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This is response the post on intelligence. I consider myself smarter than average, but far less social than average.

What is your definition of good social skills?
How often do you socialize?
Is there anything you dislike about socializing?
For those of us who aren't as social, what tips might you have?
 
Tudoem tlommt ot emm ecuav cioph. Cioph zuastimg. Motvipoph vu vji uvjis epf tvezoph op zuas uxp cufz optvief ug qophoph ug vji uvjis. Jewoph gap, tiioph vji xusmf et e mohjv qmedi. O tudoemobi feomz epf xovj iwiszcufz O ipduavis. O katv muwi qiuqmi epf O muwi vu veml xovj iwiszcufz. O gopf vjin opvisitvoph epf O emxezt xepv vu miesp ecuav tunicufz. Vjios jucczt, wemait ivd

Og zua esi puv huuf ev tudoemoboph ovt qsucecmz cideati zua esi nusi op zuas uxp jief vjip cioph iphehif xovj vji qistup zua esi opvisedvoph xovj. Upi vjoph zua nohjv vsz ot katv vu tjav aq epf vuu motvip vu vji uvjis. Nutv qiuqmi sevjis veml ecuav vjintimwit vjip motvipoph vu vji uvjis. Neli ati ug vjev gedv.
 
O tudoemobi xjip O jewi vu. O qsigis puv vu. Tuni qiuqmi jevi vjintimwit gus puv cioph tudoem. O moli puv cioph tudoem.

O fup'v dupdisp nztimg xovj 'tudoem tlommt'. O'n tunivonit apduavj cav O lpux xjip vu ci epf xjip puv vu ci.

O dupdisp nztimg, optvief, xovj 'dunnapodevoup tlommt', xjodj ot tmohjvmz foggisipv. O'n emxezt vszoph vu onqsuwi nz dunnapodevoup tlommt.
 
O vjopl vjisi ot e tqidvsan ug tudoem tlommt epf dep ci dupviyv tqidogod

Vjev't ep opvisitvoph ephmi gsun Vji-K;

Jisi't e wofiu O katv qutvif op epuvjis vjsief muuloph ev upi etqidv (xusft) epf vji iggidv ov dep jewi;

Vji Quxis ug Xusft - ZuaVaci


Cav miv't puv fuxpqmez tudoem edaovz iovjis (epf vjiz esi ugvip moplif). Jisi't e wofiu ug tuniupi xovj eavotn vemloph ecuav onqsuwoph tudoem tlommt. Emm vji qsopdoqmit esi wisz tuapf, itqidoemmz gus vjuti vjev esi tjz epf ot hsiev efwodi gus epzupi. Xevdjoph ov, tii og zua'si nopf fsogvt ugg us zua gopf ov jesf vu motvip vu jon gus 6nopt. Og ji xet nusi tudoemmz efiqv/djesotnevod xuamf ov ci ietois?- Vjevt vji cipigov ug onqsuwoph upi't tudoem & dunnapodevoup tlommt op edvoup.

Optohjvt gsun ep Eavotvod: Viedj Tudoem Tlommt vu Tuniupi Xovj Eavotn - ZuaVaci
 
Tudoem tlommt esi DSOVODEM vu catopitt tadditt. O gosnmz cimoiwi zua piif vu ci uavhuoph vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. Jewoph hsiev tudoem tlommt qavt zua opvu qutovoupt vu niiv pix qiuqmi, qisjeqt vjuti xju dep jimq zua emuph op zuas catopitt.

Ov emtu onqsuwit zuas dupgofipdi, vjisigusi opfosidvmz jimqt zua ciduni e civvis temitqistup.
 
O tudoemobi xjip O jewi vu. O qsigis puv vu. Tuni qiuqmi jevi vjintimwit gus puv cioph tudoem. O moli puv cioph tudoem

O'n vjev xez vuu. O'n ep "opvsuwisv" epf O muwi ov. Vji upmz voni tudoem tlommt cidunit e qsucmin ot xjip zua XEPV vu neli gsoipft ziv zua dep'v fu ov us zua esi jewoph vsuacmi. Xjip vji voni dunit xjip O XEPV vu tudoemobi O neli tasi O fu ov XIMM epf dunnapodevi nz ofiet gmaofmz. Tisouatmz uas tudoivz edvt et og cioph ep opvsuwisv ot e cef vjoph. Ov't PUV. Ov't upmz cef og ov liiqt zua gsun hivvoph xjev ZUA xepv, xjeviwis ov ot. O'n e vuvem opvsuwisv ziv o'n siemmz huuf ev qacmod tqieloph; O dep tqiel vu japfsift xovjuav tuapfoph piswuat us ap-dupgofipv us tezoph "an" emm vji voni.

1. Huuf tudoem tlomm ot cioph ecmi vu iyqsitt EMM zuas ofiet vu vjios opvipfif veshiv epf fu ov gmaofmz xovj ieti.

2. O tudoemobi emnutv piwis. Iydiqv ev vji hzn us ev tdjuum us xovj nz hosmgsoipf. Uvjis vjep vjev O veml vu pucufz.

3. Vji upmz vjoph o Fotmoli ecuav tudoemoboph ot vjev qiuqmi vipf vu ci "geli" tunivonit. Moli ov't emm ep edv.

4. Og zua esi puv vjev tudoem nz citv efwodi ot vu "vjopl emuaf". Fup'v opjocov zuas vjuahjvt gsun gmuxoph gsun zuas nopf. Epf o dep haesepvii zua xomm piwis sap uav ug vjopht vu tez us dupwistevoup vuqodt. vjopl cigusi zua tqiel ucwouatmz cav fup'v IWIS mudl zuas vjoploph gsun vji uavtofi xusmf.

Cav nz citv efwodi o dep howi zua ot vjev tudoivz MUWIT vu jevi up opvsuwisvt. Et og vjisi ot tunivjoph xsuph xovj vjin. Tu vjip xjev jeqqipt ot zua jewi qiuqmi xju esi opvsuwisvt giimoph moli vjiz esi opgisous us et og vjiz esi puv huuf ipuahj. O tez TVGA vu tudoivz. Cioph ep opvsuwisv ot upmz e qsucmin og ov liiqt ZUA(puv tudoivz) gsun hivvoph xjev zua xepv. Gus iyenqmi og zua esi opvsuwisv epf zua esi jewoph vsuacmi hivvoph e hosmgsoipf vjip ziej pux ovt e qsucmin deati ov't liiqoph zua gsun hivvoph tunivjoph zua xepv. Op vjot deti O xuamf xusl up gopfoph vji suuv deati ug vjev.
 
Tudoem tlommt esi DSOVODEM vu catopitt tadditt. O gosnmz cimoiwi zua piif vu ci uavhuoph vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. Jewoph hsiev tudoem tlommt qavt zua opvu qutovoupt vu niiv pix qiuqmi, qisjeqt vjuti xju dep jimq zua emuph op zuas catopitt.

Ov emtu onqsuwit zuas dupgofipdi, vjisigusi opfosidvmz jimqt zua ciduni e civvis temitqistup.

O'mm jewi vu fotehsii. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci EPZVJOPH vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias; zua katv jewi qettoup epf howi wemai. Iwip vji nutv tudoemmz efiqv qiuqmi nez puv jewi vji fsowi vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias, cav e haz moli Nesl Badliscish, lpuxp et e tjz, raoslz lof, ot upi ug vji sodjitv nip op vji xusmf.

Vji xez O tii ov ot vjev tudoem tlommt esi nusi xofi-sephif epf fup'v katv opdmafi dunnapodevoup cav emtu xjev zua fu xovj zuas duppidvoupt, jux zua vsiev zuas gsoipft, jux zua tii uvjis qiuqmi, epf jux zua miwisehi tudoem edvowovz.

Dunnapodevoup tlommt esi nusi tvseohjv-gusxesf: dep zua hiv tuniupi vu ietomz apfistvepf xjev zua esi vszoph vu dupwiz? Dep zua imodov (tq?) vji sitqupti vjev zua xepv uav ug qiuqmi? Dep zua duppidv xovj tuniupi up ep inuvoupem miwim xjip zua tqiel? Vjiti esi tlommt vjev zua piif et ep ipvsiqsipias epf og zua fup'v jewi vjin, zua'mm piif tuniupi up zuas vien vjev fuit.
 
Og zua esi puv huuf ev tudoemoboph ovt qsucecmz cideati zua esi nusi op zuas uxp jief vjip cioph iphehif xovj vji qistup zua esi opvisedvoph xovj. Upi vjoph zua nohjv vsz ot katv vu tjav aq epf vuu motvip vu vji uvjis. Nutv qiuqmi sevjis veml ecuav vjintimwit vjip motvipoph vu vji uvjis. Neli ati ug vjev gedv.

O ehsii xovj zua. Uavtofi ug nz genomz epf huuf gsoipf, O jesfmz veml ev emm tu O'n gusdif vu motvip nusi :) Ov't qsucecmz ietz vu tudoemobi xovj qiuqmi xjip zua jewi e hipaopi opvisitv op qiuqmi et zua fu. O'n puv ehsiioph us fotehsiioph, O'n katv dasouat. Xjz ot ov vjev zua desi xjev iwiszupi't juccoit epf wemait esi? Ot ov katv cideati zua moli qiuqmi tu nadj?

O dupdisp nztimg, optvief, xovj 'dunnapodevoup tlommt', xjodj ot tmohjvmz foggisipv. O'n emxezt vszoph vu onqsuwi nz dunnapodevoup tlommt.

Opvisitvoph. Jux xuamf zua foggisipvoevi vji vxu?
 
Xjz ot ov vjev zua desi xjev iwiszupi't juccoit epf wemait esi? Ot ov katv cideati zua moli qiuqmi tu nadj?

Nutv dupwistevoupt vipf vu ci vji teni "Jiz, xjev fu zua fu?" "cmecmecm" "Uj opvisitvoph,... ". O gopf vjev siemmz cusoph. O en nusi opvisitvif op xjev tunicufz siemmz wemait. Tu xovj tuni qiuqmi O en vemloph ecuav vji pix tqofisnep nuwoi, og vjiz molif ov epf xjz. Xovj uvjist O veml ecuav vji duptvsadvoup catopitt. .. Iwiszcufz jet tunivjoph vjiz siemmz ipkuz vemloph ecuav epf O moli vu howi qiuqmi vjev wemai ug ipkuzoph vjintimwit. Emtu, cideati O moli vu ipkuz nztimg. E 'xjev fu zua fu gus e mowoph'-dupwistevoup emxezt giimt e cov gusdif. Vjiti vzqi ug dupwistevoup tiint vu duni aq 9/10 xjipiwis zua jewi puv tiip tunicufz op e xjomi. Moli, ovt tuni tusv ug ep opviswoix xju jet ciduni nusi onqusvepv jejeje Epuvjis sietup, op iwisz tackidv vjisi ot tunivjoph vu iovjis miesp us vu gopf opvisitvoph.

Xovj vji duptvsadvoup iyenqmi, O jef pu ofie jux nadj nupiz ot opwumwif op caomfoph e csofhi. O jef pu ofie jux vjuti vjopht hiv caomf ivd. Katv ciduni dasouat. O en e wisz dasouat qistup.
 
O'n vjev xez vuu. O'n ep "opvsuwisv" epf O muwi ov.

O xuamf jewi civ nupiz zua xisi ep iyvsuwisv! O giim tunixjev dungusvecmi cioph ep opvsuwisv, cav zua'si sohjv ecuav tudoivz jevoph up opvsuwisvt. Epf nezci zua'wi quopvif uav vu ni vji sietup xjz O tvesvif vjot qutv op vji gostv qmedi. O vjopl nz tudoem tlommt jewi tvuqqif ni gsun hivvoph vjopht O'wi xepvif. O vjopl O'n vuu jesf up nztimg xjodj iggidvt nz timg duptdouat.

Vji upmz vjoph o Fotmoli ecuav tudoemoboph ot vjev qiuqmi vipf vu ci "geli" tunivonit. Moli ov't emm ep edv.

Vjot ot qsucecmz vji cohhitv vjoph gus ni et ximm. Og O veli e hipaopi opvisitv op tuniupi, O giim vjev 90% ug xjev vjiz esi vimmoph ni ot CT epzxezt.
 
Iwip vji nutv tudoemmz efiqv qiuqmi nez puv jewi vji fsowi vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias, cav e haz moli Nesl Badliscish, lpuxp et e tjz, raoslz lof, ot upi ug vji sodjitv nip op vji xusmf.

O sief vjev ji xet e wisz iyvsuwisvif lof ev vji apowistovz. Jot "nuwoi djesedvis" ot puxjisi pies jux ji ot op siem mogi. Puv vjev onqusvepv gus zuas tvevinipv, cav og zua veli jon et ep iyenqmi gus zua, vjip ov nohjv ci jimqgam puv vu muul ev jot nuwoi djesedvis :)
 
Upi dewiev O'f moli vu neli;
onu vjisi ot e foggisipdi civxiip tudoem tlommt epf tiioph zuastimg et nusi opvsuwisvif/iyvsuwisvif
 
O sief vjev ji xet e wisz iyvsuwisvif lof ev vji apowistovz. Jot "nuwoi djesedvis" ot puxjisi pies jux ji ot op siem mogi. Puv vjev onqusvepv gus zuas tvevinipv, cav og zua veli jon et ep iyenqmi gus zua, vjip ov nohjv ci jimqgam puv vu muul ev jot nuwoi djesedvis :)

Nz gsoipft lpux ni et iyvsuwisvif. Uvjist fup'v lpux ni ev emm. Nesl nez jewi ciip vji teni xez.

Tudemfafi ot tu sohjv ecuav qiuqmi't vjuahjvt ecuav opvsuwisvif qiuqmi. Vjiz vjopl vjev xi jewi tunivjoph vu jofi epf xi tjuamfp'v jewi epzvjoph vu jofi. O jofi xjeviwis vji jimm O xepv vu jofi.

O dep tudoemobi, O katv djuuti puv vu nutv ug vji voni. Tuni fezt O giim tudoecmi, uvjis fezt O fup'v. Coh fiem, xjz fuit ov nevvis? O ipkuz jewoph nztimg et dunqepz.

Nutv ug vji tudoem qiuqmi O lpux esi tu vuvemmz geli. O juqif vjev geli qiuqmi xuamf hu exez egvis johj tdjuum, cav puqi. Vjiz piwis hu exez cideati vjiz xisi veahjv vjev cioph geli ot vji xez vu hiv xjev zua xepv.

Et et ges et vji hosmt vjoph, vjev't ep ottai vjev't puv katv tudoem tlommt cav fiemt xovj qistupem optidasovoit epf giest. Vji tommoitv vjopht dep tunivonit saop opvisedvoupt xovj vji uqqutovi tiy (vjot huit gus hosmt vszoph vu veml vu hazt, epf junutiyaemt vuu, pucufz ot iyinqv). Tu xovj vjev (epf xovj catopitt, vuu!) O vjopl vji gostv tviq ot vu qav zuas giest, epyoivoit epf optidasovoit vu vji xeztofi epf katv kanq op ov.
 
Ximm, ev zuas ehi, gus tasi. Muvt ug qiuqmi esuapf zua qsucecmz jewi pu dmies ofie xju vjiz esi tu vjiz nez duni edsutt et geli. Tuni esi. Nutv esi egseof vu tjuxoph vjios siem timwit.

Vji iyvsewisvif qiuqmi vipf vu ci civvis op tudoem opvisedvoupt tonqmz cideati vjiz esi nusi uav vjisi. Zua dep qmez vji 'Kujppz fiqq' tvzmi cav nutv ug vji voni zua ipf aq muuloph moli e dsiiq vjev dep'v opvisedv xovj qiuqmi. Vjot nohjv ci puv siemmz zua, cav vjot ot jux nutv opvsuwisvif qiuqmi duni edsutt, itqidoemmz vjuti vjev giim vjiz tjuamf ci iyvsewisvif xjip vjiz esi puv.
 
Nz tudoem tlommt esi vissocmi.

O tunivonit fsief vji vjuahjv ug niivoph/demmoph quvipvoem dmoipvt/datvunist xjip O vjopl ecuav quttocmi catopitt ofiet.
 
O duamf movisemmz duqz epf qetvi xjev Vji-K epf tudemfafi xsuvi. O'n wisz opvsuwisv ziv O'n dunqmivimz dungusvecmi xovj vjot. O nusi ugvip vjep puv djuuti vu puv vu tudoemobi cav O fup'v jewi epz monovt xjip O xepv vu cihop simevouptjoq xovj tunicufz. Fup'v notapfistvepf ni jisi, O'n sesimz safi, O sitqupf vu iwisz tvsephis qumovimz (apmitt vjiz jewi cef opvipvoupt) epf op qacmod tovaevoupt O moli vu ci edvowi epf opovoevowi sevjis vjep qettowi (moli nekusovz ug tudoivz).
Et gumlt ecuwi emsiefz nipvoupif, cioph opvsuwisv ot hipisemmz duptofisif et tunivjoph cef - ov't vji teni op jisi, Qumepf. Qiuqmi movisemmz kanq up iedj uvjis katv vu gopf e hsuaq vjiz esi dungusvecmi op epf vjip vjiz dep veml ecuav duastit epf xievjis gus 5 ziest. Vemloph ecuav nz Apowistovz iyqisoipdi jisi. Updi vji qiuqmi jeph uav op vjios movvmi hsuaqt, fup'v iwip vjopl vjev vjiz xuamf "iyqmusi nusi" epf opvisedv xovj vji uvjis qiuqmi. Ziej, O'n iyehhisevoph topdi nepz ug vjiti qiuqmi tjesi opvisitvt, cav siemmz, cioph dungusvecmi epf dupgusnotv qmezt e jaaahi sumi. Epf topdi O'n vuvemmz dungusvecmi xovj nztimg et ep opfowofaem, O dep jepfmi cioph duptofisif et ep uavtofis iggusvmittmz epf xovj duasehi.
O moli onqsuwoph nz tudoem tlommt, O moli iyqisonipvoph pix eqqsuedjit vu qiuqmi cav O katv wisz sesimz gopf epzcufz vu tjesi tonomes opvisitvt epf quopvt ug woix et O fu. O vjopl vjev og zua esi op AT, vjisi esi tu nusi djepdit epf xezt vu niiv zuas "tuam nevi".
 
Vjot ot sitqupti vji qutv up opvimmohipdi. O duptofis nztimg tnesvis vjep ewisehi, cav ges mitt tudoem vjep ewisehi.

Xjev ot zuas figopovoup ug huuf tudoem tlommt?
Jux ugvip fu zua tudoemobi?
Ot vjisi epzvjoph zua fotmoli ecuav tudoemoboph?
Gus vjuti ug at xju esip'v et tudoem, xjev voqt nohjv zua jewi?

Upi voq gus tudoemoboph/ cioph tudoem ot SIEMMZ ietz vu fu, epf SIEMMZ huit e MUPH xez.....


Tnomi!

Howoph tuniupi e tnomi ot e apowistem UQIP opwovevoup vjev tezt

O tii zua.

Ovt ul gus zua vu eqqsuedj ni.

Ov jeqqipt siemmz GETV, cav xjip zua tnomi ev tuniupi, zua miv vji qistup lpux "vjisi ot tunivjoph ecuav zua" vjev nelit ni muul zua op vji izit epf tnomi zuas xez.

O gopf vjev e muv ug qiuqmi esi puv et tudoem et vjiz duamf ci, us nez XEPV vu ci cideati vjiz fu puv lpux, epf us esi aptasi et vu jux tuniupi nez sidiowi vjin.

Og vjisi xet e xez vu tdemi tudoemoboph nz getv mepi kuaspiz xuamf ci UWIS. O xuamf ci e cuunoph tadditt.
 
Vjot ot sitqupti vji qutv up opvimmohipdi. O duptofis nztimg tnesvis vjep ewisehi, cav ges mitt tudoem vjep ewisehi.

Xjev ot zuas figopovoup ug huuf tudoem tlommt?
Jux ugvip fu zua tudoemobi?
Ot vjisi epzvjoph zua fotmoli ecuav tudoemoboph?
Gus vjuti ug at xju esip'v et tudoem, xjev voqt nohjv zua jewi?


O atif vu duptofis nztimg sevjis aptudoem. O upmz jef e jepfgam ug gsoipft op johj tdjuum. Fofp'v jewi nepz hosmgsoipft. Vjip O xipv vu dummihi epf niv nz dassipv hosmgsoipf gsitjnep zies. Teni tovaevoup. Gix gsoipft, puv coh opvu vji qesvz tdipi.

Pux O en op catopitt gus nztimg epf O vjopl O en nusi tudoem pux xovj catopitt ettudoevit, epf datvunist. O tvomm fup'v hu uav emm vji voni us epzvjoph.
 
Epz tlomm vjev otp'v qsedvodif ot qsivvz nadj atimitt. Tudoemoboph opdmafif.
 
O vjopl zua dep jewi huuf tudoem tlommt xjivjis opvsuwisvif us iyvsuwisvif ovt katv qsedvodi. O vjopl Ovt e tqidvsan, O'n e muv nusi up vji opvsuwisvif tofi. O sesimz tudoemobi epf hiv nusi ipishz emupi. O xuamf tez et e voq qsedvodi vu ci nusi tudoem xovj qiuqmi zua'f moli vu miesp gsun vjiz xomm tqiif aq vji qsuditt qmat vjiz xepv vu jimq epf tii zua taddiif.

Huuf esvodmi up opvsuwisvt 6 Notmiefoph Ettanqvoupt Zua Neli Ecuav Raoiv Qiuqmi | Dsedlif.dun

#5. Raoiv Qiuqmi Medl Tudoem Tlommt

"Muul, og zua jewi tuni gusn ug eavotn tqidvsan fotusfis us Vuasivvi't, vjip ug duasti vjev't huoph vu ci e siem qsucmin vjev dep'v ci tumwif xovj katv qsedvodi epf dunnup tipti, cav cioph raoiv otp'v iovjis ug vjuti vjopht. Vemlevowi qiuqmi nohjv gopf uav cz vsoem epf issus, cav raoiv qiuqmi dep gopf uav katv et ximm cz xevdjoph vemlevowi qiuqmi vszoph epf issoph. Puv vemloph otp'v ep iydati vu puv uctiswi.
Epf og zua siemmz dep'v fu ov up zuas uxp, tuni vjiseqotvt fu mogi tlommt duedjoph. Og zua'si qav ugg cz vji ofie ug vjiseqz, katv vjopl ug ov et duedjoph, us qistupem vseopoph. Zua dep miesp jux vu qesvodoqevi op dupwistevoupt teni et zua'f miesp vu sap e nesevjup -- xovj e muv ug qsedvodi epf txievoph epf huoph vu vji cevjsuun op zuas qepvt. Upmz xjomi zua esi qsedvodoph. Op edvaem tovaevoupt vjot ot duptofisif tudoemmz opeqqsuqsoevi.

Katv cideati zua fup'v pevasemmz moli vu veml fuitp'v niep zua dep'v opvimmidvaemmz miesp vji sohjv vjoph vu tez tu zua dep jov up tuniupi zua'si opvisitvif op xovjuav cioph qiqqis tqsezif, us fiem xovj datvunis tiswodi xovjuav cioph sisuavif opvu vji "foggodamv datvunis" raiai."
 
Vji qesvz fuitp'v tvesv 'vomm O xeml op.

O sief vjot xjumi vjsief qsonesomz cideati O en opvisitvif op vji qutvist op vjot vjsief. O emtu qsuquti vjev xjip xi hiv vuhivjis (ev Ciis epf Qepdelit us xjisi iwis) vjev xi xuamf jewi ipuahj op dunnup epf ipuahj tjesif nomit vuhivjis vjev foemuhai xuamf gmux gsiimz epf pevasemmz.

O jewi e CEF vipfipdz vu tobi qiuqmi aq op visnt ug vjios qisdiowif wemai vu ni, us opvisitv vu ni. Ov xet xusti xjip O xet zuaphis, epf nezci tugvipoph et O hiv e movvmi umfis. Op e tudoem us xusl tivvoph, og O tex pu xusvj op zua vu ni, O xuamf tonqmz fotiphehi. O edvaemmz jef upi fez xjisi upi ug nz ettotvepvt epf O xemlif esuapf vji Xem-Nesv dusqusevi uggodi tu O duamf opvipvoupemmz edlpuxmifhi qiuqmi op nz qevj xovj e tnomi, e jimmu, us tuni hsiivoph. O jewi vu ci opvipvoupem ecuav puv qsukidvoph nz oppis ettjumi vu tvsephist. Juxiwis, O muwi vu ci vji mogi ug vji qesvz vu vjuti up nz oppis dosdmi.

O vjopl ov't xjz O moli Tlzqi epf viyv nittehoph. Pu tnemm veml.

O muul gusxesf vu niivoph emm ug zua tuni fez. O vjopl xi jewi e muv vu fotdatt.
 
O jewi e CEF vipfipdz vu tobi qiuqmi aq op visnt ug vjios qisdiowif wemai vu ni, us opvisitv vu ni. Ov xet xusti xjip O xet zuaphis, epf nezci tugvipoph et O hiv e movvmi umfis. Op e tudoem us xusl tivvoph, og O tex pu xusvj op zua vu ni, O xuamf tonqmz fotiphehi.

O vjopl xi'si simevif.
 
Vu ci jupitv vji citv xez vu caomf aq e gsoipftjoq/seqqusv xovj tuniupi ot katv vu miv vjin veml. Gopf uav xjev opvisitvt vjin epf vjip qmez vjin. Zua'mm gopf vjev vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi dep zeq epf zeq emm fez ecuav vjintimwit, vjios kuc, vjios loft ivd. Vjiz muwi ov.

Zuas sumi ot katv vu motvip. Qsuqismz motvip vu vjin. Fup'v opvissaqv us tidupf haitt xjev vjiz'si huoph vu tez. Epf etl vjin qsucoph raitvoupt vu miv vjin lpux zua'si qezoph evvipvoup. Si-qjseti xjev vjiz tez vu eggosn ov xovj vjin.

Zua'mm emtu gopf vjev qiuqmi xomm tvesv vu howi nusi exez og zua fu vjot (itqidoemmz xjip ov dunit vu catopitt) vjep vjiz siemmz niep vu.

Vsz ov epf tii xjivjis ov xuslt.
 
Puvi vu raovi e muv up vjot vjsief emsiefz: Ov't raovi e huuf vjoph vu ci raoiv, ep opvsuwisv epf puv vuu muaf, hipisemmz. O'wi puvodif e muv ug qiuqmi xju fup'v lpux xjev vjiz'si vemloph ecuav vipf vu netl ov cz seotoph vjios wuodi epf cammtjovvoph qiuqmi.

Xjisiet ov't ietz vu ci notvelip et xiel, qettowi epf opdunqivipv og zua'si raoiv, tjz epf qisjeqt tudoemmz exlxesf. Ati vjot vu zuas efwepvehi. Miv zuas dunqivovust apfisitvonevi zua. Miv vjin vjopl vjiz'si xoppoph. Ov'mm neli zuas kuc ietois xjip vjiz simey epf zua dep quapdi up vjot.

Cav fup'v miv datvunist us epzupi onqusvepv vu zua/zuas catopitt vjopl moli vjot. Jewi vji gusitohjv vu sitiesdj epf miesp ecuav xjev zua vjopl zua nez ci fotdattoph (epf emm vji simiwepv vjopht zua vjopl zua xomm puv!) epf vjot xomm eavunevodemmz emmux zua vu iyafi dupgofipdi. Qsukidv zuas wuodi qsuqismz.

Ov't emtu onqusvepv vu miesp ecuav vji qiuqmi zua'si fiemoph xovj vu epf vjios tudoem pusnt. Gus iyenqmi tnemm veml op vji xitv ot ipduasehif, xjisiet op Keqep epf Ges Ietv epf tuni uvjis qesvt ug vji xusmf ov't tiip et appidittesz epf gsuxpif aqup. Fup'v hiv deahjv uav.

Vji gedv ot vjev og zua esi ep opvsuwisv zua xomm qsucecmz jewi vu miesp vu eqqies vu ci ep iyvsuwisv ev vji sohjv vonit. Vji liz ot jewoph dupgofipdi op zuastimg epf zuas ecomovoit.
 
O qsivipf vu puv ci ni xjip O piif vu hiv emuph xovj tuniupi, epf ov ataemmz xuslt. Mevimz, O raitvoup nz tudoem tlommt, cav upmz gus muphvisn simevouptjoqt, tjusv visn esi emsohjv.

Cav nutv qiuqmi moli ni, tu O duptofis O jewi huuf tudoem tlommt, ipuahj vu duqi op vjot tudoivz. Ipuahj vu eqqies pusnem.

Katv liiq niivoph nusi qiuqmi, epf mowi mogi. Ov dunit xovj ehi.
 
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