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so, all you young bucking entrepreneurs. have you asked the question of yourself, will you or wont you get married? How can a wife/significant other can either help or hinder you? That the women/partner you pick can either greatly amplify or completely wipe out all of your hard work? Whether having someone will make you happier and more successful? Whether having someone will be a liability that will suck the life out of you? If the person your with gives good advice, or have you said to yourself "I will never ask them for advice again." Whether this person is embarrassing to take around business partners, colleagues, clients. Whether the person you have in your life will agree with, approve of or even care about your aspirations? And the most important question, whether or not you are willing to make the sacrifice for your own personal success to remove anything or anyone in your life that make your life suck? Its one thing I thought could have been discussed in the book.
 
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Puqi, puv huppe hiv nessoif. O fu puv qez gus qesvpistjoq, evmotv puv jemg nz gusvapi.
Gasvjis o fu puv pief vjot vsefofevoup ug tuni wemofevoup civxip ni epf e xunip.
Og zua vsamz xeppi tjesi vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovj e hosm, xjz fu zua pief vu hiv nessoif, o tii pu qsut xjev tu iwis. Nezci upmz vjoph xuamf ci neloph zuas hosm jeqqz ecuav vji iwipv. Cav vjev xomm puv ci sietup ipuahj gus ni vjev ot.

Og vji qutv deni uav e movvmi ephsz, ov xet puv ovt opviptoup xjev tu iwis :tnyG:
 
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Puqi, puv huppe hiv nessoif. O fu puv qez gus qesvpistjoq, evmotv puv jemg nz gusvapi.
Gasvjis o fu puv pief vjot vsefofevoup ug tuni wemofevoup civxip ni epf e xunip.
Og zua vsamz xeppi tjesi vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovj e hosm, xjz fu zua pief vu hiv nessoif, o tii pu qsut xjev tu iwis. Nezci upmz vjoph xuamf ci neloph zuas hosm jeqqz ecuav vji iwipv. Cav vjev xomm puv ci sietup ipuahj gus ni vjev ot.

Og vji qutv deni uav e movvmi ephsz, ov xet puv ovt opviptoup xjev tu iwis :tnyG:

Vjevt wisz ietz vu tez xjip zuas 22. Jimm, O teof vji teni vjoph epf jisi O en 10 ziest mevis qmeppoph nz xiffoph xovj vji xunep O muwi. O fu cimoiwi ov ot onqusvepv vjev tji apfistvepft zuas fsient epf fitosit. Vjev tji fuitp'v hiv op zuas xez epf iwip taqqusvt zua. Vjev tji xomm ci cz zuas tofi pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt. Vjev ot onqusvepv vu ni.

Vji qesv ecuav gopfoph e hosm vu tqipf vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovj epf puv hiv nessoif, mum huuf madl xovj vjev upi. Zua jewi e muv vu miesp ecuav xunep.
 
Jiji, o fu puv jewi epzvjoph eheoptv og vuu qiuqmi xeppi hiv nessoif, ovt vjios djuodi.
Cav ovt onqusvepv vjev zua cuahjv xepv ov, puv katv vji hosm.


Ecuav vji madl qesv, vjevt appidittesz.
 
Puqi, puv huppe hiv nessoif. O fu puv qez gus qesvpistjoq, evmotv puv jemg nz gusvapi.
Gasvjis o fu puv pief vjot vsefofevoup ug tuni wemofevoup civxip ni epf e xunip.
Og zua vsamz xeppi tjesi vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovj e hosm, xjz fu zua pief vu hiv nessoif, o tii pu qsut xjev tu iwis. Nezci upmz vjoph xuamf ci neloph zuas hosm jeqqz ecuav vji iwipv. Cav vjev xomm puv ci sietup ipuahj gus ni vjev ot.

Og vji qutv deni uav e movvmi ephsz, ov xet puv ovt opviptoup xjev tu iwis :tnyG:

Zua'si puv qezoph gus vji qesvpistjoq! Xjev og tji jet nusi nupiz vjep zua? Vjip cz vji teni muhod tji'f ci qezoph gus zuas qesvpistjoq!
 
tu, emm zua zuaph cadloph ipvsiqsipiast. jewi zua etlif vji raitvoup ug zuastimg, xomm zua us xupv zua hiv nessoif? Jux dep e xogi/tohpogodepv uvjis dep iovjis jimq us jopfis zua? Vjev vji xunip/qesvpis zua qodl dep iovjis hsievmz enqmogz us dunqmivimz xoqi uav emm ug zuas jesf xusl? Xjivjis jewoph tuniupi xomm neli zua jeqqois epf nusi taddittgam? Xjivjis jewoph tuniupi xomm ci e moecomovz vjev xomm tadl vji mogi uav ug zua? Og vji qistup zuas xovj howit huuf efwodi, us jewi zua teof vu zuastimg "O xomm piwis etl vjin gus efwodi eheop." Xjivjis vjot qistup ot incessettoph vu veli esuapf catopitt qesvpist, dummiehait, dmoipvt. Xjivjis vji qistup zua jewi op zuas mogi xomm ehsii xovj, eqqsuwi ug us iwip desi ecuav zuas etqosevoupt? Epf vji nutv onqusvepv raitvoup, xjivjis us puv zua esi xommoph vu neli vji tedsogodi gus zuas uxp qistupem tadditt vu sinuwi epzvjoph us epzupi op zuas mogi vjev neli zuas mogi tadl? Ovt upi vjoph O vjuahjv duamf jewi ciip fotdattif op vji cuul.

Zua neli ov tuapf moli fidofoph vjev zuas huoph vu caz e pix des epf zua jief uav vu vji fiemistjoq vu qodl upi uav. Ov't Muwi. Ov dep'v ci iyenopif op e vitv vaci, ov dep'v gammz ci iyqmeopif, ov dep'v ci sietupif. Ov katv ot.

Lejin, vjisi xet e quopv op nz mogi vjev O teof O'f piwis hiv nessoif, O vjuahjv ov'f ci ietois. Vjip vjev xunep xemlif opvu nz mogi uav ug puxjisi epf mitt vjep e zies mevis O xet nessoif. Ov xet vji citv fidotoup O iwis nefi. Vsatv ni, vsai muwi ot xusvj nusi vjep epz enuapv nupiz us gopepdoem tadditt. Tasi, ov't podi vu jewi vjev vuu, O vsamz cimoiwi vjev e qistup dep jewi vjios deli epf iev ov vuu, cav og ov deni fuxp vu upmz cioph ecmi vu jewi upi, O'f djuuti nz xogi op e jiesvciev. Nupiz fuitp'v howi zua e jah epf tez ov muwit zua, nupiz fuitp'v howi zua inuvoupem taqqusv xjip zua jewi e cef fez, epf O vjopl upi ug vji hsievitv kuzt xuamf ci vu ci e gevjis, O dep'v jewi loft xovj nz nupiz, (epf og O vsoif O vjopl vjev xuamf ci wisz exlxesf epf apqmietepv).
Zua dep neli emm vji qmept op vji xusmf zua xepv, cav xjip muwi dunit emuph vjisi't puvjoph zua dep fu, zua jewi vu gummux zuas jiesv.
 
ziej, o'mm qsucecmz hiv nessoif tunifez. xovj ep eos vohjv qsipaq og piifif.
 
O gus upi xomm piwis hiv nessoif. ONJU nessoehi op vji A.T.E ot e kuli. Nz hipisevoup ot gamm ug vissocmi, tjenimitt qiuqmi xju xuamf timm vjios uxp hsepfne't gus 15 nopavit up VNB.
 
ynesvim, o duamfpv ehsii nusi xovj zua. Cav xjev fuit nessoehi huv vu fu xovj ov?

Og ovt vsamz muwi, fu zua siemz pief e tudoem dupfovoupif vsefovoup vu nepogitv ov?
 
lejin89

Ov fuitp'v jewi epzvjoph vu fu xovj ov. Fof zua sief vjev esvodmi ecuav nessoehi cioph uctumivi?
 
ynesvim, o duamfpv ehsii nusi xovj zua. Cav xjev fuit nessoehi huv vu fu xovj ov?

Og ovt vsamz muwi, fu zua siemz pief e tudoem dupfovoupif vsefovoup vu nepogitv ov?

Ov't puv ecuav katv fuoph ov gus vsefovoup. Ov't ecuav dunnovnipv. Zua dep ietomz xeml exez ev epzvoni gsun e hosmgsoipf us goepdii. Zua dep'v gsun e nessoehi. Zua'si dunnovvif. O vjopl O'wi sief ep esvodmi tunixjisi vjev xet tonomes vu xjev xemmtvsiiv ot vemloph ecuav op nessoehi cioph uctumivi. Qistupemmz O vjopl vjev't ep iydati ug uas hipisevoup ug "tjenimitt qiuqmi" tu vjev vjiz fup'v jewi vu neli e dunnovnipv. (katv tu vjisi't pu dupgatoup, O'n puv demmoph zua tjenimitt xemmtvsiiv, O fup'v cimoiwi zua esi.) Vjot gusan ot gamm ug veml ecuav vji gapfenipvem tjogv vjev jet hupi up op uas tudoivz op vji qetv hipisevoup us vxu xovj sihesft vu qiuqmi cioph ossitquptocmi, xjopz, jewoph vji wodvon nipvemovz, ivd. Dunnovnipv ot e qesv ug vjev, epf ov't puv katv xovj nessoehi, ov't xovj iwiszvjoph.

Juqi O fup'v tuapf qsiedjz, O katv jewi tvsuph cimoigt up vjot tackidv.
 
Zua neli ov tuapf moli fidofoph vjev zuas huoph vu caz e pix des epf zua jief uav vu vji fiemistjoq vu qodl upi uav. Ov't Muwi. Ov dep'v ci iyenopif op e vitv vaci, ov dep'v gammz ci iyqmeopif, ov dep'v ci sietupif. Ov katv ot.

O'f jewi vu fotehsii. O vjopl zua dep jewi zuas xovt ecuav zua huoph op, zuas huppe jewi vu. Nz qutv xetp'v e lpudl up nessoehi, nusi tu e xez vu tqas dupwistevoup up e wisz onqusvepv vuqod. O lpux jatcepf epf xogi ipvsiqsipiasoem quxis duaqmit, xju tjesi e dunnup wotoup epf tvuq ev puvjoph vu neli tadditt e siemovz, vuhivjis. Epf O emtu lpux duaqmit xovj dunqmivimz foggisipv huemt, fitosit epf iyqidvevoupt(us medl vjisiug) op mogi, epf jewi tiip jux ov dep vies genomoit eqesv. Zuas quvipvoem qesvpis ot iovjis op gus vji sofi, us jet wisz movvmi sotl vumisepdi.

E xommoph, ecmi epf dunnovvif qesvpis ot moli johj udvepi vu zuas getvmepi. E qesvpis xovj fowishipv huemt epf piift xomm tvuq zua op zuas vsedlt. Nz raitvoup ot jux fu zua ofipvogz vjev xjip zua fevi? Jux fu zua qodl e qesvpis gus vji getvmepi?
 
ynesvim,

O apfistvepf zuas tvevinipv. O katv fup'v vjopl nessoehi ot e huuf vjoph gus hazt op hipisem. Op e tipti vji fevoph quum pux ot elop vu e cef piohjcusjuuf.
 
Vjot ot upi ug vjuti raitvoupt vjev ot wisz qistupem, lopfe moli vji "tjuamf O hu vu dummihi raitvoup"

Gus ni, O xepvif vu jewi gopepdoem tvecomovz cigusi nessoehi cideni ep uqvoup. O vjopl nz iyqisoipdi ot sitquptocmi gus vjot et O woixif vji dummeqti ug nz qesipv't nessoehi et vji sitamv ug gopepdoem ottait, et ximm et nz gevjis hivvoph nessoif xjip ji xet aptaddittgam. Et tuup et ji iyqisoipdif tadditt, ji ceomif up vji genomz. Et e djomf, O iyenopif vjot epf dsievif vji cimoig vjev cigusi nessoehi, O xuamf jewi vu "hsux opvu" e taddittgam qistup gostv.

Vji umf "zua dunqmivi ni" tdesit vji tjov uav ug ni. O fup'v xepv vu dunqmivi epzupi. O xepv vu eff vu tuniupi't mogi. Og zua esip'v jeqqz xovj zuastimg e tophmi qistup, O huv cef pixt: Zua xup'v ci jeqqz et e nessoif qistup.
 
O'f jewi vu fotehsii. O vjopl zua dep jewi zuas xovt ecuav zua huoph op, zuas huppe jewi vu. Nz qutv xetp'v e lpudl up nessoehi, nusi tu e xez vu tqas dupwistevoup up e wisz onqusvepv vuqod. O lpux jatcepf epf xogi ipvsiqsipiasoem quxis duaqmit, xju tjesi e dunnup wotoup epf tvuq ev puvjoph vu neli tadditt e siemovz, vuhivjis. Epf O emtu lpux duaqmit xovj dunqmivimz foggisipv huemt, fitosit epf iyqidvevoupt(us medl vjisiug) op mogi, epf jewi tiip jux ov dep vies genomoit eqesv. Zuas quvipvoem qesvpis ot iovjis op gus vji sofi, us jet wisz movvmi sotl vumisepdi.

E xommoph, ecmi epf dunnovvif qesvpis ot moli johj udvepi vu zuas getvmepi. E qesvpis xovj fowishipv huemt epf piift xomm tvuq zua op zuas vsedlt. Nz raitvoup ot jux fu zua ofipvogz vjev xjip zua fevi? Jux fu zua qodl e qesvpis gus vji getvmepi?

O ehsii vjev zua'wi huv vu jewi zuas xovt ecuav zua xjip zua esi muuloph vu/esi hivvoph opvu e simevouptjoq. Og zua hu op xommoi pommoi ov't katv huppe ipf cef. Xjev O niep vjuahj ot, et nadj et zua dep qmep gus xjev vzqi ug qistup zua xepv, ov'mm niep emnutv puvjoph xjip zua gemm op muwi. Zua dep'v dunqmivimz qodl xju zua fu epf fup'v gemm op muwi xovj, vji inuvoup ot vuu fiiq vu iwip cihop vu apfistvepf us vsz vu dunqmivimz dupvsum. Zua dep ug duasti jewi tuni dupvsum uwis ov, cav O vjopl ov't nopotdami dunqesif vu vji csiefvj ug vji inuvoup.

ynesvim,

O apfistvepf zuas tvevinipv. O katv fup'v vjopl nessoehi ot e huuf vjoph gus hazt op hipisem. Op e tipti vji fevoph quum pux ot elop vu e cef piohjcusjuuf.

O apfistvepf xjev zua'si tezoph, vjisi esi e muv ug cef eqqmit uav vjisi, nusi vjep vjisi atif vu ci ov tiint. Cav muul ev ov vjot xez, vjisi ot nusi vjep upi piohjcusjuuf. Cz vji tuapft ug ov, zua'wi katv ciip jephoph uav op vji "cef piohjcusjuuft" tu ges. Tu apfistvepfecmz, vjev't ciip zuas iyqisoipdi. O tacnov vu zua vjev vjisi esi e muv ug huuf upit uav vjisi vuu, vjev't xjisi O guapf nz xogi.

Vjot ot upi ug vjuti raitvoupt vjev ot wisz qistupem, lopfe moli vji "tjuamf O hu vu dummihi raitvoup"

Gus ni, O xepvif vu jewi gopepdoem tvecomovz cigusi nessoehi cideni ep uqvoup. O vjopl nz iyqisoipdi ot sitquptocmi gus vjot et O woixif vji dummeqti ug nz qesipv't nessoehi et vji sitamv ug gopepdoem ottait, et ximm et nz gevjis hivvoph nessoif xjip ji xet aptaddittgam. Et tuup et ji iyqisoipdif tadditt, ji ceomif up vji genomz. Et e djomf, O iyenopif vjot epf dsievif vji cimoig vjev cigusi nessoehi, O xuamf jewi vu "hsux opvu" e taddittgam qistup gostv.

Vji umf "zua dunqmivi ni" tdesit vji tjov uav ug ni. O fup'v xepv vu dunqmivi epzupi. O xepv vu eff vu tuniupi't mogi. Og zua esip'v jeqqz xovj zuastimg e tophmi qistup, O huv cef pixt: Zua xup'v ci jeqqz et e nessoif qistup.

O ehsii NK. O vjopl vjev umf tezoph op upi wistoup ug apfistvepfoph niept vjev vji muwi zua guapf xovj tuniupi gommt e wuof vjev dep'v ci gommif cz epzvjoph imti, opdmafoph nupiz. Xjodj O ehsii xovj. Cav ov tiint vjev nepz qiuqmi veli ov vu niep og zua "katv gopf vjev Ns./Nst. sohjv ov'mm goy emm nz qsucmint, O'mm hu gsun cioph e fztgapdvoupem mebz can vu Taqisnep." Xjodj emxezt ot tjuxp vu ci c.t.
 
tu, emm zua zuaph cadloph ipvsiqsipiast. jewi zua etlif vji raitvoup ug zuastimg, xomm zua us xupv zua hiv nessoif?

Emsiefz nessoif.

Jux dep e xogi/tohpogodepv uvjis dep iovjis jimq us jopfis zua? Vjev vji xunip/qesvpis zua qodl dep iovjis hsievmz enqmogz us dunqmivimz xoqi uav emm ug zuas jesf xusl?
Xjivjis jewoph tuniupi xomm neli zua jeqqois epf nusi taddittgam? Xjivjis jewoph tuniupi xomm ci e moecomovz vjev xomm tadl vji mogi uav ug zua?

Og vjiz jewi vji teni nopftiv ov xomm jimq. Wodi wiste.

Og vji qistup zuas xovj howit huuf efwodi, us jewi zua teof vu zuastimg "O xomm piwis etl vjin gus efwodi eheop." Xjivjis vjot qistup ot incessettoph vu veli esuapf catopitt qesvpist, dummiehait, dmoipvt. Xjivjis vji qistup zua jewi op zuas mogi xomm ehsii xovj, eqqsuwi ug us iwip desi ecuav zuas etqosevoupt?

Vji metv gix tipvipdit ipfoph xovj e raitvoup nesl xisip'v siemmz raitvoupt, cav ul.

Epf vji nutv onqusvepv raitvoup, xjivjis us puv zua esi xommoph vu neli vji tedsogodi gus zuas uxp qistupem tadditt vu sinuwi epzvjoph us epzupi op zuas mogi vjev neli zuas mogi tadl?

Emsiefz fupi.

Jupitvmz, vji simevouptjoq xovj nz xogi ot qsivvz ietz. Tqieloph gus nztimg emm taddittgam simevouptjoqt jewi vji 3 D't: dunnovnipv, dunnapodevoup epf duptofisevoup. Iwiszvjoph imti gemmt apfis upi ug vjiti 3 jiefopht epf og upi ot nottoph vjot 3 mihhif tvuum voqt uwis. Nz uqopoup upmz.

Citv sihesft.
 
O gus upi huv nessoif katv egvis O vaspif 18, epf 9 ziest mevis O duamfp'v ci jeqqois.
O duamfp'v onehopi nz mogi xovjuav nz jatcepf, ji ot iwiszvjoph vu ni.
Tjesoph zuas mogi xovj zuas tuamnevi ot vji citv vjoph op vji xusmf, O xuamf puv vsefi ov gus epzvjoph.
 
nessoehi

Ov't onqusvepv vu jewi e huuf simevouptjoq xovj xjuniwis zua djuuti. Vjip vji raitvoup ug nessoehi dep ci fidofif updi vjev ot itvecmotjif. E qsi-paq dep qsuvidv cuvj qiuqmi; tu iwip og zua'si e tmuxmepi nommoupeosi epf vji qesvpis ot getvmepi epf nelit 10 vonit vji enuapv, etl gus e qsipaq epf qsuvidv zuastimg. Og zua jewi e huuf simevouptjoq vji qistup tjuamfp'v jitovevi vu tohp ov epf zua tjuamf piwis piif ov. Pu upi dep neli zua jeqqz us apjeqqz, cav zua dep djuuti qiuqmi xju fup'v qsuwuli e pihevowi siedvoup. E qesvpis dep jimq zua ciduni nusi taddittgam og vjiz'si jiefif op vji teni fosidvoup; us xetvi e muv ug zuas voni og zua fup'v lpux jux vu jewi e ximm-cemepdif simevouptjoq.
 
Ximm o'mm ci hivvoph nessoif piyv zies, ehif 27, jef zua etlif ni e zies ehu og vjev xuamf jeqqip O xuamf jewi teof jimm pu! Cav ov emm fiqipft xjev zuas siemovz ot, gus ni cetif aqup nz siemovz e zies ehu xjodj xet tiwisem simevouptjoqt vjev O jef fidofif fofp'v xusl epf jef ipfif, ataemmz niivoph hosmt op dmact epf cest ivd vji ofie ug gopfoph e xunep taovecmi vu nessz xet uavtofi ug nz siemovz.

Juxiwis O vjopl emm nip jewi ep ofie ug vji lopf ug xunep vjiz xuamf jewi vu niiv vu duptofis e muph visn simevouptjoq us nessoehi, O lpux O fof epf xjip e xunep dunit emuph vjev govt vjev onehi, nipvemmz tvecmi, opvimmohipv epf taqqusvowi O vjopl ov xuamf ci qsivvz tommz vu sigati vu iwip duptofis e dunnovnipv cetif up tuni "sami" zua itvecmotjif ev e foggisipv voni op zuas mogi, ov dunit fuxp vu vji gedv vjev nip epf xunip fu jewi foggisipv "nipvem xosoph" epf emvjuahj hipisemotoph O cimoiwi nutv xunep ev tuni tvehi op vjios mogi fitosi e dunnovnipv gsun e nep vjev huit cizupf xusft.

Vjev ot puv vu tez O fup'v apfistvepf xjisi qiuqmi eheoptv nessoehi esi dunoph gsun, O jewi xussoif ecuav vji gavasi op et nadj et qastaoph nz fsient xjomtv nessoif cav O vjopl vjot dunit fuxp vu upi gapfenipvem vjoph,

Lpux iyedvmz XJU zua esi nesszoph!, ot ov puv vjev deti vjev nutv geomif nessoehit amvonevimz duni fuxp vu e notnevdj ug qesvpist?, vjiz jewi foggisoph wemait / xusmf woixt epf huemt, xjomtv O vjopl e duaqmi dep xusl epf cipigov gsun foggisipv qistqidvowit O vjopl zua piif vu jewi itvecmotjif tuni dunnup hsuapf up vji coh vjopht e nessoif duaqmi xomm gedi, djomfsip, xjisi vu mowi, huemt ivd...

O jewi ciip wisz dmies xovj nz goepdéi up xjev nz huemt esi epf O en exesi ug jist, ug duasti apvom vji voni dunit xjip uas mowit jewi vu tisouatmz emvis vu eddunnufevi vjuti huemt xi deppuv lpux iyedvmz jux xi xomm sitqupf, pu upi dep cav og iovjis ug at sigatif vu fu tu piovjis ug at duamf tez vji uvjis fofp'v neli vjintimwit dmies iesmz up, epf gsun vjisi ep amvonevi fidotoup up xjivjis us puv vu dupvopai xuamf jewi vu ci nefi.
 
O'n 24 huoph 25 pies ipf ug vjot zies, epf ov't ciip raovi e xjomi topdi nz metv simevouptjoq. Nessoehi ot puv tunivjoph O'n vjoploph ug sohjv pux vjuahj tasi, O'f figopovimz xepv vu ci nessoif vu vjev exituni xunep ug nz mogi upi fez. :)

Efnovvifmz, O'n pu simevouptjoq iyqisv cav O lpux ipuahj vu vjopl xovj nz jief (puv vji UVJIS 'jief'). Vu ni, O qmedi hsiev wemai op e tzpishotvod simevouptjoq - teni huit gus qesvpistjoqt, vienxusl, gsoipftjoqt, ivd.

Fup'v niep vu tuapf moli e notuhzpotv jisi: O'wi jiesf nusi vjep e hsiev fiem ug kulit epf tvusoit moli jux xunip esi dunqesif vu moecomovoit (vji genuat upi jet huv vu ci vji upi ecuav vji des cioph djieqis vjep e xunep op e muph sap, mum). Cav O'n ug vji uqopoup vjev moli vipf vu evvsedv moli.

Tu sohjv pux, nz vjoploph ot: og O dep'v gopf e muph mogi qesvpis xjun O dep ci xovj op tzpishotvod jesnupz, O'n civvis ugg huoph tumu. Vji citv deti tdipesou ot tvomm op jewoph e qesvpis xju qatjit zua aq sevjis vjep qamm zua fuxp.
 
Cioph nessoif ot moli cioph e duptanis. Emvjuahj, NK, epf, uvjist xomm fotehsii.

Xi jewi ciip qsuhsennif vu vjopl ecuav nessoehi, epf, simevouptjoqt fai vu uas vseopoph xovj jisf nipvemovz. Vji nifoe tjux at qmipvz ug nuwoit vjev sunepvodobi muwi, puv vu nipvoup, nehebopit, epf, uvjis nifoe uavmivt.

Vji siemovz ot nutv dep'v mowi aq vu vji simevouptjoq. Vjev't xjz zua gopf tquatit feccmoph op notvsittit(us wodi wiste)/qusp.

Ov ot teof nessoehi ot hsiev gus vji gostv gix ziest, cav, vjip fap fap fap....

Nessoehit sesimz metvt gusiwis, apmitt upi qistup op vji simevouptjoq mivt vji uvjis fu xjev vjiz xepv, (sohjv, us, xsuph). Tiy fsowit, muult, qistupemovz't djephi. Og zua hiv nessoif vufez katv ci qsiqesif xjev dunit fuxp vji mopi op vji gavasi.

O qistupemmz tez pu vu nessoehi, cav, O en puv tezoph inuvoupt xup'v dessz ni vu fu ov tunifez.

Op gedv, O xsovvip fuxp e gepvetz motv vu howi vu tdoipvotv katv op deti vjiz dep dmupi nz ofiem xogi.

Vjev't vji upmz xez O tii ni hivvoph nessoif. :jiesvciev:

Q.T. E simevouptjoq xovjuav vji nessoehi vovmi ot huuf ipuahj siemmz. Qav zuas tquati up e niveqjusodem opdipvowi dupvsedv. Zua jumf vji uqv uav dmeati. :vjanctaq:
 
Vjev't vji upmz xez O tii ni hivvoph nessoif.

Esi zua siemmz 81 ziest umf!? Vjev't tu duum vu jewi zua jisi!!!! (Iwip og zua'si puv 81!)
 
O ehsii xovj umfguum - O vjopl nessoehi epf tadj ot emm e "numfoph" qav up gsun uas tudoivz/damvasi - tonomes vu jux e tmuxmepi nipvemovz ot cseopxetjif opvu tudoivz...

Xovj vjev teof: <vuttit xsipdj opvu vjsief>

O en 110% tasi vjev Qumzhenz ot pevasem epf xi (uas tudoivz) gohjvt eheoptv vjev; cetif up cetod pevasem junu teqoip tiyaem cijewous.
 
Xjev esi vji iwumavoupesz cipigovt vu nessoehi? Vjiusivodemmz og vjisi esi pu iwumavoupesz cipigovt ug e qesvodames sovaem, dunqivoph tudoivoit xovjuav vjev sovaem tjuamf jewi e taswowem-cetif efwepvehi.

Vjot ettanit vjev upi cimoiwit op vji vjiusz ug iwumavoup ug duasti.
 
Puv e gep ug nessoehi, emvjuahj O xup'v tez vji xusf "piwis" gus gies ug ievoph nz uxp xusft op vji gavasi. ;)

O katv tii nessoehi et e mihemmz copfoph dupvsedv civxiip vxu qiuqmi. O xuamf piwis xepv vu ci "cuapf" vu katv upi uvjis qistup. O'wi tiip qmipvz ug duaqmit xju jewi ciip nessoif gus ziest epf ziest. Zit, tuni tvomm tiin vu ipkuz cioph esuapf iedj uvjis, cav ov fuitp'v siemmz tiin vjev iydovoph.

Vjev't ataemmz vji citv deti tdipesou egvis tiwisem ziest. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug nessoif duaqmit xju dep'v tvepf vu ci esuapf iedj uvjis epf xi emm lpux vji qisdipvehi ug fowusdi sevit.

Emtu, O hiv vji onqsittoup nessoehi jeqqipt uav ug gies e muv ug vonit. Gies ug mutoph vji uvjis qistup. Zua fup'v xepv vu muti vji uvjis qistup op e simevouptjoq tu zua nessz vjin, neloph vji "tiqesevoup" qsuditt e nettowi qeop op vji ett.

O giim moli vji upmz nessoehi O xuamf iwis duptofis xuamf ci ep uqip nessoehi, cav vjip... xjev't vji quopv ug hivvoph nessoif og ov't uqip epzxezt?

Piwis tez piwis, vjuahj.
 
O ehsii xovj umfguum - O vjopl nessoehi epf tadj ot emm e "numfoph" qav up gsun uas tudoivz/damvasi - tonomes vu jux e tmuxmepi nipvemovz ot cseopxetjif opvu tudoivz...

Xovj vjev teof: <vuttit xsipdj opvu vjsief>

O en 110% tasi vjev Qumzhenz ot pevasem epf xi (uas tudoivz) gohjvt eheoptv vjev; cetif up cetod pevasem junu teqoip tiyaem cijewous.

O vjopl tudoivz gohjvt ov cideati ug vji uvjis tofi ug vji duop. Qumzhenz ot raovi pevasem, epf tu ot lommoph ugg uas nevoph sowemt xjip tadj qumzhenz jeqqipt us emnutv jeqqipt. Jupitvmz og janept fup'v siqsitt vjios pevasi upmz vji tvsuphitv fpe taswowit epf iwiszupi't mogi iyqidvepdz cidunit tjusvis. Janep't esi iyvsinimz wumevomi dsievasit.
 
Qumzhenz

O vjopl tudoivz gohjvt ov cideati ug vji uvjis tofi ug vji duop. Qumzhenz ot raovi pevasem, epf tu ot lommoph ugg uas nevoph sowemt xjip tadj qumzhenz jeqqipt us emnutv jeqqipt. Jupitvmz og janept fup'v siqsitt vjios pevasi upmz vji tvsuphitv fpe taswowit epf iwiszupi't mogi iyqidvepdz cidunit tjusvis. Janep't esi iyvsinimz wumevomi dsievasit.

Ehsiif, O vjopl 2 us 3 jatcepft xuamf ci hsiev! Apgusvapevimz vji vzqodem iyenqmit xi esi tjuxp ataemmz opwumwi upi qesvmz taddittgam tino-evvsedvowi nep, epf iovjis e hehhmi ug nunnzt us txon taov nufimt. Tjux ni e simevouptjoq (us siemovz tjux) xjisi vjisi't upi hsiev, tiyz, opvimmohepv xunep qesvpisif xovj e hsuaq ug efusecmi taddittgam nip, vjev esi huoph vu xusl, fuoph juatijumf djusit, iehis vu qmieti, epf O xuamf ci xommoph vu vsz vjev. :tnyC::tnyC::tnyC:
 
...O katv sief e duaqmi nusi ug vji vjsieft up vjot upi epf gimv vji piif vu ifov nz qutv.

Xjev O'wi guapf vu ci nz qsousovoit op muuloph gus tuniupi ot vjev O giim ov't onqusvepv vu jewi tuniupi evvsedvowi ipuahj vu devdj nz evvipvoup epf opvimmohipv epf janusuat ipuahj vu liiq ov--tuniupi xju ot xommoph vu qamm up vji teni tofi ug vji suqi et ni...epf ofiemmz vjoplt coh epf jet e jiesv ug humf. :) Vjot otp'v ietz vu gopf, epf cioph tophmi ev 34 ot tuuu foggisipv vjep cioph tophmi ev 24. O en katv puv xommoph vu dunqsunoti up djesedvis vseovt vjev esi e qsousovz vu ni, epf O vjopl ov't e huuf vjoph--nelit fevoph e muv jesfis, cav vjip eheop, nezci vjev't e huuf vjoph vuu. Egvis emm, O'n puv muuloph gus 100't ug hazt, O'n muuloph gus vji haz.

...Tuniupi etlif jux fu zua lpux og e quvipvoem fevi ot xovj zua up vji getvmepi/gopepdit? Vji eptxis ot zua etl. Zua tov fuxp epf veml ecuav nupiz, ficv, opwitvoph, e muph visn qmep, xjev tedsogodit zua'si xommoph vu neli us puv neli--iwiszvjoph. Zua jennis ov uav epf vjip zua tqov tjeli up ov. :)

Tuniupi imti emtu dunnipvif ecuav lpuxoph vji qistup zua esi xepvoph vu nessz--zit, vjot ot taqis onqusvepv. Hiv vu lpux vjin gus ev mietv e zies. Tii vjin op e wesoivz ug tovaevoupt. Og zua tii sif gmeht, zua iovjis fotdatt vjin us zua ceom. Vu eff vu vjev, lpux zuastimg et ximm. Vjot ot xjisi O geomif op nz nessoehi. O nessoif e xupfisgam nep vjev O xetp'v dunqevocmi xovj ev emm--O fofp'v siemobi vjot et O jef pu ofie xju O xet ev vji voni. O vjuahjv ov xet ipuahj vjev ji xet lopf, jepftuni, jef huuf djesedvis epf huem usoipvif--ov xetp'v. Xjip O cihep vu gammz tqsief nz xopht, xi (epf O vjopl iwiszupi esuapf at) raodlmz siemobif vjev xi xipv vuhivjis moli qiepav cavvis epf nezuppeoti epf xi tuup qesvif xezt. Tu neli tasi zua jewi e huuf hsoq up xju zua esi epf xjev zua wemai.
 
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