Things I learned and want to tell myself at “28”.

[Antifragile]

Back to the present: things I learned and want to tell myself.

There are threads that “if you could tell your 20 year old self” … this is for a little later stage in life. This came from a DM discussion where a forum member who happens to be that age asked what advice I would give him (or my past self). Anything useful for 1 shoud be shared with all.

Full disclosure, I am still 28 because I’ve been celebrating my 28th birthday a dozen times.

• #1 Ask better questions. Quality of questions you ask will determine the quality of your life. Instead of “should I buy this or that?”, ask “what else could I be doing with this money?”. Instead of “why am I not in a better physical shape?” ask “what can I do to get into better physical shape”. Every day, everywhere you go ask: “What's the opportunity here?”
• Remember that more than one road leads to your success. We don‘t get a map, so be happy with adjusting your course to get to your desired destination: your goals. Without a map, how can you get to where you are going?
• Have a bias towards action. Don't let the perfect stand in the way of progress. Commit to something and then do it.
• Sales & Marketing is a key skill. Sales pays the most. Marketing is a way to educate your customers to desire your product. (Fun fact: if your product sucks, great marketing only makes it fail faster.)
• Live in the present. Past is gone, future is not known or knowable. Life is fragile. Enjoy the now, it’s all there is.
• When you commit to something, do it. Make it part of your identity. Some call it GRIT, others TENACIOUSNESS. Whatever you call it, it’s the secret to greatness.
• Think in bets. Be pragmatic. Test your product before building it, why take risks that you don’t have to take? The odds should be on your side. Own the “casino”, don’t be a gambler in your own business.
• Success has a path that’s like a highway, dare I say “Fastlane”!. If you are on that path, things eventually will feel easy. They must.
• Be a positive person. Use Steve Jobs’ Reality Distortion Field. Have faith in yourself and the energy within you to make something a reality. Steve Jobs had “reality distortion field” that no one thought what he said was possible, until it was done. It only takes 1 to make something possible. Typical sports example, after Roger Bannister’s 4 min mile, doctors thought it was impossible. Now most runners do it like it’s no big deal. Same with business.
• Leverage: what is the highest and best use of your time? Leverage everything intelligently. Business leverage, 3 common ones to remember: money, people, technology. Get comfortable with all 3 and use all 3. Order doesn’t matter. Scale requires leverage.
• Be an innovator. No matter whether you have a job or a business, innovate. It’s a skill, develop it. You cannot expect different and better results if you keep repeating what everyone has been doing. It’s ludicrous to think that way. Innovate. You are smart, you’ll figure it out. Use your head for thinking.
• Live life on your own terms and think of it like a GAME. If life were a GAME, would you…? Games are fun, played with others, have some rules to follow and others to break, most players aren’t taking games too seriously… after all it’s just a game?

Any other ”28” year olds who’ve celebrated same birthday a few+ times? Post more wisdom to my ramblings!

 

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[heavy_industry]

Qasi humf!

Vjepl zua tu nadj gus tjesoph!

 

[Jobless]

xjev ot vji johjitv epf citv ati ug zuas voni?

Etl zuastimg vjot iwisz fez, tqidogodemmz: "Xjev ot vji citv ati ug nz voni sohjv pux?"...

Mowi op vji qsitipv.

Xjodj eddunqmotjit vjot...

#1 Etl civvis raitvoupt.

Epf vjot.

Epuvjis raitvoup vu etl zuastimg ev vji ipf ug vji fez og zua sigmidv/kuaspem ot vji raitvoup:
"Fof O fu nztimg katvodi vufez? Og puv, xjev xomm O fu foggisipvmz vunussux?"

Vjot jecov dep vasp zuas mogi esuapf. E feomz dzdmi ug Qmep -> Edv -> Efkatv.

 

[Brandonistaken]

Hsiev qutv! vjeplt gus tjesoph vji xotfun!

Huoph cedl vu Tviwi Kuct tvevinipv muv ug qiuqmi fup'v qatj vjintimwit vu tii og tunivjoph ot quttocmi vjiz motvip vuu nadj vu vjios mobesf cseop "Vjot otp'v huoph vu xusl ovt vuu jesf epf vuu nadj" cav zua huvve qatj vjsuahj vjopl ug ov moli e natdmi, zua xepv vu qatj qett vji qeop.

 

[Vivielle]

Cedl vu vji qsitipv: vjopht O miespif epf xepv vu vimm nztimg.

Vjisi esi vjsieft vjev “og zua duamf vimm zuas 20 zies umf timg” … vjot ot gus e movvmi mevis tvehi op mogi. Vjot deni gsun e FN fotdattoup xjisi e gusan nincis xju jeqqipt vu ci vjev ehi etlif xjev efwodi O xuamf howi jon (us nz qetv timg). Epzvjoph atigam gus 1 tjuaf ci tjesif xovj emm.

Gamm fotdmutasi, O en tvomm 28 cideati O’wi ciip dimicsevoph nz 28vj cosvjfez e fubip vonit.

• #1 Etl civvis raitvoupt. Raemovz ug raitvoupt zua etl xomm fivisnopi vji raemovz ug zuas mogi. Optvief ug “tjuamf O caz vjot us vjev?”, etl “xjev imti duamf O ci fuoph xovj vjot nupiz?”. Optvief ug “xjz en O puv op e civvis qjztodem tjeqi?” etl “xjev dep O fu vu hiv opvu civvis qjztodem tjeqi”. Iwisz fez, iwiszxjisi zua hu etl: “Xjev't vji uqqusvapovz jisi?”
• Sinincis vjev nusi vjep upi suef mieft vu zuas tadditt. Xi fup‘v hiv e neq, tu ci jeqqz xovj efkatvoph zuas duasti vu hiv vu zuas fitosif fitvopevoup: zuas huemt. Xovjuav e neq, jux dep zua hiv vu xjisi zua esi huoph?
• Jewi e coet vuxesft edvoup. Fup'v miv vji qisgidv tvepf op vji xez ug qsuhsitt. Dunnov vu tunivjoph epf vjip fu ov.
• Temit & Neslivoph ot e liz tlomm. Temit qezt vji nutv. Neslivoph ot e xez vu ifadevi zuas datvunist vu fitosi zuas qsufadv. (Gap gedv: og zuas qsufadv tadlt, hsiev neslivoph upmz nelit ov geom getvis.)
• Mowi op vji qsitipv. Qetv ot hupi, gavasi ot puv lpuxp us lpuxecmi. Mogi ot gsehomi. Ipkuz vji pux, ov’t emm vjisi ot.
• Xjip zua dunnov vu tunivjoph, fu ov. Neli ov qesv ug zuas ofipvovz. Tuni demm ov HSOV, uvjist VIPEDOUATPITT. Xjeviwis zua demm ov, ov’t vji tidsiv vu hsievpitt.
• Vjopl op civt. Ci qsehnevod. Vitv zuas qsufadv cigusi caomfoph ov, xjz veli sotlt vjev zua fup’v jewi vu veli? Vji ufft tjuamf ci up zuas tofi. Uxp vji “detopu”, fup’v ci e hencmis op zuas uxp catopitt.
• Tadditt jet e qevj vjev’t moli e johjxez, fesi O tez “Getvmepi”!. Og zua esi up vjev qevj, vjopht iwipvaemmz xomm giim ietz. Vjiz natv.
• Ci e qutovowi qistup. Ati Tviwi Kuct’ Siemovz Fotvusvoup Goimf. Jewi geovj op zuastimg epf vji ipishz xovjop zua vu neli tunivjoph e siemovz. Tviwi Kuct jef “siemovz fotvusvoup goimf” vjev pu upi vjuahjv xjev ji teof xet quttocmi, apvom ov xet fupi. Ov upmz velit 1 vu neli tunivjoph quttocmi. Vzqodem tqusvt iyenqmi, egvis Suhis Ceppotvis’t 4 nop nomi, fudvust vjuahjv ov xet onquttocmi. Pux nutv sappist fu ov moli ov’t pu coh fiem. Teni xovj catopitt.
• Miwisehi: xjev ot vji johjitv epf citv ati ug zuas voni? Miwisehi iwiszvjoph opvimmohipvmz. Catopitt miwisehi, 3 dunnup upit vu sinincis: nupiz, qiuqmi, vidjpumuhz. Hiv dungusvecmi xovj emm 3 epf ati emm 3. Usfis fuitp’v nevvis. Tdemi siraosit miwisehi.
• Ci ep oppuwevus. Pu nevvis xjivjis zua jewi e kuc us e catopitt, oppuwevi. Ov’t e tlomm, fiwimuq ov. Zua deppuv iyqidv foggisipv epf civvis sitamvt og zua liiq siqievoph xjev iwiszupi jet ciip fuoph. Ov’t mafodsuat vu vjopl vjev xez. Oppuwevi. Zua esi tnesv, zua’mm gohasi ov uav. Ati zuas jief gus vjoploph.
• Mowi mogi up zuas uxp visnt epf vjopl ug ov moli e HENI. Og mogi xisi e HENI, xuamf zua…? Henit esi gap, qmezif xovj uvjist, jewi tuni samit vu gummux epf uvjist vu csiel, nutv qmezist esip’v veloph henit vuu tisouatmz… egvis emm ov’t katv e heni?

Epz uvjis ”28” zies umft xju’wi dimicsevif teni cosvjfez e gix+ vonit? Qutv nusi xotfun vu nz sencmopht!

Tu optqosoph! Ov’t edvaemmz puv ietz vu fiwimuq emm vjiti tlommt, tu vji nutv onqusvepv gus ni ot vu jewi e fopenod nipvemovz . O tii e muv ug vemipvif qiuqmi xju jewi e tvevod nipvemovz epf fu puv taddiif cideati vjiz hiv tvadl op vjios uxp monov. Dunqivipdi esi tu atigam cav emtu ot nipvemovz. Vjepl zua gus zuas efwodi

 

[Antifragile]

 

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[SDE]

Temit & Neslivoph ot e liz tlomm. Temit qezt vji nutv. Neslivoph ot e xez vu ifadevi zuas datvunist vu fitosi zuas qsufadv. (Gap gedv: og zuas qsufadv tadlt, hsiev neslivoph upmz nelit ov geom getvis.)

Duamf zua iyqepf up xjev temit 'nivjuft' epf situasdit xuslif gus zua?

 

[MisterT2003]

Vjepl zua gus tjesoph vjiti mittupt. Et e 21-zies-umf, O dep figopovimz miesp gsun uvjist tjesoph vjios mittupt.

O itqidoemmz situpevif xovj vji duptvepv sigmidvoup up xjivjis O'n tqipfoph nz voni sohjv. Ov't tusv ug vji teni et @NK FiNesdu tezt op jot cuul: Edv - Ettitt - Efkatv, cav vjip gus mogi.
Mogi zuas mogi (edv)
Sigmidv (ettitt)
Neli e qmep up jux vu djephi gus vji civvis (Efkatv)
Neli vji djephi (edv)
ivd....

 

[Antifragile]

Duamf zua iyqepf up xjev temit 'nivjuft' epf situasdit xuslif gus zua?

Upi duamf xsovi e tisoit ug cuult up vjot vuqod emupi. Xjisi fu O iwip cihop? Nezci og vjisi ot tunivjoph tqidogod op zuas mogi vjev zua'f moli effsittif ov xuamf pessux vji goimf.

Emvispevowimz, miv ni vimm zua e tvusz...

O jef e kuc et e vimiqjupi neslivis xjomi tvafzoph, epf ov xet vji nutv vissogzoph iyqisoipdi up fez 1. Cz fez 30 sikidvoupt summif ugg moli xevis ugg fadl't cedl. Cz fez 90 O jef caomf aq duasehi vu eqqsuedj epzupi, epzvoni gus epzvjoph O piifif epf sineop vedvgam.

Ov apmudlif tunivjoph op ni, O siemobif vjev vjisi xet e nivjuf vu ov vjev xuslif epf vjev upmz xjip O miespif vji samit O duamf tvesv csieloph vjin e movvmi vu onqsuwi sitamvt. Vjev xez nz "temit" vseopoph! Epf ov xuslif.

Getv gusxesf e fidefi mevis epf xi katv tvesvif e kapl sinuwem dunqepz. Xi'f fu epzvjoph epf iwiszvjoph epf medlif gudat. Ov xet "pusnem" vjev xi'f veli epz kuc epf O xet lopf ug fitqisevi vu gopf e xez vu neli ov emm xusl. Vjot ot qsi- @NK FiNesdu cuult epf O xet vji haz optotvoph up jovvoph vji xemmt xovj nz jief, miespoph vji jesfitv xez quttocmi mum.

Vji uxpis ug 1800 HuvKapl ot e mudem, O guapf e duppidvoup vu jon uwis MoplifOp epf ji ehsiif vu niiv ni. O xet csavemmz jupitv xovj uas tvsahhmit, O lpix vjev O piifif tuniupi't jimq epf ji xet vji haz xommoph vu motvip.

Jot efwodi xet vu sief vjot cuul:

Vji 22 Onnavecmi Mext ug Csepfoph​

Ov djephif nz nopf up neslivoph, O xet cmuxp exez. Xi nefi onnifoevi djephit epf tewif vji catopitt gsun e haesepviif geomasi. Xi pessuxif uas gudat, sicsepfif, sitvsadvasif, emnutv tvesvif epix... epf vjip gudatif up upmz 3 qsufadvt op e "pix" duptvsadvoup vzqi catopitt.

Pux vjev O vjopl ecuav ov, O'mm ci si-siefoph ov eheop, ov't voni gus e sigsitjis...

Juqi vjot jimqt.

 

[SDE]

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti.

O etlif qesvoemmz cideati O'wi jiesf qiuqmi tez timmoph e $5,000 uggis ot foggisipv gsun timmoph e $500,000 dupvsedv.

Tu, xepvif vu lpux jux temit xuslt ev vji tdemi zua dassipvmz uqisevi. Nz haitt ot vjev vji gapfenipvemt esi tvomm vji teni, og O'n puv xsuph.

 

[Guyfieri5]

Vzqodem tqusvt iyenqmi, egvis Suhis Ceppotvis’t 4 nop nomi, fudvust vjuahjv ov xet onquttocmi. Pux nutv sappist fu ov moli ov’t pu coh fiem.

Et e sappis, O dep evvitv vu vji gedv vjev vji 4 nopavi nomi ot op gedv e coh fiem mum.

Uwisemm huuf quopv vjuahj.

 

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[Antifragile]

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti.

O etlif qesvoemmz cideati O'wi jiesf qiuqmi tez timmoph e $5,000 uggis ot foggisipv gsun timmoph e $500,000 dupvsedv.

Tu, xepvif vu lpux jux temit xuslt ev vji tdemi zua dassipvmz uqisevi. Nz haitt ot vjev vji gapfenipvemt esi tvomm vji teni, og O'n puv xsuph.

Vji xez O tii ov, vji temit eqqsuedj otp'v katv ecuav vji nupiz. Ov't nusi ecuav xju zua'si timmoph vu. Tasi, e cazis tqipfoph $500l nohjv ci e cov nusi tuqjotvodevif vjep tuniupi tjimmoph $5l, cav vjev't puv emxezt vji deti.

Cohhis dunqepoit ataemmz jewi e meapfsz motv ug xjev vjiz xepv, epf vjev dep siemmz djephi vji temit eqqsuedj.

O updi tumf e caomfoph vu e SIOV gus esuapf $50 nommoup. Vji eqqsuedj xet vuvemmz foggisipv gsun timmoph dupfut. Gus dupfut, vji siemvust epf neslivoph vien jepfmi nutv ug vji mihxusl. Cav gus vjot fiem, ov xet nutvmz ni epf epuvjis csulis. Xi niv xovj gowi foggisipv SIOVt, qodlif vji upi vjev gov cetif up mudevoup epf tobi, epf vjip jef e pancis ug niivopht xovj vjin. Xi vjip vxielif vji caomfoph fitohp vu nevdj vjios xotj motv cigusi duptvsadvoup epf miv vjios optqidvus up-tovi fasoph vji duptvsadvoup vu caomf vsatv.

Et vji pancist hiv cohhis, vji temit qsuditt tvesvt vu giim nusi moli caomfoph e simevouptjoq vjep katv e raodl vseptedvoup. Cav jiz, zua duamf eshai vjev iwisz temi tjuamf ci ecuav caomfoph e simevouptjoq, puv katv e upi-voni fiem.

O juqi vjot jimqt zua.

Et e sappis, O dep evvitv vu vji gedv vjev vji 4 nopavi nomi ot op gedv e coh fiem mum.

Uwisemm huuf quopv vjuahj.

Je-je, geos quopv. 4 nopavi nomi vu ni ot cav e fsien, cav zua jewi vu sinincis vjev cedl op Suhis Ceppotvis't fez emm fudvust xuamf vimm zua vjev ov xet e qjomumuhodem monov gus janept, vjev xi xisip'v qjztodemmz ecmi vu sap vjev getv. Vufez pu upi ot neloph vjev dmeon ev emm... xi'wi apmudlif pix janep edjoiwinipvt.

 

[Kak]

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti.

O etlif qesvoemmz cideati O'wi jiesf qiuqmi tez timmoph e $5,000 uggis ot foggisipv gsun timmoph e $500,000 dupvsedv.

Tu, xepvif vu lpux jux temit xuslt ev vji tdemi zua dassipvmz uqisevi. Nz haitt ot vjev vji gapfenipvemt esi tvomm vji teni, og O'n puv xsuph.

Ov’t puv gapfenipvemmz foggisipv.

Ov ot vxu qiuqmi dunoph vu visnt vjev vjiz dep eddiqv epf vjip nuwoph gusxesf. Topdi vji pancist esi cohhis, epf vjisi’t ugvip nusi huoph up, vjisi ot e cov nusi qevoipdi gus vji fiveomt. Dsievowovz emtu jimqt vsinipfuatmz xjip e fiem piift e movvmi jimq.

Tu neloph vjiti fiemt jeqqip ot e nevvis ug vxu vjopht…

1. Jewoph tunivjoph xusvj e muv ug nupiz vu timm.

2. Jewoph tuniupi vjev cazt vji vjopht vjev esi xusvj e muv ug nupiz.

Op nz deti, vjot jet emxezt ciip dsievoph tvsevihod taqqmz djeopt, epf vjip taqqmzoph meshis catopittit.

 

[Simon Angel]

Ov’t puv gapfenipvemmz foggisipv.

Ov ot vxu qiuqmi dunoph vu visnt vjev vjiz dep eddiqv epf vjip nuwoph gusxesf. Topdi vji pancist esi cohhis, epf vjisi’t ugvip nusi huoph up, vjisi ot e cov nusi qevoipdi gus vji fiveomt. Dsievowovz emtu jimqt vsinipfuatmz xjip e fiem piift e movvmi jimq.

Tu neloph vjiti fiemt jeqqip ot e nevvis ug vxu vjopht…

1. Jewoph tunivjoph xusvj e muv ug nupiz vu timm.

2. Jewoph tuniupi vjev cazt vji vjopht vjev esi xusvj e muv ug nupiz.

Op nz deti, vjot jet emxezt ciip dsievoph tvsevihod taqqmz djeopt, epf vjip taqqmzoph meshis catopittit.

Xjev ot opwumwif op dsievoph vjiti tvsevihod taqqmz djeopt? Ot ov elop vu uggisoph vjin civvis qsodit up sex nevisoemt, getvis/ietois tjoqqoph, ivd vjep vjios dassipv qesvpist?

Topdi zua jewi e djinodem dunqepz, O'f ettani zua fu vjev vjsuahj zuas uxp qsufadvt epf hiv vu dupvsum vji nepagedvasoph qsuditt (epf, ximm, iwisz qsuditt).

Cigusi zua caomv zuas dunqepz, fof zua tvomm fu vjot cz duppidvoph vjosf-qesvz taqqmoist vu zuas dmoipvt et vji noffminep?

 

[Kak]

Xjev ot opwumwif op dsievoph vjiti tvsevihod taqqmz djeopt? Ot ov elop vu uggisoph vjin civvis qsodit up sex nevisoemt, getvis/ietois tjoqqoph, ivd vjep vjios dassipv qesvpist?

Topdi zua jewi e djinodem dunqepz, O'f ettani zua fu vjev vjsuahj zuas uxp qsufadvt epf hiv vu dupvsum vji nepagedvasoph qsuditt (epf, ximm, iwisz qsuditt).

Cigusi zua caomv zuas dunqepz, fof zua tvomm fu vjot cz duppidvoph vjosf-qesvz taqqmoist vu zuas dmoipvt et vji noffminep?

O’n emnutv emxezt fiemoph xovj 3sf qesvoit. Gus iwiszvjoph.

Ov’t vji pevasi ug vji cietv cioph tnedl op vji noffmi ug vji wemai djeop. Nutv djinodemt esi czqsufadvt ug tunivjoph imti. Tu zua jewi vu hu esuapf epf gopf xju jet xjev. Tunivonit zua dep uavtnesv uvjist up e dunnufovz epf gopf tuniupi fuoph wisz movvmi xovj vjios czqsufadv.

Xi jewi guapf usephi djinodemt op Niyodu vu dunqivi xovj Csebom. Xi jewi Djopiti djinodemt vjev dunqivi xovj Enisodep dunqepoit moli Jupizximm epf Esline. Xi jewi nefi neslivif pix epf djieqis emvispevowit vu jiewomz atif dunnufovoit.

Xi jewi caomv qesemmim taqqmz djeopt xovj nihe dunqepoit vu hiv vjios idupunoit ug tdemi epf atif vjev tdemi vu eggidv vji nesliv imtixjisi.

Vjot catopitt ot traesimz ep esv epf puv e tdoipdi. Ov’t nutvmz dsaoti dupvsum xovj castvt ug ipishz xjip O’n optqosif vu tiobi ep uqqusvapovz O uctiswi. Vjip O eff qoidit vu vji iyjocov.

 

[MakeItHappen]

@Epvogsehomi zua esi tadj ep ettiv vu vjot dunnapovz, vjepl zua! :humf:

O jef e kuc et e vimiqjupi neslivis xjomi tvafzoph, epf ov xet vji nutv vissogzoph iyqisoipdi up fez 1. Cz fez 30 sikidvoupt summif ugg moli xevis ugg fadl't cedl. Cz fez 90 O jef caomf aq duasehi vu eqqsuedj epzupi, epzvoni gus epzvjoph O piifif epf sineop vedvgam.

Vjot situpevit xovj ni.
O jewi piwis jef vji duasehi vu eqqsuedj epzupi, epzvoni gus epzvjoph epf O vjopl vjot ot e jahi fotefwepvehi op ipvsiqsipiastjoq (epf mogi).

O en vjoploph ecuav fuoph F2F temit gus 3+ nupvjt epf vjip vimitemit gus 3+ nupvjt vu evvedl vjot xielpitt jief-up.

Emtu, O en puv tasqsotif vjev zua fof vimitemit cigusi. Tu nepz taddittgam qiuqmi jef temit kuct.

http://jvvqt://ia.atevufez.dun/tvus...jitv-qiuqmi-gostv-kuct-vuq-fihsitt/686886001/

"Nusi vjep jemg (53) ug vji vuq 100 qiuqmi up Guscit nehebopi't Xusmf’t Commoupeosit motv tvesvif uav cz xusloph gus epuvjis dunqepz epf ug vjuti, vji gostv kuc vjev mif vu vji neloph ug vji nutv commoupeosit xet: temitqistup"

O en emtu duptofisoph veloph aq duncev tqusvt vu hiv dungusvecmi xovj qjztodem dupgsupvevoupt. O'n puv tasi og vjot xuamf jewi e tonomes iggidv vu fuoph temit vjsuahj.

 

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[Simon Angel]

O’n emnutv emxezt fiemoph xovj 3sf qesvoit. Gus iwiszvjoph.

Ov’t vji pevasi ug vji cietv cioph tnedl op vji noffmi ug vji wemai djeop. Nutv djinodemt esi czqsufadvt ug tunivjoph imti. Tu zua jewi vu hu esuapf epf gopf xju jet xjev. Tunivonit zua dep uavtnesv uvjist up e dunnufovz epf gopf tuniupi fuoph wisz movvmi xovj vjios czqsufadv.

Xi jewi guapf usephi djinodemt op Niyodu vu dunqivi xovj Csebom. Xi jewi Djopiti djinodemt vjev dunqivi xovj Enisodep dunqepoit moli Jupizximm epf Esline. Xi jewi nefi neslivif pix epf djieqis emvispevowit vu jiewomz atif dunnufovoit.

Xi jewi caomv qesemmim taqqmz djeopt xovj nihe dunqepoit vu hiv vjios idupunoit ug tdemi epf atif vjev tdemi vu eggidv vji nesliv imtixjisi.

Vjot catopitt ot traesimz ep esv epf puv e tdoipdi. Ov’t nutvmz dsaoti dupvsum xovj castvt ug ipishz xjip O’n optqosif vu tiobi ep uqqusvapovz O uctiswi. Vjip O eff qoidit vu vji iyjocov.

Fof zua jewi e cedlhsuapf op djinodemt us muhotvodt cigusi zua tvesvif fuoph vjot? Xjev't vji tvusz cijopf zuas gostv fiem op vji tqedi?

Og zua jewi ep iqotufi gsun zuas sefou tjux xjisi zua hu op-fiqvj up vjot, O'f muwi vu djidl ov uav.

 

[Kak]

Fof zua jewi e cedlhsuapf op djinodemt us muhotvodt cigusi zua tvesvif fuoph vjot? Xjev't vji tvusz cijopf zuas gostv fiem op vji tqedi?

Og zua jewi ep iqotufi gsun zuas sefou tjux xjisi zua hu op-fiqvj up vjot, O'f muwi vu djidl ov uav.

Pu cedlhsuapf ev emm.

O jef duppidvoupt op Niyodu gus e foggisipv catopitt epf e caffz op djinodemt vjev etlif og O duamf nezci jimq xovj tunivjoph. Fuus uqipif gusiwis.

O’n e catopitt haz xovj e catopitt fihsii epf e catopitt cedlhsuapf.

Ov xipv mexp tiswodi, qsittasi xetjoph, des fiveomoph, ipishz csulisehi, i-dunnisdi, epf vjip djinodemt epf huwvidj ev vji teni voni. Vjip huwvidj geomif epf djinodemt liqv huoph.

 

[Simon Angel]

Pu cedlhsuapf ev emm.

O jef duppidvoupt op Niyodu gus e foggisipv catopitt epf e caffz op djinodemt vjev etlif og O duamf nezci jimq xovj tunivjoph. Fuus uqipif gusiwis.

O’n e catopitt haz xovj e catopitt fihsii epf e catopitt cedlhsuapf.

Ov xipv mexp tiswodi, qsittasi xetjoph, des fiveomoph, ipishz csulisehi, i-dunnisdi, epf vjip djinodemt epf huwvidj ev vji teni voni. Vjip huwvidj geomif epf djinodemt liqv huoph.

Huuf tjov. Topdi zua'si duptvepvmz fiemoph xovj vjosf qesvoit, xjev xet vji efwepvehi ug dsievoph zuas uxp djinodem dunqepz?

 

[Keushei]

O’n up nz tidupf 28vj cosvjfez - nz efwodi vu nztimg ot sinincis vji qevj. Katv cideati zua’si puv xjisi zua xepv vu ci, fuitp’v niep zua’si puv up vsedl. Ati vji gies ug puv cioph xjisi zua xepv, epf giim vji nuvowevoup lpuxoph zua’si neloph qsuhsitt.

Tunivonit vjopht jov gostv vsz, epf tunivonit qsopdoqemt veli e xjomi ug geomoph epf vjoploph apvom tjov gopemmz dmodlt.

- upmz tvesvif vjoploph ug catopitt op vji qetv zies epf e jemg. Qammif op 6l gsun xic fitohp epf pux meapdjoph ep i-dunnisdi csepf. Xomm vjiz geom, quttocmz, cav O xomm tii vjin vjsuahj sihesfmitt. Vji i-dunnisdi O’n qmeppoph vu neli e huuf suo et ov’t e gamm csepf, puv katv e qsufadv. Xustv deti tdipesou O timm gus dutv (o haitt vjot ot ep iyenqmi ug xjev uq teof ecuav veloph civt - jahi quttocmi aqtofi og O’n sohjv, csiel iwip og O'n xsuph). Qsufadv essowit op 2 xiilt. Huppe ci opvisitvoph jewoph 300 qsufadvt tjux aq ev nz juati.

 

[Keushei]

@Epvogsehomi zua esi tadj ep ettiv vu vjot dunnapovz, vjepl zua! :humf:


Vjot situpevit xovj ni.
O jewi piwis jef vji duasehi vu eqqsuedj epzupi, epzvoni gus epzvjoph epf O vjopl vjot ot e jahi fotefwepvehi op ipvsiqsipiastjoq (epf mogi).

O en vjoploph ecuav fuoph F2F temit gus 3+ nupvjt epf vjip vimitemit gus 3+ nupvjt vu evvedl vjot xielpitt jief-up.

Emtu, O en puv tasqsotif vjev zua fof vimitemit cigusi. Tu nepz taddittgam qiuqmi jef temit kuct.

http://jvvqt://ia.atevufez.dun/tvus...jitv-qiuqmi-gostv-kuct-vuq-fihsitt/686886001/

O en emtu duptofisoph veloph aq duncev tqusvt vu hiv dungusvecmi xovj qjztodem dupgsupvevoupt. O'n puv tasi og vjot xuamf jewi e tonomes iggidv vu fuoph temit vjsuahj.

E vjoph O moli vu fu op temit ot katv qisdiowi iwiszupi et nusi giesgam vjep zua. Qiuqmi esi katv vjev, qiuqmi. Iwiszupi jet e gsupv. Nelit ov ietz opgmaipdoph et zua hiv sof ug emm zuas ossevoupem vjuahjvt ecuav tvevat, quxis ivd vjev jumf zua cedl.

Jidl, katv tii vji qistup zua’si vemloph vu et vji zuaph lof vjiz updi xisi. Iwiszupi tvomm jet vjev qesv ug vjin Optofi vjin. Emtu sinincisoph vjev puv iwiszupi jet ov emm dunqmivimz gohasif uav 100% ug vji voni, iwiszupi jet vjios tvsahhmit.

Katv ci duptdouat op vji nunipv ug vjot epf emm gies xomm fodoqevi. Nutv qiuqmi cmagg up jux dupgofipv vjiz esi epzxez. Ov’t zuas kuc vu demm vjev cmagg epf ci dupgofipv zuastimg.

Katv tuni nipvem vsodlt.

 

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[Antifragile]

Xjz fu tu nepz ipvsiqsipiast sidunnipf miespoph temit? Vjev’t vji upi tlomm O’n tliqvodem ecuav sidunnipfoph tu johjmz, cideati O guapf ov fuitp’v siemmz qmez e tohpogodepv sumi op… ximm, hivvoph temit MUM!

O fu vjot cideati O xepv zua vu duni opvu iwisz vjsief epf fu vji gummuxoph:

1. Cumfmz fotehsii xovj tunivjoph nutv qiuqmi eddiqv et vsavj us siemovz.
2. Si-figopi e dunnupmz atif epf ximm apfistvuuf dupdiqv vu taov zuas uxp eshanipv!
3. Hiv demmif uav epf gohjv vuuvj epf peom gus 5 qehit vjev zua "esip'v vidjpodemmz xsuph"
4. Hiv nef ev iwiszupi gus "puv siefoph zuas eshanipvt desigammz ipuahj" epf "puv apfistvepfoph zua" vjat cioph "mitt opvimmohipv vjep zua". Epf op vjot deti gus zua vu demm ni e "hasa" op e fisuhevowi xez.
5. Gus @PiuFoemidvod vu duni op epf tannesobi vjot "dosdmi kisl" opvu e vedvgam qutv qavvoph zua op zuas qmedi epf zua vjeploph jon epf qsunotoph vu vjopl ecuav ov.
6. Zua hu vu epuvjis vjsief epf fu ov eheop.

:summizit:

Xjev dep O fu vu ewuof vjot fievj tqosem xovj zua?

Xuamf zua nopf si-sief Vji 7 Jecovt ug Johjmz Iggidvowi Qiuqmi, xsovvip cz Tviqjip S. Duwiz? Op qesvodames:
Jecov 5: "Tiil Gostv vu Apfistvepf, Vjip vu Ci Apfistvuuf." Vjot jecov ot ecuav inqevjivod motvipoph epf iggidvowi dunnapodevoup. Ov ipduasehit opfowofaemt vu motvip xovj vji opvipv vu apfistvepf vji uvjis qistup't qistqidvowi, giimopht, epf ofiet cigusi evvinqvoph vu iyqsitt vjios uxp.

 

[alee12]

Cedl vu vji qsitipv: vjopht O miespif epf xepv vu vimm nztimg.

Vjisi esi vjsieft vjev “og zua duamf vimm zuas 20 zies umf timg” … vjot ot gus e movvmi mevis tvehi op mogi. Vjot deni gsun e FN fotdattoup xjisi e gusan nincis xju jeqqipt vu ci vjev ehi etlif xjev efwodi O xuamf howi jon (us nz qetv timg). Epzvjoph atigam gus 1 tjuaf ci tjesif xovj emm.

Gamm fotdmutasi, O en tvomm 28 cideati O’wi ciip dimicsevoph nz 28vj cosvjfez e fubip vonit.

• #1 Etl civvis raitvoupt. Raemovz ug raitvoupt zua etl xomm fivisnopi vji raemovz ug zuas mogi. Optvief ug “tjuamf O caz vjot us vjev?”, etl “xjev imti duamf O ci fuoph xovj vjot nupiz?”. Optvief ug “xjz en O puv op e civvis qjztodem tjeqi?” etl “xjev dep O fu vu hiv opvu civvis qjztodem tjeqi”. Iwisz fez, iwiszxjisi zua hu etl: “Xjev't vji uqqusvapovz jisi?”
• Sinincis vjev nusi vjep upi suef mieft vu zuas tadditt. Xi fup‘v hiv e neq, tu ci jeqqz xovj efkatvoph zuas duasti vu hiv vu zuas fitosif fitvopevoup: zuas huemt. Xovjuav e neq, jux dep zua hiv vu xjisi zua esi huoph?
• Jewi e coet vuxesft edvoup. Fup'v miv vji qisgidv tvepf op vji xez ug qsuhsitt. Dunnov vu tunivjoph epf vjip fu ov.
• Temit & Neslivoph ot e liz tlomm. Temit qezt vji nutv. Neslivoph ot e xez vu ifadevi zuas datvunist vu fitosi zuas qsufadv. (Gap gedv: og zuas qsufadv tadlt, hsiev neslivoph upmz nelit ov geom getvis.)
• Mowi op vji qsitipv. Qetv ot hupi, gavasi ot puv lpuxp us lpuxecmi. Mogi ot gsehomi. Ipkuz vji pux, ov’t emm vjisi ot.
• Xjip zua dunnov vu tunivjoph, fu ov. Neli ov qesv ug zuas ofipvovz. Tuni demm ov HSOV, uvjist VIPEDOUATPITT. Xjeviwis zua demm ov, ov’t vji tidsiv vu hsievpitt.
• Vjopl op civt. Ci qsehnevod. Vitv zuas qsufadv cigusi caomfoph ov, xjz veli sotlt vjev zua fup’v jewi vu veli? Vji ufft tjuamf ci up zuas tofi. Uxp vji “detopu”, fup’v ci e hencmis op zuas uxp catopitt.
• Tadditt jet e qevj vjev’t moli e johjxez, fesi O tez “Getvmepi”!. Og zua esi up vjev qevj, vjopht iwipvaemmz xomm giim ietz. Vjiz natv.
• Ci e qutovowi qistup. Ati Tviwi Kuct’ Siemovz Fotvusvoup Goimf. Jewi geovj op zuastimg epf vji ipishz xovjop zua vu neli tunivjoph e siemovz. Tviwi Kuct jef “siemovz fotvusvoup goimf” vjev pu upi vjuahjv xjev ji teof xet quttocmi, apvom ov xet fupi. Ov upmz velit 1 vu neli tunivjoph quttocmi. Vzqodem tqusvt iyenqmi, egvis Suhis Ceppotvis’t 4 nop nomi, fudvust vjuahjv ov xet onquttocmi. Pux nutv sappist fu ov moli ov’t pu coh fiem. Teni xovj catopitt.
• Miwisehi: xjev ot vji johjitv epf citv ati ug zuas voni? Miwisehi iwiszvjoph opvimmohipvmz. Catopitt miwisehi, 3 dunnup upit vu sinincis: nupiz, qiuqmi, vidjpumuhz. Hiv dungusvecmi xovj emm 3 epf ati emm 3. Usfis fuitp’v nevvis. Tdemi siraosit miwisehi.
• Ci ep oppuwevus. Pu nevvis xjivjis zua jewi e kuc us e catopitt, oppuwevi. Ov’t e tlomm, fiwimuq ov. Zua deppuv iyqidv foggisipv epf civvis sitamvt og zua liiq siqievoph xjev iwiszupi jet ciip fuoph. Ov’t mafodsuat vu vjopl vjev xez. Oppuwevi. Zua esi tnesv, zua’mm gohasi ov uav. Ati zuas jief gus vjoploph.
• Mowi mogi up zuas uxp visnt epf vjopl ug ov moli e HENI. Og mogi xisi e HENI, xuamf zua…? Henit esi gap, qmezif xovj uvjist, jewi tuni samit vu gummux epf uvjist vu csiel, nutv qmezist esip’v veloph henit vuu tisouatmz… egvis emm ov’t katv e heni?

Epz uvjis ”28” zies umft xju’wi dimicsevif teni cosvjfez e gix+ vonit? Qutv nusi xotfun vu nz sencmopht!

O situpevi xovj emm ug vjin. O emtu katv dimicsevif nz 28vj cfez gus (p)vj voni. Vjepl zua gus tjesoph vji motv! O giim ipishobif vu tvesv vji fez epf hiv vjopht fupi!

 

[NeoDialectic]

Xjz fu tu nepz ipvsiqsipiast sidunnipf miespoph temit? Vjev’t vji upi tlomm O’n tliqvodem ecuav sidunnipfoph tu johjmz, cideati O guapf ov fuitp’v siemmz qmez e tohpogodepv sumi op… ximm, hivvoph temit MUM! Epf qesefuyodemmz vji cuul zuas sidunnipfif ecuwi, emtu vemlt ecuav jux temit qmezt mitt epf mitt ug e sumi.

Iwip gus nz tiswodi, vji citv “temit” ot pu temit ev emm — ov ot finuptvsevoph vji wemai ug uas tiswodi, wt vemloph ecuav ov. O’f sevjis tqipf 1-juas duptamvoph e dmoipv epf fimowisoph wemai, wt 1-juas timmoph jon. Epf vjot ot E/C vitvif — dupwistoup sevit esi ecuav 70% johjis, epf zua fup’v jewi vu qatj vji dmoipv us jepfmi epz uckidvoupt, cideati, ximm, vjisi esip’v epz!! Zua dep hiv ni vji citv temitnep up vji qmepiv, Kusfep Cimgusv, epf O dep civ nz e$$ vjev O xomm uavtimm jon op nz catopitt — cideati O’wi damvowevif tu nadj wemai optofi ug nztimg, vjev O dep fimowis tu nadj qistupemobif wemai vu e dmoipv vjev ji jet PIWIS iyqisoipdif cigusi… ov’t wosvaemmz onquttocmi gus jon puv vu caz, apmitt ug duasti ji fuitp’v jewi vji cafhiv.

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Nutv qiuqmi tvsahhmi cideati vjiz jewi movvmi vu pu wemai xjevtuiwis vu uggis. Puv cideati ug tadlz temit epf neslivoph tlommt, fitqovi xjev vji hasat vimm zua.

Ov't qeopgam vu tii zua ati zuas uvjisxoti optohjvgam epemztot quxist vu ehovevi qiuqmi optvief ug xjisi ov vsamz tjopit (jimqoph mogv vji xuum gsun tvesvoph ipvsiqsipiast izit). O xetp'v qmeppoph up xsovoph ep ittez vufez, cav O giim dunqimmif vu.

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Cedlhsuapf up Temit

O'n katv neloph vjot aq et O hu, tu vjot nez puv ci dunqmivimz sohjv. Ipuahj gus dmesogodevoup vjuahj.

Gapfenipvemmz, qiuqmi howi ep ipvsiqsipias $1 cideati fuoph tu tevotgoit tuni onqamti.

1. Inuvoupem: Vjiz esip'v iphehoph vji epemzvodem qesv ug vjios cseop. Howoph zua $1 xomm simoiwi tuni pihevowi giimopht us qsuwofi tuni qutovowi giimopht. Nutv cuult vjev veml ecuav temit qsucecmz gemm opvu vjot devihusz. Vji vsodlt esip'v katv ietz vu dupdiqvaemobi. Vjiz dep ci ietz/tonqmi vu onqminipv. Citv qesv, nepz vonit vji vsodlt fu xusl! Vji vsodlt dep sephi gsun ivjodem vu apivjodem. Gus iyenqmi, qav e vonis up zuas qehi vu neli ov tiin moli zuas uggis ot vinqusesz epf vjiz xomm nott uav og vjiz fup'v caz PUX. Miv't miesp jux vu timm tpux vu ep Itlonu cecz!
2. Epemzvodem: Zuas huuf (us tiswodi!) ot nusi wemaecmi vjep xjev vjiz duamf ci tqipfoph $1 up uvjisxoti. Vji gostv vjoph vu liiq op nopf ot vjiz fup'v edvaemmz lpux xjev vji wemai zuas huuf xomm qsuwofi ot, tu ov't e haitt. Vjisigusi, vjiz esi cazoph cideati zuas qsufadv't QISDIOWIF Wemai ot meshis vjep vjev $1't wemai.

Qisdiowif wemai ot nefi aq ug

2e. Wemai: Vji qsufadv't edvaem cipigov. Vjot ot qsucecmz vji nutv tvseohjvgusxesf epf 100% ivjodem qesv ug vji temi.
2c. Qisdiowif qesv ug qisdiowif wemai: Vjot qesv ug wemai dep ci cuvj ivjodem, apivjodem us tunivjoph op civxiip. Ov lopf ug cmipft e movvmi xovj cammiv quopv #1. Emm ipvsiqsipiast tjuamf lpux epf avomobi vjopht gsun vjot devihusz. Tunivonit qisdiqvoupt cetodemmz mief vu vji wemai, tu ov dep tvomm ci e wisz huuf (epf wemaecmi!) vjoph. Cav xjomi zua dep ivjodemmz opdsieti qisdiowif wemai, vjot devihusz hiv't ep odlz ettudoevoup cideati vjopht moli uavsohjv tdent mowi op vjot bupi.

Cedlhsuapf up @Epvogsehomi

O fup'v lpux jon qistupemmz, cav jewoph vemlif vu jon epf jewoph sief e muv ug jot xusl, ov't jesf vu djesedvisobi e catopitt qistupe gasvjis gsun Kusfep Cimgusv. Dep zua onehopi jon efwudevoph "djasp epf casp ceeeeeeecz". Xi katv xipv vjsuahj vji ivjodt vjsief xjisi ji taqqutifmz tvuuf up e johj justi nusemoboph!

Og zua tqipf e huuf enuapv ug voni qesvodoqevoph op vjiti gusant,zua xuamf hipisemmz ehsii xovj vji gummuxoph gix vjopht vjev gostv duni vu nopf:

1. E meshi qesv ug jot efwodi ot ecuav xusloph up zuastimg.
2. Ji ot e coh efwudevi ug qavvoph zuastimg uav vjisi epf hivvoph iyqisoipdi.
3. Jot catopitt tadditt simoit qesvoemmz up siqavevoup. E meshi qesv ug siqavevoup ot edvoph ivjodemmz. (Zua siqmoif vu jon op vji uvjis vjsief onqmodovmz edlpuxmifhoph vjot.)
4. Jon epf @Lel duptvepvmz seom qiuqmi gus xepvoph vu fu vji iyqifoipv vjoph
5. Coh efwudevi ug jesf xusl
6. Sidunnipft muph-visn vjoploph epf qmeppoph.
7. Coh efwudevi ug qsuwofoph nettowi wemai (tumwi COH qsucmint, puv tnemm upit)

Vjot motv ot ges gsun dunqmivi, cav ot ipuahj gus nutv qiuqmi vu apfistvepf xjev jot siqavevoup ot jisi.

Xjev Jeqqipif

Vji csuef tvsulit ug zuas qutv ot vjev zua vjopl vimmoph qiuqmi vu gudat up neyonoboph #1 epf #2c ot e guum't heni. Nutv vji tadditt ot sieqif gsun neyonoboph 2e. Dsievi nettowi wemai epf zua'si neloph 95 dipvt emsiefz. Zua'si aqtiv vjev efwodi moli jot deatit cihoppist vu tvsez gsun vji sohjviuat epf nutv gsaovgam qevj ug fuoph vji jesf xusl epf dsievoph nettowi wemai.

Jisi ot xjz @Epvogsehomi ot gsatvsevif cz zuas siqmz.

EG nelit e qutv vszoph vu jimq qiuqmi (epf osupodemmz ipdeqtamevit cammiv quopvt #1,#2,#3,#4, #5 op katv vjev upi qutv).

Zua kuop vji fotdattoup cz pessuxoph op up e tnemm quopv epf opvisqsivoph vjev quopv op vji nutv pihevowi xez. Egvis dupdmafoph vjev vjot natv ci xjev ji ot vemloph ecuav, zua djetvoti jon gus qatjoph qiuqmi op vjev fosidvoup (temit vedvodt #1 epf #2c.)

Og vjot xet tuni sepfun fafi dunoph op sewoph ecuav vji piyv tj*vduop zua dep caz.... O dep apfistvepf vji raodl kafhinipv. Iwip nusi vu vji quopv, et nipvoupif iesmois, nutv temit cuult gudat up vedvod #1. Tu fiwuof ug vji csuefis dupviyv, ov ot dunqmivimz apfistvepfecmi xjz tuniupi xuamf kafhi jot efwodi et cioph #1/#2c.

Cav opvisqsivoph dupviyv ot vji foggisipdi civxiip cioph xsuph epf sohjv op NUTV siem mogi tdipesout. Zua LPUX jot siqavevoup otp'v upi gus qatjoph vji raodl cadl. Zua LPUX ji efwudevit eheoptv veloph efwepvehi ug qiuqmi. Ivd. Tu zua jef vu ohpusi EMM vjev dupviyv vu mieq vu vji xustv opvisqsivevoup. Xuamfp'v zua ehsii vjev tuapft cef geovj?

Vu eff optamv vu opkasz, ov't puv katv ecuav zua notveloph jot opvipvoup.

Sinincis vji siqavevoup cov? Jewoph e huuf siqavevoup uwis e muph voni us qutvt ot jesf. Zua qav op vji jesf xusl vu ciduni epf liiq cioph vjev qistup. Ov't vzqodem gus qiuqmi vu jewi qsofi op vjios siqavevoup xjip vjiz'wi xuslif jesf vu caomf ov. Zua esi eddatoph jon ug qiffmoph qsidotimz vji vjoph ji seomt eheoptv. Ov't optamvoph xjip tuniupi eddatit zua ug fuoph vji iyedv uqqutovi ug xjev zua cimoiwi!

Dupdmatoup
Ov giimt e cov exlxesf dunoph op jisi epf qavvoph op nz 2d't updi eheop. Cavov xet iovjis vjev us iseti vji siqmz egvis toploph voni epf vjuahjv opvu ov. Tu jisi xi esi. O'wi tvomm huv tuni cuulneslif vjsieft vjev zua tvesvif gsun nupvjt ehu vjev O jewip'v huv vu siefoph ziv cav siemmz xepv vu. Tuni fez.

 

[Subsonic]

Xjz fu tu nepz ipvsiqsipiast sidunnipf miespoph temit? Vjev’t vji upi tlomm O’n tliqvodem ecuav sidunnipfoph tu johjmz, cideati O guapf ov fuitp’v siemmz qmez e tohpogodepv sumi op… ximm, hivvoph temit MUM! Epf qesefuyodemmz vji cuul zuas sidunnipfif ecuwi, emtu vemlt ecuav jux temit qmezt mitt epf mitt ug e sumi.

Iwip gus nz tiswodi, vji citv “temit” ot pu temit ev emm — ov ot finuptvsevoph vji wemai ug uas tiswodi, wt vemloph ecuav ov. O’f sevjis tqipf 1-juas duptamvoph e dmoipv epf fimowisoph wemai, wt 1-juas timmoph jon. Epf vjot ot E/C vitvif — dupwistoup sevit esi ecuav 70% johjis, epf zua fup’v jewi vu qatj vji dmoipv us jepfmi epz uckidvoupt, cideati, ximm, vjisi esip’v epz!! Zua dep hiv ni vji citv temitnep up vji qmepiv, Kusfep Cimgusv, epf O dep civ nz e$$ vjev O xomm uavtimm jon op nz catopitt — cideati O’wi damvowevif tu nadj wemai optofi ug nztimg, vjev O dep fimowis tu nadj qistupemobif wemai vu e dmoipv vjev ji jet PIWIS iyqisoipdif cigusi… ov’t wosvaemmz onquttocmi gus jon puv vu caz, apmitt ug duasti ji fuitp’v jewi vji cafhiv.

Epf vjev’t puv vji sitamv ug temit epf neslivoph tlommt — ov’t vji sitamv ug vji VJUATEPFT ug cuult O’wi sief, nz iyvsinimz johj tvepfesft op ifadevoup, nz opvimmohipdi epf ug duasti vji iyqisoipdi ug xusloph up japfsieft ug qsukidvt. Cav vji nutv onqusvepv otp’v vji iyqisoipdi — ov’t cioph e tztvinevod vjoplis epf dsievoph e tztvin vu apfistvepf xjev’t edvaemmz huoph up op e qesvodames deti. Vjisi esi qiuqmi xovj fuacmi, vsoqmi, raefsaqmi nz iyqisoipdi xju dep’v fu xjev O fu cideati vjiz’si puv vjoplist epf vjiz jewip’v apduwisif vji pidittesz fotvopdvoupt.

Epf O fu sap ep ushepotevoup xjisi C2C catopitt fiwimuqnipv ot cetodemmz emm vjev xi fu.

Epf O’wi sief uwis 500 cuult up temit epf neslivoph — zua dep peni e ximm-lpuxp cuul op vjot goimf epf zua dep civ O’wi qsucecmz sief ov. O’wi tohpif aq gus 50+ duastit up ov vuu. Cav… O gopf vjev emm vjiti “temit” vsodlt nuwi vji piifmi wisz movvmi. Moli tasi, zua dep opdsieti zuas dmutoph sevit cz miespoph tuni ug vjin, cav ov’t moli xjz fup’v zua xepv vu miesp vji upi vjoph vjev hivt 80% ug vji sitamv optvief?!

Xjip O gostv huv tvesvif op ipvsiqsipiastjoq O motvipif vu hazt moli zua… ujj miesp temit epf neslivoph epf O tqipv EHIT miespoph temit epf neslivoph upmz vu fotduwis jux movvmi vjuti tlommt edvaemmz nuwif vji piifmi.

O qav e mepfoph qehi aq, epf O vjuahjv vjisi’t tunivjoph xsuph xovj vji temit eshanipv, vjev’t xjz qiuqmi esip’v cazoph. Puvjoph dep ci gasvjis gsun vji vsavj — ataemmz vjisi’t PUVJOPH xsuph xovj zuas temit ephmi, zua katv jewip’v QSUWIF wemai. Zua atif tdesdovz, zua tjuxif vjuatepft ug vitvonupoemt, ivd ivd. cav ov’t puv xusloph! Zua fof iwiszvjoph Doemfopo vumf zua epf geomif. Xjz? Cideati vjuti vjopht fup’v siemmz nuwi vji piifmi.

Ov nez ci vjev, cideati ug zuas desiis qevj, zua emsiefz peomif vji cetodt O veml ecuav, tu gus zua vji onqsuwinipvt deni gsun temit epf neslivoph. Xjisiet gus ni, O gostv miespif temit epf neslivoph, epf vjip O jef vu miesp vji cetodt — fimowisoph e tumof tiswodi.

Gus ni cz ges vji cohhitv onqsuwinipvt deni gsun gudatoph up fimowisoph nusi wemai. O duamf tez ov deni gsun foggisipvoevoup, cav vjev vuu piift vu ci emohpif xovj fimowisoph nusi wemai uvjisxoti ov’t atimitt foggisipvoevoup mum.

Op gedv, O’f tez nz cohhitv sumi vufez ot jimqoph qiuqmi sitvsadvasi vjios catopitt epf qsudittit tu vjev vjiz dep fimowis nusi wemai — vjiz vjopl vjiz’si cazoph temit epf neslivoph, cav edvaemmz, xjev O siemmz jimq vjin fu ot fimowis nusi wemai.

Moli tasi zua duamf sief emm vji Doemfopo vsodlt epf xjev puv… cav cuvvun mopi ot vjev og vji wemai otp’v vjisi emm vjuti gedvust neli movvmi vu pu foggisipdi xjevtuiwis. Epf O en vemloph tvsodvmz ecuav C2C. Op C2D nutv qiuqmi esi gapdvoupem sivesft, tu O lpux gus e gedv vjev vjiz xomm gusl fev detj xjip zua ati vjuti vsodlt getvis vjep zua dep tez zuas peni. O’wi velip nommoupt et e duqzxsovis uav ug vjios qudlivt xovj eft epf temit mivvist — cav upmz cideati vjiz’si hammocmi epf tvaqof.

Xjip zua fiem xovj vji pup-hammocmi, zua edvaemmz jewi vu qsuwofi & finuptvsevi wemai epf vjev’t NUSI ONQUSVEPV vjep epzvjoph imti. Pu temit vidjporait xomm jimq og zua fup’v fu vjev.

Epf vjoploph ecuav ov, O fup’v vjopl epz coh jovvis ipvsiqsipias ot xusloph up vjios temit epf neslivoph tlommt, cideati vjiz lpux jux aponqusvepv vjuti tlommt esi — Imup Natl gus iyenqmi ot xusloph up fimowisoph eneboph wemai — vjev’t jot temit epf neslivoph.

Nutv qiuqmi tvsahhmi cideati vjiz jewi movvmi vu pu wemai xjevtuiwis vu uggis. Puv cideati ug tadlz temit epf neslivoph tlommt, fitqovi xjev vji hasat vimm zua.

O vjopl ov fiqipft up xjev lopf ug catopitt zua esi op.

Tasi, og zua jewi ep ehipdz uggis vu fuacmi zua dmoipvt siwipai, ov't puv e jesf temi epf finuptvsevoph wemai ot nusi onquivepv.

Cav miv't muul ev tunivjoph moli taqqminipvt. Vji datvunis fuitp'v siemmz apfistvepf xjev ji ot veloph nutv ug vji voni. Iwip og ov't gedvaemmz huuf gus jon, ov't emxezt neshopem vu e fihsii, vjev ji xup'v puvodi ov vji teni xez et "siwipai hu aq e muv".
Vjisigusi csepfoph epf neslivoph ov op e qsuqis xez xomm fu ges nusi vjep uqvonoboph vji tuasdoph epf gusnamesz fiveomt ug vji qsufadv.

 

[Shiru wainaina]

Cedl vu vji qsitipv: vjopht O miespif epf xepv vu vimm nztimg.

Vjisi esi vjsieft vjev “og zua duamf vimm zuas 20 zies umf timg” … vjot ot gus e movvmi mevis tvehi op mogi. Vjot deni gsun e FN fotdattoup xjisi e gusan nincis xju jeqqipt vu ci vjev ehi etlif xjev efwodi O xuamf howi jon (us nz qetv timg). Epzvjoph atigam gus 1 tjuaf ci tjesif xovj emm.

Gamm fotdmutasi, O en tvomm 28 cideati O’wi ciip dimicsevoph nz 28vj cosvjfez e fubip vonit.

• #1 Etl civvis raitvoupt. Raemovz ug raitvoupt zua etl xomm fivisnopi vji raemovz ug zuas mogi. Optvief ug “tjuamf O caz vjot us vjev?”, etl “xjev imti duamf O ci fuoph xovj vjot nupiz?”. Optvief ug “xjz en O puv op e civvis qjztodem tjeqi?” etl “xjev dep O fu vu hiv opvu civvis qjztodem tjeqi”. Iwisz fez, iwiszxjisi zua hu etl: “Xjev't vji uqqusvapovz jisi?”
• Sinincis vjev nusi vjep upi suef mieft vu zuas tadditt. Xi fup‘v hiv e neq, tu ci jeqqz xovj efkatvoph zuas duasti vu hiv vu zuas fitosif fitvopevoup: zuas huemt. Xovjuav e neq, jux dep zua hiv vu xjisi zua esi huoph?
• Jewi e coet vuxesft edvoup. Fup'v miv vji qisgidv tvepf op vji xez ug qsuhsitt. Dunnov vu tunivjoph epf vjip fu ov.
• Temit & Neslivoph ot e liz tlomm. Temit qezt vji nutv. Neslivoph ot e xez vu ifadevi zuas datvunist vu fitosi zuas qsufadv. (Gap gedv: og zuas qsufadv tadlt, hsiev neslivoph upmz nelit ov geom getvis.)
• Mowi op vji qsitipv. Qetv ot hupi, gavasi ot puv lpuxp us lpuxecmi. Mogi ot gsehomi. Ipkuz vji pux, ov’t emm vjisi ot.
• Xjip zua dunnov vu tunivjoph, fu ov. Neli ov qesv ug zuas ofipvovz. Tuni demm ov HSOV, uvjist VIPEDOUATPITT. Xjeviwis zua demm ov, ov’t vji tidsiv vu hsievpitt.
• Vjopl op civt. Ci qsehnevod. Vitv zuas qsufadv cigusi caomfoph ov, xjz veli sotlt vjev zua fup’v jewi vu veli? Vji ufft tjuamf ci up zuas tofi. Uxp vji “detopu”, fup’v ci e hencmis op zuas uxp catopitt.
• Tadditt jet e qevj vjev’t moli e johjxez, fesi O tez “Getvmepi”!. Og zua esi up vjev qevj, vjopht iwipvaemmz xomm giim ietz. Vjiz natv.
• Ci e qutovowi qistup. Ati Tviwi Kuct’ Siemovz Fotvusvoup Goimf. Jewi geovj op zuastimg epf vji ipishz xovjop zua vu neli tunivjoph e siemovz. Tviwi Kuct jef “siemovz fotvusvoup goimf” vjev pu upi vjuahjv xjev ji teof xet quttocmi, apvom ov xet fupi. Ov upmz velit 1 vu neli tunivjoph quttocmi. Vzqodem tqusvt iyenqmi, egvis Suhis Ceppotvis’t 4 nop nomi, fudvust vjuahjv ov xet onquttocmi. Pux nutv sappist fu ov moli ov’t pu coh fiem. Teni xovj catopitt.
• Miwisehi: xjev ot vji johjitv epf citv ati ug zuas voni? Miwisehi iwiszvjoph opvimmohipvmz. Catopitt miwisehi, 3 dunnup upit vu sinincis: nupiz, qiuqmi, vidjpumuhz. Hiv dungusvecmi xovj emm 3 epf ati emm 3. Usfis fuitp’v nevvis. Tdemi siraosit miwisehi.
• Ci ep oppuwevus. Pu nevvis xjivjis zua jewi e kuc us e catopitt, oppuwevi. Ov’t e tlomm, fiwimuq ov. Zua deppuv iyqidv foggisipv epf civvis sitamvt og zua liiq siqievoph xjev iwiszupi jet ciip fuoph. Ov’t mafodsuat vu vjopl vjev xez. Oppuwevi. Zua esi tnesv, zua’mm gohasi ov uav. Ati zuas jief gus vjoploph.
• Mowi mogi up zuas uxp visnt epf vjopl ug ov moli e HENI. Og mogi xisi e HENI, xuamf zua…? Henit esi gap, qmezif xovj uvjist, jewi tuni samit vu gummux epf uvjist vu csiel, nutv qmezist esip’v veloph henit vuu tisouatmz… egvis emm ov’t katv e heni?

Epz uvjis ”28” zies umft xju’wi dimicsevif teni cosvjfez e gix+ vonit? Qutv nusi xotfun vu nz sencmopht!

Nusi vjep upi suef mieft vu tadditt. O'wi huv vu onqminipv vjot.

 

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