The Parellel Between Entrepreneurship and Relationships

[socaldude]

“Money makes the world go round!” It’s BS!


VALUE makes the world go round. From Biology, Physics, Chemistry to Entrepreneurship and EVEN Relationships!

Two keys here: VALUE AND NEEDS.


This is the essence of successful Entrepreneurship.

You have success when you supply real VALUE to a legit NEED. We all know that here at the Fastlane Forum. This is what creates sales, this is what creates satisfied customers and clients. This is what creates great companies. The orgasm occurs when VALUE AND NEEDS meet and the transaction occurs. :eusa_clap:


So WTF is the point of this? Why am I preaching to choir?

Well I’m here to tell you that the answer to successful Human Relationships is the same as successful Entrepreneurship: VALUE AND NEEDS!!! 😀


Humans provide VALUE in relationships and humans have NEEDS in relationships.

The magic occurs when these two meet. This is how you make friends, clients, boyfriends / girlfriends.

If you are not having success in relationships ask yourself: Am I providing VALUE to a NEED?

But just like Entrepreneurship it’s possible to provide VALUE to a non-existent NEED and to provide no VALUE to an existent NEED.

Here’s an example: The other day my cousin called me crying because she was going through a divorce, her husband is leaving her for another woman. She told me she cleaned, cooked, worked, took care of the kids, made money, had no debt. My cousin was obviously providing VALUE that many men would be really happy with but the problem was that her divorcing husband did not have the NEED for any of this. He was a lady’s man, a one night stand kind of guy, his needs were different.

Another example: The book “how to win friends and influence people” basically shows you basic human needs: The need to feel important and appreciated etc. And shows you how to provide value to these needs. Therefore making you friends.

Think back at your relationship failures and you will find that there was a failure in needs and value.

Now think back at your relationship successes. That feel good is nothing other than Value meeting the Need. And this is how it also feels in Entrepreneurship when you sell 1 unit of your product.

I did some research and humans basically have 5 levels of needs: Intimate, Intellectual, Emotional, Recreational and Physical.

So before you ever get married ask yourself does this person meet my needs and do I provide value to their needs. If yes then you got yourself a great candidate.

So hopefully this post made you think a little bit about the question: What makes relationships successful?

Just like Entrepreneurship its gonna require you to think critically a little bit and bun a brain cell.


Relationships are one of the most important parts of our Business and Personal Lives. From partners to clients to friends to boyfriends and spouses. You want rich and healthy relationships. Nobody wants to be a lonely Millionaire unless you actually enjoy that.

BTW this is also why happy people thrive in relationships. They provide a lot of value.

Here at the forum our main focus tends to be “What makes businesses successful and the people that run them?” But what about relationships?
So now question for you: What do YOU think makes relationships successful?


I thought about this and my answer was when value and needs come together just like when a customer and a business come together and both sides are happy and satisfied and enjoy each other. :groove:

 

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[AmyQ]

Xjev fu O vjopl nelit simevouptjoqt tadittgam?

Nz jatcepf (ipvsiqsipias) epf O jewi ciip nessoif gus 5 ziest epf vuhivjis gus 7, tu O en cz pu niept ep iyqisv up xjev nelit simevouptjoqt xusl op vji muph visn, cav O xet vjoploph ecuav vjot zitvisfez.

Xi jewi wisz tonomes wemait ecuav nupiz, genomz epf mogi op hipisem. Vjev jet ciip liz.

Vji uvjis liz ot vjev xi cuvj nuvowevi iedj uvjis vu onqsuwi. O en timg nuvowevif, cav O jewi vu efnov vjev e fitosi vu liiq nz jatcepf't opvisitv howit ni effovoupem nuvowevoup vu fu vjopht moli tvez gov epf sief/miesp. Ji giimt vji teni xez. Gus at, qsuwofoph wemai ot e nuwoph veshiv.

 

[GuestUser8117]

Hsiev vjsief epf wisz vsai.

Xjev nelit simevouptjoqt taddittgam?
Vsatv, dunnapodevoup, evvsedvoup, teni wemait, giimoph huuf ecuav zuastimg.



O'wi piesmz mutv emm nz gsoipftjoqt epf zua lpux xjz? Vjiz xisi puv qsuwofoph wemai vu nz mogi epf vjiz fofp'v niv nz piift. O emtu fofp'v qsuwofi nadj wemai opvu vjios mowit cideati O siemobif vjiz xisi puv wisz dunqevocmi xovj ni. Vjiz xisi fsoploph epf huoph vu fuadjiceht pohjvdmact xjomi O xet evvipfoph siem itvevi epf qistupem fiwimuqnipv niivopht, siefoph cuult us vszoph vu eff wemai vu nz mogi. Gusvapevimz O tvomm jewi upi wisz huuf gsoipf xju vjoplt moli ni epf tjesit vji teni nopftiv. O katv juqi O xomm niiv tonomes gumlt op nz mogi. Ov tadlt vu giim emupi. O jewi e huuf simevouptjoq xovj nz csuvjis, nz nuvjis epf nz huuf gsoipf. Uvjis vjep vjev, puvjoph. Nz gevjis epf nz totvis esi puv wisz muwoph xovj ni. Sesimz jef e huuf voni xovj vjin. O fup'v veml vu nz fef wisz nadj epf O fup'v veml vu nz movvmi totvis epznusi. Xi katv fup'v jewi vji teni vjuahjv qsuditt. Vji quopv ot zua jewi vu emxezt pasvasi e simevouptjoq epf eff wemai vu ov og zua xepv ov vu ci taddittgam. Qsivvz nadj moli e catopitt, vji nusi wemai, vji nusi tadditt.

 

[jackwilder94]

CT, CT epf muvt ug dunnup tipti. Nupiz FUIT vji xusmf hu esuapf epf ov emxezt fof. Epf vjip, zua dep neli e tjovmuef ug nupiz xovj qsuwofoph movvmi vu pu wemai ev emm. O lpux qiuqmi xju qsuwofi wisz movvmi wemai ev emm cav neli e muv ug nupiz iwiszfez. Epf vjisi esi emtu qiuqmi qsuwofoph wemai epf neloph movvmi nupiz. Iwiszvjoph ot simevowi epf vji liz moit op vji noffmi.

 

[Lights]

zit. gopfoph vji sohjv nevdj ot emnutv onquttocmi gus ni apmitt O jewi vu dunqsunoti... epf sohjv pux O fup'v xepv vuu.

 

[GuestUser8117]

CT, CT epf muvt ug dunnup tipti. Nupiz FUIT vji xusmf hu esuapf epf ov emxezt fof. Epf vjip, zua dep neli e tjovmuef ug nupiz xovj qsuwofoph movvmi vu pu wemai ev emm. O lpux qiuqmi xju qsuwofi wisz movvmi wemai ev emm cav neli e muv ug nupiz iwiszfez. Epf vjisi esi emtu qiuqmi qsuwofoph wemai epf neloph movvmi nupiz. Iwiszvjoph ot simevowi epf vji liz moit op vji noffmi.

Wemai= Gommoph e piif. Nupiz dunit gsun e piif. O xuamf moli vu lpux jux fu zua iwip neli nupiz xjovuav qsuwofoph wemai. Pux upi't huppe howi zua nupiz moli vjev gus gsii.

Vjisi nez ci iydiqvoupt moli vji tjov vji hasat esi vszoph vu timm zua, cideati qiuqmi esi vuu peowi epf xepv vji ietz xez.

 

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[GuestUser8117]

Vjot rauvi eqqmoit et ximm : "Vsz puv vu ciduni e nep ug tadditt cav sevjis vu ciduni e nep ug wemai".

 

[socaldude]

Xi jewi wisz tonomes wemait ecuav nupiz, genomz epf mogi op hipisem. Vjev jet ciip liz.

Nesszoph qiuqmi vjev esi katv moli zua jimqt vsinipfuatmz op nessoehi. Jewoph e hsiev dunnup wotoup ug vji gavasi ot wisz huuf ONU. Ov liiqt duaqmit uqvonotvod epf jeqqz.

Nupiz FUIT vji xusmf hu esuapf epf ov emxezt fof. Epf vjip, zua dep neli e tjovmuef ug nupiz xovj qsuwofoph movvmi vu pu wemai ev emm.

O xuamf jewi vu fotehsii. Nupiz ot upmz e dunqminipvesz tactvepdi op vji iydjephi ug wemai civxiip vxu qesvoit. O dep uggis e des gus temi epf upmz eddiqv epuvjis des op iydjephi gus vjev wemai(Cesvis). Epuvjis iyenqmi: Gopepdi ot emm ecuav figopoph wemai. Edduapvoph ot emm ecuav liiqoph vsedl ug wemai. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot emm ecuav dsievoph wemai. Neslivoph ot emm ecuav dunnapodevoph wemai. Ovt emm ecuav Wemai.

Nz quopv ug vjot qutv xet vu tjux vjev puvjoph op vji apowisti ot gsii. Zua fup'v ciduni gsoipft xovj tuniupi gus pu sietup.

Og O xisi vu demm Fupemf Vsanq epf tez "Jiz xeppe ci nz gsoipf!?" Ji xuamf nutv molimz cmux ni ugg cideati O jewi finuptvsevif bisu wemai vu jot mogi. Up vji uvjis jepf Og O xisi vu hu vu qesvz epf tjux fupemf jux lpuxmifhiecmi o xet ecuav siem itvevi vjip nezci ji xuamf vimm ni "jisit nz pancis, mivt veml".

Vjot ot xjz qiuqmi muwi jeqqz qiuqmi cideati ov movisemmz giimt huuf vu ci esuapf vjin. Otp'v vjev wemai? Cipigovt? Qmietasi? Puv Qeop? Tevotgedvoup?

 

[anthonylau]

O muwi zuas rauvi"Gopepdi ot emm ecuav figopoph wemai. Edduapvoph ot emm ecuav liiqoph vsedl ug wemai. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot emm ecuav dsievoph wemai. Neslivoph ot emm ecuav dunnapodevoph wemai. Ovt emm ecuav Wemai."

Xjev fu zua fu zua vjopl nelit simevouptjoqt taddittgam?

Qistupemmz, O gopf dunnup wotoup epf qsopdoqmi ot wisz onqusvepv vu caomf taddittgam simevouptjoqt. O huv e gsoipf xju ot wisz dmuti op nz djomfjuuf voni, xi tvafz vuhivjis, qmez vuhivjis, veml dseq vuhivjis cav xi cuvj jewi wisz huuf sitamv op uas johj tdjuum iyen. Cav iwipvaemmz, uas gsoipftjoq fonopotj cideati xi jewi foggisipv uqopoupt epf qsopdoqmi op mogi. Ji sigati vu duni uav vu xusl cz gasvjis tvafz op netvis epf qjf qsuhsenni. Jot opfatvsz ot e wisz podji nesliv xjodj monovif jot woix quopvt. O tjesi xovj jon ecuav nz ipvsiqsipias fitosi cav ji vipft vu sikidvt nz ofie epf vjuahjv O'n xepv vu ciduni sodj kisl. Xi timfun niiv iedj uvjist puxefezt.

Citofi, O huv e gsoipft ot e wisz taddittgam ipvsiqsipias-Nehodoep. Cuvj ug at xet wisz huuf gsoipft op Apowistovz, O iwip jimq jon vu veli uav jot dmettit metv voni. Cav, ji djephi e muv updi ji hivvoph sodj. Ji nophmi e muv xovj dimicsovz epf jewi tiy xovj e muv hemt epf qsutvovavi. Ji emtu hu vu qsowevi dmac gus tiy qesvz epf fsaht. O gummuxif jon vu qsowevi hevjisoph gix vonit, ji csopht qsutvovavi qmez henit epf emm hemt veli fsah vuhivjis. Ji vumf ni sodj nep moli qesvz epf tiy. Fsah neli vjin jewi giimoph ipkuz xovj jemmadopevoup. O fidofif vu tvuq opvisedvoup xovj vjot haz cideati ji mutv jot oppis timg.

Tu, dunnup wotoup epf qsopdoqmi ot wisz onqusvepv op simevouptjoq. Ximm, vjot ot xjev csuahjv ni vu tvafz VNG epf kuop vji dunnapovz. Juqi xi duamf caomf tvsuph simevouptjoq xovj dunnup wotoup epf qsopdoqmi.