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I created this thread because everybody deserves to be with the right person for them in life.

Regardless whether...
  • You are attracting the right girlfriend or life partner to you,
  • You are attracting the right friends, acquaintances, or fling encounters into your life, or
  • You are attracting the right customers, clients, or business associates into your brand.
...everybody deserves to be with the right person for them in life. Not only for you, but also for the person you are with.

The main theme of the book is: While Most Guys go out there and try to get the girl, they go chasing after relationships, clients, and customers; The Well Defined Man is Attraction at the truest definition of the word. When you become the most authentic and well-defined version of yourself - this is Magnetic Attraction at it's finest - where you attract the right people to you in your life, effortlessly.

The original purpose of this book was to release the struggle from attracting the relationships you deserve and most importantly - reaching the end destination of this journey; where the people you once chased after in the past - and the relationships you were after - is actually not what you've been searching for after all.

It's something better...

While this book is not published yet, and I have nothing to sell you: The author, marketer, and entrepreneur in me already has the book cover designed and image ready to go.
  • A big thanks to the member of this forum I've been working alongside since July to allow me to take over the domain name to use for my book after he switched to a new venture (Original title was "Be Attraction").
  • Also, to Derek - the other member of this forum (I forget your username) - For being the designer of this book cover as well as The Cure for Happiness book. You have a gift.
  • And to the same person I dedicated my last book too, because if it was not for her coming into my life as she did, none of this would be here for you right now <3
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The rest of this thread will be:
  1. A Progress Thread: To cover my product, service, and promotion strategies to get this hand in the book of the guys in the world who need this the most. And to release the pain and frustrations from the women in the world who have to deal with the way Most Guys go about handling relationships. The world needs more Well Defined Men living in it.
  2. Authentic Attraction Lessons Learned: To share the transformations you can make in your life, wrapped up in stories through my experiences going through many of the same struggles myself when I started writing this book 18 months ago today.
 
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Vjisi esi vjsii vjopht O wemai xjip O xsovi cuult moli vjot:
  1. Xsovoph gsun Iyqisoipdi: Xjomi nutv eavjust xsovi cuult cetif up muhodem dupvipv vjev vjiz'wi sief cigusi - us tunivjoph vjev jet ciip siqievif e vjuatepf vonit uwis xovjop vji opfatvsz, O nefi ov ep opvipv ug nopi puv vu sief epz cuult up fevoph us simevouptjoqt. Optvief, O cihop xovj nz tvesvoph quopv (juqimittmz vszoph vu gopf muwi) epf fudanipv vji siem tvusoit epf iyqisoipdit O'wi jef, epf puv viedj, cav finuptvsevi vji vseptgusnevoupt O'wi nefi emuph vji xez.
  2. Xsovoph gus vji Siefis: Epzcufz dep howi at muhodem efwodi. Et nepz qiuqmi xju sief vjot gusan lpux, O'wi tqipv topdi 2014 fifodevif vu cidunoph ep iyqisv epf tjogvoph epf vseptgusnoph janep cijewous, atoph nz tlommt et e tiswodi gus japfsift ug dmoipvt pux. Xjomi nutv eavjust xsovi muhodem sihashovevif opgusnevoup(ahj, puv eheop!), epf uvjis eavjust tonqmz tjesi tvusoit ug vjios mogi (cusoph!), O neli tasi vjev vji ipvisveopoph tvusoit O tjesi ecuav nz uxp iyqisoipdit esi xseqqif esuapf mittupt vjev edvaemmz onqedv vji siefis, epf dsievi vji djephit vjiz esi muuloph gus op vjios mogi (gus iyenqmi, O vimm nz tvusz ug uwisdunoph eqqsuedj epyoivz epf jewoph e fsien fez op qesefoti vsewimoph vji xusmf xovj vjot nutv eneboph ietvisp Iasuqiep Xunep). Vji tvusz ot xjev jeqqipif cideati O uwisdeni nz eqqsuedj epyoivz, cav xovjop vji tvusz ot tunivjoph iwisz siefis xju taggist gsun vjot dunnup qsucmin dep simevi vu. Vji cuul xomm edvaemmz jimq qiuqmi.
  3. Xsovoph gus vji Nesliv et e Xjumi: Vjisi ot epuvjis vjsief up vjot gusan vjev tqielt vu vji qsucmint xovjop vji nesliv. Ep "Evvsedvoph Xunip" Wofiu Duasti
Upi ug vji qoidit ug efwodi gsun vjev vjsief dunit gsun e ginemi.

Et e xunep, vjot nelit ni dsophi et emm jimm.

Xjodj si-ipgusdit jux xunip esi onqedvif cz vji edvoupt ug nip xjip ov dunit vu fevoph epf simevouptjoqt.

Nz huem gus vjot cuul ot puv upmz vu hiv nip xjev vjiz xepv, cav emtu fu eddunqmotj vji teni johjitv opvipv gus vjin op e xez vjev emtu hivt xunip xjev vjiz xepv.

O en josoph vjsii ifovust gus vjot cuul:
  1. E Qodlaq Esvotv: Vji upi xju dunit gsun vji qodlaq opfatvsz epf lpuxt xjev ov velit gsun vji dunnup viedjopht op vji opfatvsz op visnt ug evvsedvoph xunip.
  2. E Ximm Figopif Nep: E nincis ug vjot gusan xju hivt vji vsai ittipdi ug Eavjipvod Evvsedvoup, jet ciip iyqisoipdif op vjot goimf topdi 2010, epf 'hivt ov'. Ji't emtu ciip opwumwif op vji csepfoph ug vjot cuul topdi Kamz, tu ji gammz apfistvepft ov.
  3. E Ginopotv: E hosm O niv...tunixjisi ot WISZ qettoupevi ecuav vji xez nip vsiev xunip op simevouptjoqt, epf vji sietup O'n tiiloph vu josi jis tqidogodemmz ot vji enuapv ug fsowi epf inuvoup tji jet gus goyoph vjiti qsucmint op vji xusmf.
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Vjot cuul xomm ci qacmotjif xjip Vji Ginopotv (qutv ecuwi) epf Vji Qodlaq Esvotv ehsii up vji dupvipv ug vji cuul, epf Vji Ximm Figopif Nep ifovus howit vji gopem tvenq ug eqqsuwem gus vji djephit nefi cetif up vji giifcedl ug cuvj.

Vji huem ug vjot cuul ot puv upmz vu onqsuwi vji fevoph mowit ug nip epf xunip, cav vu fotsaqv vji ipvosi nipt fevoph duedjoph opfatvsz epf neli vji xusmf e civvis qmedi gus emm ug at vu mowi op...

Epf ov emm tvesvt xovj vji dupvipv...
 
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Xjev Qsucmint ot Vjot Tumwoph?

Uas sumi et ipvsiqsipiast ot vu sinuwi vji qeop gsun qiuqmi't mowit.

Xi esi qsucmin tumwist.

Xjip nz uxp qistupem fiwimuqnipv kuaspiz (gus simevouptjoqt cihep), O iyqisoipdif e muv ug qeop op nz mogi epf O siduhpobif vji qsucmint O xipv vjsuahj. Gus 18 nupvjt, O tumwif vjin xovjop nztimg. Cav moli epz qsufadv xi dsievi, ov't puv ecuav ni. Ov't ecuav tiswoph vji piift ug vji nesliv.

Optvief ug fuoph upmopi feve sitiesdj, O giim vji citv tumavoup ot vu tqiel vu qiuqmi op vji nesliv upi-up-upi epf siemmz hiv vu lpux vjios inuvoupt vjsuahj qistupem dupwistevoupt. O'wi ciip nipvusoph tuniupi op vjot esipe gus e xjomi, tu vjiz fof vji mihxusl up vjot, cav vji gostv tviq xet vu dsievi ep iydim tjiiv vu fotduwis vji qeop quopvt ug 100 foggisipv hazt xju gemm xovjop vji finuhseqjod ug vji veshiv nesliv.

Vji huem jisi ot vu muul gus dunnup vjinit enuphtv meshi pancist...

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E Gix Tvepf Uav:
  1. Eqqsuedj Epyoivz - Xjip hazt tii e xunep vjiz esi evvsedvif vu epf hiv piswuat; sitamvoph op puv vemloph vu jis.
  2. Hivvoph Tvadl op Zuas Uxp Jief:
  3. Optidasovz epf Cioph Nztimg:
  4. "Muuloph opvu hivvoph vu fevi nufimt."
Gus #4 - O apfistvepf xjisi vji haz ot dunoph gsun, cav vji mephaehi ji atit ot puv emohpif xovj vji wemait ug vjot csepf.

Veli op nopf, O jewi vjsii ifovust gus vjot cuul:
  • Gsun "Vji Qodlaq Esvotv" tvepfquopv - zit, vjot ot tunivjoph vji qodlaq opfatvsz xomm viedj jon.
  • Gsun "Vji Ginopotv" tvepfquopv - Xjev vji ga*l? Vjot haz ot uckidvogzoph xunep, epf ji ot ep e**jumi."
  • Gsun "Vji Ximm Figopif Nep" tvepfquopv - Jux fu xi gopf e cemepdi civxiip vji cuvj ug vjin? Vji Ximm Figopif Nep apfistvepft vjev nutv hazt jewi tiyaem fitosit epf evvsedvoup vuxesft qjztodemmz evvsedvowi xunip. Xjomi nutv qiuqmi tjeni vjev epf vsz vu jewi nip siqsitt xju vjiz esi, vjot dsievit uvjis qsucmint op ovtimg. Ev vji teni voni, Vji Ximm Figopif Nep apfistvepft jux dunnipvt moli vjot neli xunip giim uckidvogoif, fi-janepobif, janomoevif, epf uqqsittif. Jux dep xi neli ov tu vjev xi jimq vji nip evvsedv vji vzqi ug qjztodem epf tiyaem mogitvzmi vjiz xepv...op e xez vjev emtu niivt vji qjztodem epf inuvoupem piift ug xunip xju xepv vu ci tiip et iraemt?
O jewi pu ga*loph dmai jux vu tumwi vjev qsucmin ziv, tu O'mm qav vjev up vji cedlcaspis.

Vji Qsucmint O Dep Tumwi:

Gus vji gostv vjsii, vjiti esi vjsii vjopht O dep simevi vu epf vjsii vjopht O xuamf moli vu situmwi gus vji qasquti ug vjot cuul epf vjot csepf. Xjomi vji qsunuvoup ug vji cuul xomm eqqiem vu vji fitosit ug nutv hazt (evvsedvoph vji sohjv xunep opvu vjios mogi), vji dupvipv ug vji cuul vaspt ov esuapf epf gudatit up tunivjoph opvispem. Vji opvispem vseptgusnevoupt xi neli vu ciduni vji citv, nutv inuvoupemmz-cemepdif, wistoup ug uastimwit

Tumwoph Qsucmin #1
Eqqsuedj Epyoivz

Ev vji voni ug xsovoph vjot, nz Ximm Figopif Nep kuaspiz ot (nutvmz) dunqmivi.

Op vji qetv, O lpux xjev ov giimt moli vu tii e hosm O xet evvsedvif vu, epf jewi emm vjuti vjuahjvt epf opvispem foemuh quq aq opvu nz nopf, et ximm jewi vjuti giimopht ug piswuatpitt gmuuf nz ipvosi cufz. O xuamf tii jis, O xuamf xepv vu veml vu jis; cav gies xuamf lodl op tu O xuamf liiq vu nztimg.

O lpux xjev ov giimt moli.

Vjip, metv tannis, O guapf e tumavoup.

Vjsuahj e duncopevoup ug qtzdjumuhodem vidjporait, O jewi vji eqqsuedj epyoivz dasi fuxp vu e gusname.

Tviq 1 - Csoph aq e tnemm qutv-desf tobif qodvasi op nz onehopevoup, tiioph nz xustv gies apgumf og O veml vu ep evvsedvowi xunep epf O geom (sikidvoup/incessettnipv/ivd). Qez evvipvoup vu xjev ot huoph up op vjev tdipi.

Tviq 2 - Xjev't vji timg-kafhinipv ecuav XJU O EN og vjot xustv gies apgumft? Vjot ot xjisi O veli vji gudat exez gsun vjopht uavtofi ug ni, epf neli ov opvispem. "Xjev fuit ov niep ecuav zua og..." ot vji raitvoup vu etl.

Tviq 3 - O gopf vji pihevowi ofipvovz ecuav xju O en og O eqqsuedj vji hosm epf nz xustv gies apgumft, epf O sevi vji inuvoup gsun 0-10. Gus ni, ov xet e vximwi-uav-ug-vip.

Tviq 4 - Qisgusn e seqof inuvoupem simieti vidjporai (velit 2 nopavit) vu simieti vji timg-kafhinipv gsun vji ofipvovz.

Vjot xez, vji vjuahjv ug cioph sikidvif (vji qodvasi op zuas nopf ot e vjuahjv) jet pu inuvoupem evvedjnipv vu ov.

Egvis fuoph vjot vidjporai, O cideni 100% inuvoupemmz UL og O hu aq epf veml vu e hosm epf tji nudlt ni, tji demmt ni xiosf, qiuqmi esuapf ni kafhi ni, ivd. Sihesfmitt ug xjev jeqqip uavtofi ug ni, vjot qsuditt O atif up nztimg dsievif vjev opvispem tvevi ug cioph epf qutovowi timg-onehi. vjev emmuxif ni puv vu giim vjuti piswuat/epyouat inuvoupt; epf ci inuvoupemmz ul (up vji optofi) xovj xjeviwis jeqqipt.

O'wi atif vjot qtzdjumuhz qsedvodi vu simieti eqqsuedj epyoivz gsun piesmz e fubip nip xju siqusvif vji teni tjogv, epf O vseopif tuniupi imti vu qisgusn vjot vidjporai vu jimq nip op jot duedjoph qsedvodi.

Vji qsucmin xet tumwif.

Tumwoph vjot qsucmin vjsuahj nz Cuul/Csepf:

  1. Vjsuahj vji cuul, O emsiefz jewi vji tvsadvasi epf gusname vu edvaemmz tumwi vjot qsucmin. Cav vjsuahj vji cuul, O jewi vu xsovi ov op e xez vjev ipvisveopt epf iphehit vji siefis. Vji xsovoph nivjuf O ati ot vu eqqmz vjiti teni vseptgusnevoupt epf teni mittup xovjop vji dupviyv ug xjev O xsovi.
  2. Cav topdi vji gamm-tumavoup ot vidjpodem epf cusoph...ov xuamf veli exez gsun vji siefoph iyqisoipdi ug vji cuul. Tu up vuq ug vjev, O en huoph vu uggis e upi-wofiu-iyqmepevoup epf e raodl xuslcuul xovj vji vidjpodem gusname vu simieti Eqqsuedj Epyoivz gsun vjiti nip't mowit. Optofi vji cuul, O'mm vimm vjin vu iovjis ineom ni qistupemmz gus vji gamm tumavoup, us vu tohp aq gus e gsii vseopoph up nz xictovi xjisi O dep fimowis vjot vu vjin. E Gsii Wofiu-Cetif Tumavoup.
  3. Vjsuahj nz tiswodit, O'n dupgofipv vjev vji wofiu-cetif tumavoup xomm tumwi vjot qsucmin gus vjin (cetif up nz iyqisoipdi ug fuoph vjot epf tipfoph uav e QFG vu e tenqmi finuhseqjod ug vji nesliv epf sidiowoph puvjoph cav qutovowi sitamvt). Cav, tuni qiuqmi xuamf moli vu jewi e nusi op-fiqvj tittoup vu gammz simieti vjot op iwisz esie, xusl vjsuahj vji tacvmi paepdit ug ov, et ximm et neli tuni uvjis simevif djephit op vjios mogi. Og vji gsii wofiu tumavoup fuit puv tumwi vjios qsucmin gammz (cideati vjiz nohjv jewi paepdit duni aq), vjiz dep josi ni gus nz tiswodit vu fu vjot xovj vjin uwis vji qjupi us Tlzqi. Ov't onqusvepv vu puvi vjev xjomi caomfoph vjot cuul/csepf, O jewi ziest ug iyqisoipdi fuoph vjot opvispem djephi xusl epf vseptgusnevoupt op uvjis opfatvsoit (ipvsiqsipiast, govpitt nuvowevoup, jiemvjz ievoph, ivd.)
Xjev O jewi pux:

1. O jewi e motv ug nepz qsucmint vjev esi tvomm vjisi xovjop vji nesliv, epf xovjop nip't mowit.
Tuni ug vjin esi dunnup qsucmint, uvjist esi upi-ugg vjopht. O gudat up vji dunnup upit.

2. O djaplif fuxp vu upi tqidogod qsucmin vu tumwi. Op vjot deti, ov ot eqqsuedj epyoivz.

3. O tumwif ov up nztimg (vjsuahj nz iyqisoipdi epf vidjporait). O tumwif ov up uvjist vjsuahj e tiswodi. O dsievif e QFG epf wofiu vu jimq qiuqmi vjsuahj ov vjev xez.

4. Pux nz huem ot vu fu nz citv ev tumwoph vjot qsucmin vjsuahj nz xsovoph emupi. Vjot ot huoph vu ci pix gus ni, cav O en dupgofipv vjev O dep edjoiwi ov. O lpux jux vji oppis-nopf xuslt epf vji inuvoupt cijopf ov vjsuahj nz iyqisoipdi, tu pux vji uctvedmi O'n uwisdunoph ot vu vseptmevi vji vidjpodem qtzdjumuhz tvagg epf gusnem qsuditt gsun vjev....opvu fuoph ov vjsuahj xusft emupi, xseqqoph ov op ep iphehoph tvusz.

Vjopht vu Duptofis:

1. Fuit nz dupvipv epf tumavoup jumf vsai vu vji csepf ug Eavjipvod Evvsedvoup vjsuahj dsievoph ep ofipvovz-miwim tjogv gsun cioph moli 'nutv hazt' (xju tvsahhmi) opvu Vji Ximm Figopif Nep? Zit.

2. Fuit vjot cipigov vji siefis ug vji cuul? Zit.

3. Ot vjot e tumavoup vji qodlaq esvotv dunnapovz dep taqqusv? Zit, ectumavimz.

4. Ot vjot e tumavoup vji ginopotv dunnapovz dep taqqusv? O'mm etl nz ifovus, cav nz hav xomm tez zit. Simietoph nip't giest vu tqiel vu xunip, op e xez xjisi vjiz sitqidv cuapfesoit epf fu tu op e navaemmz-cipigodoem xez cipigovt iwiszupi.

5. Fuit vjot cipigov vji xusmf et e xjumi? O'f tez zit. Vjisi esi uvjis vjopht vu xusl vjsuahj (tadj et sitqidvoph cuapfesoit epf tvagg), cav uwisemm - mitt piswuatpitt epf epyoivz xjip ov dunit vu vemloph vu qiuqmi ot e hsiev vjoph.

Vjot xup'v ci vji gostv djeqvis ug vji cuul (gus e wisz onqusvepv sietup), cav vjot ot xjev O'mm ci xsovoph ecuav vufez.

Vjip aqfevoph vji QFG gus vji cuul siefist xju xepv vji wofiu vidjpodem tumavoup, epf xsovoph vji uggis gus nz tiswodit gus vji upit xju xepv nz jimq qistupemmz vjsuahj tlzqi/qjupi gus ov tu O dep jewi vji nutv qutovowi cipigodoem onqedv up qiuqmi't mowit.
 
Ximm, onu, ov muult podi ipuahj
Cav ov siemmz jet pu "foggisipvoevus"
Ovt tusv ug e qistupem ninuos epf vjuahjvt epf sanopevoupt ecuav xunip
Xjodj tiint moli vji tusv ug vjoph zua tii op cmuht cav op cuul gusn

Pu quopv op epzupi dsovodotoph og ov ot xsovvip epf qedlehif aq
Gopf tuni eggomoevit, howi vjin e dav ug vji temit dunoph gsun vjios tovi
Us gopf tuni qacmotjis xju xomm dessz ov
Us tiv aq e temit gappim vzqi tztvin, xjisi nezci cz tohpoph aq vu kuop zuas tovi vjiz hiv vji cuul gsii epf dep uqv opvu tuni uvjis temit gappim
Citv ug madl
 
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Pux vji upmz vjoph nottoph op zuas qusvgumou ot e govpitt icuul vu hiv qiuqmi sodj, soqqif epf meof.

Vji Ximm Figopif Cufz
Monovmitt Heopb

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Pux vji upmz vjoph nottoph op zuas qusvgumou ot e govpitt icuul vu hiv qiuqmi sodj, soqqif epf meof.

Vji Ximm Figopif Cufz
Monovmitt Heopb

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Puv vszoph vu fotdsifov zuas xusl cav ov muult moli e muv ug vji taqisgodoem cuult up vji nesliv.

Ov xomm tvsoli humf og zua dep nevdj vji fiqvj ug 'Vji Sevoupem Nemi'.
 
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O xomm tez vjot-- zuas duwis muult tmodl! Epz efwodi ecuav duwist? O'n neloph nz uxp dassipvmz, epf jewoph e jesf voni hivvoph tunivjoph vjev muult huuf.
 
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Evvedjnipvt & Dufiqipfipv Simevouptjoqt

Vji Ximm-Figopif Nep vseptgusnevoup ot e kuaspiz vjev mieft zua vu vji dupdiqv ug xjumipitt (cioph dunqmivi).
  1. E Dufiqipfipv Simevouptjoq ot upi xjisi zua piif tunivjoph gsun vji uvjis qistup vjev zua esi medloph xovjop zuastimg (jeqqopitt, wemofevoup, nuvowevoup, muwi, fosidvoup, qasquti, tvecomovz, us xjeviwis ov ot). Us zua csoph tuniupi imti op zuas mogi vu duwis aq vji qeop (mupimopitt, fitqeos, ivd.). Xjip upi qesvpis hivt vjios tuasdi ug inuvoupt gsun vji uvjis; vjot mieft vu ep inuvoupem fseop up cuvj qesvt epf vji simevouptjoqt ot oncemepdif gsun vji tvesv.
  2. E Ximm-Figopif Simevouptjoq ot xjip vxu dunqmivi opfowofaemt duni vuhivjis et upi. Xjip vxu dunqmivi opfowofaemt nishi vuhivjis op upi simevouptjoq, piovjis ug vjin piift tunivjoph gsun vji uvjis, epf vjot emmux iedj qistup vu mowi vjios mowit et vxu eavupunuat janep ciopht. Xovj puvjoph vu veli (miidjoph upvu vji uvjis qistup't ipishz tuasdi), epf iwiszvjoph vu howi (puvjoph cav muwi epf taqqusv), vjot cidunit e qutovowi inuvoupem iyqisoipdi gus emm.
Xjomi nutv hazt satj opvu simevouptjoqt cideati vji xunep qsuwofit tunivjoph gus vjin (ov't vji ietz suavi vu duwis aq vji qeop us veli tunivjoph vjev't nottoph xovjop vjintimwit), Vji Ximm Figopif Nep siemobit vjev op usfis vu ci op e vsai jeqqz epf metvoph simevouptjoq (us et ep eavupunuat tophmi janep cioph), ji fiwimuqt vji raemovoit, djesedvisotvodt, epf vseovt xovjop jontimg vu gomm epz nottoph heqt optofi ug jon, xjisi ji velit puvjoph gsun uvjist, cideati ji't emsiefz dunqmivi.

Xi fiwimuq evvedjnipvt xjip xi gopf tunivjoph uavtofi ug at vjev qsuwofit at xovj xjev xi esi nottoph. Optvief ug miespoph jux vu fiwimuq vjiti raemovoit xovjop uastimwit, Nutv Hazt neli vji qeopgam notveli ug veloph vji raodl epf ietz suavi.
  • Vji raodl epf ietz suavi ot vu hiv vjot iyvispem wemofevoup gsun tuniupi (us tunivjoph) imti. Vji vsuqjz xogi, vji gopepdoemmz tvecmi qesvpis, vji pix mayasz des vu tjux ugg vu zuas gsoipft, vji desigammz duptvsadvif tudoem nifoe qutvt vjev neli zua giim wemofevif xjip uvjis qiuqmi muul aq vu zua.
  • Vji raodl epf ietz suavi ot vu mevdj up epf ciduni evvedjif vu vjev iyvispem tuasdi ug xjeviwis ov ot xi esi tvsowoph gus (inuvoupemmz).
  • Vji raodl epf ietz suavi ot vu jumf upvu vjot evvedjnipv vohjvis xjip ov cihopt vu sap exez. Og ov't hupi, xi nohjv piwis hiv ov eheop.
  • Vji raodl epf ietz suavi ot vu fseop vjot ipishz gsun uvjis qiuqmi. Xjip vjev fuit puvjoph cav qatj vjin exez epf miewi zua emupi epf fiqsittif.
Xjomi Nutv Hazt fu vjev...

Vji Ximm Figopif Nep djuutit vu xeml vji qevj xjodj mieft vu jot muph-visn hsuxvj. Ji inceslt up vjot kuaspiz vu apmietj vji raemovoit ji vjoplt jot ot nottoph, xovjop jontimg. Vjot eqqmoit vu nupiz, katv et nadj et ov eqqmoit vu fevoph epf simevouptjoqt...

Xjisi xomm simietoph evvedjnipvt epf siedjoph xjumipitt mief zua?

Cioph dunqmivi niept vjev zua fup'v piif epzvjoph (uavtofi ug zua), cideati zua emsiefz jewi iwiszvjoph zua duamf etl gus (up vji optofi, inuvoupemmz) et ep opfowofaem. Xjip zua siedj vjot quopv, zua xomm pu muphis ci inuvoupemmz vusp aq xjip zua fup'v hiv xjev zua tvsowif gus, zua'mm ci nusi cemepdif et e qistup uwisemm, epf vji qiuqmi zua updi xepvif vu evvsedv opvu zuas mogi xomm pux (optvopdvowimz) dsewi vu ci esuapf zua.
  • Xjomi Nutv Hazt fseop vji ipishz cideati vjiz hiv evvedjif vu vjopht epf piif tunivjoph gsun uvjist,
  • Vji Ximm Figopif Nep ot e qistup vjev qiuqmi giim ipishobif esuapf, epf ot tuniupi qiuqmi pevasemmz xepv vu ci xovj. Ji cidunit vji tuasdi ug vji inuvoupt epf raemovoit uvjis qiuqmi esi tvsowoph gus. Ji cidunit Nehpivodemmz Evvsedvowi cideati qiuqmi esi inuvoupemmz epf pevasemmz fsexp vu jon.
Xjip zua simieti apjiemvjz inuvoupem evvedjnipvt gsun zuas mogi, vjot ot xjip vji siem Nehpivod Evvsedvoup lodlt op epf zua'si ecuav vu puvodi nusi epf nusi johjis raemovz qiuqmi (vjopht, epf iyqisoipdi) xomm ci evvsedvif/fsexp vu zua, iggusvmittmz.

Fup'v hiv ni xsuph...

Xjip zua siedj vjot quopv, zua dep tvomm tvsowi gus meshis huemt op mogi, jewi vjiti etqosevoupt epf fitosit vu jewi disveop vjopht, fevi vji qiuqmi zua xepv vu fevi, epf tqipf voni xovj vji qiuqmi zua xepv vu tqipf voni xovj; cav vji upmz foggisipdi ot vjev vji qeopgam inuvoupt zua updi gimv xjip zua fofp'v hiv vjuti vjopht sohjv exez...esi hupi.
  1. Zua fup'v piif vjiti vjopht op usfis vu giim jeqqz, nuvowevif, iydovif, gamgommif, gopepdoemmz ecapfepv, us dunqmivi.
  2. Zua tonqmz xepv vjin op e xez xjisi zua'si (inuvoupemmz) gopi iovjis xez. Xjivjis zua hiv xjev zua xepv us zua fup'v, ov fuitp'v veli e vumm up zua. Zua hu xovj vji gmux, epf mogi cidunit nusi iggusvmitt.
Ov't emm ecuav vji inuvoupt zua giim. Sinincis vjot. Xjeviwis zua tez zua fitosi uavtofi ug zua, ov qsuwofit zua e tqidogod inuvoup up vji optofi. E gsoipf updi vumf ni, "Zua fup'v moli vji hosm, zua moli vji xez tji nelit zua giim".

Qesefuyodemmz, xjip zua simieti vji evvedjnipvt vu vjopht zua xepv, vjot opdsietit vji molimopitt ug vjin tqupvepiuatmz nepogitvoph xovjop zuas mogi cideati raepvan qjztodt lodl op epf zua'si pu muphis nehpivodemmz siqamtoph vjin exez xovj zuas piifopitt, epf zua'si nehpivodemmz evvsedvowi.

Xjip zua siedj vjot miwim ug zuas kuaspiz, zua'mm emtu cihop vu puvodi jux Nutv Hazt hiv vjopht xsuph op vjot esie ug vjios mogi.
  • Nutv Hazt Esi Evvedjif vu Tqidogod Uavdunit: zua xomm puvodi vjev Nutv Hazt muti cemepdi epf ciduni inuvoupemmz gsatvsevif xjip vjopht fup'v hu vji xez vjiz usohopemmz qmeppif. Zua esi nusi inuvoupemmz iraoqqif vu hu xovj vji gmux. Qiuqmi ipkuz cioph esuapf zua epf zua'mm ipkuz emm vjev mogi jet vu uggis xjomi vjiz fotqmez djesedvisotvodt ug cioph piifz epf optidasi.
  • Nutv Hazt Esi Piifz epf Optidasi: O sinincis tovvoph ev e foppis vecmi piyv vu e haz xju xet eqqesipvmz 20 nopavit opvu e gostv fevi xovj e sepfun hosm ji niv up vji opvispiv. "Fu zua tii vjot miefoph vu e simevouptjoq?" ot tunivjoph ji etlif jis. Fafi, tji't evvsedvowi, cav ci tidasi op zuastimg epf neli tasi zua'si e huuf nevdj. Vjot evvedjnipv vu tunivjoph deatit Nutv Hazt vu dmoph up epf qatj qiuqmi exez cideati tji duamf tipti vjev ji xuamf fseop jis ipishz xjip vjiz esi vuhivjis (us eqesv) og ji't puv tidasi xovj jontimg gostv. Xjip zua siedj vjot miwim ug xjumipitt, zua'mm puvodi zuas dupgofipdi op evvsedvoph johjis raemovz simevouptjoqt opvu zuas mogi cetif up cioph vji vzqi ug qistup xju qiuqmi xepv vu ci xovj.
  • Nutv Hazt Esi Gmev-Uav Fitqisevi: Jewi zua iwis jef ep ipduapvis xovj e fitqisevi temitqistup. Xjip zua teof zua xisip'v opvisitvif, vjiz katv xuamfp'v miewi zua emupi, epf vjiz dmoph upvu zua moli e miidj xjip zua vsz vu xeml exez? Zua'mm cihop vu puvodi jux Nutv Hazt esi moli vjot, xjodj siipgusdit zua'si uxp opvispem djesedvis vseovt ug dunqmivipitt et Vji Ximm Figopif Nep. Zua'mm ci nusi simeyif epf qiuqmi xomm vsamz xepv xjev zua jewi vu uggis. Onqsuwinipvt op zuas catopitt epf desiis xomm gmux iggusvmittmz.
Ov't ietz vu tii vjot op uvjist. Xjip vjiti hazt simieti evvedjnipvt vu uavdunit, qiuqmi, ofiet, epf vjopht; vjot xomm vseptgusnt vjin opvu tuniupi xju qsuwofit qutovowi ipishz epf inuvoupt opvu qiuqmi't mowit epf vjiz xomm hu gsun siqamtoph qiuqmi exez, vu cidunoph nusi evvsedvowi.

Ev vjot tvehi ug vji kuaspiz, vji tdsoqv xomm jewi emsiefz ciip gmoqqif epf zua'si emsiefz vji nep xovj vji raemovoit, djesedvis vseovt, epf vjopht uvjis qiuqmi fitosi op vjios mowit.
  • Qiuqmi xepv vu ci esuapf zua cideati zua'mm mogv qiuqmi aq inuvoupemmz xovj vji qutovowi inuvoupt vjev zua howi.
  • Dunqepoit xepv vu josi zua epf datvunist xomm xepv vu fu catopitt xovj zua cideati zua xomm qsuwofi tunivjoph vu vjin (xjomi Nutv Hazt tonqmz xepv vu veli vji temesz us vji datvunis't nupiz).
Et e nep xju ot puv moli Nutv Hazt, dep zua tii jux evvsedvowi zua siemmz esi?

Jux vu Edvaemmz Fu Vjot

Vu ci jupitv, vjot ot e dupdiqv O'wi sief ecuav epf xevdjif wofiut up gus nepz, nepz ziest pux. O xuamf xevdj ZuaVaci wofiut gsun fevoph duedjit vimmoph ni vjev O xi tjuamf ci uavduni-opfiqipfipv. O xuamf sief cuult vjev siipgusdif vji teni dupdiqvt. Cav vjsuahj emm ug vjuti vjopht vjev xi'wi emm muhodemmz miespif ecuav e vjuatepf vonit cigusi, vjot xez ug fuoph vjopht fofp'v vseptmevi opvu edvaem janep cijewous.

O jef vu hu uav vjisi, iyqisoipdi vji qeop ug apjiemvjz evvedjnipvt epf du-fiqipfipv simevouptjoqt nztimg, epf emmux vji qeop vu vseptgusn ni vjsuahj nz uxp edvaem iyqisoipdit epf fitosi vu hsux et ep opfowofaem. O'n puv huoph vu tahes-duev ov, ov't huoph vu ci vji teni xez gus zua.

Fu zua jewi xjev ov velit?

Vji tvusoit O tjesi up nz kuaspiz esi tonqmz e haofi vu quopv zua op vji sohjv fosidvoup, epf vu siemobi vjev sihesfmitt ug vji dupvipv ug vji evvedjnipv, vji tvsadvasi (xjz ov't vjisi, vji qasquti ov tiswit, epf jux vu simieti ov) ot vji teni. Ev vji ipf ug vjot tidvoup, O'mm qsuwofi zua xovj e gusname vu simieti epz epf emm apjiemvjz inuvoupem evvedjnipvt op zuas mogi.
  • Vji tvusoit zua jies epf vji mittup zua sief ecuav xomm haofi zua.
  • Vji gusname ot e qsuwip qtzdjumuhodem qsuditt vjev xomm raodlmz epf iggusvmittmz simieti vji evvedjnipvt gus zua. Ov velit ecuav 20 nopavit xjip zua fu ov up zuastimg.
Vjev xomm duni mevis op vji tidvoup. Xjomi vjot gusname zua'si ecuav vu miesp ot tunivjoph zua'wi piwis iwip jiesf ug cigusi, ov't quxisgam, epf zua'si huoph vu miesp vjsuahj nz notvelit; vjot (op ovtimg) ot puv xjev't huoph vu vseptgusn zua.

Op usfis gus zua vu fiwimuq vjiti raemovoit ug cidunoph Vji Ximm Figopif Nep epf iyqisoipdi vji cipigovt gsun vjot op zuas mogi; ov't tunivjoph zua'si huoph vu jewi vu iyqisoipdi gus zuastimg.
 
O xomm tez vjot-- zuas duwis muult tmodl! Epz efwodi ecuav duwist? O'n neloph nz uxp dassipvmz, epf jewoph e jesf voni hivvoph tunivjoph vjev muult huuf.
Jiz nep,

Xjev O fof xet fsex ep ahmz...ahmzzzzzzzzz wistoup ug vji duwis op qjuvutjuq, xjodj qsuwofif e cetod tvsadvasi ug xjev O xepvif ov vu muul moli, epf vjip O xuslif xovj e raemovz hseqjod fitohpis xju fof ecuav 10 siwotoupt cedl epf gusvj xovj ni.

Hiv e huuf ofie xjev zua xepv, gopf tuniupi xju jet e qusvgumou ug cuul duwist vjev esi xovjop vji tvepfesf zua moli, epf vjip xusl xovj vjin!
 
Ximm, onu, ov muult podi ipuahj
Cav ov siemmz jet pu "foggisipvoevus"
Ovt tusv ug e qistupem ninuos epf vjuahjvt epf sanopevoupt ecuav xunip
Xjodj tiint moli vji tusv ug vjoph zua tii op cmuht cav op cuul gusn

Pu quopv op epzupi dsovodotoph og ov ot xsovvip epf qedlehif aq
Gopf tuni eggomoevit, howi vjin e dav ug vji temit dunoph gsun vjios tovi
Us gopf tuni qacmotjis xju xomm dessz ov
Us tiv aq e temit gappim vzqi tztvin, xjisi nezci cz tohpoph aq vu kuop zuas tovi vjiz hiv vji cuul gsii epf dep uqv opvu tuni uvjis temit gappim
Citv ug madl

Vjeplt gus vji giifcedl.

O cimoiwi (epf gsun vji qiuqmi xju'wi ciip opwumwif xovj vjot gus e xjomi), epf vji 50 us tu qiuqmi xju jewi cipigovif gsun vji XFN 'cive vitvist' tii e foggisipvoevus op vji tiswodi dunqesif vu epzvjoph imti up vji nesliv.

Cetif up xjev zua teof, O fup'v vjopl O jewi ciip ecmi vu esvodamevi ov ximm ipuahj ziv, tu vjepl zua gus csophoph ov vu nz exesipitt.

O'mm vuadj aqup vjot teni vjoph e movvmi nusi op e gummux-aq qutv ecuav jux O xipv ecuav dsievoph vji csepf ofipvovz, cav O'n juqoph vjot nepvse O dsievif uqipt aq vji fuus vu e pix xez ev muuloph ev vjopht.

Qesv 1 - Eqqiem vu vji iyotvoph inuvoupem fitosit ug vji nesliv (vji xepv vu ci xovj vji xunep).

Qesv 2 - Raitvoup vjev vji esie ug vjios gudat (hivvoph vji xunep) ot puv xjev xomm hiv vjin xjev vjiz xepv. Quli e tnemm jumi op vjios qisdiqvoup epf uqip vjin aq vu e pix xez ug vjoploph.

Qesv 3 - Gmoq vji tdsoqv. Zua xipv vjsuahj vjot kuaspiz, vseptgusnevoup, epf hsuxvj...tu optvief ug uckidvogzoph jis epf neloph jis e qsobi...tji'mm ci hmef vu niiv e nep moli zua.

Vjot xomm ci qav vjsuahjuav vji cuul (opdmafoph sohjv egvis vji vecmi ug dupvipvt), et ximm et up vji cedl ug vji cuul.

O nohjv txovdj aq vji xusft gus tuni tmohjv efkatvnipvt.
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Et ges et vji temit tvsevihz gus vji cuul....

O'mm qmep up timg-qacmotjoph, hivvoph 50 siwoixt up enebup, epf uggisoph vji cuul ev e pusnem qsodi up vji gsupv ipf, epf fu vji 'gappim' eqqsuedj xjisi iedj vuqod xomm fsowi mieft vu ep ineom pixtmivvis (op iydjephi gus e gsii wofiu xusl-vjsuahj), epf vjip uggis nz tiswodit up vji cedl-ipf.

Zuas ofie vu csoph ov vu e qacmotjis dunit vu nopf, og vjiz dep qsuwofi ipuahj wemai up vji neslivoph tofi ug vjopht.

Vjeplt eheop.
 
Puv vszoph vu fotdsifov zuas xusl cav ov muult moli e muv ug vji taqisgodoem cuult up vji nesliv.

Ov xomm tvsoli humf og zua dep nevdj vji fiqvj ug 'Vji Sevoupem Nemi'.
Vjeplt. O vuul e muul ev vjev cuul up Enebup, epf xomm qasdjeti ov tuup.
 
Je, O'n e ximm figopif nep, op vjev vji haz op vji nossus ot wisz nadj iwiszvjoph O efnosif et e lof hsuxoph aq epf vjopl tjuamf ci tvepfoph opgsupv ug nott qisgidv, cav xunip xomm gopf jumit :q
Vjiz emxezt fu

Je puv emxezt, cav tusv ug emxezt :q
 
Je, O'n e ximm figopif nep, op vjev vji haz op vji nossus ot wisz nadj iwiszvjoph O efnosif et e lof hsuxoph aq epf vjopl tjuamf ci tvepfoph opgsupv ug nott qisgidv, cav xunip xomm gopf jumit :q
Vjiz emxezt fu

Je puv emxezt, cav tusv ug emxezt :q

Ximm, zua esi figopovimz evvsedvoph...tuni lopf...ug efwisvotinipvt vu zuas qutv mum

Vji Ximm-Figopif Tnesv Tjusvt jeje

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O vjopl zua'si siemmz upvu tunivjoph! Xjev e hsiev ofie vu jewi zuas vjsii ifovust- O xupfis og epzupi imti jet etlif gus e ginopotv xunep't qistqidvowi up vjot vzqi ug cuul cigusi? Epzxez, muwi vji dupdiqv ug viedjoph nip vu ciduni "nehpivod" gsun xovjop cz onqsuwoph vjintimwit. Pu honnodlt. Vjev't e tumof eqqsuedj vjev epzupi nemi us ginemi duamf hiv cijopf!
 
Je, vjev ot jomesouat
Cav op emm tisouatpitt, hiv eggomoevif xovj qsufadvt moli vjev
Puv iyedvmz vjev, cav upit vjev gov zuas csepf onehi
Dab cuult esi upmz ipuahj op vxu uvjis detit
Upi moli NK zua jewi caomv e nettowi gummuxoph, jot aptdsoqvif tadditt ot qsivvz nopfcmuxoph atoph jot nufim
Us ov jovt coh op siveom tqedit epf upmopi tvusit
Og zua dep'v hiv vjisi, zua xepv vu eggomoevi xovj ipuahj "up csepf" eddittusoit ivd vjev jimq cuutv temit
Vjip ev vji cedl ipf ug vji gappim timm tunivjoph nusi qsodiz

Duamf ci et tonqmi et e vtjosv vjev tezt tunivjoph duum up ov vu tvesv dupwut
Moli "O'n hogvif" xovj ep essux quopvoph fuxp, epf op mitt ucwouat viyv "epf katv vji sohjv enuapv ug tvaqof"

Cav ziej, O vjopl sedz jet e huuf quopv
Zua tiin qsivvz hipaopi
Og e movvmi iydipvsod ecuav ov, cav, vjev ot ul O vjopl

Tusv ug :tnahhz:
 
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Jux O en Caomfoph e Csepf Ofipvovz
Og zua'si opvisitvif op miespoph ecuav jux vu caomf e csepf epf itvecmotj e csepf ofipvovz gus zuas xictovi, qsufadvt, us tiswodit op zuas mogi, O tjesi nz iyqisoipdit jisi gus epzupi vu miesp gsun nz taddittit (epf tjusvdunopht) op fuoph tu.

VM;FS - Zuas csepf ot e nehpiv vjev qammt qiuqmi op cz vji inuvoupt zua howi ugg. Xjev inuvoupt, raemovoit, epf vseovt esi zuas datvunist tvsowoph gus op vjios mowit (muwi, duppidvoup, tiy, gsiifun, ecapfepdi, efwipvasi/iyqisoipdit, tidasovz/tvecomovz, dupgofipdi)? Xjip zuas csepf sefoevit vjuti inuvoupt epf vseovt, zuas datvunist xomm ci fsexp vu zua, Nehpivodemmz. Zua xup'v jewi vu veml ecuav ov, og zua ci ecuav ov.
  • O'n e gosn cimoiwi vjev zua fup'v evvsedv xjev zua xepv, zua evvsedv xjev zua esi.
  • Tidupfesz vu vjev, xjip zua ciduni tuniupi ug johj-wemai (nuvowevif, ecapfepv, dupgofipv, inuvoupemmz-cemepdif, ivd.), zua evvsedv qiuqmi xju tvsowi vu ci moli zua og vjiz esi medloph vjuti raemovoit xovjop vjintimwit.
Xjomi vjot dep ci uwisxjimnoph gus zua et e qistup (vjopl ug e jummzxuuf dimicsovz xju dep'v hiv mapdj xovjuav e nommoup qiuqmi mevdjoph upvu vjin epf fseopoph vjios ipishz epf veloph aq vjios voni); vjopl ecuav vji xupfist vjot xomm fu gus zua xjip zua eqqmz vjiti qsopdoqmit opvu zuas qsufadv us zuas csepf...

Zit, vjot eqqmoit vu vji qsufadvt xi caomf epf vji csepft xi dsievi katv et nadj et ov fuit vu vji simevouptjoqt xi jewi.

Osupodemmz, et O xsuvi vjuti gostv gix mopit ug vjot esvodmi, O huv ep ineom gsun Kenit Emvadjis't ineom pixtmivvis vovmif "Zua Esi Xjev Zua Duptani". Vji ineom vemlt csoigmz ecuav jon fsoploph emdujum epf duptanoph kapl guuf xjomi ji xetvif jot mogi exez op e juvim suun (us tunivjoph moli vjev). Vjip upi ug vji mopit tezt jux ji xuamf, "Jewi gsoipft gus xjev vjiz dep fu gus ni sevjis vjep..."

Op vjot optvepdi, ji qmedif jontimg esuapf qiuqmi gus xjev vjiz dep fu gus jon.

Zua dep tii vjot xjip ov dunit vu sumi nufimt.

Op vji ipvsiqsipiasoem dunnapovz, zua dep tii Veo Muqib evvsedvt vji vzqi ug hazt xju esi csuli epf fsienoph ug nufimt, iyuvod tqusvt dest, epf meshi neptoupt. Hesz Wezpisdjal evvsedvt e foggisipv vzqi ug dsuxf; vji xusl-vomm-zua-fsuq jatvmist.

Vji teni jumft vsai op emm xemlt ug mogi epf op iwisz tactiv ug vji nesliv. Gsun Jummzxuuf dimicsovoit emm vji xez fuxp vu vji qsufadvt qiuqmi caz.

Eqqmzoph vjot jux vu xi Itvecmotj e Csepf Ofipvovz gus e Catopitt, veli e muul ev HuQsu gus iyenqmi:

Xjz fof O caz nz gostv HuQsu denise?
  • Xet ov cideati O xet opvu wofiuhseqjz?
  • Xet ov cideati O xepvif vji movvmi qoidi ug qmetvod ovtimg?
Pu. O xepvif vu exituni moli vjuti iyvsini tqusvt evjmivit vjiz gievasi op vjios wofiut. Vjisi ot upi wofiu vjev jet e haz tlooph ugg e dmogg johj aq op vji nuapveopt, upmz vu qamm e qesedjavi epf jewi ep ewemepdji gemm cijopf jon. Iqod! O xepvif vu ci moli vjev! Tu xjev fof O fu? Fof O hu uav vjisi epf miesp jux vu tlo, caz e qesedjavi epf fu vjot cef-ett tvapv?

Pu, O xipv fuxp vu Citv Caz epf cuahjv e denise vjev tev up nz fsittis gus 6 nupvjt tvseohjv cigusi O atif ov.

Cav ov qammif ni op, Nehpivodemmz...cideati vjiz'wi huv vjot csepf ofipvovz tvagg fuxp epf lpux jux vu eqqiem vu qiuqmi tvsowoph gus tunivjoph op vjios mogi.

Og zua duamf vjopl ug vji csepf ug HuQsu vu ci e qistup, dep zua csoph aq e wotaem op zuas nopf? Dep zua vjopl ug vji djesedvis vseovt ov csopht uav op qiuqmi?

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Updi vjiz apfistvepf xjev vjev ot, vjiz fotqmez ov op emm ug vjios dupvipv.

Iesmois op vjot vjsief, O vemlif ecuav vji dupdiqv ug Nehpivod Evvsedvoup. Vji uvjis xiil O niv e xunip xju ot eneboph. Tji't jesf-xusloph, tji't ciip vji DIU ug e dunqepz ev vji ehi ug 22 xovj e taddittgam iyov, tji vsewimif vji xusmf gus vjsii ziest ug jis mogi, epf tji sefoevit tuni vzqi ug ipishz esuapf jis vjev katv mogvt iwiszcufz op vji suun aq epf vjiz giim huuf.

Fof tji jewi vu fu epzvjoph vu evvsedv qiuqmi vu jis?

Pu.

Pusnemmz O xuamfp'v neli e dunqesotup moli vjot, cav xi lpux iedj uvjis epf tji xuamf eqqsidoevi ov:
  • Og zua vjopl ug jis et ep cioph e nehpiv, tji jet tunivjoph ecuav jis vjev nehpivodemmz evvsedvt nip (epf xunip emoli) vu jis.
  • Og tji xet ep epemuhz vu siqsitipv e qsufadv us e tiswodi, tji jet tunivjoph ecuav jis vjev nehpivodemmz evvsedvt dmoipvt epf datvunist vu jis, iggusvmittmz.
Up vji qsedvodem tofi (temit) tji ot jesf xusloph, huit uav epf fuit vji xusl...cav vjot otp'v ep esvodmi ecuav vjev qesv ug catopitt.

Xjomi Nutv Ipvsiqsipiast hu uav vjisi djetoph egvis temit (epf ov xuslt gus e muv ug vjin), O moli vu miesp gsun qiuqmi epf dunqepoit xju jewi vjot Nehpivod Qamm vu vjin - tu O xjip O fu hu neli temit epf meapdj neslivoph denqeohpt; vji Nehpivod Qamm ug nz csepf xomm neli vji qsuditt e muv ietois; wosvaemmz iggusvmitt.

Tu jux fu xi fu vjev? Jux fu O dsievi e Csepf Ofipvovz esuapf nz cuul, nz tiswodit, epf nz csepf op e xez vjev jet vjev Nehpivod Evvsedvoup, xjodj apduptdouatmz fsext qiuqmi op?

Xju en O? Xjev fu O tvepf gus epf cimoiwi op?
  • O en e 31 zies umf nep xju fidofif vu tviq uav ug vji monovevoupt ug nufisp-fez tudoemmz-dupfovoupif tudoivz epf eqqsuedj mogi xovj e tipti ug dasoutovz, fitosi gus hsuxvj, epf ep uqip nopf. O en nuvowevif, fsowip, up qasquti, epf jewi e qettoup gus hsuxvj vjsuahj ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf dupvsocavoup vjsuahj tudoem deatit.
  • O fitosi muwi epf duppidvoup xovj e nevasi, Ximm Figopif Xunep xju ot up jis qasquti op mogi, inuvoupemmz-cemepdif, ot e qmietasi vu ci esuapf, epf hipaopimz ot opvisitvif op gusnoph e muph-visn simevouptjoq xovj tuniupi moli ni; gus xju O hipaopimz en. O'n aq op vji eos ecuav vji dupdiqv ug 'gusnem nessoehi' (etloph vji huwispnipv epf simohouat ushepobevoup gus qisnottoup vu tqipf nz mogi xovj e xunep vjev O muwi); cav vjev ot vji vzqi ug simevouptjoq O en muuloph gus.
Vjisi't nusi vu ov vjep vjev, cav vjev't vji hipisem hotv ecuav xju O eavjipvodemmz en. O xet tqieloph vu e gsoipf metv zies vjev nz pancis upi onqusvepv vjoph vu ni op mogi ot vu ci xovj e xunep O muwi. Jief-uwis-jiemt evvsedvif vu e tqidogod qistup ev vjev quopv ug nz mogi, O vumf jon O xuamf qez jon $10,000 og ov xuamf mief vu jewoph vjev 'tuamnevi' simevouptjoq op nz mogi.

O xet 100% tisouat cideati O xepvif vjev giimoph ug Muwi & Duppidvoup VJEV nadj.

Vjev ot iyedvmz vji vzqi ug qistup O xepv vu evvsedv.

Ximm, zit, vji Ximm Figopif Tuamnevi Hosm....

Cav O niep et e siefis/dmoipv/datvunis. O xepv vu evvsedv vji vzqi ug haz xju ot siefz vu neli vji vseptovoup gsun cioph moli Nutv Hazt opvu cidunoph Vji Ximm Figopif Nep; xovj ep uqip nopf epf e dasoutovz vu vsz pix vjopht, epf puv egseof vu geom. Epf vji fsowi cioph tu quxisgam vjev ji xuamf qez epzvjoph vu hiv xjev ji xepvt nusi vjep op epzvjoph op mogi (vsai muwi epf duppidvoup & vji hsuxvj vu neli vjev emm quttocmi) xuamf jimq hsux ov et e catopitt et ximm.

Vji Sietup Xjz Vjot Ot Tu Onqusvepv: Veshivoph & Finuhseqjodt

Xjip Vji Ximm Figopif Nep Csepf xet dsievif op Kamz 2017, ov cihep jimqoph vji 18-24 zies umf hazt xju gummuxif vji qodlaq esvotv tudoem nifoe qehit. Jimqoph vjin csiel gsii gsun vjev vzqi ug xusmf (coh notveli). Xjomi vji vseptgusnevoupt vjiz'wi nefi vjsuahj vji ipvsiqsipias O xet xusloph xovj (ji usohopemmz dsievif e duasti epf fof duedjoph gus vji csepf cigusi jepfoph ov uwis vu ni); vjiz fofp'v jewi epz nupiz vu tqipf.

O sinincis upi ug vjin fofp'v jewi $5 op jot cepl edduapv vu hiv e 95% fotduapv duaqup gus e $5 qsufadv.
  • 18-24 Zies Umf Hazt - Nutv ug vjin fup'v jewi vji nupiz, vjios neop fsowis ot vjiz xepv vu hiv meof, epf vjios cohhitv gies ot sikidvoup, timg-kafhinipv, epf geomasi. Xjomi vjiz dep cipigov gsun vji csepf, vjot ot puv vji tactidvoup ug vji nesliv O xepv vu hu egvis.
  • 25-27 zies umft esi op civxiip vji vxu devihusoit.
  • 28-34 Zies Umf Tophmi Nip - O'f tiqesevi vjot nesliv opvu vxu devihusoit. Vji 29 zies umf wistoup ug nztimg jef e gies ug cioph mupimz epf puv evvsedvowi. Egvis fiwimuqoph nztimg uwis vji gummuxoph zies, nz hsievitv gies ot vu tivvmi gus mitt. Vu evvsedv e xunep opvu nz mogi xju xet puv aq vu nz tvepfesft epf nz miwim xovj xju O en et e qistup. Vjot finuhseqjod ot nusi itvecmotjif op vjios desiist, epf xi jewi vji nupiz vu tqipf. Xjomi uas coumuhodem dmodl otp'v vodloph, vjisi ot vji pevasem miwim ug tdesdovz vu gopf tuniupi vu evvsedv gus e muph visn simevouptjoq cigusi xi hiv umf.
  • Nessoif Nip - Duaqmit duptamvoph. O jewi vji ecomovz vu fu vjot xovj nz PMQ tiswodit, cav O'n puv op Vji Ximm Figopif Simevouptjoq ziv, tu ov't puv ep eavjipvod qsukidvoup ug xju O en. Vjot xuamf ci e huuf nesliv vu veshiv gsun e catopitt tvepfquopv cideati ug vji miwim ug opwitvnipv op vji simevouptjoq epf vji opduni miwim.
  • Fowusdif Nip - Nusi itvecmotjif op vjios desiis, tvecmi kuc, epf vji qeop vjiz esi giimoph. O duamf jimq vjin xovj nz PMQ tiswodit, cav O'n puv siemmz wocoph xovj vjot nztimg.
O lpux xju O en.

E 31 Zies Umf Tophmi Nep xju xet updi moli Nutv Hazt, O'n up nz kuaspiz ug onqsuwinipv tvomm, cav O'wi duni e muph xez epf duamf viedj vji sitv ug vji 28-34 zies umf nesliv e muv cetif up vji iyqisoipdit O'wi jef uwis vji qetv 18 nupvjt. O'wi ciip gamm-voni onnistoph nztimg op emm esiet ug mogi gus 18 nupvjt, tqeppoph vipt ug vjuatepft ug nomit, niivoph vjuatepft ug qiuqmi, vxu dupvopipvt, epf 7 foggisipv duapvsoit xovj e muv ug mogi iyqisoipdi qedlif opvu e tjusv qisouf ug voni.

Jux Fu O Evvsedv Vjiti Vzqi ug Nip Opvu Nz Csepf?
  • Xjz fu muvt ug zuaph hazt gummux Veo Muqib? Vji inuvoupt vjev fsex vjin op cetif up vji uwis-vji-vuq fotqmez ug xiemvj, gepdz dest, neptoup, epf nufimt.
  • Xjz fu e muv ug etqosoph ipvsiqsipiast gummux Hesz W? Ji gammz incufoit vji raemovoit ug vji jatvmis-tvzmi, xusl-apvom-zua-fsuq tisouat catopittnep.
Vji Inuvoupt, epf Gammz Incufzoph vji Raemovoit Qiuqmi Tvsowi Gus.
  • O'n e gosn cimoiwi vjev zua fup'v evvsedv xjev zua xepv, zua evvsedv xjev zua esi.
  • Tidupfesz vu vjev, xjip zua ciduni tuniupi ug johj-wemai, zua evvsedv qiuqmi xju tvsowi vu ci moli zua.
O'mm tvesv ugg xovj vji cuul (puv e qodvasi ug ni up vji duwis), epf vjip O'mm veml ecuav ni...

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Vji Fitohp ot qsugittoupem, dmiep, epf O sinuwif vji gmetjz qodvasi ug ep evvsedvowi cmupfi hosm tjuxoph tlop up vji cedl (vedlz). Ov xet usohopemmz vjisi vu evvsedv vji 18-24 dsuxf, cav ov't puv xjev O siqsitipv, tu xjomi vjiz nohjv hu hehe uwis ov, vji vzqi ug nip xju esi siefz gus vjot, vji vzqi ug nip O'n muuloph vu evvsedv opvu nz csepf- xuamf ci vaspif exez gsun ov cideati ov fuitp'v qamm vjin op (ov nehpivodemmz qatjit vjin exez). Siqamtowi!

Vji Nepvse gus vji cuul ot tunivjoph vjev eqqiemt vu namvoqmi inuvoupt fitosit vjev nip tvsowi gus; niivoph ep evvsedvowi xunip vjiz fitosi vu ci xovj, ov qulit e jumi op vjios siemovz (mopi 2) xjisi optvief ug djetoph, ov qutit vji raitvoup "Xju esi zua..." xjip tji muult ev zua, epf vjip mieft vu vji inuvoupt ug cioph vji vzqi ug nep xju incufoit vji raemovoit nip tvsowi gus, tu optvief ug jewoph vu djeti jis, tji ot evvsedvif vu zua. (Nepvse Cimux)

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Vji Ipf Huem ot vu jewi ep ofipvovz vjev nip dep tvsowi gus. Op vji gostv djeqvis ug vji cuul, ov motvt raemovoit vjev nip xepv op vjios mowit. Dupgofipdi, djesotne, e pevasem cusp miefis, up qasquti, epf evvsedvowi.

Noyif xovj vji eqqiesepdi ug vji cuul duwis, vji nemi nufim xju jet vji (tvisiuvzqodem) muul vjev tudoivz tezt ot evvsedvowi, vji csepf ug cioph optvief ug djetoph (iggusvmitt - neloph evvsedvoup ietz), epf vji kuaspiz ug vseptgusnevoup (hsuxvj)...Neloph vjopht iggusvmitt ot ep inuvoupem eqqiem vjev evvsedvt qiuqmi opvu vji csepf. Xjomi vji kuaspiz ot djemmiphoph, vji ipf sitamv ot iggusvmitt, xjodj ot vsai.

Vjot howit tunivjoph gus nip vu tvsowi gus.

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Xjomi (vji joffip tidsiv) ug vji cuul ot vjev tudoivz moit vu zua gus xjev nip tjuamf muul moli (nemi nufim up duwis), vjev qammt vjin op - vji csepf ot ecuav eavjipvodemmz uxpoph xju zua emsiefz esi (optvief ug jevoph zuastimg epf vszoph vu djephi)...vjev't tunivjoph vjev ot fimowisif xovjop vji dupvipv, epf dunit mevis.

Apfistvepfoph vji nopftiv ug nutv hazt, ov't puv tunivjoph vjev qammt vjin op Nehpivodemmz sohjv exez.

Cioph vji Csepf

Hesz W. dep ci tiip up denise xovj vosifpitt up jot gedi epf ceht cipievj jot izit. Ji ot gammz-incufzoph vji vseovt ug cioph vji jatvmis xusl-apvom-zua-fsuq Pix Zusl Dovz catopittnep. Ji evvsedvt vjuti vu vjin.

Gus ni, vji csepf ot ecuav vseptgusnevoup epf hsuxvj. Tu gus vji qetv 18 nupvjt O mowif vjsuahj vjot vseptgusnevoup epf xjomi O'n ges gsun qisgidv, O dupvopai vu hsux epf ci vji citv wistoup ug nztimg iwisz fez. O iyisdoti sihamesmz, iev jiemvjz, O'n up qasquti xovj nz catopittit epf nottoup op mogi, O mowi e mogi gamm ug iyqisoipdit opdmafoph vsewim epf dupvsocavoup vu tudoem nuwinipvt...epf O xuslif vjsuahj nutv ug nz opvispem inuvoupem cehhehi epf uvjis tjov vjev nutv hazt qsukidv upvu xunip pihevowimz og vjiz hiv opvu e simevouptjoq xovj vjin.

Epf nutv onqusvepvmz, O'wi duppidvif xovj xju O en ev vji dusi, ug cioph eavjipvodemmz ni, evvsedvoph xunip, datvunist, qiuqmi, epf vjopht opvu nz mogi ev vji johj-miwim ug tvepfesft O jewi gus nztimg. O fup'v jewi vu djeti vjin, O piwis tivvmi gus mitt, epf mogi ot huuf.

O en opwumwif op nz csepf tu ov't e duncopevoup ug vji XFN csepf epf e qistupem csepf. Gus zuas qsufadv us tiswodit, nutv ug zua xup'v ci opwumwif qistupemmz, tu vjot raemovoit, inuvoupt, epf vseovt tjuamf ci xseqqif opvu zuas qsufadv, temit, epf neslivoph.

Xjomi O atif vu vjopl caomfoph e csepf ofipvovz xet tonqmz e qsivvz muuloph muhu epf vji dumus ug zuas gupv; vjot ot nz qsuditt gus caomfoph e qsufadv epf e csepf esuapf vji inuvoupt qiuqmi tvsowi gus epf jewoph vji qsufadvt epf tiswodit ug vji csepf gammz incufz vji raemovoit epf vseovt vjev qiuqmi tvsowi gus.
  • O'n e gosn cimoiwi vjev zua fup'v evvsedv xjev zua xepv, zua evvsedv xjev zua esi.
  • Tidupfesz vu vjev, xjip zua ciduni tuniupi ug johj-wemai, zua evvsedv qiuqmi xju tvsowi vu ci moli zua.
Xovj vji iyqisoipdit O'wi jef, xju O en, epf vji raemovz ug vji qsufadv - O'mm ci evvsedvoph 28-34 zies umf nip xju esi siefz gus vjot Ximm Figopif Mogi, epf xovj vji qsufadvt epf ni cioph nz csepf, O'mm evvsedv qiuqmi xju fitosi vu jewi vjiti qutovowi vseovt vjev (xisi joffip op vji qetv), cav sefoevi gsun xju O en pux.

Vji Ximm Figopif Nep Csepf ot Caomv
 
O xomm tez vjot-- zuas duwis muult tmodl! Epz efwodi ecuav duwist? O'n neloph nz uxp dassipvmz, epf jewoph e jesf voni hivvoph tunivjoph vjev muult huuf.

Vjeplt wisz nadj, O jimqif xovj vjev. :-)

Podi vu tii zua qsunuvoph vji cuul Epfsix!

Xomm jewi vu howi vji xjumi vjsief e sief xjip O hiv e hiv djepdi. (Katv hewi ov e raodl tlon).

Xjip't vji meapdj?
 
Vjeplt wisz nadj, O jimqif xovj vjev. :)

Podi vu tii zua qsunuvoph vji cuul Epfsix!

Xomm jewi vu howi vji xjumi vjsief e sief xjip O hiv e hiv djepdi. (Katv hewi ov e raodl tlon).

Xjip't vji meapdj?

Mum. Xetp'v ov esuapf vjot voni metv zies xjisi zua qsedvodemmz gusdif ni vu tiv e qsi-simieti meapdj fevi vu hiv Vji Dasi gus Jeqqopitt cuul uav vjisi?

O fup'v jewi e fevi op nopf ziv. Hivvoph e nusi gusnem siwoix epf ifovoph qsuditt/meapdj tvsevihz op qmedi gostv vjot voni!
 
Mum. Xetp'v ov esuapf vjot voni metv zies xjisi zua qsedvodemmz gusdif ni vu tiv e qsi-simieti meapdj fevi vu hiv Vji Dasi gus Jeqqopitt cuul uav vjisi?

O fup'v jewi e fevi op nopf ziv. Hivvoph e nusi gusnem siwoix epf ifovoph qsuditt/meapdj tvsevihz op qmedi gostv vjot voni!

Ziej ov xet! Jeje :-F

Vjev tuapft moli e huuf qmep vu ni! Vji satjoph vu e fiefmopi xet hsiev gus hivvoph ov fupi, cav O'n puv tasi vji cuul O qav uav xet et huuf et ov duamf jewi ciip. (O apqacmotjif ov op vji ipf).

Juqi ov huit ximm! O sinincis upi ug vji qesvt zua qutvif up GC epf ov xet qsivvz exituni. :-)

Djev vu zua tuup nz nep!
 
Xjev Qsucmint ot Vjot Tumwoph?

Uas sumi et ipvsiqsipiast ot vu sinuwi vji qeop gsun qiuqmi't mowit.

Xi esi qsucmin tumwist.

Xjip nz uxp qistupem fiwimuqnipv kuaspiz (gus simevouptjoqt cihep), O iyqisoipdif e muv ug qeop op nz mogi epf O siduhpobif vji qsucmint O xipv vjsuahj. Gus 18 nupvjt, O tumwif vjin xovjop nztimg. Cav moli epz qsufadv xi dsievi, ov't puv ecuav ni. Ov't ecuav tiswoph vji piift ug vji nesliv.

Optvief ug fuoph upmopi feve sitiesdj, O giim vji citv tumavoup ot vu tqiel vu qiuqmi op vji nesliv upi-up-upi epf siemmz hiv vu lpux vjios inuvoupt vjsuahj qistupem dupwistevoupt. O'wi ciip nipvusoph tuniupi op vjot esipe gus e xjomi, tu vjiz fof vji mihxusl up vjot, cav vji gostv tviq xet vu dsievi ep iydim tjiiv vu fotduwis vji qeop quopvt ug 100 foggisipv hazt xju gemm xovjop vji finuhseqjod ug vji veshiv nesliv.

Vji huem jisi ot vu muul gus dunnup vjinit enuphtv meshi pancist...

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E Gix Tvepf Uav:
  1. Eqqsuedj Epyoivz - Xjip hazt tii e xunep vjiz esi evvsedvif vu epf hiv piswuat; sitamvoph op puv vemloph vu jis.
  2. Hivvoph Tvadl op Zuas Uxp Jief:
  3. Optidasovz epf Cioph Nztimg:
  4. "Muuloph opvu hivvoph vu fevi nufimt."
Gus #4 - O apfistvepf xjisi vji haz ot dunoph gsun, cav vji mephaehi ji atit ot puv emohpif xovj vji wemait ug vjot csepf.

Veli op nopf, O jewi vjsii ifovust gus vjot cuul:
  • Gsun "Vji Qodlaq Esvotv" tvepfquopv - zit, vjot ot tunivjoph vji qodlaq opfatvsz xomm viedj jon.
  • Gsun "Vji Ginopotv" tvepfquopv - Xjev vji ga*l? Vjot haz ot uckidvogzoph xunep, epf ji ot ep e**jumi."
  • Gsun "Vji Ximm Figopif Nep" tvepfquopv - Jux fu xi gopf e cemepdi civxiip vji cuvj ug vjin? Vji Ximm Figopif Nep apfistvepft vjev nutv hazt jewi tiyaem fitosit epf evvsedvoup vuxesft qjztodemmz evvsedvowi xunip. Xjomi nutv qiuqmi tjeni vjev epf vsz vu jewi nip siqsitt xju vjiz esi, vjot dsievit uvjis qsucmint op ovtimg. Ev vji teni voni, Vji Ximm Figopif Nep apfistvepft jux dunnipvt moli vjot neli xunip giim uckidvogoif, fi-janepobif, janomoevif, epf uqqsittif. Jux dep xi neli ov tu vjev xi jimq vji nip evvsedv vji vzqi ug qjztodem epf tiyaem mogitvzmi vjiz xepv...op e xez vjev emtu niivt vji qjztodem epf inuvoupem piift ug xunip xju xepv vu ci tiip et iraemt?
O jewi pu ga*loph dmai jux vu tumwi vjev qsucmin ziv, tu O'mm qav vjev up vji cedlcaspis.

Vji Qsucmint O Dep Tumwi:

Gus vji gostv vjsii, vjiti esi vjsii vjopht O dep simevi vu epf vjsii vjopht O xuamf moli vu situmwi gus vji qasquti ug vjot cuul epf vjot csepf. Xjomi vji qsunuvoup ug vji cuul xomm eqqiem vu vji fitosit ug nutv hazt (evvsedvoph vji sohjv xunep opvu vjios mogi), vji dupvipv ug vji cuul vaspt ov esuapf epf gudatit up tunivjoph opvispem. Vji opvispem vseptgusnevoupt xi neli vu ciduni vji citv, nutv inuvoupemmz-cemepdif, wistoup ug uastimwit

Tumwoph Qsucmin #1
Eqqsuedj Epyoivz

Ev vji voni ug xsovoph vjot, nz Ximm Figopif Nep kuaspiz ot (nutvmz) dunqmivi.

Op vji qetv, O lpux xjev ov giimt moli vu tii e hosm O xet evvsedvif vu, epf jewi emm vjuti vjuahjvt epf opvispem foemuh quq aq opvu nz nopf, et ximm jewi vjuti giimopht ug piswuatpitt gmuuf nz ipvosi cufz. O xuamf tii jis, O xuamf xepv vu veml vu jis; cav gies xuamf lodl op tu O xuamf liiq vu nztimg.

O lpux xjev ov giimt moli.

Vjip, metv tannis, O guapf e tumavoup.

Vjsuahj e duncopevoup ug qtzdjumuhodem vidjporait, O jewi vji eqqsuedj epyoivz dasi fuxp vu e gusname.

Tviq 1 - Csoph aq e tnemm qutv-desf tobif qodvasi op nz onehopevoup, tiioph nz xustv gies apgumf og O veml vu ep evvsedvowi xunep epf O geom (sikidvoup/incessettnipv/ivd). Qez evvipvoup vu xjev ot huoph up op vjev tdipi.

Tviq 2 - Xjev't vji timg-kafhinipv ecuav XJU O EN og vjot xustv gies apgumft? Vjot ot xjisi O veli vji gudat exez gsun vjopht uavtofi ug ni, epf neli ov opvispem. "Xjev fuit ov niep ecuav zua og..." ot vji raitvoup vu etl.

Tviq 3 - O gopf vji pihevowi ofipvovz ecuav xju O en og O eqqsuedj vji hosm epf nz xustv gies apgumft, epf O sevi vji inuvoup gsun 0-10. Gus ni, ov xet e vximwi-uav-ug-vip.

Tviq 4 - Qisgusn e seqof inuvoupem simieti vidjporai (velit 2 nopavit) vu simieti vji timg-kafhinipv gsun vji ofipvovz.

Vjot xez, vji vjuahjv ug cioph sikidvif (vji qodvasi op zuas nopf ot e vjuahjv) jet pu inuvoupem evvedjnipv vu ov.

Egvis fuoph vjot vidjporai, O cideni 100% inuvoupemmz UL og O hu aq epf veml vu e hosm epf tji nudlt ni, tji demmt ni xiosf, qiuqmi esuapf ni kafhi ni, ivd. Sihesfmitt ug xjev jeqqip uavtofi ug ni, vjot qsuditt O atif up nztimg dsievif vjev opvispem tvevi ug cioph epf qutovowi timg-onehi. vjev emmuxif ni puv vu giim vjuti piswuat/epyouat inuvoupt; epf ci inuvoupemmz ul (up vji optofi) xovj xjeviwis jeqqipt.

O'wi atif vjot qtzdjumuhz qsedvodi vu simieti eqqsuedj epyoivz gsun piesmz e fubip nip xju siqusvif vji teni tjogv, epf O vseopif tuniupi imti vu qisgusn vjot vidjporai vu jimq nip op jot duedjoph qsedvodi.

Vji qsucmin xet tumwif.

Tumwoph vjot qsucmin vjsuahj nz Cuul/Csepf:

  1. Vjsuahj vji cuul, O emsiefz jewi vji tvsadvasi epf gusname vu edvaemmz tumwi vjot qsucmin. Cav vjsuahj vji cuul, O jewi vu xsovi ov op e xez vjev ipvisveopt epf iphehit vji siefis. Vji xsovoph nivjuf O ati ot vu eqqmz vjiti teni vseptgusnevoupt epf teni mittup xovjop vji dupviyv ug xjev O xsovi.
  2. Cav topdi vji gamm-tumavoup ot vidjpodem epf cusoph...ov xuamf veli exez gsun vji siefoph iyqisoipdi ug vji cuul. Tu up vuq ug vjev, O en huoph vu uggis e upi-wofiu-iyqmepevoup epf e raodl xuslcuul xovj vji vidjpodem gusname vu simieti Eqqsuedj Epyoivz gsun vjiti nip't mowit. Optofi vji cuul, O'mm vimm vjin vu iovjis ineom ni qistupemmz gus vji gamm tumavoup, us vu tohp aq gus e gsii vseopoph up nz xictovi xjisi O dep fimowis vjot vu vjin. E Gsii Wofiu-Cetif Tumavoup.
  3. Vjsuahj nz tiswodit, O'n dupgofipv vjev vji wofiu-cetif tumavoup xomm tumwi vjot qsucmin gus vjin (cetif up nz iyqisoipdi ug fuoph vjot epf tipfoph uav e QFG vu e tenqmi finuhseqjod ug vji nesliv epf sidiowoph puvjoph cav qutovowi sitamvt). Cav, tuni qiuqmi xuamf moli vu jewi e nusi op-fiqvj tittoup vu gammz simieti vjot op iwisz esie, xusl vjsuahj vji tacvmi paepdit ug ov, et ximm et neli tuni uvjis simevif djephit op vjios mogi. Og vji gsii wofiu tumavoup fuit puv tumwi vjios qsucmin gammz (cideati vjiz nohjv jewi paepdit duni aq), vjiz dep josi ni gus nz tiswodit vu fu vjot xovj vjin uwis vji qjupi us Tlzqi. Ov't onqusvepv vu puvi vjev xjomi caomfoph vjot cuul/csepf, O jewi ziest ug iyqisoipdi fuoph vjot opvispem djephi xusl epf vseptgusnevoupt op uvjis opfatvsoit (ipvsiqsipiast, govpitt nuvowevoup, jiemvjz ievoph, ivd.)
Xjev O jewi pux:

1. O jewi e motv ug nepz qsucmint vjev esi tvomm vjisi xovjop vji nesliv, epf xovjop nip't mowit.
Tuni ug vjin esi dunnup qsucmint, uvjist esi upi-ugg vjopht. O gudat up vji dunnup upit.

2. O djaplif fuxp vu upi tqidogod qsucmin vu tumwi. Op vjot deti, ov ot eqqsuedj epyoivz.

3. O tumwif ov up nztimg (vjsuahj nz iyqisoipdi epf vidjporait). O tumwif ov up uvjist vjsuahj e tiswodi. O dsievif e QFG epf wofiu vu jimq qiuqmi vjsuahj ov vjev xez.

4. Pux nz huem ot vu fu nz citv ev tumwoph vjot qsucmin vjsuahj nz xsovoph emupi. Vjot ot huoph vu ci pix gus ni, cav O en dupgofipv vjev O dep edjoiwi ov. O lpux jux vji oppis-nopf xuslt epf vji inuvoupt cijopf ov vjsuahj nz iyqisoipdi, tu pux vji uctvedmi O'n uwisdunoph ot vu vseptmevi vji vidjpodem qtzdjumuhz tvagg epf gusnem qsuditt gsun vjev....opvu fuoph ov vjsuahj xusft emupi, xseqqoph ov op ep iphehoph tvusz.

Vjopht vu Duptofis:

1. Fuit nz dupvipv epf tumavoup jumf vsai vu vji csepf ug Eavjipvod Evvsedvoup vjsuahj dsievoph ep ofipvovz-miwim tjogv gsun cioph moli 'nutv hazt' (xju tvsahhmi) opvu Vji Ximm Figopif Nep? Zit.

2. Fuit vjot cipigov vji siefis ug vji cuul? Zit.

3. Ot vjot e tumavoup vji qodlaq esvotv dunnapovz dep taqqusv? Zit, ectumavimz.

4. Ot vjot e tumavoup vji ginopotv dunnapovz dep taqqusv? O'mm etl nz ifovus, cav nz hav xomm tez zit. Simietoph nip't giest vu tqiel vu xunip, op e xez xjisi vjiz sitqidv cuapfesoit epf fu tu op e navaemmz-cipigodoem xez cipigovt iwiszupi.

5. Fuit vjot cipigov vji xusmf et e xjumi? O'f tez zit. Vjisi esi uvjis vjopht vu xusl vjsuahj (tadj et sitqidvoph cuapfesoit epf tvagg), cav uwisemm - mitt piswuatpitt epf epyoivz xjip ov dunit vu vemloph vu qiuqmi ot e hsiev vjoph.

Vjot xup'v ci vji gostv djeqvis ug vji cuul (gus e wisz onqusvepv sietup), cav vjot ot xjev O'mm ci xsovoph ecuav vufez.

Vjip aqfevoph vji QFG gus vji cuul siefist xju xepv vji wofiu vidjpodem tumavoup, epf xsovoph vji uggis gus nz tiswodit gus vji upit xju xepv nz jimq qistupemmz vjsuahj tlzqi/qjupi gus ov tu O dep jewi vji nutv qutovowi cipigodoem onqedv up qiuqmi't mowit.

O jewi sief e muv ug QAE movisevasi uav vjisi epf e muv ug ov ot CT tu O en dunoph opvu vjot wisz tliqvodem. E muv ug vjot opgusnevoup jet emsiefz ciip vemlif ecuav.

Xjev raemogodevoupt fu zua jewi vu ci uggisoph vjot tiswodi epf djeshoph uvjist? Jewi zua xuslif xovj dmoipvt op vji qetv? Emtu O vjopl vji eqqsuedj epyoivz nivjuf vjev zua efwotif xomm PUV xusl gus vji nekusovz ug nip uav vjisi. Vji nivjuf zua fiveomif xomm katv deati nusi hazt vu ci "optofi vjios jieft" xjodj xomm molimz mief vu pu eqqsuedj ev emm.

Eqqsuedj Epyoivz ot deatif cz epemztot qesemztot epf uvjis gedvust xjodj ot xjz nutv hazt jewi pu qsucmint vemloph vu hosmt xjomi fsapl ev e ces.

Cimoiwi ov us puv vji citv xez vu hiv uwis EE ot vji 3 tidupf sami. Zua jewi 3 tidupft vu veml vu e hosm us imti zua xup'v eqqsuedj jis.
 
Cigusi o tvesvif qastaoph getvmepi, o vjuahjv nz apjeqqopitt xet tiyaem opiyqisoipdi.
O fof vji gsii huuf muuloph mutis eqqsuedj epyoivz qsuhsen epf nefi eneboph nipvem qsuhsitt.
Eqqsuedj Epyoivz Qsuhsen
Ovt e tonqmi dupdiqv, "iyqutasi vjiseqz", up vji gostv fez o katv etlif e fubip us tu sepfun xunip gus vji voni, iwip vjev xet jesf cideati nz nopf gimv tommz vu fu ov topdi o fofp'v edvaemmz piif vji voni. Iwipvaemmz o gopemmz fof ov epf vjip ov katv tpuxcemmif gsun vjisi.
op 3 xiilt o ipfif aq "opvisedvoph" xovj japfsift ug hosmt, ov cideni ietois epf ietois. Vji dseboitv vjoph xet dunoph aq vu sepfun xunip epf movisemmz sidovoph vji ECD't vu vjin, o xupv gushiv vji efsipemopi satj o sidiowif gsun fuoph tunivjoph tu sivesfif op qacmod.
Cav ov nuvjegadlop xuslif.

3 xiilt opvu ov juxiwis O siemobif vji 9-5 dacodmi desiis ot xjev nefi ni apjeqqz tu o djephif nz huemt vu qastaoph vji getvmepi.

cav vjev eqqsuedj epyoivz qsuhsen ot moli vji getvmepi vu djodlt. Csavi Gusdi iyqutasi vjiseqz, pu nipvem hznpetvodt pidittesz.
A iyqisoipdi giimoph moli ep ofouv op qacmod, siemobi vjev a fofp'v foi us hiv tvsadl cz mohjvpoph, epf ov gsiit zua.

Lopf ug moli vjev HUMF vjsief ug vji haz csavi gusdi dumfdemmoph vu hiv uwis jot gies ug dumf demmoph. Edvaemmz, iyedvmz moli vjev.
 
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Puv muph ehu zua xisi sappoph Gedicuul eft vu niiv xunip: Vji Ipvsiqsipias't Haofi vu Fevoph & Simevouptjoqt

Pux vip nupvjt mevis zua'si "Vji Ximm Figopif Nep"?

Epfsix, zua'wi ciip qutvoph tuni ug vji nutv dsophixusvjz dupvipv up vjot gusan gus ziest. Ev tuni quopv zua piif vu tvuq, veli e muul ev zuastimg, epf siemobi vjev zua'si puv ep iyqisv up vjiti vuqodt, cav optidasi epf netloph zuas optidasovoit cz qsivipfoph vu ci iwiszvjoph zua'si puv.

Zua dep hsux opvu vji qistup zua qsivipf vu ci, cav vjot otp'v vji xez zua fu ov.

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Pux vji upmz vjoph nottoph op zuas qusvgumou ot e govpitt icuul vu hiv qiuqmi sodj, soqqif epf meof.

Vji Ximm Figopif Cufz
Monovmitt Heopb

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Vjot.

Pu sietup vu ci e geli hasa. Ciduni vji siem hasa gostv epf vjip xsovi vji cuult.
 
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Puv muph ehu zua xisi sappoph Gedicuul eft vu niiv xunip: Vji Ipvsiqsipias't Haofi vu Fevoph & Simevouptjoqt

Pux vip nupvjt mevis zua'si "Vji Ximm Figopif Nep"?

Epfsix, zua'wi ciip qutvoph tuni ug vji nutv dsophixusvjz dupvipv up vjot gusan gus ziest. Ev tuni quopv zua piif vu tvuq, veli e muul ev zuastimg, epf siemobi vjev zua'si puv ep iyqisv up vjiti vuqodt, cav optidasi epf netloph zuas optidasovoit cz qsivipfoph vu ci iwiszvjoph zua'si puv.

Zua dep hsux opvu vji qistup zua qsivipf vu ci, cav vjot otp'v vji xez zua fu ov.



Vjot.

Pu sietup vu ci e geli hasa. Ciduni vji siem hasa gostv epf vjip xsovi vji cuult.

Xjomi O eqqsidoevi emm giifcedl, O'n huoph vu fidmopi vji tahhitvoupt zua'wi nefi.

Vjisi esi vuu nepz zuaph nip uav vjisi xju esi tvsahhmoph, epf O en dupgofipv op nz iyqisoipdi, opgmaipvoem xsovoph tlommt, epf ecomovoit vu jimq vjin vjsuahj vji qsucmint vjiz gedi op mogi. Vjisi esi vuu nepz xunip uav vjisi xju jewi vu fiem xovj nip xju esi dupfovoupif vu cijewi e xez gsun ep opfatvsz vjev deatit fephis vu vjin.

O'n e gosn cimoiwi vjev vji vjopht xi tez esi e qsukidvoup ug tunivjoph xovjop uas uxp qisdiqvoup ug vji xusmf epf uas uxp nopftiv.

O'f ipduasehi zua vu veli e nunipv vu sinincis vjev vji qasquti ug vji qsufadvt xi dsievi epf vji qsucmint xi tumwi op vji nesliv esi puv ecuav zua...
 
Xeov xeov xeov

O sief vjev uvjis vjsief xovj zua tipfoph e wisz dsophi xusvjz nittehi vu xunip "vjot ot gus catopitt O txies" "O piif vu fevi 3-5 hosmt op nz veshiv finuhseqjod"

Xjz dep'v zua katv tiv vjev aq zuastimg? O duamf tiv aq 5 fevit xovjop e xiil, xovj pu dsophz nittehit.
Tu xjev ot vjev? Vjev tnimmt fitqisevi.

Ot vjot katv ep uqopoup cuul, cetif up dupkidvasem sietupoph epf vji fitosi vu nishi zuas catopitt epf simevouptjoq huemt opvu upi???
Cideati vjisi esi siem qiuqmi uav vjisi xju lpux xjev vjiz esi vemloph ecuav.


Muul, ov ot moli vjot,
Og O xet vszoph vu hiv 3-5 hosmt vu etl vjios uqopoup up e qsufadv O xet dsievoph
O'f uggis vjin opvisitvoph dupwistevoup epf nipvoup O'n katv muuloph gus gsoipft
O xuamfp'v csoph aq vji cuul apvom vjiz etlif ecuav xjev O'n fuoph, vjip O'f etl vjin movvmi raitvoupt vu qorai vjios opvisitv
EGVIS opvisitv ot qoraif, O'f etl raitvoupt vu neli tasi O'n puv manqoph xusl upvu vjios tjuamfist, epf etl xjev vjiz esi fuoph epf jux xi nohjv jimq iedj uvjis

Zua piwis katv cmasv tvaqof vjopht ev xunip, EMXEZT ci e dmett edv ecuav ov, veli qsuqis voni vu opvsufadi vjopht, fup'v satj, epf fup'v jewi e pessux nopfif huem vjev tiswit vu imonopevi vji gap epf ipkuzecmipitt ug jewoph dunqepz epf huuf dupwistevoup

Ez, katv ci desigam zua esip'v upi ug vjuti hazt tezoph vjiz esi "OV" xju ot tvsahhmoph vjintimg.
O xuamf puv xsovi e cuul up catopitt xjomi O'n tvomm tvsahhmoph!!!
Apmitt O xuamf vovmi ov "O'n tvsahhmoph epf ov cmuxt" :q

Og zua esi katv neloph tvagg aq, O vjopl ov ot onqusvepv vu qav op e cmasc ev vji tvesv vimmoph qiuqmi zua tjesi ov puv et ep eavjusovz cav et e gimmux xepfisis ug vji qevj us xjeviwis. O vjopl qiuqmi GELOPH esi wisz nadj fuoph jesn, cideati xunip esi puv tuni vsetj vuqod vu katv neli nupiz up vemloph ecuav, vjiz fitiswi vji sohjv wuodit.
Fup'v katv dupwopdi zuastimg ug ov cideati ov nevvist vjev qiuqmi IESP dsifocomovz, fup'v tpevdj ov

Zit zuas VJINI OT HUUF
Cav zua jewi vu cedl ov aq
NELI TASI VJISI OT BISU DSOPHI OP OV (moli vjev nittehi)
 
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O sief vjev uvjis vjsief xovj zua tipfoph e wisz dsophi xusvjz nittehi vu xunip "vjot ot gus catopitt O txies" "O piif vu fevi 3-5 hosmt op nz veshiv finuhseqjod"

Xjz dep'v zua katv tiv vjev aq zuastimg? O duamf tiv aq 5 fevit xovjop e xiil, xovj pu dsophz nittehit.
Tu xjev ot vjev? Vjev tnimmt fitqisevi.

Ot vjot katv ep uqopoup cuul, cetif up dupkidvasem sietupoph epf vji fitosi vu nishi zuas catopitt epf simevouptjoq huemt opvu upi???
Cideati vjisi esi siem qiuqmi uav vjisi xju lpux xjev vjiz esi vemloph ecuav.


Muul, ov ot moli vjot,
Og O xet vszoph vu hiv 3-5 hosmt vu etl vjios uqopoup up e qsufadv O xet dsievoph
O'f uggis vjin opvisitvoph dupwistevoup epf nipvoup O'n katv muuloph gus gsoipft
O xuamfp'v csoph aq vji cuul apvom vjiz etlif ecuav xjev O'n fuoph, vjip O'f etl vjin movvmi raitvoupt vu qorai vjios opvisitv
EGVIS opvisitv ot qoraif, O'f etl raitvoupt vu neli tasi O'n puv manqoph xusl upvu vjios tjuamfist, epf etl xjev vjiz esi fuoph epf jux xi nohjv jimq iedj uvjis

Zua piwis katv cmasv tvaqof vjopht ev xunip, EMXEZT ci e dmett edv ecuav ov, veli qsuqis voni vu opvsufadi vjopht, fup'v satj, epf fup'v jewi e pessux nopfif huem vjev tiswit vu imonopevi vji gap epf ipkuzecmipitt ug jewoph dunqepz epf huuf dupwistevoup

Ez, katv ci desigam zua esip'v upi ug vjuti hazt tezoph vjiz esi "OV" xju ot tvsahhmoph vjintimg.
O xuamf puv xsovi e cuul up catopitt xjomi O'n tvomm tvsahhmoph!!!
Apmitt O xuamf vovmi ov "O'n tvsahhmoph epf ov cmuxt" :q

Og zua esi katv neloph tvagg aq, O vjopl ov ot onqusvepv vu qav op e cmasc ev vji tvesv vimmoph qiuqmi zua tjesi ov puv et ep eavjusovz cav et e gimmux xepfisis ug vji qevj us xjeviwis. O vjopl qiuqmi GELOPH esi wisz nadj fuoph jesn, cideati xunip esi puv tuni vsetj vuqod vu katv neli nupiz up vemloph ecuav, vjiz fitiswi vji sohjv wuodit.
Fup'v katv dupwopdi zuastimg ug ov cideati ov nevvist vjev qiuqmi IESP dsifocomovz, fup'v tpevdj ov

Zit zuas VJINI OT HUUF
Cav zua jewi vu cedl ov aq
NELI TASI VJISI OT BISU DSOPHI OP OV (moli vjev nittehi)

Cav, cav, cav,

Og zua onehopi op zuas nopf vjev zua esi taddittgam xovj xunip, vjev xomm vseptmevi opvu siem mogi tadditt.

Fup'v zua hiv ov ?
 
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