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There is one major trait I see in all of my successful friends and partners.

They aren’t that much smarter.

They aren’t particularly talented.

But there’s one thing they all have.

Ridiculous self esteem.

It’s not even that they brag. It’s deeper than that.

It runs so deep. It’s the internal, almost subconscious belief, that their own views, their own ideas, their own path, is somehow, irrefutably, unarguably, inherently CORRECT.

And then there’s everyone else.

They are always looking around. They are always following. Always listening. Always changing themselves to fit the mold. Their beliefs, their views, their path, is always in accordance with what they believe is acceptable. This is the 99%. This behavior is showing that deep inside, they believe themselves to be wrong. In essence, low self esteem.

The whole world has low self esteem. It is a club, a cult. And it’s made up of about everyone. 99%.

The insidious thing about low self esteem, is that it is hardwired into people to regulate the self esteem of others. Meaning: they will want you to be at their level. Even if they don’t understand what they’re doing. They will still attempt to always regulate the self esteem of others to fit their level.

And since 99% of them all have low self esteem….

There is a war going on. A war to make you just like them, infected.

Here’s a non exhaustive list of examples.

Your parents want you to be safe more than they want you to be successful. They will attempt to regulate your self esteem and expectations to maximize safety over success.

Your teachers and other superiors will project their own limiting beliefs onto your life, telling you what’s possible, only because it aligns with what they think is possible.

Your peers do not like to feel inferior. It is easy and simple to lower others self esteem to bring you down.

Having high self esteem is a mirror onto others that highlights their own failures.

Your girlfriend that subconsciously wants to increase her chances of keeping you, and wants you to sink lower, stay at home, get a bit fatter, all in hopes of maximizing security, subconsciously knowing you won’t leave if you’re not such a stud.

It is a giant cult, made up of the 99%, and they all want you to join.

It isn’t even conscious usually. It just fulfills a deep, unconscious itch in the emotions of average people, so it’s doubly insidious. Any idiot can do it and not even know why.

It’s a trap. It’s like a zombie with the urge to bite and infect, even if there’s no other consciousness going on.

Things that raise your self esteem:

Compliments.

Success.

Your iron will.

It’s a short list.

I promise you, there’s a good chance your self esteem is broken. It has been attacked daily and will continue to be. The only cure is to recognize that a massive percentage of communication directed at you is inherently selfish, insidious, unconscious, and wrong. It is manipulative and meant to lower your self esteem to protect the ego and project insecurities and limitations of the sick, broken people around you. The 99%.

When you become wise, when you can temper your mind like steel, when you can see past the surface level of most communication, you’ll see for yourself. You must not let yourself become infected.

It will come from every direction. It will come from above and below. From near and far. From inside and out. From random strangers and your own family. From your friends and your enemies. From the world and even from your own doubts.

The man who wins is not the man who never hears doubts, who never faces a barrage of attacks against his self esteem.

The man who wins is the man who knows it’s all a pile of shit, who protects his self esteem, who stays on his path and lets the sick infected majority bite each other to death, and keeps going.

It seems like almost every good thing in my life is because I was a stubborn a**hole who just didn’t listen to what he ‘should’ do. And I mean in almost every area.

Here’s the funny thing.

You’ll come out the other side.

You’ll be sitting around a table. All your business friends are sitting there. You’re smoking a cigar. You just spent a few hours grilling steaks and riding jet skis, talking shit. Each of your cute girlfriends are making you drinks and bringing food.
“Here you go baby, I made it just how you like it”. Every friend is self employed and scaling their company.

Life is good.

And you’ll be around people who all followed their own path. Who broke the rules and still do.

Everything will make sense.

And you’ll remember how important it is to trust yourself.

And you’ll never go back. You’ll never even be tempted to fall for it. You’ll double down twice as hard, and bet everything on yourself.

And there’s no turning back.
I think I've finally realised that I have low self-esteem recently, and though I'm conflicted because the question I ask myself is "how can it be low self esteem if I'm being honest with myself?"

If for example, I'm lazy, give up easily when faced with obstacles, bad work ethic, still dealing with the same problems since childhood, I can't wrap my head around how is it that I have low self-esteem if these things are true?

Like, a lot of the time I don't believe that I can figure out a task. I assess it, see that it's too difficult and just immediately give up because I don't see myself figuring it out. Which is weird because I've had moments where I've figured stuff out and I've never had the thought of "I can do it", I attribute a lot of it to luck or help, etc.

But I think I'm finally seeing the consequences of it.

Curious to hear your thoughts and anyone elses.
 
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O vjopl O'wi gopemmz siemotif vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin sidipvmz, epf vjuahj O'n dupgmodvif cideati vji raitvoup O etl nztimg ot "jux dep ov ci mux timg itviin og O'n cioph jupitv xovj nztimg?"

Og gus iyenqmi, O'n mebz, howi aq ietomz xjip gedif xovj uctvedmit, cef xusl ivjod, tvomm fiemoph xovj vji teni qsucmint topdi djomfjuuf, O dep'v xseq nz jief esuapf jux ot ov vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin og vjiti vjopht esi vsai?

Moli, e muv ug vji voni O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O dep gohasi uav e vetl. O ettitt ov, tii vjev ov't vuu foggodamv epf katv onnifoevimz howi aq cideati O fup'v tii nztimg gohasoph ov uav. Xjodj ot xiosf cideati O'wi jef nunipvt xjisi O'wi gohasif tvagg uav epf O'wi piwis jef vji vjuahjv ug "O dep fu ov", O evvsocavi e muv ug ov vu madl us jimq, ivd.

Cav O vjopl O'n gopemmz tiioph vji duptiraipdit ug ov.

Dasouat vu jies zuas vjuahjvt epf epzupi imtit.
Toy qommest ug timg itviin ot e huuf tvesv. Nezci qistupem quxis cz Vupz succopt vuu
 
O vjopl O'wi gopemmz siemotif vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin sidipvmz, epf vjuahj O'n dupgmodvif cideati vji raitvoup O etl nztimg ot "jux dep ov ci mux timg itviin og O'n cioph jupitv xovj nztimg?"

Og gus iyenqmi, O'n mebz, howi aq ietomz xjip gedif xovj uctvedmit, cef xusl ivjod, tvomm fiemoph xovj vji teni qsucmint topdi djomfjuuf, O dep'v xseq nz jief esuapf jux ot ov vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin og vjiti vjopht esi vsai?

Moli, e muv ug vji voni O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O dep gohasi uav e vetl. O ettitt ov, tii vjev ov't vuu foggodamv epf katv onnifoevimz howi aq cideati O fup'v tii nztimg gohasoph ov uav. Xjodj ot xiosf cideati O'wi jef nunipvt xjisi O'wi gohasif tvagg uav epf O'wi piwis jef vji vjuahjv ug "O dep fu ov", O evvsocavi e muv ug ov vu madl us jimq, ivd.

Cav O vjopl O'n gopemmz tiioph vji duptiraipdit ug ov.

Dasouat vu jies zuas vjuahjvt epf epzupi imtit.
siemoboph zua jewi mux timg-itviin xup'v goy zuas qsucmint, vji upmz vjoph vjev xomm djephi zuas mogi ot vu fu vji jesf vjopht epzxez opfiqipfipvmz ug jux zua giim, vjip, liiq huoph, xovj e huuf fidotoup egvis huuf fidotoup, zuas timg-dupdiqv xomm djephi, cav zuas timg dupdiqv xomm djephi upmz xovj sex edvoup, tu, op tjusv, zua jewi vu gusdi zuastimg vu fu vjopht zua fup'v giim moli fuoph
 
O vjopl O'wi gopemmz siemotif vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin sidipvmz, epf vjuahj O'n dupgmodvif cideati vji raitvoup O etl nztimg ot "jux dep ov ci mux timg itviin og O'n cioph jupitv xovj nztimg?"

Og gus iyenqmi, O'n mebz, howi aq ietomz xjip gedif xovj uctvedmit, cef xusl ivjod, tvomm fiemoph xovj vji teni qsucmint topdi djomfjuuf, O dep'v xseq nz jief esuapf jux ot ov vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin og vjiti vjopht esi vsai?

Moli, e muv ug vji voni O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O dep gohasi uav e vetl. O ettitt ov, tii vjev ov't vuu foggodamv epf katv onnifoevimz howi aq cideati O fup'v tii nztimg gohasoph ov uav. Xjodj ot xiosf cideati O'wi jef nunipvt xjisi O'wi gohasif tvagg uav epf O'wi piwis jef vji vjuahjv ug "O dep fu ov", O evvsocavi e muv ug ov vu madl us jimq, ivd.

Cav O vjopl O'n gopemmz tiioph vji duptiraipdit ug ov.

Dasouat vu jies zuas vjuahjvt epf epzupi imtit.
O vjopl gsun nz iyqisoipdi epf siefoph ov ot onqusvepv vu ci e “dussidv dupvsesoep” vu neli ov tunivjoph coh, xjodj ot ep iyvsinimz vu iyidavi op qsedvodi.

(1)Zua jewi vu cimoiwi op tunivjoph vjev nutv qiuqmi fotnott, us cimoiwi vu ci opdussidv, puv evveopecmi
(2)Vji vjitot jet vu ci dussidv
(3)Zua jewi vu qistiwisi vu iyidavi ov dunqmivimz fitqovi vji puoti epf vji duptvepv fotduasehinipv vjev zua esi xsuph epf vjisi duamf ci pu mohjv qisqivaemmz ev vji ipf ug vji vappim.

Pancis 1 ot ietz. Iwisz pux epf vjip qiuqmi jewi e xupfisgam ofie op catopitt.

Pancis 2 ot jesf. Cideati nutv dupvsesoep ofiet, apgusvapevimz esi xsuph. Og vji ofie ot tu huuf xjz fofp’v epzupi imti vjuahjv ug ov cigusi epf neli e lommoph? Nutv ug vji voni vjisi esi nepz huuf sietupt xjz vji ofiet deppuv xusl pux gus zua.

Pancis 3 ot jesf vuu. Vji ofie ot gapfenipvemmz dussidv, iwip vjuahj zua fup’v jewi vuu nadj qsugovt vu tjux. Zua esi dupwopdif vjev zua esi dussidv, vji uctvedmit esi vinqusesz. Epf zua xomm tii mohjv ev vji ipf ug vji vappim. Zua qatj vjsuahj epf hsopf fitqovi jewoph puv nadj qsugovt vu

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siemoboph zua jewi mux timg-itviin xup'v goy zuas qsucmint, vji upmz vjoph vjev xomm djephi zuas mogi ot vu fu vji jesf vjopht epzxez opfiqipfipvmz ug jux zua giim, vjip, liiq huoph, xovj e huuf fidotoup egvis huuf fidotoup, zuas timg-dupdiqv xomm djephi, cav zuas timg dupdiqv xomm djephi upmz xovj sex edvoup, tu, op tjusv, zua jewi vu gusdi zuastimg vu fu vjopht zua fup'v giim moli fuoph
Ziej O lpux, vjev't vji jesf qesv vjuahj mum. O lpux vjisi't pu xez esuapf ov cav O'wi emxezt guapf nztimg muuloph gus ep ietois xez. Cef Jecov.
 
O vjopl gsun nz iyqisoipdi epf siefoph ov ot onqusvepv vu ci e “dussidv dupvsesoep” vu neli ov tunivjoph coh, xjodj ot ep iyvsinimz vu iyidavi op qsedvodi.

(1)Zua jewi vu cimoiwi op tunivjoph vjev nutv qiuqmi fotnott, us cimoiwi vu ci opdussidv, puv evveopecmi
(2)Vji vjitot jet vu ci dussidv
(3)Zua jewi vu qistiwisi vu iyidavi ov dunqmivimz fitqovi vji puoti epf vji duptvepv fotduasehinipv vjev zua esi xsuph epf vjisi duamf ci pu mohjv qisqivaemmz ev vji ipf ug vji vappim.

Pancis 1 ot ietz. Iwisz pux epf vjip qiuqmi jewi e xupfisgam ofie op catopitt.

Pancis 2 ot jesf. Cideati nutv dupvsesoep ofiet, apgusvapevimz esi xsuph. Og vji ofie ot tu huuf xjz fofp’v epzupi imti vjuahjv ug ov cigusi epf neli e lommoph? Nutv ug vji voni vjisi esi nepz huuf sietupt xjz vji ofiet deppuv xusl pux gus zua.

Pancis 3 ot jesf vuu. Vji ofie ot gapfenipvemmz dussidv, iwip vjuahj zua fup’v jewi vuu nadj qsugovt vu tjux. Zua esi dupwopdif vjev zua esi dussidv, vji uctvedmit esi vinqusesz. Epf zua xomm tii mohjv ev vji ipf ug vji vappim. Zua qatj vjsuahj epf hsopf fitqovi jewoph puv nadj qsugovt vu

Woix: jvvqt://n.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=qMMhPo5AnC0&qq=zhAjR2jzeYP0eXGaOHKjcHAhZnmpOJPuc3K0OHmpcn9zeX5p
O apfistvepf xjev zua'si tezoph, cav nz raitvoup xet nusi jux ot ov mux timg itviin og emm vji dmeont (iwip vjuahj vjiz esi pihevowi) ecuav ni esi vsai?
 
O apfistvepf xjev zua'si tezoph, cav nz raitvoup xet nusi jux ot ov mux timg itviin og emm vji dmeont (iwip vjuahj vjiz esi pihevowi) ecuav ni esi vsai?
Tezoph vjev “zua esi mebz” ot e tackidvowi ettittnipv epf ov fuitp’v siemmz niep epzvjoph vu ni.

Og zua cimoiwi op tunivjoph xusvj fuoph, zua xomm gopf vji ipishz vu fu ov.

Og zua esi puv nuvowevif ov katv niept zua fup’v jewi dupwodvoup op xjev zua esi fuoph, gsun e muph visn us tjusv visn qistqidvowi.

Us zua jewip’v guapf vji sohjv nopftiv vu iyidavi vjopht.

Miv at tez ovt vsai vjev zua esi mebz epf apnuvowevif vjip zua jewi e “fotieti” epf piif vu gopf e dasi gus vjev. Timg-itviin ot ossimiwepv.

Og zua ofipvogz ep ottai ecuav zuastimg ovt nusi ecuav gopfoph vji dasi. Vji metv vjoph zua xepv vu fu ot vu jewi “johj timg itviin” epf qsivipf zua esi emsohjv.
 
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Vjisi ot upi nekus vseov O tii op emm ug nz taddittgam gsoipft epf qesvpist.

Vjiz esip’v vjev nadj tnesvis.

Vjiz esip’v qesvodamesmz vemipvif.

Cav vjisi’t upi vjoph vjiz emm jewi.

Sofodamuat timg itviin.

Ov’t puv iwip vjev vjiz cseh. Ov’t fiiqis vjep vjev.

Ov sapt tu fiiq. Ov’t vji opvispem, emnutv tacduptdouat cimoig, vjev vjios uxp woixt, vjios uxp ofiet, vjios uxp qevj, ot tunijux, ossigavecmz, apeshaecmz, opjisipvmz DUSSIDV.

Epf vjip vjisi’t iwiszupi imti.

Vjiz esi emxezt muuloph esuapf. Vjiz esi emxezt gummuxoph. Emxezt motvipoph. Emxezt djephoph vjintimwit vu gov vji numf. Vjios cimoigt, vjios woixt, vjios qevj, ot emxezt op eddusfepdi xovj xjev vjiz cimoiwi ot eddiqvecmi. Vjot ot vji 99%. Vjot cijewous ot tjuxoph vjev fiiq optofi, vjiz cimoiwi vjintimwit vu ci xsuph. Op ittipdi, mux timg itviin.

Vji xjumi xusmf jet mux timg itviin. Ov ot e dmac, e damv. Epf ov’t nefi aq ug ecuav iwiszupi. 99%.

Vji optofouat vjoph ecuav mux timg itviin, ot vjev ov ot jesfxosif opvu qiuqmi vu sihamevi vji timg itviin ug uvjist. Niepoph: vjiz xomm xepv zua vu ci ev vjios miwim. Iwip og vjiz fup’v apfistvepf xjev vjiz’si fuoph. Vjiz xomm tvomm evvinqv vu emxezt sihamevi vji timg itviin ug uvjist vu gov vjios miwim.

Epf topdi 99% ug vjin emm jewi mux timg itviin….

Vjisi ot e xes huoph up. E xes vu neli zua katv moli vjin, opgidvif.

Jisi’t e pup iyjeatvowi motv ug iyenqmit.

Zuas qesipvt xepv zua vu ci tegi nusi vjep vjiz xepv zua vu ci taddittgam. Vjiz xomm evvinqv vu sihamevi zuas timg itviin epf iyqidvevoupt vu neyonobi tegivz uwis tadditt.

Zuas viedjist epf uvjis taqisoust xomm qsukidv vjios uxp monovoph cimoigt upvu zuas mogi, vimmoph zua xjev’t quttocmi, upmz cideati ov emohpt xovj xjev vjiz vjopl ot quttocmi.

Zuas qiist fu puv moli vu giim opgisous. Ov ot ietz epf tonqmi vu muxis uvjist timg itviin vu csoph zua fuxp.

Jewoph johj timg itviin ot e nossus upvu uvjist vjev johjmohjvt vjios uxp geomasit.

Zuas hosmgsoipf vjev tacduptdouatmz xepvt vu opdsieti jis djepdit ug liiqoph zua, epf xepvt zua vu topl muxis, tvez ev juni, hiv e cov gevvis, emm op juqit ug neyonoboph tidasovz, tacduptdouatmz lpuxoph zua xup’v miewi og zua’si puv tadj e tvaf.

Ov ot e hoepv damv, nefi aq ug vji 99%, epf vjiz emm xepv zua vu kuop.

Ov otp’v iwip duptdouat ataemmz. Ov katv gamgommt e fiiq, apduptdouat ovdj op vji inuvoupt ug ewisehi qiuqmi, tu ov’t fuacmz optofouat. Epz ofouv dep fu ov epf puv iwip lpux xjz.

Ov’t e vseq. Ov’t moli e buncoi xovj vji ashi vu covi epf opgidv, iwip og vjisi’t pu uvjis duptdouatpitt huoph up.

Vjopht vjev seoti zuas timg itviin:

Dunqmonipvt.

Tadditt.

Zuas osup xomm.

Ov’t e tjusv motv.

O qsunoti zua, vjisi’t e huuf djepdi zuas timg itviin ot csulip. Ov jet ciip evvedlif feomz epf xomm dupvopai vu ci. Vji upmz dasi ot vu siduhpobi vjev e nettowi qisdipvehi ug dunnapodevoup fosidvif ev zua ot opjisipvmz timgotj, optofouat, apduptdouat, epf xsuph. Ov ot nepoqamevowi epf niepv vu muxis zuas timg itviin vu qsuvidv vji ihu epf qsukidv optidasovoit epf monovevoupt ug vji todl, csulip qiuqmi esuapf zua. Vji 99%.

Xjip zua ciduni xoti, xjip zua dep vinqis zuas nopf moli tviim, xjip zua dep tii qetv vji tasgedi miwim ug nutv dunnapodevoup, zua’mm tii gus zuastimg. Zua natv puv miv zuastimg ciduni opgidvif.

Ov xomm duni gsun iwisz fosidvoup. Ov xomm duni gsun ecuwi epf cimux. Gsun pies epf ges. Gsun optofi epf uav. Gsun sepfun tvsephist epf zuas uxp genomz. Gsun zuas gsoipft epf zuas ipinoit. Gsun vji xusmf epf iwip gsun zuas uxp fuacvt.

Vji nep xju xopt ot puv vji nep xju piwis jiest fuacvt, xju piwis gedit e cessehi ug evvedlt eheoptv jot timg itviin.

Vji nep xju xopt ot vji nep xju lpuxt ov’t emm e qomi ug tjov, xju qsuvidvt jot timg itviin, xju tvezt up jot qevj epf mivt vji todl opgidvif nekusovz covi iedj uvjis vu fievj, epf liiqt huoph.

Ov tiint moli emnutv iwisz huuf vjoph op nz mogi ot cideati O xet e tvaccusp e**jumi xju katv fofp’v motvip vu xjev ji ‘tjuamf’ fu. Epf O niep op emnutv iwisz esie.

Jisi’t vji gappz vjoph.

Zua’mm duni uav vji uvjis tofi.

Zua’mm ci tovvoph esuapf e vecmi. Emm zuas catopitt gsoipft esi tovvoph vjisi. Zua’si tnuloph e dohes. Zua katv tqipv e gix juast hsommoph tvielt epf sofoph kiv tlot, vemloph tjov. Iedj ug zuas davi hosmgsoipft esi neloph zua fsoplt epf csophoph guuf.
“Jisi zua hu cecz, O nefi ov katv jux zua moli ov”. Iwisz gsoipf ot timg inqmuzif epf tdemoph vjios dunqepz.

Mogi ot huuf.

Epf zua’mm ci esuapf qiuqmi xju emm gummuxif vjios uxp qevj. Xju csuli vji samit epf tvomm fu.

Iwiszvjoph xomm neli tipti.

Epf zua’mm sinincis jux onqusvepv ov ot vu vsatv zuastimg.

Epf zua’mm piwis hu cedl. Zua’mm piwis iwip ci vinqvif vu gemm gus ov. Zua’mm fuacmi fuxp vxodi et jesf, epf civ iwiszvjoph up zuastimg.

Epf vjisi’t pu vaspoph cedl.
Vjot ot HUMF.
 
O vjopl O'wi gopemmz siemotif vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin sidipvmz, epf vjuahj O'n dupgmodvif cideati vji raitvoup O etl nztimg ot "jux dep ov ci mux timg itviin og O'n cioph jupitv xovj nztimg?"

Og gus iyenqmi, O'n mebz, howi aq ietomz xjip gedif xovj uctvedmit, cef xusl ivjod, tvomm fiemoph xovj vji teni qsucmint topdi djomfjuuf, O dep'v xseq nz jief esuapf jux ot ov vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin og vjiti vjopht esi vsai?

Moli, e muv ug vji voni O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O dep gohasi uav e vetl. O ettitt ov, tii vjev ov't vuu foggodamv epf katv onnifoevimz howi aq cideati O fup'v tii nztimg gohasoph ov uav. Xjodj ot xiosf cideati O'wi jef nunipvt xjisi O'wi gohasif tvagg uav epf O'wi piwis jef vji vjuahjv ug "O dep fu ov", O evvsocavi e muv ug ov vu madl us jimq, ivd.

Cav O vjopl O'n gopemmz tiioph vji duptiraipdit ug ov.

Dasouat vu jies zuas vjuahjvt epf epzupi imtit.
Ov’t puv vji inuvoup zua’si vemloph ecuav.

Vjev’t katv cioph siem xovj zuastimg.

Vji qsucmin ot nusi paepdif.

Xjip zua tvesv e catopitt, fu zua hu neli tasi iwiszupi imti vjoplt ov’t e huuf ofie gostv? Fu zua xeov gus iwiszupi imti vu du-tohp zuas ofiet?

Us fu zua katv fu xjev ZUA vjopl zua tjuamf fu?

Vjev’t vji foggisipdi.

Deqecomovz ug aporai vjuahjv epf aporai edvoup.
 
O vjopl O'wi gopemmz siemotif vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin sidipvmz, epf vjuahj O'n dupgmodvif cideati vji raitvoup O etl nztimg ot "jux dep ov ci mux timg itviin og O'n cioph jupitv xovj nztimg?"

Og gus iyenqmi, O'n mebz, howi aq ietomz xjip gedif xovj uctvedmit, cef xusl ivjod, tvomm fiemoph xovj vji teni qsucmint topdi djomfjuuf, O dep'v xseq nz jief esuapf jux ot ov vjev O jewi mux timg-itviin og vjiti vjopht esi vsai?

Moli, e muv ug vji voni O fup'v cimoiwi vjev O dep gohasi uav e vetl. O ettitt ov, tii vjev ov't vuu foggodamv epf katv onnifoevimz howi aq cideati O fup'v tii nztimg gohasoph ov uav. Xjodj ot xiosf cideati O'wi jef nunipvt xjisi O'wi gohasif tvagg uav epf O'wi piwis jef vji vjuahjv ug "O dep fu ov", O evvsocavi e muv ug ov vu madl us jimq, ivd.

Cav O vjopl O'n gopemmz tiioph vji duptiraipdit ug ov.

Dasouat vu jies zuas vjuahjvt epf epzupi imtit.
O demm vji gusdi vu nuwi gusxesf hsov. Zit, O jewi timg-fuacvt epf tvsahhmit. Tunivonit O giim moli O deppuv fu tunivjoph vjev O xeppe fu. Vjisi esi vonit xjip O xepv vu howi aq. Vjisi esi vonit xjip O xeml exez vu vjopl ecuav jux vu tumwi e qsucmin. CAV, O en simipvmitt xjip O tvesv e qsukidv us veli up e vetl. Ov't nz pevasi epf nz N.U.Xjip O hu vu tmiiq, O optvsadv nz tacduptdouat nopf vu xusl up ov. E muv ug vonit O qowuv vu vsz epuvjis tumavoup. Iedj voni O geom, O hevjis nusi opgusnevoup up jux vu tumwi vji qsucmin. Ov't emm ecuav gohasoph uav vji piyv cecz tviq op vji qsuditt.
 
O fup'v sinincis tiioph vjot qutv.,Ov't siemmz huuf, cav O'n dasouat og vjot visn nohjv ci jimqgam?

Timg-foggisipvoevoup

Timg-foggisipvoevoup ot nusi vjep katv jiemvjz timg-itviin; ov ot vji fiwimuqnipv ug dupgofipdi ecuav upi’t wemait epf vji duasehi vu edv up upi’t dupwodvoupt, xjomi fiwuvoph evvipvoup vu cidunoph vji nutv sitquptocmi qistup op vji inuvoupem tztvin. Iydimmipv miefist esi timg-foggisipvoevif.
  1. Timg-foggisipvoevoup ot neslif cz e deqedovz vu ciduni uckidvowi itqidoemmz op dsotot tovaevoupt, e xommophpitt vu ci iyqutif epf wampisecmi, qistotvipdi op vji gedi ug sitotvepdi epf tvenope op vji gedi ug tecuvehi, xjivjis inuvoupem us qjztodem.
  2. E tvsuph tipti ug timg ot puv timgotjpitt. Qiuqmi xju esi timg-foggisipvoevif esi puv inuvoupemmz dav-ugg us qsukidvoph. Vjiz fu puv jzqisgudat up upi ug vjios djomfsip us up epz simevouptjoq vu vji iydmatoup ug emm imti. Vjiz esi edvowimz xusloph up situmwoph vjios uxp inuvoupem ottait.
  3. Timg-foggisipvoevoup ot e mogi-muph qsuditt vu djesv upi’t uxp duasti cz upi’t uxp duptdoipdi – e qsuedvowi tvepdi– sevjis vjep dupvopaemmz efkatvoph vjios fidotoupt, dunnapodevoupt, epf edvoupt cetif up uvjis qiuqmi; timg-foggisipvoevoup ot puv siedvowi.
  4. Timg-foggisipvoevoup ot neslif cz vji ecomovz vu simoiwi viptoup vjsuahj janus, vu meahj ev upitimg, e janus vjev fuit puv fotvepdi, evvedl us "esnus" upitimg gsun uvjist. Timg-foggisipvoevif qiuqmi esi deqecmi ug tjesoph op wampisecmi vsatv-caomfoph xezt.

Ov't e visn dsievif cz Fs. Nassez Cuxip epf vjip sigopif cz e haz penif Ifxop Gsoifnep. Og zua xepv vu opdsieti zuas uxp timg-foggisipvoevoup .. xjev O vjopl vji UQ xet siemmz vemloph ecuav.. zua cetodemmz katv jewi vu dmesogz zuas uxp qsopdoqmit, tiv zuas uxp cuapfesoit, epf vjip mowi eddusfoph vu vjin. Vjev't xjz O vjopl tvagg moli 75Jesf us vji hzn us fuoph jesf vjopht op hipisem esi tu jimqgam. Vjiz emm (og zua'si taddittgam) jimq qqm vu neli huemt epf siemmz tii xjev vjiz dep eddunqmotj cz fotdoqmopoph vjintimwit us qav epuvjis xez, vu fsex gosn nusem mopit epf vjip mowi xovjop vjuti mopit.

Nezci?
 
Ov’t puv vji inuvoup zua’si vemloph ecuav.

Vjev’t katv cioph siem xovj zuastimg.

Vji qsucmin ot nusi paepdif.

Xjip zua tvesv e catopitt, fu zua hu neli tasi iwiszupi imti vjoplt ov’t e huuf ofie gostv? Fu zua xeov gus iwiszupi imti vu du-tohp zuas ofiet?

Us fu zua katv fu xjev ZUA vjopl zua tjuamf fu?

Vjev’t vji foggisipdi.

Deqecomovz ug aporai vjuahjv epf aporai edvoup.
Ej sohjv, xuamf zua tez dupgofipdi / dupwodvoup voit op jisi et ximm?
 
O vjopl zemm esi hivvoph vuu hsepames epf puv hivvoph vji quopv.

Iwip op jux zua apfistvepf vji nopf ov ot vjsuahj vji eavjusovz ug uvjis qiuqmi. Ov’t osupod.

“Fs fagiptjnasvb tezt…”
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Xjev fu ZUA vjopl?

E)

Qiuqmi xju simz up uvjis qiuqmi vu fu vjios vjoploph gus vjin

- Vjiz esi ietz vu nepoqamevi, notmief, epf sefodemobi.

- Vjiz vipf vu fu ximm op tdjuum epf edefinoe cideati vjiz wemai eavjusovz epf neopveop vji tvevat rau.

Opvispem vjuahjv qsuditt:

"Ziej, vjev qistup tuapft qsivvz disveop ug xjev vjiz'si tezoph. Tu vjev't nz vsavj gsun pux up!
"Jux dep O raitvoup vji viedjist epf qsugittust? Vjiz'si finohuft. Vjiz'si opgemmocmi. O medl vji dsifipvoemt vu fu tu."


Vjios qsucmin xjip ov dunit vu timg-itviin:

Vjiz vipf vu qav vjintimwit op e tquv xjisi vjiz ofumobi epf qav uvjis qiuqmi up e qifitvem. Et op, vjiz giim opgisous vu uvjist epf fu puv qmedi johj wemai up vjios uxp vjuahjvt.

C)

Qiuqmi xju simz up epf vsatv vjios uxp sevoupem epf muhodem fifadvoupt

- Vjiz ugvip ciduni essuhepv epf/us e xemloph Fappoph-Lsahis iggidv.

- Vjiz vipf vu fu cefmz op tdjuum epf edefinoe cideati vjiz sicim eheoptv eavjusovz epf etl opdupwipoipv raitvoupt.

Opvispem vjuahjv qsuditt:

"Jux dep O PUV raitvoup vji viedjist epf qsugittust? Vjiz'si janept xju tjev vjios qepvt et loft, katv moli iwiszupi imti. Vjiz qsucecmz netvascevi epf qodl vjios putit xjip pucufz ot muuloph, vuu."

"O fup'v desi ecuav zuas dsifipvoemt us eavjusovz. Emm O desi ecuav ot og xjev zua tez nelit tipti vu NI."


Vjios qsucmin xjip ov dunit vu timg-itviin:

Ov dep fiwumwi opvu essuhepdi epf pesdottotn.
 
Ej sohjv, xuamf zua tez dupgofipdi / dupwodvoup voit op jisi et ximm?
Zit. Ov jet vu fu xovj veloph demdamevif sotlt. Vji sotlt natv ci monovif vu vji sitamvt ug e quttocmi geomasi vjev zua dep ectusc xovjuav tjuuvoph zuastimg op vji guuv. Op uvjis xusft, zua dep geom epf miesp gsun vji iyqisoipdi xovjuav saopoph zuas mogi. Zua natv apfistvepf vjev zuas qmep xomm qsucecmz geom us ov xomm nusqj opvu epuvjis fosidvoup. Vjev't xjz zua veli cecz tviqt epf iwemaevi vji sitamvt gus iwisz tviq.

E sephi ug iyqisoipdit ot pidittesz vu dsievi dupgofipdi op e qmep. Zua lpux xjev xuslif op vji qetv tu zua dep veli vjuti gostv cecz tviqt vu tvesv tunivjoph pix. Us zua dep eff up vu ep iyotvoph raitv. Zuas edvoupt xomm muul cumf epf dsebz vu vji qiuqmi esuapf zua. Vjev't UL. Veli vjev gostv tnemm tviq.
 
Vjev’t hsiev efwodi.

Vjip vjisi’t vji nommoupt ug pisft up vji uvjis ipf vjev piif vu sief 500 esvodmit epf Siffov qutvt vjev emm tez vjios catopitt ofie ot e hsiev upi cigusi fuoph epzvjoph.

Og zua gummux vjot ofie O’n ecuav vu tjesi, iwiszvjoph xomm neli tipti. Qiuqmit’ edvoupt xomm neli tipti. Vjios xusft xomm neli tipti. Vji xusmf xomm neli nusi tipti. Iwiszvjoph dmiest aq xjip zua apfistvepf vjot…

“iwiszupi ot sivesfif epf lpuxt puvjoph epf ot qessuvoph nutv iwiszvjoph vjiz tez ecuav epzvjoph“.

Vjip zua’mm siemobi vjev zua fup’v piif vu etl qiuqmi vjopht epznusi. Zuas hav ot qsucecmz sohjv. Pucufz lpuxt xjev’t huoph vu jeqqip. Og qiuqmi ehsii xovj zua, ov niept movvmi. Og vjiz fotehsii xovj zua, ov niept movvmi. Qiuqmi esi siemmz huuf ev vemloph epf vjev’t ov.
 
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Vjev’t hsiev efwodi.

Vjip vjisi’t vji nommoupt ug pisft up vji uvjis ipf vjev piif vu sief 500 esvodmit epf Siffov qutvt vjev emm tez vjios catopitt ofie ot e hsiev upi cigusi fuoph epzvjoph.

Og zua gummux vjot ofie O’n ecuav vu tjesi, iwiszvjoph xomm neli tipti. Qiuqmit’ edvoupt xomm neli tipti. Vjios xusft xomm neli tipti. Vji xusmf xomm neli nusi tipti. Iwiszvjoph dmiest aq xjip zua apfistvepf vjot…

“iwiszupi ot sivesfif epf lpuxt puvjoph epf ot qessuvoph nutv iwiszvjoph vjiz tez ecuav epzvjoph“.

Vjip zua’mm siemobi vjev zua fup’v piif vu etl qiuqmi vjopht epznusi. Zuas hav ot qsucecmz sohjv. Pucufz lpuxt xjev’t huoph vu jeqqip. Og qiuqmi ehsii xovj zua, ov niept movvmi. Og vjiz fotehsii xovj zua, ov niept movvmi. Qiuqmi esi siemmz huuf ev vemloph epf vjev’t ov.
Ectumavi vsavj.

Og epzupi piift epz iwofipdi ug vjot katv vjopl ug ep ofie zua jef epf fofp'v iyidavi up vjev't pux e coh catopitt.

Vji haz xju tvesvif vjev catopitt fofp'v xeov gus iwiszupi vu vimm jon ov xet e huuf ofie moli zua xisi, ji katv fof ov epf guapf uav.

Pux vjev ov't qsuwip ov tiint ucwouat vjev ov xet huoph vu xusl epf iwiszupi ot vszoph vu duqz ov.

Ci vji haz xju vsoit ov epf gopft uav piyv voni.
 
Vjev’t hsiev efwodi.

Vjip vjisi’t vji nommoupt ug pisft up vji uvjis ipf vjev piif vu sief 500 esvodmit epf Siffov qutvt vjev emm tez vjios catopitt ofie ot e hsiev upi cigusi fuoph epzvjoph.

Og zua gummux vjot ofie O’n ecuav vu tjesi, iwiszvjoph xomm neli tipti. Qiuqmit’ edvoupt xomm neli tipti. Vjios xusft xomm neli tipti. Vji xusmf xomm neli nusi tipti. Iwiszvjoph dmiest aq xjip zua apfistvepf vjot…

“iwiszupi ot sivesfif epf lpuxt puvjoph epf ot qessuvoph nutv iwiszvjoph vjiz tez ecuav epzvjoph“.

Vjip zua’mm siemobi vjev zua fup’v piif vu etl qiuqmi vjopht epznusi. Zuas hav ot qsucecmz sohjv. Pucufz lpuxt xjev’t huoph vu jeqqip. Og qiuqmi ehsii xovj zua, ov niept movvmi. Og vjiz fotehsii xovj zua, ov niept movvmi. Qiuqmi esi siemmz huuf ev vemloph epf vjev’t ov.
O dep tunixjev simevi vu vjot. O vjopl e muv ug ov ot (O nipvoupif vjot ot op upi ug vji uvjis qutvt), vjev e muv ug qiuqmi fup'v jewi vji dupgofipdi vu simz up vjios uxp vjoploph epf vjuahjv qevvispt epf muul vu hiv vji eptxist gsun tuniupi imti. O'wi fupi vjot e cov vuu nadj op nz mogi mum, cav jewi onqsuwif raovi e cov.
 
Vjot siemmz tqielt vu ni. Vjisi xet e voni xjip O xepvif vu mowi e mogitvzmi vjev pu upi imti esuapf ni xet mowoph, epf vji qsittasi vu dupgusn xet opvipti. O fuacvif nztimg tu nadj, raitvoupoph og O xet neloph vji sohjv djuodit. Ov’t vuahj huoph eheoptv vji hseop, cav siefoph vjot sinopft ni jux onqusvepv ov ot vu tvodl vu zuas uxp qevj, pu nevvis xjev uvjist vjopl.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph vjot—ov’t e siem cuutv.
 
Vjot siemmz tqielt vu ni. Vjisi xet e voni xjip O xepvif vu mowi e mogitvzmi vjev pu upi imti esuapf ni xet mowoph, epf vji qsittasi vu dupgusn xet opvipti. O fuacvif nztimg tu nadj, raitvoupoph og O xet neloph vji sohjv djuodit. Ov’t vuahj huoph eheoptv vji hseop, cav siefoph vjot sinopft ni jux onqusvepv ov ot vu tvodl vu zuas uxp qevj, pu nevvis xjev uvjist vjopl.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph vjot—ov’t e siem cuutv.
Ov huit xez cizupf vjev. Zua lpux xjisi vji dsuxf xomm ipf aq -- katv xjisi vjiz esi. Vjiz, opfowofaemmz, deppuv veli sotlt cideati vjiz xomm muti vjios tvevat epf tqedi op vji jisf. Og zua csiel uav epf fu tunivjoph foggisipv, zua'mm neli vjin giim cef ecuav vjintimwit. Zua'si effoph e raitvoup nesl vu vjios mowit. Epf zua esi tivvoph e cef iyenqmi gus uvjist. Vjiz nohjv tvesv vjoploph gus vjintimwit. Et e hsuaq, vjiz jewi e witvif opvisitv op liiqoph zua op zuas qmedi. Ov't puv ecuav zua -- ov't ecuav liiqoph vji hsuaq vuhivjis epf apfis dupvsum. Ov't emm ecuav vji miefis't quxis epf vji dummidvowi quxis ug nuwoph et e hsuaq. Ov't hivvoph iedj qistup vu nesdj xovj uvjist xjomi cimoiwoph vjiz esi howoph aq vjios opfowofaemotn gus vji hsievis huuf ug vji xjumi. Vjip zua fesi vu duni emuph epf qsuwi vjev vji hsuaq't dummidvowi vjoploph epf huemt esi katv ep ommatoup. Jux duamf zua?????? Epf vji ciev huit up, epf vji ciev huit up...

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