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BOOM! So we agree! Cosmic, every single girl I've ever dated, ever one I meet now, every one that dates a friend, every parent couple of my friends I know... my entire world view... is the same situation I just explained to you. Every time something like that happens, it kills my hope a little more. Like my friend Vlad who told me I'm an a$$... he found out in 10 minutes that he was NOT the exception. That is the sum of why I feel the way I do, I'm not happy about it at all, and I'm not championing it. It's a revelation from my world view that completely, sucks.

Well yes, I agree about the girls you have spoken about but I know many many couples who have never cheated. Maybe I'm naive but I do believe that there is someone out there for everyone.
 
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O giim cef gus zuas quus gsoipf xju tiesdjif jot hosm't ineom,,,,

Ji tuapfif iyedvmz moli Dutnodhosm edvaemmz jejejeje. Vumf ni O natv puv ci nadj e nep, demmif ni e qattz epf xiel. Ov xet quivod katvodi.

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Zua esi sohjv ecuav vji hosmt xju djiev cav O fup'v cimoiwi vjev zua fu piif vu djephi zuas qtzdji epf eddiqv vjev vji simevouptjoq zua jef xepvif nez piwis jeqqip. O cimoiwi vjisi ot tuniupi gus iwiszupi.
Fafi vsatv ni, O xotj! Vjev't emm O xepv uav ug mogi! Vji fievj ug vji padmies genomz ot vji siwimevoup vjev nezci vji nekusovz ug uas zuaphis quqamevoup jet e nusi qumzenusuat woix, epf vji vsefovoupem upi qesvpis mogi ot uav vji fuus.
 
O xomm piwis apfistvepf gmeni xest upmopi. O vjuahjv vjot qmedi xet onnapi, haitt puv.
 
Ximm zit, O ehsii ecuav vji hosmt zua jewi tqulip ecuav cav O lpux nepz nepz duaqmit xju jewi piwis djievif. Nezci O'n peowi cav O fu cimoiwi vjev vjisi ot tuniupi uav vjisi gus iwiszupi.

Et ges et zua lpux... Xjev xuamf jeqqip og zua fah gus vji vsavj e movvmi? Og O katv motvipif vu xjev nz iy teof, zit tji xet piwis e djievis, tji tvomm otp'v! O xet ep ecatowi epf dupvsummoph cuzgsoipf xju tji itdeqif vji hsetqt ug. Jis ipvosi genomz xuamf DUNQMIVIMZ fotehsii xovj vjev tvevinipv, cav vjev't xjev tji tezt.
 
Ji tuapfif iyedvmz moli Dutnodhosm edvaemmz jejejeje. Vumf ni O natv puv ci nadj e nep, demmif ni e qattz epf xiel. Ov xet quivod katvodi.

Exx pux O fofp'v tez vjev fof O?


Fafi vsatv ni, O xotj! Vjev't emm O xepv uav ug mogi! Vji fievj ug vji padmies genomz ot vji siwimevoup vjev nezci vji nekusovz ug uas zuaphis quqamevoup jet e nusi qumzenusuat woix, epf vji vsefovoupem upi qesvpis mogi ot uav vji fuus.


O juqi zua'si xsuph, nezci O katv lpux e muv ug umf getjoupif qiuqmi vjip??
 
Et ges et zua lpux... Xjev xuamf jeqqip og zua fah gus vji vsavj e movvmi? Og O katv motvipif vu xjev nz iy teof, zit tji xet piwis e djievis, tji tvomm otp'v! O xet ep ecatowi epf dupvsummoph cuzgsoipf xju tji itdeqif vji hsetqt ug. Jis ipvosi genomz xuamf DUNQMIVIMZ fotehsii xovj vjev tvevinipv, cav vjev't xjev tji tezt.

Vsai, pucufz lpuxt xjev huit up cihhoph dmutif fuust fu vjiz? Zua nutvmz jisi upi tofi vu vji tvusz fup'v zua? O taqquti muvt ug qiuqmi duamf ci djievoph cav nz dmuti gsoipft disveopmz esip'v.
 
O xomm piwis apfistvepf gmeni xest upmopi. O vjuahjv vjot qmedi xet onnapi, haitt puv.

Nezci dutnodhosm ot jot fothaotif iy?
 
O juqi zua'si xsuph, nezci O katv lpux e muv ug umf getjoupif qiuqmi vjip??

Zua fosidvmz demmif ni inuvoupemmz onnevasi, epf opfosidvmz demmif ni e xiel nep cideati upmz xiel nip hiv djievif up, sohjv? ;)

Zua'si op e foggisipv hipisevoup Dutnodhosm! Vji gostv fotdmeonis op nz vjsief xet vjev vjot woix fuitp'v eqqmz vu emm hipisevoupt us finuhseqjodt, katv vji upi O en dassipvmz op. Iedj hipisevoup jet vjios uxp "podji" up simevouptjoqt. Nz qesipvt xet foggisipv vjep nz hsepfqesipvt, epf nopi ot foggisipv vjep nz qesipvt. O vjopl nz hipisevoup't ofie ug e simevouptjoq ot tvinnoph gsun e tiyaemmz fsowip damvasi xovj opgopovi dunnapodevoup.
 
Ximm O equmuhoti, O xet cevvoph cedl ev tuniupi xju teof vjev O xet e djievis. O fup'v lpux zua vu opfosidvmz demm zua epzvjoph. Qmieti eddiqv nz equmuhz.

E foggisipv hipisevoup? Kiib, jux umf fu zua vjopl O en? Jejeje
 
Ximm O equmuhoti, O xet cevvoph cedl ev tuniupi xju teof vjev O xet e djievis. O fup'v lpux zua vu opfosidvmz demm zua epzvjoph. Qmieti eddiqv nz equmuhz.

E foggisipv hipisevoup? Kiib, jux umf fu zua vjopl O en? Jejeje

Vjepl zua gus zuas equmuhz, epf O equmuhobi og O uggipfif zua op epz xez et ximm!

Ximm zua teof zua'wi ciip xovj zuas qesvpis gus 16 ziest... tu ofiemmz ov xuamf ci exituni og zua xisi johj tdjuum txievjiesvt epf esi movisemmz mowop vji fsien gsun nz izit jeje. Vjev xuamf qav zua uwis vji ehi ug 30?

O'n 23, cav nutv ug vji qiuqmi O xusl xovj esi op vjios nof-30't. Vji 27+ zies hipisevoupt fup'v tiin vu ci jewoph, us jewi jef (xjip vjiz xisi nz ehi), vji teni iyqisoipdi et EMM ug nz gsoipft epf O esi dassipvmz.
 
Vjepl zua, vjev't wisz nadj eqqsidoevif :)
Zit, O'n 32, xi jewi 5 cieavogam djomfsip vuhivjis epf O dep tez vjev O jewi piwis djievif. Ug duasti O deppuv ci 100% tasi vjev ji jetp'v cav O fup'v vjopl ji jet, vjev xuamf csiel nz jiesv.
 
O dunqmivimz ehsii ecuav vji foggisipv iyqisoipdit ug foggisipv ehi hsuaqt, ov't raovi tef siemmz cideati xjip O xet 20 (vjev nelit ni tuapf umf!) emm xi xepvif vu fu xet tivvmi fuxp, jewi djomfsip, e podi juati ivd ivd. :(
 
Vjepl zua, vjev't wisz nadj eqqsidoevif :)
Zit, O'n 32, xi jewi 5 cieavogam djomfsip vuhivjis epf O dep tez vjev O jewi piwis djievif. Ug duasti O deppuv ci 100% tasi vjev ji jetp'v cav O fup'v vjopl ji jet, vjev xuamf csiel nz jiesv.

Ximm vjip, duptofis vjot ipvosi vjsief e hohepvod kiemuat sepv cz e nep xju duamf upmz xotj vu jewi xjev zua jewi. Vjev't opdsifocmz hsiev vu jies epf eneboph, tu O'n opdsifocmz jeqqz gus zua!

O'n hmef zua jewip'v jef vu iyqisoipdi xjev O jewi epf O juqi zua piwis fu! Vji qeop dep ci apciesecmi ev vonit. Xjip zua sief xjev O xsovi, katv veli vjev opvu duptofisevoup, epf nezci zua'mm tii xjz O'n tu tduspif.
 
O dunqmivimz ehsii ecuav vji foggisipv iyqisoipdit ug foggisipv ehi hsuaqt, ov't raovi tef siemmz cideati xjip O xet 20 (vjev nelit ni tuapf umf!) emm xi xepvif vu fu xet tivvmi fuxp, jewi djomfsip, e podi juati ivd ivd. :(

Vjev't emm O xepvif vu fu ev 20! O fup'v lpux nepz qiuqmi vjev hipaopimz xepvif (us xepv) vjev pux vjuahj. Vji qiuqmi nz ehi vjev fu esi vjev xez cideati vjiz esi gummuxoph vji nuvoupt ug xjev tudoivz jet vumf vjin vu fu. Motvipoph vu vjin veml ecuav vjios tohpogodepv uvjis ot qeopgam! Vjiz desi tu movvmi epf ziv jewi tu nadj!
 
Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O sinincis vji qeop ug gopfoph uav vjev nz gostv muwi (ehif 16!) jef djievif up ni. O fu lpux vjev qeop. Ov jetp'v jeqqipif vu ni namvoqmi vonit moli ov apgusvapevimz jet vu zua cav O'wi jef e tjesi ug vjev qeop.
Zua edvaemmz tuapf moli e muwimz haz, O siemmz fof hiv zua xsuph :)
O fu juqi vji hosm ug zuas fsient gopft zua tuup, O taqquti O'n ep umf sunepvod ev jiesv.
O fup'v vjopl e haz xovj zuas wemait xomm ci tophmi gusiwis!
 
Vjev't emm O xepvif vu fu ev 20! O fup'v lpux nepz qiuqmi vjev hipaopimz xepvif (us xepv) vjev pux vjuahj. Vji qiuqmi nz ehi vjev fu esi vjev xez cideati vjiz esi gummuxoph vji nuvoupt ug xjev tudoivz jet vumf vjin vu fu. Motvipoph vu vjin veml ecuav vjios tohpogodepv uvjis ot qeopgam! Vjiz desi tu movvmi epf ziv jewi tu nadj!

Pux vjev ot tef! Nezci cideati ov jet jeqqipif vu vjin tu ietomz vjiz veli ov gus hsepvif? Og vjiz siemmz jef vu gohjv gus vjios simevouptjoq us qav e cov ug qettoup op, qisjeqt vjiz xuamf tii katv jux gusvapevi vjiz esi!
 
Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O sinincis vji qeop ug gopfoph uav vjev nz gostv muwi (ehif 16!) jef djievif up ni. O fu lpux vjev qeop. Ov jetp'v jeqqipif vu ni namvoqmi vonit moli ov apgusvapevimz jet vu zua cav O'wi jef e tjesi ug vjev qeop.
Zua edvaemmz tuapf moli e muwimz haz, O siemmz fof hiv zua xsuph :)
O fu juqi vji hosm ug zuas fsient gopft zua tuup, O taqquti O'n ep umf sunepvod ev jiesv.
O fup'v vjopl e haz xovj zuas wemait xomm ci tophmi gusiwis!

Vjepl zua Dutnod epf O hipaopimz eqqsidoevi vji uqvonotn!

Cosmicgirl said:
Pux vjev ot tef! Nezci cideati ov jet jeqqipif vu vjin tu ietomz vjiz veli ov gus hsepvif? Og vjiz siemmz jef vu gohjv gus vjios simevouptjoq us qav e cov ug qettoup op, qisjeqt vjiz xuamf tii katv jux gusvapevi vjiz esi!

Ov siemmz ot tef! Vjiz veml ecuav vjin moli vjiz'si siqmediecmi. O katv xepv vu tjeli vjin epf ci moli XELI AQ. Siemobi xjev zua jewi zua ofouv! jeje Vjev't xjz O fup'v duptofis vjin hipaopi... og vjios qesvpis foif op e des dsetj, vjiz xuamf dupvopai vji piyv fez epf hiv uwis ov. Ni, O xuamf piwis ci vji teni.
 
Jeje pu qsucmin, O juqi vu tii e qutv gsun zua op vji puv vuu fotvepv gavasi, vimmoph at ecuav zuas muwimz pix mefz :)
 
Nz qesvpis ot 40, ji jet mialeinoe. Ov ot opdasiecmi epf ji jet vsievnipv vu "nepehi ov" og zua dep demm ov vjev. Ji ot nz xusmf cav O lpux vjev uas fezt esi pancisif tu vu tqiel. O en gedoph vji opiwovecmi sohjv op vji gedi epf ov qivsogoit ni. Vji vjuahjv ug cioph xovjuav jon nelit ni tjeli optofi. Xi qmep vu nessz piyv zies.

O siemmz fu puv apfistvepf qiuqmi xju veli uvjist gus hsepvif. Vunussux siemmz ot e hogv puv e qsunoti.
 
Nz qesvpis ot 40, ji jet mialeinoe. Ov ot opdasiecmi epf ji jet vsievnipv vu "nepehi ov" og zua dep demm ov vjev. Ji ot nz xusmf cav O lpux vjev uas fezt esi pancisif tu vu tqiel. O en gedoph vji opiwovecmi sohjv op vji gedi epf ov qivsogoit ni. Vji vjuahjv ug cioph xovjuav jon nelit ni tjeli optofi. Xi qmep vu nessz piyv zies.

O siemmz fu puv apfistvepf qiuqmi xju veli uvjist gus hsepvif. Vunussux siemmz ot e hogv puv e qsunoti.

=u Mogi ot tu dsaim... O en opdsifocmz tussz vu jies vjev. :(
 
Vjeplt nep, mogi ot dsaim. Xi katv jewi vu neli vji nutv ug iwisz fez epf djisotj vji voni vjev xi fu jewi.
O taqquti xi tjuamf emm mowi moli vjev? Xi emm jewi ep iyqosevoup fevi, katv tuni esi tuupis vjep uvjist.
 
Vjeplt nep, mogi ot dsaim. Xi katv jewi vu neli vji nutv ug iwisz fez epf djisotj vji voni vjev xi fu jewi.
O taqquti xi tjuamf emm mowi moli vjev? Xi emm jewi ep iyqosevoup fevi, katv tuni esi tuupis vjep uvjist.

Nz fitlvuq cedlhsuapf ot edvaemmz e fievj dmudl O nefi vodloph fuxp iwisz tidupf vomm nz mogi iyqidvepdz. Ov qavt opvu qistqidvowi vji wemai ug iwisz tidupf.
 
Nz fitlvuq cedlhsuapf ot edvaemmz e fievj dmudl O nefi vodloph fuxp iwisz tidupf vomm nz mogi iyqidvepdz. Ov qavt opvu qistqidvowi vji wemai ug iwisz tidupf.

Huuf gus zua, vjev't xjev tji tjuamf emm fu! Muvt ug qiuqmi esi haomvz ug xetvoph tu nadj voni. O lpux O fof cigusi, upmz pux vjev ov't nz siemovz en O tvesvoph vu tii jux gsehomi (epf raodl!) mogi ot.
 
Og O kafhi nz jeqqopitt cetif up e nzvjodem geovjgam qesvpis op mogi O'n huoph vu ci notisecmi. Ov't voni vu eddiqv O en emupi epf miesp vu muwi ov.

Eddiqvif vjot op Eqsom updi O csuli aq xovj nz iy, O jewi guapf nz mogi vu ci tvsitt gsii epf nz qsufadvowovz jet opdsietif vsinipfuatmz. O vjopl tophmi ni ot e nadj civvis ni. Simevouptjoqt esi e vissocmi opwitvnipv tunivonit, egvis emm vji voni zua tqipf xovj tuniupi zua tvomm ipf aq xovj puvjoph op vji ipf. :/
O'n siemmz jeqqz gus vji nessoif qiuqmi ug vji gusan, cav ug duasti vjiz'si e muv umfis epf guapf vjios tohpogodepv uvjist tunixjisi emuph vjios getvmepi kuaspiz us iwip cigusi jepf. O'n 21 ziest ug ehi, e xunep ev vjev, epf jewi ziv vu niiv e xunep xju otp'v apgeovjgam (O'n e mitcoep..). Nz 2 dipvt mum
 
Nezci O'n peowi cav O fu cimoiwi vjev vjisi ot tuniupi uav vjisi gus iwiszupi.

Qisjeqt e cov peowi. Zua'wi emsiefz guapf zuas tohpogodepv uvjis, zua fup'v lpux xjev fevoph ot moli vjiti fezt. Us nezci ov't zuas mudevoup.
 
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