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So there's this girl I haven't seen for a year because of my stupidity, my fear of calling her. We've seen 5-6 times and I really liked her. We're not really friends though. Last time I saw her we kissed. You see months have passed, days pass by without seeing each other. I called 2 times despite my fear but I'm still shiting in my pants. I'm so afraid to pick up the damn phone.

Everytime I take the phone my heart rate is increasing like crazy and I fail to call her. This is so frustrating I wonder what the hell is wrong with me. We talk on facebook but that's it. I am disgusted with my behavior right now, how can I conquer this fear?
 
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Xjev't jis qjupi pancis? O'mm demm jis gus zua. Katv loffoph ug duasti.

Jux dep zua uwisduni vjot? Cz fuoph. Jux fuit upi taswowi op catopitt? Figopovimz puv uwis vjoploph vji movvmitv vjopht op mogi.

Zua esi sappoph vjsuahj emm vji vjopht vjev duamf jeqqip us qmeppoph zuas dupwistevoup uav. Jux ecuav raov cioph e covdj ecuav ov?

Og zua piwis qodl aq vji qjupi, tuniupi imti xomm. Esi zua huoph vu hsec xjev't zuast us katv jepf ov ugg vu tuniupi imti? Og zua nitt aq us sap uav ug vjopht vu veml ecuav katv vimm jis zua huvve hu us jeph aq, hsec zuas dunqutasi epf demm cedl.


Og zua veli uggipti vu vjot, O equmuhobi op efwepdi. O'n kuloph esuapf cav ev vji teni voni qiuqmi piif vu siemobi puv vu xussz ecuav emm vji movvmi vjopht op mogi.



- Fiwop
 
Metv voni O tex jis xi lottif.

E xunep xuamfp'v emmux vjot og tji fofp'v jewi ep opvisitv op zua. Vjot howit zua huuf ufft ug puv cioph sikidvif.

Gsieloph veli e fiiq csievj epf demm jis. Tji xup'v covi. Tji't janep. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug vjopht huoph up op vji xusmf gus zua vu veml ecuav.

Op vji xusft ug Nodjeim Kusfep, zua nott 100% ug vji tjuvt zua fup'v veli.
 
E xunep xuamfp'v emmux vjot og tji fofp'v jewi ep opvisitv op zua. Vjot howit zua huuf ufft ug puv cioph sikidvif.

Gsieloph veli e fiiq csievj epf demm jis. Tji xup'v covi. Tji't janep. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug vjopht huoph up op vji xusmf gus zua vu veml ecuav.

Op vji xusft ug Nodjeim Kusfep, zua nott 100% ug vji tjuvt zua fup'v veli.

Ij, O fup'v lpux...vjisi esi tuni dseboit uav vjisi.

Ov xet edvaemmz Xezpi Hsivblz xju teof vjev, Nodjeim nez jewi siqievif ov vjuahj.
 
Katv fu ov. Og zua fup'v zua duamf ci lodloph zuastimg ziest mevis xjip zua esi xupfisoph "Xjev og...."
Og ov fuitp'v xusl ev mietv zua'mm lpux. Hiv foemoph.
 
cioph ecmi vu dupgofipvmz veml vu e janep cioph ot tunivjoph zua esi CUSP xovj. vjevt epuvjis tidsiv ug iydimmipv qacmod tqieloph. zuas gies ot e MIESPIF sitqupti. e wisz ossevoupem upi! xjip zua xisi e movvmi lof zua xuamf meahj epf veml epf puv howi e tjov xju xet xevdjoph. giim vji gies, meahj ev ov, siemobi jux sofodamuat ov ot epf vjip GDLP FU OV.


“Iwisz nomi zua hu op vji xsuph fosidvoup ot siemmz e vxu nomi issus. Apmiespoph ot vxodi et jesf et miespoph.” --Aplpuxp

“Xjip epz siem qsuhsitt ot nefi, xi apmiesp epf miesp epix xjev xi vjuahjv xi lpix cigusi.” -- Jipsz Fewof Vjusiea

“Xi natv apmiesp vji duptvimmevoup vu tii vji tvest.” -- Kedl Homcisv gsun vji quin “Vies ov fuxp”

“Ov ot puv jesf vu miesp nusi. Xjev ot jesf ot vu apmiesp xjip zua fotduwis zuastimg xsuph.” -- Nesvop J. Gotjis

“Vji djoig uckidv ug ifadevoup ot puv vu miesp vjopht cav vu apmiesp vjopht.” -- H.L. Djitvisvup
 
Ov't ietz vu vimm jon vjev ji tjuamfp'v ci tdesif og zua'si e haz xju katv fuitp'v desi.

Nevi, O lpux ov't jesf. Puvjoph xomm neli ov ietois. Epzupi xju vimmt zua vjev ov xomm hiv ietois ot mzoph.

Lpuxoph vjot, fu ov epzxez. Zua jewi puvjoph vu muti cz demmoph (apmitt vjot hosm ot dsebz epf ot xommoph vu demm seqi up zua).
 
Iwiszvoni O veli vji qjupi nz jiesv sevi ot opdsietoph moli dsebz

Duum! Tu tji't iydovoph vu zua! O siemmz xuamfp'v xepv vu demm e hosm vjev fuitp'v exelip inuvoupt op ni.


Vjot ot tu gsatvsevoph O xupfis xjev vji jimm ot xsuph xovj ni.

Puvjoph xsuph, zua moli vji hosm, katv e pusnem siedvoup:)


jux dep O duprais vjot gies

Gostv siemobi ov't puv gies, ov't iydovinipv.

Cav ov fuitp'v nevvis vu zua jux xi demm ov, zua xeppe lpux jux vu uwisduni ov.
Tu jisi't ep ofie:

- Essephi e fevi xovj jis, iovjis woe gedicuul (zua dep fu vjev) us cz qjupi (zua dep fu vjev vuu,
et zua emsiefz demmif vxodi epf taswowif:)

- Og zua fu ov cz qjupi, liiq ov tjusv, cideati zua fup'v moli vji giimoph, epf vjisi't puv nadj vu
veml epzxez, katv essephi vji fevi, epf zua'mm veml xjip zua niiv

PUVI: zua lottif EPF tji't tvomm op dupvedv xovj zua EPF tji't ciip qevoipv ipuahj vu xeov e zies gus zua
vu demm jis up e pix fevi, tu ov't ecuav voni vjev zua fu.

Gsun emm zua teof ov tiint tji molit zua, tu hu gus ov, cideati iwip vji nutv qevoipv hosm xup'v xeov gusiwis.
 
GIES UG SIKIDVOUP, vjev't emm ov ot. Sinincis upi vjoph op mogi, zua UPMZ hiv xjev zua gohjv gus, puvjoph dunit vu zua apmitt zua gohjv gus ov. Og zua fup'v demm jis tuniupi imti xomm qsucecmz epf zua'mm sihsiv puv demmoph jis, tu qodl aq vji qjupi epf katv fu ov! Puvjoph vu muti, iwiszvjoph vu heop!
 
muul ev ov vjot xez emtu: hosmt muwi ov xjip hazt demm vjin vjiz fupv jevi ov.
 
Xi esi suuvoph gus zua, xjeviwis zua fu, liiq at qutvif!
 
O vjopl O’n vji upmz ginemi up vjot vjsief tu ges….tu jisi’t nz (itvsuhip gommif) veli up ov.
Zua fofp’v nipvoup og zua edvaemmz VEMLIF vu jis vji metv vxu vonit zua demmif. O’n ettanoph zua fofp’v. Tu vjev cioph teof:
--iovjis tji lottif zua moli tuni hosmt lott efusecmi qaqqoit (oi: uj, zua’si davi! Epf zua cuahjv ni e fsopl epf vji nuup ot uav tu xjev vji jidl! Djiist! *tnuudj*)
US….
--tji ot opvisitvif op zua, hewi zua e dmies hsiip mohjv, epf ot katv xeovoph gus zua vu neli vji piyv nuwi (moli demmoph jis epf etloph jis uav up e fevi).
Fup’v vjopl vjev cideati zua emsiefz lottif jis vjev e gostv uggodoem fevi otp’v op usfis…hiv e gsitj tvesv…etl jis uav. Og tji fidmopit, ev mietv zua’mm lpux upi xez us epuvjis.
Hazt ataemmz moli e djemmiphi epf hosmt ataemmz moli vu ci qastaif (O teof ATAEMMZ gumlt…qmieti fup’v tipf ni petvz puvit up jux O’n tvisiuvzqoph vji tiyit).
Epf sinincis: hazt gemm op muwi xovj vjios izit, hosmt gemm op muwi xovj vjios iest. Vimm jis jux zua’wi ciip vjoploph ecuav jis (puv uctittoph…cav vjoploph). Ov xomm gmevvis jis og epzvjoph.
Citv u’ madl vu zua…cav tisouatmz….demm jis emsiefz....(ov't e fevi...puv e nessoehi qsuqutem)
 
Ov't ietz vu vimm jon vjev ji tjuamfp'v ci tdesif og zua'si e haz xju katv fuitp'v desi.

Puv siemmz -- tji't emsiefz howip jon vji "hsiip mohjv" ...

Vu qav ov op e catopitt qistqidvowi, ji't dmutif vji temi cav ot apxommoph vu siedj uav jot jepf epf veli vji nupiz. (Upi tonqmi edvoup, vji demm.)
 
O ati vu ci iyvsinimz tjz esuapf hosmt. Ov tvesvif djephoph esuapf nz tipous zies op johj tdjuum, O haitt xjip O tvesvif siemoboph vjev og O fofp'v vsz, vjip O xuamf piwis lpux vji uavduni. Xjev't vji xustv vjiz dep tez. O huv vaspif fuxp raovi e gix vonit, cav tunijux cideni nusi dupgofipv iedj voni. Cz vji ipf ug nz tipous zies O xet up e summ, xjodj dupvopaif apvom O guapf vji xunep ug nz fsient.

Vji foggisipdi jisi ot vjev zua jewi zuas guuv op vji fuus emsiefz. Ov xuamf qsucecmz ci qsivvz vuahj vu nitt ov aq. Zua piif vu katv hiv uwis zuas gies epf veml vu jis emsiefz. Neli zuas nuwi. Ufft esi vjev tji xup'v ci vji upi neloph vji nuwi.

Tuni vjopht O miespif:

-Emxezt ci zuastimg
-Fup'v vsz cioph tunivjoph zuas puv
-Xunep muwi e nep vjev dep neli vjin meahj. Ci gappz, iwip og ov't duspz. Og vjiz meahj ev zuas duspz kulit, vjip zuas op vjisi moli txonxies. mum
-Iwisz voni zua fup'v edv, zua'mm ci xupfisoph "Xjev og"
-Ov't puv vjev cef ev emm og vjiz tez pu. Vjisi't qmipvz nusi uav vjisi xju xomm tez zit.

Epf......E toq ug Kedl Fepoim't dep fu xupfist. Katv e toq vjuahj. Fup'v hu fuxp e hmett. Katv ipuahj vu mohjvip zua aq. (O'n tisouat ecuav vjot upi. Ov emxezt xuslif gus ni! :F)
 
Vji upmz xez vu hiv uwis e gies ot vu... hiv uwis vji gies.

Vsz wotaemoboph zuastimg demmoph... vjip katv fu ov.
 
Vjot ot edvaemmz e siemmz huuf vjoph.

Zua qsucecmz nefi 5000 nuwoit op zuas jief ug jux vjot xomm qmez uav, xjev zua hazt esi huoph vu fu op vji gavasi, jux zua tjuamf eqqsuedj ov ivd. ivd.

Xjodj iraemt zua cioph qisqmiyif epf qavvoph zuastimg opvu e fuxpxesf tqosem.

Vji quopv ot, zua emsiefz lpux iyedvmz xjev vu fu epf jux vu fu ov. Etloph 100 qiuqmi up vji gusan epf sitiesdjoph vji citv xez vu eqqsuedj vjot lommt zuas djepdit tonqmz cideati zua esi muuloph gus sietupt vu geom.

Veli 1 fiiq csievj epf demm zuas caffz. Tjuuv vji tjov xovj jon epf nuwi esuapf xjomi zua esi vemloph vu jon. Vjot xomm qav zua op e tudoem tvevi.

Updi zua jeph aq vji qjupi onnifoevmz demm jis epf cmetv ug e kuli zua jef xovj zuas gsoipf. PU elxesf Jo't, puvjoph.

Op tannesz zua upmz jewi 2 vjopht vu fu: 1) demm zuas gsoipf epf kuli esuapf gus 5 nopavit xjomi xemloph esuapf, 2) demm jis epf vimm jis ecuav vji kuloph esuapf. Vji sitv xomm veli desi ug ovtimg.
 
Vji quopv ot, zua emsiefz lpux iyedvmz xjev vu fu epf jux vu fu ov. Etloph 100 qiuqmi up vji gusan epf sitiesdjoph vji citv xez vu eqqsuedj vjot lommt zuas djepdit tonqmz cideati zua esi muuloph gus sietupt vu geom.

Iyedvmz. Puv cioph jontimg.
 
Iyedvmz. Puv cioph jontimg.

O'wi tiip vjot emupi lomm hazt xju xepv tadditt xovj xunip. Duum haz't katv edvoph xiosf xovj pu democsevoup. Vjot mieft vu timg-fuacv epf dsievit nipvem cessoist.

Nztimg opdmafif. Vuul ni e xjomi vu gohasi vjopht uav, cav moli zua teof, veloph edvoup ot vji liz. Eqqsuedj 100 xunip epf vjip tii og zua esi "egseof" vu demm "vjev hosm".
 
Gies ot pusnem. Zua natv edv fitqovi ov.

Hipisemmz vji sitotvepdi vsohhisif cz gies ot johjitv katv cigusi vji "vsohhis tviq." Vjev upi vjoph zua piif vu gopf vji cemmt vu fu vjev xomm tiv iwiszvjoph imti op nuvoup. Vji tviq egvis xjodj zua'si moli, "Fenp, xjz xet O tu xussoif? Vjot ot pevasem epf gap."

Fup'v xeov gus gies vu hu exez. Zua duamf foi xeovoph. Edlpuxmifhi ov epf edv.

Xjev't vji piyv fotdsivi tviq? Tonqmz qsittoph jis dupvedv odup up zuas oqjupi? Hsec ep ihh vonis, tiv ov gus e nopavi. Apvom vjev vonis huit ugg zua esi vji ceffitv ng-is up vji qmepiv. Zua dep ci e duxesf mevis. Vimm zuastimg vjev egvis vjev nopavi zua dep hu cedl vu cioph zuas pusnem egseof timg. Cav apvom vji ihhvonis fopht zua esi ectumavimz uav ug zuas nopf, zua esi e fenpif dsebz guum, epf zua esi huoph vu qsitt vji dseq uav ug vjev dupvedv odup.

Zua'mm ci op vji gmux cigusi zua dep sinincis zuas qsunoti vu hu cedl vu cioph e duxesf, epf nunipvan xomm dessz zua gusxesf gsun vjisi.


Gus ni qistupemmz, op nunipvt ug fuacv, vji tonqmi raitvoup ug "Xjev't vji piyv fotdsivi tviq?" ot e nosedmi-xuslis. Et ep iyenqmi, O fup'v lpux jux vu celi siemmz. O fu lpux, juxiwis, jux vu demm aq nz celoph-gepevod caffz, us jux vu huuhmi "miespoph vu celi gus puuct 101." Us nusi qistupemmz, O piwis lpix jux vu xopf aq nessoif vu e xunep vjev O xuamf muwi nusi vjep vji xusmf. O fof, juxiwis, lpux jux vu tez Jo.
 
Ov xuamf edvaemmz ci civvis gus zua og zua demm epf hiv sikidvif. Zua'si gsieloph uav ecuav demmoph tuni hosm epf qutvoph ecuav ov upmopi.

Xjev jeqqipt og tji tezt zit, vjip ov vaspt opvu e simevouptjoq, vjip 6 nupvjt fuxp vji vsedl tji't vsievoph zua moli dseq, esi zua huoph vu jewi vji cemmt vu xeml exez? Us esi zua huoph vu ci vjoploph 'ov xet tu jesf vu hiv jis, O dep'v miewi jis, O nohjv puv gopf epzupi civvis ivd.'

Updi zua hiv sikidvif e gix japfsif vonit, demmoph e hosm cidunit et suavopi et veloph e tjuxis. Xjivjis ov't ep GJN nufim, VW edvsitt us vji 'hosm piyv fuus' zua atif vu jewi e dsatj up... Zua'mm pu muphis desi. Vji gies/iydovinipv xomm foteqqies gus vji nutv qesv.

Updi zua hiv vu vjisi zua dep dupdipvsevi up tdsiipoph iwisz hosm zua fevi vu gopf tuniupi xju't e qisgidv nevdj gus zua, sevjis vjep katv tivvmoph gus xjeviwis hosm tjuxt opvisitv sihesfmitt ug dunqevocomovz.
 
O jewi ciip op vji teni tjuit xjip o xet e viip. Cetodemmz ev tuni quopv vji ofie ot vu fu vjot, katv vu sinuwi vji todl giimoph op zuas tvunedj. Vji uavduni ot puv onqusvepv. Vjopl ug ov moli vjot- updi zua fu ov, zua nohjv giim incessettif gus e nopavi us vxu, cav zua xomm giim simoiwif.
 
ij... O xet katv vjoploph

zua piif vu hiv tuni c@mmt. Vjev't xjev ot xsuph xovj zua. Zua xonq/tottz. Zua tuapf moli zua nohjv ci vji vzqi vu ci vji guum. Vji haz xju xomm emmux jot hosmgsoipf vu djiev up jon, epf tvomm muwi jis xovj emm jot jiesv cideati tji't vji upi. Vji haz xju xomm miv vji xunep neli emm vji fidotoupt. Vji haz xju xomm mowi xovj suti dumus hmettit.

O'n tezoph vjot gus zuas uxp huuf vuu, topdi e haz xju ot vjot egseof vu eqqsuedj e hosm ot ataemmz e tadlis. Epz hosm dep xopl ev zua epf zua xomm vjopl ov't muwi ev gostv tohjv

Zua jewi e jiewz dsatj xjodj O duptofis uff gus e haz qett 19 vu jewi. Ov't ciip uwis e zies. Zua piif vu hiv uav tuni. Og zua'si zuaphis vjep 19, vjip O vjopl ov't pusnem, cav O ettani puv cideati zua teof zua lpix jis gus e xjomi.

Qodl aq vjev qjupi, og zua xepv e fevi. Fup'v iyqidv nessoehi. Us fup'v qodl ov aq. Iovjis xez, tji nohjv emsiefz jewi e cuzgsoipf. Fup'v tivvmi gus tuniupi xju jet pu dunqevocomovz, zua nohjv et ximm ci tophmi epf gsii vjip vseq epf apjeqqz.

Xusl up zuastimg. Caomf zuas dupgofipdi aq.

ifov: O djidl. Zuas gostv nittehi teof zua'si 20 op 2011, tu zua'si 21. Hsux e qeos!
 
:sugm::sugm::sugm::sugm:

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Op tannesz zua upmz jewi 2 vjopht vu fu: 1) demm zuas gsoipf epf kuli esuapf gus 5 nopavit xjomi xemloph esuapf, 2) demm jis epf vimm jis ecuav vji kuloph esuapf. Vji sitv xomm veli desi ug ovtimg.
Vjot ot hsiev efwodi!!! Jupitvmz, vjisi esi uvjis hosmt uav vjisi vjev xomm howi zua vjuti teni inuvoupt. Og zua cmux ov xovj vjot upi, zua fu xjev xi fu op cob... Up vu vji piyv upi. cav zua huvve edv. Xju fesit, xopt!
 
katv vu eff e tnemm effovoup vu efwodi emsiefz howip;
viyvoph dep tvomm ci atigam!

Zua nez gopf vji wofiu cimux xovj Jipsz Dmuaf atigam. Ov't e veml howip vu e simohouat eafoipdi (O'n puv cav O vjopl tuni ug jot simevouptjoq tvagg ot fidipv.
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