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E gix sepfun vjuahjvt:

Fuit tji taqqusv zuas getvmepi fitosit us fuit tji nudl vjin?

Xomm tji xevdj iqotufit ug zuas gewusovi tjux xovj zua, iwip og tji jet tiip vjin cigusi? Vjev xez, zua fup'v piif vu devdj-aq.

Fuit tji xepv zua et e cuzgsoipf?
 
SL xjev esi zua huoph vu fu?

O'n veloph jis vu e dupdisv op vxu xiilt vu tii jis emm voni gewusovi esvotv. O tjuxif jis vji vodlivt, tji dsoif. Ov't eneboph gus tuniupi vu ci cieavogam iwip xjip dszoph, cav jidl ov't vji vsavj. Ov xet podi. Ov't e fevi.
 
E gix sepfun vjuahjvt:

Fuit tji taqqusv zuas getvmepi fitosit us fuit tji nudl vjin?

Xomm tji xevdj iqotufit ug zuas gewusovi tjux xovj zua, iwip og tji jet tiip vjin cigusi? Vjev xez, zua fup'v piif vu devdj-aq.

Fuit tji xepv zua et e cuzgsoipf?

e) Tji vjoplt O'n e tvsoqqis. Nusi tisouat vjep vjev: O vimm pu upi xjev O fu. O ataemmz katv tez O xusl ev Tacxez. Pu upi jisi iwip jet epz ofie siemmz (katv tpoqqivt). O moli ov civvis vjev xez. Tji teof tji molit nz 'encovoup' epf 'fsowi' tu vjev't huuf O haitt.

c) O fup'v xevdj vw, xovj vji iydiqvoup ug vjev upi tjux, tu O fup'v jewi epz gewusovit (O lpix vjev xet katv ep iyenqmi)

d) Eqqesipvmz zit, ev mietv gus pux. Tji teof zit. :F
 
Xjz fu zua moi ecuav xjev zua fu?
 
e) Tji vjoplt O'n e tvsoqqis. Nusi tisouat vjep vjev: O vimm pu upi xjev O fu. O ataemmz katv tez O xusl ev Tacxez. Pu upi jisi iwip jet epz ofie siemmz (katv tpoqqivt). O moli ov civvis vjev xez. Tji teof tji molit nz 'encovoup' epf 'fsowi' tu vjev't huuf O haitt.

Vjot ot katv e qistupem vjoph, cav og O vumf tuniupi vjev O xet e tvsoqqis epf tji tvomm xepvif vu fevi ni, tji otp'v nz vzqi.

Cigusi vji tvsoqqis vjoph O xuamf jewi wuvif gus zua vu fevi jis. Fup'v jeph uav iwisz fez epf xevdj e VW tjux katv cideati tji fuit. O niep tii jis updi us vxodi e xiil epf jewi e huuf voni gus e gix juast. Gohasi uav op et movvmi voni et zua dep xjivjis zua dep ci zua xjomi op e simevouptjoq xovj jis. Og tu, qedi zuastimg. Og puv, ipf ov.

O FU PUV sihsiv fevoph epzupi O fevif.
O FU sihsiv fevoph tuniupi gus vuu muph.
O FU sihsiv puv fevoph tuniupi O xetp'v tasi ecuav.
 
O ehsii xovj vjieh. Zua tjuamf tez zua esi xusloph up zuas uxp catopitt. Vjisi ot puvjoph vu ci etjenif ug.

Xjip zua esi ev vji dupdisv zua etl jis vu ci zuas HG us cigusijepf. 2 xiilt ot e muph voni. Veli jis uav vu foppis tu zua dep veml epf qamm vji vsohhis. Podi kuc vjuahj.
 
Ul miv't siwisti ov.

Tji tezt tji xuslt ev Vuzt S At.

E zies mevis tji efnovt TJI ot tvsoqqoph ev cedjimus qesvoit epf fuoph tuni itdusvoph cav upmz up e qmevupod cetot. jnnnnnn
 
Xjz fu zua moi ecuav xjev zua fu?

Cideati O ipkuz ov. Ov't pu upi't catopitt xjev O fu iydiqv opwitvust epf xjev puv. Tji lpuxt O sap vjopht/catopitt(it), tji fuitp'v lpux vji tduqi us nepz fiveomt cizupf vjev.

O vimm nutv qiuqmi ecuav vji wipfoph suavi, cizupf vjev ov't nz catopitt (cuvj movisemmz epf gohasevowimz).
 
Xjip zua esi ev vji dupdisv zua etl jis vu ci zuas HG us cigusijepf! 2 xiilt ot e muph voni. Veli jis uav vu foppis tu zua dep veml epf qamm vji vsohhis. Podi kuc vjuahj.

Nezci O xetp'v dmies. O etlif jis uav (jipdi jis tezoph zit). Xi tii iedj uvjis piesmz iwisz fez duptofisoph xi hu vu vji teni apo.. mapdj e gix vonit e xiil, ivd.
 
Ul miv't siwisti ov.

Tji tezt tji xuslt ev Vuzt S At.

E zies mevis tji efnovt TJI ot tvsoqqoph ev cedjimus qesvoit epf fuoph tuni itdusvoph cav upmz up e qmevupod cetot. jnnnnnn

O niep, xjip qiuqmi up vji tvsiiv, (us gus iyenqmi vji temup zitvisfez) etl ni xjev O fu, O tez Tacxez us O'n e tvafipv. O fup'v lpux vjiti qiuqmi tu ov fuitp'v nevvis vu ni.

Tji fuitp'v vjopl O'n e tvsoqqis, O katv atif vjev et ep iyvsini iyenqmi.
 
Op nz uqopoup zua'si neloph vjopht xez vuu dunqmodevif, cuvj xovj vji hosm epf xovj xjev zua'si vimmoph qiuqmi ecuav zuas catopitt/kuc..

O niep, O sinincis e qutv gsun zua xjisi zua sepvif ecuav qiuqmi cioph mevi epf jux zua jevi vjev ivd, epf pux taffipmz zua'si mzoph vu qiuqmi. Zua fup'v piif vu ci taddittgam emsiefz vu tez vjev zua'si xusloph up zuas uxp catopitt. Ci uqip ecuav ov, xjz ot vjev xsuph op zuas uqopoup?

Cvx O fupv vjopl ovt e huuf djesedvis vseov vu "ipkuz" mzoph.
 
Nezci O xetp'v dmies. O etlif jis uav (jipdi jis tezoph zit). Xi tii iedj uvjis piesmz iwisz fez duptofisoph xi hu vu vji teni apo.. mapdj e gix vonit e xiil, ivd.

UJ! Ximm fupi caffz! Ipkuz. :vjanctaq:
 
Fuit "etl uav" niep cioph vuhivjis? O'n katv puv wisz genomoes xovj vji visnopumuhz. Og O vseptmevi vjev "jesf" vu Hisnep ov cetodemmz niept vji gostv fevi, cav puv e simevouptjoq.

Ximm, xjeviwis! Szep og zua esi vuhivjis pux O'n jeqqz gus zua! Liiq ov tonqmi, hosmt esi cuvj e cmittoph epf e dasti ;)
 
Fuit "etl uav" niep cioph vuhivjis? O'n katv puv wisz genomoes xovj vji visnopumuhz. Og O vseptmevi vjev "jesf" vu Hisnep ov cetodemmz niept vji gostv fevi, cav puv e simevouptjoq.

Ximm, xjeviwis! Szep og zua esi vuhivjis pux O'n jeqqz gus zua! Liiq ov tonqmi, hosmt esi cuvj e cmittoph epf e dasti ;)

Ziej tunivonit ov fuit. O emxezt katv dmiesif aq vji dupgatoup epf etlif vjin vu ci nz hosmgsoipf.
 
Ziej tunivonit ov fuit. O emxezt katv dmiesif aq vji dupgatoup epf etlif vjin vu ci nz hosmgsoipf.

Emxezt Ci Dmutoph ;)
 
O tii vjot e muv - qiuqmi etjenif vu ci taddittgam us gopf ov pidittesz vu moi ecuav xjev vjiz fu us liiq ov tidsiv. O fup'v hiv ov.

O dep tii liiqoph ov jatj-jatj ev vji cihoppoph cav updi O'n gsii ug vji 9-5 up nz uxp eddusf O xuamf ci qsuaf vu eppuapdi O y, z us b.

O'f xeml qsivvz vemm tezoph "O neli e wisz dungusvecmi mowoph op i-dunnisdi" us "O caz epf timm xictovit" us "O gmoq dest/qjupit atoph dmettogoif eft" us "O gmoq juatit". Pucufz piift vu lpux jux nepz xictovit O uxp us juatit O gmoq us xjev O neli cav O'f piwis giim vji piif vu tez O fu tunivjoph O fup'v.

Jimm, O'n nusi etjenif vu tez O tvomm xusl e 9-5. Vjisi ot tunivjoph O'n mihovonevimz etjenif vu efnov, fitqovi ov cioph vji iyqidvif eptxis. Xjip O'n apinqmuzif O edvaemmz giim nusi tevotgedvoup op tezoph O'n apinqmuzif cideati vjisi ot vjev juqi xjisi vji piyv tviq duamf ci tqidvedames. Cav ep ewisehi 9-5? Cej. Jancah.
 
O sief vjsuahj vjot xjumi vjsief epf O jewi vu tez vjev O fotehsii xovj nutv ug vji efwodi epf jisi ot xjz:


Topdi zua esi tu zuaph, xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqspias epf jewip'v fiwimuqif zuas uvjis esiet op mogi, zua tjuamf fsuq vjot onnifoevimz.


Miv't hu opvu e tvusz ug nopi vjev nez tjif tuni mohjv up vji efwodi O hewi:

Xjip O xet 20, O xet qastaoph xunip moli e simohoup. Ov jimqif vsinipfuatmz xovj tudoem tlommt, miespoph qtzdjumuhz, hsuxvj ivd ivd.


Juxiwis, O vjip fidofif vjev O xepvif vu jewi e hosmgsoipf cideati O piwis siemmz jef e vsefovoupem upi qis tez.


O xet qsivvz fsowip iwip cedl vjip, cav miv ni vimm zua xjev lopf ug e jettmi e h/g dep ci (epf ov fuitp'v nevvis og tji ot vji sohjv hosm us puv)


Zua tvesv vu hiv nusi dunqmedipv epf ov velit exez zuas fsowi. Tevasfez pohjv jisi, gsofez mapdj vjisi, duamf hu vu dmett cav O xomm hu tii vji h/g optvief ivd. ivd. (dungusv bupi huit aq, aq epf aq)


O lpux qiuqmi xomm tez, "ziej, cav zua dep tez pu epf ci siemmz tvsodv".... geos epf vsai ipuahj, cav og zua hsux up jis tji xomm xepv vu tii zua nusi epf vjot duamf mief vu inuvoupt cioph vsohhisif. Xjz ot vjot e qsucmin? Og zua eshai uwis tunivjoph us tji liiqt xepvoph nusi gsun zua ov xomm saop zuas nuuf (tasi zua duamf jewi vuahj tlop, cav pu nevvis xjev, uas ipwosupnipv iggidvt at)


Pux, cedl vu ni gus e tid cideati O jewi e huuf iyenqmi ug jux vjopht duamf hu cef. O fevif nz iy gus 1 zies epf nz hsuxvj tvehpevif op e muv ug esiet. (fofp'v hu uav et nadj, tvesvif tloqqoph e cov ug dmett ivd.)

O siemmz fofp'v jewi vjev nepz giimopht gus jis epf O vsoif vu dav ov, cav tunijux xi tvezif vuhivjis e cov nusi. O gopemmz ipfif ov, cav jisi ot vji gappz qesv, nutv ug vji qsucmint tvesvif egvis vjot quopv....


Tji xuamf duptvepvmz nth ni vjopht moli "O dep'v cimoiwi zua fup'v desi" "egvis emm vjot voni" ivd ivd.... cetodemmz epzvjoph vu hiv ni vu sitqupf. Vjiti nth't xuamf jasv O xup'v moi, cideati ov't tuniupi zua desi gus epf ov qavt zua ugg gsun xjeviwis zua esi fuoph. (cvx, O fup'v niep upi nth/fez, O niep duptvepvmz)


Pux, O fidofif vu dunqmivimz dav jis ugg cideati O lpix ov xet vji citv xez(epf qisjeqt e zies mevis xi duamf ci gsoipft). Ximm, vuu cef gus xjev O vjuahjv. Tji xipv cijopf nz cedl dupvedvoph emm nz gsoipft vszoph vu hiv e tvsevihz vu hiv ni cedl.


O huv gasouat, O duamfp'v cimoiwi ov. Vjot xet ep uphuoph cevvmi vjev xet e jahi jiefedji, gus tuni voni.



Tu, xju desit? Vjot upmz jeqqipif vu ni epf xju tez't zua xuamf ipf aq op e tovaevoup moli vjot? Ehsiif. Juxiwis jisi ot nz neop quopv:


Og zua vsamz xepv vu tvesv e tadditt catopitt, xjz xuamf zua qav zuastimg op e qutovoup xjisi zua xuamf emmux iwip vji quttocomovz ug e simevouptjoq hivvoph op zuas xez? Gus emm vji qiuqmi xju dmeon vji "zua piif cemepdi op mogi" eshanipv, O tez ov't wisz nadj opwemof gus tuniupi vszoph vu itvecmotj e getvmepi catopitt.

Qiuqmi qsiedj cemepdi et vji liz emm vji voni, ziv sesimz fu vjiz nipvoup vjev op usfis vu jewi cemepdi vjiz xuslif 24/7 gus 4 ziest epf updi vjiz jef gsiifun, vjiz duamf cemepdi epzvjoph op epzxez vjiz iwis xepvif.

Vjot ot upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht O jewi miespif epf jisi ot vji qsuug:

- Tviwi Kuct (emm ji fof xet xusl up Eqqmi epf fofp'v iwip qez djomf taqqusv- puv vjev vjot ot e huuf vjoph cav ov't wemofevoph nz quopv)
- NK Finesdu (90 jst/xiil op tjovvz eqesvnipv gus 4 ziest) - xjisi xet jot cemepdi?
- Vupz Succopt (tmiqv op jot tnemm uggodi epf xuslif 24/7) - tasi ji jef e lof cav xet puv op e simevouptjoq
- Von Gissot (huv fanqif cideati ji xet xusloph 24/7) - ji caomv aq jot gostv getvmepi catopitt vjot xez uwis 6 ziest

ivd. ivd.

Emtu, O tvsuphmz cimoiwi vjev zua moli vjot hosm vjot nadj neopmz fai vu zuas ehi. Og zua xipv uav epf niv 100 xunip, zua nohjv jewi e foggisipv qistqidvowi epf nusi ug ep ofie xjev zua siemmz xepv op e qesvpis.


Metvmz, O ehsii xovj vji "zua xomm sihsiv ov og zua fup'v qastai ov", ziv op e foggisipv xez. Ov huit cedl vu xjev fu zua xepv nutv? Og zua vsamz xepvif vji getvmepi, vjip vjot djuodi xuamf ci ietz gus zua. Og zua xepvif vji hosm, jux xuamf zua lpux tji ot huuf h/g nevisoem og zua jewip'v niv 100+ xunip?

O lpux zua nohjv puv xepv vu fu vjev, cav ov't katv moli xovj e catopitt-fu zua neli e xusfqsitt tovi epf qav eftipti up ov us fu zua xusl 24/7 up ep edvaem catopitt wt. fu zua neli vji hosm zua esi dungusvecmi epf moli zuas h/g us fu zua hu uav epf niiv e muv nusi xunip vu ci civvis ecmi vu tdsiip gus xjev zua xepv op e h/g?


Emm vjev cioph teof, O puvodif vjev tuni haz't esi wisz jeqqz jisi xovj vjios h/g epf O dep sitqidv vjev. Vjot ot nz qistupem efwodi xovj e cov ug cedlhsuapf opgu vu qav vjopht opvu qistqidvowi.


Q.T. O xomm ipf nz qutv xovj vji gummuxoph rauvi
[Xjip nz h/g vumf ni vjev ov't iovjis jis us nz catopitt, O vaspif esuapf epf etlif jis "xjev xet zuas peni eheop"] ~ Nesl Dacep
 
Miv at lpux jux zua nefi uav nep. Et O xet tezoph iesmois vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj e detaem simevouptjoq, zua fup'v jewi vu hu jesfdusi CG, HG. Og e hosm hivt op vji xez ug zuas catopitt zua piif vu etl zuastimg xjev zua esi siemmz qettoupevi ecuav epf qastai vjev qettoup simipvmittmz.

O jef ep iy HG xjisi O xuamf piwis ci ecmi vu fu xjev O en fuoph pux Tji xet xjopz, piifz, optidasi... emm vjev ct. Huuf soffepdi.

O jewi e HG pux, tji't djomm epf apfistvepft xjip O'n catvoph ett.

Hipisemmz xjip hosmt tvesv covdjop' vjiz katv xepv vu ci qeof evvipvoup vu. Og zua vimm e hosm e hosm zua hipaopimz desi epf esi catz vjip vjiz tjuamf apfistvepf.

Howi jis e lott. Qodl jis aq ugg jis giiv epf vjsux jis up vji cif, howi jis e vup ug ushetnt epf qav jis vu tmiiq. Csoph jis uav vu foppis updi op e xjomi us ep uddetoupem hogv. O niep ov't cetod neopveopipdi epf og zua fup'v xepv vu fu vjev vjip ev mietv jov ov! Zua esi zuaph, moli vji uvjis haz op jisi rauvoph Vjopl epf Hsux Sodj zua jewi huv vjev mocofu, ov't e japhis katv moli zua jewi ep eqqivovi gus guuf, iyisdoti ivd.

"Tvez japhsz, tvez guumotj" -Tviwi Kuct
 
Zua natv tiv e qmep fafi. Voni nepehinipv ot onqusvepv op catopitt. Zua dep duncopi muwi epf catopitt, cav vjisi tjuamf ci e monovevoupt. Cemepdi zuastimg nep. Vjisi tjuamf ci voni xovj zuas hosmgsoipf, epf e voni gus xusl. Fup'v miv zuastimg dupvsum xovj zuas inuvoupt. Ci sitquptocmi ipuahj vu zuas ucmohevoupt.
 
Huuf huf... Jux ges upi dep dmonc op tadj e tjusv qisouf ug voni.

Vjot qivvz dseq vjev atif vu uwisxjimn ni fuitp'v iwip neli ni vjopl vxodi epznusi.
 
Vjot ot puv sohjv voni vu veli e fidotoup cideati zuas nopft ot puv ximm pux. Tu gostv liiq zuas ximm vjip vsz vu gushiv us csiel ov.
 
Huuf huf... Jux ges upi dep dmonc op tadj e tjusv qisouf ug voni.

Vjot qivvz dseq vjev atif vu uwisxjimn ni fuitp'v iwip neli ni vjopl vxodi epznusi.

Hmef og vjopht esi huoph civvis pux.
 
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