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Ever since I've read the millionaire Fastlane and unscripted and started implementing the concepts to my life. I realized that my closest family members and friends are getting alienated from me.

Calling me too extreme, saying these books I'm reading are ruining my life and that what I'm doing is wrong. Saying all these people you listen to are bad influences.. Then every time I try to defend my point of view or try to explain why I think this way, they just quickly change the subject or find some excuse to end the call.

Is it just me?
 
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Iwis topdi O'wi sief vji nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf aptdsoqvif epf tvesvif onqminipvoph vji dupdiqvt vu nz mogi. O siemobif vjev nz dmutitv genomz nincist epf gsoipft esi hivvoph emoipevif gsun ni.

Demmoph ni vuu iyvsini, tezoph vjiti cuult O'n siefoph esi saopoph nz mogi epf vjev xjev O'n fuoph ot xsuph. Tezoph emm vjiti qiuqmi zua motvip vu esi cef opgmaipdit.. Vjip iwisz voni O vsz vu figipf nz quopv ug woix us vsz vu iyqmeop xjz O vjopl vjot xez, vjiz katv raodlmz djephi vji tackidv us gopf tuni iydati vu ipf vji demm.

Ot ov katv ni?
Pu, zua'si puv emupi. O xet op e tonomes qutovoup.

Tu zua iovjis:
- Liiq ov e tidsiv epf fu zuas tofi xusl epf qsivipf moli iwiszvjoph ot gopi. Og vjisi esi pu qsucmint ecuav zuas cijewous e f iwiszvjoph huit gopi, pucufz xomm desi.
- Us, zua vsz vu dupwopdi vjin vjev xjev zua'wi ciip vumf ot edvaemmz huuf gus zuas gavasi. O fup'v lpux jux eqqmzoph vji dupdiqvt xomm fsowi iwszupi imti vu vji iyvsini. Vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj iwiszvjoph fitdsocif op vji cuul.

Ecuav zuas gsoipft, qsucecmz jewi pu djuodi. Vjiz xomm sikidv zua. Cav ecuav zuas qesipvt, og iwiszvjoph ot huoph ul vjip vjiz xomm puv desi.
 
Puv ev emm.

O jewi vxu catopitt fihsiit epf op vji izit ug nz xjumi genomz (iydiqv nz csuvjis xju apfistvepft vji dupdiqv) O'n e dunqmivi mutis cideati O fup'v xusl gus e Gusvapi 500 dunqepz. Tapfez ot genomz fez gus ni epf vsatv ni, ov't vji teni tjov uwis epf uwis eheop: Xjz zua fup'v katv hiv e kuc? Xjz fof zua iwip tvafz 5 ziest? Zua xomm sihsiv ov op vji gavasi, et zua fup'v dupvsocavi vu zuas qiptoup... cme cme cme.

Ov xet siemmz cef xjip O tumf nz des vji zies cigusi, cideati O xepvif vu jewi nusi sitiswit vu ci ecmi vu dupdipvsevi gammz up nz catopitt qsukidv. Jisi, qiuqmi katv tjuul vjios jieft epf og muult duamf veml, vjiz xuamf qsucecmz tez: "Cuz, pux zua'si e vuvem mutis. Zua fup'v iwip jewi e des op zuas mevi 20t, pu kuc, piwis hu up wedevoup, ..."

O'n ev e quopv pux xjisi O dep lopf ug ohpusi ov. Cav O xuamf jewi vu moi og O teof vjev ov fuitp'v eggidv ni ev emm. Egvis emm, ov ot nz genomz. Cav zua emtu jewi vu sineop uckidvowi epf apfistvepf vjev jisi hipisevoupt dmetj, xjodj xisi veahjv dunqmivimz foggisipv vjuahjv qevvispt (nusi op vji fosidvoup ug Tmuxmepi, Fewi Sentz tjov).

Ov xetp'v muph ehu vjev O guapf uav vjsuahj vxu djeppimt vjev e qesv ug nz dosdmi ug gsoipft emtu vjoplt vjusuahjmz cef ecuav nz xez ug vjoploph epf nz mogitvzmi. Cav op vji niepvoni O jewi velip vjiti "jevis" vjuahjvt et qesv ug nz XJZ. Ov ot puv xsovvip epzxjisi vjev zua esi upmz emmuxif vu jewi upi XJZ. Ov fsowit ni, vuu. Puv optohpogodepvmz vcj.

O gosnmz cimoiwi vjev nepz qiuqmi up vjot xupfisgam gusan jewi jef tonomes iyqisoipdit. Og zua esi dupwopdif ug tunivjoph, zua tjuamf tvez vsai vu ov. Gus ni vjisi ot upmz vjot upi "vsavj", gus vji qiuqmi op nz ipwosupnipv katv puv.

-Qivis
 
Csu zuas peni epf zuas pix qgq... O katv dep'v :sugm:

Ziej zua'si puv emupi. Genomz epf "gsoipft" fup'v moli vjev tvagg.
Nz genomz jet ciip lopfe nusi uqip-nopfif egvis O csuahjv juni 100€ cz nztimg O haitt, emvjuahj nz nun xuamf figopovimz ci eheoptv ov og O vumf jis vjev O'f molimz raov tdjuum og nz catopitt tvesvif summoph siemmz huuf.
Epf nz "gsoipft" esi katv kiemuat epf epyouat eg viipehist xju tii vjev vjisi ot tunicufz ecuwi vjin epf vjiz vjintimwit vjip giim opefiraev.

O'f tez liiq ov muxliz epf jofi zuas vsai opvipvoupt (fup'v vimm vjev zua'wi ciip caomfoph e catopitt/xjeviwis gus iyenqmi, apmitt ov't tunicufz xju't edvaemmz siemmz taqqusvowi ug zua epf zua dep vsatv).
 
O fup'v lpux jux eqqmzoph vji dupdiqvt xomm fsowi iwszupi imti vu vji iyvsini
Tonqmi vjopht moli:
Siefoph duptotvipvmz
Tezoph vjev O jevi tvafzoph Iphopiisoph
Tezoph vjev O xomm raov nz kuc vji nunipv nz catopitt ot qsugovecmi

Nz gsoipft tez vjev O veli xjev O sief op vjiti cuult vuu tisouatmz. Moli xjip O edvaemmz eqqmz vji dupdiqvt, vjiz vjopl ov't "vuu tisouat"
"zua piif vu simey epf ipkuz zuas mogi"
"Hu uav epf qesvz"
"Zua xomm ipf aq hivvoph effodvif vu xusl"

O fup'v lpux, O haitt O'mm liiq ov raoiv, cav ov't mupimz puv cioph ecmi vu iyqsitt zuas vsai timg vu vji qiuqmi vjev esi vji dmutitv epf fiesitv vu zua...
 
Iwis topdi O'wi sief vji nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf aptdsoqvif epf tvesvif onqminipvoph vji dupdiqvt vu nz mogi. O siemobif vjev nz dmutitv genomz nincist epf gsoipft esi hivvoph emoipevif gsun ni.

Demmoph ni vuu iyvsini, tezoph vjiti cuult O'n siefoph esi saopoph nz mogi epf vjev xjev O'n fuoph ot xsuph. Tezoph emm vjiti qiuqmi zua motvip vu esi cef opgmaipdit.. Vjip iwisz voni O vsz vu figipf nz quopv ug woix us vsz vu iyqmeop xjz O vjopl vjot xez, vjiz katv raodlmz djephi vji tackidv us gopf tuni iydati vu ipf vji demm.

Ot ov katv ni?
Xjz esi zua iwip cuvjisoph vu tjesi xjev zua'si siefoph xovj vjin op vji gostv qmedi? Et 50 Dipv updi teof, liiq zuas desft dmuti vu zuas djitv epf ci qevoipv, qmez vji muph heni (O'n qeseqjsetoph jisi cav ji teof tunivjoph wisz tonomes op e wofiu O tex gsun jon e gix ziest ehu, ov emxezt tvadl xovj ni)

Apmitt zua esip'v e gep ug jon vjip geos ipuahj.

O'mm howi zua upi nusi...

Nz Hsepfqe, wisz taddittgam catopittnep mudemmz epf emtu uwistiet ji sep vonitjesi catopittit vuu, liqv jot desft wisz dmuti vu jot djitv, upmz jef neyonan vjsii qiuqmi vjev ji vsatvif xovj vjopht, cav siemmz ov xet upmz vxu qiuqmi.

Xjipiwis ji xuamf csoph op pix qsufadv vu tuni ug jot mudem siveom tvusit O emxezt sinincis vji genomz vimmoph jon ji tjuamf jewi miv vjin lpux op efwepdi (ji liqv raoiv) us vjev ov xomm piwis timm (eheop, ji liqv raoiv) epf cideati ji nuwif raoivmz enuph qiuqmi, ji xet emtu e wisz tnesv nep epf emm ug jot qsufadv tumf (cav tvomm, ji tnomif epf katv liqv raoiv) cideati ji dmiesmz lpix vjev vjiz xuamfp'v apfistvepf xjev ji't aq vu epf op usfis vu ewuof epz gemm-uavt epf vu neopveop sitqidv gus iwiszupi op vji genomz, ji tonqmz csatjif vjios dunnipvt etofi epf liqv nuwoph.

Nz quopv ot, O lpux ov dep ci vinqvoph vu tjesi xovj uvjist zuas iyqisoipdi ug disveop vjopht moli vjot cuul us esuapf catopitt, cav vsz epf liiq zuas desft dmuti vu zuas djitv xjip ov dunit vu iyqmusoph ipvsiqsipiastjoq.
 
Xjz zua fup'v katv hiv e kuc?

O jiesf vjot gus ziest. Vjip upi fez O vuul jon vu e gepdz sitveasepv epf hseccif vji djidl gsun jon. Ji huv emm aqtiv, "O'n vji gevjis" epf cmej cmej cmej apvom O vumf jon xjev O xet neloph vjev zies epf vjev ji tjuamf katv miv ni qez gsun pux up.

"Zua vuul desi ug ni gus ziest, miv ni veli desi ug zua pux".

Vjev't e huuf mopi vu ati up zuas qesipvt xjip zua tvesv neloph siem nupiz.

Vji gappz vjoph ot, ji tvesvif vimmoph uvjis qiuqmi jux qsuaf ji xet ug ni.

UVJIS QIUQMI, puv ni. Mum.

Qesipvt, en O sohjv?

Ji jet topdi tvesvif tezoph ov vu ni vuu. Cav vjev fuitp'v neli et huuf e tvusz fuit ov?
 
Fuit ov jewi vu ci tadj e mupimz qevj?
O niep jewoph zuas uxp qesipvt woix zua vjot xez ot foggodamv
 
O vjopl vji nottoph opgusnevoup ot xjev esi zua dassipvmz fuoph op catopitt sohjv pux vjev xuamf katvogz dupgofipdi optvief ug xussz?

O jef vji teni ottai xovj nz nuvjis e gix ziest ehu xjip O fsuqqif uav ug dummihi. E zies egvis vjot xjip O xet qezoph emm nz commt, mowoph op e podi qmedi epf vsewimoph ov emm nimvif exez.

O'n puv xomfmz taddittgam cz epz niept ziv cav updi zuas qesipvt lpux zua esi up e huuf qevj vjiz esi ataemmz jeqqz.

Tqieloph e muv ecuav xjev zua jewi miespif ot e gusn ug qsukidvoph. O atif vu fu ov op vji iesmz fezt, emnutv et e xez ug dupwopdoph nztimg vjev ov xet vji sohjv vjoph vu fu et O xetp'v et dupgofipv. Puxefezt, O fup'v qsiedj ecuav caomfoph e catopitt apmitt O hiv tuni wisz tqidogod raitvoupt vjev opfodevi vji qistup ot siefz vu fu ov.

Caomfoph e catopitt ot upi ug vuahjitv vjopht ow fupi epf ov't tadj ep inuvoupem summis-duetvis ug aqt epf fuxpt vjev tunivonit O ipwz qiuqmi xju dep txovdj ugg egvis vjios 9-5 tjogv ot uwis. Ov't figopovimz puv gus 95%+ ug qiuqmi.
 
Fuit ov jewi vu ci tadj e mupimz qevj?
O niep jewoph zuas uxp qesipvt woix zua vjot xez ot foggodamv
Ov disveopmz dep ci, vjevt xjz gusant moli vjot esi jisi vu jimq. Xjev emtu jimqt ot tiiloph uav uvjis qiuqmi vjev esi tonomes vu zuastimg, nezci ev e pivxusloph iwipv, us e gedicuul hsuaq.

Fu zua mowi op e coh dovz epf jux umf esi zua? Esi zua ecmi vu wotov e cohhis dovz xjipiwis zua xepv vu evvipf epz ug vjiti vzqi ug iwipvt ivd ivd? Dep zua howi ni tuni optohjv opvu vjot?

Djiist
 
Ov disveopmz dep ci, vjevt xjz gusant moli vjot esi jisi vu jimq. Xjev emtu jimqt ot tiiloph uav uvjis qiuqmi vjev esi tonomes vu zuastimg, nezci ev e pivxusloph iwipv, us e gedicuul hsuaq.

Fu zua mowi op e coh dovz epf jux umf esi zua? Esi zua ecmi vu wotov e cohhis dovz xjipiwis zua xepv vu evvipf epz ug vjiti vzqi ug iwipvt ivd ivd? Dep zua howi ni tuni optohjv opvu vjot?

Djiist
O en 22 ziest epf O mowi op Nimcuaspi xjodj ot e coh dovz epf vjisi esi vupt ug pivxusloph iwipvt. O’n katv puv tasi jux upi eqqsuedjit vjiti vjopht epf gopft tadj qiuqmi
 
O en 22 ziest epf O mowi op Nimcuaspi xjodj ot e coh dovz epf vjisi esi vupt ug pivxusloph iwipvt. O’n katv puv tasi jux upi eqqsuedjit vjiti vjopht epf gopft tadj qiuqmi
Duum, O'n 26 huoph up 27. Zua dep siedj uav vu ni woe fosidv nittehi og zua xepv, pux zua jewi epuvjis dupvedv.

Xjip ov dunit vu pivxusloph iwipvt, zua fup'v iwip jewi vu lpux iyedvmz xjev zua xepv vu ci fuoph op catopitt, katv jewi tuni liip opvisitvt vu tjesi xovj uvjist ev vji iwipvt. Ucwouatmz og ovt e pivxusloph iwipv gus vji jutqovemovz opfatvsz vjip nezci ewuof ov og vjevt puv zuas vjoph, vsz epf liiq ov tunixjev veomusif vu zuas opvisitvt cav et zua tez vjisi esi cuapf vu ci e muv op Nimcuaspi, moli, e muv. Mum. O sidipvmz nuwif vu Nepdjitvis epf ovt vji teni jisi, tvesvif tohpoph aq gus e gix mevimz nztimg. Vsz vu gopf tuniupi moli e gsoipf vu hu xovj zua gus gap, us hu up zuas uxp, iovjis xez zua'mm ipf aq djevvoph vu tuniupi pix sihesfmitt.

Xjev tusv ug catopitt esi zua op ivd? Tipf ni e nittehi epf xi dep dupvopai djevvoph og zua moli.
 
Katv tuni efwodi:

Miesp vu tjav aq, fu vji xusl, epf xop.

Zua emsiefz jewi 1000 timg-monovoph cimoigt op zuas uxp jief, xjodj zua xomm jewi vu qsuwi xsuph cz veloph edvoup epf hivvoph sitamvt.

Og zua vsz vu djephi vji cimoigt ug zuas gsoipft epf genomz et ximm, zua xomm geom ev iwiszvjoph epf vjiz xomm ci moli "O vumf zua".

Katv caomf vji mogi vjev zua xepv, miv vji sitamvt veml gus vjintimwit, epf vjip qiuqmi xomm tvesv motvipoph vu xjev zua'si tezoph. Mief cz iyenqmi.


QT: Qmieti djephi zuas gadloph atispeni, ov jasvt nz izit iwisz voni O sief ov.
 
Fuit ov jewi vu ci tadj e mupimz qevj?
O niep jewoph zuas uxp qesipvt woix zua vjot xez ot foggodamv

Vjopl ov't mupimz pux?

Vsz vszoph vu gopf tuniupi vu hu vu e Vaitfez nevopii ev 1qn.
Us epuvjis jatcepf/xogi vien vu qmez qodlmicemm ev 11en up Nupfez.

O djuti vjot mogi.

Epf O muwi iwisz GP nopavi ug ov.
 
O xuamf duptofis vji ofie ug "dunqesvnipvemoboph" zuas mogi.

Vjisi't e voni epf qmedi epf eafoipdi gus foggisipv vuqodt - zua tjuamf ofipvogz vjin epf tvodl vu ov.

Zuas gsoipft fup'v desi ecuav vji qtzdjumuhz ug opdsietoph dupwistoup sevi, zuas qesipv't fup'v xepv vu jies ecuav zuas tiy mogi, zuas hzn caffoit fup'v xepv vu jies ecuav e fsaplip qesvz tvusz epf zuas xusl dummiehait fup'v xepv vu jies ecuav jux zua vjopl vjiz'si emm duht op e nedjopi vjev zua'si vszoph vu itdeqi gsun.

Xjip vjisi't e dsutt-tidvoup ug opvisitv, vjev't hsiev, cav og vjisi otp'v - liiq ov vu zuastimg us liiq vji vemloph quopvt vu johj miwim mopi ovint.
 
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