Creating an online dating website for Ukrainian women

[CarrieMatchmaker]

Hi everyone! I know what you all probably heard that Ukraine dating websites for foreigners got so much scam and catfishing and fraud. Its true. I used to work in matchmaking field for more than 10 years. I was shocked how much everything is screwed and sometimes I thought there are no hope at all. I felt so sad for those men who really hoped to find a girl from Ukraine to fall in love with and to build a happy life with. What's funny is that there are thousands of Ukrainian girls who do really want real relationships but they dont stand a chance because scam agencies make perfect photoshoots and profile descriptions for scam girls and real girls dont stand a chance. Well I decided to make a difference and create a real dating online website with real Ukrainian girls who do really want to meet a foreign man. I have started my website and I have found real girls but I still have not figured how to find men. I have tried Facebook and google ad but they keep refusing to work with me because they are scared I am one of those scam sites. Any suggestions? what can I do or where I can find real men who would like to meet real Ukrainian brides? I am new in this thing and I dont know much about marketing yet. I will be thankful.

 

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[Black_Dragon43]

What did I just read?

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

What did I just read?

what do you mean?

 

[Simon Angel]

Hi everyone! I know what you all probably heard that Ukraine dating websites for foreigners got so much scam and catfishing and fraud. Its true. I used to work in matchmaking field for more than 10 years. I was shocked how much everything is screwed and sometimes I thought there are no hope at all. I felt so sad for those men who really hoped to find a girl from Ukraine to fall in love with and to build a happy life with. What's funny is that there are thousands of Ukrainian girls who do really want real relationships but they dont stand a chance because scam agencies make perfect photoshoots and profile descriptions for scam girls and real girls dont stand a chance. Well I decided to make a difference and create a real dating online website with real Ukrainian girls who do really want to meet a foreign man. I have started my website and I have found real girls but I still have not figured how to find men. I have tried Facebook and google ad but they keep refusing to work with me because they are scared I am one of those scam sites. Any suggestions? what can I do or where I can find real men who would like to meet real Ukrainian brides? I am new in this thing and I dont know much about marketing yet. I will be thankful.

I find it hard to believe you managed to find girls but not men, lol. It's the Internet - plenty of men to go around, especially when it comes to dating.

If men are avoiding your website out of fear of getting scammed, then your #1 goal should be to make your service look as legitimate as possible.

 

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[Edgar King]

What did I just read?

Surface level, Same as me bro

 

[mdot]

I saw the thread title and only clicked on it to report it, and was surprised to see a plausibly genuine question.

Fighting the "industry reputation" will be an uphill battle...

 

[Edgar King]

Edited based on new information: Thought this was for a dating site, but on closer inspection, it just feels really off

 

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[p0stscript]

I have found real girls but I still have not figured how to find men.

Unfortunately there will soon be lots of Russian men available by the looks of things.

Ukraine tensions: Russia invasion could begin any day, US warns

President Biden and Vladimir Putin to talk as the US says Russia could invade Ukraine "at any time".

www.bbc.co.uk

Hopefully not, it must be worrying.

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

I find it hard to believe you managed to find girls but not men, lol. It's the Internet - plenty of men to go around, especially when it comes to dating.

If men are avoiding your website out of fear of getting scammed, then your #1 goal should be to make your service look as legitimate as possible.

I don’t need just ANY man. I need a serious man who wants serious relationships with Ukrainian woman. I have many Indian men registering on my website but they want to just have fun. My problem is that men don’t know about my website. I have created Instagram account to promote my website but Instagram attracts only men, who want to have fun.

 

[MTF]

If your website follows the logic for this thread's title I'm not surprised people think you're running a scam.

Not only you wrote the title in capital letters. It's also so spammy because of the keyword usage I was sure it was another spam bot.

To be honest, I'm still not entirely convinced you're not a spammer. I wouldn't be surprised if the new spam strategy is to ask a question on a forum, pretend that you care, wait until there's no interest anymore and then edit your posts to add links.

If that's not the case, do you really think that any "serious" men look for a girlfriend online on a matchmaking website with desperate women from one of the poorest countries in Europe?

Maybe I'm too harsh here but to me the entire idea is disgusting. This isn't about love but about a rich guy buying a poor Ukrainian girl who wants a better life and can't think of anything else than selling herself.

If you wanted to help these women you'd focus on educating them so they can support themselves and thrive without becoming sex slaves.

 

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[missinfinity98]

If you wanted to help these women you'd focus on educating them so they can support themselves and thrive without becoming sex slaves.

100%

 

[Antifragile]

If you wanted to help these women you'd focus on educating them so they can support themselves and thrive without becoming sex slaves.

What kind of a human trafficking pimp would he be with this advice? You suck with this advice.

 

[Raoul Duke]

What kind of a human trafficking pimp would he be with this advice? You suck with this advice.

 

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[Antifragile]

Can one of the mods delete this thread? If this isn’t spam, what is?

 

[Xeon]

Plenty of rich single guys in the West who want Ukrainian girls. There is a market.

 

[missinfinity98]

Plenty of rich single guys in the West who want Ukrainian girls. There is a market.

From what she wrote, it seems like she gets it - and simply is looking for ways to get into those men's orbit with her matchmaking service.

Again - what is making the dating site safe for the girls? Usually, men look for partners that far away because they will probably abuse them in the future. A woman coming to a foreign country is very vulnerable - no friends around is dangerous, a completely strange new place, etc. . It is attracting predators. I am sure your intent was not to create a goldmine for that...

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Yea, I can't tell if this is real or a backlink scam waiting in the wings...

 

[Fox]

I have tried Facebook and google ad but they keep refusing to work with me because they are scared I am one of those scam sites. Any suggestions? what can I do or where I can find real men who would like to meet real Ukrainian brides? I am new in this thing and I dont know much about marketing yet. I will be thankful.

I find this post hard to believe but if this is real - start a blog.

Post info on how to move to Ukraine, how to get a visa, best places to meet girls, what to know about the dating culture etc

Then link to your dating site.

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

I saw the thread title and only clicked on it to report it, and was surprised to see a plausibly genuine question.

Fighting the "industry reputation" will be an uphill battle...

Thanks for your advice. Which thread title would you rather suggest? I am always open to learn some things new.

 

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[Andy Black]

I had a dating agency in Ireland as a Google Ads client. Google allowed their ads to run so figure out how to not be disapproved.

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

I find this post hard to believe but if this is real - start a blog.

Post info on how to move to Ukraine, how to get a visa, best places to meet girls, what to know about the dating culture etc

Then link to your dating site.

Thanks, that's a great advice! I appreciate it

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

I had a dating agency as a Google Ads client. Google allowed their ads to run so figure out how to not be disapproved.

really? that's great to know, they dont want to say what's the reason for rejection so I did not figure it out yet. I am going to improve a few things on my website and try again. Thank you for your comment

 

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[CarrieMatchmaker]

Plenty of rich single guys in the West who want Ukrainian girls. There is a market.

Its good to know! what kind of market do you mean?

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

If your website follows the logic for this thread's title I'm not surprised people think you're running a scam.

Not only you wrote the title in capital letters. It's also so spammy because of the keyword usage I was sure it was another spam bot.

To be honest, I'm still not entirely convinced you're not a spammer. I wouldn't be surprised if the new spam strategy is to ask a question on a forum, pretend that you care, wait until there's no interest anymore and then edit your posts to add links.

If that's not the case, do you really think that any "serious" men look for a girlfriend online on a matchmaking website with desperate women from one of the poorest countries in Europe?

Maybe I'm too harsh here but to me the entire idea is disgusting. This isn't about love but about a rich guy buying a poor Ukrainian girl who wants a better life and can't think of anything else than selling herself.

If you wanted to help these women you'd focus on educating them so they can support themselves and thrive without becoming sex slaves.

Thank you for your comment. I totally get that people who have never been into this can hardly understand it. If you have never been to Ukraine you dont know what kind of people live there. Ukrainian women are well educated and most have masters degree. The reason for them to look for a man abroad is not because they want money but because they believe in true love and might be too naive to believe in fairy tales. They want to be valued and loved. Unfortunately not many Ukrainian men can give it to them, mentality and traditions are different. I saw many girls getting married with foreigners and they were not always rich, actually only a few were. But I keep in contact with them and they are happy, married, loved, having kids, some just had their third child together. When I see this I want to help more girls find real love.
No, I am not a scammer and no I am not going to edit my post with some links. I am here not for this. I am trying to make a difference and do something good. I was ready for such comments though, unfortunately most people think that dating or matchmaking is a scam. I hope to change it very soon so there does not have to be such reaction! I am sure if I wrote I was an IT specialist you would never think of me as of a scammer.
And yet, thanks for your comment. I accept critics too. Have a great day!

 

[Knugs]

How do you actually verify that these are true women?

 

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[CarrieMatchmaker]

Yea, I can't tell if this is real or a backlink scam waiting in the wings...

Dont worry, I am not a scammer, gosh...

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

How do you actually verify that these are true women?

Good question! I interview them in Skype and make them answer the questionary. They have to share their social network pages so I would check their status, plus passport scan that confirms their identity and shows their relationships status.

 

[CarrieMatchmaker]

I saw the thread title and only clicked on it to report it, and was surprised to see a plausibly genuine question.

Fighting the "industry reputation" will be an uphill battle...

You r right of an "industry reputation". But I am ready for this battle.

 

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[DeletedUser84644]

Dont worry, I am not a scammer, gosh...

Well I mean tbh it doesn't help that most people in general just have a bad / negative perception of dating sites, apps, match making services, etc. They have the strong impression and conviction that only desperate people and people of non heteronormative conforming sexualities, gender identities, and gender expressions use those kinds of stuff and that it's mainly people of ill character and disingenuous intent that use that. Would like to also add that since you're basically puting your oublic identity out there, it makes people who are very introverted, very uncomfortable with using such services. And for some people, they would prefer to find love through natural chemistry formed from in person interactions as opposed to forming it over the internet with conscious effort. I mean yes your conscious mind can influence how subconscious operates the romantic attraction thing for you but it's mainly the latter that does most of the leg work. But hey what the hell do I know, I've never dated before nor will I be in a position to do so for a very long time (A sacrifice you have to make on your fastlane journey). So take what I say with a grain of salt about that, but yeah. There's just too much negative perception and too many bad actors on the thing that out number the legit ones (It's akin to all of the bullshit financial gurus bullshit that outnumber legit people such as MJ and Felix Dennis).

 

[Simon Angel]

The best way to get people on board would be to start a YouTube channel about your matchmaking idea. Make videos where you sit in front of a camera and talk about what this is all about and how it could help Ukrainian women and foreign men. In English, of course.

And to reiterate what the others have said, I hope we're not giving advice to a human trafficker.