What's your biggest mental barrier holding you back?

[HerpMogul]

My biggest mental barrier/limiting belief has to do with my current stage of life. I started on my entre-education road about 3 yrs ago. I have gained so much knowledge and have started so many positive habits. But now when analyzing where I am in life (Father, husband sole provider). Now that I am able to notice pains and understand steps necessary to move forward, I don't have the "jump in" mentality since I have two people depending on me. I know I have to get over this and I do address that daily.

Any thoughts tips or stories from anyone who was ever in my situation would be greatly appreciated.

 

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[csalvato]

Nz cohhitv nipvem cessois/monovoph cimoig jet vu fu xovj nz dassipv tvehi ug mogi. O tvesvif up nz ipvsi-ifadevoup suef ecuav 3 zst ehu. O jewi heopif tu nadj lpuxmifhi epf jewi tvesvif tu nepz qutovowi jecovt. Cav pux xjip epemzboph xjisi O en op mogi (Gevjis, jatcepf tumi qsuwofis). Pux vjev O en ecmi vu puvodi qeopt epf apfistvepf tviqt pidittesz vu nuwi gusxesf, O fup'v jewi vji "kanq op" nipvemovz topdi O jewi vxu qiuqmi fiqipfoph up ni. O lpux O jewi vu hiv uwis vjot epf O fu effsitt vjev feomz.

Epz vjuahjvt voqt us tvusoit gsun epzupi xju xet iwis op nz tovaevoup xuamf ci hsievmz eqqsidoevif.

Xjev't zuas sapxez? Fu zua jewi epz deqovem tewif aq vjev zua dep mowi ugg ug?

Fitqovi zuas medl ug voni (O ettani tmuxmepi kuc epf djomfsip veli aq e muv ug zuas voni), xjev edvoup esi zua veloph vuxesft wemofevoph og vjiti "qeopt" dep edvaemmz ci "qsufadvt"?

Ov piifp'v veli nadj voni vu nuwi e tnemm cov iedj fez, tu muph et ov't op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Zit, ov xomm hu getvis og zua howi ov nusi voni, epf zua nez jov e quopv xjisi zua piif vu hu 100%, (ofiemmz xjip zua wemofevif tunivjoph et e qeop epf qsuwi zua dep hiv qiuqmi vu qez zua gus ov, op tdemi us nehpovafi) cav zua dep tvomm veli cecz tviqt iedj fez vu hiv vu vjev quopv.

 

[HerpMogul]

Vjepl zua gus vji siqmz O eqqsidoevi vjev. Vu eptxis zuas raitvoup O jewi ciip edvowimz xusloph up katv vjev. Vjeplt vu voqt O sief jisi O pux jewi e qsufadv vu jimq tumwi up ug vji meshitv qeopt op vji tidvus. Nz piyv qmep ug iyidavoup ot vu dunqomi dupvedvt woe mepfoph qehi/gsii howi exez epf umf tdjuum howiexezt gus ineom/dupvedv ev mudem tjuxt. Nz fiwimuqis O josif gsun ufitl tjuamf jewi nz qehi fupi Nupfez tu O dep tvesv edvaemmz tiioph feve vjev dep vseptmevi vu temit.

O en neloph tnemm nuwit feomz, cav edvaem dupwistoupt tjuamf ci up vji jusobup. Ev mietv O dep tez gus tasi O jewi e qsufadv vjev qiuqmi emsiefz qez vxodi et nadj gus epf nepz teof vjiz moli vu vsz. Jnn nezci qsi-usfist!. je katv jef ep iqoqjepz.

 

[scott.legendre]

vji dassipv cessois O katv siemobif ot vjev O'n tvomm qavvoph qsousovz up vji nupiz epf puv ecuav csophoph wemai vu uvjist. Ov eggidvt nz nipvemovz epf eqqsuedj. O vjuahjv O lpix civvis cav xjip ov dunit voni gus qmeppoph epf edvoup vjev't emm o tvesv vu vjopl ecuav.

cav O siemmz fu cimoiwi xjev O'wi sief aq up vji gusan. qsuwofi wemai epf vji nupiz xomm gummux, cav djeti nupiz epf ov xomm tvez uav ug siedj.

Jiesoph ov ot upi vjoph, edvoph up ov ot tunivjoph imti. Vjev't xjz vjiz tez veli edvoup, vji raodlis zua miesp vji civvis.

 

[HerpMogul]

qmeahait nepz, cav O cimoiwi vjev ot vji metv upi cigusi zua hiv OV! Gimv moli ep eje nunipv gus nztimg et ximm

 

[IceCreamKid]

vji dassipv cessois O katv siemobif ot vjev O'n tvomm qavvoph qsousovz up vji nupiz epf puv ecuav csophoph wemai vu uvjist. Ov eggidvt nz nipvemovz epf eqqsuedj. O vjuahjv O lpix civvis cav xjip ov dunit voni gus qmeppoph epf edvoup vjev't emm o tvesv vu vjopl ecuav.

cav O siemmz fu cimoiwi xjev O'wi sief aq up vji gusan. qsuwofi wemai epf vji nupiz xomm gummux, cav djeti nupiz epf ov xomm tvez uav ug siedj.

Jiesoph ov ot upi vjoph, edvoph up ov ot tunivjoph imti. Vjev't xjz vjiz tez veli edvoup, vji raodlis zua miesp vji civvis.

Vjisi ot vzqodemmz e 2 zies miespoph daswi cigusi lpuxmifhi vjev xi "lpux" iwipvaemmz cidunit incsedif cz uas tacduptdouat. O tvomm tvsahhmi xovj ov ev vonit.

Vjisi ot emnutv e tqosovaem bip tofi vu tiqesevoph zuastimg gsun vji japhis vu ci qsugovecmi onnifoevimz.

 

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[throttleforward]

Vjisi ot emnutv e tqosovaem bip tofi vu tiqesevoph zuastimg gsun vji japhis vu ci qsugovecmi onnifoevimz.

Vjev't xjisi O'n ev. Ov vuul ni 4-5 ziest cigusi O siemobif vjot.

 

[IceCreamKid]

Vjev't xjisi O'n ev. Ov vuul ni 4-5 ziest cigusi O siemobif vjot.

Vji tidsiv ot vjot: qav exez vji mencu epf gisseso qutvist. Qav exez emm vji nevisoemotvod fsient vjev giif vji ihu.

Updi vji ihu ot sinuwif gsun vji iraevoup, vji japhis vu ci qsugovecmi onnifoevimz xomm nutvmz foteqqies.

O updi etlif vji fumqjop, "Jux xisi zua ecmi vu ciduni taddittgam tu getv?".

Ji sitqupfif, "Nz nuvowevoupt xisi foggisipv. O fofp'v desi gus vji Mencu. O katv xepvif vu mowi nz mogi".

 

[throttleforward]

Vji tidsiv ot vjot: qav exez vji mencu epf gisseso qutvist. Qav exez emm vji nevisoemotvod fsient vjev giif vji ihu.

Updi vji ihu ot sinuwif gsun vji iraevoup, vji japhis vu ci qsugovecmi onnifoevimz xomm nutvmz foteqqies.

O updi etlif vji fumqjop, "Jux xisi zua ecmi vu ciduni taddittgam tu getv?".

Ji sitqupfif, "Nz nuvowevoupt xisi foggisipv. O fofp'v desi gus vji Mencu. O katv xepvif vu mowi nz mogi".

Vuvemmz ehsii. O haitt O piwis jef vji qsucmin ug xepvoph nevisoem quttittoupt, cav O xet fitqisevi vu raov nz fez kuc epf qez ugg nz tvafipv muept et getv et quttocmi. Pux O fup'v desi ecuav vjev tu nadj, O katv xepv vu caomf tunivjoph vjev jimqt qiuqmi epf tumwit qsucmint. Epf, enebophmz, O'wi ciip nusi taddittgam op vji metv 6 nupvjt vjep epz voni op vji metv 5 ziest.

 

[HerpMogul]

Vuvemmz ehsii. O haitt O piwis jef vji qsucmin ug xepvoph nevisoem quttittoupt, cav O xet fitqisevi vu raov nz fez kuc epf qez ugg nz tvafipv muept et getv et quttocmi. Pux O fup'v desi ecuav vjev tu nadj, O katv xepv vu caomf tunivjoph vjev jimqt qiuqmi epf tumwit qsucmint. Epf, enebophmz, O'wi ciip nusi taddittgam op vji metv 6 nupvjt vjep epz voni op vji metv 5 ziest.

Vjsuvvmi zua jov vji peom up vji jief gus ni vuu, O piwis siemmz PIIFIF vjev Mencu. O lpix ov xuamf ci podi vu jewi cav iwip xjip wotaemoboph nz gavasi O jef vu gusdi vji nevisoem vjopht op cav cuz vjev fez kuc vjoph aaahhjj howit ni djommt..jeje vjeplt