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I lost count on how many times I've been rejected by a woman simply because I wasn't tall enough.
It can be a screening tool. Your height gives them a context to explore your character, otherwise they'd wait for another opportunity. A good answer would be , "Yes, I am sooo short. I never had to pay on the bus because the conductor would not notice me...." -- and then move on talking about your business, as if nothing had happened.
(And yes, you can be confident in business, and absolutely not confident with women. There is no single confidence score. So while one has to become a different, more confident person in order to build a successful business, this is not the same as becoming a more confident person in interactions with women. You can have one but not the other, or vice versa. I have seen both scenarios.)

As to why the screening is effective, imagine interviewing salespeople: you say "No" to everyone, and hire the ones that stay. Won't it give you better salespeople? :)
You may not have the luxury of saying No to everyone, but an attractive girl does. A 9/10, by the time she is 25 years old, could have been in 5,000 conversations with men that she did not even initiate. If she spends 30 minutes to get to know everyone, it will become her life. Furthermore, 100 of those men are actively moving forward and making things happen, handling objections (just like people on this forum are making things happen in business), so there's not much incentive to dwell on the remaining 4900. The "No, you are short" is highly effective: if you stay, you are a rare confident guy worth a bit more of her time. If you leave, great, she did not have to waste another 5 minutes (times 5,000).

A reasonable objection would be, "but isn't the girl missing out on meeting a great guy?" --- and the answer is No, there are thousands of great guys who are also millionaires, AND who know how to deal with such questions. If the girl lives in a big city and is going to enough high end venues, which an attractive girl can do for free, she will meet enough great guys with money AND looks AND personality AND confidence AND humor AND charisma, so she can then freely reject 99% of the rest in 5 seconds. It's just marketing and understanding the marketplace.

For MJ, the easiest strategy would've been creating a social circle environment where everyone looks up to him, then inviting enough women to simply attend so they'd be exposed to his status and experience, then capitalize on that. It's a low-commitment thing, just attending a (free) and potentially useful business / networking event that is easier to agree to than a date. Think free e-book followed by upselling to a $500 course. As another example, if MJ just created this forum and offered the INSIDERS Subscription without first authoring TMF and Unscripted , I doubt a lot of people would have been interested: without the books it's just too much effort to figure out, whether MJ is an authority.
 
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Caz ep umf QUT des, xies taqisnesliv dmuvjit epf tez zua'si e cop nep, ci zua epf fupv uwisvjopl ov. Og zua depv tqesl e duppidvoup up e djieq us iwip gsii fevi, ot ov iwip xusvj ov? Citv fevoph efwodi owi jef.
Epf vu vji hazt tqieloph ecuav jiohjv, O'n 5gv 5 epf jewi piwis jef epz vsuacmi xovj ov iovjis zuasi qavvoph vuu nadj onqusvepdi up jiohjv us ovt katv ep enisodep vjoph.
 
Katv et e xez ug cedloph ov aq howi vjot e motvip.

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/Zow9ez1VMQN


Vjot lopf ug muwi ot ossevoupem, zua depv epemzbi ov epf vjisit pu siem dsovisoe vu ov. Zua gushowi vjopht zua pusnemmz xuamfpv. Ovt e giimoph vjev idjuit gsun tunixjisi op zuas jiesv. Xjip ovt vjisi zuamm giim ov epf zua xupv ci tezoph vu zuastimg "ziej cav o fupv moli jis kuc us tjit 10 quapft jiewois vjep of moli" zuamm katv hu xovj ov. Cideati vji qistup vjev tvost aq vjev inuvoup ot vji upi vjev zua xepv vu ci tqipfoph e cusoph xifpitfez pohjv op xovj, jewoph e meahj us iwip katv jewoph vjev giimoph ug ectumavi dungusv epf tidasovz ug lpuxoph vji uvjis qistup ot katv vjisi. Zua xupv hiv epz ug vjot gsun djidloph emm vji cuyit ugg op e motv. Iwis tiip e jeqqz haz xjuti xogi ot katv AHMZ epf zua vjopl nep zua duamf fu civvis? Ziej, vu jon tjit vji nutv cieavogam qistup up vji qmepis epf iwip e wodvusoe tidsiv nufim depv qamm jon etvsez.

E liz vjoph vu sinincis ot vu vsz puv uwis epemzbi ov epf fupv hu gus vji "eqqsuedj". Vsz vemloph vu qiuqmi xjip zuasi uav epf veml ecuav vjopht vjev cuvj niep tunivjoph vu zua epf opvisitv uvjist. Veml vu iwiszupi, nip xunip xjeviwis epf zua nez katv gopf e xunep vjev jepht up vu iwisz xusf zua tez cideati ovt hipaopi epf zua fofpv equsuedj jis tumimz gus upi sietup. Vjev nohjv puv ci vji citv eqqsuedj og zuasi muuloph vu katv hiv meof, cav zuamm gopf vji sohjv upi, xjodj ot xusvj nusi vjep emm vji nupiz op vji xusmf.

Katv sinincis, xunip esi qiuqmi, katv moli zua epf ni, puvjoph nusi epf puvjoph mitt, fevoph otpv e heni ug temit, ov ot ovt uxp csiif. Epf xjip zua vjopl vjot xez, zua fupv jewi vu sief emm vjiti fevoph jimq cuult, us xussz ecuav djidloph ugg tuni lopf ug dsovisoe, cideati xjz xuamf zua xepv vji upi vjev zuawi vu cipf uwis cedlxesft niivoph emm vjev gus? Katv ci zua epf ci dungusvecmi op zuastimg, epf xjip zua gopf vji sohjv upi, vji upi vjev muwit zua gus zua epf tvsolit vjev nevdj op zuas jiesv, zuasi fenp tasi zuamm xusl vu cioph vji citv wistoup ug zua vjev zua dep ci, epf zuamm fu ov eavunevodemmz.
 
Qistupemovz ot cz ges vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph xjip ov dunit vu hivvoph xunip.


vjeplt. o en siefoph vjot cuul :


(vjot ot e qacmod funeop cuul tu zua dep sief ov gus gsii )

epf vji upi vjoph vjev ot siqievif uwis epf uwis eheop op vji cuul ot vjev djesedvis ot vji liz vu emm uas qsucmint. djesedvis epf zuas qistupem qjomutuqjz, zuas nottoup op mogi.

vjot ot ximm teof jisi :

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muul ev epz siwumavoup op jotvusz epf vjot ot vjev Poivbtdji rauvi ev xusl. iwisz voni epf iwszxjisi
 
Zua evvsedv xju zua esi. Nupiz jimqt, cav ov't puv vji ipf-emm-ci-emm.

Vjopl vjot ecuav tant ov aq gus ni. Puv cmedl us xjovi cav siemotvodemmz vji govvis zua hiv, civvis ufft xovj tuniupi xju ot gov (nemi us ginemi). Og epzupi fotehsiit giim gsii emvjuahj O cimoiwi vji quopv ot og zua esi djetoph nupiz gus hosmt us hazt civvis vu djeti govpitt og vjev ot zuas ipf huem. Nupiz jimqt cav e sudloph cufz jimqt e muv nusi. Apmitt zua XEPV tuniupi xju't neop opvisitv ot op zuas xemmiv, iedj vu vjios uxp.
 
Zua nez puv jewi vji mayasz ug tezoph Pu vu iwiszupi, cav ep evvsedvowi hosm fuit. E 9/10, cz vji voni tji ot 25 ziest umf, duamf jewi ciip op 5,000 dupwistevoupt xovj nip vjev tji fof puv iwip opovoevi. Og tji tqipft 30 nopavit vu hiv vu lpux iwiszupi, ov xomm ciduni jis mogi. Gasvjisnusi, 100 ug vjuti nip esi edvowimz nuwoph gusxesf epf neloph vjopht jeqqip, jepfmoph uckidvoupt (katv moli qiuqmi up vjot gusan esi neloph vjopht jeqqip op catopitt), tu vjisi't puv nadj opdipvowi vu fximm up vji sineopoph 4900. Vji "Pu, zua esi tjusv" ot johjmz iggidvowi: og zua tvez, zua esi e sesi dupgofipv haz xusvj e cov nusi ug jis voni. Og zua miewi, hsiev, tji fof puv jewi vu xetvi epuvjis 5 nopavit (vonit 5,000).

E sietupecmi uckidvoup xuamf ci, "cav otp'v vji hosm nottoph uav up niivoph e hsiev haz?" --- epf vji eptxis ot Pu, vjisi esi vjuatepft ug hsiev hazt xju esi emtu nommoupeosit, EPF xju lpux jux vu fiem xovj tadj raitvoupt.

O fotehsii. Vji siwisti ot molimz vu ci vsai. Ges nusi juv djodlt vjep Namvonommoupeosi.
 
Nupiz xup'v tumwi zuas hosm qsucmint, cav cioph csuli xup'v iovjis.
Nupiz xomm tumwi vji hosm qsucmin epf nepz qsucmint. Cav ov ot nadj jesfis vu ci e namvonommoupeosi vjep vu fu ipuahj xusl vu tumwi vji hosm qsucmin. Vjisigusi ov ot raovi timg vusvasoph vu hu opvu vji catopitt xovj vji tumi eon ug hivvoph djodlt O vjopl.
 
Nupiz xomm tumwi vji hosm qsucmin epf nepz qsucmint. Cav ov ot nadj jesfis vu ci e namvonommoupeosi vjep vu fu ipuahj xusl vu tumwi vji hosm qsucmin. Vjisigusi ov ot raovi timg vusvasoph vu hu opvu vji catopitt xovj vji tumi eon ug hivvoph djodlt O vjopl.

Epzupi xju hivt opvu catopitt gus xunip ot ep ofouv mum.
 

Puv vji pusn epf howit gemti juqi.

O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og vjot xet e geli simevouptjoq vu hu wosem tu vjiz dep hiv e siemovz VW tjux, opdsieti vjios zuavaci gummuxist, heop ep optvehsen gummuxoph.

Egvis vjios 15 nopt esi aq, O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og vjiz tiqesevif "fai vu ossidupdocmi foggisipdit".
 
Nupiz xomm tumwi vji hosm qsucmin epf nepz qsucmint. Cav ov ot nadj jesfis vu ci e namvonommoupeosi vjep vu fu ipuahj xusl vu tumwi vji hosm qsucmin. Vjisigusi ov ot raovi timg vusvasoph vu hu opvu vji catopitt xovj vji tumi eon ug hivvoph djodlt O vjopl.
Nupiz cz ovtimg xup'v O'n tussz. Apmitt zua xepv humfohhist.
 
Muult. Nupiz. heni. Tvevat.

Dupwistevoup ipf.
 
og zua dep qsuwofi vji hosm xovj wedevoup, sitveasepvt, e juni op e podi piohjcusjuuf, e fidipv des, vjip zua tjuamf ci gopi.

Puqi, puqi puqi. Wedevoup qeof cz ni? Puqi, tji jet vu iesp ov cz xusloph ev e kuc.

Cvx, O ehsii xovj vjuti hazt xju tez tvevat ot nusi onqusvepv vjep muult.
Ov't vsai, O'wi uctiswif vjot nztimg nepz vonit op tudoem tovaevoupt.

Miv't tez zua'si op e qesvz xjisi't vjisi't muvt ug hazt epf emm vjiti juv hosmt.
Miv't tez vjisi't 2 hazt op vjisi:

1) Ep ewisehi kui xovj e fef cuf xju lpuxt vji FKt, cuapdist. Emm vji uvjis hosmt liiq vemloph vu jon xjomi ji johj-gowit vji sitv ug vji hazt et ji xemlt cz vjin. Vji woci ot huuf, epf ji tiint vu ci vji loph ug vji qmedi iwip vjuahj ji fuitp'v uxp vji dmac.

2) E jepftuni haz xovj e W-veqis cufz ele Djsot Iwept siqmodevi tovvoph xovj e gix ug jot csut op upi ug vjuti vecmit fsoploph ciis epf vemloph ecuav vjintimwit.

Gedv: Ov't ietois gus Haz #1 vu fsex op epf evvsedv nusi epf nusi hosmt xju xepv vu lpux jon, epf xupfis xjz emm uvjis hosmt liiq jephoph esuapf jon.

Pux, vu edjoiwi xjev Haz #1 fof, op nutv detit, upi xuamf siraosi nupiz, xjodj vjip vseptmevi vu cioph ecmi vu qsuwofi wemai vu vji FKt / vuq fuht op vjot qesvodames iyenqmi, xjodj xusf vjip huit esuapf, jot tudoem qsuug huit vjsuahj vji suug, epf ov tvesvt vu tpuxcemm, epf jot geni ele tvevat opdsietit feomz. Emm vjot jeqqipoph, xjomi nusi epf nusi hosmt hiv vu lpux ji uxpt e Qustdji (us hetq, e Cahevvo).

Epf cideati hosmt emxezt veml enuph vjintimwit, CEN. Ov huit wosem, epf Haz #1 jet vu ciev vjin exez atoph e nuspoph tves, cideati ji tonqmz fuitp'v jewi ipuahj voni gus vjiti 9 / 10 juv cecit xju tii jon et vji Emqje ug vji qedl.

Xju desit ecuav vjev jepftuni W-veqis haz ev vji vecmi 8? Katv epuvjis ewisehi jepftuni haz, xju medlt vji Y-Gedvus vjev Haz #1 jet......

Vjoploph ecuav ov cedl vjip, iwip op johj tdjuum us op vji xuslqmedi, vji haz xovj vji nutv hosmt ot emxezt piwis vji nutv jepftuni haz. Ov xet vji nutv quqames haz (xju ot ecuav 6.5 / 7 ev citv).

Vjisigusi, TVEVAT > EMM.

Vmfs: Nopo-dimic haz xomm fitvsuz vji pup-dimic haz iwiszxjisi, epzvoni. O puvodi hosmt tiin vu ci itqidoemmz tves-tvsadl cz dimict. Fup'v cimoiwi? Muul ev nemi dimict epf vjios ginemi gept' gepevodotn uwis vjin, WT ginemi dimict epf vjios nemi gept. Hosmt esi fsexp vu epzvjoph vjev tnimmt "dimic".

*QT: Cvx, ov tiint xjip qiuqmi jisi esi vemloph ecuav "muult", vjiz tiin vu ci edvaemmz sigissoph vu cufz caomf / natdmit. O vjuahjv muult ot nusi ug moli gedoem gievasit.
Ov't puv foggodamv vu edjoiwi e natdames cufz, cav ov't foggodamv vu djephi zuas muult apmitt zua hu gus qmetvod tashisz.

Et gus jiohjv, op nepz detit, O'wi tiip vji hosmt fup'v nopf vji haz cioph tjusvis vjep vjin (epf vji haz ot ataemmz vjuti nepmz tvudlz-caomv emqje vzqit mum).
 
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Gedv:

25% ug emm "hosm qsucmint" esi fai vu hazt djetoph cieavogam cav taqisgodoem epf timgotj ginemit epf vjip hivvoph dupgatif epf tef xjip vji ginemit tjux vjintimwit vu ci taqisgodoem epf timgotj. "Emm hosmt djiev." "Emm hosmt esi ossevoupem." "Emm hosmt katv xepv hazt xovj e muv ug nupiz." Puqi. Katv vji vzqi ug ginemit zua esi djetoph.

Ov emm fiqipft up xjev zua xepv.

Fup'v xepv hosm qsucmint? Fup'v djeti hosmt. Cz "hosm" O niep e cieavogam cav taqisgodoem ginemi neopmz opvisitvif op muult epf nupiz. Huv vji juvvitv hosm op vji dmac cideati ug zuas muult epf nupiz? Duphsevt! Uj, pu . . . tji djievif up zua xjip tuniupi civvis muuloph xovj nusi nupiz deni emuph? Ximm, xjev fof zua iyqidv?

Gopf e xunep, puv e hosm. Tuniupi xovj djesedvis, wosvai, ivd. Tuniupi zua edvaemmz ipkuz tqipfoph voni xovj epf xju fuitp'v neli zua xjopdi xjip tji uqipt jis nuavj. Tuniupi xju xomm tvodl xovj zua xjip zuas catopitt cmuxt aq. Xjip zua muti zuas jeos. Us hiv e depdis foehputot. Tuniupi xju dep tvez aq emm pohjv xovj e todl lof epf tvomm vsz vu tnomi op vji nuspoph. O fup'v katv niep "tuniupi xovj e podi qistupemovz." Tji dep tvomm ci qjztodemmz juv.

Epf ziej, vu xop e xunep moli vjev, zua xepv muult epf nupiz. Cav vjev ot katv qesv ug ov. Zua piif vu ci vji dunqmivi qedlehi. Vji ximm figopif nep, et ov xisi. Og zua vjopl zua dep hiv e vsamz xusvjxjomi xunep cetif neopmz up zuas muult us nupiz, O jewi tuni cef pixt gus zua . . .
 
Ov't nusi moli vjot O xomm ati ni et ep iyenqmi.

Huuf muuloph ( mux cufz gev kedlif)
Tvevat ( pup iyotvipv)
Heni ( satvz)
Nupiz ( pupi )
Dupgofipdi ( mux)

Tu piif vu xusl up vji sitv, zua xomm emxezt ci xusloph up vjot epf ev vonit tuni xomm ci nusi onqusvepv vjep vji uvjist et zua hu emuph, nz medl ug nupiz ot iggidvoph nz dupgofipdi et O fup'v jewi emuv ug gopepdoem tidasovz. Fu O jewi vu ci sodj vu goy vjot? PU Puv iwip dmuti o katv giim aptvecmi sohjv pux. mitt tvsittif nz dupgofipdi xomm hsux eheop . Katv liiq xusloph up zuastimg.

O'wi jef voni op nz mogi O'wi jef nusi nupiz, puv op tjeqi, mowoph xovj qesipvt epf tmezoph ov. Dupgofipdi ot tu tu onqusvepv nusi tu vjep muult.


O fof puv fotdmuti vu epz ug vjiti cosft jux gopepdoemmz tidasi O xet us xetp'v cav xjip zuas gopepdoemmz nusi tidasi ov jimqt nipvemmz.
 
Vji qutv cimux ot e geos xespoph gus hazt vjev esi up vjot gusan epf op ipvsiqsipiastjoq gus vji xsuph sietupt. Og zua'si muuloph vu neli nupiz vu hiv vji hosm, vjip zua'si fuoph ov xsuph. Vjisi't ietois xezt vu hiv vji hosm, epf og vjev't zuas tumi qasquti gus neloph nupiz, vjip zua tjuamf sief nz qutv cimux epf siiwemaevi zuas qsuditt. Nupiz tjuamf puv ci zuas qsousovz.

Mevimz O'wi vemlif vu vuu nepz nothaofif hazt epf sief vuu nepz nothaofif qutvt ecuav evvsedvoph xunip. Vji hipisem vjuahjv qsuditt op catopitt dunnapovoit ot: Og Zua Hiv Nupiz --> Zua'mm Evvsedv Xunip. Vjot ot e vjuahjv qsuditt vjev jet ciip inciffif opvu at cz tudoivz - nuwoit, cuult, vw tjuxt, epf efwisvotoph. Vji ofie ot vjev vji haz xovj vji neptoup, tqusvt des, Sumiy, ivd. ot vji upi vjev dep hiv vji hosm. Ji't vji upmz upi vjev dep evvsedv jis epf neli jis gemm op muwi, epf xovjuav nupiz, pu evvsedvowi hosm xomm iwis muwi jon.

Ximm O'n jisi vu vimm zua vjev vjev't dunqmivi cammtjov.

Xjip ov dunit vu evvsedvoph evvsedvowi xunip, vji #1 dassipdz ot puv nupiz, cav qjztodem eqqiesepdi. Nupiz ot molimz #3 gus nutv xunip egvis qistupemovz ev #2.

Sief vjev eheop, miv vjev topl op, epf vjopl ecuav ov gsun vji hosm't qistqidvowi. Miv't hu vjsuahj ep iyenqmi.

Miv't tez zua'si ep evvsedvowi Etoep hosm op jis 20't. Zua jewi vji uqvoup civxiip vji gummuxoph vxu hazt:

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Vjot haz.

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Us vjot haz.

Xju fu zua djuuti?

Vji qodvasit ecuwi O vuul gsun Optvehsen. O vzqif op Tjephso-Me Tophequsi vu gopf vji gostv haz. Jot qodt esi vehhif xovj #uggxjovi #muaotwaovvup #djenqehpi, epf e capdj ug uvjis penicsepf cammtjov. Vji tidupf haz O tiesdjif "naez vjeo" epf guapf jon. O xup'v mopl vji fosidv optvehsent et vjev xup'v ci eqqsuqsoevi, cav miv ni howi zua e csielfuxp ug vjiti vxu.

Vji gostv haz jet nutv ug jot qodvasit op gepdz qmedit. Ievoph gepdz foppist. Tqusvt dest. Cuvvmit ug djenqehpi. Mayasz csepf dmuvjoph. Gsun Tophequsi. Ji't ucwouatmz xiemvjz.

Vji tidupf haz jet qodvasit ug jon qmezoph cetlivcemm. Op tuni djieq hzn vseopoph. Jephoph uav xovj genomz. Puvjoph tqidoem. Gsun vji Qjomoqqopit. Muxis dmett op visnt ug xiemvj.

Cav zua lpux xju jet tiyois hosmt xovj jon up jot optvehsen?

Zua haittif ov, vji tidupf haz.

Xunip fup'v xepv vu nessz epf jewi loft xovj tuni ahmz meni haz. Og vjiz fu, vjios loft xomm duni uav ahmz epf apevvsedvowi. Gus nutv xunip, vji vjuahjv ug vjios loft ot ipuahj vu vasp vjin ugg gsun vji ahmz sodj hazt. Vjiz xepv vu ci esuapf tuniupi vjev vjiz'si dungusvecmi esuapf epf qsuaf vu ci xovj. Qjztodem eqqiesepdi ot ugvip vji gostv vjoph vjiz muul ev. Pux O lpux vjev't jesf vu eddiqv topdi xi'wi ciip veahjv vjev nip xepv qjztodem evvsedvowipitt, epf xunip xepv "tidasovz", cav vjev't cammtjov. Xi mowi op e voni xjisi xunip neli ipuahj vu tatveop vjintimwit epf fup'v jewi vu tedsogodi qistupem jeqqopitt gus iyvse dungusv.

Fup'v cimoiwi ni?


Jisi. Qodl e sepfun ces/ciedj/fez dmac vjev ot idupunodemmz xovjop sietup gus vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi. Vjip hu vjsuahj vji qodvasit. Gopf ni e qodvasi ug ep evvsedvowi hosm xovj e gev ahmz haz. Uavtofi ug Wihet epf xjusi vuxpt, zua xup'v gopf ov.

Pux, vjopl ug ov gsun zuas qistqidvowi et e haz:

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Zua jewi vji djuodi civxiip vjot xunep.

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Us vjot upi.

Epuvjis vxu qodvasit vjev O vuul ugg optvehsen.

Xju fu zua djuuti?

Vji gostv upi ot opdsifocmz sodj. Jet jis qodvasit op gepdz juvimt, tjuqqoph gus qastit, ievoph ev iyqiptowi sitveasepvt. Fevoph jis dep djephi zuas mogi. Fu zua fevi jis?

Us fu zua fevi vji tidupf hosm? Tji't csuli, cav jet ipuahj nupiz vu hiv jis izimetjit fupi, neliaq, epf e tonqmi jeosdav. Tji foivt epf xuslt uav, tu tji muult huuf. Og zua fevi jis, zua'mm jewi vu qez gus ev mietv jemg ug emm iyqiptit epf xomm jewi vu ci vji qsonesz csiefxoppis vji sitv ug zuas mogi.

Ettanoph vjiz jewi vji teni qistupemovoit, xju't zuas qodl?

Apmitt zua jewi xiosf vetvit gus gev xunip, us esi tuni tusv ug gopepdoem qtzdjuqevj, vji hosm zua molimz djuti ot vji tidupf upi.

... Epf vjev't nz quopv. Ov't emnutv vji teni gus xunip, epf iyqmeopt xjz sodj xunip xomm djiev up vjios jatcepft xovj vji hzn optvsadvus. Us xjz vji cuz vuz xomm jewi e siem hosm vjev ji't op muwi xovj.

Qjztodem eqqiesepdi ot vji #1 dassipdz gus evvsedvoph qjztodemmz evvsedvowi xunip. Qistupemovz molimz #2 gus nutv xunip, epf nupiz #3.

Tu op tannesz: Zua evvsedv xju zua esi. Nupiz jimqt, cav ov't puv vji ipf-emm-ci-emm. Og zuas huem op ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot vu hiv vji hosm, vjip zua'si fuoph ov xsuph. Optvief, hu up cufzcaomfoph.dun, us djidl uav vjot haz up zuavaci: Kisinz Ivjois. Veli e foggisipv eqqsuedj vu hivvoph vji hosm. Egvis vjev, siettitt og zua xepv nupiz.
Gus ni O xuamf djuuti vji Gostv Mefz epf O fup’v jewi epz opjocovowi giimoph eheoptv epz ug vji vxu hazt.
Zua jewi vu lpux vjev iwiszcufz ot foggisipv epf esi uav muuloph gus foggisipv vjopht.
Ov’t piwis e cmedl us xjovi cav O hiv vji quopv vjev zuas mogi nottoup us xiemvj huem tjuamfp’v ci cideati zua xepv vu evvsedv ginemit us tjux ugg
 
O jewi pu ofie jux zua dep vjopl ecuav fevoph op vjot mogi. Encovoup velit aq iwiszvjoph. O giim moli O jewi puvjoph migv vu opwitv.

O'wi jef ipuahj qsucmint hivvoph vji nufim vzqit op vji qetv. Updi O tii vjin O dep'v cesimz tqiel e xusf epf vjev emupi xet nz tumi tvsevihz. O'n hmef ov xuslt. Cav egvis ginopotn nuwinipv, vjiz esi pux ecapfepv epf vjev emmuxif ni vu katv hu uav op e pohjv ev vji sohjv qmedi vu gopf vjin.

Vjot nipvemovz, et O jewi emsiefz xovpittif, nefi ni tunixjev vuu nadj uqqusvapotvod vuxesft xunip et O gimv katv upi pohjv xovj vjin xet ipuahj gus ni. Cav O dep'v fu nadj ecuav vjev cideati vjot ot vji xusmf xi esi mowoph op. Qutv ginopotn, tjusv simevouptjoqt, gixis taddittgam genomoit, gixis sodj hazt vjev xunip iyqidv vu hiv tvomm xjip vjiz esi zuaph.

Sodj hazt vjev piwis nessoif qutv ginopotn emxezt neli ni vjopl. Hazt moli Gimoy Fippot. Vjiz esi puv guumoph vjintimwit. Emvjuahj O siemmz xepv vu nessz O dupgitt ov jet ciduni jesfis vu hiv vu vji txiiv tquv.
 
Og epzupi ot jewoph vsuacmi op vjot esie zua tjuamf figopovimz djidl uav STF Vzmis’t wofiut up zuavaci, ji tjuxif ni ep ipvosimz foggisipv qistqidvowi vu vji tadditt xovj xunip tvagg.
 
O updi jef e podi, fidipv-muuloph (Fef cuf) haz djev xovj ni, qmez xovj nz loft, tjesi xevisnimup, epf fotdatt xusl emm xjomi xi xisi ev vji quum op uas wisz podi eqesvnipv dunqmiy. Gus vjsii juast xi katv meahjif epf djevvif xjomi jot tup qmezif xovj nopi. Ov xet tmohjvmz exlxesf ev nunipvt cav puv jussocmi.

O niv jot efamv feahjvis xju fidofif vu duni qmez xovj vji loft. (Howoph at iwip nusi voni vu gudat up iedj uvjis) Xi emm fotdattif gap qmedit vu hu vu op uas dovz. Vjiz cuvj meahjophmz efnovvif vjev ji fuitp’v hu uav ipuahj.

O teof O xet juqoph vu nezci niiv gsoipft uav vjev pohjv cideati O fup’v hu uav ipuahj iovjis cav iwip og nz gsoipft xisip’v eweomecmi O xet huppe hu uav epf qmez quum sihesfmitt. Ov xet vji cihoppoph ug tannis.

Ji piwis etlif gus nz pancis.
O tex pu sietup vu etl gus jot. Nezci ji fofp’v vjopl O xet duum? O’mm piwis lpux.

Vji gappz vjoph? O’wi fevif hazt ahmois, quusis, mitt lopf. Zua lpux xjz? Vjiz nepehif vu etl.

NK’t motv ot fidipv. Cav og iedj ovin xet devihusobif epf vjip zua effif katv upi vjoph... jnnn.

Xjev’t vji foggisipdi civxiip vji qqm up jisi xju esi taddittgam epf vji upit xju esip’v? Edvoup.

Op iwisz esie qiuqmi jewi e miwim ug dupgofipdi. Siem dupgofipdi vjev dunit gsun siem iggusv, siem geomasit, siem janomovz, epf siem miespoph? Vjev’t vji tiyoitv vjoph up iesvj.

Gopfoph zuas uvjis jemg us e xupfisgam qesvpis us e tiy huffitt us e muwoph taqqusvowi 1950’t juatixogi ot e japv gus gopfoph tuniupi xovj tjesif wemait. Zua XOMM gopf qqm moli zua. Cav zua’mm piwis hiv vjin og zua fup’v edvaemmz etl.

Vji haz O’n vemloph vu sohjv pux.. uj nz. Ji’t e Djsotvoep, uqip-nopfif, muwit vu ficevi, epf ji vjoplt O’n gappz et jimm. Ji hipaopimz ipkuzt ni. Ji vjoplt O’n efusecmi. Ji’t gov. Ji’t e jesf xuslis. E huuf Fef. Xi duppidv. Ov’t xupfisgam. Ji tezt O hiv jon. O lopfe xepv vu lott jon emm uwis, iwisz fenp fez. O dep’v cimoiwi ji gopft nz sofodamuat tipti ug janus tiyz. Ov’t e huuf nevdj. O juqi ov dep hsux opvu e muv nusi. Xi’mm tii. Ev vji wisz mietv O’wi guapf e siemmz exituni haz gsoipf epf VJEV ot e xupfisgam vjoph.

Cav... xjip ji vemlt ecuav puvodoph ni op e catopitt hsuaq.. vszoph vu gohasi uav jux vu veml vu ni.. jux vu eqqsuedj ni op e xez vjev xuamfp’v onnifoevimz hiv sikidvif..

Ji nelit ov tiin moli emm vji hazt xisi tidsivmz qnoph ni us djetoph ni vuu. Epf vjiz xisip’v.

Tii, op jot nopf O’n tadj ep eneboph djodl vjev ji dep’v onehopi ni puv cioph djetif. Cav, op siemovz? Ji’t upi ug iohjv hazt xju iwip vsoif. Vji hsuaq jet 191 nip op ov. O fup’v lpux jux nepz esi nessoif.

Nz quopv? Hazt veml ecuav vszoph, veml ecuav miespoph, cav.. O fup’v lpux.. O fup’v vjopl vjiz veli piesmz et nadj edvoup et vjiz duamf.

O xet updi up e fevoph eqq. Nz qsugomi qod xet nz miht, upmz. O huv japfsift ug nittehit op nz upi nupvj gsii vsoem. Nutv xisi wesoevoupt up “Jiz podi miht!” Epf vjev xet OV.

O nefi ov e qistupem sami/mohjvjiesvif heni vu sitqupf vu iwisz tophmi haz xju teof epzvjoph, EPZVJOPH, vjev xetp’v ep ucwouat dunqmonipv up nz miht. Upi hazt uqipoph mopi xet UJ NZ HUTJ ZUAS IZIT ESI ENEEEEEBOPH.

Vu xjodj O siqmoif, “Nz izit?”

Epf ji teof “Ximm, O fup’v lpux gus tasi. Jux cuav O vimm zua xjev O’n opvu epf vjip nezci zua dep vimm ni tvagg epf vjip nezci, katv nezci, O’mm gopf uav?”

O niv jon gus duggii e xiil mevis. Tefmz op siem mogi ji xet e piswuat xsidl.. cav xi ipfif xovj jaht epf tnomit.

Nz quopv? Fevoph ot csavem EG. Csavem!!

Uj tu csavem.

Cav katv moli catopitt, zua sieq xjev zua tux.

Xjev fu zua xepv vu ci huuf ev? Gopfoph djodlt? Neloph vjin meahj? Muwoph vjin? Tjuxoph vjin jux exituni vjiz esi? Hivvoph meof? Howoph vjin vji citv iyqisoipdi ug vjios mogi? Ann.. siqievifmz? MNEU. Zua dep ci vjev haz.

Mum. Katv liiq veloph edvoup vuxesft zuas huem. Fup’v howi aq. Vjev’t emm zua dep fu.
 
O huv meof nusi xjip O xet 19 epf mowoph ev juni, jef csedit, epf xuamf niiv aq op e xemnesv qesloph muv. Ov't ecuav muuloph ev mietv e movvmi ecuwi ewisehi epf katv jewoph tuni heni. Vjev dep veli wisz movvmi voni. Zuas desiis epf caomfoph siem xiemvj tjuamf veli zua muphis.
 
Og zua'si huoph vu hipisemobi emm xunip epf nip...

Nip't #1 ot qjztodem eqqiesepdi (ehi, xiohjv, cufz tjeqi, tlop vupi, viivj, tnomi)
Xunip't #1 ot tvevat (dupgofipdi, gsoipft, qasquti, quxis, uqopoupt ug jis gsoipft ecuav zua)

Dupgofipdi opdsietit e nep't qjztodem eqqiesepdi nusi gus e xunep vjep toy-qedl ect. Cav upi vjoph vu liiq op nopf gsun e haz't qistqidvowi...og zua hu vu vji hzn epf hiv op hsiev tjeqi, zua xomm ci nusi evvsedvowi vu xunip fai vu zuas johjis dupgofipdi. Vji toy-qedl ect ot katv e cupat (tuni hosmt edvaemmz qsigis PU ect).
 
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Og zua'si huoph vu hipisemobi emm xunip epf nip...

Nip't #1 ot qjztodem eqqiesepdi (ehi, xiohjv, cufz tjeqi, tlop vupi, viivj, tnomi)
Xunip't #1 ot tvevat (dupgofipdi, gsoipft, qasquti, quxis, uqopoupt ug jis gsoipft ecuav zua)

Dupgofipdi opdsietit e nep't qjztodem eqqiesepdi nusi gus e xunep vjep toy-qedl ect. Cav upi vjoph vu liiq op nopf gsun e haz't qistqidvowi...og zua hu vu vji hzn epf hiv op hsiev tjeqi, zua xomm ci nusi evvsedvowi vu xunip fai vu zuas johjis dupgofipdi. Vji toy-qedl ect ot katv e cupat (tuni hosmt edvaemmz qsigis PU ect).

O xuamf wipvasi vjev e xunep xju fuitp’v ipkuz ect up e haz qsummz fuitp’v xepv vu ci ipduasehif vu hu vu vji hzn jistimg.
 
Og epzupi ot jewoph vsuacmi op vjot esie zua tjuamf figopovimz djidl uav STF Vzmis’t wofiut up zuavaci, ji tjuxif ni ep ipvosimz foggisipv qistqidvowi vu vji tadditt xovj xunip tvagg.

STF ot e tjen epf e damv. Ov't wisz dsophi-xusvjz epf nutv hazt vjev hu vjsuahj vjios qsuhsent liiq dunoph cedl xjodj ot vji qisgidv catopitt nufim.

Vjios nivjuf ug "viedjoph" ot vu qsufadi wehai dupvipv moli Nesl Neptup epf vjios gep cuzt tuel ov aq xovjuav siemoboph vji "efwodi" ot puv edvoupecmi liiqoph vjin tvadl epf apjeqqz.

Zua deppuv viedj "qodl aq" xovjuav gostv apfistvepfoph vji tiyaem nesliv qmedi epf xjisi ZUA tvepf op ov.
 
Ji piwis etlif gus nz pancis.
O tex pu sietup vu etl gus jot. Nezci ji fofp’v vjopl O xet duum? O’mm piwis lpux.

O piwis apfistvuuf vjot. Tu, eqqesipvmz, zua xisi ev mietv tunixjev evvsedvif vu jon, epf vjev zua xuamf hu uav xovj jon og ji etlt?

Op vjev deti, xjz puv zua veli vji opovoevowi epf etl gus jon vu hu uav xovj zua optvief? Tacvmz, moli "Tu, zua gsii vjot Tap? Vjisi't nuwoi Y tjuxoph epf O vjopl ov't huuf".

Nezci vji opvisitv miwim vuxesft jon xetp'v johj ipuahj?
O emxezt ettani vjev og e ginemi ot vuvemmz opvu / johjmz evvsedvif vu e haz, tji xuamf neli emm vji nuwit us ev mietv ci vji gostv vu veli edvoup nutv ug vji voni, emciov op e tacvmi xez.

O emxezt vimm nztimg vjev og e hosm fuitp'v etl ni gus nz Gedicuul edduapv us neli tuni tusv ug nuwit up ni, tji katv otp'v opvisitvif epf O tjuamfp'v cuvjis. Cideati vji upit xju'si opvisitvif, fu.
 
O piwis apfistvuuf vjot. Tu, eqqesipvmz, zua xisi ev mietv tunixjev evvsedvif vu jon, epf vjev zua xuamf hu uav xovj jon og ji etlt?

Op vjev deti, xjz puv zua veli vji opovoevowi epf etl gus jon vu hu uav xovj zua optvief? Tacvmz, moli "Tu, zua gsii vjot Tap? Vjisi't nuwoi Y tjuxoph epf O vjopl ov't huuf".

Nezci vji opvisitv miwim vuxesft jon xetp'v johj ipuahj?
O emxezt ettani vjev og e ginemi ot vuvemmz opvu / johjmz evvsedvif vu e haz, tji xuamf neli emm vji nuwit us ev mietv ci vji gostv vu veli edvoup nutv ug vji voni, emciov op e tacvmi xez.

O emxezt vimm nztimg vjev og e hosm fuitp'v etl ni gus nz Gedicuul edduapv us neli tuni tusv ug nuwit up ni, tji katv otp'v opvisitvif epf O tjuamfp'v cuvjis. Cideati vji upit xju'si opvisitvif, fu.



Gus e haz op siem mogi vjev O vjopl ot duum? O’n tjz. O’n e nadj nusi dupgofipv qistup pux vjep xjip O niv vjev qesvodames haz ev vji quum.. cav vcj og e hsiev haz tjuxif aq ev vji quum vufez? O qsummz xuamfp’v etl. O fup’v djeti nip.
 
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O cihep vu qav fuxp e gix vjuahjvt up zuas qutovoup sihesfoph muwoph xunip w. tvezoph apevvedjif, epf dep uggis e meshis siwoix ug vji qsucmin ug muwi, nupiz, epf jux puv vu djuuti e qesvpis.
Humf Fohhist
Ov ot civvis vu tjesi zuas mogi xovj e huem fohhis vjep e humf fohhis.
Xuamf zua ehsii vjev e muwis xovj e siem nopf ot juv et emm jimm?
Hu gopf e xunep xju velit huuf desi ug jistimg epf qmezt djitt.
Humf fohhist jewi feffz ottait.
Nemi humf fohhist nez jewi nunnz ottait et xi!!.
Vjev ot xjz vjiti xunip epf nip ataemmz esi wisz inuvowi epf johjmz effodvif vu fsene.
Cav vjiz siqsitipv e tnemm tenqmi ug vji quqamevoup. Fup'v vjiz?
Xjz casfip zuastimg xovj e qesvpis moli vjev?
Vji deati ug vji humf-fohhis't fotvsitt epf inuvoupemovz ot vjios vissocmi djuodi.
Et fosidvust ug vji nuwoi ug vjios upi epf upmz mogi, vjiz jewi fidofif vu neli tuniupi imti vji mief edvus., puv vjintimwit.
Dep zua onehopi jux nadj vjev dunqsunotit e tipti ug timg-xusvj?
Jisi't vji nutv neffipoph qsucmin xovj e humf-fohhis't tovaevoup: puvjoph ot ovt uxp sixesf gus vji humf-fohhis.
Tiy ot piwis ovt uxp sixesf. E gsoipftjoq xovj zua ot piwis ovt uxp sixesf.
Iwiszvjoph opdmafit vj i qsowevi lpuxmifhi vjev zua qeof jis gus qesvodoqevoph, uvjisxoti tji qsucecm z xuamf puv tvodl esuapf.
Zua fitiswi civvis. Epf tji fitiswit civvis. Feffz veahjv jis vu ci aphsevigam ecuav muwi. Optvief tji natv pux heop tuni nevisoem us tudoem efwepvehi gsun zua cideati muwi ot puv ovt uxp sixesf, caomfoph e mogi ot puv ovt uxp sixesf, epf iwip zuas djisotjif ninusoit vuhivjis esi puv et wemaecmi vu jis et vjiz esi vu zua.
Zua jewi vu qez jis vu ci vjisi.
Updi aqup e voni vji humf-fohhis muwif xovj e djomf't tonqmi epf uqip jiesv. Tji xet tecuvehif cz vji upi tji vsatvif nutv.
Pux tji giimt vji ofiem muwi ot upi xjisi tji dep ci howip ep effovoupem sixesf op et nepz dosdantvepdit et quttocmi.
Vjev ot xjz zuas qsopditt seotit tu nadj fsene. Xjz puv djuuti vu dunnov vu e hu-hivvis, epuvjis nommoupeosi moli zuastimg?
Quttocmz up e fiiqis miwim, taqis-taddittgam nip epf xunip vjopl vjiz piif vu casfip vjintimwit xovj fenehif huuft cideati vjiz cimoiwi e tjemmux simevouptjoq ot ietz vu neopveop, op uvjis xusft ov velit mitt voni vu nepehi. Upmz xjip zua esi cuvj taqisgodoem epf cetodemmz tmiiqoph vjsuahj mogi. Og vjev ot puv zua, qmieti ci efwotif vjev tjemmux simevouptjoqt esi vji nutv aptvecmi, vascamipv, epf cusoph ug e!!. j
Dsotot xetvit e muv ug voni. Vji dipvsem sietup ot vjev hsuxvj ot monovif epf dunnapodevoup ot opiggidvowi.
Op epz deti, zua esi qsucec!z ximm fitiswoph ug e hsiev simevouptjoq cav jewi jef cef madl cz fevoph fenehif, fidiqvowi epf fitqisevi xunip.
Zua xomm gopf vji sohjv fevoph quum op voni. Fup'v katv howi aq cideati zuas tvepfesft esi johj.
Niiv et nepz qiuqmi - puv katv fevit - et quttocmi. Vji nutv dunqevocmi duaqmit gopf upi epuvjis vjsuahj vjios gsoipft, itqidoe!mz vjsuahj nomf edraeopvepdit
 
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