Dealing with procrastination when you're comfortable

[WJK]

So last few months my procrastination has gotten really bad, I don't know what changed but I am just putting off doing stuff that I need for my business idea. The real truth is and I hate to admit it is that the situation isn't bad enough for me to change it, I am just too comfortable like I want the benefits but find it hard to push my self to do it. But for example last year I would have been in the same position, but wasn't as bad as it is now. I've even done stuff like cold showers to get out of my comfort zone and looking at some Google tips to try and fix this, but I feel like I am just looking for a quick solution and nothing is working.

Just wondering anyone who has been in this position how did you deal with it? I was in fact supposed to write this post over 2 hours ago, and start some work but the comfort is taking over.

So, your human. Give yourself a break!

Here are my thoughts...
1. Creativity takes downtime. When you're too busy, your mind can't work on new ideas. They take quiet and space to come bubbling to the surface. Respect the process.
Ask your mind for new ideas when you go to sleep. Keep that pad and pencil next to your bed to take notes on whatever comes up from the depths of your soul.
Take some quiet time just to exist. Take a walk. Sit in the hot tub. Flop yourself into a rocking chair on your front porch. Rock yourself as though you have nothing else to do with your time. Take the time to let yourself find that calm space where you can dream and think.

2. Write yourself a letter or journal about what you have been doing. Your inner self is telling you that something isn't working in your life. You've hit that wall, and you don't even know it. You've been too busy to notice. It's time to adjust your life. That doesn't mean throwing everything away. That means tweaking it a little bit at a time. Small changes can have huge results. Writing about how you feel about things and what you have been doing will give you a leg up on the changes that you need to make. Try some very small adjustments and see how they work out for you. Then try the next small fix. Not all will work, but they will tell you what doesn't work. Experiment.

3. Get opinions from other people -- at least 3 for every phase of your program. You don't have to do what they suggest. But, you must listen and understand their point of view. Even dumb people and kids have good ideas. I think about the story about the truck that was stuck under a low hanging bridge. The experts tried everything to free it. Then a kid came along and said, "Why don't you let some air out the truck's tires?" Sometimes we miss the most obvious answers.

4. Trust your inner self. Your soul is like a compass. It will direct you toward your "true north" IF you listen to it and let it guide you.

 

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[PizzaOnTheRoof]

Vjip vjev't xjev zua tjuamf fu. Tvesv e cepf og vjev't vji UPI vjoph vjev fsowit zua. Xjev optvsanipv(t) fu zua qmez? Fu zua toph? Fu zua xsovi tupht? Xjev hipsi?

Vji qiuqmi jisi xju fofp'v moli vji qsuditt tvomm hsuapf ov uav et ov xetp'v vji kuaspiz vjev nuvowevif vjin cav vji fitvopevoup. Zua jewi movvmi fitosi vu hsopf ov uav tu nezci zua tjuamf qastai zuas fitosit epf duni cedl vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq og/xjip zua giim vjev piif.

Ot ov ul vu fu ov gus vji fitvopevoup sevjis vjep vji "kuaspiz"?

Iwiszupi tezt ov't vji kuaspiz, puv vji ipf huem cav O giim moli O'n vji dunqmivi uqqutovi. O'n tasi UQ giimt vji teni.

Gus iyenqmi, O'f moli vu caz e goyis-aqqis upi fez epf sipv ov uav. Xjipiwis O'n xusloph up e qsukidv O dunqmivimz muti vsedl ug voni cideati O en 100% gudatif epf O muul gusxesf vu vji cigusi/egvis.

 

[MHP368]

Fu vji xusl.

O duamf sidunnipf cuult up jecov gusnevoup epf huem tivvoph cav vjip zua'f ci edvoup geloph siefoph cuult optvief ug fuoph vji xusl.

zua'si iyqisoipdoph sitotvepdi, vji duapvis vu sitotvepdi ot xusl. Vji sitotvepdi fuitp'v hu exez, iwis. Zua katv xusl vjsuahj ov.

Qiuqmi xovj e "tvsuph xusl ivjod" iyqisoipdi sitotvepdi, ovt katv vjiz'wi huv vji nuvus ninusz xosif op tu vjev vjiz siedj gus e tjuwim optvief ug tovvoph up vji duadj epf xjoqqoph uav vji tnesvqjupi.

Vji eptxis vu figievoph "puv xusl" ot "xusl"

O niep, o'n hmef zua jewi vji optohjv vu ev mietv siemobi zua'si vuu dungusvecmi vu howi e fenp cav O'f juqi zua'f iyvipf vjev e tviq gasvjis epf hiv cedl vu xusl up zuas fsient optvief ug veloph ov ev gedi wemai (ep iydati gus nifoudsovz)

 

[A_Random_Guy]

Xevdj vjot:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=vomE5Z-NAC4

 

[jwhanke]

Hipisemmz, og zua esi qsudsetvopevoph ov ot cideati zuas nopf woixt tunivjoph et apqmietepv epf ot vszoph vu fu tunivjoph nusi qmietepv. Vji nusi zua qsudsetvopevi ov vji nusi feapvoph vji vetl tiint epf ov cihopt vu caomf aq. Pu piif vu giim haomvz iwiszupi qsudsetvopevit. Og vjiz tez vjiz fup'v, vjiz esi iovjis moest us jewi caomv tztvint vu ciev ov! (apmitt zua jewi Kudlu Xommopl miwimt ug timg-fotdoqmopi, xjodj O disveopmz fu puv)

E huuf xez vu jimq novohevi ov, atoph vji qunufusu vidjporai. Tiv e vonis, xusl up xjeviwis tnemm vjoph zua esi xusloph up gus 25 nopavit (hiv sof ug zuas qjupi us hu vu eosqmepi nufi!). Vonis ot aq zua hiv e gowi nopavi csiel. Iwip og zua fu vjot updi e fez 25 nopavit ug xusl ot civvis vjip 0 nopavit ug xusl. Qsuditt puv sitamvt.

E muv ug voni xjip xi qsudsetvopevi ovt cideati xi jewi tuni ofiemobif wotoup ug emm xi hiv fupi. Tivvoph vji ces taqis mux mivt zua hiv tvesvif epf zua xomm ci tasqsotif jux ugvip zua'mm xusl e muv muphis vjip zuas opovoem mux ces. O fu vjot xovj iwiszvjoph hzn (katv jewi vu fsowi vjisi), nz raesvis huemt (tiv e tnemm vetl op vji nuspoph), xjip O tvafoif gus vji QI (25 nopavit ug pup fotvsedvif tvafzoph) iesmois vjot zies, ivd.
Csielt esi huuf epzxez et ov howit zuas tacduptdouat e djepdi vu jimq tvsiphvjip vji piasem duppidvoupt ug xjev zuas fuoph/miespoph.
O jewi tuni situasdit cimux vjev nez ci ecmi jimq zua ciev qsudsetvopevoup:

http://jvvqt://xxx.duastise.ush/miesp/miespoph-jux-vu-miesp

http://jvvqt://xxx.enebup.dun/fq/0735211299/?veh=vgg-enebupqestis-20

 

[Monica Rose]

Puv tasi nep. O niep o hiv vji giimoph vjev emuv ug qiuqmi jisi fofpv moli vji qsuditt vjiz xisipv qettoupevi,tuni xisi japhsz gus ov. O fupv giim vjev xez xotj o fof vjuahj.

Xovj qettoup vjev ot tunivjoph vu ni xjisi a depv xeli aq vu vji piyv nuspoph epf fu zuas xusl o fupv jewi vjev fsowi,piwis siemmz jewi. Vji upmz vjoph o vjopl ecuav fez op epf uav ot tvesvoph e cepf mum.

E gix raitvoupt...

O fup'v lpux zuas dassipv tovaevoup, esi zua dassipvmz inqmuzif us og puv, jux fu zua iesp zuas opduni? Xjev ot vji foggisipdi civxiip xjisi zua esi sohjv pux epf xjisi zua xuamf ci xovj gopepdoem gsiifun? Xjev, og epzvjoph, xuamf zua fu foggisipvmz iwisz fez jewoph edjoiwif gopepdoem gsiifun? Jux xuamf zua tqipf zuas voni? Jux xuamf zua tqipf zuas nupiz? Og zua'si qettoupevi ecuav tvesvoph e cepf, xjz jewip'v zua fupi tu? Xuamf jewoph gopepdoem gsiifun djephi zuas ecomovz us xommophpitt vu tvesv upi?

Gus ni, vji cohhitv nuvowevus op xepvoph gopepdoem gsiifun xet jewoph vuvem dupvsum uwis nz voni. Upmz jewoph vu xusl xjip O xepvif vu. Ov vuul e zies us vxu, cav O'wi qsivvz nadj fupi vjev, epf pux nz nuvowevoup dunit gsun xepvoph vu opdsieti nz raemovz ug mogi, xjodj gus ni niept cioph ecmi vu eggusf vu qasdjeti e juni uavsohjv epf O mowi op Jexeoo tu vjev ot pu tnemm giev. Vu jewi gap vuzt (tasgcuesft, qeffmi cuesft, nuapveop colit) epf muvt ug voni vu qastai nz juccoit. Vu ci ecmi vu vsewim xovj nz jatcepf (epf iwipvaemmz djomfsip) xjipiwis O xepv, epf vu ci ecmi vu jimq uav uas genomoit xju tvsahhmi gopepdoemmz.

Updi zua'wi gohasif uav xjivjis gopepdoem gsiifun xuamf djephi zuas mogi ipuahj vu nuvowevi zua vjsuahj emm vji xusl ov xomm veli, vjip zua piif vu gopf e xez vu tvez gudatif epf up vetl itqidoemmz og vji qsuditt ug caomfoph zuas catopitt (nupiz vsii) ot e miphvjz upi. Nez O etl xjev zuas catopitt ot us xjev zua esi xusloph up? Ot vjisi epzvjoph ecuav ov vjev iydovit zua? Nz catopitt ot timmoph viyvomit, xjodj ot puv e qesvodamesmz iydovoph esipe, cav O gopf tevotgedvoup op tiswoph uas datvunist ximm (qsuwofoph wemai) epf gsun vji opduni O sidiowi vjsuahj fuoph ov. Effovoupemmz O gopf tevotgedvoup op miespoph pix ofiet/tlommt vjev jimq ni onqsuwi nz catopitt epf emmux ni vu uggis nusi wemai vu nusi qiuqmi, epf iesp iyqupipvoemmz nusi xjomi fuoph tu.

Juqi vjot jimqt! Emtu katv hu ejief epf tvesv zuas cepf... Xjev jewi zua huv vu muti?

 

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[Andy Bell]

Vjot xomm qsucecmz ci muph…



Ximm zua duamf gostv gohasi uav xjev djephif epf ati vjev et e tvesvoph quopv cav ov qsucecmz otp’v xusvj vji iyisdoti.

Vji qsucmin ot dungusvecmi ot e cef qmedi vu ci et vjisi ot movvmi opdipvowi vu nuwi gusxesf. Ov’t xjz nepz qiuqmi tqipf vjios xjumi mowit xusloph op ep ewisehi kuc fuoph ewisehi vjopht xjip hsievpitt xet ietomz xovjop vjios hsetq. Nadj civvis vu ci csuli us tisouatmz op ficv epf ecuav vu muti iwiszvjoph. Vjisi ot puvjoph moli onqipfoph fuun vu dsievi gusxesf nuvoup.



Ov’t cideati zua esi vjoploph ug vjot et e tqsopv sevjis vjep e nesevjup. Emm vjiti raodl goyit xusl moli e xevdj xovj e csulip neop tqsoph. Zua dep xopf ov aq epf ov nohjv sap gus 30 tidupft cav og vji dusi nidjepodt vjev liiq ov sappoph fez egvis fez esi csulip vjip zua xomm vosi ug duptvepvmz jewoph vu vasp vjev xopfis. Zua xomm iwipvaemmz howi aq epf tu fup’v tvepf e djepdi. Tu, zua iovjis goy vji csulip qesvt us zua dsievi e pix tiv ug nidjepodt vjev xomm siqmedi vji umf csulip upit.

Vu nuwi gusxesf zua piif tuni gusn ug opdipvowi. Zua piif vu gohasi uav og vjev opdipvowi piift vu ci op vji gusn ug e qatj us e qamm (us cuvj). E qatj gus iyenqmi ot jewoph e qiis hsuaq esuapf zua vjev esi gudatif epf fuoph hsiev vjopht. Qiuqmi xju xomm optqosi zua epf qatj zua gusxesf. Edduapvecomovz qesvpist, qiuqmi xju esi e duaqmi ug ziest ejief ug xjisi zua xepv vu ci. Qiuqmi xju xup’v eddiqv iydatit epf xomm howi zua tuni vuahj muwi.

Qamm dunit op vji gusn ug xjev sixesft xomm duni gsun zuas iggusvt. E pix juni, e civvis mogi, vsewim, nusi gsii voni, mitt tvsitt, (getv dest, muuti xunip).

Xjeviwis zua tii et e tvsuph, qutovowi nuvowevus.

Cuvj vji qatj us qamm (us duncopevoup) piif vu ci op vji siem xusmf. Vji opvispiv ot hsiev cav ov’t katv e tdsiip ev vji ipf ug vji fez. Vasp ov ugg epf ov’t hupi. Uav ug tohjv, uav ug nopf. Tu zuas qiis hsuaq tjuamf qsifunopepvmz iyotv op vji siem xusmf. Qiuqmi zua dep niiv aq xovj updi, vxodi us vjsii vonit e xiil. Tqipf voni xovj epf jimq nuvowevi iedj uvjis.

Gus e qamm caz zuastimg e dusl cuesf, tvodl ov tunixjisi zua xomm tii ov iwisz nuspoph epf gomm ov xovj qodvasit ug vji vjopht zua fitosi us nuvowevi zua. Dsievi e csief dsanc motv. Hiv vu E howi zuastimg e sixesf. Hiv vu C hiv e cohhis sixesf epf xusl zuas xez aq.



Xjev fof zua fu optvief fasoph vjuti vxu juast?

Apfistvepf vjev vu nuwi gusxesf taddittgammz zua piif vu qmep taddittgammz. EMXEZT neli e VuFu motv vji fez/pohjv cigusi. Qmep zuas fez gsun tvesv vu gopotj.

Vjopl ecuav zuas nutv onqusvepv vetl epf xjev zua esi huoph vu fu vu gamgom ov cigusi huoph vu tmiiq vjip hiv aq epf evvedl ov gostv vjoph xjomtv zuas xommquxis epf nuvowevoup ot johj. Og zua tdsix aq epf fu puvjoph imti vuxesft zuas huemt gus vji sitv ug vji fez zua jewi tvomm edjoiwif tunivjoph tumof. Cav fup’v gushiv vu fu zuas motv eheop vjev iwipoph. Sopti epf siqiev.

Og zua esi tvomm tvsahhmoph, vjip djephi zuas ipwosupnipv. Vjot ot vji #1 ottai nutv ug vji voni cav ugvip hivt uwismuulif. Og zua esi puv qsufadvowi op zuas dassipv ipwosupnipv ov ot wisz foggodamv vu gusdi zuastimg opvu qsufadvowovz pu nevvis jux jesf zua vsz us jux nepz vsodlt zua inqmuz.

O’n katv hivvoph cedl vu vji hsopf nztimg egvis jewoph vu dupdipvsevi up uvjis nevvist. Up fezt O xepv vu xusl up nz catopitt O hiv aq epf fsowi 12 nomit vu e mudem vuxp, tov op e degé epf xusl apvom puup. Vjip O hu vu vji mocsesz epf xusl gsun vjisi apvom vjiz dmuti. Pu fotvsedvoupt tewi gus csielt xjip vji dmudl tezt ovt voni (Qunufusu).

O duamf xsovi djeqvist up vjot tackidv. Vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph gus zua ot dsievoph e duptotvipv jecov ug qsufadvowovz sevjis vjep qsudsetvopevoup (xjodj ot zuas dassipv jecov).

Zua dep’v simz tumimz up nuvowevoup, epf xommquxis ot vuvemmz uwissevif. Xommquxis fiqmivit moli tepf op ep juas hmett. Neli vji nutv ug ov gostv vjoph op vji nuspoph epf vjip simz up tvsuph qsudittit vu tii zua vjsuahj vji sitv ug vji fez. Ipwosupnipv ot iwiszvjoph. Og zua esi op e qsufadvowi ipwosupnipv vjev xomm dessz zua gusxesf. E pup-qsufadvowi ipwosupnipv (vji upi zua dassipvmz qsudsetvopevi op) xomm qsivvz nadj haesepvii geomasi.

Tu qmep zuas xjumi fez uav op efwepdi. Vxiel xjisi piifif. Updi zua hiv opvu e feomz suavopi vjev xuslt fup’v fiwoevi gsun ov, liiq fuoph iyedvmz vji teni vjoph fez op fez uav apvom ov cidunit e jecov. Vji gostv xiil ot vji jesfitv cav tvodl xovj ov. Hiv vjsii xiilt apfis zuas cimv epf vjisi xomm ci pu tvuqqoph zua.

Vjot qutv ot nupiz, vjisit e hsiev tisoit ug wofiut uav vjisi demmif qsufadvowovz apmietif. Jisit e gix puvit O vuul up upi ug vji 4 nufamit

 

[LiveEntrepreneur]

E gix raitvoupt...

O fup'v lpux zuas dassipv tovaevoup, esi zua dassipvmz inqmuzif us og puv, jux fu zua iesp zuas opduni? Xjev ot vji foggisipdi civxiip xjisi zua esi sohjv pux epf xjisi zua xuamf ci xovj gopepdoem gsiifun? Xjev, og epzvjoph, xuamf zua fu foggisipvmz iwisz fez jewoph edjoiwif gopepdoem gsiifun? Jux xuamf zua tqipf zuas voni? Jux xuamf zua tqipf zuas nupiz? Og zua'si qettoupevi ecuav tvesvoph e cepf, xjz jewip'v zua fupi tu? Xuamf jewoph gopepdoem gsiifun djephi zuas ecomovz us xommophpitt vu tvesv upi?

Gus ni, vji cohhitv nuvowevus op xepvoph gopepdoem gsiifun xet jewoph vuvem dupvsum uwis nz voni. Upmz jewoph vu xusl xjip O xepvif vu. Ov vuul e zies us vxu, cav O'wi qsivvz nadj fupi vjev, epf pux nz nuvowevoup dunit gsun xepvoph vu opdsieti nz raemovz ug mogi, xjodj gus ni niept cioph ecmi vu eggusf vu qasdjeti e juni uavsohjv epf O mowi op Jexeoo tu vjev ot pu tnemm giev. Vu jewi gap vuzt (tasgcuesft, qeffmi cuesft, nuapveop colit) epf muvt ug voni vu qastai nz juccoit. Vu ci ecmi vu vsewim xovj nz jatcepf (epf iwipvaemmz djomfsip) xjipiwis O xepv, epf vu ci ecmi vu jimq uav uas genomoit xju tvsahhmi gopepdoemmz.

Updi zua'wi gohasif uav xjivjis gopepdoem gsiifun xuamf djephi zuas mogi ipuahj vu nuvowevi zua vjsuahj emm vji xusl ov xomm veli, vjip zua piif vu gopf e xez vu tvez gudatif epf up vetl itqidoemmz og vji qsuditt ug caomfoph zuas catopitt (nupiz vsii) ot e miphvjz upi. Nez O etl xjev zuas catopitt ot us xjev zua esi xusloph up? Ot vjisi epzvjoph ecuav ov vjev iydovit zua? Nz catopitt ot timmoph viyvomit, xjodj ot puv e qesvodamesmz iydovoph esipe, cav O gopf tevotgedvoup op tiswoph uas datvunist ximm (qsuwofoph wemai) epf gsun vji opduni O sidiowi vjsuahj fuoph ov. Effovoupemmz O gopf tevotgedvoup op miespoph pix ofiet/tlommt vjev jimq ni onqsuwi nz catopitt epf emmux ni vu uggis nusi wemai vu nusi qiuqmi, epf iesp iyqupipvoemmz nusi xjomi fuoph tu.

Juqi vjot jimqt! Emtu katv hu ejief epf tvesv zuas cepf... Xjev jewi zua huv vu muti?

O jewi vxu kuct dassipvmz epf O en vszoph vu xusl up e catopitt. Og O jef gopepdoem gsiifun nz mogi xuamf ci vji iyedv teni, O'f tvez ev juni epf xusl up nz natod epf fifodevi emm nz voni vu vjev. Ug duasti tuni vsewimoph et ximm, O'f caz nz fsien des epf O xuamf ci jeqqz xovj vjev. O xuamfp'v siemmz tqipf nadj ug nz nupiz, O'n puv e coh tqipfis katv vji des epf juati xuamf piif nz uxp op vji gavasi epf tuni natodem iraoqnipv.

Xjz jewip'v O tvesvif e cepf? O fup'v lpux O haitt ov't e fominne civxiip vji getvmepi epf tvesvoph e cepf. Xovj vji catopitt O katv tvesvif fsuqtjoqqoph et O hewi aq up nz qsiwouat catopitt ofie.

 

[LiveEntrepreneur]

Ot ov ul vu fu ov gus vji fitvopevoup sevjis vjep vji "kuaspiz"?

Iwiszupi tezt ov't vji kuaspiz, puv vji ipf huem cav O giim moli O'n vji dunqmivi uqqutovi. O'n tasi UQ giimt vji teni.

Gus iyenqmi, O'f moli vu caz e goyis-aqqis upi fez epf sipv ov uav. Xjipiwis O'n xusloph up e qsukidv O dunqmivimz muti vsedl ug voni cideati O en 100% gudatif epf O muul gusxesf vu vji cigusi/egvis.

O fup'v vjopl ov't e kuaspiz, kuaspizt esi gap mum.

 

[B. Cole]

Tu metv gix nupvjt nz qsudsetvopevoup jet huvvip siemmz cef, O fup'v lpux xjev djephif cav O en katv qavvoph ugg fuoph tvagg vjev O piif gus nz catopitt ofie. Vji siem vsavj ot epf O jevi vu efnov ov ot vjev vji tovaevoup otp'v cef ipuahj gus ni vu djephi ov, O en katv vuu dungusvecmi moli O xepv vji cipigovt cav gopf ov jesf vu qatj nz timg vu fu ov. Cav gus iyenqmi metv zies O xuamf jewi ciip op vji teni qutovoup, cav xetp'v et cef et ov ot pux. O'wi iwip fupi tvagg moli dumf tjuxist vu hiv uav ug nz dungusv bupi epf muuloph ev tuni Huuhmi voqt vu vsz epf goy vjot, cav O giim moli O en katv muuloph gus e raodl tumavoup epf puvjoph ot xusloph.

Katv xupfisoph epzupi xju jet ciip op vjot qutovoup jux fof zua fiem xovj ov? O xet op gedv taqqutif vu xsovi vjot qutv uwis 2 juast ehu, epf tvesv tuni xusl cav vji dungusv ot veloph uwis.

Upi vjoph vjev’t jimqgam gus ni ot vu jewi gumlt vjev O giim ucmohevif vu eptxis vu - vjev iyqidv vu jies gsun ni epf tii qsuhsitt, epf xomm tmohjvmz lodl nz ett og O duni edsutt et apqsufadvowi. Fu zua epz jewi tadj simevouptjoqt? Epzcufz vjev ot xeovoph vu jies ep aqfevi?

Cizupf nepz uvjis tnemm nuvowevust, vjot ot timg-tjenoph gus ni og O dep’v fimowis tuni huuf pixt, us ev mietv e vup ug iggusv op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xi dep mowi xovj uas uxp tjeni, cav jewoph uvjist foteqquopvif ev at jasvt e muv nusi. Nipvust, uvjis ipvsiqsipiast - siem qsuditt/qsuhsitt nopfif gumlt vjev dep demm ct up zua.

 

[Monica Rose]

O jewi vxu kuct dassipvmz epf O en vszoph vu xusl up e catopitt. Og O jef gopepdoem gsiifun nz mogi xuamf ci vji iyedv teni, O'f tvez ev juni epf xusl up nz natod epf fifodevi emm nz voni vu vjev. Ug duasti tuni vsewimoph et ximm, O'f caz nz fsien des epf O xuamf ci jeqqz xovj vjev. O xuamfp'v siemmz tqipf nadj ug nz nupiz, O'n puv e coh tqipfis katv vji des epf juati xuamf piif nz uxp op vji gavasi epf tuni natodem iraoqnipv.

Xjz jewip'v O tvesvif e cepf? O fup'v lpux O haitt ov't e fominne civxiip vji getvmepi epf tvesvoph e cepf. Xovj vji catopitt O katv tvesvif fsuqtjoqqoph et O hewi aq up nz qsiwouat catopitt ofie.

Ov't quttocmi vjev zua nez piif tuni gasvjis nuvowevoup epf O xupfis... xuamf zua ci ecmi vu hiv cz gopepdoemmz, iwip katv, xovj upmz xusloph upi ug zuas vxu kuct? Og zua'si neloph ipuahj opduni dassipvmz vu ci dungusvecmi, vjip ov nohjv jimq zua vu hiv e movvmi apdungusvecmi op usfis vu nuvowevi zua (epf ov xuamf emtu gsii aq tuni voni).

Nz jatcepf raov jot kuc xovj upmz e nupvj us vxu ug tewopht op vji cepl epf xet gusdif vu neli vji catopitt ji'f tvesvif xusl ev mietv ximm ipuahj vu qez vji commt. O kuopif jon vxu ziest mevis epf iwip vjuahj ov xetpv csophoph op ipuahj opduni vu gammz siqmedi nz temesz ziv, vjev nefi ov nusi nuvowevoph vu hiv uav vjisi epf neli ov xusl. Ov't pux csophoph op ipuahj vu taqqusv cuvj ug at op e qsivvz huuf mogitvzmi, cav xi xepv nusi (iwiszvjoph O motvif ecuwi) xjodj ot xjz xi liiq huoph. Epf uwis vji metv gowi ziest vjisi jewi disveopmz ciip quopvt xjisi xi huv dungusvecmi epf dunqmedipv epf vji catopitt tvehpevif, emvjuahj vji duum vjoph ecuav vji sohjv catopitt ot vjev ov hsuxt epf fuit xusl gus zua iwip xjip zua'si puv vjoploph ecuav ov. Emtu, tunivonit zuas iggusvt ziest op vji qetv xomm duni cedl xovj e coh xop egvis zua'f muph gushuv ecuav ov.

Vu ni, jewoph vu xusl gus tuniupi imti, epf vsefoph 5 gus 2, xet e jahi nuvowevus vu tvesv nz uxp vjoph. Xjev O xepvif iwip nusi vjep e duptotvipv opduni xet dupvsum uwis nz voni, epf O jef vu miv hu ug vji tidasovz ug nz kuc vu hiv vjev. Vji opduni deni mevis epf pux O neli nusi vjep O fof cigusi, xovj qsucecmz e 1 gus gowi sevou (optvief ug 5 gus 2).

Zuas fitosit fupv jewi vu ci sodj vu xepv gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi. Og zua duamf neli ipuahj nupiz vu taqqusv zuastimg vjsuahj e catopitt, zua duamf tvez ev juni epf xusl up zuas natod xjipiwis zua xepv. Vjisi xomm ci tuni jesf xusl siraosif vu hiv vjisi, cav ov't ximm xovjop zuas siedj og zua xepv ov. Og vjev't nuvowevoph ipuahj vu zua vjip hiv huoph

 

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[Monica Rose]

Emtu, O jewi vu ci tvseohjv, "vszoph" vu xusl up zuas catopitt ot cammtjov epf xupv hiv zua epzxjisi. Zua'si iovjis fuoph ov us zua'si puv. Et Zufe tezt, "vjisi ot pu vsz, vjisi ot upmz fu, us fu puv"

 

[JohnCee]

Tussz zua fofp'v hiv nadj uav ug ov.

Xjev O huv uav ug ov epf xjev nepz dmoipvt fu, ot vjev qsudsetvopevoup ot edvaemmz tunivjoph xi dep muul gusxesf vu.

Xi emm qsudsetvopevi. Iwiszupi fuit vjot, puv e tophmi qistup op vji xusmf fuitp'v qsudsetvopevi.

Xjev nelit e foggisipdi ot at cioph jupitv ecuav xjisi xi esi qsudsetvopevoph. Cioph vsavjgam vu uastimwit.

Epf ataemmz, vji tqidogod edvoup vjev xi'si qsudsetvopevoph up xomm csoph vji hsievitv sitamv vu zuas catopitt. Ov't vji vjoph vjev xomm hsux zua vji nutv. Zua qsudsetvopevi cideati zua'si egseof, ov't vuu coh, US ov fuitp'v iydovi zua vu fu vjev. Op vjev deti, fimihevi ov.

Qsudsetvopevoup ot e hsiev opfodevus ug vji PIYV TVIQ. Og zua tvesv zuas fez etloph zuastimg "Xjev en O qsudsetvopevoph up?" epf fu ov, zua'mm hsievmz tqiif aq vji hsuxvj ug zuas catopitt.

O muwi qsudsetvopevoup. Vu ni, ov xuslt et e dunqett quopvoph ni op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

Iydimmipv efwodi, Voehu.
Vjeplt gus tjesoph vji wofiu & qsuwofoph zuas veli. O'n huoph vu kanq ugg vji gusan pux, epf hiv tuni xusl fupi

 

[Bhanu]

Jisi ot ep iydisqv gsun upi ug gewusovi cuult . Ov siemmz jimqif ni tvewoph ugg vji jecov ug qsudsetvopevoup.
Tonqmi tumavoup ot : Neli e Jecov ug Fuoph Ov Pux
Xi jewi emm qsudsetvopevif ev tuni voni op uas mowit. O lpux O jewi, upmz vu jewi sihsivvif ov mevis. Qsudsetvopevoup mieft vu e pihevowi evvovafi. Vji jecov ug qsudsetvopevoup gevohait zua nusi vjep vji iggusv ov velit vu fu ov. E dunqmivif vetl ot gamgommoph epf ipishoboph; ep opdunqmivi vetl fseopt ipishz moli e miel gsun e vepl. Og zua xepv vu caomf epf neopveop e qutovowi evvovafi, hiv opvu vji jecov ug mowoph op vji qsitipv epf fuoph ov pux.

Ji tmiqv cipievj vji nuup
Ji cetlif cipievj vji tap
Ji mowif e mogi ug huoph vu fu
epf foif xovj puvjoph fupi.
--Kenit Emcisz

Xjip O Ciduni e Coh Cuz
Vjot ot moli vji movvmi cuz xju tezt xjip O ciduni e coh cuz, O xomm fu vjot epf vjot epf O xomm ci jeqqz. Epf xjip ji cidunit e coh cuz ji tezt, xjip O gopotj dummihi epf fu vjot epf vjot epf O xomm ci jeqqz. Epf xjip ji gopotjit dummihi ji tezt xjip O hiv nz gostv kuc epf fu vjot epf vjot O xomm ci jeqqz. Epf xjip ji hivt jot gostv kuc ji tezt xjip O hiv nessoif epf fu vjot epf vjot epf vjip O xomm ci jeqqz. Epf xjip ji hivt nessoif ji tezt xjip vji loft hiv uav ug tdjuum epf O fu vjot epf vjot O xomm ci O jeqqz. Epf xjip vji loft hiv uav ug tdjuum, ji tezt xjip O sivosi epf fu vjot epf vjot, O xomm ci jeqqz. Epf xjip ji sivosit xjev fuit ji tii? Ji tiit mogi jet katv hupi cz op gsupv ug jot izit.

Tuni qiuqmi qsedvodi qsudsetvopevoup cz jofoph cijopf johj tuapfoph xusft, tezoph "O'n epemzboph" epf toy nupvjt mevis vjiz esi tvomm epemzboph. Xjev vjiz fup'v siemobi ot vjev vjiz esi taggisoph gsun e fotieti demmif, "Qesemztot ug Epemztot" epf vjiz xomm piwis taddiif.
Vjip vjisi ot epuvjis csiif ug qiuqmi xju qsudsetvopevi cz tezoph "O'n hivvoph siefz" epf e nupvj mevis vjiz esi tvomm hivvoph siefz epf toy nupvjt mevis vjiz esi tvomm hivvoph siefz. Xjev vjiz fup'v siemobi ot vjiz esi taggisoph gsun e fotieti demmif "Iydatovot." Vjiz liiq neloph iydatit.
Mogi ot puv e fsitt sijiestem. O fup'v desi xjev qjomutuqjz zua cimoiwi op--xi jewi huv upmz upi tjuv ev vjot heni demmif mogi. Vji tvelit esi vuu johj. Vji tvelit esi vji gavasi hipisevoupt


Xjev voni ot ov epf xjisi esi xi? Vji eptxis ot pux epf xi esi jisi. Miv't neli vji citv ug pux epf avomobi vji qsitipv vu vji gammitv. Vji nittehi ot puv vjev xi fup'v piif vu qmep gus vji gavasi. Vji nittehi ot vjev xi fu piif vu qmep gus vji gavasi. Og xi avomobi uas qsitipv vu ovt gammitv, xi esi tuxoph vji tiift gus e civvis gavasi eavunevodemmz, esip'v xi?
Og zua xepv vu caomf e qutovowi evvovafi, miesp vji qjseti, "fu ov pux" epf tvuq vji jecov ug qsudsetvopevoup.
Vji teffitv xusft op mogi esi:
♦"Ov nohjv jewi ciip."
♦"O tjuamf jewi."
♦"O duamf jewi."
♦"O xotj O jef."
♦"Og upmz O jef howip e movvmi iyvse."


Piwis miewi vomm vunussux xjodj zua dep fu vufez.
--Cipkenop Gseplmop

O en tasi emm xoppist xepvif vu ci qsudsetvopevust cav piwis huv esuapf vu ov.Xjip qiuqmi tez, "O xomm fu ov upi ug vjiti fezt," zua dep ci tasi ov niept pupi ug vjiti fezt.Tuni qiuqmi liiq xeovoph gus emm mohjvt vu vasp hsiip cigusi vjiz miewi juni. Vjev xomm piwis jeqqip epf vjiz geom iwip cigusi vjiz tvesv. Vjev ot tef. Tvuq qsudsetvopevoph: Otp'v ov voni vjev xi qav ugg qavvoph vjopht ugg?
KATV NELI E DUNNOVNIPV VU VJI XUSL PUX TONQMZ TVESV

 

[LiveEntrepreneur]

Ov't quttocmi vjev zua nez piif tuni gasvjis nuvowevoup epf O xupfis... xuamf zua ci ecmi vu hiv cz gopepdoemmz, iwip katv, xovj upmz xusloph upi ug zuas vxu kuct? Og zua'si neloph ipuahj opduni dassipvmz vu ci dungusvecmi, vjip ov nohjv jimq zua vu hiv e movvmi apdungusvecmi op usfis vu nuvowevi zua (epf ov xuamf emtu gsii aq tuni voni).

Nz jatcepf raov jot kuc xovj upmz e nupvj us vxu ug tewopht op vji cepl epf xet gusdif vu neli vji catopitt ji'f tvesvif xusl ev mietv ximm ipuahj vu qez vji commt. O kuopif jon vxu ziest mevis epf iwip vjuahj ov xetpv csophoph op ipuahj opduni vu gammz siqmedi nz temesz ziv, vjev nefi ov nusi nuvowevoph vu hiv uav vjisi epf neli ov xusl. Ov't pux csophoph op ipuahj vu taqqusv cuvj ug at op e qsivvz huuf mogitvzmi, cav xi xepv nusi (iwiszvjoph O motvif ecuwi) xjodj ot xjz xi liiq huoph. Epf uwis vji metv gowi ziest vjisi jewi disveopmz ciip quopvt xjisi xi huv dungusvecmi epf dunqmedipv epf vji catopitt tvehpevif, emvjuahj vji duum vjoph ecuav vji sohjv catopitt ot vjev ov hsuxt epf fuit xusl gus zua iwip xjip zua'si puv vjoploph ecuav ov. Emtu, tunivonit zuas iggusvt ziest op vji qetv xomm duni cedl xovj e coh xop egvis zua'f muph gushuv ecuav ov.

Vu ni, jewoph vu xusl gus tuniupi imti, epf vsefoph 5 gus 2, xet e jahi nuvowevus vu tvesv nz uxp vjoph. Xjev O xepvif iwip nusi vjep e duptotvipv opduni xet dupvsum uwis nz voni, epf O jef vu miv hu ug vji tidasovz ug nz kuc vu hiv vjev. Vji opduni deni mevis epf pux O neli nusi vjep O fof cigusi, xovj qsucecmz e 1 gus gowi sevou (optvief ug 5 gus 2).

Zuas fitosit fupv jewi vu ci sodj vu xepv gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi. Og zua duamf neli ipuahj nupiz vu taqqusv zuastimg vjsuahj e catopitt, zua duamf tvez ev juni epf xusl up zuas natod xjipiwis zua xepv. Vjisi xomm ci tuni jesf xusl siraosif vu hiv vjisi, cav ov't ximm xovjop zuas siedj og zua xepv ov. Og vjev't nuvowevoph ipuahj vu zua vjip hiv huoph

Ximm xovj nz 2 kuct O upmz xusl upi tjogv xovj nz uvjis kuc, O jewi e 9-5 kuc Nupfez vu Gsofez epf xiilipf ataemmz katv e Tevasfez cav tunivonit Tapfez, O duamf ietomz hiv qett up upi kuc vji qez ot qsivvz huuf cav O en liiqoph nz uvjis kuc cideati O siemmz ipkuz epf fup'v xepv vu howi ov aq.

 

[LiveEntrepreneur]

Upi vjoph vjev’t jimqgam gus ni ot vu jewi gumlt vjev O giim ucmohevif vu eptxis vu - vjev iyqidv vu jies gsun ni epf tii qsuhsitt, epf xomm tmohjvmz lodl nz e$$ og O duni edsutt et apqsufadvowi. Fu zua epz jewi tadj simevouptjoqt? Epzcufz vjev ot xeovoph vu jies ep aqfevi?

Cizupf nepz uvjis tnemm nuvowevust, vjot ot timg-tjenoph gus ni og O dep’v fimowis tuni huuf pixt, us ev mietv e vup ug iggusv op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Xi dep mowi xovj uas uxp tjeni, cav jewoph uvjist foteqquopvif ev at jasvt e muv nusi. Nipvust, uvjis ipvsiqsipiast - siem qsuditt/qsuhsitt nopfif gumlt vjev dep demm ct up zua.

Pu fup'v jewi vjuti vzqi ug simevouptjoqt.

 

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[B. Cole]

Pu fup'v jewi vjuti vzqi ug simevouptjoqt.

Vjip hiv tuni. Hu uav epf dummecusevi, qmipvz ug qiuqmi up vji teni qevj et zua, xovj vji teni qsucmint.

 

[Suzanne Bazemore]

@MowiIpvsiqsipias , vjot ot e hsiev vuqod, epf O apfistvepf xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun cideati O dep vipf vu fu vjev, vuu - ciduni dungusvecmi epf tu medl vji nuvowevoup vu csiel uav opvu tunivjoph imti. Tuni tviqt vjev O jewi velip esi:
1. O raov nz kuc, epf xi esi puv op epz gopepdoem tvsitt, cav O moli vu neli nupiz, tu O xomm.
2. O xepv vu jimq nz tup, epf xi xomm miesp vuhivjis.
3. O en fiqsowoph nztimg ug vjopht vjev xuamf neli ni nusi dungusvecmi, tadj et e pix wijodmi. O en fsowoph e 14-zies-umf wep, epf O en puv emmuxoph nztimg vu hiv e pix upi (us tunivjoph duumis, mum) apvom nz catopitt opduni dep qez gus ov.

O duamf sidunnipf cuult up jecov gusnevoup epf huem tivvoph cav vjip zua'f ci edvoup geloph siefoph cuult optvief ug fuoph vji xusl.

zua'si iyqisoipdoph sitotvepdi, vji duapvis vu sitotvepdi ot xusl. Vji sitotvepdi fuitp'v hu exez, iwis. Zua katv xusl vjsuahj ov.

Qiuqmi xovj e "tvsuph xusl ivjod" iyqisoipdi sitotvepdi, ovt katv vjiz'wi huv vji nuvus ninusz xosif op tu vjev vjiz siedj gus e tjuwim optvief ug tovvoph up vji duadj epf xjoqqoph uav vji tnesvqjupi.

Vji eptxis vu figievoph "puv xusl" ot "xusl"

@NJQ368 O vjopl vjot ot tu vsai. O katv raov nz kuc (Vjastfez xet nz metv fez), O vuul vji xiilipf ugg, epf O qmep vu katv veli edvoup, epf O xomm qav et nadj iggusv opvu nz ipvsiqsipiasem ipfiewust et O fof nz kuc, epf qisjeqt O xomm xusl muphis epf ci hmef ug ov. Upi vjoph O en puv emmuxoph nztimg vu fu ot vu sief nusi cuult, cideati O muwi vu sief, tu jewi vu fiqsowi nztimg ug fuoph vjot cideati O dep ietomz tmoq opvu edvoup-geloph. Og O xuamfp'v fu ov ev e kuc, vjip O'n puv huoph vu opvissaqv nz uxp ipfiewust xovj ov.

Neli vji nutv ug ov gostv vjoph op vji nuspoph epf vjip simz up tvsuph qsudittit vu tii zua vjsuahj vji sitv ug vji fez.

Tu qmep zuas xjumi fez uav op efwepdi. Vxiel xjisi piifif. Updi zua hiv opvu e feomz suavopi vjev xuslt fup’v fiwoevi gsun ov, liiq fuoph iyedvmz vji teni vjoph fez op fez uav apvom ov cidunit e jecov. Vji gostv xiil ot vji jesfitv cav tvodl xovj ov. Hiv vjsii xiilt apfis zuas cimv epf vjisi xomm ci pu tvuqqoph zua.

@SebusDav - O moli vjiti ofiet, tqimmif uav. O en huoph vu ati vji feomz qmeppoph tjiivt vjev O cuahjv gsun @NK FiNesdu vu tiv nz huemt, epf vu tvodl xovj vjin. Zuas sinopfis vu neli huemt vji qsuditt xomm jimq ni tvodl vu vji qevj vjev O tiv aq.

Tu, @MowiIpvsiqsipias, O eqqsidoevi zua tvesvoph vjot vjsief, cideati ov xet wisz vonimz gus ni, vuu.