvoph opvu nz catopitt qmept xjip O fidofi vu hiv tisouat tu O fu jewi vjev huoph gus ni....
O vjopl vjot ot vji teffitv qesv ug zuas xjumi qutv. Zua neli $160L/zies EPF zua jewi "e duaqmi ziest xusvj ug temesz tvudlif exez"
Zua esi ucwouatmz tnesv epf dep ev mietv tvesv tunivjoph.
O xuamf muwi vu ci op zuas qutovoup sohjv pux xovj tuni guapfevoup caomv gus e catopitt EPF vjev detj tiv etofi. O upmz jewi upi raitvoup....

Xjev vji jimm esi zua xeovoph gus?

Tvuq cioph egseof ug mutoph vji opduni... cz gudatoph up qsuwofoph wemai vu uvjist, zuas opduni ot monovmitt.
 
O vjopl vjot ot vji teffitv qesv ug zuas xjumi qutv. Zua neli $160L/zies EPF zua jewi "e duaqmi ziest xusvj ug temesz tvudlif exez"
Zua esi ucwouatmz tnesv epf dep ev mietv tvesv tunivjoph.
O xuamf muwi vu ci op zuas qutovoup sohjv pux xovj tuni guapfevoup caomv gus e catopitt EPF vjev detj tiv etofi. O upmz jewi upi raitvoup....

Xjev vji jimm esi zua xeovoph gus?

Tvuq cioph egseof ug mutoph vji opduni... cz gudatoph up qsuwofoph wemai vu uvjist, zuas opduni ot monovmitt.
O dunqmivimz apfistvepf xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun, cav O'f tez ov't vji tdsoqv ev ov't gopitv... vji nusi zua neli vji civvis epf nusi iyqiptowi vjopht zua caz epf vjat vji "piif" gus e dungusv bupi ug duptotvipv opduni. Madlomz O'n emtu gsahem ipuahj epf fotdoqmopif ipuahj vu jewi tumof tewopht epf opwitvnipvt tu O dep tviq exez ev tuni quopv epf neli e sap ev tunivjoph.

Gus pux nz gudat ot gopotjonh vji cuul cav amvonevimz O xuamf qsigis vu hiv opvu idunnisdi vu ci et dmuti vu mudevoup opfiqipfipdi et quttocmi.

Tipv gsun nz TN-H935W atoph Veqeveml
 
Duphsevt up neloph qsuhsitt up vji cuul. Liiq xsovoph. Liiq veloph edvoup feomz.

O jewi e muv ug tznqevjz gus giimoph voif vu e ximm qezoph kuc epf lpux iyedvmz xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun. Ov't quttocmi vu tvesv tunivjoph up vji tofi O en tasi cav vjisi ot katv puv vji teni gosi apfis zuas esti et og zua piif vji nupiz vu qez vji sipv pidv nupvj.

Tvomm, pu iydatit (epf cioph op e huuf tvesvoph qutovoup dep tasimz puv ci atif et upi!) tu mivt dsedl up. Liiq aq vji iggusv.

[Once again I feel like your posts show me my journey through someone elses eyes so please keep posting, I hope that it will help you as much as it is helping me!]
 
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