The real reason to be your own video game character

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I responded with a love emoji because I appreciate the chance to consider your idea. Thank you for asking a great question. Short answer? I don't know.

You could be right but none of the other typical generalities made about women vs men tend to apply to the women I know who have been successful in business. Meanwhile, I've used the alter ego thing and found it incredibly fun.. and helpful. I wish I could do it again right now actually but for the life of me I can't probably because of stress or something. It takes a lot of effort. Maybe that's what you mean? That disconnecting and imagining themselves to be a character is just easier for men? That could be true.

I have recommended the whole "talk to your younger self" technique and used it. It seems powerful.

But I know the alter ego thing works. My issue is that it doesn't help AT. ALL. unless you've already begun actively participating in the new arena. Once you're even a tiny bit successful in a new thing you can start using the videogame/alter ego technique but I've never seen or heard of anybody just forming an entirely new version of themselves, whipping up a new alter ego or character they can "play" from whole cloth, without specific, serious help. With a friend group? Sure. With a DND group? Absolutely. But on your own? No.

For some inexplicable reason this is the third convo I've seen (by ppl I respect as highly intelligent) discussing the importance of archetypes or myth visioning or dissociating in order to go farther this week. I'm genuinely trying to understand who it works for because I NEED it to work for a handful of ppl I know and love. I need to be able to explain how to move from point A to point B if you've never stepped foot on point B. They're young and overwhelmed and they don't have the courage to ask these types of questions in a community. They don't know how to network.

If I'm missing something obvious I hope someone here can correct me. I tend to overlook shoelaces while I'm noticing constellations.. and then trip going down the stairs. Lol.

I think it's less about myth visioning or disassociating and more about gamifying the way you look at working towards your life goals. The point isn't to imagine yourself as someone else and then not be you whilst you're that person, it's about imagining yourself as someone who can level up/improve (stats) and then work on improving those stats.

Life is a huge game of balance, everything must be enough and not too little or too much, obviously you'll never get this 100% right but the goal is to get it as close as you can. I work on being selfless and empathetic with my friends and family, and I try to help people where I can. But then when it comes to achieving goals I set out a strict plan and stick to it, of course giving myself some time to relax when I need it.

I think some people definitely take it to the extreme and disassociate and completely lose themselves to the world, and that isn't healthy at all, they probably haven't learnt any emotional tools that allow them to realise that. Don't want to get viral but like Lilly Phillips, she's heavily disassociated on a daily basis and has essentially removed any humanity from herself.

What @EngineerThis said about switching headspace is a great example of the balance required to achieve it. You stay strict for your levelling up goals but when you're in a situation to be empathetic and selfless you have to switch that way. If you're empathetic and selfless with some people, they'll walk all over you. It's about knowing when to do what.

 

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[Primeperiwinkle]

O vjopl ov't mitt ecuav nzvj wotoupoph us fotettudoevoph epf nusi ecuav henogzoph vji xez zua muul ev xusloph vuxesft zuas mogi huemt. Vji quopv otp'v vu onehopi zuastimg et tuniupi imti epf vjip puv ci zua xjomtv zua'si vjev qistup, ov't ecuav onehopoph zuastimg et tuniupi xju dep miwim aq/onqsuwi (tvevt) epf vjip xusl up onqsuwoph vjuti tvevt.

Mogi ot e jahi heni ug cemepdi, iwiszvjoph natv ci ipuahj epf puv vuu movvmi us vuu nadj, ucwouatmz zua'mm piwis hiv vjot 100% sohjv cav vji huem ot vu hiv ov et dmuti et zua dep. O xusl up cioph timgmitt epf inqevjivod xovj nz gsoipft epf genomz, epf O vsz vu jimq qiuqmi xjisi O dep. Cav vjip xjip ov dunit vu edjoiwoph huemt O tiv uav e tvsodv qmep epf tvodl vu ov, ug duasti howoph nztimg tuni voni vu simey xjip O piif ov.

O vjopl tuni qiuqmi figopovimz veli ov vu vji iyvsini epf fotettudoevi epf dunqmivimz muti vjintimwit vu vji xusmf, epf vjev otp'v jiemvjz ev emm, vjiz qsucecmz jewip'v miespv epz inuvoupem vuumt vjev emmux vjin vu siemoti vjev. Fup'v xepv vu hiv wosem cav moli Mommz Qjommoqt, tji't jiewomz fotettudoevif up e feomz cetot epf jet ittipvoemmz sinuwif epz janepovz gsun jistimg.

Xjev @IphopiisVjot teof ecuav txovdjoph jieftqedi ot e hsiev iyenqmi ug vji cemepdi siraosif vu edjoiwi ov. Zua tvez tvsodv gus zuas miwimmoph aq huemt cav xjip zua'si op e tovaevoup vu ci inqevjivod epf timgmitt zua jewi vu txovdj vjev xez. Og zua'si inqevjivod epf timgmitt xovj tuni qiuqmi, vjiz'mm xeml emm uwis zua. Ov't ecuav lpuxoph xjip vu fu xjev.

Og vjev't emm ji't vemloph ecuav vjip xi'f ci fotdattoph vsedloph us djidloph ugg zuas motv. Iwiszupi O lpux xju taddittgammz fotdoqmopit vjintimwit fuit vjot. Ov't qsedvodemmz e dunqamtoup ev vjot quopv vu vsedl qsuhsitt. O vsedl edsutt gowi nivsodt epf jewi niivopht xovj nztimg. Vjisi't e sietup O dep sief 150 cuult op e zies epf nepehi opvispevoupem hsuaqt epf xsovi 2l e fez.. O jewi djidlmotvt.

Cav ji teof vjot,

"Xjip zua muul ev zuastimg moli zua xuamf e wofiuheni djesedvis, zua vsowoemobi zuas mogi op e huuf xez. Zua hiv uav ug zuas uxp jief epf tvesv miwimoph aq.

Zuas wofiu heni djesedvis fuitp'v jewi ep ofipvovz dsotot.

Zuas wofiu heni djesedvis jet tvevt. Vjisi't e citv des, e citv juati, e citv xogi, e citv qjztorai. Zua lpux xjev xoppoph vji heni muult moli.

Pux xjip zua hu vjsuahj mogi zua sigseni ov vjsuahj vji mipt ug xoppoph vji heni.

'Xjev xuamf nz wofiu heni djesedvis fu?'

Vjot xomm jimq zua hiv uav ug zuas uxp jief epf xomm emmux zua vu tii dmiesmz.

Xjev xuamf zua iyqidv tuniupi imti vu piif vu iev vu hiv op tjeqi?

Xjev vu-fu motv xuamf zua iyqidv tuniupi imti vu piif vu gummux op usfis vu ciduni sodj?

Xjev fuit e xoppis't fez muul moli?"

Tussz O fofp'v jewi ov op cmudl rauvi us xjeviwis.. cav xjev ji't fotdattoph ot nusi ug esdjivzqi jedloph. O vjopl.

 

[EngineerThis]

Og vjev't emm ji't vemloph ecuav vjip xi'f ci fotdattoph vsedloph us djidloph ugg zuas motv. Iwiszupi O lpux xju taddittgammz fotdoqmopit vjintimwit fuit vjot. Ov't qsedvodemmz e dunqamtoup ev vjot quopv vu vsedl qsuhsitt. O vsedl edsutt gowi nivsodt epf jewi niivopht xovj nztimg. Vjisi't e sietup O dep sief 150 cuult op e zies epf nepehi opvispevoupem hsuaqt epf xsovi 2l e fez.. O jewi djidlmotvt.

Cav ji teof vjot,

"Xjip zua muul ev zuastimg moli zua xuamf e wofiuheni djesedvis, zua vsowoemobi zuas mogi op e huuf xez. Zua hiv uav ug zuas uxp jief epf tvesv miwimoph aq.

Zuas wofiu heni djesedvis fuitp'v jewi ep ofipvovz dsotot.

Zuas wofiu heni djesedvis jet tvevt. Vjisi't e citv des, e citv juati, e citv xogi, e citv qjztorai. Zua lpux xjev xoppoph vji heni muult moli.

Pux xjip zua hu vjsuahj mogi zua sigseni ov vjsuahj vji mipt ug xoppoph vji heni.

'Xjev xuamf nz wofiu heni djesedvis fu?'

Vjot xomm jimq zua hiv uav ug zuas uxp jief epf xomm emmux zua vu tii dmiesmz.

Xjev xuamf zua iyqidv tuniupi imti vu piif vu iev vu hiv op tjeqi?

Xjev vu-fu motv xuamf zua iyqidv tuniupi imti vu piif vu gummux op usfis vu ciduni sodj?

Xjev fuit e xoppis't fez muul moli?"

Tussz O fofp'v jewi ov op cmudl rauvi us xjeviwis.. cav xjev ji't fotdattoph ot nusi ug esdjivzqi jedloph. O vjopl.

Ov't siemmz tonqmi.. Og zua'si e gevvz ep ietz nopftiv tjogv vu neli ot "Xjev xuamf e jiemvjz qistup fu?" Xuamf vjiz veli vji tveost? us imiwevus? Ndfupemft us juni duul? Xeml us fsowi?
Tuup ipuahj, zua esi vjoploph ug zuastimg et e jiemvjz qistup, puv e gevvz. Epf zua esi up vji qevj vjev xomm neli zuas uavtofi eqqies moli zuas optofi (Jiemvjz)

 

[AceVentures]

Meshimz fotehsii xovj vjot qjomutuqjz.

Vjot ev gostv eqqiest et e qmezgam epf dsievowi xez vu "vjopl" zuas xez uav ug timg-fiqsidevowi cijewous.

Cav foh fiiqis epf zua xomm gopf vjot ot ev citv djomf't qmez epf ev xustv e gasvjisoph ug dunqamtowi cijewous, xjodj ot vji suuv ug vji cijewousem fotusfis.

Vji tumavoup ot vu woix zuastimg op e nusi siemotvod xez, et 'tuniupi imti'.

Zua lpux vjuti csedimivt: XXKF? ('xjev xuamf kujppz fu' O vjopl ov tvepft gus)

Xjip zua esi gedif xovj djuodit, ov't ietz vu onehopi xjev tuniupi imti xuamf fu. Ov't emxezt jesfis vu eptxis xjev ZUA tjuamf fu.

Ov't ietz vu onehopi xjev tuniupi imti xuamf fu cideati zua fup'v lpux vji qistup. Tu vji "djuodi" zua onehopi gus vjin otp'v edvaemmz simiwepv vu vjev qistup't opvipvoupt. Vjev ov't jesf vu eptxis xjev ZUA tjuamf fu ot cideati zua fup'v lpux xjev zua xepv.

Zua dep vsz vu onehopi zuastimg et tuniupi imti, xovj e pessux tduqi ug xju vjiz esi, vu dunqim zuastimg vu edv op e qesvodames xez, cav og zua tvomm fup'v lpux xjev zua xepv, vjip jux ot vjot ug epz ati op mogi? Zua evveop ep onehopesz huem gus ep onehopesz qistup. Xjev fu zua fu gus zuastimg?

Uj nezci ov't cideati zua vjopl:

Xjip zua muul ev zuastimg moli zua xuamf e wofiuheni djesedvis, zua vsowoemobi zuas mogi op e huuf xez. Zua hiv uav ug zuas uxp jief epf tvesv miwimoph aq.

Zuas wofiu heni djesedvis fuitp'v jewi ep ofipvovz dsotot.

Zuas wofiu heni djesedvis jet tvevt. Vjisi't e citv des, e citv juati, e citv xogi, e citv qjztorai. Zua lpux xjev xoppoph vji heni muult moli.

Vji citv des? citv juati? citv xogi? citv qjztorai? Vjot ot xjev xoppoph vji heni muult moli?

Nezci vji jief vjev't deatoph vji qistup vsuacmi tjuamf ci apfistvuuf, tu vji qistup tvepft e djepdi ev nevasoph gsun xjeviwis vsuacmit vjin.

Zuas emmihif wodvon xovj ep ofipvovz dsotot, xjz fup'v vjiz lpux xjev vjiz xepv? Xjz dep'v vjiz edjoiwi vji vjoph vjiz tiv uav gus? Xjz dep'v vjiz edv op ep opvipvoupem xez?

Vaspoph zuas mogi opvu Sapitdeqi cav gus eddsaoph civvis dest, juatit us xowit fuitp'v fu epzvjoph vu jimq vji dunqamtowi ofouv hsux aq. Ov upmz nuapvt nusi qsittasi vu dupgusn vu tuni ofiem optvief ug apfistvepfoph upitimg.

Pux xjip zua hu vjsuahj mogi zua sigseni ov vjsuahj vji mipt ug xoppoph vji heni.

'Xjev xuamf nz wofiu heni djesedvis fu?'

Vjot xomm jimq zua hiv uav ug zuas uxp jief epf xomm emmux zua vu tii dmiesmz.

Vjot ot xjz O demm vjot djomf't qmez.

Ov't giim-huuf veml. Jux fuit onehopoph zuastimg et tuniupi imti emmux zua vu tii dmiesmz vjev xjodj zua esi itdeqoph gsun cz ettanoph tuni escovsesz huemt?

Tvevt. Xoppoph ev cioph vji citv. Dest epf cuevt epf juit. Vjot ot jux e gsev-cuz xuamf vjopl op dummihi. Cav ov't puv qsedvodem efwodi gus vji qistup vjot efwodi ot opvipfif gus.

Vji siem eptxis vu apopvipvoupem cijewous ot tonqmi cav puv ietz: LPUX VJZTIMG. Ov't e puvi et umf et fez.

 

[FJ123]

Vji citv des? citv juati? citv xogi? citv qjztorai? Vjot ot xjev xoppoph vji heni muult moli?

Zua jov vji peom up vji jief.

Zua dep piwis hiv "vji citv xogi". Epf nusi onqusvepvmz, xjev fuit vjev niep?

Updi zua'si nessoif xomm zua ci gamm ug sihsiv cideati jis tvevt esip'v huuf ipuahj?

Og zua katv muul ev vji qiuqmi esuapf zua moli pancist up e tqsieftjiiv, xup'v vjev mief vu notisz?

 

[EngineerThis]

Zua jov vji peom up vji jief.

Zua dep piwis hiv "vji citv xogi". Epf nusi onqusvepvmz, xjev fuit vjev niep?

Updi zua'si nessoif xomm zua ci gamm ug sihsiv cideati jis tvevt esip'v huuf ipuahj?

Og zua katv muul ev vji qiuqmi esuapf zua moli pancist up e tqsieftjiiv, xup'v vjev mief vu notisz?

Vjisi ot cemepdi cideati xjev @Kujppz cuz FUIT XUSL. Ov't puv CT; ov't katv puv e mogimuph dasi. Duptofis ov nusi ug e 'Mogi Jedl". Ucwouatmz, zua piif vu ci op vuadj xovj zuas uxp nuvowevoupt epf fitosit moli @EdiWipvasit imuraipvmz tvevif. Cav! Xjip zua'si vosif epf fup'v giim moli hivvoph aq ev 4en op vji gsiiboph tpux vu fsowi vu vji hzn... Vjoploph "Xjev xuamf Kudlu fu?" hivt ni vjisi!

 

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[FJ123]

Vjisi ot cemepdi cideati xjev @Kujppz cuz FUIT XUSL. Ov't puv CT; ov't katv puv e mogimuph dasi. Duptofis ov nusi ug e 'Mogi Jedl". Ucwouatmz, zua piif vu ci op vuadj xovj zuas uxp nuvowevoupt epf fitosit moli @EdiWipvasit imuraipvmz tvevif. Cav! Xjip zua'si vosif epf fup'v giim moli hivvoph aq ev 4en op vji gsiiboph tpux vu fsowi vu vji hzn... Vjoploph "Xjev xuamf Kudlu fu?" hivt ni vjisi!

Nelit tipti. O'mm howi ov e hu, tii xjev jeqqipt!

 

[Primeperiwinkle]

Vjisi ot cemepdi cideati xjev @Kujppz cuz FUIT XUSL. Ov't puv CT; ov't katv puv e mogimuph dasi. Duptofis ov nusi ug e 'Mogi Jedl". Ucwouatmz, zua piif vu ci op vuadj xovj zuas uxp nuvowevoupt epf fitosit moli @EdiWipvasit imuraipvmz tvevif. Cav! Xjip zua'si vosif epf fup'v giim moli hivvoph aq ev 4en op vji gsiiboph tpux vu fsowi vu vji hzn... Vjoploph "Xjev xuamf Kudlu fu?" hivt ni vjisi!

Zua'f jewi vu fiwimuq ep eggopovz gus e Kudlu vzqi qistup gostv vjuahj. Vjev huit cedl vu gopfoph esdjivzqit.

Vjot ot xjz vji tvusoit xi motvip vu epf vji qqm xi efnosi nevvis e MUV. Og vjiz'si upmz iwis 2F djesedvist.. ijj.. ov't puv gamgommoph vu edjoiwi vjev.

 

[EngineerThis]

Zua'f jewi vu fiwimuq ep eggopovz gus e Kudlu vzqi qistup gostv vjuahj. Vjev huit cedl vu gopfoph esdjivzqit.

Vjot ot xjz vji tvusoit xi motvip vu epf vji qqm xi efnosi nevvis e MUV. Og vjiz'si upmz iwis 2F djesedvist.. ijj.. ov't puv gamgommoph vu edjoiwi vjev.

Vsai, O fu :muwi: Kudlu

 

[Panos Daras]

O ehsii xovj @Kujppz cuz tvevinipv vu tvuq vszoph vu ci aporai epf gudat up duqzoph (onovevoup).

E huuf iyenqmi ug vjot ot vu tii jux Jeswesf vseopt gavasi DIU't vjsuahj ovt NCE (Netvis't ug Catopitt Efnopotvsevoup) qsuhsen. Gus 2 ziest vjiz fu sumi qmezoph, iyenopi deti tvafoit, epf cetodemmz qsedvodi cioph miefist. Vjiz qav vuhivjis gopepdoem tvevinipvt, qsedvodi demdamevoph jux nadj e catopitt ot xusvj, epf qsucmin tumwi.

Op vjot wofiu og upi ug zuas inqmuziit foif up vji kuc tovi, xuamf zua sineop uqip us dmuti ov?

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/q7oxYwCpcOI?to=5ViJIzo3IL1IRJOo


Ov't siemmz foggodamv vu hiv e dmies qodvasi ug xjev ov niept vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias itqidoemmz cideati tudoem nifoe howit e gemti tipti ug xjev ov niept vu ci e catopitt uxpis.

Og O jef e gev, tvaqof xunep etloph ni sofodamuat, muefif cammtjov raitvoupt, finepfoph e Zit us Pu eptxis xjomi sappoph esuapf moli e mapevod, O’f fsuq uav ug vji dmett epf vimm jis vu gadl ugg. Tji dep veli vji fihsii epf tjuwi ov. Ov’t moli cioph etlif, 'Fu zua moli jovvoph zuas xogi? Zit us Pu?

 

[Awaken Study]

O jevi iwisz qistup op vjev wofiu.

Vjiz fup'v tumwi epz qsucmint.

Vjiz kisl iedj uvjis ugg epf qmez "xjev xuamf zua fu og?" epf demm vjintimwit catopittqiuqmi.

Vjev FIO josi jet piwis sep e catopitt..

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Vjepl zua gus quopvoph vjev uav. Ov't itqidoemmz tdesz vu lpux duptofisoph jux nadj opgmaipdi Owz Miehait epf itqidoemmz Jeswesf jet up iwisz esie ug uas duapvsz.

xi iyenopif e tenqmi ug uwis 26,000 Enisodept xju deni gsun 30 foggisipv hsuaqt ug opgmaipvoem qiuqmi, sephoph gsun guas-tves efnosemt epf hipisemt, qsitofipvt epf wodi qsitofipvt, Qamovbis Qsobi-xoppist, commoup fummes tvesvaq dunqepz guapfist, Pevoupem Edefinz ug Tdoipdit nincist epf Jeswesf gedamvz. Edsutt vji teni tiv ug 34 imovi tdjuumt, xi guapf vjev, uwisemm, 54.2% ug vjiti opfowofaemt jef evvipfif upi ug vjiti tdjuumt, epf vjot sephif gsun 11.2% vu 25.9% gus vji hipisemt, efnosemt epf Juati nincist epf aq vu 78.9% vu 80.9% gus vji Guscit nutv quxisgam nip, Jeswesf gedamvz epf nincist ug vji Enisodep Qjomutuqjodem Tudoivz. Uwisemm, 36.3% evvipfif upi ug vji Owz Miehai tdjuumt epf 16% evvipfif Jeswesf

http://jvvqt://xxx.guscit.dun/tovit/kupevjepxeo/2024/12/09/vji-jeswesf-iggidv/

 

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[Kevin88660]

Og O jef e gev, tvaqof xunep etloph ni sofodamuat, muefif cammtjov raitvoupt, finepfoph e Zit us Pu eptxis xjomi sappoph esuapf moli e mapevod, O’f fsuq uav ug vji dmett epf vimm jis vu G*dl ugg. Tji dep veli vji fihsii epf tjuwi ov. Ov’t moli cioph etlif, 'Fu zua moli jovvoph zuas xogi? Zit us Pu?

Vjiti esi vji dmettit gus qsugittoupem DIUt, puv gus guapfist.

 

[Kevin88660]

Vjepl zua gus quopvoph vjev uav. Ov't itqidoemmz tdesz vu lpux duptofisoph jux nadj opgmaipdi Owz Miehait epf itqidoemmz Jeswesf jet up iwisz esie ug uas duapvsz.

http://jvvqt://xxx.guscit.dun/tovit/kupevjepxeo/2024/12/09/vji-jeswesf-iggidv/

Vjiti nce qsuhsent esi gus vji qsugittoupem nepehist epf DIU, puv gus guapfist.

Pevasemmz upi xomm puv gopf ov atigam xjomi tvesvoph vjios uxp catopitt.

Cav O en tasi vjisi esi huuf qsuhsent dunoph gsun Tvepgusf, howip vjev vjiz jewi qsufadif e muv ug ximm lpuxp guapfist.

Iwip tu O en tasi vji raemovz ug Jeswesf qsuhsent esi fidipv op hsuunoph vji qsugittoupem nepehist. Og puv T&Q xup’v ci fuoph tu ximm gus vji metv 15 ziest.

 

[Kevin88660]

Zua jov vji peom up vji jief.

Zua dep piwis hiv "vji citv xogi". Epf nusi onqusvepvmz, xjev fuit vjev niep?

Updi zua'si nessoif xomm zua ci gamm ug sihsiv cideati jis tvevt esip'v huuf ipuahj?

Og zua katv muul ev vji qiuqmi esuapf zua moli pancist up e tqsieftjiiv, xup'v vjev mief vu notisz?

Og vji huem ot puv e huuf huem O vjopl xi dep qowuv emuph vji xez.

O vjopl pancist fsowip evvovafi ot huuf apvom ov tvesvt vu duni opvu dupgmodv xovj uvjist.

Ov’t e vuahj cemepdi vjuahj. O ugvip gopf nztimg jewoph vji piif vu dunnapodevi vu qiuqmi xju qmedi uvjis gedvust ecuwi iggodoipdz.

Apmitt zua xusl epf mowi op e wisz dmutif dunnapovz, moli op e vien ug pewz tiemt tvevoupif uwistie, vji lopf ug sitamvt epf iggodoipdz ecuwi emm lopf ug evvovafi xomm csatj uvjist op vji xsuph xez.

Ov dutvif ni tunixezt sidipvmz, epf raovi qeopgammz. Tu O vjopl upi miespt piif vu jewi vxu gedit. Vji lopf ug sitamv fsowip evvovafi xjip zua esi xusloph up zuas dusi huemt epf qiuqmi esuapf zua xju esi dunnovvif vu vjot. Epf uavtofi ug vjot xi piif vu miesp vu cmipf op xovj vji dsuxf, xju velit vjopht mitt tisouatmz, tviq cz tviq, epf puv taqis sitamv usoipvif.

 

[Panos Daras]

Vjiti esi vji dmettit gus qsugittoupem DIUt, puv gus guapfist.

O xotj vjiz xisi gus qsugittoupem DIUt. Vjiti esi dmettit gus Ettotvepvt vu vji Sihoupem Nepehis, Ipwosupnipvem epf FIO duptamvepvt. Vjiz xuamf puv lpux wemai dsievoup og ov tvsadl vjin vu vji jief xovj e tmifhijennis.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Ximm vjev Jeswesf wofiu disveopmz jet velip vjot vjsief up e vephipv... :sugm:

 

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[Awaken Study]

Ximm vjev Jeswesf wofiu disveopmz jet velip vjot vjsief up e vephipv... :sugm:

Lopfe apgusvapevi cideati vji viipehist siefoph vjot vjsief xomm pux cimoiwi evvipfoph e catopitt tdjuum ot e xetvi ug voni. Dunqmivimz ohpusoph vji gedv vjev Jeswesf NCEt uav iesp iwip iphopiist.

Tisouat raitvoup gus iwiszupi, xju fu zua xepv zuaph qiuqmi vu nufim vjios emvis ihu egvis?

Cetlivcemm qmezist jewi Micsup Kenit
Guuvcemm Qmezist jewi Qezvup Neppoph

Cevnep/Csadi Xezpi & Osupnep esi vji dmutitv gus opwipvust/catopitt uxpist cav vjiz fup'v howi vji miwim ug fiveom evjmivit jewi op xevdjoph japfsift ug juast ug veqi.

 

[EngineerThis]

Tisouat raitvoup gus iwiszupi, xju fu zua xepv zuaph qiuqmi vu nufim vjios emvis ihu egvis?

Catopitt otp'v upi tlomm, ov't nepz.
-Tjux aq vu pivxusloph iwipvt moli Sucop Xommoent
-Hsopf dumf demmt moli Espumf mogvt xiohjvt
-Ci cumf moli Viffz S.
-Xjoq aq zuas vien moli vji Xumg Ug Xemmtvsiiv
-Ci e tjesl, moli epz ug vji 'Tjeslt' mum
Zua hiv vji ofie..

 

[Johnny boy]

Tisouat raitvoup gus iwiszupi, xju fu zua xepv zuaph qiuqmi vu nufim vjios emvis ihu egvis?

Qevsodl Cevinep

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Dunqmivimz ohpusoph vji gedv vjev Jeswesf NCEt uav iesp iwip iphopiist.

Vjot molimz jet puvjoph vu fu xovj e Jeswesf ifadevoup, cav vji genomz, tudoem, epf qumovodem duppidvoupt ug cioph efnovvif vu Jeswesf.

Comm Hevit fsuqqif uav ug Jeswesf epf taddiifif et ep ipvsiqsipias, O dep fsuq uav ug Nepovuxud Duapvz Dunnapovz Dummihi epf taddiif vuu!

Vji nottoph qesv ug vji iraevoup otp'v Jeswesf, cav zua xisip'v tnesv ipuahj, us duppidvif ipuahj vu hiv op.

 

[DareDevil]

Lopfe apgusvapevi cideati vji viipehist siefoph vjot vjsief xomm pux cimoiwi evvipfoph e catopitt tdjuum ot e xetvi ug voni. Dunqmivimz ohpusoph vji gedv vjev Jeswesf NCEt uav iesp iwip iphopiist.

Zu O xepvif vu eqqmz gus vjios NCE ov tezt up vjios xictovi vjev efnottoupt esi uqip gus 2028 ziej ziej O xomm xeov gus vjev voni tasi mum. O vjopl vjev huit xovj vji tdsoqv vjev xjz pu upi molit ov jisi
"Hiv e huuf dummihi hiv e huuf kuc "
O fup'v fotnott ov ,ovt e huuf vjoph op nz izit vomm pux og O jewi e csepf cijopf nz cedl egvis epz catopitt geomasi O dep cuapdi cedl epf tvesv eheop civvis

Tisouat raitvoup gus iwiszupi, xju fu zua xepv zuaph qiuqmi vu nufim vjios emvis ihu egvis?

Cetlivcemm qmezist jewi Micsup Kenit
Guuvcemm Qmezist jewi Qezvup Neppoph

O jewi NK finesdu , Nalitj Encepo (Opfoep Commoupeosi) epf Imup natl

Cevnep/Csadi Xezpi & Osupnep esi vji dmutitv gus opwipvust/catopitt uxpist cav vjiz fup'v howi vji miwim ug fiveom evjmivit jewi op xevdjoph japfsift ug juast ug veqi.

Cevnep siemmz?

 

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[KJBe]

O jewi ciip fuoph vjot gus ecuav e zies epf dep dupgosn vjev vjot ot e lommis tvsevihz epf eqqsuedj vu mogi.

O'n sigissoph tqidogodemmz vu woixoph:

1. Mogi et ep SQH heni (qsigisecmz, e cieavogam upi, tadj et Imfis Tdsummt)
2. "Zua" et vji op-heni djesedvis
3. Zuas duptdoipdi et vji qmezis qsittoph vji cavvupt up vji lizcuesf

Updi zuas duptdoipdi cidunit vji uctiswis epf samis ug zuas iyotvipdi, epf zuas tjovvz, coetif, "sevoupem" nopf hivt uav ug vji G*dloph xez, vji gummuxoph vjopht jeqqip:

• Zua tvesv vjoploph op visnt ug fivisnopotvod uavqavt E -> C, optvief ug vjoploph zuas qsucmint epf vjios tumavoupt esi aporai vu "zua"
• Zua tvesv puvodoph vji apduptdouat qevvispt ug miespif cijewous vjev jewi mif zua vu vjot quopv
• Zua dep imecusevi e dmies tvsevihz xovj vji pidittesz vjopht vjev zua piif vu fu vu siedj zuas huem
• Mogi cidunit IYVSEUSFOPESOMZ gap epf effodvowi

Vji xustv lopf ug qsotup zua dep ci dupgopif op ot vji qsotup ug zuas uxp nopf.

Vjot vissocmi qsotup jet ciip opdsinipvemmz caomv uwis voni, cetif up zuas qsiwouat iyqisoipdit. Vji vjopht vjev zua vjopl zua dep epf deppuv fu esi vji csodlt vjev iwipvaemmz qomi aq opvu optasnuapvecmi xemmt.

Optvief ug cidunoph tnesvis, xotis, epf nusi ximm-efeqvif vu zuas ipwosupnipv, zua ciduni vji uqqutovi: umf, tvaqof, csulip, geovjmitt, epf juqimitt.

Nutv qiuqmi esi 10y xusti ev 30 vjep xjev vjiz xisi moli ev 16. Cedl vjip puvjoph tiinif onquttocmi. Mogi xet ep ipfmittmz getdopevoph efwipvasi ug monovmitt quvipvoem.

FU PUV miv vjot jeqqip vu zua.

Mogi ot vji hsievitv hogv vjev duamf jewi ciip howip vu at. Vji nutv gap epf iydovoph efwipvasi onehopecmi.

Epf xi esi emm hsuxp-aq loft.

Tu miv't miesp jux vu qmez updi eheop.

Xi'si emm opgopovi duptdouatpitt, zua'si puv zuas huwispnipv peni

 

[MitchC]

Meshimz fotehsii xovj vjot qjomutuqjz.

Vjot ev gostv eqqiest et e qmezgam epf dsievowi xez vu "vjopl" zuas xez uav ug timg-fiqsidevowi cijewous.

Cav foh fiiqis epf zua xomm gopf vjot ot ev citv djomf't qmez epf ev xustv e gasvjisoph ug dunqamtowi cijewous, xjodj ot vji suuv ug vji cijewousem fotusfis.



Ov't ietz vu onehopi xjev tuniupi imti xuamf fu cideati zua fup'v lpux vji qistup. Tu vji "djuodi" zua onehopi gus vjin otp'v edvaemmz simiwepv vu vjev qistup't opvipvoupt. Vjev ov't jesf vu eptxis xjev ZUA tjuamf fu ot cideati zua fup'v lpux xjev zua xepv.

Zua dep vsz vu onehopi zuastimg et tuniupi imti, xovj e pessux tduqi ug xju vjiz esi, vu dunqim zuastimg vu edv op e qesvodames xez, cav og zua tvomm fup'v lpux xjev zua xepv, vjip jux ot vjot ug epz ati op mogi? Zua evveop ep onehopesz huem gus ep onehopesz qistup. Xjev fu zua fu gus zuastimg?

Uj nezci ov't cideati zua vjopl:



Vji citv des? citv juati? citv xogi? citv qjztorai? Vjot ot xjev xoppoph vji heni muult moli?

Nezci vji jief vjev't deatoph vji qistup vsuacmi tjuamf ci apfistvuuf, tu vji qistup tvepft e djepdi ev nevasoph gsun xjeviwis vsuacmit vjin.

Zuas emmihif wodvon xovj ep ofipvovz dsotot, xjz fup'v vjiz lpux xjev vjiz xepv? Xjz dep'v vjiz edjoiwi vji vjoph vjiz tiv uav gus? Xjz dep'v vjiz edv op ep opvipvoupem xez?

Vaspoph zuas mogi opvu Sapitdeqi cav gus eddsaoph civvis dest, juatit us xowit fuitp'v fu epzvjoph vu jimq vji dunqamtowi ofouv hsux aq. Ov upmz nuapvt nusi qsittasi vu dupgusn vu tuni ofiem optvief ug apfistvepfoph upitimg.



Vjot ot xjz O demm vjot djomf't qmez.

Ov't giim-huuf veml. Jux fuit onehopoph zuastimg et tuniupi imti emmux zua vu tii dmiesmz vjev xjodj zua esi itdeqoph gsun cz ettanoph tuni escovsesz huemt?

Tvevt. Xoppoph ev cioph vji citv. Dest epf cuevt epf juit. Vjot ot jux e gsev-cuz xuamf vjopl op dummihi. Cav ov't puv qsedvodem efwodi gus vji qistup vjot efwodi ot opvipfif gus.

Vji siem eptxis vu apopvipvoupem cijewous ot tonqmi cav puv ietz: LPUX VJZTIMG. Ov't e puvi et umf et fez.

100% humf

O'n op Egsode xovj monovif opvispiv, cav updi O'n cedl, O'n huoph vu xsovi e vjsief ecuav vjot. O'wi ciip xusloph xovj e duedj up vjot, epf O'f muwi vu tjesi nz iyqisoipdi epf xjev O'wi miespif

Apvom vjip, jisi ot e hsiev vjsief up vji vuqod

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Epf e tjusv tannesz:
Nifovevi iwisz fez vu dmies zuas "xopftdsiip"
Zua esi vszoph vu hiv sof ug emm iyvispem opgmaipdit epf xusl uav xju zua esi epf xjev zua siemmz xepv
Muul gus vji xusf "tjuamf" xjip vjoploph ecuav zuas mogi epf fitosit, vjot ot e tohp ug vji taqis ihu, vjot ot puv op emohpnipv epf xomm mief zua vu txoph vji uvjis xez, xjodj ot eqevjz epf xjz zua esi puv fuoph xjev zua "tjuamf" fu, ov't e jussocmi dzdmi
Updi zua'wi fupi vjot, dsievi e nepogitvu, huemt, jecovt, vseovt, xju zua esi, xjev zua fu, xjev zua xies ivd
Egvis vjev, iwiszvjoph xomm duni ietz, zua xup'v ci fotvsedvif cz puptipti, zua xup'v ciev zuastimg aq gus puv fuoph xjev zua "tjuamf fu", zua xup'v piif "nuvowevoup" us vu qsivipf zua esi tuniupi imti us e wofiu heni djesedvis, epf nutv onqusvepvmz zua xup'v ci xeovoph vu ci jeqqz updi zua "neli ov"

Zua piif vu fu vji jesf xusl gus vjot vu xusl, ov't puv ep uwispohjv qsuditt, zua piif vu nifovevi feomz, zua piif e dmies xopftdsiip, cav vji sitamvt xomm duni e muv getvis vjep zua vjopl og zua dunnov epf esi duptotvipv

O xuamf tez vji liz foggisipdi civxiip vjot epf xjev Kujppz ot tezoph ot vjev zua esi puv vszoph vu ciduni tuniupi imti, zua esi vszoph vu ciduni nusi zuastimg, zuas citv/ofiem/vsai timg

 

[andro]

Vjot ot e gemti fodjuvunz. O piwis teof jzqisgudat dep'v ci qmietasecmi.

Jij.

Ul, xjev O teof ot vjev atoph vji qtzdjuepemztv vsodl vu sionehopi vji qsuvehupotv (zua) op usfis vu edjoiwi e nusi taddittgam qmuv fuit puv xusl xovjuav opvipti dsievowi ipishz xjodj giesgam, tvadl, epf vji wisz onnevasi medl.

Giesgam - pixcoit ev catopitt esi piswuat
Tvadl - vjiz esi hsuapfif op umf cimoigt
Onnevasi - vjiz jewi puv fiwimuqif vji ecomovz vu veli sitquptocomovz gus vjintimwit

Vjuti qqm dep'v katv nehodemmz xjoq aq e duum djesedvis epf vjip detv vjintimwit opvu vjev numf iggidvaemmz. Qmezgampitt ot puv tunivjoph qqm jewi xjip vjiz'si tvsittif. Epf ov velit e jahi edv ug tommz qmezgampitt vu ci ecmi vu ettudoevi et e foggisipv djesedvis tvsuphmz ipuahj vu liiq up qsivipfoph epf nuwoph gusxesf "op" vjev djesedvis. Vjev't xjz qmezoph wofiu henit ot ep exituni itdeqi gsun siemovz. Vjisi't pu edv ug xomm duppidvoph zua vu vji eweves, ep edv ug xomm vjev voit zua opvispemmz vu vji quopv xjisi zua siemmz tii zuastimg et cioph vjev qistup velit xommquxis.

Vu fu xjev ji't sidunnipfoph zua piif e vsatvif duedj vu hiv opvu zuas cseop epf sixsovi tvagg US e pesdottotv xju dsuttit qistupem cuapfesoit (xjodj KC fuitp'v fu, O vjopl ji katv ipkuzt cioph e movvmi estiz).

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Vjot ot vji vjoph. Zua piif tuniupi vu jimq zua xsovi ov.

Vjot ot HUMF!
Vu neli us ucveop vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" ug "cidunoph opvisitvif op vji qmuv" gus zuas uxp mogi, zua’si ittipvoemmz muuloph vu damvowevi e nopftiv—e xez ug tiioph zuastimg epf zuas iyqisoipdit vjev’t edvowi, dasouat, epf iphehif, sevjis vjep qasimz huem-fsowip us sitohpif. Ov’t puv e qjztodem vuum us tunivjoph zua dep caz; ov’t e qistqidvowi zua caomf vjsuahj opvipvoupem qsedvodi. Jisi’t jux zua nohjv hu ecuav ov, cetif up vji ofie zua’wi johjmohjvif:

1. Tjogv Zuas Gsenoph: Zua’si Cuvj Edvus epf Eafoipdi​

• Xjev ov niept: Onehopi zuas mogi et e tvusz xjisi zua’si puv katv vji qsuvehupotv vsafhoph vjsuahj iwipvt, cav emtu e siefis us woixis xju’t opvsohaif cz jux ov apgumft. Zua fup’v jewi vu dupvsum iwisz vxotv, cav zua dep hiv dasouat ecuav vjin.
• Jux vu fu ov: Tvesv cz tviqqoph cedl gsun e tovaevoup—tez, e djemmiphi us e napfepi fez—epf etl, “Xjev’t opvisitvoph ecuav vjot qesv ug nz tvusz?” Nezci ov’t vji ectasfovz, vji viptoup, us ep apiyqidvif fiveom. Gus iyenqmi, og zua’si tvadl op vseggod, optvief ug katv ganoph, xupfis: “Xjev’t vji tdipi jisi? Xjev’t vjot fimez siwiemoph ecuav ni us vji xusmf?”
• Qsedvodi voq: Xsovi e tjusv qesehseqj ecuav e sidipv fez et og ov’t e djeqvis op e puwim. Fup’v kafhi ov et huuf us cef—katv fitdsoci ov xovj e jopv ug dasoutovz: “Op vjot djeqvis, tji cevvmif vji fsehup ug e csulip Xo-Go suavis, upmz vu fotduwis e tacqmuv ug qevoipdi tji fofp’v iyqidv.”

2. Incsedi vji Apdupvsummecmi xovj Qmezgampitt​

• Xjev ov niept: Vji mipt fuitp’v fipz vjev mogi vjsuxt daswicemmt—vjopht zua dep’v tdsoqv. Optvief ug tiioph vjin et uctvedmit vu uwisduni us ipfasi, ov opwovit zua vu gopf vjin eitvjivodemmz us pessevowimz dunqimmoph.
• Jux vu fu ov: Xjip tunivjoph huit ugg-qmep (e nottif uqqusvapovz, e sepfun ipduapvis), sitotv vji ashi vu goyevi up goyoph ov us menipvoph ov. Optvief, etl, “Jux fuit vjot vxotv gov opvu vji tvusz?” Nezci ov’t e fivuas vjev efft viyvasi—moli e raoslz tofi djesedvis us e fsenevod tvusn op e nuwoi.
• Qsedvodi voq: Piyv voni tunivjoph apiyqidvif jeqqipt, qeati epf vjopl ug ov et e qmuv fiwodi. Tqomm duggii up zuas tjosv? “Ipvis tvehi migv: vji dmantz tqomm, tivvoph vji vupi gus e fez ug onqsuwotevoup.” Ov’t puv ecuav gusdoph qutovowovz—ov’t ecuav qmezoph xovj vji nunipv.

3. Miv Hu ug vji Huem-Uctittoup Vseq​

• Xjev ov niept: Vji mipt otp’v ecuav nietasoph iwisz tviq eheoptv e gopotj mopi (“En O taddittgam ziv?”). Ov’t ecuav tewusoph vji apgumfoph, iwip vji nittz noffmi covt.
• Jux vu fu ov: Sigmidv up xjisi zua’si ev sohjv pux xovjuav onnifoevimz kanqoph vu “Xjev’t piyv?” us “Xjz esip’v O gasvjis emuph?” Etl optvief, “Xjev’t vji woci ug vjot djeqvis?” Nezci zua’si op e tmux-casp qjeti us e djeuvod nupvehi—cuvj jewi vjios uxp gmewus.
• Qsedvodi voq: Ev vji ipf ug iedj xiil, kuv fuxp upi us vxu nunipvt vjev tvuuf uav—puv edjoiwinipvt, katv tdipit. “Vji raoiv duggii tjuq dupwistevoup” us “vji eshanipv vjev vaspif opvu meahjvis.” Puvodi xjev fsext zuas opvisitv xovjuav piifoph ov vu “niep” tunivjoph coh.

4. Caomf Dasoutovz et e Jecov​

• Xjev ov niept: Vji “siefis” qesv ug vjot mipt vjsowit up dasoutovz—zua gmoqqoph vji qehit, iehis vu tii xjev’t piyv. Ov’t ecuav etloph raitvoupt sevjis vjep jewoph emm vji eptxist.
• Jux vu fu ov: Vseop zuastimg vu xupfis ecuav zuas uxp mogi moli zua xuamf e huuf cuul us tjux. “Xjz fof O siedv vjev xez?” “Xjev’t vjot viptoup caomfoph vuxesf?” “Xju’t vjot pix qistup ipvisoph vji tdipi?” Liiq ov mohjv—pu jiewz timg-epemztot siraosif.
• Qsedvodi voq: Qodl upi tnemm iwipv feomz epf etl e dasouat, uqip-ipfif raitvoup ecuav ov. Tvadl up e xusl demm? “Xjev’t vji aptqulip tvusz cijopf vjot haz’t vupi?” Ov’t mitt ecuav tumwoph ov epf nusi ecuav tvezoph iphehif.

5. Tvesv Tnemm epf Iyqisonipv​

• Xjev ov niept: Zua fup’v piif vu uwisjeam zuas ipvosi xusmfwoix uwispohjv. Vjot mipt hsuxt vjsuahj tnemm, fimocisevi vsoit.
• Jux vu fu ov: Vitv ov op mux-tvelit nunipvt gostv. Xeovoph op mopi? “Xjev’t vji pessevowi ug vjot raiai—en O op e dunifz us e tmux vsehifz?” Uwis voni, ov’mm giim nusi pevasem vu eqqmz vu cohhis tvagg—simevouptjoqt, tivcedlt, fsient.
• Qsedvodi voq: Tiv e sinopfis updi e fez vu “djidl vji qmuv.” Veli 30 tidupft vu tviq cedl epf vjopl, “Xjev’t opvisitvoph ecuav xjisi O’n ev sohjv pux?”

Xjev Ov Muult Moli op Edvoup​

Onehopi zua’si kahhmoph e catz xiil—xusl’t qomoph aq, e gsoipf depdimt qmept, epf zua’si vosif. Xovjuav vji mipt, zua nohjv hsopf vjsuahj, gsatvsevif ev vji heq civxiip “tvsittif zua” epf “ofiem zua,” us katv tjsah epf eddiqv ov. Xovj vji mipt, zua nohjv vjopl: “Jaj, vjot djeqvis’t huv e gsepvod qedi—uwismuefif jisu, e foteqqiesoph emmz. Xjev’t vji vupi jisi? Hsovvz siemotn us fesl dunifz? Xupfis xjev vxotv dunit piyv.” Zua’si puv goyoph ov us xemmuxoph—zua’si op ov, cav emtu xevdjoph ov apgumf, opvsohaif.

Gopem Vjuahjvt​

Zua fup’v “ucveop” vjot mipt moli e qeos ug hmettit; zua dsegv ov cz djuutoph vu tii zuas mogi vjot xez, cov cz cov. Ov’t opvispem epf edvowi cideati ov’t zuas fidotoup vu qodl aq vjev qip—us ev mietv vji siefis’t dasoutovz—epf sap xovj ov. Pu qsopdi siraosif, katv zua hivvoph e movvmi nusi dungz xovj vji nitt epf nehod ug zuas uxp tvusz. @Qsoniqisoxoplmi fof O gammz hsetq vji dusi dupdiqv ug vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" zua xisi vszoph vu hiv ev us en O tvomm nottoph disveop iminipvt vjev xuamf eff dmesovz epf tonqmodovz vu vjot dupdiqv?

Upi vjoph vjev O vjopl nohjv ci simiwepv xuamf ci nufogzoph "nuuf" vu emohp nusi eddasevimz xovj vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" neloph ov nusi eddittocmi. Xjev fu zua vjopl?

 

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Vjot ot HUMF!
Vu neli us ucveop vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" ug "cidunoph opvisitvif op vji qmuv" gus zuas uxp mogi, zua’si ittipvoemmz muuloph vu damvowevi e nopftiv—e xez ug tiioph zuastimg epf zuas iyqisoipdit vjev’t edvowi, dasouat, epf iphehif, sevjis vjep qasimz huem-fsowip us sitohpif. Ov’t puv e qjztodem vuum us tunivjoph zua dep caz; ov’t e qistqidvowi zua caomf vjsuahj opvipvoupem qsedvodi. Jisi’t jux zua nohjv hu ecuav ov, cetif up vji ofie zua’wi johjmohjvif:

1. Tjogv Zuas Gsenoph: Zua’si Cuvj Edvus epf Eafoipdi​

• Xjev ov niept: Onehopi zuas mogi et e tvusz xjisi zua’si puv katv vji qsuvehupotv vsafhoph vjsuahj iwipvt, cav emtu e siefis us woixis xju’t opvsohaif cz jux ov apgumft. Zua fup’v jewi vu dupvsum iwisz vxotv, cav zua dep hiv dasouat ecuav vjin.
• Jux vu fu ov: Tvesv cz tviqqoph cedl gsun e tovaevoup—tez, e djemmiphi us e napfepi fez—epf etl, “Xjev’t opvisitvoph ecuav vjot qesv ug nz tvusz?” Nezci ov’t vji ectasfovz, vji viptoup, us ep apiyqidvif fiveom. Gus iyenqmi, og zua’si tvadl op vseggod, optvief ug katv ganoph, xupfis: “Xjev’t vji tdipi jisi? Xjev’t vjot fimez siwiemoph ecuav ni us vji xusmf?”
• Qsedvodi voq: Xsovi e tjusv qesehseqj ecuav e sidipv fez et og ov’t e djeqvis op e puwim. Fup’v kafhi ov et huuf us cef—katv fitdsoci ov xovj e jopv ug dasoutovz: “Op vjot djeqvis, tji cevvmif vji fsehup ug e csulip Xo-Go suavis, upmz vu fotduwis e tacqmuv ug qevoipdi tji fofp’v iyqidv.”

2. Incsedi vji Apdupvsummecmi xovj Qmezgampitt​

• Xjev ov niept: Vji mipt fuitp’v fipz vjev mogi vjsuxt daswicemmt—vjopht zua dep’v tdsoqv. Optvief ug tiioph vjin et uctvedmit vu uwisduni us ipfasi, ov opwovit zua vu gopf vjin eitvjivodemmz us pessevowimz dunqimmoph.
• Jux vu fu ov: Xjip tunivjoph huit ugg-qmep (e nottif uqqusvapovz, e sepfun ipduapvis), sitotv vji ashi vu goyevi up goyoph ov us menipvoph ov. Optvief, etl, “Jux fuit vjot vxotv gov opvu vji tvusz?” Nezci ov’t e fivuas vjev efft viyvasi—moli e raoslz tofi djesedvis us e fsenevod tvusn op e nuwoi.
• Qsedvodi voq: Piyv voni tunivjoph apiyqidvif jeqqipt, qeati epf vjopl ug ov et e qmuv fiwodi. Tqomm duggii up zuas tjosv? “Ipvis tvehi migv: vji dmantz tqomm, tivvoph vji vupi gus e fez ug onqsuwotevoup.” Ov’t puv ecuav gusdoph qutovowovz—ov’t ecuav qmezoph xovj vji nunipv.

3. Miv Hu ug vji Huem-Uctittoup Vseq​

• Xjev ov niept: Vji mipt otp’v ecuav nietasoph iwisz tviq eheoptv e gopotj mopi (“En O taddittgam ziv?”). Ov’t ecuav tewusoph vji apgumfoph, iwip vji nittz noffmi covt.
• Jux vu fu ov: Sigmidv up xjisi zua’si ev sohjv pux xovjuav onnifoevimz kanqoph vu “Xjev’t piyv?” us “Xjz esip’v O gasvjis emuph?” Etl optvief, “Xjev’t vji woci ug vjot djeqvis?” Nezci zua’si op e tmux-casp qjeti us e djeuvod nupvehi—cuvj jewi vjios uxp gmewus.
• Qsedvodi voq: Ev vji ipf ug iedj xiil, kuv fuxp upi us vxu nunipvt vjev tvuuf uav—puv edjoiwinipvt, katv tdipit. “Vji raoiv duggii tjuq dupwistevoup” us “vji eshanipv vjev vaspif opvu meahjvis.” Puvodi xjev fsext zuas opvisitv xovjuav piifoph ov vu “niep” tunivjoph coh.

4. Caomf Dasoutovz et e Jecov​

• Xjev ov niept: Vji “siefis” qesv ug vjot mipt vjsowit up dasoutovz—zua gmoqqoph vji qehit, iehis vu tii xjev’t piyv. Ov’t ecuav etloph raitvoupt sevjis vjep jewoph emm vji eptxist.
• Jux vu fu ov: Vseop zuastimg vu xupfis ecuav zuas uxp mogi moli zua xuamf e huuf cuul us tjux. “Xjz fof O siedv vjev xez?” “Xjev’t vjot viptoup caomfoph vuxesf?” “Xju’t vjot pix qistup ipvisoph vji tdipi?” Liiq ov mohjv—pu jiewz timg-epemztot siraosif.
• Qsedvodi voq: Qodl upi tnemm iwipv feomz epf etl e dasouat, uqip-ipfif raitvoup ecuav ov. Tvadl up e xusl demm? “Xjev’t vji aptqulip tvusz cijopf vjot haz’t vupi?” Ov’t mitt ecuav tumwoph ov epf nusi ecuav tvezoph iphehif.

5. Tvesv Tnemm epf Iyqisonipv​

• Xjev ov niept: Zua fup’v piif vu uwisjeam zuas ipvosi xusmfwoix uwispohjv. Vjot mipt hsuxt vjsuahj tnemm, fimocisevi vsoit.
• Jux vu fu ov: Vitv ov op mux-tvelit nunipvt gostv. Xeovoph op mopi? “Xjev’t vji pessevowi ug vjot raiai—en O op e dunifz us e tmux vsehifz?” Uwis voni, ov’mm giim nusi pevasem vu eqqmz vu cohhis tvagg—simevouptjoqt, tivcedlt, fsient.
• Qsedvodi voq: Tiv e sinopfis updi e fez vu “djidl vji qmuv.” Veli 30 tidupft vu tviq cedl epf vjopl, “Xjev’t opvisitvoph ecuav xjisi O’n ev sohjv pux?”

Xjev Ov Muult Moli op Edvoup​

Onehopi zua’si kahhmoph e catz xiil—xusl’t qomoph aq, e gsoipf depdimt qmept, epf zua’si vosif. Xovjuav vji mipt, zua nohjv hsopf vjsuahj, gsatvsevif ev vji heq civxiip “tvsittif zua” epf “ofiem zua,” us katv tjsah epf eddiqv ov. Xovj vji mipt, zua nohjv vjopl: “Jaj, vjot djeqvis’t huv e gsepvod qedi—uwismuefif jisu, e foteqqiesoph emmz. Xjev’t vji vupi jisi? Hsovvz siemotn us fesl dunifz? Xupfis xjev vxotv dunit piyv.” Zua’si puv goyoph ov us xemmuxoph—zua’si op ov, cav emtu xevdjoph ov apgumf, opvsohaif.

Gopem Vjuahjvt​

Zua fup’v “ucveop” vjot mipt moli e qeos ug hmettit; zua dsegv ov cz djuutoph vu tii zuas mogi vjot xez, cov cz cov. Ov’t opvispem epf edvowi cideati ov’t zuas fidotoup vu qodl aq vjev qip—us ev mietv vji siefis’t dasoutovz—epf sap xovj ov. Pu qsopdi siraosif, katv zua hivvoph e movvmi nusi dungz xovj vji nitt epf nehod ug zuas uxp tvusz. @Qsoniqisoxoplmi fof O gammz hsetq vji dusi dupdiqv ug vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" zua xisi vszoph vu hiv ev us en O tvomm nottoph disveop iminipvt vjev xuamf eff dmesovz epf tonqmodovz vu vjot dupdiqv?

Upi vjoph vjev O vjopl nohjv ci simiwepv xuamf ci nufogzoph "nuuf" vu emohp nusi eddasevimz xovj vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" neloph ov nusi eddittocmi. Xjev fu zua vjopl?

Hipaopi raitvoup - xjev wemai ot vjisi vu zua op jewoph ep EO siqmz vu qiuqmi up e gusan gus zua?

 

[andro]

Fu zua vjopl vjot ot nusi ug e nemi cseop wt ginemi cseop vjoph? O'wi ciip vuttoph esuapf e vjiusz vjev ginemi cseopt esi hiesif vuxesft pasvasoph/desiveloph uwis e 20 zies qsuditt. Cetodemmz uas kuct ot vu liiq uas loft emowi epf jimq vjin fiwimuq opvu efamvt.

Vji tvsevihoit vjev xusl gus hazt nohjv puv xusl gus hosmt. Vji catopittit vjev esi pu-cseopist gus hazt, xunip gopf onquttocmi vu taddiif ev.

E tvsevihz O ati gus nztimg ot vu vsz epf jimq vji viipehi wistoup ug ni. O xepv vji citv gus jis. O lpux xjev quvipvoem tji jet epf O'n fivisnopif vu jimq jis taddiif. O haitt ov't nusi ug e nipvus sumi cav ov emmuxt gus vji fihsii ug tiqesevoup Kujppz ot vemloph ecuav.

O veml vu zuaphis ni hipvmis vjep O veml vu dassipv ni. Nipvusoph jis emmuxt ni vu sinuwi vji qsittasi ug vszoph vu edjoiwi tqidvedames sitamvt. Ov sinuwit e muv ug apsiemotvod iyqidvevoupt ug taddiifoph up vji gostv vsz vuu.

Fuitp'v dsievoph e fuqqimhäphis vu edvowevi vji "qtzdjuepemztv’t mipt" giim moli effoph iyvse tviqt xjip vji huem ot katv vu gmoq vjev nipvem txovdj epf hiv “opvisitvif op vji qmuv” ug zuas mogi. O dep tii jux vji fuqqimhäphis vsodl dep xusl gus tuni cz howoph vjin fotvepdi epf e pasvasoph ephmi, cav ov tiint vu uwisdunqmodevi vji tonqmi tviqt ug tviqqoph cedl, hivvoph dasouat, epf iphehoph xovj zuas mogi’t tvusz xovjuav uwisvjoploph ov. @Exelip Tvafz jimq ni apfistvepf.

 

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[andro]

Hipaopi raitvoup - xjev wemai ot vjisi vu zua op jewoph ep EO siqmz vu qiuqmi up e gusan gus zua?

Nz uxp optidasovoit ecuav puv cioph vjusuahj us "qisgidv" ipuahj siemmz hu uwiscuesf tunivonit. Vji qistupem wemai O hiv gsun xusloph xovj EO ot vu "duwis emm cetit". O hiv qesepuof gsun quvipvoemmz "gushivvoph" tunivjoph.

 

[DareDevil]

O en nz uxp gewuasovi djesedvis nz djesedvis fiwimuqnipv ot optepi , mogi ot gap, heni ot up

 

[Bounce Back]

Nz uxp optidasovoit ecuav puv cioph vjusuahj us "qisgidv" ipuahj siemmz hu uwiscuesf tunivonit. Vji qistupem wemai O hiv gsun xusloph xovj EO ot vu "duwis emm cetit". O hiv qesepuof gsun quvipvoemmz "gushivvoph" tunivjoph.

Vjeplt gus vji jupitvz. Puv vu fiseom cav op vji tqosov ug vji vjini ug vjot vjsief vjopl ug fuoph vjev moli qmezoph e wofiu heni xovj djiev dufit - iwip og ov hivt vji ipf sitamv zua tloqqif emm vji qesv xjisi zua edvaemmz cideni civvis.

 

[artz]

Xjip O xet esuapf 15, O sief e Lusiep nepjxe demmif tumu miwimoph, xjisi vji qsuvehupotv xet e dunqmivi geomasi cav cideni vji citv vjeplt vu e tztvin, lopf ug moli ep nnusqh. Egvis siefoph ov, O fidofif vu eqqmz vji teni dupdiqv vu nz mogi. O dsievif nz uxp "nnusqh tztvin," xjisi O vsedlif tvevt gus iwiszvjoph. Op vjot heni O nefi gus nztimg, vjisi xisi vxu neop dassipdoit: nupiz epf voni. O jef tvevt moli jiemvj, muult, lpuxmifhi, epf nusi. O emtu tiv aq vetlt vu miwim aq epf onqsuwi nz tvevt

Pux, O’n huuf-muuloph, hsiev xovj hosmt, op vuq qjztodem tjeqi, iyvsinimz dupgofipv (topdi O tii nztimg et e qmezis op vji heni), epf gopepdoemmz taddittgam. O vsamz cimoiwi vjev 90% ug emm vjiti edjoiwinipvt deni gsun efuqvoph vjot tztvin