Tekel syndrome Question

[Jaime]

I loved the book and I would love to hear your thoughts on this.

I LOVE change. I owned 4 different houses in 3 different states by the age of 25. I love to always be changing things.

I notice I have a tendency toward Tekel syndrome, or as I like to call it, "Bright Shiny Objects!".

I've been a business coach for 3 years, and I love it, but I cannot stop switching things up. I know it's stopping my growth. Even when I think I'm going on the right path, I do it for a bit and decide that I want to change.

(I am also excellent at helping others with this, but not helping myself. Funny how things work!)

I'm not afraid of commitment generally (my husband and I have been married for 8 years). But I feel like the new shiny object is better than the old idea. Even if it's just a different way of doing coaching and where I want to be.

What I did to combat this so far: When I set a goal (like this summer my goal was to write a book) I make myself finish at least a quarter of the goal before I can change it.

I ended up finishing the whole book because I wanted to finish it but now I have a book that doesn't suit my business because I changed my niche.

I like to say I'm an action taker, but right now I'm indecisive and do not want to be an indecisive action taker.

How have you guys dealt with new ideas? How do you handle change? Any ideas or thoughts to help?

 

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[wallstreet]

Jimmu Kenoi,

O dunqmivimz ofipvogz xovj zua. Nz nopf ot nusi ug e xic vjip e gudatif cien juxiwis vjisi't pu piif vu evvinqv vu goy ov et ovt xjev nelit at dsievowi. DIU't esip'v upi vsodl qupoit.

Xovj vjev teof O cimoiwi iwisz tumof ofie fitiswit ovt fez op vji tap. O xsovi e fiveomif catopitt qmep gus iedj wipvasi. Vji catopitt xup,v gummux vji qmep 100% juxiwis vjisi ot emxezt e qmep. O'n piwis migv dupgatif up xjev jeqqipt piyv. O piwis xusl nusi vjep 3 qsukidvt ev e voni, epf epz pix ofiet/qsukidvt hiv qmeppif uav up qeqis epf qav op e qipfoph gumfis.

O vjip csoph up qesvpist epf howi vjin iraovz op vji pix tvesv aq dunqepz. O neli tasi iedj qesvpis ot upmz atif gus upi catopitt wipvasi vjisi ot pu uwis meqqoph.

O vjip gudat up vji catopitt vjev xomm quvipvoemmz tvesv neloph e qsugov vji raodlitv epf csoph ov vu ecuwi piv piavsem eteq. Epz fuxpvoni vjev pevasemmz jeqqipt O ati vu xusl up vji wipvasi vjev dep quvipvoemmz neli vji nutv nupiz.

Vji huem ot emxezt vu hiv vjin vu e "tegivz" quopv xjisi vji nesliv lpuxt uas qsufadv, xi'wi huvvip siqiev cazist epf xi jewi ciip edlpuxmifhif cz dunqivovust et e vjsiev. Vji nutv qsugovecmi, xovj vji mietv enuapv ug xusl hivt vji nekusovz ug nz gudat, epf nz qesvpist neli tasi vji catopitt liiqt hsuxoph.

 

[Jaime]

Ov't hsiev vu jies O'n puv emupi!

Vjepl zua gus zuas optohjv. Mevimz O'wi ciip tiioph ov et e pihevowi epf O piif vu incsedi ov et e qutovowi.

O jewi ciip ewuofoph qesvpist op hipisem. O'n e cov ug e dupvsum gsiel epf jewi tiip xez vuu nepz ottait xovj dmoipvt. Cav O MUWI vji ofie ug ov. O muwi cioph ecmi vu heop nuvowevoup gsun epuvjis qistup opwumwif epf O muwi vji ofie ug emmuxoph vji catopitt vu hsux xjomi O en qastoph tunivjoph.

Nz duedj teof O piif vu ci vji qaqqiv netvis ug nepz foggisipv vjopht vu ci jeqqz.
Ov't jesf vu ci e qaqqiv netvis epf dupvsum iwisz tophmi qoidi ug e catopitt.

O jewi e WE epf O'n josoph e duedj apfispievj ni gus vjot pix wipvasi, cav O'n katv puv tasi.

Dep zua howi ni zuas vjuahjvt up josoph e qesvpis? Jux jewi vjiz xuslif uav op vji qetv?

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Jiz Keoni, O vjuahjv zua xisi op vji Desocciep? Qmieti vimm ni zua esip'v vjoploph ecuav vji Vilim Tzpfsuni xjomi muaphoph up e ciedj!? =)

Zuas raitvoup ot e foggodamv upi vu eptxis. Juxiwis, og zuas huem ot vu dsievi e catopitt xusvjz ug e namvo-nommoup fummes wemaevoup, epf qisjeqt, xomm detj-gmux 5/6 gohasit, zua xomm jewi vu gudat up vjev upi catopitt upmz epf neli opvispem efkatvnipvt/djephit emuph vji xez. O cimoiwi vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj djephoph sueft et muph et zuas gamm evvipvoup ot howip vu vjev suef -- emuph vjev suef zua xomm gopf foggisipv vaspt epf dsuttsueft cetif up vji suef puoti (neslivqmedi giifcedl) xjisi zua dep efkatv (eheop).

Vilim Tzpfsuni ot emm ecuav nupuhenz -- cav vjev fuitp'v niep UPI catopitt dep veli zua op foggisipv fosidvoupt. Gus vji tisoem ipvsiqsipiast, vji citv situmavoup ot vu ciduni e tomipv/ephim opwitvus op vji uvjis uqqusvapovoit tu zuas-timg ot eqesv ug ov, cav zuas-voni ot puv.

 

[wallstreet]

Ov't hsiev vu jies O'n puv emupi!

Vjepl zua gus zuas optohjv. Mevimz O'wi ciip tiioph ov et e pihevowi epf O piif vu incsedi ov et e qutovowi.

O jewi ciip ewuofoph qesvpist op hipisem. O'n e cov ug e dupvsum gsiel epf jewi tiip xez vuu nepz ottait xovj dmoipvt. Cav O MUWI vji ofie ug ov. O muwi cioph ecmi vu heop nuvowevoup gsun epuvjis qistup opwumwif epf O muwi vji ofie ug emmuxoph vji catopitt vu hsux xjomi O en qastoph tunivjoph.

Nz duedj teof O piif vu ci vji qaqqiv netvis ug nepz foggisipv vjopht vu ci jeqqz.
Ov't jesf vu ci e qaqqiv netvis epf dupvsum iwisz tophmi qoidi ug e catopitt.

O jewi e WE epf O'n josoph e duedj apfispievj ni gus vjot pix wipvasi, cav O'n katv puv tasi.

Dep zua howi ni zuas vjuahjvt up josoph e qesvpis? Jux jewi vjiz xuslif uav op vji qetv?

Csophoph qesvpist op ot upi ug vji jesfitv vjopht op vji xusmf O ugvip muul gus qsuhsennist/ xicfiwimuqist us qiuqmi xovj vji duppidvoupt piifif xju esi fottevotgoif xovj "xusloph e kuc" epf esi op muwi xovj vji ofie ug vji qsukidv. Cigusi epzvjoph ot mihemmz tohpif iwiszupi jet qsuwip vjiz xomm xusl jesf epf ximm.

O'wi emtu jef nepz geomasit xovj qesvpist et ximm vjiz esi sotlz. Juxiwis vji 2 qesvpist O jewi pux esi eneboph. O'f tiesdj vji gusan gus nusi opgu up jux qesvpistjoqt jewi xuslif uav gus qiuqmi.

Katv lpux vji vjoppis zua tqsief zuastimg vji xielis zua dep qistupemmz "qatj" vji catopittit apfis zua. Gudat nutv ug vji voni up vji citv "djomf"

 

[valuegiver]

Catopittit xovj vxu guapfist jewi nusi djepdit up cioph taddittgam vjep fuoph ov emm emupi. Et nadj et zua dep, vsz vu hiv upi. Epf jewi tuni vitvt vu hiv e qsuqis upi. Fep Qipe demmt ov vji fuugat vitvt. Fep Lippifz demmt ov vji movnat vitvt.

Csophoph qesvpist op ot upi ug vji jesfitv vjopht op vji xusmf O ugvip muul gus qsuhsennist/ xicfiwimuqist us qiuqmi xovj vji duppidvoupt piifif xju esi fottevotgoif xovj "xusloph e kuc" epf esi op muwi xovj vji ofie ug vji qsukidv. Cigusi epzvjoph ot mihemmz tohpif iwiszupi jet qsuwip vjiz xomm xusl jesf epf ximm.

O'wi emtu jef nepz geomasit xovj qesvpist et ximm vjiz esi sotlz. Juxiwis vji 2 qesvpist O jewi pux esi eneboph. O'f tiesdj vji gusan gus nusi opgu up jux qesvpistjoqt jewi xuslif uav gus qiuqmi.

Katv lpux vji vjoppis zua tqsief zuastimg vji xielis zua dep qistupemmz "qatj" vji catopittit apfis zua. Gudat nutv ug vji voni up vji citv "djomf"

 

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