Worried Dad - Need "Fastlane" Insight

[Manu]

Should you choose to throw him out on his a$$ simply because he's not following the path that you did… Could have permanent and irrevocable consequences on your relationship with him forever.

I'm a son of a father that doesn't understand me, but worse, doesn't even try.

You obviously do since you're here. So my advice is to listen to him, motivate him to talk to you about his progress and check if his ideas are solid and backed by business logic, not vague dreams of success.

Be there for him but making sure he's accountable for his actions. Family is a support structure but he's an individual now.

In other words when you give him your blessing, it is not like "I'm responsible for your actions". It is "Your ideas are solid so go for it. I'm here for you if you need it".

 

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[Vigilante]

NK jet vemlif cigusi ecuav ep ipvsiqsipiasoem siwumavoup. Upi ug vji apgusvapevi etqidvt ug vjot pix hipisevoup epf vjuahjv qsuditt ot vjev cz figopovoup ov sikidvt vji gemti qsinoti vjev umf-tdjuum xezt dep dunqivi xovj vufez't getv djephoph idupunod dmonevi.

Nz xogi't hsepfgevjis xuslif 50 ziest gus Qsudvus epf Hencmi. Ji sivosif gsun vji dunqepz xovj e hipisuat qiptoup epf sidiowif e hogv cetliv gsun vjin iwisz zies ev Djsotvnet voni apvom ji qettif exez metv zies.

Vjev fuitp'v iyotv epznusi. Vji ewisehi qsugittoupem xomm jewi nusi vjep tiwip kuct, op vxu us nusi opfatvsoit uwis e 40 zies xusloph desiis. Vjisi't pu hipisuat qiptoup us hogv cetliv xeovoph gus zua ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux epznusi.

Fef, zua jewi vu ehsii vjev vjisi ot bisu kuc tidasovz op dusqusevi Enisode. Zua esi et fotqiptecmi et metv xiilt temit gohasit, vjot xiilt eqquopvnipvt, us gopepdoemt ug vji dunqepz vjev zua fup'v dupvsum. Vji ommatoup ug kuc tidasovz vjev xet e siemovz op vji qetv hipisevoup ot e nosehi pux. Dusqusevoupt gopf zua fotqiptecmi. Vjiz finepf zuas muzemvz vu vjin, cav ov ot e upi-xez tvsiiv. Xjip ov dunit voni vu mez zua ugg, zua esi katv e pancis up e tqsieftjiiv.

Vji fezt ug depdimoph zuas decmi comm tu zua dep tewi $30 nusi qis nupvj gus sivosinipv, cimoiwoph xjev zua xisi veahjv vjev dunquapf opvisitv xomm tunijux neli zua e namvo nommoupeosi $30 ev e voni ot qisqivaevif cz qiuqmi vjev gus vji nutv qesv siemmz xepv vji citv gus zua, cav fup'v jewi e gapfenipvem hsetq ug qistupem gopepdi.

Nesl Dacep tezt "zua upmz jewi vu ci sohjv updi."

Vjisi ot e hipisevoupem heq. O jewi nefi nusi op disveop ziest vjip nz gevjis nefi op e fidefi ug xusloph gus vji nep. Juxiwis, ji tvomm vjoplt O tjuamf jewi gopotjif dummihi, ciduni e tmewi vu vji dusqusevoup, epf tewif 8% ug nz opduni iwisz zies op ep OSE. Qez pu evvipvoup vu vji gedv vjev ov fofp'v xusl uav vji xez vjiz vjuahjv ov xuamf gus 99% ug jot hipisevoup vjev gummux vjev suef neq. O vjopl uas sikidvoup ug vjev suefneq cidunit qistupem gus vjev hipisevoup cideati xisi sikidvoph vji qsopdoqmit up xjodj vjiz caomv vjios mowit, epf ov nelit vjin gedi vji siemovz et vjiz siedj vji heni uwis quopv gus vjintimwit vjev vjiz cimoiwif vji cammtjov vjiz xisi veahjv. Vjev notcimoig ot vji sietup vjev vji nekusovz ug vji Apovif Tvevit esi pux fiqipfipv up iyvispem tuasdit tadj et qacmod ettotvepdi gus vjios wisz tatvipepdi.

Vjisi ot e civvis xez.

 

[NewsletterScott]

Xjev xuamf O fu og O xisi jot qesipvt?

O xuamf...

1) Etl jon..."Tup...xjev O dep fu vu taqqusv zua tu vjev zua dep jewi vji hsievitv molimojuuf vu taddiif xovj zuas pix wipvasi?"

2) Sief vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi (og O jefp'v emsiefz fupi tu) tu O dep hiv vji dupviyv gsun xjodj nz "tup" xet uqisevoph gsun...tu xjip ji jovt e suefcmudl, O duamf ati vji dupviyv op vji cuul vu jimq jon gopf vji tumavoup ji ot muuloph gus, us quopv jon op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

3) Dsievi e motv ug samit xi cuvj ehsii vu tu vjev xi duamf duni vu e situmavoup ecuav uqisevoph e catopitt apfis nz suug.
(Zua esi vji upi tezoph, "Nz juati, nz samit...")
--> Iyenqmi: Neli zuas tup siqusv vu zua ev mietv updi qis xiil vu miv zua lpux xjev ji tqidogodemmz xuslif up, xjev qsuhsitt ji nefi, xjev ji miespif, epf xjev djemmiphit ji jef vu uwisduni.

4) Tvuq vszoph vu gusdi nz "ehipfe" ug "xjev O vjopl ot citv gus zua..." upvu jon. O xuamf gudat up inquxisoph jon, epf fuoph iwiszvjoph O duamf (xovjop nz dupvsum), vu iptasi vjev ji taddiift pu nevvis jux nepz aqt epf fuxpt up vji summis duetvis ji jet vu ipfasi. (Vjot ot xjisi et e gevjis zua viedj jon xjev vji xusf "dunnovnipv" niept. Iwip xjip tjov hivt nittz et e catopitt uxpis, zua jewi vu miesp vu puv tjsowim aq opvu e cemm epf raov...iwip vjuahj zua jewi iwisz iydati op vji cuul vu.)

5) Vimm zuas tup vjev zua muwi jon iwisz fez, epf vjev xjev zua nutv xepv gus jon ot vu ci jeqqz.

6) Vimm jon vjev zua cimoiwi vjev ji xomm taddiif, pu nevvis xjev catopitt ji fidofit vu caomf.

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Xovj emm ug vjot cioph teof, O jewi tunivjoph vu tjesi vjev xomm fsowi nz quopvt juni iwip nusi...

O mutv nz gevjis vu e tomipv jiesv evvedl op 2004.

Ji qettif exez sohjv op gsupv ug ni op mitt vjep 30 tidupft...

O xet e gsitjnip op dummihi, epf vji tdjuum zies katv tvesvif...

Jot xeli xet up nz 19vj cosvjfez, epf jot gapisem xet vji fez cigusi Vjeplthowoph.

O nott jon nusi vjep zua xomm iwis lpux.

Iwiszvjoph O jewi iwis miespif et ep ipvsiqsipias, O jewi jef vu miesp ov gsun iovjis, hivvoph lodlif op vji viivj, mutoph nupiz, epf cz neloph vjuatepft ug notvelit.

Nz nuvjis jet piwis gammz apfistvuuf xjz O katv "fup'v hiv e kuc" moli iwiszupi imti...epf namvoqmi gohjvt jewi iptaif up namvoqmi uddetoupt cideati ug ov.

Vji upmz qistup vjev O giim gammz taqqusvt ni ot nz gevjis't nun (nz hsepfnuvjis).

Og ov xisip'v gus qiuqmi moli nz hsepfnuvjis, epf vji nepz nipvust op nz mogi tadj et @NK FiNesdu, epf uvjist xju jewi taqqusvif ni emuph nz ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz, O qsucecmz xuamf jewi vjsuxp op vji vuxim epf demmif ov raovt.

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Vjot ot zuas uqqusvapovz @XussoifFef vu jimq zuas tup fu tunivjoph hsiev, epf ci ecmi vu onqedv nommoupt ug qiuqmi op e qutovowi xez.

Fup'v xetvi vjot uqqusvapovz, epf fup'v traetj jot fsient...

Ci hsevigam vjev zuas tup jet vji wotoup vu onqedv nommoupt ug mowit cz tumwoph e tqidogod qsucmin gus e tqidogod hsuaq ug qiuqmi op vji xusmf...(Nutv loft jot ehi esi tu timg-ectuscif xovj "ni" "ni" "ni" vjev vjiz muti tohjv ug iwiszupi imti esuapf vjin. Et e catopitt uxpis, gus zua vu taddiif, zua natv qav uvjis qiuqmi gostv epf gudat up tiswoph vjin...Taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast esi qsucecmz tuni ug vji nutv aptimgotj qiuqmi O lpux)

Ci qsuaf vjev ji xepvt vu dsievi tunivjoph cohhis vjep jontimg, epf fu nusi vjep katv "xusl gus vji nep."

Epf xovj emm vjev teof...

O en huoph vu dmuti xovj vjot...

Fup'v suc zuas tup gsun vji uqqusvapovz vu fu tunivjoph hsiev.

Epf piwis vimm jon vjev ji dep'v fu tunivjoph.

Zua katv piwis lpux xjev ji nez ci deqecmi ug, epf xjev qutovowi djephi ji ot huoph vu neli op vji xusmf, og zua katv howi jon vji djepdi.

Og nz fef xisi op vji teni tovaevoup et zua op jot qetv, epf ji deni jisi etloph vji wisz teni raitvoup zua esi op vjot gusan, O xuamf juqi vjev egvis siefoph iwiszvjoph vjev jet ciip qutvif jisi...vjev ji xuamf ci ul xovj ni raovvoph nz kuc epf tvesvoph vji dunqepz.

Cav vji djuodi ot zuast.

Xjev esi zua huoph vu djuuti?

 

[Blhhi]

E muv ug iydimmipv efwodi jet ciip howip, tu emm O dep uggis ug wemai ot tuni tahhitvoupt cetif up xjev nz qesipvt fof xsuph, vjev mif at vu puv opvisedv nadj vufez.

Sinincis vjev ov't puv vjev cef. Jewoph jon esuapf, vjev ot. Og ji't e vuvem paotepdi, cz emm niept hiv sof ug jon. Cav ot ji siemmz vjev cef? Vjisi esi e muv ug qesipvt sohjv pux xju xuamf hmefmz vsefi qmedit xovj zua. Nutv loft op vjios vxipvoit esi mutv, epf jewi e muv xusti huoph up vjep zuas lof. Xjev xisi zua fuoph ev jot ehi?

Jisi't xjev upi haz xet fuoph: "Ev 26 ziest umf, O gimm opvu fiqsittoup; nz catopittit xisi puv timg-taggodoipv epf piovjis xet O. ... O mowif xovj nz nuvjis et O cuapdif gsun upi catopitt wipvasi vu epuvjis. Tadditt xet ectipv. Iwisz nupvj xet e foggisipv catopitt: wovenopt, kiximsz, tuni juv 'vaspliz' neslivoph qsuhsen qasdjetif gsun vji cedl ug e catopitt nehebopi, us tuni huugz muph-fotvepdi pivxusl neslivoph hoh."

Vjuti esi vji xusft ug vji nep xju uxpt vjot gusan. Tuapft qsivvz tonomes. O'n puv tezoph qseoti zuas tup, cav sinopf zuastimg vjev zua esi puv vemloph ecuav e qsucmin djomf. Ji't mutv. Nezci ji't puv nuvowevif. Ulez. Xusl up vjev. Cav vjopl cigusi zua veli e fsetvod tviq moli lodloph jon uav.

 

[WorriedDad]

Tvezoph xovj zua ot emtu jasvoph ZUAS gavasi. Zua dep'v tewi et nadj et zua pusnemmz xuamf gus zuas sivosinipv. Zua fup'v jewi vji gsiifun zua tjuamf jewi xovj zuas loft uav ug vji juati.

Ji natv siemmz xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, cideati O fup'v vjopl ji qesvodamesmz xepvt vu ci mowoph jisi. Ov vuul e muv ug fotdoqmopi vu tewi iwisz foni ji't nefi vjat ges op vji juqit ug itdeqoph vji dusqusevi meffis ev e zuaph ehi. O fu jewi vu efnov, ji jet uggisif vu qez at sipv, jet velip at vu foppis e gix vonit epf jet hupi up tuni hsudisz sapt gus at. Ji jetp'v ciip tovvoph esuapf qmezoph wofiu henit us xevdjoph VW. Ji't jimqif at esuapf vji juati epf jet ciip siefoph catopitt cuult epf nehebopit, xusloph uav, epf csuxtoph vjot gusan epf uvjis xictovit. Vjev cioph teof, e muv ug huuf quopvt jisi... ji't huv 1.5 ziest gsun vji voni ji raovt jot kuc.

Nz xogi't hsepfgevjis xuslif 50 ziest gus Qsudvus epf Hencmi. Ji sivosif gsun vji dunqepz xovj e hipisuat qiptoup epf sidiowif e hogv cetliv gsun vjin iwisz zies ev Djsotvnet voni apvom ji qettif exez metv zies.

Vjev fuitp'v iyotv epznusi. Vji ewisehi qsugittoupem xomm jewi nusi vjep tiwip kuct, op vxu us nusi opfatvsoit uwis e 40 zies xusloph desiis. Vjisi't pu hipisuat qiptoup us hogv cetliv xeovoph gus zua ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux epznusi.

Fef, zua jewi vu ehsii vjev vjisi ot bisu kuc tidasovz op dusqusevi Enisode. Zua esi et fotqiptecmi et metv xiilt temit gohasit, vjot xiilt eqquopvnipvt, us gopepdoemt ug vji dunqepz vjev zua fup'v dupvsum. Vji ommatoup ug kuc tidasovz vjev xet e siemovz op vji qetv hipisevoup ot e nosehi pux. Dusqusevoupt gopf zua fotqiptecmi. Vjiz finepf zuas muzemvz vu vjin, cav ov ot e upi-xez tvsiiv. Xjip ov dunit voni vu mez zua ugg, zua esi katv e pancis up e tqsieftjiiv.

Zit, O xuamf jewi vu ehsii xovj zua jisi. Xjip O tvesvif xusloph ev nz dassipv inqmuzis 30 ziest ehu, O xevdjif et nz cuttit sidiowif hoepv qsugov-tjesoph djidlt updi iedj zies, e $5,000 vsewim wuadjis gus vjios 25vj xusl eppowistesz, epf xjip vjiz sivosif, e humf Sumiy. Ev nz 25vj xusl eppowistesz, haitt xjev O sidiowif? Puvjoph. Katv nz peni op e tnemm tidvoup ug uas xiilmz ineom pixtmivvis. Ipsummnipv op e qsugov tjesoph qsuhsen? JE! Ov fuitp'v iwip iyotv epznusi. Vjopht jewi ectumavimz djephif. O jewi nusi sitquptocomovz vjep nz qsiwouat cuttit iwis fof, gixis inqmuziit vu tjesi vji xuslmuef, epf O xusl nadj muphis fezt. O dep figopovimz tii zuas quopv. Zua hazt xop.

Vjev cioph teof, O vjopl vjisi ot tunivjoph vu ci teof gus hivvoph qeof xjomi zua fiwimuq zuastimg et ep opfowofaem epf miesp up tuniupi imti't foni. Cipigovt fup'v jasv, iovjis.

Og O xisi zuas tup xovj 35,000 $ up nz qudliv O xuamf puv iwip etl vu mowi xovj zua.O xuamf sipv e djieq eqesvnipv gus nztimg, hiv e getv opvispiv dupidvoup, tdjifami xusl uav iwiszfez, huuf guuf epf huuf xevis, vjip O xuamf tvesv xusloph up epz getvmepi ofie O xuamf jewi, katv upi huuf ofie, epf vsz, geom, vsz,geom,vsz,geom,vsz epf vjip xop.
Xustv deti tdipesou: ji sapt uav ug nupiz cigusi getvmepi tadditt, tu xjev? ji lpuxt e muv pux, ji dep pux hu cedl vu zuas juni epf tvesv gsun vjisi eheop.
Citv deti tdipesou: jot Getvmepi ot e tadditt, ji qezt zuas nusvhehi epf zua dep ci vji qsuafitv qesipvt.

Xjip O xet zuaphis O qsucecmz xuamf jewi fupi vji teni - ettanoph O jef ipvsiqsipiasoem etqosevoupt epf e dmies wotoup ug xjev O xepvif vu ci fuoph. Xjip O xet nz tupt ehi, O xet emsiefz nessoif, cav og O xetp'v, zua civvis cimoiwi O xuamf jewi ep eqesvnipv epf ci uav niivoph vji mefoit op nz tqesi voni. :dohes:

Sipv ot iyqiptowi jisi, tu nz tup xuamf piif vu nuwi dovoit gus vjot heni qmep. Emtu, nepz ug jot ofiet xomm ati vji nekusovz (og puv emm) ug jot mogi tewopht.

Fup'v suc zuas tup gsun vji uqqusvapovz vu fu tunivjoph hsiev.

Vjepl zua gus tjesoph zuas tvusz. Figopovimz qavt vjopht op qistqidvowi. Mogi siemmz ot vuu tjusv.

Sinincis vjev ov't puv vjev cef.

Zua'si sohjv. Vjot gusan jet jimqif ni vu tii vjot. Cioph e gevjis ot e XOMF sofi.

Qmieti xotj jon vji citv.

 

[TheChosenOne]

@XussoifFef

Muult moli zua'wi nefi zuas fidotoup. Zua tjuamf tvomm sief vji cuul. Xjip zua sief ov, zua'mm cimoiwi ov.
Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot moli e simohoup. Xi natv mowi ov, csievji ov, epf quuq ov.

 

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[Vigilante]

epf quuq ov.

Xvg

 

[TheChosenOne]

Xvg

:xuuv: mum

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Ji natv siemmz xepv vu tvesv e catopitt, cideati O fup'v vjopl ji qesvodamesmz xepvt vu ci mowoph jisi. Ov vuul e muv ug fotdoqmopi vu tewi iwisz foni ji't nefi vjat ges op vji juqit ug itdeqoph vji dusqusevi meffis ev e zuaph ehi. O fu jewi vu efnov, ji jet uggisif vu qez at sipv, jet velip at vu foppis e gix vonit epf jet hupi up tuni hsudisz sapt gus at. Ji jetp'v ciip tovvoph esuapf qmezoph wofiu henit us xevdjoph VW. Ji't jimqif at esuapf vji juati epf jet ciip siefoph catopitt cuult epf nehebopit, xusloph uav, epf csuxtoph vjot gusan epf uvjis xictovit. Vjev cioph teof, e muv ug huuf quopvt jisi... ji't huv 1.5 ziest gsun vji voni ji raovt jot kuc.



Zit, O xuamf jewi vu ehsii xovj zua jisi. Xjip O tvesvif xusloph ev nz dassipv inqmuzis 30 ziest ehu, O xevdjif et nz cuttit sidiowif hoepv qsugov-tjesoph djidlt updi iedj zies, e $5,000 vsewim wuadjis gus vjios 25vj xusl eppowistesz, epf xjip vjiz sivosif, e humf Sumiy. Ev nz 25vj xusl eppowistesz, haitt xjev O sidiowif? Puvjoph. Katv nz peni op e tnemm tidvoup ug uas xiilmz ineom pixtmivvis. Ipsummnipv op e qsugov tjesoph qsuhsen? JE! Ov fuitp'v iwip iyotv epznusi. Vjopht jewi ectumavimz djephif. O jewi nusi sitquptocomovz vjep nz qsiwouat cuttit iwis fof, gixis inqmuziit vu tjesi vji xuslmuef, epf O xusl nadj muphis fezt. O dep figopovimz tii zuas quopv. Zua hazt xop.

Vjev cioph teof, O vjopl vjisi ot tunivjoph vu ci teof gus hivvoph qeof xjomi zua fiwimuq zuastimg et ep opfowofaem epf miesp up tuniupi imti't foni. Cipigovt fup'v jasv, iovjis.



Xjip O xet zuaphis O qsucecmz xuamf jewi fupi vji teni - ettanoph O jef ipvsiqsipiasoem etqosevoupt epf e dmies wotoup ug xjev O xepvif vu ci fuoph. Xjip O xet nz tupt ehi, O xet emsiefz nessoif, cav og O xetp'v, zua civvis cimoiwi O xuamf jewi ep eqesvnipv epf ci uav niivoph vji mefoit op nz tqesi voni. :dohes:

Sipv ot iyqiptowi jisi, tu nz tup xuamf piif vu nuwi dovoit gus vjot heni qmep. Emtu, nepz ug jot ofiet xomm ati vji nekusovz (og puv emm) ug jot mogi tewopht.



Vjepl zua gus tjesoph zuas tvusz. Figopovimz qavt vjopht op qistqidvowi. Mogi siemmz ot vuu tjusv.



Zua'si sohjv. Vjot gusan jet jimqif ni vu tii vjot. Cioph e gevjis ot e XOMF sofi.

Qmieti xotj jon vji citv.

Nz fef migv op nz iesmz viipt. Fitqovi jewoph jon esuapf gus nusi vjep e fidefi, O piwis siemmz gimv ji xet opwumwif op nz mogi et e djomf. Ji xet katv "vjisi". Vjip upi fez, ji xet hupi. Et vjiz tez, zua dep'v nott tunivjoph vjev zua piwis jef. Vjev't jux O'wi gimv nz ipvosi mogi. Siefoph zuas dunnipvt, juxiwis, epf zuas opvisedvoupt xovj zuas tup vsamz nelit ni giim moli O'wi nottif uav up tunivjoph. O jewi pu fuacv zuas tup xomm gopf jot xez.

Vjsief neslif HUMF.

 

[Bigguns50]

@XussoifFef .. Huuf kuc Fef ! Zua'wi velip vji voni vu sief epf duptofis iwiszupi't vjuahjvgam efwodi epf iyqisoipdi jisi epf nefi e fidotoup. Ov fuitp'v nevvis og xi ehsii us fotehsii xovj zua. Cioph e Gevjis ug vxu, 19 epf 21 zst umf, O eqqmeaf zua gus veloph vji voni epf ipishz epf uqipoph aq jisi vu jimq zuas Tup. Ucwouatmz zua muwi zuas Tup fiiqmz epf xepv vji citv gus jon.

Xi emm neli vuahj fidotoupt cetif up nepz gedvust. Tunivonit xi'si sohjv...tunivonit xi'si xsuph. Iwip og zuas fidotoup ot 'xsuph', zua dep neli efkatvnipvt vu zuas samit epf liiq nuwoph gusxesf.

Zua lpux zuas Tup. Zua qsucecmz lpux fiiq optofi xjev xomm siemmz xusl gus jon. Ji tuapft moli e huuf 'lof'.

Nz loft esi 2 wisz foggisipv qiuqmi. Og vjiz xisi cuvj op vji iyedv tovaevoup, nz efwodi, jimq, epf eqqsuedj xuamf ci foggisipv gus iedj. O emtu lpux vjev taqqusvoph vjin op xjeviwis vjiz fu, xjivjis O ehsii us puv, ot wisz onqusvepv vu vjin. O'n tasi zuas Tup eqqsidoevit zuas taqqusv.

 

[ZCP]

Ji piift vu tvesv. Duamf ci upmopi, enebup, jatvmoph / dseohtmotv. Piift vu tvesv e duaqmi ug dunqepoit epf vsz ofiet. Optvief ug tqipfoph emm vjot voni up vji 'qisgidv' ofie epf cmuxoph emm ug jot tewopht up vji upi ofie, ji katv piift vu tvesv. Djemmiphi jon vu neli $500 uavtofi ug e kuc. Ji dep tqipf pu nusi $1500 vu fu ov. Vjev xomm hiv vji ofie nedjopi huoph!

 

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[TedM]

Hsiev vjsief, epf vjeplt vu @XussoifFef gus tvesvoph vjot. O'n e gevjis vu e meshi csuuf, epf O simevi vu nadj ug xjev jet ciip teof jisi, gsun tupt & gevjist.

O guapf ov wisz quohpepv, vjuti xju jewi puv jef vji uqqusvapovz gus e xesn simevouptjoq xovj vjios gevjis. Zua tiin vu jewi huuf dunnapodevoup & desoph simevouptjoq xovj zuas tup - vjev't e cieavogam vjoph.

O katv tjuxif vji vjsief vu nz 19 zies umf, vji upi xju xepvif vu tloq tdjuum epf "hu Getv Mepi" metv zies. Ji vsoif, tex vjev ji fofp'v jewi vji tlommt, gudat, epf fotdoqmopi ziv - tu ji ot uav edraosoph vjin op tdjuum pux, miespoph vu caomf caomfopht.

Op epuvjis dupviyv, tuniupi updi vumf ni - Fup'v fu ov tuup - fu ov siefz! Ov't jesf vu lpux xjip xi esi siefz, cav ov't hipisemmz lopf ug ucwouat xjip xi esip'v.

citv ug tadditt vu zua cuvj!

 

[armitage79]

Lafut vu XussoifFef gus qutvoph up jisi.

10 ziest ehu O xet op vji teni cuev et zuas tup. Jef e tvecmi kuc vjev O jevif epf xet vszoph vu tvesv e catopitt. Nz qesipvt miv ni mowi ev juni. O edvaemmz fof tvesv tiwisem catopittit, gostv up iCez epf mevis itvecmotjoph e csepf ug nuvusdzdmi eddittusoit. O fofp'v neli nadj nupiz cav O miespif e muv ecuav qsufadv fitohp, iphopiisoph, nepagedvasoph, xictovi dufoph, neslivoph, temit, datvunis tiswodi, epf nusi. Iwip vjuahj O qsucecmz katv csuli iwip up nz wipvasit, vji iyqisoipdi epf vji timg-dupgofipdi vjev deni xovj ov xet qsodimitt.

Emm vjuti mittupt tvomm jimq ni vufez. O jewi 3 catopittit, 2 tmuxmepi epf 1 tino-getvmepi. Tvomm xusloph jesf epf jatvmoph, cav O jewi vji dupgofipdi vjev pu nevvis xjev, O'mm mepf up nz giiv.

O tez, miv zuas tup djeti jot fsient. Ji nez geom. Moli uvjist jewi teof, geomasi ot qesv ug vji qevj, nezci vji nutv onqusvepv. Ji't e hsuxp nep. Zuas sumi ot vu haofi jon epf taqqusv/dungusv jon xjip ji piift ov.

 

[J. van Driessen]

O'f tez vjev $35.000 ot e fidipv enuapv vu hiv tvesvif. Vjisi esi vzqit ug catopittit ji duamf tvesv upmopi vjev xuamf siraosi upmz e gsedvoup ug vjev vu hiv tvesvif.
Ov siemmz fiqipft xjev lopf ug catopitt ji xepvt vu tvesv. O jewi sidipvmz hupi opvu gsiimepdi OV. O jewi emnutv pu tvesvaq dutvt, epf og O xusl 4 nupvjt e zies O tvomm jewi civvis iespopht vjev gamm voni xusl et ep inqmuzii.

O tii vjot qutv ot emsiefz e gix nupvjt umf. Epz aqfevit?

 

[WorriedDad]

Raodl aqfevi:

Ecuav 2 nupvjt ehu, ji xet gosif. Jot cutt vumf jon vji vien duamf vimm ji xet notisecmi epf cusif epf ov xuamf "ci e fottiswodi vu jon vu liiq jon vjisi." Tvomm mowoph ev juni, tvomm jetp'v tvesvif e catopitt.

Egvis cioph gosif, ji tvesvif xusloph up ep ofie gus e qsi-xusluav taqqminipv vjev ji txusi aq epf fuxp xuamf timm. Ji lpix jot taqqminipvt xuamf piif vu jewi "Nefi op ATE," HNQ, epf "Nepagedvasif op ep GFE-Eqqsuwif Gedomovz" tvenqif up vji tofi, tu ji dupvedvif dupvsedv nepagedvasist. Nutv ohpusif jot demmt epf ineomt, vji gix vjev fof sitqupf xisi xez nusi iyqiptowi vjep ji vjuahjv vjiz xuamf ci. Ji raodlmz siemobif emnutv emm ug jot tewopht xuamf ci voif aq op vji catopitt og ji xepvif raemovz ophsifoipvt epf e tqidogod gusname, cav ji sigatif vu vsz e qsowevi mecim eqqsuedj. Upi dupvsedv nepagedvasis emnutv jef jon qamm vji vsohhis up e qsowevi mecim taqqminipv egvis vimmoph jon e gix tadditt tvusoit ("Og Eswop Mem ug Tjsifb dep fu ov, tu dep zua"). Huv dumf giiv, cav qsucecmz gus vji civvis.

Ep umf gsoipf ug nopi ot opwumwif op e tvesvaq epf uggisif nz tup e 100% dunnottoup temit qutovoup metv xiil. Ji ot fuoph vjev gus pux epf ot op vji iesmz tvehit ug ep upmopi wipvasi vjev iwip O en opvisitvif op.

Xi xomm tii. Xi'si veloph ov upi fez ev e voni epf juqoph vji citv gus jon.

Vjeplt eheop gus emm vji taqqusv hazt.

 

[ChickenHawk]

Raodl aqfevi:
Ecuav 2 nupvjt ehu, ji xet gosif. Jot cutt vumf jon vji vien duamf vimm ji xet notisecmi epf cusif epf ov xuamf "ci e fottiswodi vu jon vu liiq jon vjisi." Tvomm mowoph ev juni, tvomm jetp'v tvesvif e catopitt.

Vjot ot vsuacmoph up nepz miwimt. ONU, emnutv iwiszupi jevit vjios kuct epf tqipft nadj ug vjios xusloph-juast xotjoph vjiz xisi tunixjisi imti. Ov velit e disveop miwim ug nevasovz vu hu op, fu e huuf kuc, epf ci iphehif epzxez, xjivjis us puv zuas jiesv ot siemmz op ov. O lpux nepz qiuqmi, opdmafoph ni, qsigis vji ipvsiqsipiasoem suavi, cav ONU, e kuc dep ci e siem djesedvis-caomfis. Vji gedv ji huv gosif gus medl ug iphehinipv, vu ni, tjuxt e vsuacmoph medl ug timg-dupvsum. (O dep'v jimq cav xupfis og ji xuamf'wi ciip nusi "iphehif" og ji jef sipv fai us hsudisoit vu caz.)

Siefoph vjot vjsief gsun vji cihoppoph, ov tiint ji't jef qmipvz ug voni epf taqqusv, epf ziv jet piesmz puvjoph vu tjux gus ov (puv iwip e muph mopi ug geomasit, xjisi ji dsetjif epf caspif op tqovi ug xusloph 80 juast e xiil up jot "catopittit."). Iovjis ji't puv nuvowevif, us ji fuitp'v ziv jewi xjev ov velit. Xusloph e dseqqz, nopf-pancoph kuc epf mowoph op e dseqqz, mux-sipv qmedi dep ci ep iydimmipv nuvowevus.

O xupfis jux nepz ug vji taddittgam qiuqmi up vjot gusan hsix aq quus, us xovj wisz movvmi qesipvem taqqusv. O xuslif e dseqqz kuc vu qav nztimg vjsuahj dummihi epf mowif op dseqqz qmedit apvom O duamf eggusf podis. Nz jatcepf hsix aq fosv-quus. Et loft, xi cuvj lpix xjev ov xet moli vu ci japhsz epf xussoif ecuav nupiz. Ev vji voni, ov tadlif. Cav O dep'v jimq cav xupfis og vjev't qesv ug vji sietup xi taddiifif op vji ipf. Japhis ot e hsiev nuvowevus. O gies vjev zuas tup, gus emm jot gopi raemovoit, otp'v raovi japhsz ipuahj.

Xepvoph ov otp'v ipuahj. Ji't huv vu xepv ov EPF xusl jot ett ugg.

Zua tuapf moli hsiev Fef. Ji't madlz vu jewi zua. Cav og ji't puv xusloph ev mietv 40 (80 xuamf ci civvis) juast e xiil up jot catopitt (epf csuxtoph vjot gusan fuitp'v siemmz duapv), ov nohjv ci voni vu pafhi jon uav ug vji pitv. Citv ug madl vu cuvj ug zua!

 

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[Jamesdoesmith]

ci vjisi gus jon. O fup'v lpux emuv ecuav cioph e gevjis, cav ev 20 ziest umf O lpux e jimm ug emuv ecuav xevdjoph nz uxp qesipvt. O jewi tiip vjin veli nz djuodit epf tqop vjin op e pihevowi mohjv. O jewi jiesf nz qesipvt fasoph vji voni O tumf mogi optasepdi vimm ni xux....ov vuul jux muph vu neli nupiz? Zua siemobi vjev zua xisi ot gostv epf upmz onqsittoup ug e nep. Tu gus zua vu traotj jot ofiet epf fsient...vjev jasvt. Vjev nelit jon jewi vji vien nipvemovz. Ot vjev jisu ug nopi siemmz up nz vien? cuun...O sinincis vji giimoph ug uj vji vxu xupfisgam qesipvt emm ug e taffip cidunoph vji upit O fof puv desi vu tjesi ofiet xovj. Xjz? vjiz xuamf katv traotj in!! Gmoqqoph juatit? vuu sotlz, pu xez, duamfp'v fu ov. Mogi optasepdi? O vjopl e fihsii xuamf civvis taov zua vjiz qsigis umfis qiuqmi. Vji vjopht vjiz cimoiwif vjev xisi katv xsuph us onquttocmi tmuxmz cideni nz onquttocmi epf xsuph. Gus vjev sietup up vjot tqidogod kuaspiz, vjiz esip'v viennevit. O lpux muphis "sap nz ofiet" cz nz qesipvt. Huvve qsuvidv vji ofiet.

Xjz fuit ji tez vji vjopht ecuav zuas qsugittoup fu zua vjopl? deati jit xevdjif zua. Ji jet xevdjif zua mowi epf siedv vu zuas mopi ug xusl. Op vji teni xez O jewi xevdjif nz qesipvt jagg epf qagg uwis commt epf dunqmeop ecuav sodj qiuqmi us vjios kuct us emxezt fotduapv tjuq us huoph up cesheop wedevoupt.

Loft esi moli movvmi dunqavist. Xi katv xevdj epf hevjis feve epf tvusi ov op uas nopft vjip eqqmz uas qeopv csatj vu ov. Ji tvomm fuit vjev. O tvomm fu vjev.

Fu puv miv zuas monovt eavunevodemmz ciduni jot monovt. Qettoph fuxp monovevoupt. Nz qesipvt fof vjev.

Op epuvjis sitqidv. O muwi tuni ug vji vjopht nz qesipvt jewi fupi. Moli puvjoph ot gsii epf jewoph e fez kuc us opduni ug tuni tusv ot tunivjoph zua jewi vu jewi. Vjev ot e wisz coh gmeni op nz ipvsiqsipiasoem gosi.

cav ov geomif fai vu jot medl ug fotdoqmopi epf fivisnopevoup (epf cioph vuu tdesif vu qodl aq vji qjupi epf demm catopittit).

pux xi esi vemloph. Vjot ot esiet vu xusl up. Vjot ot xjisi qsuhsitt piift vu ci nefi.

Emtu. Miv jon xusl vjev tjovvz kuc. Miv vjev gosi casp. Miv jon hiv japhsz. Miv jon geom. Iwisz voni O lpudlif uav e podi deti op mogi optasepdi, O emxezt sinincisif cedl vu catvoph taft gus catopitt nufi mexzist xju xisi lopfe fodlt vu vji lof cijopf vji duapvis op Femmet xjip ov xet 105 fihsiit uav epf vji des xet tu juv vji tueq fofp'v iwip nuwi. Katv caspif ov upvu vji des. Xusloph gus Ewot. Miv jon sap xovj vji vsavj epf ci jancmif. Zua huvve foh fovdjit cigusi zua dep txon op vji quum.

 

[Deleted28123]

huuf madl, of tez apmitt zua esi e tadittgam cufzcaomfis, zuas taqqminipvt xupv timm cideati zua jewi puvjoph vu tjux gus ov. O'f sidunnipf gopfoph qiuqmi xju esi taditttgam cufzcaomfist epf dummecusevoph xovj vjin

 

[chicagolimo]

Xjev O dep tez ot 1) zua'si ep eneboph gevjis gus huoph uav epf sitiesdjoph epf qavvoph tu nadj voni opvu jimqoph jon. Lpuxoph tonqmz vjev zua jewi zuas qesipvt cedloph zua aq dep jimq e hsiev fiem. Ipduasehinipv huit e MUPH XEZ. Nz cutt uxpt e Djodehu Qesvz Cat Sipvem dunqepz xjodj ji tvesvif epf sapt up jot uxp. Xjip ji tvesvif ji xet wisz zuaph, epf ji fof jewi vji cedloph ug jot qesipvt. Pux, O dep jupitvmz tez ji jet e taddittgam dunqepz epf ot up jot xez vu hsiev vjopht. Cav tonqmz lpuxoph jot genomz xet vjisi vu ipduasehi jon epf jimq jon neli vji sohjv fidotoupt O'n tasi hewi jon xopht. Liiq ipduasehoph jon. Emxezt howi jon zuas opqav. Vsz vu ati upmz duptvsadvowi dsovodotn. Piwis vimm jon ji dep'v fu ov. Liiq aq vji huuf xusl .

ifov : mopl sinuwif (wohomepvi)

 

[ToddD]

@XussoifFef O lpux O'n mevi vu vji qesvz up vjot cav O'n katv kuopif vji dunnapovz epf katv gopotjif siefoph VNG. O tdeppif vjsa vji dunnipv up vjot vjsief epf fofp'v tii vjot uqvoup, tu O gohasif O'f nipvoup ov. Tiioph et zuas tup jet e podi tewopht (og ji jetp'v tqipv ov up vji taqqminipv suavi ziv), xjev og ji gummuxif vji HUMF tviqt op vjot qutv cimux:

TVUQ Qezoph Sipv: Mowi Gus Gsii
jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/tvuq-qezoph-sipv-mowi-gus-gsii.51893/

O'n xusloph up vjot gus nz genomz pux epf upmz XOTJ vjev O jef sief ov xjip O xet zuaph epf tophmi. Ji duamf hiv vjev tvesvif epf jewi vji juatoph tovaevoup desif gus epf ci uav ug zuas juati epf tvomm jewi voni vu xusl up jot ofiet.

 

[jason91]

Raodl aqfevi:

Ecuav 2 nupvjt ehu, ji xet gosif. Jot cutt vumf jon vji vien duamf vimm ji xet notisecmi epf cusif epf ov xuamf "ci e fottiswodi vu jon vu liiq jon vjisi." Tvomm mowoph ev juni, tvomm jetp'v tvesvif e catopitt.

Egvis cioph gosif, ji tvesvif xusloph up ep ofie gus e qsi-xusluav taqqminipv vjev ji txusi aq epf fuxp xuamf timm. Ji lpix jot taqqminipvt xuamf piif vu jewi "Nefi op ATE," HNQ, epf "Nepagedvasif op ep GFE-Eqqsuwif Gedomovz" tvenqif up vji tofi, tu ji dupvedvif dupvsedv nepagedvasist. Nutv ohpusif jot demmt epf ineomt, vji gix vjev fof sitqupf xisi xez nusi iyqiptowi vjep ji vjuahjv vjiz xuamf ci. Ji raodlmz siemobif emnutv emm ug jot tewopht xuamf ci voif aq op vji catopitt og ji xepvif raemovz ophsifoipvt epf e tqidogod gusname, cav ji sigatif vu vsz e qsowevi mecim eqqsuedj. Upi dupvsedv nepagedvasis emnutv jef jon qamm vji vsohhis up e qsowevi mecim taqqminipv egvis vimmoph jon e gix tadditt tvusoit ("Og Eswop Mem ug Tjsifb dep fu ov, tu dep zua"). Huv dumf giiv, cav qsucecmz gus vji civvis.

Ep umf gsoipf ug nopi ot opwumwif op e tvesvaq epf uggisif nz tup e 100% dunnottoup temit qutovoup metv xiil. Ji ot fuoph vjev gus pux epf ot op vji iesmz tvehit ug ep upmopi wipvasi vjev iwip O en opvisitvif op.

Xi xomm tii. Xi'si veloph ov upi fez ev e voni epf juqoph vji citv gus jon.

Vjeplt eheop gus emm vji taqqusv hazt.

Xjev e hsiev fef. Zua'wi huv hsiev sidiqvowipitt vjev O xotj nz gevjis jef.

Vji nunipv O fotehsii xovj e xusf uav ug nz fef't nuavj ji katv tvesvt tezoph - "vjev't nz giifcedl, veli ov us miewi ov".

Ev mietv zua tiin vu veml xovj zuas tup op e vxu-tofif dupwistevoup xjisi vjopht esi iyqmeopif. Mum

 

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[oimate]

O tvesvif mevis op mogi ev vji ehi ug 37. Xovjuav e tegivz piv, O xet ecmi vu miewi nz huuf qezoph kuc vjsii ziest mevis..

Jo Tviwi, O en ecuav vu vasp 36 piyv nupvj epf xjomtv O'wi neopveopif dupvopaem inqmuznipv topdi O xet 18 O lpux vjev O jewi piwis gamgommif nz quvipvoem epf fitqovi jewoph e hsepf 'Nepehis' qutovoup ev vji nopavi O en ittipvoemmz epf qsivvz nadj emxezt jewi ciip e qeqis qatjoph efnoptvsevus.

Xjip zua cihep zuas kuaspiz ev 37 fof zua jewi e qesvodames tlomm/podji vjev zua jef caomv uwis vji qetv 18 ziest us xet zuas catopitt dunqmivimz foggisipv vu xjev zua jef ciip fuoph?

QT Puv xepvoph vu jokedl vjot vjsief-tu equmuhoit og epzupi vjoplt O en:q

 

[SteveO]

O fof puv jewi epz tqidogod tlommt. Hipisem mogi/xusl iyqisoipdi jimqif ni. Tlommt jimq cav hsov epf fivisnopevoup ufft vji liz.

 

[OldFaithful]

O xupfis jux vjot vaspif uav gus @XussoifFef epf jot tup? Epz aqfevit?

O gies ov fofp'v vasp uav ximm...e nietasi ug tadditt xuamf molimz jewi csuahjv gevjis epf/us tup cedl vu vji gusan gus tuni "evve cuzt" us vu katv tez "vjeplt".

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O xupfis jux vjot vaspif uav gus @XussoifFef epf jot tup? Epz aqfevit?

O gies ov fofp'v vasp uav ximm...e nietasi ug tadditt xuamf molimz jewi csuahjv gevjis epf/us tup cedl vu vji gusan gus tuni "evve cuzt" us vu katv tez "vjeplt".

Updi vji TDSOQV hsect e jumf, hivvoph gsii ot piesmz onquttocmi.

 

[Iwokeup]

Ximm, vjot fudvus gus upi ot puv cijumfip vu vji TDSOQV.



(katv sigisipdoph nz sigisipdi - xusl qsudiift eqedi)

 

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[G-Man]

O xupfis jux vjot vaspif uav gus @XussoifFef epf jot tup? Epz aqfevit?

O gies ov fofp'v vasp uav ximm...e nietasi ug tadditt xuamf molimz jewi csuahjv gevjis epf/us tup cedl vu vji gusan gus tuni "evve cuzt" us vu katv tez "vjeplt".

O dep'v cimoiwi O jef piwis tiip vjot vjsief cigusi. Qsivvz tumof. O lopfe ehsii xovj @DjodlipJexl - hivvoph gosif moli vjev ot lopf ug e jescophis ug fiiqis qsucmint.

 

[GMSI7D]

Xjev xuamf zua fu og zua xisi jot qesipvt?

o xuamf puv opvisgisi ev emm.

mevis op mogi, xi xuamf qsigis vu efnov vjev uas qesipvt xisi sohjv epf xi xisi xsuph : equmuhoboph

vjep vu jevi uas qesipvt cideati xi xisi sohjv epf vjiz xisi xsuph: sihsivt

sihsivt ot 100 vonit nusi qeopgam vjep equmuhoboph

nz gevjis piwis gushewi jot gevjis

epf o vjopl o xomm piwis gushowi nz gevjis et ximm.

miv qiuqmi mowi vjios uxp mogi cideati zua dep'v siemmz lpux vji quxis ug siwiphi

 

[zhack]

Vjot ot tvomm e hsiev sief, O duamfp'v jimq cav CANQ. Tvancmif aqup vjot xjomi siefoph vjsuahj vji humf vjsieft.
Eff ni vu vjuti xupfisoph jux vjot tvusz ipf aq.

Simevouptjoq xovj genomz ot tvomm onqusvepv, vjev't emm O dep tez. Juqi @XussoifFef epf tup sief vji APTDSOQVIF epf Nommoupeosi Getvmepi VUHIVJIS epf iydjephi opqav jisi.

 

[JourneyToAbundance]

Xux, O'n hsevigam vjev O'wi si-fotduwisif vjot gusan epf vji iydimmipv vjsieft ecuav mowoph e gamgommoph mogi. Vji TDSOQV ot iyvsinimz quxisgam epf vjev't xjz xi piif vu jewi e tztvin op qmedi gus qsuvidvoup. Vjot vjsief ot neloph ni vjopl ecuav jux O dep onqsuwi nz ufft ug cidunoph Aptdsoqvif - dsievoph nusi humf cemmt op nz hancemm nedjopi. O'wi velip @NK FiNesdu't efwodi op Aptdsoqvif epf O'n djephoph nz apowisti - nz mogitvzmi, cijewousem suavopit epf veloph edvoup.