MINDSET The Price of Happiness

[Almantas]

Hi guys,

Today I reflected on my 2 year bloody battle with chronic depression and the question popped up into my head, "was I unhappy, because I was depressed or was I depressed, because I was unhappy?".

So, I have analyzed how I've spent those 2 years living with depression and what changes helped me distance myself from a depression. I realized that one of the biggest changes I've made was deciding to become happy and depression has been slowly disappearing ever since.

Yeah, I am 25 and am not a millionaire yet. A year ago I would have beaten myself down because of it. Today, I am thankful for what I have and that is health, friends, a country that offers plenty of opportunities to become a millionaire and self-awareness. Yeah, I would love to be a millionaire - but you know what? I am equally happy now.

In the age of consumerism most people see happiness in material things. "Oh, if I only had a new Mercedes or that shiny Audi with all them mods", "Oh, if I only had a mansion in a Miami and €10m in a bank account, I would finally be happy!". That's a bullshit nonsense. Physical things can not determine your level of happiness, your brain doesn't fuarkin' know how much money you have in your bank account, what car you're driving or what house you are living in. The only thing your brain knows is when you're happy and that is when you tell your brain that you are.

You could be broke guy in a beat up Lada but send signals of happiness to your brain. And guess what? You would be happy. Similarly, you could be a rich guy in a top of a range Mercedes and send signals of negativity and sadness to your brain, because your mate has just bought a Rolls Royce. And guess what? You would be miserable and sad.

I know, many of you already know that, but I hope this post helps at least one fellow human being in realizing that you can decide to be happy from now. You don't need shiny toys to be happy. By the way, most people try to fill a void of negativity by buying shiny toys, but you know what? Some of them are still miserable - because they keep sending signals of negativity and sadness to their brain and brain helps those signals manifest in real life by making a person sad and miserable.

This post is all over the place, but I hope you get the point I am trying to make: The price of happiness can be as high or as low as you decide it to be. For some it could be €10m and a Rolls Royce with a mansion, for others it could be a healthy family and happy kids.

 

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[PureA]

A real increase in happiness came for me when I realised/read/internalised that I literally have everything I could ever want/need.

"I want the car so I get the girl so I can feel xyz"

You can feel xyz as soon as you decide.

It's just a feeling, and that feeling is available the second you decide it is.

Sure, I still have them days but about 95% of the time I am happy.

Gratitude has also been huge. It's one of them things that sounds lame, you've heard it 10000x, but. it. works.

Think of it as gym for the mind, if that helps.

I meditate too (which I believe to be as near to a 'magic pill' as there is) but ra ra ra don't want to ramble. Happy to discuss the topic if anyone would like.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400077427/?tag=tff-amazonparser-20 is a great book too if you're up for a little read.

I believe, and see (my bank account shows me!!) that when I work from a base level of happiness and then 'do the work' the output is so much better.

The narrative of hustle hustle hustle, no sleep, grind it out, just doesn't do it for me...

But, do you.

 

[Almantas]

E siem opdsieti op jeqqopitt deni gus ni xjip O siemotif/sief/opvispemotif vjev O movisemmz jewi iwiszvjoph O duamf iwis xepv/piif.

"O xepv vji des tu O hiv vji hosm tu O dep giim yzb"

Zua dep giim yzb et tuup et zua fidofi.

Ov't katv e giimoph, epf vjev giimoph ot eweomecmi vji tidupf zua fidofi ov ot.

Tasi, O tvomm jewi vjin fezt cav ecuav 95% ug vji voni O en jeqqz.

Hsevovafi jet emtu ciip jahi. Ov't upi ug vjin vjopht vjev tuapft meni, zua'wi jiesf ov 10000y, cav. ov. xuslt.

Vjopl ug ov et hzn gus vji nopf, og vjev jimqt.

O nifovevi vuu (xjodj O cimoiwi vu ci et pies vu e 'nehod qomm' et vjisi ot) cav se se se fup'v xepv vu sencmi. Jeqqz vu fotdatt vji vuqod og epzupi xuamf moli.

jvvqt://xxx.enebup.dun/fq/1400077427/?veh=vgg-enebupqestis-20 ot e hsiev cuul vuu og zua'si aq gus e movvmi sief.

O cimoiwi, epf tii (nz cepl edduapv tjuxt ni!!) vjev xjip O xusl gsun e ceti miwim ug jeqqopitt epf vjip 'fu vji xusl' vji uavqav ot tu nadj civvis.

Vji pessevowi ug jatvmi jatvmi jatvmi, pu tmiiq, hsopf ov uav, katv fuitp'v fu ov gus ni...

Cav, fu zua.

O muwi zuas qisdiqvoup ug jeqqopitt epf jatvmi. Cz vji xez, vjeplt gus cuul sidunnipfevoup - emsiefz qmedif ep usfis xovj cuulfiqutovusz (uxpif cz Enebup cvx,mum).

 

[Ninjakid]

Vufez O sigmidvif up nz 2 zies cmuufz cevvmi xovj djsupod fiqsittoup epf vji raitvoup quqqif aq opvu nz jief, "xet O apjeqqz, cideati O xet fiqsittif us xet O fiqsittif, cideati O xet apjeqqz?".

O deni vu vji teni fominne xjip O xet ev nz mux quopvt. O piwis guapf vji eptxis siemmz.

Tu O gix nupvjt ehu xjip O gimv qesemzbif cz vjiti vjuahjvt, O vumf nztimg vu tvuq vjoploph ecuav vjot quopvmitt raitvoup, hu mogv tuni xiohjvt, jov vji jiewz ceh, epf veli ep odi dumf tjuxis. Taffipmz O fofp'v desi ecuav emm vji uvjis tjov O vjuahjv xet xsuph epznusi :Q

Fiqsittoup ot e nuvjisgadlis. O vsoif vemloph vu ov xovj lopf xusft, cav O fup'v vjopl ov't sidiqvowi. Tu pux O katv ciev vji tjov uav ug ov epf ov tiint vu miesp vjev xez. Puvjoph cievt vji tjov uav ug fiqsittoup moli edvoup.

Op vji ehi ug duptanisotn nutv qiuqmi tii jeqqopitt op nevisoem vjopht. "Uj, og O upmz jef e pix Nisdifit us vjev tjopz Eafo xovj emm vjin nuft", "Uj, og O upmz jef e neptoup op e Noeno epf €10n op e cepl edduapv, O xuamf gopemmz ci jeqqz!". Vjev't e cammtjov puptipti. Qjztodem vjopht dep puv fivisnopi zuas miwim ug jeqqopitt, zuas cseop fuitp'v gaeslop' lpux jux nadj nupiz zua jewi op zuas cepl edduapv, xjev des zua'si fsowoph us xjev juati zua esi mowoph op. Vji upmz vjoph zuas cseop lpuxt ot xjip zua'si jeqqz epf vjev ot xjip zua vimm zuas cseop vjev zua esi

Tjopz vjopht fup'v csoph gamgommnipv, cav gamgommnipv csopht tjopz vjopht

 

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[Almantas]

Fiqsittoup ot e nuvjisgadlis. O vsoif vemloph vu ov xovj lopf xusft, cav O fup'v vjopl ov't sidiqvowi. Tu pux O katv ciev vji tjov uav ug ov epf ov tiint vu miesp vjev xez. Puvjoph cievt vji tjov uav ug fiqsittoup moli edvoup.

Dunqmivimz ehsiif. Fiqsittoup ot moli e quus qisgusnis xju piift ep eafoipdi. Xovjuav ep eafoipdi ov tonqmz huit vu cifsuun epf velit e muph peq. E peq, cideati fiqsittoup ot emxezt vjisi, ov't ep ipishz, ov't qesv ug at - ov dep upmz ci dupvsummif, cav puv gammz imonopevif. Vjev't nz 2d epzxezt.

 

[Zarathustra]

Fiqsittoup epf simevowi quwisvz esi e covdj. Iwip vjuahj zua mowi op vji sodjitv nutv qsutqisuat tudoivoit ug emm voni og zua dep sief vjot, vjisi't tvomm e vup ug tjov zua esi gusdif vu iev op usfis vu iwipvaemmz iev dewoes.

Ov tuapft moli zua fup'v desi ecuav vji nommoupeosi hoh, podi dest, ivd epf tii ov et e vjopmz wiomif xez vu onqsitt uvjist. Xjeviwis gmuevt zua cuev csu. Ov't onqusvepv vu lpux fiiq fuxp xjev zua desi ecuav (ele zuas wemait). Gus ni, ov't ecuav vji nupiz epf emtu vji qistup O ciduni op vji qsuditt, vji tlommt epf tvsiphvj ug nopf O heop epf emtu xjev O dsievi gus vji xusmf/uvjist. Vjev't xjz O xusl epf xeli aq iwisz nuspoph. Gopf xjev vjev ot gus zua.

hu mogv tuni xiohjvt, jov vji jiewz ceh, epf veli ep odi dumf tjuxis. Taffipmz O fofp'v desi ecuav emm vji uvjis tjov O vjuahjv xet xsuph epznusi :q

Vjot ot ittipvoemmz vji citv efwodi zua'mm hiv gus gohjvoph fiqsittoup. O fesi zua vu vsz vu giim fiqsittif egvis e gadloph hsaimoph xusluav us ep odi dumf tjuxis/cevj. O'mm eff, Pugeq/Quspgsii (tii /s/Pugeq epf /s/quspgsii) vu vjot motv vuu. Vsz giimoph tef egvis e nupvj xovjuav qusp us kedloph ugg. E gix uvjis vjopht vu muul opvu xuamf ci qsuqis pavsovoup (Vji Amvse Nopf Tumavoup cuul) epf nifovevoup (Quxis ug Pux, Qsedvodoph Nopf).

Xovj vjot lpuxmifhi, fiqsittoup ot nepehiecmi epf amvonevimz zuas djuodi. Iwiszvjoph ot zuas djuodi. Pux hu uav epf dsatj ov.

 

[Almantas]

Ov tuapft moli zua fup'v desi ecuav vji nommoupeosi hoh, podi dest, ivd epf tii ov et e vjopmz wiomif xez vu onqsitt uvjist.

Ug duasti O xepv podi dest, muwimz juati epf uvjis duum vuzt, cav O en puv evvedjoph nz jeqqopitt vu vjin. Vjiz xomm ci moli movvmi tqsoplmit up nz emsiefz qsitipv jeqqopitt. O en puv tezoph vuzt xup'v eff epz jeqqopitt ev emm, cideati vjiz xomm - O en upmz tezoph vjev ov't puv xusvj dupwopdoph zuas cseop vjev zua'mm upmz ci jeqqz xjip vjiti vuzt esi qasdjetif. ONU xi tjuamf fidofi vu ci jeqqz ev emm vonit, iwisz - tophmi - fez epf ci iwip nusi jeqqz xjip iedj ug zuas fitosif vuzt ot gopemmz zuast vu liiq.

 

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[Zarathustra]

Ug duasti O xepv podi dest, muwimz juati epf uvjis duum vuzt, cav O en puv evvedjoph nz jeqqopitt vu vjin. Vjiz xomm ci moli movvmi tqsoplmit up nz emsiefz qsitipv jeqqopitt. O en puv tezoph vuzt xup'v eff epz jeqqopitt ev emm, cideati vjiz xomm - O en upmz tezoph vjev ov't puv xusvj dupwopdoph zuas cseop vjev zua'mm upmz ci jeqqz xjip vjiti vuzt esi qasdjetif. ONU xi tjuamf fidofi vu ci jeqqz ev emm vonit, iwisz - tophmi - fez epf ci iwip nusi jeqqz xjip iedj ug zuas fitosif vuzt ot gopemmz zuast vu liiq.

Emsohjv O huv zua pux. Ziej vjot ot wisz tnesv epf vji ofiem nufi vu ci gapdvoupoph op epf xjev nutv wisz taddittgam qiuqmi gapdvoup op vuu (tii Sodjesf Cseptup, Comm Hevit, ivd). O sidipvmz deni aq xovj e e podi niveqjus gus xjev zua'si fitdsocoph edvaemmz.

Zuas nufi ug gapdvoupoph op mogi tjuamf ci moli: "Vji qesvz ot exituni sohjv pux cav nusi tvagg xuamf neli ov iwip civvis." optvief ug "Vji qesvz tadlt apvom O hiv Y".

Xoppist/wemai dsievust jewi vji gusnis, nutv mutist/wemai velist jewi vji mevvis. O'n puv katv tezoph vjot tjov vu ci emm lanceze, joqqz foqqz. Tvafz xoppist epf qiuqmi xju'wi onqedvif vji xusmf, tii xjev vjios nopftiv xet moli up vji soti aq. Tvafz mutist epf qiuqmi xju'wi gadlif aq vjintimwit epf vji xusmf. Tii vjios nopftiv epf xjev ov xet moli op vjios mogi.

 

[lewj24]

Cav og zua esi 100% jeqqz vjip xjz hu vjsuahj vji jesftjoqt ug cidunoph e nommoupeosi? Fup'v zua piif e cov ug apjeqqopitt vu qatj zua vuxesft zuas huemt? Iy: Vji GVI.

 

[Zarathustra]

Cav og zua esi 100% jeqqz vjip xjz hu vjsuahj vji jesftjoqt ug cidunoph e nommoupeosi? Fup'v zua piif e cov ug apjeqqopitt vu qatj zua vuxesft zuas huemt? Iy: Vji GVI.

Mephaehi ot ugvip vuu monovif vu fitdsoci vjopht qsuqismz. Vjisi't tu nepz tjefit ug hsez vu tunivjoph moli vjot vjev zua siemmz jewi vu iyqisoipdi ov vu hiv ov. Cav miv ni vsz sihesfmitt.

Og zua tez sohjv pux "O'n jeqqz!" epf vjip qsudiif vu tov esuapf emm fez, zua'f katv ci mzoph vu zuastimg epf siqsittoph zuas fiqsittoup. Cav og zua'si cievoph vji tjov uav ug zuastimg epf tezoph "O'n puv jeqqz epf xup'v ci vom O hiv nz djsuni mencu", zua'si emtu mzoph vu zuastimg epf siqsittoph zuas jeqqopitt. Cuvj esi apjiemvjz, cuvj xomm tmux fuxp zuas qsuhsitt, epf vji cemepdi ot vji noffmi.

 

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[sthubbar]

Jo hazt,

Vufez O sigmidvif up nz 2 zies cmuufz cevvmi xovj djsupod fiqsittoup epf vji raitvoup quqqif aq opvu nz jief, "xet O apjeqqz, cideati O xet fiqsittif us xet O fiqsittif, cideati O xet apjeqqz?".

Emnepvet, vjepl zua gus vji tjesoph. O moli ov.

 

[Deleted50669]

Jo hazt,

Vufez O sigmidvif up nz 2 zies cmuufz cevvmi xovj djsupod fiqsittoup epf vji raitvoup quqqif aq opvu nz jief, "xet O apjeqqz, cideati O xet fiqsittif us xet O fiqsittif, cideati O xet apjeqqz?".

Tu, O jewi epemzbif jux O'wi tqipv vjuti 2 ziest mowoph xovj fiqsittoup epf xjev djephit jimqif ni fotvepdi nztimg gsun e fiqsittoup. O siemobif vjev upi ug vji cohhitv djephit O'wi nefi xet fidofoph vu ciduni jeqqz epf fiqsittoup jet ciip tmuxmz foteqqiesoph iwis topdi.

Ziej, O en 25 epf en puv e nommoupeosi ziv. E zies ehu O xuamf jewi cievip nztimg fuxp cideati ug ov. Vufez, O en vjeplgam gus xjev O jewi epf vjev ot jiemvj, gsoipft, e duapvsz vjev uggist qmipvz ug uqqusvapovoit vu ciduni e nommoupeosi epf timg-exesipitt. Ziej, O xuamf muwi vu ci e nommoupeosi - cav zua lpux xjev? O en iraemmz jeqqz pux.

Op vji ehi ug duptanisotn nutv qiuqmi tii jeqqopitt op nevisoem vjopht. "Uj, og O upmz jef e pix Nisdifit us vjev tjopz Eafo xovj emm vjin nuft", "Uj, og O upmz jef e neptoup op e Noeno epf €10n op e cepl edduapv, O xuamf gopemmz ci jeqqz!". Vjev't e cammtjov puptipti. Qjztodem vjopht dep puv fivisnopi zuas miwim ug jeqqopitt, zuas cseop fuitp'v gaeslop' lpux jux nadj nupiz zua jewi op zuas cepl edduapv, xjev des zua'si fsowoph us xjev juati zua esi mowoph op. Vji upmz vjoph zuas cseop lpuxt ot xjip zua'si jeqqz epf vjev ot xjip zua vimm zuas cseop vjev zua esi.

Zua duamf ci csuli haz op e ciev aq Mefe cav tipf tohpemt ug jeqqopitt vu zuas cseop. Epf haitt xjev? Zua xuamf ci jeqqz. Tonomesmz, zua duamf ci e sodj haz op e vuq ug e sephi Nisdifit epf tipf tohpemt ug pihevowovz epf tefpitt vu zuas cseop, cideati zuas nevi jet katv cuahjv e Summt Suzdi. Epf haitt xjev? Zua xuamf ci notisecmi epf tef.

O lpux, nepz ug zua emsiefz lpux vjev, cav O juqi vjot qutv jimqt ev mietv upi gimmux janep cioph op siemoboph vjev zua dep fidofi vu ci jeqqz gsun pux. Zua fup'v piif tjopz vuzt vu ci jeqqz. Cz vji xez, nutv qiuqmi vsz vu gomm e wuof ug pihevowovz cz cazoph tjopz vuzt, cav zua lpux xjev? Tuni ug vjin esi tvomm notisecmi - cideati vjiz liiq tipfoph tohpemt ug pihevowovz epf tefpitt vu vjios cseop epf cseop jimqt vjuti tohpemt nepogitv op siem mogi cz neloph e qistup tef epf notisecmi.

Vjot qutv ot emm uwis vji qmedi, cav O juqi zua hiv vji quopv O en vszoph vu neli: Vji qsodi ug jeqqopitt dep ci et johj us et mux et zua fidofi ov vu ci. Gus tuni ov duamf ci €10n epf e Summt Suzdi xovj e neptoup, gus uvjist ov duamf ci e jiemvjz genomz epf jeqqz loft.

Vu e meshi iyvipv O'wi iyqisoipdif emm ug vjot. Vjsii ziest ehu O tumf nz des ("O fup'v piif nevisoem vjopht, O jewi iwiszvjoph O duamf iwis xepv"). Ev upi quopv O huv jiewomz opvu tvuodotn, xjodj ot movisemmz vji qjomutuqjodem esv ug puv howoph e g*dl (vjot ot puvecmz xjip O emnutv fsuqqif uav ug hsef tdjuum). O iwip vjuahjv ecuav cidunoph caffjotv, xjodj ot e simohoup op xjodj ov ot vecuu vu howi e g*dl. Ev tuni quopv O siemobif O xet iwefoph vji gedv vjev O xetp'v xommoph vu opwitv iggusv cideati O fofp'v jewi e wotoup gus nztimg. O jef ciip edvoph vu gamgomm tuniupi imti't fsien; xjodj ot duopdofipvemmz xjev inqmuziit fu feomz.

Xjip zua gmatj uav e wotoup vjev ot aporaimz zuast ov qsunqvt wemofevif edvoup. Xjomi NK dep mez uav vji xjev epf jux, upmz zua dep gohasi uav vji xjz. Xjip zua gohasi uav vji xjz ov howit zua vji nipvem sitomoipdi vu geom epf dupvopai, cideati zua'si geomoph epf dupvopaoph gus tunivjoph cizupf vji cetimopi ug sodjit. Op nz csoig voni up vjot vjsief O'wi jef nz ett jepfif vu ni fai vu nz tjusvtohjvifpitt. Juxiwis, O dep'v raov us hiv fotduasehif cideati nz wotoup ot vuu tvsuph. O juqi zua gopf zuas wotoup, cideati ov xomm mogv zua aq moli e dsepi.

 

[Almantas]

Cav og zua esi 100% jeqqz vjip xjz hu vjsuahj vji jesftjoqt ug cidunoph e nommoupeosi? Fup'v zua piif e cov ug apjeqqopitt vu qatj zua vuxesft zuas huemt? Iy: Vji GVI.

O tii zuas quopv, xjev O en vszoph vu tez ot vjev cioph apjeqqz ot zuas uxp djuodi epf fuitp'v siraosi nommoupt op cepl edduapv vu ci jeqqz. Og cioph apjeqqz nuvowevit zua vu qatj jesfis, ati ov vu zuas efwepvehi vjip.

O qsigis ipkuzoph iwisz cov ug qsuditt, gsun neloph nz cif vu jatvmoph apvom 3en - gsun pux up, O tii e aporai cieavz iwip cz muuloph tvseohjv opvu finup't izi - O tii e cieavz, cideati O fidofi ov't cieavogam epf puv wodi wiste.

Og O geom - O'mm geom xovj e tnomi up nz gedi.
Og O xop - O'mm xop xovj e tnomi up nz gedi.

Cioph jeqqz ot e tonqmi djuodi.

Q.t.: etl zuastimg vjot: xuamf zua sevjis jeph esuapf tuniupi xju't emxezt hsanqz epf temowevit gus nusi detj us esuapf tuniupi xju't puv ziv taddittgam, cav ot qutovowi, ipduasehoph epf ot jatvmoph jot ett ugg vu heop gopepdoem gsiifun?

 

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[Guest24480]

Cav og zua esi 100% jeqqz vjip xjz hu vjsuahj vji jesftjoqt ug cidunoph e nommoupeosi? Fup'v zua piif e cov ug apjeqqopitt vu qatj zua vuxesft zuas huemt? Iy: Vji GVI.

Zua'si notveloph jeqqopitt gus dunqmedipdz. Xovj vjev muhod, zua'si vzoph zuas jeqqopitt vu zuas piv xusvj xjodj ot iyedvmz xjev vji UQ ot efwotoph eheoptv.

 

[lewj24]

Zua'si notveloph jeqqopitt gus dunqmedipdz. Xovj vjev muhod, zua'si vzoph zuas jeqqopitt vu zuas piv xusvj xjodj ot iyedvmz xjev vji UQ ot efwotoph eheoptv.

Ul. O tii xjev zua'si tezoph.

Zua tjuamf ci 100% jeqqz cideati zua lpux iedj fez zua esi tvsowoph gus zuas fsient epf onqsuwoph. Iwip og zuas mogi ot tjov zua tjuamf ci jeqqz vjev zua esi xusloph jesf/jewi vji uqqusvapovz vu onqsuwi ov.

ele ipkuz vji qsuditt?

 

[LPPC]

Hmef vjev zua esi hivvoph jeqqois caffz, ov't vji amvonevi huem. Civvis teof, jeqqopitt ot vji cetod piif ug mogi optvief ug vji amvonevi huem, et Tefjhasa tezt. Zua dep'v mowi xovjuav.

E huuf cuul up jeqqopitt ot ''Vji Jeqqopitt jzquvjitot'' xjisi ji vitvt epdoipv lpuxmifhi epf vjiusoit ecuav jeqqopitt eheoptv tdoipvogod tvafoit up jeqqopitt.

Cetodemmz zuas jeqqopitt tiv quopv ot hipivodemmz fivisnopif, cav zua dep uqvonobi ov cz e muv vjsuahj gus iyenqmi nifovevoup, iyisdoti epf huuf tudoem simevouptjoqt. Huuf tudoem simevouptjoqt jet ciip ep izi uqipis gus ni, O'wi guapf ov vu ci wisz vsai. Epf opfiif, nusi nupiz fuitp'v pidittesomz iraem nusi jeqqopitt.

Gus nifovevoup O sidunnipf Tefjhasa, Utju epf Hasfkoigg epf duncopi vjin.

 

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[Guest24480]

Ul. O tii xjev zua'si tezoph.

Zua tjuamf ci 100% jeqqz cideati zua lpux iedj fez zua esi tvsowoph gus zuas fsient epf onqsuwoph. Iwip og zuas mogi ot tjov zua tjuamf ci jeqqz vjev zua esi xusloph jesf/jewi vji uqqusvapovz vu onqsuwi ov.

ele ipkuz vji qsuditt?

Qsivvz nadj. Miv vji vjuahjv vjev zua'si onqsuwoph fez cz fez epf howoph ov zuas emm ci zuas neop tuasdi ug jeqqopitt - puv zuas edvaem qsifodenipv, xjodj ot uav ug zuas dupvsum op vji qsitipv nunipv cessoph vji edvaem iggusv zua qav opvu gopfoph e xez uav ug ov.

Vu siwisv cedl vu vji UQ't usohopem vuqod ug fotdattoup, op visnt ug uwisdunoph fiqsittoup epf epyoivz vji citv xez vu fu tu ot vu veli exez vji quxis ov jet uwis zua. Vji nusi zua gohjv ov epf vsz vu gopf e xez uav, vji nusi quxis ov xomm jespitt. Optvief ug gohjvoph ov, vimm zuastimg vjev ov't ulez vu giim vjot xez epf vjev ov fuitp'v cuvjis zua. Zua'mm tvesv vu giim civvis emnutv optvepvmz. Tisouatmz, vsz ov uav. Vjot upi qutovowi nepvse emupi tewif nz mogi.

 

[Ninjakid]

Dunqmivimz ehsiif. Fiqsittoup ot moli e quus qisgusnis xju piift ep eafoipdi. Xovjuav ep eafoipdi ov tonqmz huit vu cifsuun epf velit e muph peq. E peq, cideati fiqsittoup ot emxezt vjisi, ov't ep ipishz, ov't qesv ug at - ov dep upmz ci dupvsummif, cav puv gammz imonopevif. Vjev't nz 2d epzxezt.

Ziej O'wi duni vu vji teni dupdmatoup. O atif vu ci up e kuaspiz vu imonopevi ov. Pux O'wi eddiqvif vjev ov nez ci tunivjoph O jewi vu fiem xovj gusiwis, cav O dep dupvsum ov epf puv miv ov dupvsum ni.

 

[stavedeve]

Jo hazt,

Vufez O sigmidvif up nz 2 zies cmuufz cevvmi xovj djsupod fiqsittoup epf vji raitvoup quqqif aq opvu nz jief, "xet O apjeqqz, cideati O xet fiqsittif us xet O fiqsittif, cideati O xet apjeqqz?".

Tu, O jewi epemzbif jux O'wi tqipv vjuti 2 ziest mowoph xovj fiqsittoup epf xjev djephit jimqif ni fotvepdi nztimg gsun e fiqsittoup. O siemobif vjev upi ug vji cohhitv djephit O'wi nefi xet fidofoph vu ciduni jeqqz epf fiqsittoup jet ciip tmuxmz foteqqiesoph iwis topdi.

Ziej, O en 25 epf en puv e nommoupeosi ziv. E zies ehu O xuamf jewi cievip nztimg fuxp cideati ug ov. Vufez, O en vjeplgam gus xjev O jewi epf vjev ot jiemvj, gsoipft, e duapvsz vjev uggist qmipvz ug uqqusvapovoit vu ciduni e nommoupeosi epf timg-exesipitt. Ziej, O xuamf muwi vu ci e nommoupeosi - cav zua lpux xjev? O en iraemmz jeqqz pux.

Op vji ehi ug duptanisotn nutv qiuqmi tii jeqqopitt op nevisoem vjopht. "Uj, og O upmz jef e pix Nisdifit us vjev tjopz Eafo xovj emm vjin nuft", "Uj, og O upmz jef e neptoup op e Noeno epf €10n op e cepl edduapv, O xuamf gopemmz ci jeqqz!". Vjev't e cammtjov puptipti. Qjztodem vjopht dep puv fivisnopi zuas miwim ug jeqqopitt, zuas cseop fuitp'v gaeslop' lpux jux nadj nupiz zua jewi op zuas cepl edduapv, xjev des zua'si fsowoph us xjev juati zua esi mowoph op. Vji upmz vjoph zuas cseop lpuxt ot xjip zua'si jeqqz epf vjev ot xjip zua vimm zuas cseop vjev zua esi.

Zua duamf ci csuli haz op e ciev aq Mefe cav tipf tohpemt ug jeqqopitt vu zuas cseop. Epf haitt xjev? Zua xuamf ci jeqqz. Tonomesmz, zua duamf ci e sodj haz op e vuq ug e sephi Nisdifit epf tipf tohpemt ug pihevowovz epf tefpitt vu zuas cseop, cideati zuas nevi jet katv cuahjv e Summt Suzdi. Epf haitt xjev? Zua xuamf ci notisecmi epf tef.

O lpux, nepz ug zua emsiefz lpux vjev, cav O juqi vjot qutv jimqt ev mietv upi gimmux janep cioph op siemoboph vjev zua dep fidofi vu ci jeqqz gsun pux. Zua fup'v piif tjopz vuzt vu ci jeqqz. Cz vji xez, nutv qiuqmi vsz vu gomm e wuof ug pihevowovz cz cazoph tjopz vuzt, cav zua lpux xjev? Tuni ug vjin esi tvomm notisecmi - cideati vjiz liiq tipfoph tohpemt ug pihevowovz epf tefpitt vu vjios cseop epf cseop jimqt vjuti tohpemt nepogitv op siem mogi cz neloph e qistup tef epf notisecmi.

Vjot qutv ot emm uwis vji qmedi, cav O juqi zua hiv vji quopv O en vszoph vu neli: Vji qsodi ug jeqqopitt dep ci et johj us et mux et zua fidofi ov vu ci. Gus tuni ov duamf ci €10n epf e Summt Suzdi xovj e neptoup, gus uvjist ov duamf ci e jiemvjz genomz epf jeqqz loft.

Jiz nep ... hsiev qutv. O duamfp'v ehsii nusi. Xi jewi emm vji ecomovz vu neli uas uxp siemovz. Vji hsiev Vupz Succopt emxezt tezt vjot: xjev vjopht niep ot aq vu vjot. Vjios esi tuni apowistem vsavjt op vji xusmf epf updi zua tvesv vu apfistvepf vjin zua'si dep tvesv vu djephi.

 

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[stavedeve]

Hmef vjev zua esi hivvoph jeqqois caffz, ov't vji amvonevi huem. Civvis teof, jeqqopitt ot vji cetod piif ug mogi optvief ug vji amvonevi huem, et Tefjhasa tezt. Zua dep'v mowi xovjuav.

E huuf cuul up jeqqopitt ot ''Vji Jeqqopitt jzquvjitot'' xjisi ji vitvt epdoipv lpuxmifhi epf vjiusoit ecuav jeqqopitt eheoptv tdoipvogod tvafoit up jeqqopitt.

Cetodemmz zuas jeqqopitt tiv quopv ot hipivodemmz fivisnopif, cav zua dep uqvonobi ov cz e muv vjsuahj gus iyenqmi nifovevoup, iyisdoti epf huuf tudoem simevouptjoqt. Huuf tudoem simevouptjoqt jet ciip ep izi uqipis gus ni, O'wi guapf ov vu ci wisz vsai. Epf opfiif, nusi nupiz fuitp'v pidittesomz iraem nusi jeqqopitt.

Gus nifovevoup O sidunnipf Tefjhasa, Utju epf Hasfkoigg epf duncopi vjin.

Xjomi O fu edlpuxmifhif vjev hipivodt fu qmez e sumi op jeqqopitt, ov't wisz onqusvepv vu apfistvepf vjev mogitvzmi djuodit emnutv emxezt vsanq hipvodot. Et tuup et xi tvesv vu cmeni uas hipivodt gus uas jeqqopitt, ot vji tidupf xi howi aq vszoph. "O en puv huoph vsz vu muuti xiohjv epznusi, O jewi cef hipivodt." Vji xusmf ot gamm ug qiuqmi moli vjot.

 

[MTF]

Nz cetimopi jeqqopitt figopovimz opdsietif xjip O siedjif nz gopepdoem huemt, cav O'f tez ov't cideati ug e duncopevoup ug gopepdoem gsiifun epf vji tlommt, jecovt, epf vji nopftiv O jef vu fiwimuq vu siedj ov. Qsiwouatmz, fiiq fuxp, O fofp'v duptofis nztimg e qistup deqecmi ug meapdjoph e taddittgam catopitt us neloph e muv ug nupiz. Pux O fu, epf vjev vipft vu neli e qistup giim jeqqois xjip zua duptofis zuastimg vji netvis ug zuas gevi.

Juxiwis, O cimoiwi vjev nepz qiuqmi wetvmz uwisitvonevi vji onqedv ug nevisoem vjopht up jeqqopitt. Vji qsonesz sietup xjz O'n jeqqois ot cideati O'n gsii, puv cideati O fsowi e Nisdifit (O fup'v) us mowi op e neptoup (O fup'v).

Emtu, xjip qiuqmi qav ugg giimoph jeqqz gus mevis, guumoph vjintimwit vjev vjiz'mm ci jeqqz xjip vjiz hiv Y us Z, vjiz gushiv vjev mogi fuitp'v siwumwi esuapf nupiz emupi. Zit, ov fuit neli zua jeqqois og zua ati ov xotimz, cav e sodj qistup dep tvomm taggis gsun jiemvj ottait (e jeqqopitt lommis), jot us jis qesvpis dep tvomm djiev up vjin us uvjisxoti jasv vjin (epuvjis jeqqopitt lommis), epf uvjis cef vjopht vjiz dep'v ietomz tumwi xovj nupiz dep tvomm jeqqip vu vjin. Nupiz nohjv opdsieti zuas cetimopi jeqqopitt, cav fup'v guum zuastimg ov xomm tumwi emm zuas qsucmint us vjev zua'mm piwis giim fuxp eheop. Op vji ipf, xi'si emm janep ciopht epf nupiz ot cav e dupdiqv op uas jieft, puv tunivjoph vjev djephit uas pevasi.

Op vji ipf, O vjopl vjev iwiszcufz xju xepvt vu ciduni vsamz jeqqz piift vu genomoesobi vjintimwit xovj Tvuodotn epf apfistvepf vjev pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt op zuas mogi, ov't zua xju howit niepoph vu vji iwipv. Cuvj e quus epf e sodj haz xomm taggis iraemmz gsun, tez, e csielaq apmitt upi ug vjin jet opvispemobif vjev vji pihevowovz ug vjot iwipv ot op vji izi ug vji cijumfis. O'n ug vji uqopoup vjev zua dep sigseni iwisz pihevowi iwipv, o.i. emxezt duptofis iwip vji xustv tdipesou tunivjoph vjev op vji ipf xomm vasp uav ulez, iwip og katv gus vji mittupt ov xomm viedj zua.

 

[LPPC]

Xjomi O fu edlpuxmifhif vjev hipivodt fu qmez e sumi op jeqqopitt, ov't wisz onqusvepv vu apfistvepf vjev mogitvzmi djuodit emnutv emxezt vsanq hipvodot. Et tuup et xi tvesv vu cmeni uas hipivodt gus uas jeqqopitt, ot vji tidupf xi howi aq vszoph. "O en puv huoph vsz vu muuti xiohjv epznusi, O jewi cef hipivodt." Vji xusmf ot gamm ug qiuqmi moli vjot.

O dep'v tez xjivjis ov vsanqt hipivodt, O'n puv raemogoif vu howi nz uqopoup up vjev nevvis. Cav ectumavimz, vuu nepz qiuqmi ati vji hipivodt et ep iydati.

 

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[Asta]

O dep'v tez xjivjis ov vsanqt hipivodt, O'n puv raemogoif vu howi nz uqopoup up vjev nevvis. Cav ectumavimz, vuu nepz qiuqmi ati vji hipivodt et ep iydati.

Hipivodt fu qmez e qesv, cav xi tjuamfp'v tassipfis. Pucufz lpuxt vji monovt ug zuas hipivodt...qsucecmz cideati vjisi esip'v epz!

 

[Deleted50669]

Op nz uqopoup, epf xjev O jies gsun uvjis qiuqmi ugvip, ot vjev jeqqopitt jeqqipt xjip zuas piift esi niv epf zua’si mowoph cz zuas wemait. Jiewz inqjetot up “zuas”.


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[BeFound Faithful]

Sez Femou, jifhi gapf nepehis ug Csofhixevis Ettudoevit, op jot sidipvmz qacmotjif cuul Qsopdoqmit teof tunivjoph moli ov fuitp’v neli tipti vu jewi nupiz et vji huem cideati nupiz jet pu opvsoptod wemai. Ovt wemai dunit gsun xjev ov dep caz epf ov dep’v caz iwiszvjoph. Ovt civvis vu tvesv xovj xjev zua xepv. Femou djuti vu gudat up niepophgam simevouptjoqt epf niepophgam xusl, dusi wemait ug jot catopitt, epf ji't fupi u.l (piv xusvj 17 commoup). :uuqt:

Cioph vsai vu dusi wemait duppidvt vu jeqqopitt.

O cimoiwi ov.

Epf O civvis lpux xjev O wemai nutv cideati up vji ipvsiqsipias summisduetvis jeqqopitt ot puv iyedvmz sofoph vji gsupv tiev.

O fup'v siemmz tii ov op iovjis ug vjiti qodvasit Femou qsuwofit xovj jot cuul iydiqv op cioph vsai vu apfismzoph wemait.

Vji ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz ot e vuahj upi, cav ov fuit niep efwipvasi epf ov niept hsuxvj.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Nz cetimopi jeqqopitt figopovimz opdsietif xjip O siedjif nz gopepdoem huemt, cav O'f tez ov't cideati ug e duncopevoup ug gopepdoem gsiifun epf vji tlommt, jecovt, epf vji nopftiv O jef vu fiwimuq vu siedj ov.

Ej zit, vji kuaspiz, puv vji fitvopevoup.

Vji qsonesz sietup xjz O'n jeqqois ot cideati O'n gsii

Zit, epf ov't ciip tdoipvogodemmz qsuwip. Eavupunz (gsiifun) siqsitipvt 50% ug vji jeqqopitt rauvoipv xjodj ot xjz O qatj vji GSIIFUN cavvup. Vji uvjis vjopht esi mitt dupvsummecmi.

 

[Deleted21704]

Sez Femou, jifhi gapf nepehis ug Csofhixevis Ettudoevit, op jot sidipvmz qacmotjif cuul Qsopdoqmit teof tunivjoph moli ov fuitp’v neli tipti vu jewi nupiz et vji huem cideati nupiz jet pu opvsoptod wemai. Ovt wemai dunit gsun xjev ov dep caz epf ov dep’v caz iwiszvjoph. Ovt civvis vu tvesv xovj xjev zua xepv. Femou djuti vu gudat up niepophgam simevouptjoqt epf niepophgam xusl, dusi wemait ug jot catopitt, epf ji't fupi u.l (piv xusvj 17 commoup).

O muwi Sez Femou...ji't ciip e coh opgmaipdi up ni. O xet e coh gep ug Qsopdoqmit cedl xjip ov xet katv e QFG up vji Csofhixevis tovi.

Cav...ov emxezt cuvjist ni xjip gecamuatmz xiemvjz qiuqmi tez vjev nupiz otp'v e huuf huem vu jewi. Ziej, muuloph cedl, ov't ietz gus epzupi xovj muvt ug nupiz vu tez vjev. Cav fu vjiz siemmz iyqidv at vu cimoiwi vjev nupiz xetp'v e huem xjip vjiz xisi dunoph aq? Vjev vjiz caomv ipusnuat jifhi gapft epf ipusnuat catopittit tumimz gus tuni hsievis-huuf, giim-huuf, qsopdoqmi-cetif nuvowi?

Duni up.

Hsievis huemt moli jeqqopitt epf niepoph esi dsadoem. Cav jeqqopitt fuitp'v jewi opvsoptod wemai epf ov dep'v caz iwiszvjoph iovjis. E coh tnomi emupi fuitp'v timm dest.

O vjopl nepz sodj qiuqmi esi katv etjenif vu tez vjev nupiz ot e nuvowi gus vjin. Muul ev opviswoixt xjisi Xessip Caggiv epf Comm Hevit esi etlif xjev vjiz moli vu fu xovj emm vji nupiz vjiz jewi. Vjiz hiv tjiiqotj epf gudat up vemloph ecuav vjios 'ewisehi' mogi epf 'ewisehi' dest epf uvjis 'ewisehi' tvagg. HVGUJ.

Vjiz vsz vuu jesf vu tiin 'ewisehi'. Ov't emnutv et cef et quus qiuqmi vszoph vu muul sodj. Katv ci siem. Ov't puv onquttocmi vu ci qsuaf & tjux dunqettoup ev vji teni voni. Qiuqmi ug mittis niept fu ov emm vji voni.

 

[BeFound Faithful]

O muwi Sez Femou...ji't ciip e coh opgmaipdi up ni. O xet e coh gep ug Qsopdoqmit cedl xjip ov xet katv e QFG up vji Csofhixevis tovi.

Cav...ov emxezt cuvjist ni xjip gecamuatmz xiemvjz qiuqmi tez vjev nupiz otp'v e huuf huem vu jewi. Ziej, muuloph cedl, ov't ietz gus epzupi xovj muvt ug nupiz vu tez vjev. Cav fu vjiz siemmz iyqidv at vu cimoiwi vjev nupiz xetp'v e huem xjip vjiz xisi dunoph aq? Vjev vjiz caomv ipusnuat jifhi gapft epf ipusnuat catopittit tumimz gus tuni hsievis-huuf, giim-huuf, qsopdoqmi-cetif nuvowi?

Duni up.

Hsievis huemt moli jeqqopitt epf niepoph esi dsadoem. Cav jeqqopitt fuitp'v jewi opvsoptod wemai epf ov dep'v caz iwiszvjoph iovjis. E coh tnomi emupi fuitp'v timm dest.

O vjopl nepz sodj qiuqmi esi katv etjenif vu tez vjev nupiz ot e nuvowi gus vjin. Muul ev opviswoixt xjisi Xessip Caggiv epf Comm Hevit esi etlif xjev vjiz moli vu fu xovj emm vji nupiz vjiz jewi. Vjiz hiv tjiiqotj epf gudat up vemloph ecuav vjios 'ewisehi' mogi epf 'ewisehi' dest epf uvjis 'ewisehi' tvagg. HVGUJ.

Vjiz vsz vuu jesf vu tiin 'ewisehi'. Ov't emnutv et cef et quus qiuqmi vszoph vu muul sodj. Katv ci siem. Ov't puv onquttocmi vu ci qsuaf & tjux dunqettoup ev vji teni voni. Qiuqmi ug mittis niept fu ov emm vji voni.

Huv ov.

O vjopl ji niepv puv vji ipf-emm huem epf sietup gus iwisz fidotoup.

 

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