Have you ever been polygamist who started monogamy relationship?

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Lots of jokes about business will be here, while this thread is about real human relationships.

Have you ever been womanising, lover, polygamist type of player or playboy with a little bit or a lot of bad and destructive beliefs about long term commitment and relationships and suddenly you somehow changed them and became a happy father of ten kids or smth?

What difficulties you've experienced?
How did you cope with them or fought your poligamic desires if there was one or two?
What healed your heart, body, mind in this process, how did your personality change?

 

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