Okay to answer the question about whether men or women want sex more, the general answer is that men care more about sex. In general. But again, there are some caveats. Heres a good graphical depiction from a Tinder study
So yes, in general, women have the advantage. But if you're a male in the top 20%, you have the advantage. Women have to be choosier because evolutionarily they've had the burden of childbirth. If a woman gets pregnant, that's 9 months of pregnancy, and 18+ years of child rearing. Men don't have that burden necessarily. Furthermore women want to make sure a man is committed in the case she DOES get pregnant. But they will forgo that commitment if the guy is of high enough genetic quality to make the pregnancy worth it, even if he is not guaranteed to commit. In lay terms a woman who is an 8 will F*ck a guy who is a 10 even without commitment. Because now she has a baby with high quality DNA so if she's stuck in a single mother situation its not as bad as if she had a baby with a guy who is a 6 (lower survival value) This also explains the 'slut' phenomenon. Women on the low end of the totem pole will accept almost ANY genetic material, even without commitment. The difference between her and Marilyn Monroe is that Marilyn Monroe was F*cking JFK and Marlen Brando (high quality genetic material) whereas the girl who is called a 'slut' is F*cking guys of average genetic material.
Now this has nothing to do with the slut-shaming I referred to earlier. A girl at a club isn't generally accepting ANY genetic material... she's only letting the highest quality guys go home with her, which is why you see women rejecting men at clubs and bars. They're simply not up to the standards she's looking for. These girls are not 'sluts'... 'sluts' are the ones with low standards.
I still stand by the statement that its not that different for men and women. "A guy who sleeps around is a stud"... no, he's only a 'stud' if he's sleeping around with quality women. If he's F*cking every fat crack addicted woman, he's now not much of a stud, is he. But the same is true of women. Marilyn Monroe was revered because she landed quality men.
But this still illustrates that, for men, your best option is commitment. Because as illustrated earlier, a man who is an 8, without commitment, can usually only sleep with women who are 6's. But with commitment, men can date women who are equal to them. Ie, 9's can land other 9's.
So yes, in general, women have the advantage. But if you're a male in the top 20%, you have the advantage. Women have to be choosier because evolutionarily they've had the burden of childbirth. If a woman gets pregnant, that's 9 months of pregnancy, and 18+ years of child rearing. Men don't have that burden necessarily. Furthermore women want to make sure a man is committed in the case she DOES get pregnant. But they will forgo that commitment if the guy is of high enough genetic quality to make the pregnancy worth it, even if he is not guaranteed to commit. In lay terms a woman who is an 8 will F*ck a guy who is a 10 even without commitment. Because now she has a baby with high quality DNA so if she's stuck in a single mother situation its not as bad as if she had a baby with a guy who is a 6 (lower survival value) This also explains the 'slut' phenomenon. Women on the low end of the totem pole will accept almost ANY genetic material, even without commitment. The difference between her and Marilyn Monroe is that Marilyn Monroe was F*cking JFK and Marlen Brando (high quality genetic material) whereas the girl who is called a 'slut' is F*cking guys of average genetic material.
Now this has nothing to do with the slut-shaming I referred to earlier. A girl at a club isn't generally accepting ANY genetic material... she's only letting the highest quality guys go home with her, which is why you see women rejecting men at clubs and bars. They're simply not up to the standards she's looking for. These girls are not 'sluts'... 'sluts' are the ones with low standards.
I still stand by the statement that its not that different for men and women. "A guy who sleeps around is a stud"... no, he's only a 'stud' if he's sleeping around with quality women. If he's F*cking every fat crack addicted woman, he's now not much of a stud, is he. But the same is true of women. Marilyn Monroe was revered because she landed quality men.
But this still illustrates that, for men, your best option is commitment. Because as illustrated earlier, a man who is an 8, without commitment, can usually only sleep with women who are 6's. But with commitment, men can date women who are equal to them. Ie, 9's can land other 9's.
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