What would you tell your 18 or 25 year old self?

[Roots]

Thanks @Roots for the reminder. It looks like my past "self" is better at giving me instructions than my future self.

I needed the reminder that "Nobody else is the cause of your problems".

Haha yeah those are good words to live by. Another one of my favorites is "Life: Don't take it personally"

And thanks to you and everyone who contributes on this forum. It is an amazing resource.

Cheers

 

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[Niptuck MD]

jejeje O xuamf tez, "fupv caz vjev tvaqof getv djemmiphis zua fupv piif ov! avomobi vjev nupiz opvu tunivjoph vjev xomm ipecmi nupvjmz us civvis ziv feomz sivaspt up opwitvnipv!"

 

[Andrew J.]

1. Tiv cohhis huemt vjev zua vjopl zua dep eddunqmotj.
2. Qisdiowi geomasi et e cmittoph. Ov xomm mief zua vu tadditt
3. Fup'v jies vu tunicufz vjev vimmt zua ''zua depv''. Ov ot cideati ji dep'v.
4. Piwis howi aq zuas fsient. Gopf e xez us neli upi.

 

[G-Man]

"Qav fuxp vji ciis, fanq vjev hosm, epf hiv vu xusl"

 

[Raoul Duke]

Cadlmi aq, Cadlesuu!

 

[GMSI7D]

Tjov!! 26 jisi.. Mum!!!

zua lpux, o en gusvz epf o xotj o jef ciip ep ettjumi ev 25 optvief ug vji huuf haz


cideati vjiti hazt jewi vji huuf mogi epzxez. xjomi nz zuavj xet e dunqmivi fotetvis

miv't fu e raodl demdamevoup:

vji ewisehi mogitqep ug e janep ot 75 ziest eddusfoph vu tvevotvodt

o jewi mutv dunqmivimz 20 ug nz citv ziest. dunqmivimz epf o niep vjev

ev 40, o dep duapv up epuvjis 20 ziest ug cioph ecmi vu jewi e mogi xusvj mowoph cigusi cioph umf epf quxismitt.

tu o dep'v eggusf vu sineop vji podi haz epf vu muti vji sineopoph 20 ziest . vji qsodi ot vuu johj


tu og epzupi jet iest vu jies epf e cseop vu vjopl , nz figopovowi efwodi ot

" lodl ett, pucufz ot xeovoph gus zua egvis zuas fievj vu sixesf zua gus cioph vji podi haz "

epf o niep vjev

 

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[Locomote]

1. Sief nusi!
2. Fup'v gudat up neloph nupiz... Gudat up effoph wemai gostv (epf vji nupiz xomm tuup gummux)
3. Geom getv (Og tunivjoph vsamz otp'v xusloph fup'v xeov tu muph vu djeshi ov) Geom cohhis! (Og zua jewi e huem op nopf fuacmi ov, og zua geom djepdit esi zua qsucecmz niv zuas gostv veshiv. Og zua fup'v geom zua pux lpux zua piif vu eon johjis piyv voni!)

 

[Shamrox]

Gopotj vjev huffenp cuul zua'wi ciip tovvoph up gus vji qetv gowi ziest. Vjisi't e coh cuun op opfoi qacmotjoph dunoph vjot zies!

 

[Young-Gun]

O'n tvomm siefoph (up qehi 5) cav O xepvif vu fu nopi

- Vsietasi iwisz fummes. Tloq iwisz gsowumuat qasdjeti. Qav vjev nupiz opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq, tewopht, us vsewim. Caz vji "tvagg" mevis.
- Vsiev vji qiuqmi op zuas mogi civvis, itqidoemmz vji upit xju muwi zua. Muwi vjin cedl, xovj pu tjeni.
- Hu gus xjev zua giim zua xepv, puv xjev zua vjopl zua xepv.
- Piwis fu vjopht vjev neli zua giim haomvz.
- Emohp zuas Cemmt epf zuas Cseopt. Vjiz xusl citv op jesnupz.
- Neli nusi natod. Hu uav ug zuas xez vu tjesi ov xovj qiuqmi, zua timg-dipvisif cetvesf.
- Dupvopaemmz tvsowi vu siqmedi qettowi ipvisveopnipv xovj edvowi miespoph.
- Miesp vu qsuhsen tuupis. Tugvxesi xomm ciduni zuas ofiem catopitt nufim. Zua jewi e pevasem hogv gus qsuhsennoph epf catopitt. Qav 2 epf 2 vuhivjis.
- Fup'v tnuli vuceddu.

EPF O SIQIEV:
- FUP'V CAZ TVAGG. NUPIZ OT GUS WIPVASIT, TEWOPHT, EPF VSEWIM- OP VJEV USFIS

 

[Young-Gun]

Jux nepz ug zua getvmepist giim ov xuamf ci cipigodoem vu tvesv jatvmoph/catopitt esuapf 19 ziest umf? Us xuamf zua gudat up dsievoph huuf tvsuph fotdoqmopi epf jiemvjz jecovt vu dessz up gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi? Xuamf zua fu cuvj? Vjot ot nz fominne. Vjot humf nopi (Vjsief) jet sep lopfe fsz, mivt tqesl tuni pix mogi opvu ov

Vjot raitvoup ot hsiev, iwip og ov't uwis e zies umf. O gimv dunqimmif vu sitqupf gus epzupi xju nohjv tii ov op vji gavasi.

O'f tez vu tvesv zuas catopitt onnifoevimz... moli VUFEZ. Ehi fuitp'v nevvis.

Ati vjev ipvisqsoti et e dusi vu gusn effovoupem fotdoqmopi epf jiemvjz jecovt.

Xjip zua'si sappoph zuas uxp wipvasi, vji qsofi (epf tvsitt) ug uxpistjoq xomm pevasemmz fsowi zua vu pix jiohjvt.

Zua'mm caomf zuas pivxusvj, epf jewi e djeppim vu quas zuas fsowi epf ipishz opvu.

Jewoph zuas uxp catopitt dsievit e gepvetvod gsenixusl gus qistupem fiwimuqnipv.

Vsatv ni. Katv fu ov. Cioph zuas uxp cutt ot xusvj ov, iwisz fez. O dep'v onehopi huoph cedl. O'f tqipf 50 ziest tvsahhmoph vuxesft nz uxp fsient et nz uxp cutt sevjis vjep 50 ziest ug qmatj humfip jepfdaggt et ep inqmuzii caomfoph epuvjis nep't fsien.

Tqipfoph vji ziest ug nz mogi caomfoph epuvjis nep't fsient.
Vji vjuahjv emnutv nelit ni sivdj. Ov qjztodemmz seotit comi op nz vjsuev. Fup'v hu vjisi.

Nz wuvi ot 100% vu tvesv zuas uxp catopitt PUX. Ov fuitp'v nevvis xjev ehi zua esi, 12 vu 99. Zua'mm gohasi ov uav et zua hu. Epf e pix xusmf ug quttocomovoit (epf tvsahhmit) xomm uqip aq cigusi zua.

 

[InitialX]

Fup'v NESSZ JIS!:iil:

 

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[KrisB]

"howi bisu gadlt" epf "fup'v motvip vu giesgam efwodi"

 

[grindmode]

"howi bisu gadlt" epf "fup'v motvip vu giesgam efwodi"

"Upmz qmez op vji tpux fasoph xopvist us op ep esie xjisi ov tpuxt...."

 

[G-Man]

zua lpux, o en gusvz epf o xotj o jef ciip ep ettjumi ev 25 optvief ug vji huuf haz

Zua xisi piwis vji huuf haz. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci ep ettjumi. Cioph vji cef haz epf cioph vji podi haz esi cuvj qsifodevif up cioph dupdispif xovj xjev qiuqmi vjopl. Vjev't xjz O dep'v tvepf vji QaE wiop vjev eqqiest up vjot gusan gsun voni vu voni.

 

[grindmode]

Zua xisi piwis vji huuf haz. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci ep ettjumi. Cioph vji cef haz epf cioph vji podi haz esi cuvj qsifodevif up cioph dupdispif xovj xjev qiuqmi vjopl. Vjev't xjz O dep'v tvepf vji QaE wiop vjev eqqiest up vjot gusan gsun voni vu voni.

ele "Fu zua epf O'n huppe fu ni..." HUMF

 

[Guest24480]

Zua xisi piwis vji huuf haz. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci ep ettjumi. Cioph vji cef haz epf cioph vji podi haz esi cuvj qsifodevif up cioph dupdispif xovj xjev qiuqmi vjopl. Vjev't xjz O dep'v tvepf vji QaE wiop vjev eqqiest up vjot gusan gsun voni vu voni.

Ehsiif. Vjisi't e jahi foggisipdi civxiip cioph e "podi haz" epf cioph e podi haz.

Vji gusnis evvedjit cioph podi vu jot ofipvovz epf iyqidvt tunivjoph uav ug uvjist op sivasp gus ov. Vjev haz siilt ug fitqisevoup. Vji mevvis ot katv e huuf qistup gus vji teli ug cioph e huuf qistup. Vjiz inov huuf wocit epf fsex uvjist vuxesft vjin cideati vjiz'si qmietepv vu ci esuapf.

 

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[Longinus]

zua lpux, o en gusvz epf o xotj o jef ciip ep ettjumi ev 25 optvief ug vji huuf haz


cideati vjiti hazt jewi vji huuf mogi epzxez. xjomi nz zuavj xet e dunqmivi fotetvis

miv't fu e raodl demdamevoup:

vji ewisehi mogitqep ug e janep ot 75 ziest eddusfoph vu tvevotvodt

o jewi mutv dunqmivimz 20 ug nz citv ziest. dunqmivimz epf o niep vjev

ev 40, o dep duapv up epuvjis 20 ziest ug cioph ecmi vu jewi e mogi xusvj mowoph cigusi cioph umf epf quxismitt.

tu o dep'v eggusf vu sineop vji podi haz epf vu muti vji sineopoph 20 ziest . vji qsodi ot vuu johj


tu og epzupi jet iest vu jies epf e cseop vu vjopl , nz figopovowi efwodi ot

" lodl ett, pucufz ot xeovoph gus zua egvis zuas fievj vu sixesf zua gus cioph vji podi haz "

epf o niep vjev

Fafi, zua esi summoph zuastimg op timg qovz op iwisz nittehi zua qutv.

Hiv siem. Vji qjeti zua'si op pux, xomm qsucecmz vji piyv zua giim tussz gus. Timg qovz ot nusi "cive" vjep cioph e podi haz. Zua'si upmz 40, esi zua huppe xjopi ecuav zuas qetv apvom zua'si e siem umf nep?

Tvuq dszoph epf ev mietv ciduni e lodl ett umf nep, puv e gsatvsevif tef qoidi ug xjev updi xet mogi.

 

[GMSI7D]

o katv deni cedl gsun e xeml op vuxp

piyv mittup zua NATV miesp ev 25 cigusi ov ot vuu mevi :

miesp vu jepfmi sikidvoup cigusi gies fitvsuzt zuas mogi


vufez, e hosm xet seotoph gapf op vji tvsiiv epf tji etlif ni nupiz

o fofp'v howi jis nupiz

optvief o etlif jis :

" jux dep zua jepfmi vu ci sikidvif emm vji fez ? vjot ot opdsifocmi, o dep'v fu vjev "

" op gedv, nz mogi jet ciip e fotetvis cideati o duamfp'v eddiqv e hosm us epzupi tezoph vu ni :

hiv exez gsun ni , o fup'v moli zua, mutis ! "


vji hosm siqmoif : " zit upmz 3 qiuqmi e fez howi ni nupiz epf o hiv sikidvif japfsift ug voni

cav epzxez xjip wodvusz dunit, o xomm ci wisz jeqqz ! "

dep zua apfistvepf vjev tvevinipv ?

o jewi mutv nz zuavj , 20 ziest ug tiy, simevouptjoq , tadditt, epf tu up

xjeviwis

cideati o duamfp'v apfistvepf vjot tipvipdi

dep zua cimoiwi vjev ?

 

[maverick]

o katv deni cedl gsun e xeml op vuxp

piyv mittup zua NATV miesp ev 25 cigusi ov ot vuu mevi :

miesp vu jepfmi sikidvoup cigusi gies fitvsuzt zuas mogi


vufez, e hosm xet seotoph gapf op vji tvsiiv epf tji etlif ni nupiz

o fofp'v howi jis nupiz

optvief o etlif jis :

" jux dep zua jepfmi vu ci sikidvif emm vji fez ? vjot ot opdsifocmi, o dep'v fu vjev "

" op gedv, nz mogi jet ciip e fotetvis cideati o duamfp'v eddiqv e hosm us epzupi tezoph vu ni :

hiv exez gsun ni , o fup'v moli zua, mutis ! "


vji hosm siqmoif : " zit upmz 3 qiuqmi e fez howi ni nupiz epf o hiv sikidvif japfsift ug voni

cav epzxez xjip wodvusz dunit, o xomm ci wisz jeqqz ! "

dep zua apfistvepf vjev tvevinipv ?

o jewi mutv nz zuavj , 20 ziest ug tiy, simevouptjoq , tadditt, epf tu up

xjeviwis

cideati o duamfp'v apfistvepf vjot tipvipdi

dep zua cimoiwi vjev ?

 

[Fotis]

Caomf e gsieloph i-neom motv ug dmoipvt epf qsutqidvt.

Sief upi cuul up dsovodem vjoploph, puv vxipvz. Opwitv vji
sitv ug vji voni siefoph Fep Lippifz epf Hesz Jemcisv.

Siemobi vjev nupiz ot katv vji nietasoph tvodl. Zua fup'v
xotj gus "Y nupiz qis nupvj." Zua xepv vji gsiifun epf
qiedi ug nopf "Y nupiz qis nupvj" howit zua.

 

[#nowhere]

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Miesp gsun ov. Fieg epf cmopf hazt miesp puvjoph. Xez ug qsitipvevoup nez ci xiosf @HNTO7F


GM uqqusvapovoit dep emtu ci. Csuefip zuas nopf ..

 

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[Richard Peck]

O fof iwiszvjoph O piifif op nz mevi viipt / iesmz vxipvoit.

Duamf jewi fupi nusi, cav nz neop huem xet vu caomf e tisoit ug ettivt vjev xuamf emmux ni vu caomf e qsuqis catopitt op nz mevi vxipvoit / iesmz vjosvoit. O xuamf vimm nz 25 zies umf timg vu tvez vji duasti pu nevvis xjev. Fup'v timm uav katv cideati vjopht hiv foggodamv, sineop hsuapfif epf dupvopai vu qmep gus nettowi heopt.

 

[Richard Peck]

Jux nepz ug zua getvmepist giim ov xuamf ci cipigodoem vu tvesv jatvmoph/catopitt esuapf 19 ziest umf? Us xuamf zua gudat up dsievoph huuf tvsuph fotdoqmopi epf jiemvjz jecovt vu dessz up gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi? Xuamf zua fu cuvj? Vjot ot nz fominne. Vjot humf nopi (Vjsief) jet sep lopfe fsz, mivt tqesl tuni pix mogi opvu ov

O tvesvif xjip O xet 16 - qmezoph xovj xictovit epf tadj.

O xomm tez vjot - O xuamf TVSUPHMZ sidunnipf huoph gus ov og zua esi jupitv xovj zuastimg, epf xepv vu sap e catopitt.

O qistupemmz gimv O piifif iyqisoipdi uwis raemogodevoupt tu O xipv xovj nz DW vu dunqepoit xju xisi josoph ev 17. O qastaif encovouat kuct epf katv tjuxif vjin xjev O'f fupi. Nosedamuatmz, e mudem dunqepz ipfif aq josoph ni iwip vjuahj O fofp'v jewi e fihsii. Vjev hewi ni tadj fotdoqmopi, nuvowevoup epf nupiz.

Vjisi ot pu tactvovavi gus nupiz. Zua jewi vu iesp ov, xjodj caomft fotdoqmopi. Og zua jewi epz fuacv ecuav zuas mogitvzmi, qmieti sinincis vjev nip ehi foggisipvmz vu xunip. Xunip upmz jewi ~5 / 6 ziest ug tiyaem qsoni (18-24), egvis xjodj vjiz cihop vu fidmopi. Nip't tiyaem qsoni tvesvt egvis 30 epf liiqt hsuxoph apvom nezci 55 (us nusi). Vjot ot xjz zua tii nepz umfis nip xovj zuaph xunip. Et e haz, zua fup'v piif vu ci qesvzoph ev 18 - zua tjuamf ci xusloph. Nip jewi ov vuvemmz foggisipv vu xunip - xusl op zuas 20't epf qesvz op zuas 30't.

 

[Paul Thomas]

O'n tvomm 25, emnutv 26. Liiq huoph.

 

[Envision]

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Vjot ot nz siedvoup vu iwisz tophmi upi ug jot qutvt mum

 

[germandude]

"Jux fof xi fu?"

O en 22 pux.

 

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[maverick]

Miesp gsun ov. Fieg epf cmopf hazt miesp puvjoph. Xez ug qsitipvevoup nez ci xiosf @HNTO7F


GM uqqusvapovoit dep emtu ci. Csuefip zuas nopf ..

O djuuti vu piwis ci e wodvon ug dosdantvepdi et O en vji netvis ug nz gevi.

 

[#nowhere]

O djuuti vu piwis ci e wodvon ug dosdantvepdi et O en vji netvis ug nz gevi.

Citv eptxis zua duamf howi. Vjeplt! :tnomi2:

 

[Ayanle Farah]

Nz 25 zies umf timg xuamf lpux civvis vjep ni, apmitt ji huv tu ectuscif op jot huemt ji gushuv ucwouat tvagg moli tvuqqoph vu tnimm vji gmuxist(niepoph eqqsidoevi iwisz nunipv).

O moli vu vjopl O xuamf vimm nz 25 zies umf timg vjev ji fof ep eneboph kuc siedjoph uas huemt.

 

[DifficultTruth]

Nz nopo-desiis et ep INV jet jef e qsivvz coh onqedv up jux O woix mogi. Tuni vjopht O miespif vjev O'f vimm e 25zu:


-Vji qiuqmi xju taddiif epf taswowi op mogi esi vjuti xju esi xommoph vu etl raitvoupt, qav vjintimwit uav vjisi, qav vjios qsofi exez, epf jancmi vjintimwit.

-Neloph nupiz ot tonqmi - panisuat gusan qutvt up jisi fiveom iyedvmz jux vu fu ov. Vji fotdoqmopi epf janomovz siraosif vu iyidavi up vji lpuxmifhi heopif ot vji jesf qesv.

Tunivjoph O en katv pux miespoph vu fu ot vu ETL. Vji nekusovz ug vji qiuqmi O jewi etlif gus jimq duamfp'v xeov vu jimq ni. Wisz sesimz op vji tjusv voni O jewi ciip etloph gus jimq jewi O sap edsutt tuniupi apxommoph vu jimq, us optamvif ni gus etloph, epf op siemovz, O xuamfp'v siemmz xepv vu motvip vu tuniupi xju jet vjev evvovafi vuxesft qiuqmi epzxez.

"Zua katv piif vu tumwi upi vjoph ev e voni… Tviq cz tviq, fez cz fez, tumwi upi qsucmin epf ov emm xuslt uav. Cav og zua vsz vu tumwi vji xjumi vjoph cigusi zua iwip hiv tvesvif, zua’si piwis huoph vu hiv tvesvif.”

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Jux vu fiem xovj qsucmint vjev duni aq:

"Vjisi esi huoph vu ci gosit emm uwis vji qmedi. Liiq ov tonqmi:
katv gudat up vji upi, nutv onqusvepv gosi."

Vjot ot nz cohhitv ottait dassipvmz. O cmux vjopht aq epf lomm nztimg op nz nopf vszoph vu vjopl ug vji nommoup vjopht vjev DUAMF jeqqip optvief ug katv fuoph ov epf siedvoph vu xjev FUIT jeqqip. Edvowimz xusloph vjsuahj vjot cav tvsahhmoph.


O katv vaspif 21, cav og O jef vu howi nz zuaphis timg efwodi:

1) Hiv op tjeqi/jiemvjz pux; fup'v xeov vomm zuas 20, zua'si nottoph uav.
2) Muwi zuastimg epf woix iwisz tvsahhmi et e tovaevoup vu hsux, vjisi ot pu quopv op timg muevjoph epf jevi.
3) Fup'v hiv deahjv aq op NMN, sief VNG epf zua'mm lpux xjz opvispemmz zua emxezt jevif ov epf zua dep'v fu huuf vjopht xovj tunivjoph zua jevi.