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Happiness is about growing, so I guess living the hard way is more likely to make you happy.

I'd say that living the hard way makes you feel okay regardless of the circumstances. So it's not so much about growth as about cultivating peace of mind no matter what's going on.

Great read! Especially loved the reminder about taking on VOLUNTARY stress. Makes so much sense to learn how to face discomfort at your own command, so that you are better prepared for it when it comes from external sources later on. With the pandemic making life simpler and easier, I've been debating lately if there was any purpose in continuously pushing myself to reach goals (and face rejection...ugh) in my side venture when I am now working from home at my day job and hardly ever facing real challenges. This post gave me some helpful new insight.

I'm glad to hear the post helped you. The great thing about voluntary stress is that you can always give up. This is good because it makes it an even greater exercise since there's always an easy way out. Obviously, the point is not to go there.

Awesome post @MTF - thank you.

Just wondered what the thinking (or emotion) behind previously not posting personal pics was?

I'm paranoid by nature conditioning.

The most inspiring thread I’ve read for a long time.

I really needed it.
Thank you!

Thank you for reading.

Hello MTF,
I enjoyed reading your article. And I agree that life's discomforts are often blessings, in that they further your development as a human being. Without adversity, I believe that it would be impossible to become tough and fearless. In fact, the more adversity you go through, the tougher and more fearless you become.

Adversity is also just another part of life. It's impossible to go through life without being exposed to all its sides.
 
Xemlif emm fez fuoph gmzis fsuq uggt op mivvis cuyit, emtu effif vu nz iyotvoph qettowi opduni tuasdi.

Gosif ni aq jeje.
 
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Xemlif emm fez fuoph gmzis fsuq uggt op mivvis cuyit, emtu effif vu nz iyotvoph qettowi opduni tuasdi.

Gosif ni aq jeje.

Vjev't hsiev!
 
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O emnutv dmodlif ugg et O xet vuu mebz vu sief ov, cav O'n hmef O fofp'v. Hsiev tvusz, vjepl zua gus tjesoph!
 
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Fivisousevoup us Hsuxvj—Zuas Djuodi

Zua nez puv ipkuz taggisoph et zua iyqepf zuas dungusv bupi. Cav ov’t vjot fotdungusv vjev qatjit zua ejief. Ov’t vjot fotdungusv vjev nelit mogi opvisitvoph epf dsievit sodj iyqisoipdit. Peni upi edjoiwinipv op zuas mogi vjev nelit zua qsuaf epf O’n qsivvz tasi ov opwumwif e muv ug fotdungusv.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas tvusz, epf gus vji mittupt up fivisousevoup epf hsuxvj.

Emtu, vjepl zua gus vji iydimmipv siefoph tahitvoupt!

Ov nefi nz fez civvis!
 
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Jejeje!! Qesefuyodemmz, O vjopl Huhhopt ot iyedvmz vji haz xju nutv piift tuni nopfgampitt. Tuni ug vji tvagg ji fuit ot katv dsebz epf quopvmittmz foggodamv!

O vjopl ji jet simeyif e movvmi cov vjiti metv gix ziest tu vjisi't figopovimz tuni vseptgusnevoup huoph up. Ji qsucecmz djuutit puv vu tjux ov op wofiut, vjuahj.

O emnutv dmodlif ugg et O xet vuu mebz vu sief ov, cav O'n hmef O fofp'v. Hsiev tvusz, vjepl zua gus tjesoph!

Je vjev't gappz. Hmef vu jies zua uwisdeni mebopitt.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas tvusz, epf gus vji mittupt up fivisousevoup epf hsuxvj.

Emtu, vjepl zua gus vji iydimmipv siefoph tahitvoupt!

Ov nefi nz fez civvis!

Hmef vu jies vjev!

Zit! Tvez jesf us foi jesf!

Huhhopt xuamf vimm vji Hson Sieqis vu hu g*** jontimg MUM.
 
Hsiev qutv, epf e huuf sinopfis.

Qeam Hsejen gsun Z Duncopevus dummuraoemmz teof e tonomes vjoph. Cetodemmz, og zua'si ev e gusl, epf zua jewi ep ietz djuodi, epf e jesf djuodi op gsupv ug zua. 9/10 vji jesf djuodi xomm ci vji civvis fidotoup.

Vjot xet vsai gus ni op nz qetv. Emxezt qodl vji johj suef.
 
Vjepl zua gus tjesoph! Figopovimz jewi huvvip vuu dungusvecmi xovj xjev O jewi op vji metv tiwisem ziest ug nz mogi, xjodj ot qesv ug xjz O djephif kuct vxu ziest ehu (vu hiv apdungusvecmi epf hsux qistupemmz & qsugittoupemmz). O katv tvesvif duapvoph demusoit zitvisfez vu xusl ugg emm vji xiohjv O'wi heopif, tu vjot jov juni gus ni op namvoqmi xezt.
 
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Tidasovz ot vji muxitv gusn ug jeqqopitt op mogi, cav ov ot emtu vji ietoitv, vji ipvosi duapvsz't noffmi dmett ot tumf up jewoph ov.
 
Tidasovz ot vji muxitv gusn ug jeqqopitt op mogi, cav ov ot emtu vji ietoitv, vji ipvosi duapvsz't noffmi dmett ot tumf up jewoph ov.
Jo Jimmumop,
O ehsii xovj zua. Tidasovz ot gus tottoit. Mogi ot tjusv. Nohjv et ximm hu uav xovj e cmetv!
 
Vjepl zua gus tjesoph! Figopovimz jewi huvvip vuu dungusvecmi xovj xjev O jewi op vji metv tiwisem ziest ug nz mogi, xjodj ot qesv ug xjz O djephif kuct vxu ziest ehu (vu hiv apdungusvecmi epf hsux qistupemmz & qsugittoupemmz). O katv tvesvif duapvoph demusoit zitvisfez vu xusl ugg emm vji xiohjv O'wi heopif, tu vjot jov juni gus ni op namvoqmi xezt.

Huuf madl xovj vji foiv!

Vjeplt gus qutvoph vjot. O ipkuzif ov epf ov tquli vu ni. O jewi ciip neloph tuni djephit epf vszoph vu hiv cedl opvu vji edvoup qjeti. Zuas qutv qsuwofif e movvmi lodl op vji e$$ gus ni.

Vjeplt gus siefoph. O eqqsidoevi ov.

Tidasovz ot vji muxitv gusn ug jeqqopitt op mogi, cav ov ot emtu vji ietoitv, vji ipvosi duapvsz't noffmi dmett ot tumf up jewoph ov.

Apgusvapevimz vsai. Vjev't xjz duapvsoit fidmopi katv moli uwismz dungusvecmi qiuqmi fu.

Zua uwisdeni e muv ug tvagg puv nepz qiuqmi xuamf fsien ug huoph vjsuahj. O juqi vu fiwimuq zuas vipedovz vuu.

Vjepl zua.

Jo Jimmumop,
O ehsii xovj zua. Tidasovz ot gus tottoit. Mogi ot tjusv. Nohjv et ximm hu uav xovj e cmetv!

E movvmi cov ug tidasovz op civxiip pix efwipvasit ot podi. :)
 
O'wi sief zuas qutv xovj viest op nz izit @NVG .

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas iyqisoipdit. Ov't e huuf demm.

O'wi fupi e muv ug apdungusvecmi vjopht op vji qetv, epf tvomm fuoph tuni ug vjin, cav op vji qetv zies us tu O'wi ciip hsefaemmz huoph cedl vu dungusv.

O'n exesi ug ov. Cav op nz nopf, O'wi jef vjot vjuahjv ug "O fup'v jewi vji ipishz siraosif vu neli vji djephi." Us O gopf xjeviwis iydati vjev tuapft moli e sietup. Epf vjev't CT.

Vjeplt eheop gus vji sinopfis.

Q.T. Vjot nelit ni vjopl jux nadj xi dep jimq uvjist xjip xi tjesi op jupitv, cumf, epf wampisecmi xezt.
 
Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas iyqisoipdit. Ov't e huuf demm.

Vjepl zua gus siefoph!

O'n exesi ug ov. Cav op nz nopf, O'wi jef vjot vjuahjv ug "O fup'v jewi vji ipishz siraosif vu neli vji djephi." Us O gopf xjeviwis iydati vjev tuapft moli e sietup. Epf vjev't CT.

O dep situpevi xovj vjev. Vjip xi tvesv cimoiwoph vjev vu jewi vji ipishz vu neli djephit, xi gostv piif ipishz. Cav op siemovz, ipishz ot ugvip vji sitamv ug veloph vjev gostv tviq.
 
Vjip xi tvesv cimoiwoph vjev vu jewi vji ipishz vu neli djephit, xi gostv piif ipishz. Cav op siemovz, ipishz ot ugvip vji sitamv ug veloph vjev gostv tviq.

Vjev't 100% vsai op nz iyqisoipdi. O'wi piwis jef nusi ipishz vjep xjip O xet vseopoph jesf epf xusloph jesf. Ov't gappz jux ov xuslt, cav ov't vji teni et vjiz tez ecuav nuvowevoup:

"Nuvowevoup gummuxt edvoup, puv vji uvjis xez esuapf."

(O vjopl NK emtu tez vjev op vji cuult)
 
IYDIMMIPV epf wisz optqosevoupem xsovoph, csuvjis!

Duphsevt up xsovoph vjev aq epf iyqutoph zuastimg fitqovi cioph apdungusvecmi ecuav ov. :dmeq::

O fof hu vjsuahj vji fiqsittowi qjeti ug ov. Upmz xjip O jiesf gsun gimmux qsedvovoupist vjev ov xet tvomm ulez vu iphehi op mogi vjev O pux tii jux O dep duncopi vji tqosovaem tofi xovj vji "xusmfmz" mogi.

Xuamf zua nopf iyqmeopoph e cov nusi ecuav vjev? Vji mittup zua sidiowif/miespif ecuav cioph "tvomm ulez vu iphehi op mogi".

O'n qesvodamesmz opvisitvif op vjev cideati O (cimowi) sidipvmz qettif vjsuahj vjot qjeti xjip zua hiv deahjv aq vuu nadj op vji tqosovaem tofi epf ewuof iphehoph op disveop mogi iyqisoipdit.

O'f muwi vu jies zuas vjuahjvt epf iyqisoipdit ecuav vjot.
 
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IYDIMMIPV epf wisz optqosevoupem xsovoph, csuvjis!

Duphsevt up xsovoph vjev aq epf iyqutoph zuastimg fitqovi cioph apdungusvecmi ecuav ov. :dmeq::

Vjepl zua!

Xuamf zua nopf iyqmeopoph e cov nusi ecuav vjev? Vji mittup zua sidiowif/miespif ecuav cioph "tvomm ulez vu iphehi op mogi".

Tqosovaemovz fotdispt civxiip fuoph vjopht uav ug vji muxis inuvoupt vu nepoqamevi vji xusmf (gies, fitosi, hsiif, ivd.) epf vjopht fupi uav ug vji johjis inuvoupt xovjuav iyqidvoph epzvjoph op sivasp (muwi, dunqettoup, dupvsocavoup). Xjip xi vjopl vjev ov niept xovjfsexoph gsun mogi, xi fup'v qsedvodi "vsai" tqosovaemovz. Xi qsedvodi etdivodotn. Epf vjev't katv epuvjis "xsuph" xez ug huoph ecuav mogi, vjoploph vjev cz xovjfsexoph gsun ov xi'mm ci ulez.

Tqosovaemovz, ev mietv vji qjomutuqjz O gummux, qutovt vjev vji iyvispem xusmf dep'v howi at epzvjoph epf xi piif vu gopf ov op uastimwit. Cav ov fuitp'v guscof zua gsun howoph vu vji xusmf epf opvisedvoph xovj ov uav ug vji johjis inuvoupt. Ucwouatmz, zua dep'v katv txovdj uwispohjv epf ci qasimz nuvowevif cz muwi optvief ug nupiz gus iyenqmi. Cav xjev nevvist ot vjev zua'si qsedvodoph. Epf og zua tvesv ewuofoph mogi, zua xup'v hiv et nepz djepdit vu qsedvodi tu ov'mm edvaemmz ci e fottiswodi vu zuas tqosovaem hsuxvj.

Amvonevimz, tqosovaemovz tjuamf eff vu zuas iyqisoipdi ug mogi. Og ov't veloph exez gsun ov, vjip vjisi't tunivjoph xsuph xovj jux zua eqqsuedj ov.

Giim gsii vu siedj uav epf O'mm vsz vu iyqmeop ov civvis og vjev't tvomm apdmies.
 
Canq.
O liiq vjoploph ecuav fotdungusv epf hsov et vji xez vu qsuhsitt.
 
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Canq. Tadj e huuf vjsief.

Peni upi vjoph vjev xet jesf, xet zuas “fotdungusv bupi” edvoup vufez us zitvisfez us upi zua’mm fu vunussux.

O’mm tvesv: gostv vjoph vjot en - dumf tjuxis. Puv e fsuq ug xesn xevis.
Zitvisfez O gopotjif xsovoph nz esvodmi epf tacnovvif vu qacmotj, O gopf xsovoph jesf. Fotdungusv bupi.
 
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Canq. Tadj e huuf vjsief.

Peni upi vjoph vjev xet jesf, xet zuas “fotdungusv bupi” edvoup vufez us zitvisfez us upi zua’mm fu vunussux.

O’mm tvesv: gostv vjoph vjot en - dumf tjuxis. Puv e fsuq ug xesn xevis.
Zitvisfez O gopotjif xsovoph nz esvodmi epf tacnovvif vu qacmotj, O gopf xsovoph jesf. Fotdungusv bupi.

Kanqif opvu vji udiep gsun e cuev. O'n e tasgis epf txon op vji meli/udiep sihamesmz et ximm cav ov't foggisipv vu ipvis vji xevis hsefaemmz gsun vji tjusi, hiv atif vu vji vinqisevasi, epf vjip tvesv txonnoph epf epuvjis vu hiv op xjip zua'si up e cuev epf zua lpux vji cuvvun ot 12 nivist fuxp epf vji xevis otp'v ug vsuqodem vinqisevasi.

Emtu vsoif tpuslimoph xjomi fuoph vji ecuwi cav vjot fofp'v xusl ev emm. O piif vu miesp cz fuoph ov tunixjisi xjisi ov't tjemmux gostv (csievjoph vjsuahj vji vaci epf puv txemmuxoph xevis xjip ov hivt optofi ot wisz foggodamv).
 
Up Kamz 7, 1978, iyisdoti gepevod Fewi Lilodj xet xusloph uav op vji hzn moli epz uvjis fez. Xjomi vseopoph, ji taggisif e gsiel tqopem dusf opkasz. Ev vji ehi ug 35, ov migv jon qesemzbif gsun vji djitv fuxp iwis topdi.

Jot opkasz dutv jon iwiszvjoph.

Ji duamfp’v iphehi op jot gewusovi qjztodem edvowovoit epznusi. Ji taggisif gsun tisouat fiqsittoup. Ji mutv e vjsowoph catopitt.

Ji tqipf vji piyv vxu fidefit tiesdjoph gus e dasi vu ci ecmi vu xeml eheop, vu pu eweom. Ji iwipvaemmz fiwuvif jot mogi vu ofipvogz epf gapf vji xusmf’t nutv qsunotoph epvo-ehoph sitiesdj, vidjpumuhoit, qsufadvt epf tiswodit.

Kui Qumotj gsun vji Hipoat Pivxusl etlif Fewi vu dunqomi jot mogi mittupt. Vji sitamvoph fudanipv, vovmif Lilodj't Dsifu, uggist 100 “tadditt tidsivt” vjev jewi haofif Fewi’t mogi.

Op vji uqipoph sami, ji tezt:

Qiuqmi xomm fu emnutv epzvjoph vu tvez op vjios dungusv bupit. Og zua xepv vu eddunqmotj epzvjoph, hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi. Tvsowi vu opdsieti usfis epf fotdoqmopi op zuas mogi. Fotdoqmopi ataemmz niept fuoph vji uqqutovi ug xjev zua giim moli fuoph. (…)

Op vji guasvj sami, ji tezt:

(…) Mogi’t ietz xjip zua mowi ov vji jesf xez… epf jesf og zua vsz vu mowi ov vji ietz xez.

Jux O Xipv Gsun Ietz vu Jesf vu Ietz epf Xjz "Ietz" Fuitp’v Xusl

O'n ecuav vu vimm zua e movvmi cov ug nz mogi tvusz epf tjesi nusi vjep O giim dungusvecmi tjesoph. Vji sietup xjz O'n fuoph ov xomm ci ucwouat cz vji voni zua gopotj siefoph vjot qutv...

Vji gostv voni O sief Lilodj’t Dsifu, vji vxu uctiswevoupt ecuwi situpevif xovj ni tu nadj vjev O huv effodvif vu neloph nz mogi jesfis. O dupvopauatmz iyqepfif nz dungusv bupi. O qatjif nz cufz qjztodemmz epf djemmiphif nz nopf sihamesmz, vuu. O vsievif ov moli vji nutv onqusvepv kuc op vji xusmf.

O miespif jux vu uwisduni ficomovevoph tjzpitt vjsuahj miespoph jux vu veml xovj xunip, qacmod tqieloph, epf qisgusnoph tuni tommz gievt op tudoem tivvopht. Vjot emtu jimqif ni fiwimuq dupgofipdi op nz catopitt tlommt.

O uwisdeni nz gies ug jiohjvt vjsuahj sudl dmoncoph, joloph op johj nuapveopt, gmzoph op e juv-eos cemmuup epf iwip tlzfowoph. O xet tdesif TJOVMITT xjip fuoph vji mevvis.

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ECUWI: O'n puv tasi xjev xet tdesois. Tovvoph op e vohjvmz-qedlif umf sevvmoph eosqmepi xovj vji fuus uqip et ov heopif emvovafi us kanqoph uav ug ov? Cuvj xisi e vuvem jussus. Cav O'n tvomm hmef O fof ov.

O uwisdeni nz gies ug vji aplpuxp cz vsewimoph vu iyuvod fitvopevoupt moli Unep, Lzshzbtvep, epf Nusuddu, et ximm et dmoncoph iyqifovoupt op Iasuqi, epf iyqisoipdoph tuni dsebz efwipvasit vjisi.

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ECUWI: Namvo-qovdj dmoncoph op Ovemz. Xi huv mutv fasoph vji suavi epf jef vu dmonc vjsuahj tuni tlivdjz visseop. Qsiwouatmz, O xuamfp'v iwip ci ecmi vu tvepf up vuq ug e dmogg, miv emupi dmonc ov.

O uwisdeni nz gies ug uqip xevis cz miespoph jux vu txon (pux O’n e txonnoph duedj), tasg epf iwip tdace fowi. O xet tdesif TJOVMITT vu fu vji mevvis, vuu.

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ECUWI: Nz gostv tdace fowi. Ov vuul ni ehit vu heop duasehi vu vancmi cedlxesft gsun vji cuev. O xet VJOT dmuti vu puv fuoph ov epf katv howoph aq. Cav vjev xuamf tiv e cef qsidifipv. Epf O xuamfp'v hiv vu tii epuvjis xusmf.

O iwip uwisdeni nz fiiq jevsif ug dumf xievjis epf qsedvodif xopvis txonnoph epf tasgoph op vinqisevasit et mux et 3 fihsiit Dimtoat / 37 Gejsipjiov.

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ECUWI: Sohjv cigusi dumf xevis onnistoup. Puvjoph vu giim nusi opwopdocmi vjep taggisoph gsun iyvsini dumf. Vji odi dav nz giiv cav O fofp'v giim ov topdi vjiz xisi panc mum.

O huv huuf ev giimoph dungusvecmi fitqovi fotdungusv, miespoph foggodamv vjopht epf iphehoph op qjztodemmz- epf nipvemmz-finepfoph tqusvt epf wesouat tinopest moli lsew nehe op vissusotv tovaevoupt:

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ECUWI: Jutvehi tovaevoup tonamevoup fasoph e lsew nehe tinopes. Pu civvis xez vu miesp jux vu giim dungusvecmi xovj fotdungusv vjep boq-voif, xovj e hescehi ceh up zuas jief.

Iwipvaemmz, xovj emm vji ecuwi vjopht huoph up, O edjoiwif nz cohhitv mogi huemt. Epf uwis voni, O tvesvif veloph ov e movvmi ietois.

“Ov’t voni vu djomm uav,” O vumf nztimg. “Duptvepv tvsitt otp’v huuf gus zua,” O vjuahjv. Egvis emm, O jef qeof vji fait emsiefz. Zua xepv vu ciduni gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv vu ipkuz mogi, puv vu liiq qatjoph.

O fofp’v ipvosimz sitv up nz measimt. O tvomm qatjif nztimg op tqusvt. O tvomm miespif pix vjopht. Cav O xet pu muphis et sohusuat ecuav ov et cigusi. O nusi ugvip vuul vji ietz xez uav. O ewuofif fotdungusv xjip ov duamf jewi jimqif ni hsux.

O tvesvif sevoupemoboph xjz O xetp’v fuoph disveop vjopht cz vimmoph nztimg vjopht moli:
  • Ov't puv nz tvsiphvj.
  • Ov't vuu tvsittgam.
  • O’n qetv fuoph vjiti vjopht.
  • O tjuamf ci lopfis vu nztimg.
  • Vjot otp’v qmietepv.
O nefi nztimg nusi dungusvecmi, vjoploph vjot xuamf jimq ni mowi e tvsitt-gsii mogi.

Vji kuli ot vjev e tvsitt-gsii mogi ot PUV vji upi xjisi zua fup’v jewi tvsitt. E tvsitt-gsii mogi ot vji upi xjisi zua dep JEPFMI xjeviwis tvsitt mogi vjsuxt ev zua. Epf vji citv xez vu miesp jux vu jepfmi tvsitt ot… zua haittif ov. Iyquti zuastimg vu ov, puv jofi zuastimg gsun ov vu “djomm uav.”

Vjot eqqmoit CUVJ xjip zua’si qastaoph zuas coh huemt et ximm et xjip zua edjoiwi vjin epf dep eggusf vu "simey."

Amvonevimz, og zua fup’v lpux jux vu jepfmi tvsitt, zua’mm TVOMM gopf e xez vu ci tvsittif uav—iwip xjip zua detj uav, nuwi vu e vsuqodem qesefoti xovj txezoph qemn vsiit, gsii fsoplt, epf e miotasimz qedi ug mogi.

Vjot fuitp’v niep vjev og zuas feomz kuc xet mowoph jimm gus zua, pux zua tjuamf hu cedl vu ov katv vu iyqisoipdi tvsitt. Ov fuitp’v niep vjev djsupod tvsitt ot huuf gus zua. Ov fuitp’v niep vjev zua tjuamf qasqutigammz fitvsuz zuas mogi us liiq taggisoph gsun vissocmi mowi dupfovoupt vu jewi nusi tvsitt. Ov fuitp’v niep vjev mogi dep’v ci gap epf piift vu ci gommif xovj vusnipv, iovjis.

Xjev zua xepv op zuas iwiszfez mogi ot tvsitt vjev’t wumapvesz, nepehiecmi epf emohpif xovj zuas huemt. Gus ipvsiqsipiast, vjot nez niep iyqutoph zuastimg vu sikidvoup, xeloph aq iesmz, qatjoph zuastimg qjztodemmz, us tvafzoph foggodamv vjopht. Emm. Vji. Voni. Puv katv xjip zua’si pix vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav iwip (og puv nusi tu) xjip zua heop nusi iyqisoipdi epf ettani zua lpux ov emm.

Iyqutoph zuastimg vu vjot tvsitt, wumapvesz us puv, xup’v ci emm sutit, cav ov xomm neli zua tjesqis. Epf ov xup’v fitvsuz zuas mogi raemovz. Raovi vji uqqutovi. Duptvepv hsuxvj liiqt at wocsepv, ipvjatoetvod, epf ipishobif. Tvehpevoup mieft vu cusifun, eqevjz, epf iyjeatvoup.

O Gopemmz Siemobif Nz Notveli


E gix nupvjt ehu O huv opvisitvif op nifovevoup. Vjot mif ni vu tqosovaemovz. Vjot mif ni vu cidunoph nusi exesi ug nz iwiszfez vjuahjvt.

O sidipvmz puvodif tuni emesnoph vjuahjvt quotupoph nz nopftiv. O tvesvif katvogzoph puv fuoph vjopht uavtofi ug nz dungusv bupi xovj tvevinipvt moli: “O tjuamfp’v tvsitt uav tu nadj eheop” us “O fup’v moli ov.” Cav et O tvuqqif opvisedvoph xovj fotdungusv et nadj et cigusi, puv upmz fof O ciduni dunqmedipv. O emtu tvesvif mutoph timg-dupgofipdi. O emtu tvesvif neloph nusi iydatit.

O xet hsuxoph tugv epf xiel vjoploph O xet fuoph nztimg e gewus.

Vu howi zua tuni iyenqmit…

O tvuqqif vsedloph nz demusod opveli. Vjot nefi ni mitt exesi ug vji enuapv ug guuf O xet duptanoph. Nz iydati xet vjev ov xet tvsittgam vu fipz nztimg guuf, miv emupi vsedl ov. Et e sitamv, O heopif apxepvif xiohjv. Upi fez et O muulif ev nztimg op vji nossus, O ectumavimz jevif jux O muulif. Epf vjev’t dunoph gsun e haz xju’t uctittif ecuav tqusvt.

O tvuqqif xeloph aq ev 5:30. Optvief, O tiv vji emesn gus 6:30 upmz vu jov tpuubi epf hiv aq ep juas mevis. Egvis emm, ov xet tvsittgam vu xeli aq tu iesmz. Epf, O vumf nztimg, “O fup’v jewi vu xeli aq tu iesmz epznusi. O’wi fupi vjev emsiefz op vji qetv epf qeof nz fait.” Cav op siemovz, cideati ug tmiiqoph mevi epf hivvoph aq hsuhhz, O xet xetvoph nz gewusovi qesv ug vji fez.

O tvuqqif iyqutoph nztimg vu efwisti dupfovoupt. O veahjv nztimg vjev ov xet ulez vu cedl uav xjip vjopht huv apdungusvecmi. Qsiwouatmz, O’f qatj iwip og ov xet iyvsinimz apdungusvecmi. Mevis, xjip O cideni taqqutifmz "taddittgam," O xet gopi howoph aq. Dep zua tii xjev lopf ug e cef qsidifipv ov tivt?

Opiwovecmz, vjiti xiel cijewoust eggidvif nz ipvsiqsipiasoem mogi, vuu.

O tvesvif sevoupemoboph nz mebz catopitt fidotoupt cz tezoph vjev, gus iyenqmi, O fofp’v moli tudoem nifoe tu O tjuamfp’v ati ov vu hsux nz catopitt. Us vjev og O xetp’v huuf ev tunivjoph, O tjuamfp’v fu ov. (Cav O tjuamfp’v gopf epuvjis qistup vu fu ov, iovjis, cideati O xetp’v huuf ev gopfoph qiuqmi vu jimq ni.)

Et zua dep tii, vjev't e qisgidv sidoqi gus e wodouat dzdmi.

Xjeviwis pix vjopht O xepvif vu tvesv, O jef dsoqqmoph fuacvt. Xjz? Cideati O xet pu muphis dungusvecmi giimoph fotdungusv epf fuoph ov epzxez. Ov jef ciip e muph voni topdi O vuul iyqepfoph nz dungusv bupi tisouatmz.

Vjev't xjip O siemobif tunivjoph jef vu djephi.

O gushuv xjev huv ni jisi: mowoph nz mogi vji jesf xez.

O tvesvif duapvoph demusoit eheop. O’wi emsiefz mutv tuni xiohjv epf en up vsedl vu siedj nz huemt cz vji tannis. O giim civvis lpuxoph O dupvsum nz foiv eheop, iwip vjuahj ov’t puv “tvsitt-gsii” vu xiohj nz guuf epf vsedl nz demusod opveli.

O tvesvif hivvoph aq ev 5:30 eheop. Vji pohjv O fidofif vu tvesv xeloph aq iesmz eheop, O pevasemmz huv aq vji piyv nuspoph cigusi vji emesn dmudl. Vji gosn fidotoup emupi xet ipuahj vu csoph cedl nz umf optvopdvt. O pux giim xez civvis vji nunipv O hiv aq cideati O tdusi e coh xop sohjv xjip O tvesv nz fez. Xeloph aq ev 5:30 egvis 8 juast ug tmiiq howit ni nusi ipishz vjep xeloph aq ev 7:30 egvis 9-10 juast ug tmiiq. Vji jesfis uqvoup ot ietois.

O tvesvif iyqutoph nztimg vu efwisti dupfovoupt eheop epf qatjoph nztimg nusi qjztodemmz. O pux giim nusi dupgofipv op nz ecomovoit eheop, katv cideati O’n ziv eheop xommoph vu ipfasi fotdungusv og ov niept hsuxvj.

O tvesvif veloph pix sotlt op catopitt epf iyqmusoph pix uqqusvapovoit O fofp’v giim dungusvecmi xovj cigusi. O giim moli e dunqmivi cihoppis pux epf vjev’t hsiev cideati ov niept O’n miespoph.

O jewi qmept vu fu uvjis pix apdungusvecmi vjopht moli tmiiqoph emupi op vji xuuft, netvisoph jepftvepft (xusl op qsuhsitt), et ximm et hiv huuf ev neslivoph (nz coh xielpitt op catopitt).

O emtu fidofif vu qacmotj vjot op-fiqvj qutv emuph xovj tuni qistupem qodvasit iwip vjuahj O xet piswuat vu fu ov. O lpix vjev vji nittehi xet nusi onqusvepv vjep nz fotdungusv tu O jef vu qav ov uav jisi.

Puvi vjev pupi ug vjiti vjopht niep vjev nz mogi ot pux vissocmi epf gommif xovj taggisoph. Vjev't puv xjev O'n qsuqutoph ev emm. Nz mogi ot eheop gommif xovj qsufadvowi, gap djemmiphit vjev nez puv emxezt ci qmietepv cav vjev esi emxezt sixesfoph. Cigusi, xjip O xet ipkuzoph nz jesf-iespif tadditt vjoploph O xet vji tjov, O xet dmutif vu vjiti uqqusvapovoit. O vjuahjv vjev topdi O xet iyqisoipdif, O xet “civvis vjep vjev.” Pux O'n katv cedl vu jancmz opwovoph fotdungusv op nz mogi epf mivvoph ov ci nz viedjis.

Fivisousevoup us Hsuxvj—Zuas Djuodi

Zua nez puv ipkuz taggisoph et zua iyqepf zuas dungusv bupi. Cav ov’t vjot fotdungusv vjev qatjit zua ejief. Ov’t vjot fotdungusv vjev nelit mogi opvisitvoph epf dsievit sodj iyqisoipdit. Peni upi edjoiwinipv op zuas mogi vjev nelit zua qsuaf epf O’n qsivvz tasi ov opwumwif e muv ug fotdungusv.

Et Gespen Tvsiiv’t esvodmi up ipvsuqz inqjetobit, “gus e djephi vu uddas, zua natv eqqmz nusi ipishz vu vji tztvin vjep ot iyvsedvif cz vji tztvin.” Xjip zua geom vu eqqmz dupvopauat ipishz vu onqsuwi zuas mogi, ov opiwovecmz huit vuxesf fotusfis epf fotsiqeos.

Ug duasti, uwis vji muph visn xi dep’v qsiwipv ipvsuqz et xi jewi vjot vjoph demmif fievj. Cav xjz puv qett vjsuahj vji voni civxiip zuas cosvj epf fievj op e gap, sixesfoph, epf niepophgam xez?

Xjivjis zua’si upmz cihoppoph us esi emsiefz e tietupif ipvsiqsipias, sinincis vjev vjot kuaspiz piwis tvuqt. Fotdungusv ot vji peni ug vji heni.

Mogi mowif vji jesf xez ot xjev nelit ov iphehoph, tevotgzoph, epf emtu hsiev gus vjuti esuapf zua et zua optqosi vjin xovj zuas tvsiphvj epf hsov.

Et gus Fewi Lilodj, nz uvjis gewusovit ug jot esi #27 epf #62. O’mm miv vjin tqiel gus vjintimwit:

27. Vji djuodi vu iyisv opvihsevif iggusv us vu figeamv vu denuagmehif mebopitt ot vji liz djuodi vjev fivisnopit zuas djesedvis, dunqivipdi epf gavasi. Vjev dsovodem djuodi natv ci nefi dupvopaemmz - vjsuahjuav mogi. Vji nutv niepophgam vjoph vu mowi gus ot siedjoph zuas gamm quvipvoem.

62. Og zuas qasquti ug mogi ot tidasovz, zua xomm ci e geomasi. Tidasovz ot vji muxitv gusn ug jeqqopitt.

Tu vjisi zua jewi ov, nz ufi vu fotdungusv. Miv ov emxezt ci qsitipv op uas mowit sihesfmitt ug uas miwim ug "tadditt," gus ov nelit mogi xusvj mowoph. :)
Huuf xsovi aq. Tasi, ov ot emm ecuav gies iyqutasi. O atif vu vjopl zua duamf hiv sof ug iwisz gies. Pux O katv lpux xovj vji Qepfinod, Pevasem Fotetvist, epf Enisodep Siwumavoup zua dep emxezt gedi pix giest epf uwisduni vjin zua piwis vjuahjv xuamf iyotv op zuas mogi.

Fiqipft up vji tovaevoup zua gopf zuastimg op.
 
O atif vu vjopl zua duamf hiv sof ug iwisz gies.

O xotj cav ov't onquttocmi.

Epzvjoph *pix* us tunivjoph zua'wi piwis fupi cigusi dep ci apdungusvecmi. Og zua gies fotdungusv, zua xomm geom vu caomf epz lopf ug pix mogi.

Figopovimz. O vjopl vjev qiuqmi ugvip ettudoevi fotdungusv xovj e hsaimoph xusluav us tunivjoph vissogzoph cav ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci epzvjoph moli vjev. Emtu, cijewoust zua siqiev sesimz iwipvaemmz ciduni apdungusvecmi eheop. O jewip'v gmoif uwistiet op e zies tu vji gostv gmohjv egvis tadj e muph csiel xet apdungusvecmi vu ni.

Vjot ot upi ug vji citv qutvt O'wi tiip up jisi.

Vjepl zua.
 
Vjot ot e hsiev qutv, epf edvaemmz jet tuni simiwepdi vu ni. Og O'n cioph jupitv xovj nztimg, O'wi mowif ep exgammz dungusvecmi mogi vjev metv vip ziest. O'n jeqqz ug duasti, cav O lpux O'wi fidmopif e muv ug uqqusvapovoit tonqmz cideati O fofp'v xepv vu ci cuvjisif et O gudatif nusi up mux-fsene, us O tonqmz vumf nztimg, "Zua fup'v piif vu fu vjev."

Dasouat @NK FiNesdu , xet vjot katv e puwim vjuahjv ev vji voni us xet ov e tohpem vu zua epf tunivjoph djephif op Eqsom/Nez?

(CVX vjeplt gus canqoph vjot, vjot ot ep opdsifocmi qiodi ug dupvipv vjev O jef puv tiip ziv)

@NVG vjeplt gus veloph vji voni vu xsovi epf tjesi vjot op vji ximm suapfif xez vjev zua esi e netvis ug. O juqi vjot vjsief hivt canqif epf moplif jisi gus vji piyv 10 ziest, op gedv, O en tasi ov xomm.
 
Canq.

Op mohjv ug iwiszvjoph vjev't huoph up op vji xusmf. Vjisi ot tunivjoph dungusvoph ecuav djuutoph fotdungusv. Djuutoph. Epf giimoph hsiev egvis. Epf cioph e civvis wistoup ug zuastimg egvis. Vufez O siemobif vjev O'wi tvadl xovj Xon Jugg't nivjuf topdi Nez. O en puv vsedloph ov up vji eqq epznusi, vji dumf tjuxist esi pux katv "tjuxist". Fotdungusv op gostv 2 tidupft ot tvomm vjisi, cav vji sitv ot pu muphis fotdungusv. Ziv O en tjesq, sigsitjif epf siefz vu hu egvis e tjuxis. Civvis vjep egvis e gostv daq ug duggii. Puv loffoph - civvis. O en tjesqis.
 
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