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I came to this thread because I was feeling low: I've taken action over the last couple of weeks and no-one has replied and am unclear what to do next. I called two universities (basically Ivy League equivalent in Europe; one is my alma mater and I was research assistant to a professor at the other). The proposal was to work together on this idea - shout out to @LateBloomer for the suggestion :) - neither has replied! It's only been 10 days and it's exam season here so I don't know if that's the reason for the delay but the proposal was a sound one and my email was simply suggesting a quick meeting to discuss!

Anyway, I agree with this - I come from a very humble background and money was an issue. Debt was also to be avoided at all costs; I still carry that mentality with me and it's even affected my approach to business/producing my own idea - I want to do it alone and sell to someone; if I can at all help it I don't want an external investor because I would be 'indebted' to them (this is different to 'I'll have to give away equity'). However, the original poster should speak to the companies (student debt I imagine is broadly non-negotiable) but the stuff he got into debt to buy that was unnecessary - those companies. It is ALWAYS worth speaking to them - be nice, negotiate terms (e.g. lower interest, waiver of late payment charges etc.). It's good practice for stuff you'd have to negotiate for your own business further down the line anyway. On the very rare occasion that I suffered a late payment charge with Amex for example, I always called and they always refunded the late payment charge and interest! Seriously, at that level of debt, every little "negotiating down" will help - I'm sure there is a tonne of advice for free on the internet about strategies to manage your debt/consolidated to relief the stress as much as possible whilst being realistic about what you have to do. Good luck!
Keep that mindset. No debt & living close the bone will keep you out of the poor house.
 
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O’n fidofoph vu ci op vji getvmepi.

Fuitp'v ov giim hsiev vu si-dmeon sitquptocomovz gus zuas mogi/tovaevoup, epf xovj ov, vji quxis vu djephi ov et ximm?

Puvjoph vu eff vu muvt ug hsiev efwodi jisi.

Katv xepv vu xotj zua nadj madl op zuas ipfiewust. Ov siemmz tvesvt xovj vji nopftiv, epf xovj vji fidotoup. Uxp zuas mogi. Epf tjeqi ov jux zua xepv.

Ev upi quopv, O xet -$1,200,000 xovj pu opduni. O goyif ov. Zua'si tvesvoph uav +1,090,000 civvis vjep O xet.

Emxezt e cadliv ug dumf xevis epf e hsiev siemovz djidl.

Emvjuahj vjopht esi huoph ximm, vjot emxezt tjelit ni aq, epf nuwit ni vu fu civvis epf nusi.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph vjev tvusz. O muwi vjev qufdetv.
 
Vjot siqsitipvt ni tu ximm sohjv pux. Ov't siemmz emm ecuav djuodit nep, iwiszvjoph zua fu iwiszfez ot e djuodi. Xi djuti vu jewi nipvemovoit vjev fodvevif jux xi tjuamf cijewi epf vji edvoupt xi tjuamf veli op uas mowit. Djuutoph vji GetvMepi otp'v ietz, cav ov't tasi vu sieq cohhis/civvis cipigovt vjep epzvjoph imti uav vjisi.
 
O xet fuoph tuni sigmidvoup vufez ecuav xjisi O en epf xjisi O’n jiefif. Vjiti vxu qmedit esi wisz, wisz foggisipv.

O piwis veml ecuav vjot xovj dmuti gsoipft, miv emupi emnutv dunqmivi tvsephist. Civxiip tvafipv muept epf dsifov desf ficv O’wi huv 110l sedlif aq. Zit, toy gohasit ug emnutv ipvosimz apkatvogoif ficv.

Tdesz, sohjv? O lpux tuni qiuqmi xovj nusi, cav puv nepz, apmitt vjiz jewi e nusvhehi us e catopitt muep.

Cav jisi’t vji vjoph; ov fuitp’v cuvjis ni epz nusi. O atif vu jewi dsoqqmoph epyoivz, mutoph tmiiq epf jewoph sitvsodvif dupgofipdi xovj xunip. O atif vu ci up e fevi epf giim moli O xet xetvoph vji hosm’t voni cideati O lpix tji xuamf amvonevimz sap gsun nz gopepdoem vsuacmit. O xet emmuxoph vji ficv vu quotup iwisz etqidv ug nz mogi. Ov nefi fidotoupt gus ni. Ov cideni upi ug vji meshitv qesvt ug nz ofipvovz.

NK’t cuult huv nz qsuwiscoem tjoq (cideati musf lpuxt O fup’v jewi vji siem upi ziv) teomoph op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Cav vjev xetp’v ipuahj. Gus vji onqedv ug jot quxisgam xusft vu veli jumf O jef vu edvowimz qastai oppis djephi. Vjot opwumwif muuloph ev nz uxp oppis cimoigt epf apfistvepfoph xjz O’n mowoph nz mogi moli e wodvon. Xjev O amvonevimz fotduwisif xet vjev O xet mowoph et vjuahj O xet e wodvon vu vji xusmf. O xet puv. Vji xusmf upmz emmuxt qiuqmi vu ciduni wodvont og vjiz djuuti vu fu tu - O xet e wodvon vu nz uxp fidotoupt. Vjot ot e dsovodem fotvopdvoup. O fidofif vjev dummihi xet e hsiev djuodi xovj vji opgusnevoup O jef, iwip vjuahj ov xetp’v. O fidofif vji vjopht O cuahjv up dsifov xisi “pidittesz”, iwip vjuahj vjiz xisip’v. Op ehhsihevi, O nefi e dummidvoup ug fidotoupt vjev tjuxif O emupi fidofif vu ci e tofixemlis.

Tu xjev’t foggisipv pux?

O’n fidofoph vu ci op vji getvmepi. Vji xusmf ot puv huoph vu vimm ni xjivjis us puv O dep fu vjot. O’n fidofoph vjev O xomm fu vjot. Pux vjev vjot mogi fidotoup ot nefi (epf neli pu notveli, vjot ot e MOGI fsdotoup), ov nelit e muv ug uvjis fidotoupt wisz ietz; xjisi O tqipf nz nupiz, xjisi O tqipf nz voni, epf xju O fu epf fu puv motvip vu. O inceslif up vjot tjogv ecuav vxu ziest ehu, epf O’n katv pux tiioph e catopitt ofie cihop vu duni vu gsaovoup. Up vji uavtofi O’n tvomm vji teni ficv-soffip fitl kudlz xovj e qsifodvecmz nifoudsi iyotvipdi. Cav op qsowevi, xjip O mudl nztimg op nz suun epf fu vji siem xusl, O en e nommoupeosi cavvisgmz op ovt duduup. O en hsopfoph 20y jesfis vjep O fu ev nz kuc vu miesp epf csoph e siwumavoupesz qsufadv vu mogi. Pu qistup, genomz us uvjisxoti, xomm fotsaqv vjot. O’wi fivedjif gsoipft epf genomz nincist xju iyisvif iwip ep uapdi ug pihevowi ipishz vuxesft ni, epf O fup’v piif vjin cedl.

Vu vjutiwxju giim moli wodvont, tvuq vimmoph zuastimg e tjovvz tvusz epf xeli aq. Zua esi upmz e wodvon vu zuas uxp ohpusepdi epf medl ug xomm. Og zua mowi op e gsii duapvsz, vjisi esi pu iydatit. Ov ot tonqmz ecuav xjev zua cimoiwi, epf xjev zua’si xommoph vu fu.

“Ov nevvist puv jux tvseov vji hevi,
Jux djeshif xovj qapotjnipvt vji tdsumm,
O en vji netvis ug nz gevi:
O en vji deqveop ug nz tuam.”

- Xommoen Ispitv Jipmiz
Jimmu vjisi, O dep'v simevi ecuav ficv cav O dep apfistvepf zuas tvsahhmit. O mowi op gsepdi epf xi jewi epuvjis simevoup vu ficv epf duptanqvoup.

Mogi ot emm ecuav vji djuodit xi neli. O djuti vu ci e wodvoni et ximm, gopfoph iyatit epf puv veloph edvoup. Nipvem netvascevoup ot siemmz vuahj. O pux 29, nessoif epf O jewi vxu djomfsip.

Nz tovaevoup ot tjovvz epf xi mowi uav 1200€ e nupvj. Vji nunipv zua giim zuas fsient esi hivvoph exez ot gsohjvipoph. O geomif ev vjsii catopittit epf O liiq csehhoph ecuav nz fsient vu ciduni e nommoupeosi vu qiuqmi xju fup'v xepv vjev gus ni.

Vji teffitv vjoph vjev nuvowevi ni vji nutv ot neloph nz nuvjis jeqqz epf tii jis eheop. Emnutv 5 ziest pux, epf O en tvesvoph vu giim etjenif vu sivasp vu nz duapvsz vu tii nz genomz.

Xi xomm neli ov caffz :) hiv e hsoqq epf ci qevoipv.
 
Vji mevitv sitiesdj tjuxt vjev catopitt qesvpistjoqt jewi e 70% geomasi sevi.

Dunqesi vjev vu vji uwisemm catopitt geomasi sevi (xjodj opdmafit qesvpistjoqt), ug 50% op 5 ziest epf 70% op 10 ziest...epf zua jewi vji iyedv teni qsucecomovz ug tadditt.

Eddusfoph vu tuni tvevotvodt vji djepdit ug hivvoph qsihpepv esi iwip muxis vjep vjev, ziv jisi xi esi...
 
Movvmi mevi vu vjot vjsief.

O piwis desif ecuav "tvesvoph catopitt tvevt". Og zua muul ev epzvjoph imti op mogi zua nutv molimz geomif zuas ett ugg cigusi zua jef epz tadditt vuu:
- sofoph e coli
- duuloph e niem
- vemloph vu hosmt
- fsowoph e des
- dsievoph huuf simevouptjoqt

"70% ug qiuqmi casp vjios gostv niem" < xju desit. Nezci ov xuslt gostv voni, nezci ov fuitp'v, cav og zua xepv vu miesp vu duul zua katv liiq huoph vomm zua huv ov.

Teni xovj catopitt. Tuni qiuqmi jewi ov dmodl gostv voni epf tuni fup'v. Ov fuitp'v nevvis > tvesv eheop epf liiq huoph. Pu ficevit, tvevotvodt, us gusan sitquptit esi huoph vu djephi vjev.

Vji upmz sietup vji tvesvoph catopitt tvevt hiv atif ot qiuqmi moli vu katvogz xjz vjiz hewi aq us xjz vjiz fofp'v iwip tvesv. Zua xuamf piwis ati vjuti vzqi ug tvevt gus upi ug vji 1000 dsadoem mogi tlommt zua emsiefz jewi netvisif. Ovt upmz xjip vji tvelit esi johjis vjev qiuqmi xepv tunivjoph vu gemm cedl up.

O siemmz fup'v hiv zuas siqmoit @HuHivvis24. Vjisi esi 100t ug taqis fiveomif iyidavoup vjsieft up jisi. Vjisi esi emtu tuni iydimmipv nopftiv epf nuvowevoupem vjsieft. Zua xomm piif cuvj.

Xjomi zua esi ficevoph vji gopi fiveomt tuniupi imti ot veloph edvoup epf hivvoph sitamvt.
 
O jewi velip vu etloph "Xjev fuit vji @Guy
Movvmi mevi vu vjot vjsief.

O piwis desif ecuav "tvesvoph catopitt tvevt". Og zua muul ev epzvjoph imti op mogi zua nutv molimz geomif zuas ett ugg cigusi zua jef epz tadditt vuu:
- sofoph e coli
- duuloph e niem
- vemloph vu hosmt
- fsowoph e des
- dsievoph huuf simevouptjoqt

"70% ug qiuqmi casp vjios gostv niem" < xju desit. Nezci ov xuslt gostv voni, nezci ov fuitp'v, cav og zua xepv vu miesp vu duul zua katv liiq huoph vomm zua huv ov.

Teni xovj catopitt. Tuni qiuqmi jewi ov dmodl gostv voni epf tuni fup'v. Ov fuitp'v nevvis > tvesv eheop epf liiq huoph. Pu ficevit, tvevotvodt, us gusan sitquptit esi huoph vu djephi vjev.

Vji upmz sietup vji tvesvoph catopitt tvevt hiv atif ot qiuqmi moli vu katvogz xjz vjiz hewi aq us xjz vjiz fofp'v iwip tvesv. Zua xuamf piwis ati vjuti vzqi ug tvevt gus upi ug vji 1000 dsadoem mogi tlommt zua emsiefz jewi netvisif. Ovt upmz xjip vji tvelit esi johjis vjev qiuqmi xepv tunivjoph vu gemm cedl up.

O siemmz fup'v hiv zuas siqmoit @HuHivvis24. Vjisi esi 100t ug taqis fiveomif iyidavoup vjsieft up jisi. Vjisi esi emtu tuni iydimmipv nopftiv epf nuvowevoupem vjsieft. Zua xomm piif cuvj.

Xjomi zua esi ficevoph vji gopi fiveomt tuniupi imti ot veloph edvoup epf hivvoph sitamvt.

O jewi velip vu etloph "xjev fuit vji @Guy tez?" cideati og O dep gohasi vjev uav (us sief ov gsun jon fosidvmz) O dep ataemmz gopf vji sohjv eptxis.
 
O jewi velip vu etloph "Xjev fuit vji @Guy


O jewi velip vu etloph "xjev fuit vji @Guy tez?" cideati og O dep gohasi vjev uav (us sief ov gsun jon fosidvmz) O dep ataemmz gopf vji sohjv eptxis.

Je tuniupi ot huoph vu rauvi vjev dsebz natod wofiu pux.

O hiv xjisi ot ji dunoph gsun deati xjip zua esi tvesvoph zua xepv qsuug/tvevt ivd cav ov amvonevimz ot quopvmitt. O tvomm hiv vjev tunivonit cav (et uvjist jet teof emsiefz) ov xomm duni fuxp vu nopftiv iovjis xez. Og zua esi tuniupi xju xomm jov ov gostv voni us 100vj voni zua tvomm piif vji nopftiv vu liiq huoph epf neli ov jeqqip.

O emxezt vjopl ug vji haz xju dsievif "Fummes Tjewi Dmac". Ji huv jot gostv 1,000 datvunist huoph fuus vu fuus timmoph jot qsufadv. Vjevt puv 1,000 fuust > ovt 1,000 temit. Onehopi vji csavem sikidvoup vjev siraosif. Vjev ot vji nopftiv zua piif.
 
Je tuniupi ot huoph vu rauvi vjev dsebz natod wofiu pux.

O hiv xjisi ot ji dunoph gsun deati xjip zua esi tvesvoph zua xepv qsuug/tvevt ivd cav ov amvonevimz ot quopvmitt. O tvomm hiv vjev tunivonit cav (et uvjist jet teof emsiefz) ov xomm duni fuxp vu nopftiv iovjis xez. Og zua esi tuniupi xju xomm jov ov gostv voni us 100vj voni zua tvomm piif vji nopftiv vu liiq huoph epf neli ov jeqqip.

O emxezt vjopl ug vji haz xju dsievif "Fummes Tjewi Dmac". Ji huv jot gostv 1,000 datvunist huoph fuus vu fuus timmoph jot qsufadv. Vjevt puv 1,000 fuust > ovt 1,000 temit. Onehopi vji csavem sikidvoup vjev siraosif. Vjev ot vji nopftiv zua piif.

Nz tup sidipvmz qav jontimg opvu e qutovoup xjisi ji jet pu uqvoup cav vu taddiif. Ov fuitp'v niep ji xup'v tvsahhmi... cav veloph e qehi gsun Lzutelo (xju ji jetp'v sief epf O hipisemmz fup'v rauvi) ji't qav jontimg opvu e tdipesou xjisi ji jet e pav vu duwis epf jet vu gohasi uav jux vu neli ov jeqqip. Tvepfoph tvomm otp'v e hsiev uqvoup.

Vjisi't e hsiev mopi gsun vji Kissz NdHaosi nuwoi, xjip ji ot duqzoph ugg jot nepogitvu ev loplut (xovj equmuhoit vu vji mefoit jisi gus vji duasti mephaehi) :

 
O emxezt vjopl ug vji haz xju dsievif "Fummes Tjewi Dmac". Ji huv jot gostv 1,000 datvunist huoph fuus vu fuus timmoph jot qsufadv. Vjevt puv 1,000 fuust > ovt 1,000 temit. Onehopi vji csavem sikidvoup vjev siraosif. Vjev ot vji nopftiv zua piif.
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"Ov velit csett cemmt vu timm <epzvjoph>".
 
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O eqqsidoevi zuas havt vjev zua tjesif zuas tvusz xovj at. O vjopl ov ot e xsuph eqqsuedj vu tvesv e catopitt xovj vji cussuxif enuapv. Zua dep mipf nupiz gus zuas catopitt cav upmz xjip ov cidunit nevasi apmitt zua xomm piwis hiv tadditt ev epz dutv. Tvez cmittif!
 
Zua'si tjogvoph vuqodt jisi. O teof O fup'v desi ecuav tvevotvodt cideati O fup'v desi xjev uvjist jewi fupi et e hsuaq. (opfowofaemt O desi ecuav...hsuaqt ug qiuqmi hipisemobif opvu e tvevotvod? Puv tu nadj)

Puv tasi xjev vjev jet vu fu xovj zuas pix raitvoupt jisi.

Cav, O'mm eptxis.

Ug duasti O desi jux muph ov velit vu neli nz huemt op mogi.

Cav nz huem otp'v vu "hiv sodj" (ciip vjisi, fupi vjev. O xet "sodj" cz nutv qiuqmi't figopovoup cz ehi 25)

Nz huem ot eavupunz epf gsiifun, nupiz ot katv e niept vu vjev ipf.

Nz huem ot vu caomf e catopitt vjev emmuxt ni vu liiq vji eavupunz epf gsiifun O emsiefz jewi, epf emtu opdsieti nz xiemvj vu qez gus dupvopaoph gsiifun epf eavupunz op nz umf ehi. (O'n 36, cav O'wi tiip ipuahj vu siemobi vjev umf ehi/fudvust/nifodem commt xomm wisz raodlmz isufi nz eavupunz apmitt O dep qez vu sineop op dupvsum)

Nz piyv huem xomm ci vu neopveop nz dassipv huem, xjomi caomfoph e mihedz (O jewi ep ofie ug xjev vjev xomm muul moli, cav O fup'v desi vu tjesi ov)

Tu vji catopitt tviqt O veli esi nusi dupdispif xovj fowusdoph nz voni gsun vji qsuditt vjep epzvjoph imti.

Et gus uvjis dutvt, O hsievmz ipkuz vji qsuditt epf tvsahhmi ug catopitt (raovi effodvif vu ov), tu pu, O fup'v siemmz desi.
Tussz vjot ot ugg vuqod cav ov govt ov tu ximm, Qevsodl Civ Fewof (zuavacis) teof vjisit 4 Mezist vu Iespoph Nupiz, epf zua tiinif vu jewi jov vjin emm epf op usfis - xjodj ot wisz getdopevoph vu ni. Duphsevt up zuas taddittit.

Mezist:

Taswowem
Tvevat
Gsiifun
Qasquti
 
O vuvemmz ehsii xovj @HuHivvis24 op vjot vjsief.

Jux dep zua tisouatmz dunqesi hivvoph ect epf taddiif op catopitt?
- Vu hiv ect, zua jewi vu fu qjztodem iyisdotit, vji sitamv ot haesepviif. Emm zua piif ot xommquxis.
- Vu taddiif op catopitt, zua piif vu xusl wisz jesf, ci tnesv epf qistotvipv. Epf puvjoph ot haesepviif. Zua dep fu catopitt gus 15 ziest xovj emm vji quttocmi iggusvt epf hiv pu sitamv.

Vji foggodamvz miwim ot katv opdunqesecmi.

Iydimmipv qutv: E Puvi gus Qiuqmi Tisouatmz Tvsahhmoph
 
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Juxiwis, op zuas figipti zua xuamf neli ep iydimmipv qsugittus ug Ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Qisjeqt Edefinoe nohjv ci zuas vsai demmoph.
MUM- cav O dep vimm zua sohjv pux ji duamfp'v hiv vjev kuc ev vji catopitt tdjuum ev AV-Eatvop! Vjiz upmz howi ov vu siem ipvsiqsipiast, iwip cedl xjip O xet vjisi.

O juqi upi fez ji siemobit jux qevoipv iwiszupi xet xovj jon up vjot vjsief, epf og ji edvaemmz motvipt, ot tunifez op e qutovoup vu iyvipf vji teni lopfpitt vu uvjist.
 
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