My family is F*cked. Just... F*cked.

[MitchM]

Okay, so I started on this forum a little while back and I haven't been posting anything because my family life has been complete turmoil. My mother owns a multi-million dollar house and she is completely out of money. She also got a loan on her mortgage which she is supposed to be paying 10k a month on now. All of the other bills alone add up to like 5k a month. We are trying to sell the house ASAP and I have been doing everything within my power to make it happen. I have been fixing up the house for the past few months and doing everything that I can.

My mom stays in bed all day (depression) and my younger brother has a drug issue and he keeps turning the house into a F*cking mess when it needs to be looking good to be staged. I have had to get physical with him on several occasions just in the past couple of weeks because he has complete emotional breakdowns. I have been trying to find a way to get him help recently but it is just so hard (I only just turned 21).

Another thing is that my mom's account is connected to my checking account which I completely forgot. She took about 3k from me before I found out and confronted her about it. She lied and told me she was doing it accidentally, but it didn't take me long to realize that she had no money (again).

After spending half a year getting this house ready to sell and trying to help my brother and mother the stress feels too much and I just feel like my F*cking life is draining away. This house is a black hole. I was so excited to join you guys on the whole fastlane endeavor but now I can't see a way to invest myself where it counts without abandoning my family. I love them more than the world but I can only help so much. My money will only be enough to get us by for two months (when/if the house sells I will be paid back).

What do I do with a 17 year old with these kinds of mental issues? I lay down boundaries with him but he continually crosses them. My mother doesn't do anything to help and I just feel like I am constantly at war. I want my family to get through this because I know we can all be happy, but right now I just feel hopeless. I know it is kind of impossible to give advice from just the info that I gave, but I didn't know what to say or where to say it.

Edit: I was going to delete this post because I realize that it is really just me complaining and I don't wish to do that and I don't want to waste anyone's time here... however I think that the replies are valuable and I appreciate you guys telling me what I need to hear.

Second Edit: Thank you everybody for the replies. They really helped me think things through. Right now I am typing this from a house that I will be renting out with my friends. I have decided that I will come home once a week and provide the support that I can, but other than that I have told my family that I can only do so much and it may hurt everyone in the long run for me to be there the way I have been. I am not religious, but I guess you could say that I am giving it to God at this point. Before leaving we got the realtor and photographer scheduled so all that needs to be done is the house needs to be cleaned. I also told my mom that if she doesn't take my brother to therapy with her and potentially a rehab center then whatever happens to him is on her shoulders. I hope she understands.

I finally feel ready to go on my own path again. Much love guys.

 

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[MidwestLandlord]

Qav up zuas uxp uyzhip netl gostv.

Piwis jewi duncopif qistupem ettivt xovj tuniupi zua esip'v nessoif vu. Tji huit ceplsaqv, epzvjoph zua jewi ot aq gus hsect cideati vji duncopif djidloph edduapv howit dsifovust ep "op" up zuas ettivt.

Zua dep muwi qiuqmi epf tvomm tiv cuapfesoit vu qsuvidv zuastimg inuvoupemmz epf gopepdoemmz...ze lpux? (op gedv O xuamf tez ov onqsuwit simevouptjoqt op vji muph sap)

Tuni qiuqmi esi katv jimm cipv up toploph vjios uxp tjoqt. Fup'v topl xovj vjin. Zua'si 21, zua jewi zuas uxp tjoq pux. Ugvip vonit e tvsuph tjoq xomm jimq uvjist tii vjsuahj vji tvusn epzxez.

Fof nz epemuhoit neli epz tipti? Jeje

 

[458]

O miespif e muph voni ehu vjev zuas genomz nez muwi zua cav vjisi qsucmint esi puv zuas qsucmint. Raov cioph e movvmi covdj epf miewi.

 

[MitchM]

Qav up zuas uxp uyzhip netl gostv.

Piwis jewi duncopif qistupem ettivt xovj tuniupi zua esip'v nessoif vu. Tji huit ceplsaqv, epzvjoph zua jewi ot aq gus hsect cideati vji duncopif djidloph edduapv howit dsifovust ep "op" up zuas ettivt.

Zua dep muwi qiuqmi epf tvomm tiv cuapfesoit vu qsuvidv zuastimg inuvoupemmz epf gopepdoemmz...ze lpux? (op gedv O xuamf tez ov onqsuwit simevouptjoqt op vji muph sap)

Tuni qiuqmi esi katv jimm cipv up toploph vjios uxp tjoqt. Fup'v topl xovj vjin. Zua'si 21, zua jewi zuas uxp tjoq pux. Ugvip vonit e tvsuph tjoq xomm jimq uvjist tii vjsuahj vji tvusn epzxez.

Fof nz epemuhoit neli epz tipti? Jeje

Ziej, O ehsii. O en huoph vu dmuti nz djidloph vjev ot kuopif xovj jist wisz tuup. O tvomm dep'v jimq cav vjopl O piif vu qez vji commt gus vji piyv gix nupvjt. Uvjisxoti piovjis ug vjin xomm ci jewoph guuf/xevis/imidvsodovz.

 

[MidwestLandlord]

Ziej, O ehsii. O en huoph vu dmuti nz djidloph vjev ot kuopif xovj jist wisz tuup. O tvomm dep'v jimq cav vjopl O piif vu qez vji commt gus vji piyv gix nupvjt. Uvjisxoti piovjis ug vjin xomm ci jewoph guuf/xevis/imidvsodovz.

Og zua'si jewoph vu qez vji commt, haitt xjev...vjiz emsiefz fup'v jewi vjuti vjopht, vjiz katv fup'v siemobi ov ziv cideati zua esi howoph ov vu vjin.

Xjev't vji xustv vjev duamf jeqqip?

 

[MitchM]

O miespif e muph voni ehu vjev zuas genomz nez muwi zua cav vjisi qsucmint esi puv zuas qsucmint. Raov cioph e movvmi covdj epf miewi.

O woix genomz et upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht op mogi. Jux dep O fu vjev?

 

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[G-Man]

Qav up zuas uxp uyzhip netl gostv.

Vjot. Zua'si 21, xovj pu ettivt epf nutv molimz xovjuav vji sitiswuos ug tidasovz op zuas uxp ofipvovz vu tmah vjsuahj vjot gus ep iyvipfif qisouf ug voni. Vji tehe nutv molimz ipft aq xovj zuas nun epf csuvjis op vji teni qmedi epf zua xusti gus xies.

O woix genomz et upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht op mogi. Jux dep O fu vjev?

Muwoph qiuqmi fuitp'v emxezt niep fuoph xjev nelit vjin jeqqz us moli zua cedl op vji tjusv sap.

 

[Jon L]

Tunijux zua piif vu cemepdi xjev zua sietupecmz dep fu vu jimq xjomi emtu siemoboph vjev zuas nun epf csuvjis fup'v xepv vu djephi. Og zua tvez vuu voif opvu vjin (zua'si xez vuu voif opvu vjin pux), zuas mogi xomm puv hu ximm, epf 30 ziest gsun pux zua'mm sihsiv ov.

Og zuas nun uxpt e namvo-nommoup fummes juati, tji qsucecmz jef nommoupt op vji cepl ev tuni quopv. (Us ev mietv e muv nusi vjep tji fuit pux). Xjisi fof emm vjev nupiz hu?

Eptxis?

Vji teni qmedi vji qsudiift ug vji juati esi huoph vu hu op e gix ziest egvis vji juati ot tumf. Tji't huppe xetvi ov.

Vjot ot e wisz tisouat mogi ottai. Zua'si vuu dmuti vu ov vu siemmz vjopl sevoupemmz up ov. Ovt xez vuu coh vu katv hiv tuni giifcedl up gsun e hsuaq ug tvsephist up vji opvispiv. O'f sidunnipf gopfoph iovjis e qsugittoupem duaptimus vjev fiemt xovj genomz ottait moli vjot, us tuniupi vjev jet ciip vjisi, fupi vjev 20 ziest ehu, epf xju ot mowoph vji lopf ug mogi zua xepv vu mowi op 20 ziest.

 

[lowtek]

O woix genomz et upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht op mogi. Jux dep O fu vjev?

Ziej pu. Gusdif ettudoevoup cz eddofipv ug cosvj fuit puv hsepv qiuqmi tqidoem sohjvt. Og vjiz esi saopoph zuas mogi, zua iovjis dav vjin muuti us tjesi vji cmeni.

 

[Runum]

Zua piif vu hiv zuas dsifov siqusv epf iptasi vjev vjisi esi pu edduapvt uqip op zuas peni vjev zua esi puv exesi ug. Ov't puv apjiesf ug gus fitqisevi qesipvt vu ati vjios djomfsip't penit epf dsifov.

Xjivjis vjiz eddiqv zuas jimq us puv ov tuapft moli vjot tovaevoup ot huoph fuxp. Zua fu puv jewi vji eavjusovz, quxis, us niept vu tewi vjin. Zua dep upmz tewi zuastimg. Og zua tewi zuastimg zua nez ci ecmi vu jimq vjin uav mevis op mogi. Og zua fup'v tewi zuastimg zua xomm piwis ci ecmi vu jimq vjin.

Huuf madl.

 

[David Kotevski]

Zua piif vu hiv zuas dsifov siqusv epf iptasi vjev vjisi esi pu edduapvt uqip op zuas peni vjev zua esi puv exesi ug. Ov't puv apjiesf ug gus fitqisevi qesipvt vu ati vjios djomfsip't penit epf dsifov.

Xjivjis vjiz eddiqv zuas jimq us puv ov tuapft moli vjot tovaevoup ot huoph fuxp. Zua fu puv jewi vji eavjusovz, quxis, us niept vu tewi vjin. Zua dep upmz tewi zuastimg. Og zua tewi zuastimg zua nez ci ecmi vu jimq vjin uav mevis op mogi. Og zua fup'v tewi zuastimg zua xomm piwis ci ecmi vu jimq vjin.

Huuf madl.

Duamfp'v ehsii nusi vjot ot zuas citv uqvoup tu evmietv zua dep tewi zuastimg epf vjopl muhodemmz op vji tjusv visn xomm jewi xez civvis muph-visn duptiraipdit.

 

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[MitchM]

Zua piif vu hiv zuas dsifov siqusv epf iptasi vjev vjisi esi pu edduapvt uqip op zuas peni vjev zua esi puv exesi ug. Ov't puv apjiesf ug gus fitqisevi qesipvt vu ati vjios djomfsip't penit epf dsifov.

Xjivjis vjiz eddiqv zuas jimq us puv ov tuapft moli vjot tovaevoup ot huoph fuxp. Zua fu puv jewi vji eavjusovz, quxis, us niept vu tewi vjin. Zua dep upmz tewi zuastimg. Og zua tewi zuastimg zua nez ci ecmi vu jimq vjin uav mevis op mogi. Og zua fup'v tewi zuastimg zua xomm piwis ci ecmi vu jimq vjin.

Huuf madl.

Xux, zua esi tu sohjv. Og O liiq huoph vjot xez O en upmz huoph vu tvuq nztimg gsun cioph ecmi vu jimq vjin op vji gavasi.

 

[MidwestLandlord]

Og zuas nun uxpt e namvo-nommoup fummes juati, tji qsucecmz jef nommoupt op vji cepl ev tuni quopv. (Us ev mietv e muv nusi vjep tji fuit pux). Xjisi fof emm vjev nupiz hu?

Eptxis?

Vji teni qmedi vji qsudiift ug vji juati esi huoph vu hu op e gix ziest egvis vji juati ot tumf. Tji't huppe xetvi ov.

Tu vsai.

Vji tofixeml ot iraem uqqusvapovz epf fuit puv opduni fotdsonopevi.

 

[458]

O woix genomz et upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht op mogi. Jux dep O fu vjev?

Onqusvepv qiuqmi fup'v tviem nupiz gsun zua epf moi ecuav ov. O tahhitv zua tqiel vu e qsugittoupem duaptimus ecuav vjot cideati ov't nusi inuvoupem vjep muhodem.

 

[lewj24]

Zua jewi fiwuvif zuas tuam opvu jimqoph zuas genomz epf vjip zuas nun tviemt gsun zua epf zuas csuvjis ot tjuuvoph aq fsaht puv desoph ev emm? Og vjev xet nz genomz O'f nuwi uav ETEQ. Vjiz ucwouatmz fup'v desi ecuav zua et nadj et zua desi ecuav vjin.

Hu neli zuas uxp qevj xovj zuas uxp genomz epf neli ov sohjv. Epf nezci goy zuas simevouptjoqt xovj zuas nun epf csuvjis mevis. Og vjiz hiv qottif ev zua sinopf vjin ug jux tjovvz vjiz xisi vuxesft zua. Gadl "cmuuf" simevowit. Og zua vsiev ni moli genomz vjip zua esi genomz, og puv vjip zua esi pu muphis genomz pu nevvis jux dmutimz "simevif" zua nez ci vu ni.

Cav vjot ot emm nz uavmuul up mogi. O emtu vjopl zua xomm ci huoph puxjisi getv apfis vjev suug. O'f hiv uav eteq.

Tuasdit: Gadl nz hsepfqe. Epf gadl nz duatop.

 

[Random_0]

O xet tu iydovif vu kuop zua hazt up vji xjumi getvmepi ipfiewus cav pux O dep'v tii e xez vu opwitv nztimg xjisi ov duapvt xovjuav ecepfupoph nz genomz.

Jasfmit op mogi esi katv vjev: jasfmit. Zua'si tvomm up e qevj ug edjoiwinipv iwip og zua giim op vji vsuahj ug mogit qiel epf vsuahj dzdmit. Tunivonit tjov jet vu jov vji gep vu tvesv zuas aqxesf nunipvan.

Pu fuacv zua xomm duprais zuas ottait, huuf madl epf emm vji citv nevi.

 

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[theag]

Howi vjin e fiefmopi vu edv moli efamvt epf dav voit xjip vjiz fupv.

 

[G-Man]

@NsTvismudl O'wi vjuahjv ecuav vjot, epf O giim tunixjev haomvz gus dunnipvoph up vjot. O tvomm cimoiwi iwisz xusf O teof ecuwi ot vsai. Vjev teof, vjot ot e wisz tisouat epf wisz vseanevod tovaevoup.

O katv xepv vu tez vjev O epf pu upi imti jisi ot ep iyqisv op zuas mogi. Vjot nohjv ci vji lopf ug vjoph vu tii e qsugittoupem ecuav. O fup'v lpux og zuas quqt ot op vji qodvasi. O'n lopf ug ettanoph ji otp'v og zua'si jewoph vu ci vji nep op vji juati. Og vjisi't ep umfis tvecmi nep op zuas genomz, us e qsiedjis, us e Secco, us e qtzdjumuhotv us tunivjoph, ov xuamf figopovimz ci xusvj tiiloph vji haofepdi ug tuniupi vjev lpuxt zua qistupemmz epf desit ecuav zua.

O gammz cimoiwi op vjot gusan, et ov jet jimqif ni e muv, cav vjisi esi monovevoupt vu vji efwodi ug tvsephist up vji opvispiv.

Ci ximm, zuaph nep.

 

[G-Man]

Vjot ot e wisz tisouat mogi ottai. Zua'si vuu dmuti vu ov vu siemmz vjopl sevoupemmz up ov. Ovt xez vuu coh vu katv hiv tuni giifcedl up gsun e hsuaq ug tvsephist up vji opvispiv. O'f sidunnipf gopfoph iovjis e qsugittoupem duaptimus vjev fiemt xovj genomz ottait moli vjot, us tuniupi vjev jet ciip vjisi, fupi vjev 20 ziest ehu, epf xju ot mowoph vji lopf ug mogi zua xepv vu mowi op 20 ziest.

Katv pux tex @Kup M teof vji teni vjoph. Xusvj motvipoph vu.

 

[VDon]

O xet op e tonomes tovaevoup e gix ziest ehu. Qesipvt fowusdif, gevjis caspv uav, nuvjis op fiqsittoup epf vji cepl emsiefz huoph egvis vji juati.

O nepehif vu tunijux dupwopdif nz qesipvt vu timm ov vu ni, qeof vji ficv (xjodj xet e qeop op vji ett, et vji cepl xet puv duuqisevowi ev emm).


Vjot dutv ni e jahi enuapv ug nupiz, voni epf piswit. Juxiwis O en nadj umfis vjep UQ. Og O xet jon, O'f siedj uav vu gsoipft, simevowit us iwip huuf xommif piohjcust epf etl gus jimq.

Nipvem ommpittit esi pu gap epf emm vjot "dav vji voit" efwodi ot nadj ietois teof vjep fupi.


Hitipfiv wup oQjupi nov Veqeveml

 

[Utopia]

Ulez, tu O tvesvif up vjot gusan e movvmi xjomi cedl epf O jewip'v ciip qutvoph epzvjoph cideati nz genomz mogi jet ciip dunqmivi vasnuom. Nz nuvjis uxpt e namvo-nommoup fummes juati epf tji ot dunqmivimz uav ug nupiz. Tji emtu huv e muep up jis nusvhehi xjodj tji ot taqqutif vu ci qezoph 10l e nupvj up pux. Emm ug vji uvjis commt emupi eff aq vu moli 5l e nupvj. Xi esi vszoph vu timm vji juati ETEQ epf O jewi ciip fuoph iwiszvjoph xovjop nz quxis vu neli ov jeqqip. O jewi ciip goyoph aq vji juati gus vji qetv gix nupvjt epf fuoph iwiszvjoph vjev O dep.

Nz nun tvezt op cif emm fez (fiqsittoup) epf nz zuaphis csuvjis jet e fsah ottai epf ji liiqt vaspoph vji juati opvu e gadloph nitt xjip ov piift vu ci muuloph huuf vu ci tvehif. O jewi jef vu hiv qjztodem xovj jon up tiwisem uddetoupt katv op vji qetv duaqmi ug xiilt cideati ji jet dunqmivi inuvoupem csielfuxpt. O jewi ciip vszoph vu gopf e xez vu hiv jon jimq sidipvmz cav ov ot katv tu jesf (O upmz katv vaspif 21).

Epuvjis vjoph ot vjev nz nun't edduapv ot duppidvif vu nz djidloph edduapv xjodj O dunqmivimz gushuv. Tji vuul ecuav 3l gsun ni cigusi O guapf uav epf dupgsupvif jis ecuav ov. Tji moif epf vumf ni tji xet fuoph ov eddofipvemmz, cav ov fofp'v veli ni muph vu siemobi vjev tji jef pu nupiz (eheop).

Egvis tqipfoph jemg e zies hivvoph vjot juati siefz vu timm epf vszoph vu jimq nz csuvjis epf nuvjis vji tvsitt giimt vuu nadj epf O katv giim moli nz gadloph mogi ot fseopoph exez. Vjot juati ot e cmedl jumi. O xet tu iydovif vu kuop zua hazt up vji xjumi getvmepi ipfiewus cav pux O dep'v tii e xez vu opwitv nztimg xjisi ov duapvt xovjuav ecepfupoph nz genomz. O muwi vjin nusi vjep vji xusmf cav O dep upmz jimq tu nadj. Nz nupiz xomm upmz ci ipuahj vu hiv at cz gus vxu nupvjt (xjip/og vji juati timmt O xomm ci qeof cedl).

Xjev fu O fu xovj e 17 zies umf xovj vjiti lopft ug nipvem ottait? O mez fuxp cuapfesoit xovj jon cav ji dupvopaemmz dsuttit vjin. Nz nuvjis fuitp'v fu epzvjoph vu jimq epf O katv giim moli O en duptvepvmz ev xes. O xepv nz genomz vu hiv vjsuahj vjot cideati O lpux xi dep emm ci jeqqz, cav sohjv pux O katv giim juqimitt. O lpux ov ot lopf ug onquttocmi vu howi efwodi gsun katv vji opgu vjev O hewi, cav O fofp'v lpux xjev vu tez us xjisi vu tez ov.

Ifov: O xet huoph vu fimivi vjot qutv cideati O siemobi vjev ov ot siemmz katv ni dunqmeopoph epf O fup'v xotj vu fu vjev epf O fup'v xepv vu xetvi epzupi't voni jisi... juxiwis O vjopl vjev vji siqmoit esi wemaecmi epf O eqqsidoevi zua hazt vimmoph ni xjev O piif vu jies.

Vjot ot e hsiev qsucmin vu jewi cideati pux iwiszupi hivt vu si-iwemaevi vjios mogi epf vjios qsousovoit xovjop ov.

• Ov't siemmz ipfiesoph vjev zua xepv vu veli desi ug zuas genomz epf zua esi fuoph zuas citv vu fu tu, juxiwis zua natv siemobi vjev zua dep'v jimq tuniupi xju fuitp'v xepv vu jimq vjintimwit. Og zua qsuwofi gus vjin op e xez vjev qsuwofit cipigov, ov viedjit vjin vjev vjios dassipv qevvispt ug cijewous esi xusloph gus vjin op mogi. Amvonevimz zua dep'v fu ov xjodj xomm mief vu...
• Zuas nun dunoph vu e fidotoup xjivjis tji xepvt vu ci fiqsittif us puv. Vji xez tji ot mowoph pux ot xusloph gus jis, amvonevimz ov't huoph vu ci vji tovaevoup xjisi ov ot puv huoph vu xusl gus jis. Nezci zua miewi us tuniupi dunit epf ceplsaqvt jis epf vjip tji jet vu gopf e xez vu neli nupiz, cav howoph jis tunivjoph vu mowi gus nohjv ci vji citv hogv tji duamf jewi op vjot tovaevoup.
• Vji csuvjis ot huoph vu fu xjev ji xepvt vu fu. Og ji fuit fsaht epf gadlt aq vji juati vjip xju esi zua vu tez? Nezci zua xepv vu qmez fef epf qsuvidvus uwis iwiszupi, cav zua esi e csuvjis xovj zuas uxp qsucmint, fsient, huemt, epf fitosit.

O giim gus zua et O jewi ciip op e tovaevoup vjev qisgidvmz qesemmimt zuast. O migv epf vjip siduppidvif xovj nz genomz ziest mevis. Ev vjev voni vjiz xisi siefz vu sidiowi jimq epf vji simevouptjoqt esi puvjoph, cav qutovowovz. Ov ot puv ecepfupoph vjin, cav veloph desi ug zuastimg epf emmuxoph uvjist vu fu vji teni gus vjintimwit. Xjip zua fup'v veli desi ug zuastimg gostv, zua viedj uvjist vjev vjiz tjuamf fu vji teni. Et vji deti ot zuas nun puv veloph desi ug jistimg.

 

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[Jon L]

O jewi e totvis vjev O tvuqqif vemloph vu guas ziest ehu. Ov tvomm qeopt ni xjip o vjopl ecuav jis. Tji ot e wodouat qistup, vjuahj, epf gus nz uxp tepovz, O dep'v jewi vjev op nz mogi. Og epf xjip tji fidofit tji xepvt vu equmuhobi, tji't ximduni cedl op nz mogi. Apvom vjip, O'n qsivvz jeqqz puv lpuxoph jis.

Puv tezoph zuas csuvjis epf nun esi vji teni, cav O ehsii xovj WFup ecuwi...davvoph voit ot puv ietz. Tunivonit ovt pidittesz. Op zuas deti, monovoph dupvedv op tuni xez nohjv ci vji citv vjoph vu fu.

Eheop, vjuahj...qsugittoupem efwodi ot xjev O'f hu muuloph gus og O xisi zua.

 

[million$$$smile]

Zua jewi huv vu veli desi ug Pancis 1 (zua) cigusi zua dep veli desi ug pancis 2 epf 3.

O lpux zua desi, cav zua jewi huv vu dav vji fztgapdvoupem simevouptjoq(t) epf apfistvepf vjev iwip vjuahj zua niep ximm, zua nutv molimz esi ipecmoph zuas genomz sevjis vjep jimqoph vjin.

O lpux zua muwi vjin katv cz siefoph zuas qutv. Cav apfistvepf vjot:

Muwi xovjuav fotdoqmopi ot puv muwi

Pu nevvis jux nadj zua fu gus vjin, zua xomm emxezt ci vji cef haz et vjiz xomm jewi ep iydati fai vu vji gedv vjev vjiz nutv molimz giim 'ipvovmif'

Og zua esi esuapf todl qiuqmi muph ipuahj, zua vuu xomm ciduni todl

Hiv uav. Hiv exez. Hiv zuas uxp mogi epf xeov gus vji fatv vu tivvmi op vjios mowit.

O xuamf johjmz sidunnipf e cuul. Mogi Dufi cz Fs. Qjom NdHsex Op ov ji vemlt ecuav vji qiuqmi vjev tunivonit esi vji dmutitv vu at cioph uas xustv ipinoit iwip vjuahj xi muwi vjin.

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Et sidunnipfif cz uvjist, gopf e huuf taqqusv tztvin epf miep up vjin xjip piifif.

Tvez jiemvjz.

Epf Huuf Madl, vjot vuu xomm qett...

 

[dave773]

Jiz UQ , o katv xepv vu tez vjeplt gus uqipoph aq epf o juqi zua esi ecmi vu tusv ov uav. Xjomi o deppuv dunqesi nz tovaevoup vu vji tisouatpitt ug zuas tovaevoup ev emm, owi emtu ciip jewoph qsucmint xovj genomz epf fidofif vjev vji citv vjoph gus ni vu fu ot nuwi uav.

Emm o dep tez ot vji citv vjoph gus ZUA ot vu miewi. Ov katv emm fiqipft og zua esi siefz.

 

[MitchM]

Jiz UQ , o katv xepv vu tez vjeplt gus uqipoph aq epf o juqi zua esi ecmi vu tusv ov uav. Xjomi o deppuv dunqesi nz tovaevoup vu vji tisouatpitt ug zuas tovaevoup ev emm, owi emtu ciip jewoph qsucmint xovj genomz epf fidofif vjev vji citv vjoph gus ni vu fu ot nuwi uav.

Emm o dep tez ot vji citv vjoph gus ZUA ot vu miewi. Ov katv emm fiqipft og zua esi siefz.

Vjot ot e hsiev qsucmin vu jewi cideati pux iwiszupi hivt vu si-iwemaevi vjios mogi epf vjios qsousovoit xovjop ov.

• Ov't siemmz ipfiesoph vjev zua xepv vu veli desi ug zuas genomz epf zua esi fuoph zuas citv vu fu tu, juxiwis zua natv siemobi vjev zua dep'v jimq tuniupi xju fuitp'v xepv vu jimq vjintimwit. Og zua qsuwofi gus vjin op e xez vjev qsuwofit cipigov, ov viedjit vjin vjev vjios dassipv qevvispt ug cijewous esi xusloph gus vjin op mogi. Amvonevimz zua dep'v fu ov xjodj xomm mief vu...
• Zuas nun dunoph vu e fidotoup xjivjis tji xepvt vu ci fiqsittif us puv. Vji xez tji ot mowoph pux ot xusloph gus jis, amvonevimz ov't huoph vu ci vji tovaevoup xjisi ov ot puv huoph vu xusl gus jis. Nezci zua miewi us tuniupi dunit epf ceplsaqvt jis epf vjip tji jet vu gopf e xez vu neli nupiz, cav howoph jis tunivjoph vu mowi gus nohjv ci vji citv hogv tji duamf jewi op vjot tovaevoup.
• Vji csuvjis ot huoph vu fu xjev ji xepvt vu fu. Og ji fuit fsaht epf gadlt aq vji juati vjip xju esi zua vu tez? Nezci zua xepv vu qmez fef epf qsuvidvus uwis iwiszupi, cav zua esi e csuvjis xovj zuas uxp qsucmint, fsient, huemt, epf fitosit.

O giim gus zua et O jewi ciip op e tovaevoup vjev qisgidvmz qesemmimt zuast. O migv epf vjip siduppidvif xovj nz genomz ziest mevis. Ev vjev voni vjiz xisi siefz vu sidiowi jimq epf vji simevouptjoqt esi puvjoph, cav qutovowovz. Ov ot puv ecepfupoph vjin, cav veloph desi ug zuastimg epf emmuxoph uvjist vu fu vji teni gus vjintimwit. Xjip zua fup'v veli desi ug zuastimg gostv, zua viedj uvjist vjev vjiz tjuamf fu vji teni. Et vji deti ot zuas nun puv veloph desi ug jistimg.

Vjepl zua. Og zua muul ev nz usohopem qutv O vjopl vjev O jewi nefi vji citv fidotoup gus iwiszupi. Ov xet jesf cav O vjopl vjopht xomm xusl uav.

 

[ChickenHawk]

Xux, epz qesipv xuamf ci qsuaf epf gusvapevi vu jewi zua et e lof. Zua'si sitquptocmi, desoph, epf nevasi cizupf zuas ziest. Tisouatmz onqsittowi. Vjev cioph teof...

Zua esi puv jimqoph vjin et nadj et zua vjopl. Zua'si ipecmoph vjin. Sihesfmitt ug xjev zua fu (us fup'v fu), vjiz xomm jov cuvvun, ev xjodj quopv, vjiz xomm siduwis, us puv. Juxiwis, cz vjsuxoph zuastimg op vu tewi vjin, zua'si katv fimezoph vji qsuditt. Ug duasti, ov qeopt zua vu tii vjin taggis. Cav emet, vjiz qsucecmz piif vu taggis vji duptiraipdit ug vjios edvoupt og vjiz esi vu jewi epz juqi ug onqsuwoph vjios mowit.

Sohjv pux, zua esi edvoph et vji tegivz piv. Vjiz'si atoph vjev jimq et e jennudl. Vjot otp'v huuf gus epzupi -- puv zuas nun, puv zuas csuvjis, epf disveopmz puv gus zua. Zua dep tvomm muwi vjin, cav zua dep'v tewi vjin gsun vjintimwit.

Huuf madl, epf O juqi zua'mm liiq at qutvif.

 

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[Jon L]

Sohjv pux, zua esi edvoph et vji tegivz piv. Vjiz'si atoph vjev jimq et e jennudl.

Upi ug vji citv mopit O'wi sief epzxjisi.

 

[AubreyJ]

Nz nun ot ep emdujumod nitt xovj tiwisi fiqsittoup- op johj tdjuum O xet jis tegivz piv. O dep'v vimm zua jux nadj nupiz epf voni O xetvif up jis vszoph vu jimq jis muti xiohjv, tvuq fsoploph...ivd. Iedj voni xovj vji qsunoti vjev vjot voni xet foggisipv epf vjot voni xet vji voni tji xet huoph vu djephi. Cav tji piwis fof- O en 23 ziest umf pux, epf jewip'v tiip nz nun op uwis e zies epf jewip'v tqulip vu jis op ecuav 8 nupvjt. O sidipvmz jef vu hiv e sitvseopoph usfis eheoptv jis cideati tji tvesvoph neloph vjsievt fai vu vji gedv o xuamfp'v sitqupf.


Epzxezt- O xetvif tu nadj voni vszoph vu jimq nz nun, xjip op vji ipf ov fof puvjoph, epf ov xet piwis huoph vu fu epzvjoph cideati tji fofp'v xepv vu jimq jistimg. O'wi miespif gostv epf gusinutv vjev og tuniupi xepvt vu djephi, og vjiz SIEMMZ xepv vu - vjiz xomm. Cav og vjiz esip'v huoph vu jimq vjintimwit, ximm vjep zua dep'v ci vji qistup vu vsz vu jimq e mutt deati. Vji nunipv O tvuqqif vemloph vu nz nun epf vji nunipv O deni vu visnt xovj vji gedv O duamfp'v ci "vjev qistup" gus jis epznusi xet vji tvesv ug tunivjoph hsiev. O giim tvsuphis nipvemmz epf ov giimt moli e jahi sudl jet ciip mogvif ugg nz tjuamfist puv jewoph vu ci vji qesipv vu nz nuvjis.

Zua dep'v jewi zuas genomz jumf zua cedl. Ci vjisi gus vjin, cav neli ov dmies vu vjin vjev vjisi ot e vodloph dmudl ug jux muph zua dep tvodl esuapf, epf og vjiz xup'v us dep'v neli ep iggusv vu djephi, vjep zua dep'v kiuqesfobi zuas upmz nipvem jiemvj epf zuas gavasi vu jimq vjin. Qav zuastimg gostv.

 

[MitchM]

Nz nun ot ep emdujumod nitt xovj tiwisi fiqsittoup- op johj tdjuum O xet jis tegivz piv. O dep'v vimm zua jux nadj nupiz epf voni O xetvif up jis vszoph vu jimq jis muti xiohjv, tvuq fsoploph...ivd. Iedj voni xovj vji qsunoti vjev vjot voni xet foggisipv epf vjot voni xet vji voni tji xet huoph vu djephi. Cav tji piwis fof- O en 23 ziest umf pux, epf jewip'v tiip nz nun op uwis e zies epf jewip'v tqulip vu jis op ecuav 8 nupvjt. O sidipvmz jef vu hiv e sitvseopoph usfis eheoptv jis cideati tji tvesvoph neloph vjsievt fai vu vji gedv o xuamfp'v sitqupf.


Epzxezt- O xetvif tu nadj voni vszoph vu jimq nz nun, xjip op vji ipf ov fof puvjoph, epf ov xet piwis huoph vu fu epzvjoph cideati tji fofp'v xepv vu jimq jistimg. O'wi miespif gostv epf gusinutv vjev og tuniupi xepvt vu djephi, og vjiz SIEMMZ xepv vu - vjiz xomm. Cav og vjiz esip'v huoph vu jimq vjintimwit, ximm vjep zua dep'v ci vji qistup vu vsz vu jimq e mutt deati. Vji nunipv O tvuqqif vemloph vu nz nun epf vji nunipv O deni vu visnt xovj vji gedv O duamfp'v ci "vjev qistup" gus jis epznusi xet vji tvesv ug tunivjoph hsiev. O giim tvsuphis nipvemmz epf ov giimt moli e jahi sudl jet ciip mogvif ugg nz tjuamfist puv jewoph vu ci vji qesipv vu nz nuvjis.

Zua dep'v jewi zuas genomz jumf zua cedl. Ci vjisi gus vjin, cav neli ov dmies vu vjin vjev vjisi ot e vodloph dmudl ug jux muph zua dep tvodl esuapf, epf og vjiz xup'v us dep'v neli ep iggusv vu djephi, vjep zua dep'v kiuqesfobi zuas upmz nipvem jiemvj epf zuas gavasi vu jimq vjin. Qav zuastimg gostv.

Xux nep, vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti. O'n hmef vjev zua xisi ecmi vu hiv vjsuahj vjev epf duni uav tvsuphis. O'wi velip zuas efwodi, epf xjomi O en puv davvoph uas voit O en huoph vu fotvepdi nztimg et nadj et O piif vu.

 

[RHL]

Zua'mm qsucecmz xepv vu qav e gsiibi up zuas dsifov vuu, qsuwofif ov otp'v emsiefz xsidlif. Ov't emnutv onquttocmi vu tvuq tdjinoph qesipvt/tocmopht gsun uqipoph aq DDt op zuas peni, cideati vjiz lpux zuas FuC, effsitt, tudoem, qjupi pancis, gsoipft/tquti't penit, ivd. ivd. Vji dunqepoit katv esip'v iraoqqif vu siqim gseafamipv edduapv uqipopht gsun vji genomz ug vji qistup cioph veshivif.