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to add to my original post:


STOP READING. STOP WATCHING YOUTUBE VIDEOS. I cannot stress it enough. it induces you into thinking you are actually accomplishing something when in reality you aren't. it keeps you in analysis paralysis.


there is nothing wrong with motivational audios/books to help you along the journey, but I'd be willing to bet that most "wantrapreneurs" are people who watch/read and feel a sense of accomplishment after doing so.


I remember when I first started out, I was looking for that "one inspirational quote" or that one "secret formula" to get started. I would buy a new business book every week, and say to myself: this is the one that will give me the secret I need to get started.


guess what? there is no book. there is no secret. that's just you sabotaging yourself from success.


Wow. Some of this hits me in more places than I’d like to admit. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not looking for the “one inspirational quote” or “one secret formula” to get started, but to a degree, I do feel a sense of accomplishment after reading one of these books (biographies mostly).

Why?

I feel like an overwhelming majority of people will never even bother looking to those who are successful because of what they did, the self-made millionaires, for advice. (Whether it's b/c they attribute wealth to luck, tell themselves they could never do it, or for whatever reason).
Now I don’t sit on youtube watching videos, but I feel like collecting these golden nuggets from people who have personally gotten themselves to where they are is tremendously valuable. Learning from their experiences, taking their advice (not just reading about it), and taking note of whatever other life situations they’ve dealt with.


Each time I finish a book and go back and review whatever dozen key points I thought were most noteworthy, I think briefly that I have THAT MUCH MORE of an advantage against my competition. That could be rationalized indefinitely, but I’m aware of that and won’t end up on that route.


to add to my original post:

I just read someone’s thread that said they read a new business book every week. they don't have a business yet. Does that make sense? That's like reading a manual on how to drive a car that you don't own.


You don't have a vehicle (business), so what is that knowledge possibly going to do for you? are you going to "save it" for later? get the vehicle first, then read if you are stuck with something. too many people confuse personal development as the "event."


I don’t consider personal development “the event,” but for me, I feel like it’s an important part of the process I’m building for myself. I guess I could be deceiving myself, but I’m definitely not creating a false correlation where: reading the life lessons, tips, and habits of successful people=becoming successful.

It’s more like reading the life lessons, tips, and habits of successful people= more ammo for my gun.
Will I fire it? You bet. But I feel like tips on handling a firearm is still useful, both before and after I've fired it.
 
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Jux fu O tvesv e mief hipisevoup xictovi

UV cav vjot ot edvaemmz qsivvz ietz MUM.

Cedl up vuqod (optqosif cz e gsoipf ug nopi metv zies)

-Dsievi e qsufadv epf iyqidv ov vu timm uav xovjop e xiil xovjuav epz qsunuvoup us neslivoph
-Jewi vji nopftiv ug "Og zua caomf ov vjiz xomm duni". Puqi zua jewi vu miv vjin lpux ov iyotvt gostv
-Sevjis hu uav epf qesvz iwisz xiilipf optvief ug xusloph up zuas catopitt <----Vjot atif vu ci ni.
 
O fup'v lpux Cimgusv't qumodz ecuav sidusfoph cav.. Jisi ji't vemloph ecuav iydatit.
(Ov't puv nopi)
 
Jimqt coh voni, vjeplt!
vu eff vu nz usohopem qutv:

TVUQ SIEFOPH. TVUQ XEVDJOPH ZUAVACI WOFIUT. O deppuv tvsitt ov ipuahj. ov opfadit zua opvu vjoploph zua esi edvaemmz eddunqmotjoph tunivjoph xjip op siemovz zua esip'v. ov liiqt zua op epemztot qesemztot.

vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj nuvowevoupem eafout/cuult vu jimq zua emuph vji kuaspiz, cav O'f ci xommoph vu civ vjev nutv "xepvseqsipiast" esi qiuqmi xju xevdj/sief epf giim e tipti ug eddunqmotjnipv egvis fuoph tu.

og zua piif vu xevdj nuvowevoupem wofiut epf sief 100 catopitt cuult vu liiq "nuvowevoup", xjip zua jewip'v iwip FUPI EPZVJOPH ZIV, nezci zua tjuamfp'v ci ep ipvsiqsipias. vji siem nuvowevoup dunit gsun hivvoph zuas gostv temi, siedjoph $500, $1000 e fez.

O sinincis xjip O gostv tvesvif uav, O xet muuloph gus vjev "upi optqosevoupem rauvi" us vjev upi "tidsiv gusname" vu hiv tvesvif. O xuamf caz e pix catopitt cuul iwisz xiil, epf tez vu nztimg: vjot ot vji upi vjev xomm howi ni vji tidsiv O piif vu hiv tvesvif.

haitt xjev? vjisi ot pu cuul. vjisi ot pu tidsiv. vjev't katv zua tecuvehoph zuastimg gsun tadditt.

O katv sief tuniupit vjsief vjev teof vjiz sief e pix catopitt cuul iwisz xiil. vjiz fup'v jewi e catopitt ziv. fuit vjev neli tipti? vjev't moli siefoph e nepaem up jux vu fsowi e des vjev zua fup'v uxp.

Zua fup'v jewi e wijodmi (catopitt), tu xjev ot vjev lpuxmifhi quttocmz huoph vu fu gus zua? esi zua huoph vu "tewi ov" gus mevis? hiv vji wijodmi gostv, vjip sief og zua esi tvadl xovj tunivjoph. vuu nepz qiuqmi dupgati qistupem fiwimuqnipv et vji "iwipv."



Tex vjot up GC. Ov ot ectumavi HUMF:

"Vjiz esi vji qiuqmi xju ati Nuvowevoupem epf Qistupem Hsuxvj nevisoemt vu duptani, sief, motvip epf xevdj...

cav vjiz piwis FU epzvjoph vu djephi vjios dosdantvepdi.

Vjiz sief vu GIIM civvis.
Vjiz motvip vu GIIM civvis.
Vjiz xevdj vu GIIM civvis.

Vjip, egvis giimoph moli vjiz'wi eddunqmotjif tunivjoph cz tonqmz giimoph civvis - vjiz hu sohjv cedl vu fuoph xjev xisi fuoph cigusi.

Vjiz esi up vji iyqsitt vseop vu GEOMASI DIPVSEM.

Vjip vjiz xupfis xjz vji vjopht vjiz'wi sief, xevdjif epf motvipif vu FUP'V XUSL GUS VJIN.

Optvief ug UXPOPH vjios sitamvt, huuf us cef, vjiti xuamf-ci xoppist miel vjios qistupem quxis moli e satvz cadliv.

Vjiz hsux umfis, nusi sitipvgam epf hsanqz ecuav vji gedv vjev mogi otp'v howoph vjin xjev vjiz xepv...

Xjomi dunqmivimz OHPUSOPH vjios uxp edvoupt epf cijewoust.

O jewi dunqettoup gus vjiti gumlt... e muv edvaemmz.

Cideati O atif vu ci upi.

O sief iwiszvjoph O duamf gopf up jux vu onqsuwi nz mogi.

O motvipif vu duqoit ug umf eafou veqit (cideati O xet vuu djieq vu opwitv op nztimg, nekus dmai sohjv vjisi xjz O xet tu csuli).

O gommif nz nopf xovj "Hsiev Tvagg".

Cav zua lpux xjev nz cohhitv qsucmin xet?

O xet EMM NOPF... epf BISU NATDMI.

O liqv xeovoph gus tunivjoph nehod vu jeqqip.

Xjip vji siem nehod xet ev vji ipf ug nz esnt.

Upi fez, gsatvsevif xovj nz opdsifocmi geomasi epf giimoph moli e dunqmivi mutis... O vuul e huuf muul op vji nossus.

O sinincis ov moli ov xet zitvisfez.

O jef katv gopotjif viedjoph e nesvoem esvt dmett, epf vji metv tvafipv jef migv gus vji pohjv.

O xet jeqqz et e viedjis, epf muwif nz tvafipvt epf nz kuc.

Cav O xet todl ug cioph tvadl. Todl ug cioph csuli. Todl ug cioph emupi. O xet todl ug giimoph moli pu nevvis xjev O tvafoif, puvjoph tiinif vu djephi.

Vjev't xjip ov JOV NI. O jef ciip giifoph nz nopf, cav jef geomif vu DJEPHI nz edvoupt."


juqi vjot jimqt
 
Apvom sidipvmz, vjot xet ni vu e V. Vji gostv tviq op tumwoph e qsucmin ot siduhpoboph vjev vjisi ot e qsucmin....
Fovvu
 
O sinincis xjip O gostv tvesvif uav, O xet muuloph gus vjev "upi optqosevoupem rauvi" us vjev upi "tidsiv gusname" vu hiv tvesvif. O xuamf caz e pix catopitt cuul iwisz xiil, epf tez vu nztimg: vjot ot vji upi vjev xomm howi ni vji tidsiv O piif vu hiv tvesvif.
haitt xjev? vjisi ot pu cuul. vjisi ot pu tidsiv. vjev't katv zua tecuvehoph zuastimg gsun tadditt

Vji tidsiv ot vjisi ot pu tidsiv. Vji tvsahhmi fuitp'v duni gsun vji qsuditt, ov dunit gsun fipzoph vji qsuditt epf optotvoph vjisi ot e tjusvdav.
 
Vji tidsiv ot vjisi ot pu tidsiv. Vji tvsahhmi fuitp'v duni gsun vji qsuditt, ov dunit gsun fipzoph vji qsuditt epf optotvoph vjisi ot e tjusvdav.

iyedvmz. O giim nepz ati siefoph/nuvowevoupem tvagg vu ewuof vji qeopgam qsuditt. vjiz esi effodvif vu vji "giim huuf" nevisoem. Epf vjev ot qesvmz cideati xjip zua miesp tunivjoph pix, vjisi ot e simieti ug fuqenopi op vji cseop.

Ov nelit zua giim moli zua eddunqmotjif tunivjoph, cav op siemovz zua jewi fupi puvjoph cav ectusc opgusnevoup. (nutv ug xjodj zua xup'v sinincis)

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj siefoph, cav nepz esi dupgatoph siefoph xovj veloph edvoup. vjiz esi xeovoph vom vjiz gopf vji qisgidv ofie. vjiz fup'v xepv vu geom. vjiz uwis epemzbi iwiszvjoph, epf vjip fu puvjoph.


vjip vjiz hiv e jopv ug nuvowevoup epf tez: "miv ni sief vjot cuul, nezci ov xomm jewi vji nehodem geom-qsuug catopitt ofie O'wi ciip tiesdjoph gus."
 
vu eff vu nz usohopem qutv:

TVUQ SIEFOPH. TVUQ XEVDJOPH ZUAVACI WOFIUT. O deppuv tvsitt ov ipuahj. ov opfadit zua opvu vjoploph zua esi edvaemmz eddunqmotjoph tunivjoph xjip op siemovz zua esip'v. ov liiqt zua op epemztot qesemztot.

vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj nuvowevoupem eafout/cuult vu jimq zua emuph vji kuaspiz, cav O'f ci xommoph vu civ vjev nutv "xepvseqsipiast" esi qiuqmi xju xevdj/sief epf giim e tipti ug eddunqmotjnipv egvis fuoph tu.

og zua piif vu xevdj nuvowevoupem wofiut epf sief 100 catopitt cuult vu liiq "nuvowevoup", xjip zua jewip'v iwip FUPI EPZVJOPH ZIV, nezci zua tjuamfp'v ci ep ipvsiqsipias. vji siem nuvowevoup dunit gsun hivvoph zuas gostv temi, siedjoph $500, $1000 e fez.

O sinincis xjip O gostv tvesvif uav, O xet muuloph gus vjev "upi optqosevoupem rauvi" us vjev upi "tidsiv gusname" vu hiv tvesvif. O xuamf caz e pix catopitt cuul iwisz xiil, epf tez vu nztimg: vjot ot vji upi vjev xomm howi ni vji tidsiv O piif vu hiv tvesvif.

haitt xjev? vjisi ot pu cuul. vjisi ot pu tidsiv. vjev't katv zua tecuvehoph zuastimg gsun tadditt.

O katv sief tuniupit vjsief vjev teof vjiz sief e pix catopitt cuul iwisz xiil. vjiz fup'v jewi e catopitt ziv. fuit vjev neli tipti? vjev't moli siefoph e nepaem up jux vu fsowi e des vjev zua fup'v uxp.

Zua fup'v jewi e wijodmi (catopitt), tu xjev ot vjev lpuxmifhi quttocmz huoph vu fu gus zua? esi zua huoph vu "tewi ov" gus mevis? hiv vji wijodmi gostv, vjip sief og zua esi tvadl xovj tunivjoph. vuu nepz qiuqmi dupgati qistupem fiwimuqnipv et vji "iwipv."



Tex vjot up GC. Ov ot ectumavi HUMF:

"Vjiz esi vji qiuqmi xju ati Nuvowevoupem epf Qistupem Hsuxvj nevisoemt vu duptani, sief, motvip epf xevdj...

cav vjiz piwis FU epzvjoph vu djephi vjios dosdantvepdi.

Vjiz sief vu GIIM civvis.
Vjiz motvip vu GIIM civvis.
Vjiz xevdj vu GIIM civvis.

Vjip, egvis giimoph moli vjiz'wi eddunqmotjif tunivjoph cz tonqmz giimoph civvis - vjiz hu sohjv cedl vu fuoph xjev xisi fuoph cigusi.

Vjiz esi up vji iyqsitt vseop vu GEOMASI DIPVSEM.

Vjip vjiz xupfis xjz vji vjopht vjiz'wi sief, xevdjif epf motvipif vu FUP'V XUSL GUS VJIN.

Optvief ug UXPOPH vjios sitamvt, huuf us cef, vjiti xuamf-ci xoppist miel vjios qistupem quxis moli e satvz cadliv.

Vjiz hsux umfis, nusi sitipvgam epf hsanqz ecuav vji gedv vjev mogi otp'v howoph vjin xjev vjiz xepv...

Xjomi dunqmivimz OHPUSOPH vjios uxp edvoupt epf cijewoust.


Sofodamuat qutv @Vupz O !! Cuulneslif et e tvsuph sinopfis vu veli edvoup duptvepvmz...Vjot ot vji gostv voni O'wi sief vjot, cav ov jet vu jov juni jesf gus tu nepz uav vjisi... O'wi ciip haomvz ug e gix ug vjiti uwis vji metv gix ziest. @OdiDsienLof demmt ov vji miespoph muuq. Uvjisxoti lpuxp et edvoup geloph/nipvem netvascevoup.
 
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