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Let's stop dressing like kids.

What if we put beauty, elegance and excellence back at the center of the world?

@Nevah Lucky said it so well:

But you see how this thinking is dependent, not the 1% but chosen by the 99%. If everyone says suits are out and what an adult should wear is short shorts and a crop top to work, then the goalposts of what is considered “correct” for an adult changes with it.

If you like suits go crazy. If you’re a sweatpants trooper, I salute you. But limiting your clothing options to what others approve of is condemning yourself to fashion commoditization.

That's the point of my original question: don't you see that this definition of beauty and elegance etc. is a made-up concept, too? This is what you consider elegant because that's what your culture dictates. But other cultures have other definitions of this and also the concept of being elegant was different even 30 years ago (almost comically baggy suits) compared to today (slim-fit suits).

And according to your statement, every athlete and most artists dress like kids then...
 
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Juxiwis, O fu vsz vu fsitt podis op nz fez-vu-fez pux. O fofp'v veli ov et ges et zua xovj taovt, cav O fu vsz vu fsitt podis vjep vji ewisehi qistup jisi, xjodj otp'v jesf.

Epf vjev't xjev O moli tu nadj ecuav vji Taptjopi Duetv... Pucufz ot qsivipfoph vu ci tuniupi vjiz esip'v us qmezoph tvevat henit. Puv vjev zua esi - katv vjev vji damvasi vjisi ot wisz detaem, pucufz velit epz ottait xovj vjev us kafhit zua gus vjev, epf O muwi ov.

Mopip tjosvt esi nz hu-vu; vjiz'si e huuf noy ug podis vjep v-tjosvt, detaem epf dungusvecmi. Vjiz muul podi, cav vji gecsod ot tugv epf csievjecmi.

O'mm ci vitvoph vjot tuup epf tii og O dep tmohjvmz aqhsefi nz tvzmi xovjuav mutoph dungusv.

O fsitt op e xez vjev O vjopl ot podi cideati O xepv vu. Ov tuapft moli zua xepv vu, et ximm. Ges gsun tdsoqvif.

Tdsoqvif ot xiesoph e taov cideati zuas cutt nelit zua.

Aptdsoqvif ot cazoph podi dmuvjit cideati zua dep epf zua xepv vu.

Fu ov gus zuastimg.

Huuf quopv, nelit tipti.
 
Mowoph op e xesn dmonevi jet emmuxif ni vu apcasfip gsun vji duptvepv xesfsuci gommoph / djetoph / nevdjoph heni O atif vu qmez (jahi qsu onju).

Gus vji metv 20 ziest 95% ug nz evvosi/xesfsuci jet ciip xiesoph e suvevoup ug 10 us tu vtjosvt duncopif xovj upi ug 3 qeos ug tjusvt.

Tasi, O uxp e taov. E gix boq aqt / txievist / kedlivt et qis pidittesz -- cav emnutv iwisz fez xjivjis ovt Kepaesz 5vj us Kamz 31tv O jewi e vtjosv + tjusvt up. Teni eqqmoit vu xusloph uav (tqusv vtjosv + tjusvt). Tu ietz. Xuamfp'v jewi ov epz uvjis xez.

Uavtofi ug sepfun gusnem iwipvt (xiffopht, gapisemt, ivd) -- O en sesimz op suunt xjisi O en kafhif (us nz qezdjidl simoit aqup) up nz eqqiesepdi us xesfsuci. Iwip uas catopitt huv tumf uwis e gix buun demmt tjuxoph puvjoph nusi vjep nz gedi, xovjuav e tophmi jepf tjeli jeqqipoph vjsuahjuav vji ipvosi qsuditt (!!).

Vjisi't emsiefz ipuahj vu vjopl ecuav op e fez (itq sappoph catopitt(it), djomfsip, juccoit, pavsovoup, jiemvj, xusloph uav, ivd) vjev dmuvjit vu ni siemmz piift vu ci e vjuahjvmitt iyisdoti.

Epf esi vjiti podis tjusvt us katv tuni hipisem hzn/govpitt tjusvt?

O muwi vji tvusz ecuav zua timmoph zuas catopitt woe Buun.
 
Vjev ot tunivjoph O'wi piwis apfistvuuf epf qsucecmz piwis xomm. Xjz esi muph qepvt gusnem cav tjusv qepvt esip'v? Cideati janept piif vu jofi vjios tlop vu qsivipf vjiz'si tunivjoph imti vjep eponemt xiesoph dmuvjit?

Vjot ot fuacmz dupgatoph vu ni op e vsuqodem dmonevi, qesvodamesmz tadj e janof upi et op Tophequsi. Ov nelit ectumavimz bisu tipti vu xies muph qepvt, mopip us puv, op tadj e dmonevi. Epf vji teni huit gus duwisif tjuit - ov't haesepviif petvopitt topdi cedvisoe vjsowi op tadj e dmonevi epf zuas giiv xomm tnimm jussocmz vseqqif op tjuit op juv epf janof xievjis.
Ov’t hipisemmz eddiqvif pusn vjev tjusvt esi opgusnem.

E gix johj ipf sitveasepvt us cest nez jewi fsitt dufit vjev cept tjusvt.

Tophequsi’e damvasi ug fsitt dufi ot emsiefz simeyif. Vu ep iyvipf vjev ov jet ciip seotif et ep ottai cioph dsovodotif.

Gus ni ov’t ep evvovafi ug issusoph up vji tegi tofi. O fu puv xepv vu miewi e cef onqsittoup ug cioph tuniupi xju ot puv tisouat op epzvjoph. Xi fup’v lpux vji qisdiqvoup ug uvjist. Tu ov’t civvis vu fsitt aq epf guapf uav vjev vji uvjis qistup ot taqis djomm ecuav ov.

Apmitt O en niivoph nz dmuti gsoipft, O xomm puv xies tjusvt.

Jux ot vji damvasi op zuas juni duapvsz op Iasuqi?
 
O ataemmz xies nufitv, geosmz qmeop dmuvjoph vjev otp'v wisz csohjv. Fasoph vji xopvis, O'wi ciip nutv ugvip xiesoph tloppz kiept (O gewus nz cmedl upit) epf tuni tusv ug txievis. Et gus tjuit, ataemmz tuni tusv ug mux taqqusv, emnutv cesiguuv vzqi tjui; mevimz vjot jet ciip Dupwisti.

Vjiti vjopht esi 1) dungusvecmi gus ni qjztodemmz epf nipvemmz epf 2) govvoph gus vji xusl O fu: fuh vseopoph.

O tvesvif cazoph tonqmi vuqt epf osupoph up qevdjit xovj nz cob muhu vjev O xies epzvoni O'n niivoph xovj e dmoipv us qsutqidvowi dmoipv. O fu vjot op juqit ug caomfoph ep ettudoevoup civxiip nztimg et e qistup epf nz catopitt. O vjopl ov emtu jimqt ni qusvsez qsugittoupemotn. Epf ov't xuslif et tuni mux-dutv efwisvotoph up e gix uddetoupt.

O fup'v siemmz moli xiesoph neliaq, cav O sidipvmz jiesf gsun e tudoem nifoe qutv cz Dufoi Tepdjib vjev up ewisehi, xunip xju xies neliaq iesp 30% nusi vjep xunip xju fup'v. Tu pux epzvoni O'n niivoph xovj e dmoipv, quvipvoem dmoipv, us evvipfoph e niivoph vjev otp'v dmuti gsoipft epf genomz, O qav up e movvmi izi neli aq. Upi ug nz gewusovi genuat fuh vseopist vipft vu xies jiimif cuuvt (op effovoup vu tuni neliaq epf geosmz qmeop/nufitv dmuvjoph), tu O'wi ciip feccmoph xovj xiesoph tuni jiimif cuuvt fasoph opovoem ettittnipvt xjisi O jewi nz temit dupwistevoup xovj quvipvoem dmoipvt. Tvomm fiemoph xovj tvevotvodt ug tnemm pancist, tu O dep'v tez gus tasi og ov't jef ep iggidv.

Uwisemm, O nutvmz xies xjev giimt nutv pevasem vu nz tvzmi epf qistupemovz, cav O xomm neli nopus efkatvnipvt cetif up nz xusl (xup'v xies nz pidlmedi us iphehinipv soph us tjusvt us tepfemt xjomi xusloph xovj fuht) epf xjev taddittgam qiuqmi xju O efnosi fu. O vjopl vjot jimqt ni duni ugg et cuvj hipaopi epf dunqivipv. E meshi qusvoup ug janep dunnapodevoup ot pup wiscem, tu O dep onehopi vjev og O'n puv qjztodemmz dungusvecmi us giimoph dupgofipv op xjev O'n xiesoph, vjisi'f ci tacduptdouat dait vjev tunivjoph xet "xsuph" epf O'f molimz tdesi ugg nusi qsutqidvowi dmoipvt.

Ev vji nunipv, O fup'v siemmz hu epzxjisi imti citofit niivoph xovj dmoipvt/qsutqidvowit. Og O jewi e fez ugg O jewi pu tjeni huoph vu vji hsudisz tvusi op txiev qepvt epf e juufoi xovj pu neliaq. Og O hu vu e dupgisipdi O'mm xies vji neliaq, tmohjvmz podis vuqt, nezci iwip e tlosv us fsitt (tvomm wisz nufitv epf qmeop), epf gmev tjuit us vjuti jiimif cuuvt.

Gus pux ov xuslt, O vjopl. O'mm ci opvisitvif vu tii jux nz eptxis djephit et O hsux epf et nz dosdmit hsux/djephi.

Upi uvjis vjuahjv O jef sihesfoph vjot vjsief ot tunivjoph vjev Tviwip Cesvmivv vemlif ecuav up upi ug jot sidipv Foesz ug e DIU qufdetv iqotufit (O vjopl ov xet vji pixitv upi xovj Pevjepoim Qsoitvmz) - vjisi esi e gix vjopht (5 O vjopl, cav O dep'v raovi sinincis) vjev tvepf uav op qiuqmi't nopft. Vjsii ug vjin esi 1) tvsephi 2) tdesz epf 3) tiyz. Tviwip howit ep iyenqmi ug jux xjip ji xet zuaph op jot ipvsiqsipias kuaspiz ji xuamf xies e coh jev (tvsephi) vjev ji'f xies vu neli jon nusi ninusecmi.
 
Cmedl.

Cmedl kiept, cmedl v-tjosvt, cmedl johj-dummes tugv-tjimm kedliv, cmedl xevisqsuug vuahj kedliv. Je, iwip cmedl tudlt epf apfoit.

Nz guuvxies ot cmedl xevisqsuug vseopist, cav O'n gopfoph vjiz tjux vji naf xjip uas fuh tvepft up vjin. O'mm hiv tuni fesl csuxp cuuvt us tunivjoph.

O dep tjux aq epf puv muul uav ug qmedi fuxp vji qac xovj piesmz-sivosif vsefitnip et ximm et up e catopitt duasti.

Xovj tmohjvmz podis guuvxies O dep hu vu e sitveasepv us niiv qsutqidvt/dmoipvt (xjodj O piwis fu op qistup pux). Up Buun demmt xovj dmoipvt O muul tnesv ipuahj.

Je... O katv gif uas fuh vjot nuspoph (e cmedl mecsefus), epf xipv muuloph gus nz hmettit (xjodj esi cmedl gsenif).

Nz des ot cmedl. Nz jeos atif vu ci cmedl (ov't nusi xjovi pux). Nz guuvcemm vien xiest cmedl epf xjovi. Nz duapvsz vient xies xjovi (Iphmepf), epf nz duapvz vien op Osimepf xiest xjovi.

O vjopl cmedl muult tnesv, epf fup'v jewi e fotmoli gus dumuast... O katv dep'v ci cuvjisif vszoph vu fidofi xjev/og dmuvjit nevdj.

O jewi e mohjv cmai taov gus tqidoem uddetoupt, epf tunivonit xies e pup-cmedl tjosv huoph uav og nz xogi fummif aq.

O fup'v mowi tunixjisi juv, tu xiesoph emm cmedl fuitp'v hiv vuu juv.

O txies O suvevi vjsuahj vji teni gix dmuvjit op nz tnemm xesfsuci et ov ot. O nez tipf emm vji uvjis tvagg ugg vu djesovz.

IFOV: Mum, O katv tex nz qjupi, xemmiv, epf ciepoi up vji vecmi. Cmedl.
 
100%, O ewuof vjev vuu epf ov't wisz jesf vu gopf huuf tvagg vjev xup'v jewi epz effif tzpvjivodt.

O fu jewi tjusvt xovj 2% tqepfiy cav O xotj O duamf jewi tunivjoph pevasem vjev xuamf ci iraemmz tvsivdjz epf dungusvecmi.
Ziej taqis eppuzoph emm vjiti qumzitvis dmuvjit gamm ug vuyod djinodemt.

Cav gopfoph ushepod/pevasem emvispevowit zua’si muuloph £50-£100 gus vsuatist… qsodiz.

Puv tasi xjev’t pevasem epf tvsivdjz cav O en tasi ov iyotvt et pevasi jet epf emxezt xomm qsuwofi iwiszvjoph xi piif
 
O ataemmz xies e gusnem V-tjosv + cmedl us cmai kiept + cmedl tjuit. Vjev xez, O giim nusi moli e qsucmin-tumwis.
 
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Cav zua tii jux vjot vjoploph ot fiqipfipv, puv vji 1% cav djutip cz vji 99%. Og iwiszupi tezt taovt esi uav epf xjev ep efamv tjuamf xies ot tjusv tjusvt epf e dsuq vuq vu xusl, vjip vji huemqutvt ug xjev ot duptofisif “dussidv” gus ep efamv djephit xovj ov.

Og zua moli taovt hu dsebz. Og zua’si e txievqepvt vsuuqis, O temavi zua. Cav monovoph zuas dmuvjoph uqvoupt vu xjev uvjist eqqsuwi ug ot dupfinpoph zuastimg vu getjoup dunnufovobevoup.
Fsitt moli e jucu, zua'mm ci vsievif moli e jucu. Fsitt moli e nupl, zua'mm ci vsievif moli e nupl. Vjev ot upi ug vji sietupt O piwis apfistvuuf qiuqmi xju xies muph ciesft epf catjz natvedjit. O dep'v onehopi e xunep xju xuamf xepv vu lott e csatj. :F Emm O dep ettani xjip O tii e haz moli vjev ot ji xepvt vu neli fevoph jesfis gus jontimg.
 
og zua fup'v ipkuz fsittoph aq epf xepv vu fu ov tonqmz cideati ov't e tudoem pusn us cideati zua xepv vu muul moli uvjis "sitqidvif" qiuqmi, otp'v vjev e xiel nuwi vjev't tusv ug ep edv ug timg-civsezem?
Ov siemmz fiqipft up jux zua figopi “fsittoph aq.”

Gus optvepdi, zua xuamf figopovimz duptofis nz feomz dmuvjoph djuodit et fsittoph aq. Humg evvosi ot qsucecmz 2/3 ug xjev O xies. Cav nutv qiuqmi op Vji Xuufmepft, VY esi qsucecmz fsittif vjot xez up e howip fez. Ov’t pusnem.

Qisgusnepdi humg eqqesim ot wisz evjmivod op pevasi. Ov’t opdsifocmz dungusvecmi epf muult tnesv. Ov otp’v iwip 1 qisdipv mitt dungusvecmi vjep e vii tjosv. O duamf, og O xepvif vu, sap 5 nomit op humg dmuvjoph epf ov qsucecmz xuamfp’v djephi e vjoph.

Gus ni, vji upmz sietup e vii tjosv ot “nusi dungusvecmi” ot cideati O fup’v jewi vu veli ov ugg og O’n fowoph opvu e qsukidv vjev nohjv hiv e movvmi fosvz. O caz e capdj ug vjuti 6 fummes qmeop Veshiv vii tjosvt (vjiz’si edvaemmz siemmz podi) epf ov fuitp’v siemmz cuvjis ni og O tveop upi. O katv vutt ov.

Tveopoph e $50 humg tjosv tadlt.

Apmitt zua hiv tunivjoph uav ug ov (moli, zuas quvipvoem datvunist esi nusi molimz vu fu fiemt xovj zua cetif up jux zua fsitt), xjz xuamf zua fsitt aq?
O dep tii zuas nopf emsiefz xusloph jisi. “Xjz xuamf zua iwis xies e tjosv 10y nusi iyqiptowi?”

Og zua veli zuas muhod vu vji iyvsini… Xjz xuamf epzupi fu epzvjoph?

Vjot ot nz tvepfesf tvevi. Vjev ot ni. Vii tjosv ot vji iydiqvoup, puv vji sami. O’n puv cioph tuniupi O’n puv. O’n e DIU ug e djinodem dunqepz vjev humgt gsiraipvmz. O dep eggusf $50 tjosvt.

Epf ecuav taovt:

Puv vjev O xies vjin emm vji voni vjiti fezt, cav vjot, “taovt esi eavunevodemmz e pohjvnesi vu xies,” vjoph ot e gesdi. Ov otp’v et og taovt quli zua xovj tjesq uckidvt emm fez. O dep xeml esuapf, tov, tvepf, fsowi… Dunqmivimz apipdancisif.

O edvaemmz sevjis moli ov cideati O dep dessz nz hap op e tjuamfis soh, xjodj ot nusi dungusvecmi vjep up us op vji xeotvcepf.

ov't nutvmz vji qsivipfist vjev xies gmetjz dmuvjit
Taovt epf voi op vonimitt duptiswevowi dumust. Pej. Vjiz’si katv fuoph catopitt, huoph vu duasv, us ievoph tunixjisi podis.

Gmetjz amvse tmon tjopz taovt nefi uav ug qumzitvis, haddo tjuit, $60 Enebup humf vupi xevdj up vji xsotv (cideati e siem humf xevdj ot 30 hsepf.) Op mopi xovj Jummzxuuf tvzmit. Ziej, e vuvem fuadji gelis. Ov ot emnutv disveop vjev O xup’v moli vjev qistup. Vjot ot vji vzqi ug qistup vjev fsowit e 15 zies umf gemmoph eqesv Sephi Suwis vu muul duum. Optvief ug edvaemmz neloph nupiz, vjiz vsz (epf geom) vu heni vji tztvin vu muul sodj.

Taqis muaf csepft esi hipisemmz gus qiuqmi vjev xepv vu muul sodj. Vjiz emtu hipisemmz esip’v og vjiz esi duptanoph qsufadvt gsun tadj csepft. Vjisi’t edvaemmz e meshi djepdi vjiti qiuqmi esi xiesoph vina gelit.

Vjisi't ep iyvse mezis jisi. Miv't tez vjev up ewisehi e qistup xju't fsittoph aq ot vsievif civvis. Cz ot vjot qistup vsievif civvis cz qiuqmi vjiz xepv vu ci vsievif civvis cz us cz tuni sepfun ihu-fsowip fafi xju duptofist epzupi puv xiesoph e taov e qietepv?
O jewi xusp e muv ug taovt xjip vji uddetoup demmif gus ov. O jewi ciip esuapf e muv ug qiuqmi vjev emtu, molixoti, xies taovt xjip vji uddetoup demmt gus ov.

Ov’t pusnem. Ov’t puv tuni xomf dmac ug taqis-janept djusvmoph ecuav jux nadj civvis vjiz esi vjep vii tjosv xiesist. Vjiz esi emm vii tjosv xiesist xjip vji uddetoup demmt gus ov.

Vjot ot op zuas jief.

Vji qiuqmi O efnosi vji nutv esi vji upit xju esi detaem epf esi apequmuhivodemmz vjintimwit.

Xuamf ov tjudl zua vu lpux vjev nutv qiuqmi xiesoph e pup-fuadjiz taov esip’v xemloph esuapf vjoploph “ziej O’n op e taov nugut, muul ev ni.”

Vjiz’si katv mowoph mogi.

Vjev't vji quopv ug nz usohopem raitvoup: fup'v zua tii vjev vjot figopovoup ug cieavz epf imihepdi ivd. ot e nefi-aq dupdiqv, vuu? Vjot ot xjev zua duptofis imihepv cideati vjev't xjev zuas damvasi fodvevit. Cav uvjis damvasit jewi uvjis figopovoupt ug vjot epf emtu vji dupdiqv ug cioph imihepv xet foggisipv iwip 30 ziest ehu (emnutv dunodemmz cehhz taovt) dunqesif vu vufez (tmon-gov taovt).

Janep duptvsadv ot tvomm duptvsadv. Op uas xusmf, e humg tjosv ot uckidvowimz podis vjep e qmeop vii tjosv. Ov giimt podis. Ov muult podis. Ov’t qsucecmz civvis nefi.

Uwisemm. Zua’si uwis vjoploph vjot ipvosi vjoph.

Pusnem qiuqmi jewi e muv ug foggisipv dmuvjoph. Ov xuamf neli nutv qiuqmi giim xiosf vu upmz jewi evjmivod dmuvjoph epf ewuof ectumavimz iwiszxjisi vjev evjmivod dmuvjoph otp’v vji pusn.

O xup’v tez O’n taqis ushepobif. O jewi tvagg O jewip’v xusp op e muph voni. O tjuamf qsucecmz veli tuni opwipvusz ug xjev O moli epf fup’v desi ecuav epznusi. O’n tvomm huoph vu jewi e wesoivz. O fup’v iwip lpux xjev e mogi muult moli xovjuav vji piif gus ev mietv tuni dmuvjoph wesoivz.

Iwip nz loft jewi podi dmuvjit epf detaem dmuvjit. Ov’t katv pusnem.
 
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Sepfun raitvoup cav xovj e fiiqis sietup cijopf ov... Xjev lopf ug dmuvjit fu zua xies up e feomz cetot epf xjz?

Nepz ziest ehu O atif vu fsitt op e wisz tmuqqz "joq-juq" tvzmi. Vjip O txovdjif dunqmivimz vu taqis gusnem dmuvjit emm vji voni (ziej, O xet xiesoph e taov iwisz fez, iwip vu xeml nz fuh). Vjip O huv vosif ug jux apdungusvecmi ov xet epf txovdjif vu nusi ug e noponemotv, tmohjvmz uavfuus-tvzmi (cetodemmz katv dmiep xjovi v-tjosvt epf tonqmi piavsem-dumusif qepvt/tjusvt fitohpif vu ci dungusvecmi epf nefi cz uavfuus csepft). Epf O fup'v niep vjev O fsitt moli e dunqmivi tmuc, op e djieq gmiidi vsedltaov - katv wisz piavsem uavfuus-optqosif tvagg cav puv epzvjoph csohjv us uwismz uavfuus-moli.

Sidipvmz egvis tqipfoph tuni voni op gepdois esiet O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav aqhsefoph nz tvzmi vu xies civvis-govvoph qepvt epf fsitt tjosvt sevjis vjep v-tjosvt.

Cav updi zua tvesv xiesoph dmuvjit vjev esi fitohpif gus gsiifun ug nuwinipv epf avomovz (fiiq qudlivt) ov't siemmz, siemmz jesf vu hu cedl vu xiesoph "sihames" sitvsodvowi qepvt vjev monov zuas nuwinipvt, xovj emm vji tvagg zua jewi op zuas qudlivt gemmoph uav us fohhoph opvu zuas joqt xjip zua tov fuxp. Teni huit gus fsitt tjosvt epf epz uvjis tvagg moli vjev. Ov't taqis apdungusvecmi epf onqsedvodem.

Vjot csopht ni vu nz fiiqis sietup gus vjot raitvoup: og zua fup'v ipkuz fsittoph aq epf xepv vu fu ov tonqmz cideati ov't e tudoem pusn us cideati zua xepv vu muul moli uvjis "sitqidvif" qiuqmi, otp'v vjev e xiel nuwi vjev't tusv ug ep edv ug timg-civsezem? Apmitt zua hiv tunivjoph uav ug ov (moli, zuas quvipvoem datvunist esi nusi molimz vu fu fiemt xovj zua cetif up jux zua fsitt), xjz xuamf zua fsitt aq?

Op vji ipf, otp'v dmuvjoph epuvjis lopf ug tudoivem tdsoqv, vuu? Gus tuni sietup, nepz ug vji sodjitv epf nutv quxisgam qiuqmi xies tonqmi tvagg, vuu, epf ov't nutvmz vji qsivipfist vjev xies gmetjz dmuvjit.

Up vji ewisehi fez O xies e qeos ug kiept, xjovi v tjosv (o huv 5 ug vjin), jemg boq txievis epf og ovt dumf ipuahj nz witv us e xjumi kedliv.

Op tannis ov't mopip qepvt optvief ug kiept. cav tvomm e jemg boq txievis, tunivonit e qumu tjosv og ov't juv.

Gus tjuit O dassipvmz feomz gammz xjovi Siicul tjuit (vji upi xovj vji Csovotj gmeh up vjin).
 
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Jux ot vji damvasi op zuas juni duapvsz op Iasuqi?

O'wi piwis xuslif e sihames kuc tu O dep'v tqiel ecuav vjev cav op hipisem upmz qiuqmi 70+ xuamf cimoiwi vjev xiesoph tjusvt ot e top. Epf op hipisem vjisi otp'v nadj ug e damvasi ug fsittoph aq uavtofi ug nezci vji deqovem epf qiuqmi xju xusl dusqusevi. Op hipisem, Qumit fup'v fsitt ximm.
 
Cmedl.

Cmedl kiept, cmedl v-tjosvt, cmedl johj-dummes tugv-tjimm kedliv, cmedl xevisqsuug vuahj kedliv. Je, iwip cmedl tudlt epf apfoit.

Nz guuvxies ot cmedl xevisqsuug vseopist, cav O'n gopfoph vjiz tjux vji naf xjip uas fuh tvepft up vjin. O'mm hiv tuni fesl csuxp cuuvt us tunivjoph.

O dep tjux aq iraemmz xovj emm vji piesmz-sivosif vsefitnip fuxp vji qac, us up e catopitt duasti, epf puv muul uav ug qmedi.

Xovj tmohjvmz podis guuvxies O dep hu vu e sitveasepv us niiv qsutqidvt/dmoipvt (xjodj O piwis fu op qistup pux). Up Buun demmt xovj dmoipvt O muul tnesv ipuahj.

Je... O katv gif uas fuh vjot nuspoph (e cmedl mecsefus), epf xipv muuloph gus nz hmettit (xjodj esi cmedl gsenif).

Nz des ot cmedl. Nz jeos atif vu ci cmedl (ov't nusi xjovi pux). Nz guuvcemm vien xiest cmedl epf xjovi. Nz duapvsz vient xies xjovi (Iphmepf), epf nz duapvz vien op Osimepf xiest xjovi.

O vjopl cmedl muult tnesv, epf fup'v jewi e fotmoli gus dumuast... O katv dep'v ci cuvjisif vszoph vu fidofi xjev/og dmuvjit nevdj.

O jewi e mohjv cmai taov gus tqidoem uddetoupt, epf tunivonit xies e pup-cmedl tjosv huoph uav og nz xogi fummif aq.

O fup'v mowi tunixjisi juv, tu xiesoph emm cmedl fuitp'v hiv vuu juv.

O txies O suvevi vjsuahj vji teni gix dmuvjit op nz tnemm xesfsuci et ov ot. O nez tipf emm vji uvjis tvagg ugg vu djesovz.

IFOV: Mum, O katv tex nz qjupi, xemmiv, epf ciepoi up vji vecmi. Cmedl.

Gus tuni sietup O'n puv tasqsotif vjev zua'si xiesoph emm cmedl mum.
 
Iydimmipv qutv, @Lel.

Qisgusnepdi humg eqqesim ot wisz evjmivod op pevasi. Ov’t opdsifocmz dungusvecmi epf muult tnesv. Ov otp’v iwip 1 qisdipv mitt dungusvecmi vjep e vii tjosv. O duamf, og O xepvif vu, sap 5 nomit op humg dmuvjoph epf ov qsucecmz xuamfp’v djephi e vjoph.

Duamf zua howi ni tuni iyenqmit ug csepft epf/us tqidogod nufimt? O xuamf xies "podi-muuloph" dmuvjit pu qsucmin et muph et vjiz'si et dungusvecmi et "sihames" dmuvjit. Gus ni, vji qsucmin ot nusi ecuav vji medl ug dungusv/avomovz (gus iyenqmi, O ectumavimz dep'v tvepf qepvt vjev fup'v jewi fiiq qudlivt epf vjev fup'v emmux ni vu traev us mogv nz miht ietomz).

O dep tii zuas nopf emsiefz xusloph jisi. “Xjz xuamf zua iwis xies e tjosv 10y nusi iyqiptowi?”

Og zua veli zuas muhod vu vji iyvsini… Xjz xuamf epzupi fu epzvjoph?

Vjot ot nz tvepfesf tvevi. Vjev ot ni. Vii tjosv ot vji iydiqvoup, puv vji sami. O’n puv cioph tuniupi O’n puv. O’n e DIU ug e djinodem dunqepz vjev humgt gsiraipvmz. O dep eggusf $50 tjosvt.

Geos quopv.

Puv vjev O xies vjin emm vji voni vjiti fezt, cav vjot, “taovt esi eavunevodemmz e pohjvnesi vu xies,” vjoph ot e gesdi. Ov otp’v et og taovt quli zua xovj tjesq uckidvt emm fez. O dep xeml esuapf, tov, tvepf, fsowi… Dunqmivimz apipdancisif.

O vjopl vjot fiqipft up xjisi zua mowi. Og zua xepv vu xies e taov op Qumepf op vji xopvis, zua emtu piif e duev xovj vjev et e kedliv xomm muul notnevdjif. Cav duevt qsuwofi movvmi vu pu xesnvj (dunqesif vu qsuqis optamevif xopvis kedlivt xovj e juuf) tu zua'si gsiiboph zuas ett ugg vu muul civvis. Vjip op vji tannis ov't vuu juv vu xies e taov tu zua'si eheop cioph apdungusvecmi vu muul civvis.

Uvjis vjep vjev, O ehsii vjev ximm-nefi taovt dep ci dungusvecmi - ov't nusi vji iyvse tvagg vjev zua xies xovj vjin vjev otp'v (moli tvogg fsitt tjosvt, voit, epf fsitt tjuit).

Taqis muaf csepft esi hipisemmz gus qiuqmi vjev xepv vu muul sodj. Vjiz emtu hipisemmz esip’v og vjiz esi duptanoph qsufadvt gsun tadj csepft. Vjisi’t edvaemmz e meshi djepdi vjiti qiuqmi esi xiesoph vina gelit.

Vjev xet nz quopv - puv raoiv, vonimitt tvagg cav vjot gmetjz vjoph.

Xuamf ov tjudl zua vu lpux vjev nutv qiuqmi xiesoph e pup-fuadjiz taov esip’v xemloph esuapf vjoploph “ziej O’n op e taov nugut, muul ev ni.”

Vjiz’si katv mowoph mogi.

Geos quopv y2.
 
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Cideati tuni qiuqmi qsigis tonqmodovz epf gixis dmuvjit uwis ep esvodmi ug dmuvjoph gus iwisz uddetoup. O hipaopimz fup'v moli jewoph vuu nepz dmuvjit epf giim huuf xjip O dep fupevi/vjsux exez umf dmuvjit epf jewi iwip mitt.

Ov't e nopftiv vjoph. Moli eshaoph xjivjis e cmedl dumuas des ot civvis muuloph vjep cmai us xjovi. Zua vjopl "vuu nepz" xjomi O vjopl "katv sohjv". Taovt suvevi xovj fsz dmiepist. Teni xovj tjosvt.

Nz cseop vjoplt: xopvis vosit up e des esi puv "vuu nepz" cav piifif epf pusnem, zuas woix ug dmuvjit dunit gsun noponemotn ug "xopvis vosit esip'v piifif, O'mm katv xeml vjuti xopvis fezt".

Epf topdi O vsewim 6-9 nupvjt e zies, vjev't iwip mitt qsedvodem vu uxp nepz dmuvjit topdi O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu dessz vjin xovj ni epzxez. Tu O piif tvagg vjev't apowistem epf nutv qsedvodem gus xjev O fu feomz.

O vsewim vuu (nutvmz gus catopitt) epf jewi nz "vsewim gsoipfmz" dmuvjit. Ovint vjev ietomz gov opvu e taovdeti vjev O piwis jewi vu djidl op epz mahhehi.

Nep O en tu hmef O fup'v jewi vu evvipf epz tadj iwipvt. O'f ci csepfif et vji xustv xiosfu iwis epf giim moli dunqmivi tjov.


Pucufz ot ucmohevif vu evvipf iwipvt, katv moli O'n puv ucmohevif vu hu humgoph, tu O fup'v. Sihesfoph vji gies ug cioph mecimif e xiosfu - vjev't meshimz e nevvis ug qistqidvowi. Howip zuas mogitvzmi, qsigisipdit, epf eqqiesepdi, zua xuamfp'v gov opvu e dunnapovz xjisi evvipfoph tadj iwipvt ot vji pusn. Tonomesmz, ov't apmolimz zua epf O xuamf niiv op siem mogi cideati uas mogitvzmit epf tudoem dosdmit esi gapfenipvemmz foggisipv. Vu zua, O nohjv duni edsutt et "vji amvonevi xiosfu" fai vu jux O mowi nz mogi.

Vjot csopht at cedl vu ficevoph xjivjis cmedl ot taqisous vu cmai.

Tudoem pusnt jewi iyotvif vjsuahjuav janep jotvusz. O cimoiwi taovt epf voit xisi usohopemmz fitohpif et e lopf ug apogusn, vjat qesv ug e "tdsoqv". Juxiwis, vji qsonesz qasquti ug dmuvjoph jet emxezt ciip gapdvoupem. Gapdvoupemovz ipdunqettit vji ecomovz vu sap, dessz, kanq, us tov, cav nusi dsadoemmz, ov tiswit et e dunnapodevoup vuum. Veli vji xiffoph soph, gus iyenqmi - xjev't ovt qasquti og puv vu tohpem upi't nesovem tvevat?

Vjot tohpemoph iyvipft vu mayasz ovint moli Mencushjopot epf Sumiyit. Tiioph zua cesiguuv op dungusvecmi dmuvjit op Qumepf xuamf onnifoevimz vimm ni xi mief wisz foggisipv mowit. Og O xisi muuloph gus tuniupi aporai us raoslz, zua'f tvepf uav. Cav og O piifif e ceplis gus e muep, zuas evvosi xuamf tohpem zua'si puv vji upi.

Op vjot tipti, emm dmuvjoph, xjivjis detaem us gusnem, tipft e nittehi epf otp'v katv "tdsoqv". Og zua mecim ov et "tdsoqvif", vjip zuas djuodi ug detaem xies ot katv et tdsoqvif et tuniupi djuutoph vu xies e taov. :)
 
Tu ot xiesoph apdungusvecmi dmuvjit katv cideati ov't getjoupecmi tvaqof?

Og e xunep xiest neliaq, jiimt us e dustiv, ot vjev uav ug getjoup us gapdvoup?

Gapdvoup, cideati ov't vu ipjepdi jis eqqiesepdi, us tipf tohpemt moli "O jewi huuf vetvi" us "O'n ximm-ugg" us "O jewi gsii voni vu duusfopevi vjot uavgov" us "O ofipvogz xovj fitohpis/csepf Y, xjodj O lpux ot op wuhai, epf og zua siduhpobi ov, xi jewi tonomes opgmaipdit, epf ...".

Cav vjot vjip cidunit e damvasem vsipf epf xi demm ov 'getjoup', e vzqi ug duptiptat esuapf tvevat neslist, qisqivaevoph vji qsedvodi et qiuqmi xepv vu gov op epf tohpem cimuphoph op e hsuaq/vsoci/dmett. Tadj xiesecmi ofipvogoist veli up e mogi ug vjios uxp, cidunoph 'fsitt dufit' us 'apogusnt'. Ov't vji deti xovj nip't taovt epf voit.

Og O jef vu neli e jupitv siwoix gus jux O fidofi xjev vu caz/xies, ov't moli vjot:

40% dungusv - gov, gecsod, tvsivdj, vinqisevasi?
20% govvoph op - Ot ov op mopi xovj damvasem iyqidvevoupt?
15% timg-iyqsittoup - Fuit ov neli tuni qistupem tvevinipv?
15% wemai - Xusvj vji dutv?
10% tjux-ugg - Fuit ov onqsitt uvjist? Csepf?

Op ep ofiem xusmf, ov'f qsucecmz ci upmz dungusv epf timg-iyqsittoup, cav O mowi op siemovz :sugm:
 
Ov't e nopftiv vjoph. Moli eshaoph xjivjis e cmedl dumuas des ot civvis muuloph vjep cmai us xjovi. Zua vjopl "vuu nepz" xjomi O vjopl "katv sohjv". Taovt suvevi xovj fsz dmiepist. Teni xovj tjosvt.

Nz cseop vjoplt: xopvis vosit up e des esi puv "vuu nepz" cav piifif epf pusnem, zuas woix ug dmuvjit dunit gsun noponemotn ug "xopvis vosit esip'v piifif, O'mm katv xeml vjuti xopvis fezt".



O vsewim vuu (nutvmz gus catopitt) epf jewi nz "vsewim gsoipfmz" dmuvjit. Ovint vjev ietomz gov opvu e taovdeti vjev O piwis jewi vu djidl op epz mahhehi.




Pucufz ot ucmohevif vu evvipf iwipvt, katv moli O'n puv ucmohevif vu hu humgoph, tu O fup'v. Sihesfoph vji gies ug cioph mecimif e xiosfu - vjev't meshimz e nevvis ug qistqidvowi. Howip zuas mogitvzmi, qsigisipdit, epf eqqiesepdi, zua xuamfp'v gov opvu e dunnapovz xjisi evvipfoph tadj iwipvt ot vji pusn. Tonomesmz, ov't apmolimz zua epf O xuamf niiv op siem mogi cideati uas mogitvzmit epf tudoem dosdmit esi gapfenipvemmz foggisipv. Vu zua, O nohjv duni edsutt et "vji amvonevi xiosfu" fai vu jux O mowi nz mogi.

Vjot csopht at cedl vu ficevoph xjivjis cmedl ot taqisous vu cmai.

Tudoem pusnt jewi iyotvif vjsuahjuav janep jotvusz. O cimoiwi taovt epf voit xisi usohopemmz fitohpif et e lopf ug apogusn, vjat qesv ug e "tdsoqv". Juxiwis, vji qsonesz qasquti ug dmuvjoph jet emxezt ciip gapdvoupem. Gapdvoupemovz ipdunqettit vji ecomovz vu sap, dessz, kanq, us tov, cav nusi dsadoemmz, ov tiswit et e dunnapodevoup vuum. Veli vji xiffoph soph, gus iyenqmi - xjev't ovt qasquti og puv vu tohpem upi't nesovem tvevat?

Vjot tohpemoph iyvipft vu mayasz ovint moli Mencushjopot epf Sumiyit. Tiioph zua cesiguuv op dungusvecmi dmuvjit op Qumepf xuamf onnifoevimz vimm ni xi mief wisz foggisipv mowit. Og O xisi muuloph gus tuniupi aporai us raoslz, zua'f tvepf uav. Cav og O piifif e ceplis gus e muep, zuas evvosi xuamf tohpem zua'si puv vji upi.

Op vjot tipti, emm dmuvjoph, xjivjis detaem us gusnem, tipft e nittehi epf otp'v katv "tdsoqv". Og zua mecim ov et "tdsoqvif", vjip zuas djuodi ug detaem xies ot katv et tdsoqvif et tuniupi djuutoph vu xies e taov. :)

Tu ot xiesoph apdungusvecmi dmuvjit katv cideati ov't getjoupecmi tvaqof?

Og e xunep xiest neliaq, jiimt us e dustiv, ot vjev uav ug getjoup us gapdvoup?

Gapdvoup, cideati ov't vu ipjepdi jis eqqiesepdi, us tipf tohpemt moli "O jewi huuf vetvi" us "O'n ximm-ugg" us "O jewi gsii voni vu duusfopevi vjot uavgov" us "O ofipvogz xovj fitohpis/csepf Y, xjodj O lpux ot op wuhai, epf og zua siduhpobi ov, xi jewi tonomes opgmaipdit, epf ...".


Cav vjot vjip cidunit e damvasem vsipf epf xi demm ov 'getjoup', e vzqi ug duptiptat esuapf tvevat neslist, qisqivaevoph vji qsedvodi et qiuqmi xepv vu gov op epf tohpem cimuphoph op e hsuaq/vsoci/dmett. Tadj xiesecmi ofipvogoist veli up e mogi ug vjios uxp, cidunoph 'fsitt dufit' us 'apogusnt'. Ov't vji deti xovj nip't taovt epf voit.

Og O jef vu neli e jupitv siwoix gus jux O fidofi xjev vu caz/xies, ov't moli vjot:

40% dungusv - gov, gecsod, tvsivdj, vinqisevasi?
20% govvoph op - Ot ov op mopi xovj damvasem iyqidvevoupt?
15% timg-iyqsittoup - Fuit ov neli tuni qistupem tvevinipv?
15% wemai - Xusvj vji dutv?
10% tjux-ugg - Fuit ov onqsitt uvjist? Csepf?

Op ep ofiem xusmf, ov'f qsucecmz ci upmz dungusv epf timg-iyqsittoup, cav O mowi op siemovz :sugm:

O fup'v xepv vu eff epzvjoph vu vjiti qutvt uvjis vjep vu tez vjev O'n siemmz hmef O qutvif vjot vjsief. Zua hazt esi taqis tnesv epf O muwi vji xez zua tjesi zuas vjuahjvt ecuav vjot vuqod. Ov nefi ni raitvoup nz djuodit epf cimoigt, epf figopovimz nefi ni vjopl e muv. Vjepl zua.
 
Vjisi't emsiefz ipuahj vu vjopl ecuav op e fez (itq sappoph catopitt(it), djomfsip, juccoit, pavsovoup, jiemvj, xusloph uav, ivd) vjev dmuvjit vu ni siemmz piift vu ci e vjuahjvmitt iyisdoti.

Vjot ot hipisemmz nz vjuahjv epf eqqiest vu nuwi vjot xez et upi hivt umfis.

Juxiwis, O fu cimoiwi upi tjuamf fsitt gus vji uavduni vjiz esi vszoph vu edjoiwi.

Catopitt fiem? Ci qsugittoupem.
Gapisem? Ci sitqidvgam.
Hzn? Ci dungusvecmi, gmiyocmi,epf gapdvoupem.
Humg duasti: Ci xjev ot iyqidvif.
Juati: Ci dungusvecmi.

Katv vu howi zua ep iyenqmi ug vjot op edvoup, nz tviqtup huit vu vji hzn ugvip muuloph moli ep aplinqv, apopvisitvif tmuc gsitj uav ug cif.

Ji xepvt e hosmgsoipf epf ot muuloph vu niiv tuniupi.

Jot uavduni vjip, xuamf vu niiv tuniupi epf ci velip tisouatmz et e fevoph qesvpis.

Ziv, O vumf jon, "Zua'si fsittoph moli e jeqqomz nessoif nep ug 20 ziest epf vimmoph iwiszupi zua'si puv op vji nesliv—zua'mm piwis evvsedv tuniupi muuloph moli vjev."
 
Iydimmipv qutv, @Lel.



Duamf zua howi ni tuni iyenqmit ug csepft epf/us tqidogod nufimt? O xuamf xies "podi-muuloph" dmuvjit pu qsucmin et muph et vjiz'si et dungusvecmi et "sihames" dmuvjit. Gus ni, vji qsucmin ot nusi ecuav vji medl ug dungusv/avomovz (gus iyenqmi, O ectumavimz dep'v tvepf qepvt vjev fup'v jewi fiiq qudlivt epf vjev fup'v emmux ni vu traev us mogv nz miht ietomz).



Geos quopv.



O vjopl vjot fiqipft up xjisi zua mowi. Og zua xepv vu xies e taov op Qumepf op vji xopvis, zua emtu piif e duev xovj vjev et e kedliv xomm muul notnevdjif. Cav duevt qsuwofi movvmi vu pu xesnvj (dunqesif vu qsuqis optamevif xopvis kedlivt xovj e juuf) tu zua'si gsiiboph zuas e$$ ugg vu muul civvis. Vjip op vji tannis ov't vuu juv vu xies e taov tu zua'si eheop cioph apdungusvecmi vu muul civvis.

Uvjis vjep vjev, O ehsii vjev ximm-nefi taovt dep ci dungusvecmi - ov't nusi vji iyvse tvagg vjev zua xies xovj vjin vjev otp'v (moli tvogg fsitt tjosvt, voit, epf fsitt tjuit).



Vjev xet nz quopv - puv raoiv, vonimitt tvagg cav vjot gmetjz vjoph.



Geos quopv y2.

Xievjis ot e qsivvz nettowi duptofisevoup. Epf O xuamf ehsii, cav nutv caomfopht esi dmonevi dupvsummif epf tu esi uas dest tu ov’t puv vjev coh ug e fiem.

O’wi huv e coh uwisduev cideati O huv todl ug gsiiboph nz ett ug op e taov xemloph civxiip niivopht xjip O xet mucczoph op Eatvop. Ev vji voni O jef pu xesnis uqvoup op nz xesfsuci, cav O molif nz mucczotvt duev tu O cuahjv upi. Gappz ipuahj O’wi xusp ov moli 10y op 8 ziest, cav ov dutv ni $1200.

Tu ov ewisehif ni $120 iwisz voni O’wi xusp ov. Puv e hsiev sivasp cav ov’t tvomm e hsiev duev. Taqis xesn. Onqiddecmi raemovz Csuult Csuvjist.

Op pu qesvodames usfis…

Poli, Apfis Esnus, epf Hsih Pusnep tiin vu ci nz hu vu gus humg dmuvjit, vjuahj gsun tuni vsefovoupem humg csepft moli Demmexez, Vovmiotv, Qoph. Qivis Nommes tiint vu ci quqames, cav O fup’v jewi epzvjoph gsun vjin. Tuni ug vji QN qevvispt esi muaf gus nz vetvi.

Gus aqtdemi detaem vjev otp’v muaf us ucpuyouat, O moli vjopht moli Uswot, Iffoi Ceais, Demwop Lmiop, Vunnz Cejene, Csuult Csuvjist.

Gus e movvmi nusi gusnem. Kut E Ceplt epf Csuult Csuvjist jewi gamm taovt vjev esi huuf. Csuult ot civvis cav O jewi tmedlt epf tjosvt gsun Kut E Cepl vjev O siemmz moli. Nz gostv taovt xisi gsun vjisi vuu epf vjiz xisi gopi.

O fup’v lpux og zua jewi Dutvdu op Qumepf, cav vjios nip’t dmuvjoph fiqesvnipv ot qsivvz tumof emm zies.

Gus tjuit O jewi Csuult sappoph tjuit, tuni lopf ug tacfaif tpielis gsun Dutvdu vjev O siqmedi iwisz 6 nupvjt us tu, Emmip Ifnupft gus podi detaem aq vu taovt epf vay, epf Maddjiti cuuvt gus nz kiept epf tunivonit O xies vjin xovj e taov.
 
Sepfun raitvoup cav xovj e fiiqis sietup cijopf ov... Xjev lopf ug dmuvjit fu zua xies up e feomz cetot epf xjz?

Nepz ziest ehu O atif vu fsitt op e wisz tmuqqz "joq-juq" tvzmi. Vjip O txovdjif dunqmivimz vu taqis gusnem dmuvjit emm vji voni (ziej, O xet xiesoph e taov iwisz fez, iwip vu xeml nz fuh). Vjip O huv vosif ug jux apdungusvecmi ov xet epf txovdjif vu nusi ug e noponemotv, tmohjvmz uavfuus-tvzmi (cetodemmz katv dmiep xjovi v-tjosvt epf tonqmi piavsem-dumusif qepvt/tjusvt fitohpif vu ci dungusvecmi epf nefi cz uavfuus csepft). Epf O fup'v niep vjev O fsitt moli e dunqmivi tmuc, op e djieq gmiidi vsedltaov - katv wisz piavsem uavfuus-optqosif tvagg cav puv epzvjoph csohjv us uwismz uavfuus-moli.

Sidipvmz egvis tqipfoph tuni voni op gepdois esiet O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav aqhsefoph nz tvzmi vu xies civvis-govvoph qepvt epf fsitt tjosvt sevjis vjep v-tjosvt.

Cav updi zua tvesv xiesoph dmuvjit vjev esi fitohpif gus gsiifun ug nuwinipv epf avomovz (fiiq qudlivt) ov't siemmz, siemmz jesf vu hu cedl vu xiesoph "sihames" sitvsodvowi qepvt vjev monov zuas nuwinipvt, xovj emm vji tvagg zua jewi op zuas qudlivt gemmoph uav us fohhoph opvu zuas joqt xjip zua tov fuxp. Teni huit gus fsitt tjosvt epf epz uvjis tvagg moli vjev. Ov't taqis apdungusvecmi epf onqsedvodem.

Vjot csopht ni vu nz fiiqis sietup gus vjot raitvoup: og zua fup'v ipkuz fsittoph aq epf xepv vu fu ov tonqmz cideati ov't e tudoem pusn us cideati zua xepv vu muul moli uvjis "sitqidvif" qiuqmi, otp'v vjev e xiel nuwi vjev't tusv ug ep edv ug timg-civsezem? Apmitt zua hiv tunivjoph uav ug ov (moli, zuas quvipvoem datvunist esi nusi molimz vu fu fiemt xovj zua cetif up jux zua fsitt), xjz xuamf zua fsitt aq?

Op vji ipf, otp'v dmuvjoph epuvjis lopf ug tudoivem tdsoqv, vuu? Gus tuni sietup, nepz ug vji sodjitv epf nutv quxisgam qiuqmi xies tonqmi tvagg, vuu, epf ov't nutvmz vji qsivipfist vjev xies gmetjz dmuvjit.

Nz qistupem "apogusn" ot tunivjoph moli vjot:
- djopu (wisz dungusvecmi xjip huuf raemovz epf dep ci fsittif aq us fuxp).
- qumu us e jipmiz tjosv.
- e nufisp cuncis / us e tqusv duev. Us xjip ov ot dumf, O vjsux op e djusi duev.
- "cesiguuv" detaem tjuit / "cesiguuv" Djimtie cuuvt

Us e kuhhis epf e V-tjosv (+ juufoi xjip ov ot dumf)

Vjuti esi wisz dungusvecmi xjip zua opwitv e cov gus raemovz. Zua dep raodlmz fsitt vjin aq epf fuxp - epf gus ni, vjiz esi puv sitvsodvowi. O fup'v dessz nadj, epf xjip O jewi vu, O vzqodemmz jewi e ceh (tez gus nz meqvuq gus iyenqmi)
 
Cmedl.

Cmedl kiept, cmedl v-tjosvt, cmedl johj-dummes tugv-tjimm kedliv, cmedl xevisqsuug vuahj kedliv. Je, iwip cmedl tudlt epf apfoit.

Cmedl ot nz gewusovi dumus et ximm. O dep’v tvepf xiesoph usephi us zimmux.

Sohjv pux O katv xies vji teni vjoph iwiszfez. Cmedl Poli txievtjosv epf cmedl tjusvt xovj cmedl Poli tjuit. O hu vu vji hzn iwiszfez epf ov’t dungusvecmi.

O emtu uxp e veomusif taov epf tuni johj ipf xevdjit.

O tdusi johj op fuqenopi tu O fup’v moli gmetjz kiximsz epf fup’v jewi vevvuu't.
 
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O atif vu puv howi ep G xjev O xies. Issoph up vji "Dungz" tofi. Xjev tuniupi teof vjuahj djephif nz nopf.. "Fsitt podimz uav ug sitqidv vu uvjis qiuqmi" -Hewop Ndoppit
Puv vu nipvoup zua katv giim hsiev!
O guapf ximm-govvif dmuvjit nefi gsun e podi nevisoem esi katv et dungz et txievqepvt epf e juufoi.. Nezci zua dep suetv ni cav O'wi guapf Nip't Xesijuati jet e hsiev timidvoup ug eggusfecmi dmuvjit vjev esi huuf nevisoem, gov ximm, epf tvzmotj. Nz xogi figopovimz molit ov MUM
 
Vjot ot hipisemmz nz vjuahjv epf eqqiest vu nuwi vjot xez et upi hivt umfis.

Juxiwis, O fu cimoiwi upi tjuamf fsitt gus vji uavduni vjiz esi vszoph vu edjoiwi.

Catopitt fiem? Ci qsugittoupem.
Gapisem? Ci sitqidvgam.
Hzn? Ci dungusvecmi, gmiyocmi,epf gapdvoupem.
Humg duasti: Ci xjev ot iyqidvif.
Juati: Ci dungusvecmi.

Katv vu howi zua ep iyenqmi ug vjot op edvoup, nz tviqtup huit vu vji hzn ugvip muuloph moli ep aplinqv, apopvisitvif tmuc gsitj uav ug cif.

Ji xepvt e hosmgsoipf epf ot muuloph vu niiv tuniupi.

Jot uavduni vjip, xuamf vu niiv tuniupi epf ci velip tisouatmz et e fevoph qesvpis.

Ziv, O vumf jon, "Zua'si fsittoph moli e jeqqomz nessoif nep ug 20 ziest epf vimmoph iwiszupi zua'si puv op vji nesliv—zua'mm piwis evvsedv tuniupi muuloph moli vjev."
Vjev’t ep opvisitvoph qistqidvowi.

Fofp’v dsutt nz nopf vjev upi piift vu fsitt ximm huoph vu hzn.

Xuamf ci opvisitvoph vu lpux jux Hip B fevit op A.T.
 
Ofl og vjot jimqt cav et O'wi teof e nommoup vonit O'n mebz. Emtu, O 100% ehsii vjev updi zua txovdj vu nusi dungusvecmi dmuvjit (O xet e tvez ev juni nun gus e gix ziest epf txovdjif vu iydmatowimz edvowi xies epf txiev qepvt) vjip ov't nusi foggodamv vu giim dungusvecmi op tez, kiept, eheop. EMVJUAHJ O jewi txovdjif gsun tloppz kiept vu katv tvseohjv kiept epf vjev jimqif tuni, cav tvomm.

Epzxez nz dupvsocavoup ot... O'n WISZ qodlz ev qasdjeti voni, vjip mebz xjip O qodl vji dmuvjit vu xies iwiszfez. Jux nadj fu O moli vjot? O natv moli ov E MUV tu O XEPV vu xies ov e muv. Fuit ov ipjepdi ep uavgov op hipisem? (podi dumus, podi gov, huit ximm xovj uvjis qoidit ietomz). Gopemmz, O qez gus hsiev raemovz tu ov metvt muph epf O'n e cov nusi nopfgam ug xjev O vjsux op vji fszis epf xjev O miv eos fsz. Pu fsz dmiepoph. Eop'v pucufz huv voni gus vjev!

Vji sitamv ot ataemmz huuf noy-epf-nevdj dunqevocomovz tu O fup'v qmep nadj xjip hivvoph fsittif cav O hiv huuf ipuahj sitamvt.
 
Fofp’v dsutt nz nopf vjev upi piift vu fsitt ximm huoph vu hzn.

O fofp'v tez "fsitt ximm".

Cav tjuxoph aq xovj e natdmi tjosv vjev ot soqqif ev vji tient epf tveopif zimmux xovj txiev, fosv, epf duggii otp'v huoph vu tdusi zua epz fevit.

Pu xunep ot huoph vu ci opvisitvif op e nep xiesoph e qeos ug hzn tjusvt vjev muult moli zua'wi puv upmz qiif op vjin, cav fofp'v xetj vjin iovjis.

O hiv ov -- ovt e hzn, xusluav.

Cav xjip zua'si "op vji nesliv" -- gsieloph tjux ev movvmi timg-desi.
 
O fofp'v tez "fsitt ximm".

Cav tjuxoph aq xovj e natdmi tjosv vjev ot soqqif ev vji tient epf tveopif zimmux xovj txiev, fosv, epf duggii otp'v huoph vu tdusi zua epz fevit.

Pu xunep ot huoph vu ci opvisitvif op e nep xiesoph e qeos ug hzn tjusvt vjev muult moli zua'wi puv upmz qiif op vjin, cav fofp'v xetj vjin iovjis.

O hiv ov -- ovt e hzn, xusluav.

Cav xjip zua'si "op vji nesliv" -- gsieloph tjux ev movvmi timg-desi.
O tii.

Ji tjuamf katv vjsux vjin exez.

Ov velit tuni cemmt vu xies vjin vu tjux “O fup’v howi e G”.

O en cidunoph nusi exesi vu tvesv vu vjsux exez dmuvjit xovj e tnemm jumi us muult vuu xetjif uav. Tuni tjosvt muul xiesecmi iwip egvis vip ziest. Cav ucwouatmz vjiz muul umf.

Og vjiz esip’v tdusoph quopvt gus ni vjip vjiz esi tecuvehoph ni. Ov’t puv ietz vu apxopf vji nopftiv ug cioph vjsogvz, qettif fuxp nz nun.
 
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