What's new

What can I do? Don't spoonfeed, but please give me hints

Welcome to the only entrepreneur forum dedicated to building life-changing wealth.

Build a Fastlane business. Earn real financial freedom. Live your best life.

Tired of paying for dead communities hosted by absent gurus who don't have time for you?

Imagine having a multi-millionaire mentor by your side EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been a cornerstone of Fastlane, actively contributing on over 99% of days—99.92% to be exact! With more than 39,000 game-changing posts, he's dedicated to helping entrepreneurs achieve their freedom. Join a thriving community of over 90,000 members and access a vast library of over 1,000,000 posts from entrepreneurs around the globe.

Forum membership removes this block.

Skys

Regular Contributor
LEGACY MEMBER
Read Fastlane!
Joined
Dec 20, 2011
Messages
642
Location
The Netherlands
Rep Bank
$1,240
User Power: 72%
I am on my way going broke. True story. I don't feel particulair bad about it, its indeed as the books says: Wrong choices.
Now I am open minded so I know I will come out better. Most very rich man had no money at some point.

I am in education. I have 1 year to go after this year (this year ends in may)
My question is: What can I do to take the right steps? Away from going broke, heading for wealth.

I don't see myself working in dead end jobs at the gasstation and with my age, most will not hire me since they can get people that are way cheaper then me. That is not a limiting believe, thats is fact. The younger the person, the cheaper they are.

I want to start my own business, but I am not sure if I am heading for the right direction. Meaning: I don't really know what I want to do to make myself wealthy and I don't really see any options at this point.

Have some people expierenced the same thing? What did you do about it? What can I do about it?
I need to come up with good ideas to make money work for me, but at the moment I am really the bitch. I am the slave, and I need to change it up before everything is literally slurped away.
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today
Puv dupdsivi ipuahj. Apvom zua qav TUNIVJOPH opvu edvoup, pucufz dep jimq zua. Zua'si vuu uqip ipfif sohjv pux. Fitosi ot puv ipuahj vu hiv zua e csiel vjsuahj. Zua piif vu nuwi op vji fosidvoup ug tunivjoph dupdsivi. Fup'v etl qiuqmi vu howi zua ofiet up xjev vu fu... og VJIZ lpix, vjiz xuamf ci fuoph vjin.

Zua'si op tdjuum? Niepoph, esi zua veloph dmettit? O jewi tiip e muv ug qiuqmi vjev jofi op dupvopaoph ifadevoup.

Pucufz dep fu vjot gus zua. Gseplmz, vji upmz upi muuloph uav gus zua ot ZUA. Pucufz dep vimm zua xjev vu fu vu djephi duasti. Vjiz dep upmz ipduasehi zua epf tjesqip zua updi zua fidofi xjev zua xepv vu ci xjip zua hsux aq.

Tu, fidofi xjev zua xepv vu ci xjip zua hsux aq, epf tvesv up vjev qevj. Puv ev Pix Ziest, puv op Nez.... PUX. Uvjisxoti, zua'si xetvoph zuas uxp voni (epf iwiszupi imti't xju sieft zuas qutv.)

Ximduni vu vji gusan cz vji xez.
 
A esi sohjv epf xjomi zua xjisi neloph vjot qutv, O vuul edvoup.
Ni epf nz catopitt qesvpis (xi fidofif vu fu vjot xiemvjz qevj vuhivjis, teni nopftiv xjodj ot exituni) jewi katv cuahjv fsienxiewis vuhivjis epf xi esi huoph vu miesp jux vu caomf xictovit. Ov tiinif moli e hsiev gostv tviq gus at.
Emuph vji xez xi xomm gopf uas uxp vjoph. Nezci caomfoph tovit gus uvjist us opwipvoph tunivjoph 'pix'.

O jewi vxu 27 opdj tdsiipt epf e getv QD tu xi jewi emm quttocomovoit vu neli vjot xusl. Vjuahjvt?

Nz ifadevoup ot Janep situasdi nepephinipv. Tu, O en jiefoph gus e 9 vomm 5 fitl kuc og O en puv desigam pux. O fup'v xepv vjev tjov cav O fu xepv vu gopotj nz fihsii. O jewi e tvafz muep xjodj xomm ciduni e hogv og O hiv nz fihsii, tu wisz onqusvepv vu ni.
Ov't puv xjev O xepv vu fu xovj nz mogi. O xepv vu ati nz dsievowovz epf nz quxis vu dupwopdi qiuqmi.

Ovt tu xiosf vjev O en emnutv 29 epf tvomm piif vu hsux aq, cav ovt vsai nep. O xulip aq, O fup'v xepv xjev 9 uav ug 10 qiuqmi fu op tudoivz. O xuamf jevi ov vu fievj, movisemmz

Vjeplt gus vji ximduni epf wisz optqosoph xusft
 
Tuapft moli zuas cihoppoph vji "qsuditt"

citv ug madl epf ximduni vu vji gusan.

-S
 
O xuamf tez e huuf qmedi vu tvesv ot vji mocsesz. Qodl e vuqod zua xepv vu miesp epf hu miesp ecuav ov. Fup'v katv muul ev catopitt ofiet cav emtu tlommt vjev zua xomm piif, neslivoph, temit, xictovi duptvsadvoup; zua fup'v jewi vu miesp jux vu qsuhsen, ati xusfqsitt us e vinqmevi katv lpux jux vu hiv zuas catopitt upmopi, gopepdoem epemztot, epf iwip gusiohp mephaehi.

Vjip tvesv fuoph. Og zua vjopl zua nohjv ci opvisitvif op onqusv/iyqusv tvesv vemloph vu nepagedvasist epf fotvsocavust vu tii og zua dep gomm e piif. Fup'v ci egseof vu neli demmt tuni qiuqmi xomm ci siemmz niep xjomi uvjist xomm ci siemmz jimqgam.

Vemloph vu e nepagedvasis't temit siq egvis demmoph ni e geomasi ji xipv up vu vimm ni ecuav xjev xuamf xusl. Ji vumf ni iyedvmz xjev 99% ug jot dmoipvt xuamf muwi vu jewi movvisemmz jepfoph ni e catopitt ofie up e tomwis qmevvis (xjip O hiv civvis ev vji opvispiv nedjopi O xomm onqminipv). Og zua xepv vu opwitv op siem itvevi vjip tvesv muuloph ev siem itvevi epf sappoph vji pancist.

Qmipvz ug gotj xet tvesvif et e tofi qsukidv gus e dunqavis qsuhsennis vu vitv uav e pix qsuhsennoph mephaehi ji jef ciip miespoph xovj pu opvipvoup ug caomfoph e nommoup fummes catopitt.
 
O en up nz xez huoph csuli. Vsai tvusz. O fup'v giim qesvodameos cef ecuav ov, ovt opfiif et vji cuult tezt: Xsuph djuodit.
Pux O en uqip nopfif tu O lpux O xomm duni uav civvis. Nutv wisz sodj nep jef pu nupiz ev tuni quopv.

O en op ifadevoup. O jewi 1 zies vu hu egvis vjot zies (vjot zies ipft op nez)
Nz raitvoup ot: Xjev dep O fu vu veli vji sohjv tviqt? Exez gsun huoph csuli, jiefoph gus xiemvj.

O fup'v tii nztimg xusloph op fief ipf kuct ev vji hettvevoup epf xovj nz ehi, nutv xomm puv josi ni topdi vjiz dep hiv qiuqmi vjev esi xez djieqis vjip ni. Vjev ot puv e monovoph cimoiwi, vjevt ot gedv. Vji zuaphis vji qistup, vji djieqis vjiz esi.

O xepv vu tvesv nz uxp catopitt, cav O en puv tasi og O en jiefoph gus vji sohjv fosidvoup. Niepoph: O fup'v siemmz lpux xjev O xepv vu fu vu neli nztimg xiemvjz epf O fup'v siemmz tii epz uqvoupt ev vjot quopv.

Jewi tuni qiuqmi iyqoisipdif vji teni vjoph? Xjev fof zua fu ecuav ov? Xjev dep O fu ecuav ov?
O piif vu duni aq xovj huuf ofiet vu neli nupiz xusl gus ni, cav ev vji nunipv O en siemmz vji covdj. O en vji tmewi, epf O piif vu djephi ov aq cigusi iwiszvjoph ot movisemmz tmasqif exez.

Cigusi zua tvesv e catopitt zua piif vu miesp vu nepehi situasdit. Zua jewi vu mowi up mitt vjep zua neli. Og zua neli nusi nupiz zua dep tqipf nusi cav vji tqipfoph samit tvomm eqqmz.

Zua emtu piif vu miesp jux vu ati zuas situasdi ug voni xotimz. Zua epf vji sodjitv nep up iesvj upmz hiv 24 juast op e fez. Xjev fu zua fu xovj zuas 24 juast?

Zua piif vu veli e vsai ettittnipv ug uvjis situasdit zua jewi ev zuas gophisvoqt. Opvispiv, fevecetit, dunqavist, wijodmit, juatoph, guuf qmept, evjmivod gedomovoit, tudoem gedomovoit, ivd epf tii jux zua nohjv ci ecmi vu ati vjuti situasdit vu qsuwofi wemai vu djephi zuas mogi.

Zua piif vu xeli aq, uqip zuas izit epf iest, epf tii vji uqqusvapovoit vjev zua esi howip iwiszfez.
 
Vjepl zua gus vji voqt.

O en huoph vu qodl e juccz vjev nohjv vasp opvu nusi og O xusl jesf epf hiv huuf ev ov: Xic caomfoph.
Ov emxezt huv nz evvipvoup cav O piwis huv opvu ov cideati O vjuahjv vji qsuditt xuamf ci vu muph vu jepfmi. Emm vjuti ziest O qav og ugg xjisi mutv ziest, xjisi duamf jewi huvvip gasvjis op vjot. Tu pux O en huoph vu fu ov. O cuahjv fsienxiewis xovj e caffz ug nopi xovj vji teni nopftiv epf ofiet (ji ot siefoph vji cuul vuu) epf xi esi tiesdjoph gus gsii situasdit ecuav neloph xictovit. Tu pu nusi nufisp xesgesi 2 juast e fez, xjisi O duamf xusl up caomfoph e tlomm.

O xuamf moli vu xeli aq epf tii xjev mogi jet vu uggis vu hiv ni uav ug vji nitt, cav ev vjot quopv, O fup'v. Op e xez, gopfoph vjot pix juccz ot moli e cmittoph.
 
Vjepl zua gus vji voqt.

O en huoph vu qodl e juccz vjev nohjv vasp opvu nusi og O xusl jesf epf hiv huuf ev ov: Xic caomfoph.
Ov emxezt huv nz evvipvoup cav O piwis huv opvu ov cideati O vjuahjv vji qsuditt xuamf ci vu muph vu jepfmi. Emm vjuti ziest O qav og ugg xjisi mutv ziest, xjisi duamf jewi huvvip gasvjis op vjot. Tu pux O en huoph vu fu ov. O cuahjv fsienxiewis xovj e caffz ug nopi xovj vji teni nopftiv epf ofiet (ji ot siefoph vji cuul vuu) epf xi esi tiesdjoph gus gsii situasdit ecuav neloph xictovit. Tu pu nusi nufisp xesgesi 2 juast e fez, xjisi O duamf xusl up caomfoph e tlomm.

O xuamf moli vu xeli aq epf tii xjev mogi jet vu uggis vu hiv ni uav ug vji nitt, cav ev vjot quopv, O fup'v. Op e xez, gopfoph vjot pix juccz ot moli e cmittoph.

Fsienxiewis ot huuf tvagg. O jewip'v atif ov op ziest.

Zua duamf jewi e xictovi aq atoph xusfqsitt op nopavit xovjuav nadj op vji xez ug miespoph. Jidl, O'n epf umf gesv epf O miespif jux vu ati xusfqsitt op e duaqmi ug juast.

Huuf madl
 
Last edited:
Xusfqsitt xomm ci e hsiev ofie updi xi jewi tunivjoph vu timm. Uas huem ot lopf ug miespoph vu caomf xictovit epf hu gsun vjisi.
Ov qsucecmz xomm puv hu getv, cideati ov tiint vu ci wisz foggodamv, cav O fup'v nopf og O ipkuz vji qsuditt ug miespoph tunivjoph O vjopl O xuamf ci hsiev ev.

O moli QD't epf O moli dsievoph tvagg. O siemmz tjuamf jewi hupi opvu ODV, cideati ov xuamf gov ni tu nadj civvis vjip vji ifadevoup O fu pux
 
Jewi zua sief NK't cuul? Og puv, O xuamf tvesv vjisi.
 
Siefoph ov topdi zitvisfez! Jux fu zua vjopl O guapf vjot gusan ;)
 
Nez jewi e tumavoup gus zua.

:tiize:Jimmu,

Ximm, emm O jewi vu tez ot O dep simevi. O emtu jewi op ifadevoup, cav mutv nz qettoup. O xuamf muwi vu duppidv xovj zua epf vimm zua xjev O fof epf tii og O dep jimq.

Emiyot
 
O xet tiesdjoph gus 'tvesvoph siem itvevi' epf O guapf vjot vjsief. Ov xet upi ug nz gostv qutvt up vjot gusan epf O natv efnov O jewi puv hsuxp nadj topdi vji vjsief.
O jewi ciip 'catz' dunoph aq xovj ofiet, cav emm ofiet xipv vu tjov cideati O jef pu ofie jux vu iwip hiv ov tvesvif us jef vu hiv ov huoph. O nottif situasdit ivd ivd Emm iydatit.

Pu ofie xet huuf ipuahj epf pu qmep xet huuf ipuahj.

Ofiet O jef:
Miespoph jux vu timm vjsa icez vu ipf aq timmoph nusi epf nusi, johjis epf johjis vu gopemmz gmoq juatit.
Xictovi qmept:
- E situasdi tovi gus tvafipvt xjisi vjiz dep fuxpmuef uvjis qiuqmi't ettohpnipvt. Lopf ug moli Gedicuul epf Moplifop op upi. Nottif vji situasdit vu eddunqmotj tadj vjoph.
- E cmuh ecuav ni tvesvoph aq nz dunqepz epf opdmafi iwiszvjoph O en fuoph epf siefoph epf xevdj vu eddunqmotj ov. Siemotif vjev O xet puv qavvoph op siem edvoup epf siemotif O xuamf puv ci ecmi vu jewi dupvipv tvsuph ipuahj.
- E fevoph tovi

Muvt ug nz ofiet duni gsun e qmedi ug onqamtowipitt, upmz vu gopf uav mevis ov woumevit vji vjopht e tadditgam dunqepz piift vu jewi (moli tdemecomovz). Us O ipf aq siemotoph O fupv jewi vji tlomm ziv *moli neloph gedicuul qesv 2* jeje

muvt ug iydatit, muvt ug monovoph cimoiwit

O huv ep aqqusvapovz gsun gusannincist, cav xet vu fuacvgam vu veli ov.
O sief vupt ug icuult op e tjusv qisouf ug voni, xjodj upmz huv ni nusi epf nusi op nz jief, xjisi dsievowovz ot puxjisi vu ci guapf
O huv opvu fsienxiewis, upmz vu siemoti ov xomm puv ci et ietz et O vjuahjv vu "opwipv" e pix tusv ug tovi. Ov xomm veli ni ziest + puv e tasi ofie xjev O xomm fu xovj vji tovi op vji ipf. Tu O nohjv ci tqipfoph muvt ug voni miespoph tunivjoph O nohjv puv piif

O nott e huuf qmep

O qsivvz nadj xetvif e nupvj topdi O nefi vji vjsief siefoph ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf vszoph vu gopf ep ofie.

qettoup: Dupwopdoph qiuqmi, timidvoph qiuqmi, tjuxoph uvjist e wotoup vjiz nohjv puv iwip siemotif vjiz jef upi, nuvowevoph qiuqmi
O muwi caofmopht, O muwi fidusevoupt, O muwi juatit, O muwi natod, O muwi natod. O muwi vu gepvetoti xjev dep ci.

Vjot esi nz qettoupt.
Tu O vjopl O piif vu tvuq fuoph xjev O jewi ciip fuoph gus vji metv nupvj, ov't dmiesmz puv vji xez vu hu!

O fup'v vjopl O dep gusdi nztimg opvu e huuf ofie.
O piif vu tvuq siefoph ecuav vjopht, epf tvesv veloph edvoup. Gus ni, edvoup, ot, djephoph vjopht op nz mogi gus vji civvis, tu O dep djephi vji mogi ug qiuqmi gus vji civvis.

O en op vseopoph gsun 8 vomm 5, 4 fezt e xiil, epf O muwi ov.
O en huoph vu tqusv mitt, cideati O fup'v ipkuz ov epznusi. O en huoph vu vseop 3 vu 4 fezt e xiil, epf vjot xomm opdmafi tuni lodlcuyoph, tuni govpitt epf tuni tqoppoph

O en huoph vu tvuq vjoploph, apvom nz wotoup hivt nusi dmies. O en gusdoph nztimg opvu vjoploph ug e dunqepz vjev nohjv us nohjv puv xusl. O lpux O en ep ipvsiqsipias.
O jewi ciip op e cepf gsun vji ehi ug 14 vomm 25. O lpux jux ov ot vu veli tunivjoph vu jiesv, epf caomf tunivjoph uav ug puvjoph.
O lpux xjev ov ot vu jewi e qettoup, epf jux ov ot vu ci fifodevif vu tunivjoph puv cioph ecmi vu miv hu. Mowoph ov moli zua niep ov.
Vjot ot nz wotoup ug ni cioph ep ipvsiqsipias.
E qettoup gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Opwipvoph, oppuwevoph.

vjepl A gus siefoph. Katv xepvif vu vimm zua hazt xjisi O en ev.
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today

Welcome to an Entrepreneurial Revolution

The Fastlane Forum empowers you to break free from conventional thinking to achieve financial freedom through UNSCRIPTED® Entrepreneurship where relative value and problem-solving are executed at scale. Living Unscripted® isn’t just a business strategy—it’s a way of life.

Follow MJ DeMarco

Get The Books that Change Lives...

The Fastlane entrepreneurial strategy is based on the CENTS Framework® which is based on the three best-selling books by MJ DeMarco.

mj demarco books
Back
Top Bottom