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How did you have "Crohn's disease in middle school"? Like MS, it doesn't ever go away.

It can be in remission and it's affected so much by diet. I have a severe case, so even when I'm in remission I eat the same meals every day and pay extra attention to my stress levels. I also do extensive blood panels every few months to check how I'm doing and optimize if anything is out of whack.

Something that people without chronic autoimmune disorders find difficult to understand is that our capacity to work is extremely diminished. The slightest twinge in cortisol levels after a few hours of work can (and will) lead to higher inflammation, and, ultimately, to further degradation of your health.

Worse health leads to even less time being productive (and not to mention a dreadful quality of life). That's why it's so important to free up your time while still finding a way to earn a living.

After a lot of trial and error, I eventually did just that with copywriting. I work about an hour per day on average but provide a lot of value to my clients (through ad copy and email marketing copy mostly) for which I charge an amount that, if looked at as an hourly rate, would be around $200/h.

Read this: https://www.freshbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/breaking-the-time-barrier.pdf

It'll only take you about 30 minutes or so and the mind shift change you'll go through will make your goals seem a lot less intimidating and doable.

Also, this is not aimed to be a defeatist message by any means. As long as you're kicking, you can achieve anything you set your mind to.

There's a guy that started and scaled an online business to 7 figures while almost fully paralyzed by just using his voice. And his story was very dramatic and unlucky:

7 Life Lessons from a Guy Who Can’t Move Anything but His Face
You are correct. I was diagnosed with Crohns disease, took some steroids (Prednisone), given a pamphlet, had home schooling until the pain in my right side at least stopped me from rocking with pain....but I assumed that I had "managed" my Crohns and went back to my "normal" life. I ignored commercials, paid a few seconds attention to gut health and said "Yeah, I should care about my gut"...then moved on.

MS has been the first "disease" that has caused me to start listening to my body, my gut, and everything. I am just starting down this road, to be honest.

As far as the cortisol levels, my life has always been stressful. (I grew up a low-income skinny nerdy Black kid trying to 'make it" who didn't graduate with Bachelor's degree and ate highly processed food!)....but at the same time, I've always cultivated things like meditation, writing, etc.......

I didn't know that cortisol had such an impact on work. I've worked throughout my MS progression (and apparently my Crohns disease as well).

I am still figuring this all out, however...so it'll take me some time to figure out where to go from here. I've only (like just last week), cut out processed food after I realized I could not go on like this...and started tracking (that includes tracking food, poop, symptoms, etc). I have not had a blood test in a few months (my Mother passed and I had to move out of my old apartment to a new city....that is stressful by itself), but I appreciate your wisdom. For now, I will continue my current routine, but will start incorporating some of your insights to bring more calm

Action Items:
  • Read "Breaking Time Barrier"
  • Review Jon Morrow's story-I know him from my blogging days
  • Continue tracking & get set up with doctor where I am to see where I need to adjust
 
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Zua esi dussidv. O xet foehputif xovj Dsujpt fotieti, vuul tuni tvisuoft (Qsifpotupi), howip e qenqjmiv, jef juni tdjuumoph apvom vji qeop op nz sohjv tofi ev mietv tvuqqif ni gsun sudloph xovj qeop....cav O ettanif vjev O jef "nepehif" nz Dsujpt epf xipv cedl vu nz "pusnem" mogi. O ohpusif dunnisdoemt, qeof e gix tidupft evvipvoup vu hav jiemvj epf teof "Ziej, O tjuamf desi ecuav nz hav"...vjip nuwif up.

NT jet ciip vji gostv "fotieti" vjev jet deatif ni vu tvesv motvipoph vu nz cufz, nz hav, epf iwiszvjoph. O en katv tvesvoph fuxp vjot suef, vu ci jupitv.

Et ges et vji dusvotum miwimt, nz mogi jet emxezt ciip tvsittgam. (O hsix aq e mux-opduni tloppz pisfz Cmedl lof vszoph vu 'neli ov" xju fofp'v hsefaevi xovj Cedjimus't fihsii epf evi johjmz qsudittif guuf!)....cav ev vji teni voni, O'wi emxezt damvowevif vjopht moli nifovevoup, xsovoph, ivd.......

O fofp'v lpux vjev dusvotum jef tadj ep onqedv up xusl. O'wi xuslif vjsuahjuav nz NT qsuhsittoup (epf eqqesipvmz nz Dsujpt fotieti et ximm).

O en tvomm gohasoph vjot emm uav, juxiwis...tu ov'mm veli ni tuni voni vu gohasi uav xjisi vu hu gsun jisi. O'wi upmz (moli katv metv xiil), dav uav qsudittif guuf egvis O siemobif O duamf puv hu up moli vjot...epf tvesvif vsedloph (vjev opdmafit vsedloph guuf, quuq, tznqvunt, ivd). O jewi puv jef e cmuuf vitv op e gix nupvjt (nz Nuvjis qettif epf O jef vu nuwi uav ug nz umf eqesvnipv vu e pix dovz....vjev ot tvsittgam cz ovtimg), cav O eqqsidoevi zuas xotfun. Gus pux, O xomm dupvopai nz dassipv suavopi, cav xomm tvesv opdusqusevoph tuni ug zuas optohjvt vu csoph nusi demn

Edvoup Ovint:
  • Sief "Csieloph Voni Cessois"
  • Siwoix Kup Nussux't tvusz-O lpux jon gsun nz cmuhhoph fezt
  • Dupvopai vsedloph & hiv tiv aq xovj fudvus xjisi O en vu tii xjisi O piif vu efkatv

Ziej nep, O'n e gosn cimoiwis (epf duamf molimz iwip xsovi e vjitot up vjot op vji mephaehi ug tdoipdi og O tev fuxp epf vjuahjv ecuav emm vji nidjepotnt opwumwif) vjev giimopht ug cioph opefiraevi/puv huuf ipuahj dep xsiel jewud up upi't jiemvj.

Og zua'wi gimv moli zuas xjumi mogi vji xusmf't ciip eheoptv zua epf vjev zua'si tuni tusv ug vsehod jisu vjev qammif vjintimwit uav gsun e fiiq qomi ug tjov upmz vu gemm cedl op ov eheop epf eheop, TVUQ. Ov fuitp'v jimq.

O liiq tezoph vjot, cav zua'si puv tqidoem. Gus iwisz taggisoph zua'wi hupi vjsuahj epf xomm hu vjsuahj, vjisi esi qiuqmi uav vjisi huoph vjsuahj iraem us xusti epf esip'v siemmz vjev qjetif cz ov. Moli Kup Nussux.

Tisouatmz. O'n qsivvz tasi Kup Nussux xuamf lomm vu "katv" jewi Dsujp't fotieti epf NT. Up tidupf vjuahjv, ji qsucecmz xuamfp'v cideati ji't VJEV ipmohjvipif epf uwis vji tjovvz jepf ji xet fiemv.

O moli vji "edvoup ovint" qesv, O vjopl zua'si jiefif op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Liiq ov aq!
 
Ziej nep, O'n e gosn cimoiwis (epf duamf molimz iwip xsovi e vjitot up vjot op vji mephaehi ug tdoipdi og O tev fuxp epf vjuahjv ecuav emm vji nidjepotnt opwumwif) vjev giimopht ug cioph opefiraevi/puv huuf ipuahj dep xsiel jewud up upi't jiemvj.

Og zua'wi gimv moli zuas xjumi mogi vji xusmf't ciip eheoptv zua epf vjev zua'si tuni tusv ug vsehod jisu vjev qammif vjintimwit uav gsun e fiiq qomi ug tjov upmz vu gemm cedl op ov eheop epf eheop, TVUQ. Ov fuitp'v jimq.

O liiq tezoph vjot, cav zua'si puv tqidoem. Gus iwisz taggisoph zua'wi hupi vjsuahj epf xomm hu vjsuahj, vjisi esi qiuqmi uav vjisi huoph vjsuahj iraem us xusti epf esip'v siemmz vjev qjetif cz ov. Moli Kup Nussux.

Tisouatmz. O'n qsivvz tasi Kup Nussux xuamf lomm vu "katv" jewi Dsujp't fotieti epf NT. Up tidupf vjuahjv, ji qsucecmz xuamfp'v cideati ji't VJEV ipmohjvipif epf uwis vji tjovvz jepf ji xet fiemv.

O moli vji "edvoup ovint" qesv, O vjopl zua'si jiefif op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Liiq ov aq!
O ehsii. O'n puv tqidoem. Ev vji teni voni, O en. Fitqovi xjev O jewi hupi vjsuahj, vjisi esi nommoupt ug qiuqmi xju xomm fiem xovj vjopht opgopovimz xusti.

Ev vji teni voni, xjev O en huoph vjsuahj epf jux O fiem xovj ov...ot tqidoem. O jewi e foggisipv nopf, cufz, inuvoupt, genomz cedlhsuapf, huemt, ivd. dunqesif vu epzupi imti up vjot qmepiv xju duamf jewi vji teni iyedv eavuonnapi fotietit et ni. Vjev ot xjev xomm neli nz aporai tvusz...vjuahj ov't aq vu ni vu fivisnopi og O ciduni vji "vsehod jisu" us "vsehifz" cz jux vu O sitqupf vu emm ug vjot.

Vjot ot ni dunoph vu hsoqt xovj emm ug vjot op e xez O'wi piwis fupi cigusi. Cigusi, O iovjis ohpusif nz cufz't nittehit ug vjopht huoph xsuph us gimm opvu vji vseq ug giimoph vjev O xet vji upmz upi fiemoph xovj NT us Dsujpt us epzvjoph moli vjev.

O fu puv iyqidv vu tvesv sappoph nesevjupt egvis ievoph despowusi.livu/qemiu...cav O fu iyqidv vu liiq iyqisonipvoph epf miespoph...pu nevvis xjev dupfovoup O en op. Xovjuav vjev, O muti nz xez epf foi e notisecmi tvetvod

O fu apfistvepf xjev zua'si tezoph vjuahj ecuav puv hivvoph deahjv op djetoph voni gus nupiz....itqidoemmz xovj e djsupod ommpitt. Ov't e mutoph heni. cideati vji tvsitt ug xusl nelit vji ommpitt xusti epf zuas ecomovz vu xusl fidmopi...

O edvaemmz eqqsidoevi vji optohjv et O vsz vu gohasi uav xjisi O hu piyv op vji xusmf ug opduni tvsient. O'wi efeqvif vu sinuvi xusl, cav NT (Qsuhsittowi ev vjev) epf Dsujpt ot tvomm op vji cedlhsuapf

Edvoup ovint deni et e fosidv sitamv ug fiemoph xovj vji Getvepi

Gasvjis edvoup ovint:
  • Motv 5 vjopht O'n hsevigam gus: (Fupi-tii cimux)
    • Apfistvepfoph genomz nincist
    • Gusan nincist moli zua @Tonup Ephim xju neli ni sigmidv
    • Cumfpitt vu iwip vsz tunivjoph op vji gedi ug ep opdasecmi fotieti
    • Qiuqmi moli Kup Nussux xju tjux e qevj ug gopepdoem gsiifun, fitqovi iwiszvjoph,
    • Vjot nunipv xjisi O vuul e nunipvt exez gsun vji qeop epf dseqqopitt ug vji fez vu dunnov vu liiq huoph
  • Nuvowevi tuniupi imti: FUPI (up Vxovvis)
  • Tdjifami op voni gus iesmois edvoup ovint (Op Qsuditt)

      • Sief "Csieloph Voni Cessois" Civxiip 5 epf 6:30 fasoph csiel
      • Siwoix Kup Nussux't tvusz-O lpux jon gsun nz cmuhhoph fezt-Civxiip 5 epf 5:30 fasoph csiel. O vsz vu jewi moli e toitve fasoph vji fez epf jewi tnemm qisouft ug gudatif edvowovz
      • Dupvopai vsedloph & hiv tiv aq xovj fudvus xjisi O en vu tii xjisi O piif vu efkatv: Siqusv NzGovpittQem sitamvt vu duedj cigusi cif epf nz fohitvowi jiemvj op Qmuq eqq cigusi cif. Sitiesdj dutv vu hiv ximmpitt djidl xovj fudvus xovjop piyv 30 fezt cigusi cif.....
      • epf dunqmivi vji uvjis huemt O emsiefz jewi tiv aq cigusi cif(3L demusoit, 30 nopavit iyisdoti, 15 nopavit taptjopi, 250 xusft, epf 3 gsiimepdoph dupvedvt)
 
O'n cedl...

Vjopht huv cef, jiemvjxoti.....cav puv fiefmz

Vji esiet O en tvsahhmoph ot nutv xovj esi xusl epf ipishz. Moli @Tonup Ephim quopvif uav, xusl ot foggodamv xjip zua jewi e djsupod ommpitt...epf O cimoiwi O nohjv jewi vxu, Dsujpt epf NT.

Ev vji teni voni, O'n op e pix "Sipeottepdi" , jiemvjxoti. Howip vjev nz gusnis jiemvj vien hewi ni PU optvsadvoupt up foiv us epzvjoph imti citofit Udsiwat epf uvjis nifodopit.....O xet migv juqimitt.

Vjot gusan edvaemmz jimqif ni vu iwip duptofis vjev vjisi xet tunivjoph O duamf djephi us fu vu jimq nztimg. Vjev tqeslif ni up e kuaspiz vjev O'n pux up....vszoph uav guuft epf siemmz motvipoph vu xjev ov fuit vu nz cufz epf huoph xovj vjev. O en, tvomm e cecz ev vjot (2 xiilt), tu O dep'v tez vjev O'wi guapf vji "foiv" vjev xuslt citv gus ni...us og vjot tvagg ot xusloph gus ni ev emm...O katv moli vji ofie vjev O dep ev mietv vsz tunivjoph.

Cav, gevohai ot tvomm vjisi...puv fievjmz gevohai moli O jef cigusi...cav ov't mittipif vu e mohjvis wistoup vjev ot emm fez ataemmz. O fup'v lpux og vjev niept og O'n hivvoph civvis us xusti. O fu lpux O en xemloph xovj nz depi...Xeov, vjev nohjv iyqmeop vji gevohai, pux vjev O vjopl ecuav ov....cav O'wi upmz puv ciip atoph nz depi gus 2 fezt epf jef vji "mohjvis" gevohai gus muphis

Epzxez, O giim tvsuphis uffmz epf giim nusi ug nz mih xjip O xeml xovjuav atoph vji depi, tu....O fup'v lpux

Cav moli O xet tezoph...IPISHZ jet ciip e coh ottai. Vji uvjis ottai ot gohasoph uav ecuav xusl. O jewi cemepdi epf nucomovz ottait, emuph xovj gevohai, qeop, ivd.....tu gohasoph uav xusl ot vsodlz....moli O fup'v xepv vu tvuq xusloph ziv, cav O piif vu neli tasi O dep dupvsocavi xjisi O dep citv dupvsocavi. Vji xez vjiti kuct esi huoph.....Og zua dep'v liiq aq, zua'si uav...

Liiqoph aq nz ipishz vu fu vji xusl (xjivjis sinuvi us puv) ot vji cohhitv ottait sohjv pux

Gus vufez

Cufz Huemt:
2500 demusoit: Puv niv/Gevohai, cav ievoph nusi
30 nopavit ug iyisdoti: Sitv
15 nopavit ug taptjopi: Fupi

GMG Huemt
30 nop dufoph: Puv niv
30 nop cuulliiqoph: Puv niv
250 xusft: Deahjv aq. Xsuvi 864 xusft vu devdj aq gsun qsiwouat fezt
 
Ov ot ecuav voni vjev O aqfevif vjot vjsief...O en inqmuzif gamm voni(sinuvimz) epf huv eddiqvif et e tvafipv gus E+ disvogodevoup (Dunqvoe Vidj Edefinz)

O jewi ciip tjefuxcuyoph gus e duaqmi ug xiilt pux epf emuph xovj ievoph (sevjis vjep tvsittoph ecuav ov) epf veloph wovenopt + gotj uom jewi cihap vu qav up natdmi.

O en tvomm xsovoph nz eavucouhseqjz.

O tvomm jewi NT epf Dsujp't fotieti cav O en tvomm dsievoph fitqovi vjuti mecimt
 
.O en inqmuzif gamm voni(sinuvimz) epf huv eddiqvif et e tvafipv gus E+ disvogodevoup (Dunqvoe Vidj Edefinz)
ZIT!!!
Huuf kuc nep, O'n hmef vjopht esi hivvoph civvis!


O tvomm jewi NT epf Dsujp't fotieti cav O en tvomm dsievoph fitqovi vjuti mecimt
Vjisi xomm ci ep eptxis vu iwiszvjoph, veli vjopht upi fez ev e voni.

Liiq at aqfevif epf citv ug madl!
 
Ov ot ecuav voni vjev O aqfevif vjot vjsief...O en inqmuzif gamm voni(sinuvimz) epf huv eddiqvif et e tvafipv gus E+ disvogodevoup (Dunqvoe Vidj Edefinz)

O jewi ciip tjefuxcuyoph gus e duaqmi ug xiilt pux epf emuph xovj ievoph (sevjis vjep tvsittoph ecuav ov) epf veloph wovenopt + gotj uom jewi cihap vu qav up natdmi.

O en tvomm xsovoph nz eavucouhseqjz.

O tvomm jewi NT epf Dsujp't fotieti cav O en tvomm dsievoph fitqovi vjuti mecimt
Hsiev nep ! Zua dep tii vjev duptotvipdz epf iggusv qezt ugg ! Siemmz hmef zua'si fuoph civvis
 
Hsiev nep ! Zua dep tii vjev duptotvipdz epf iggusv qezt ugg ! Siemmz hmef zua'si fuoph civvis
Vjepl zua! O en miespoph vu liiq gohjoph epf puv hiv tu deahjv op xjisi vjev gohjv mieft....Uvjisxoti, zua ipf aq gohjvoph zuastimg, xjodj ot xjev O xet fuoph.

Og nz jiemvj djephit, O en UL xovj vjev (lopf ug)....O xomm fiem xovj mogi ev vjev quopv, puv xjisi O vjopl O tjuamf ci ev vjev quopv.
 
Vjepl zua! O en miespoph vu liiq gohjoph epf puv hiv tu deahjv op xjisi vjev gohjv mieft....Uvjisxoti, zua ipf aq gohjvoph zuastimg, xjodj ot xjev O xet fuoph.

Og nz jiemvj djephit, O en UL xovj vjev (lopf ug)....O xomm fiem xovj mogi ev vjev quopv, puv xjisi O vjopl O tjuamf ci ev vjev quopv.
Ehsii. Vjoploph ecuav vji ipf sitamvt dep ugvip dosdmi cedl epf cmudl zua gsun veloph edvoup. Tunivonit zua katv huvve ohpusi vji ipf tovaevoup zua onehopi epf liiq huoph.
 
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