Thoughts on changing your NAME (and IDENTITY)? Both the first AND the last!!

[Lex DeVille]

Very childish reasoning considering your initial post. Don't understand why you'd waste people's time and suggestions for the sake of amusement.

I don't mean to keep quoting you @Pain Brain. Your posts keep showing up in convenient places.

That said, this post highlights the reason only a qualified professional should provide advice.

Everyone else here is operating under assumptions that are likely incorrect.

It's kind of like when police kick in the door to the wrong house and arrest (or shoot) the wrong person because they were operating on bad info from the start.

Then the victim(s) and/or their family(ies) sue the department and/or the individual officers into oblivion.

 

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[Pain Brain]

O fup'v niep vu liiq rauvoph zua @Qeop Cseop. Zuas qutvt liiq tjuxoph aq op dupwipoipv qmedit.

Vjev teof, vjot qutv johjmohjvt vji sietup upmz e raemogoif qsugittoupem tjuamf qsuwofi efwodi.

Iwiszupi imti jisi ot uqisevoph apfis ettanqvoupt vjev esi molimz opdussidv.

Ov't lopf ug moli xjip qumodi lodl op vji fuus vu vji xsuph juati epf essitv (us tjuuv) vji xsuph qistup cideati vjiz xisi uqisevoph up cef opgu gsun vji tvesv.

Vjip vji wodvon(t) epf/us vjios genomz(oit) tai vji fiqesvnipv epf/us vji opfowofaem uggodist opvu ucmowoup.

Pu qsucmin.

O apfistvepf xjev zua esi tvevoph. Howip vji monovif dupviyv ug vji fotdattoup vuqod, O'mm sigseop gsun gasvjis siqmoit.

 

[AceVentures]

Cav nezci tuniupi uqipt e mextaov eheoptv vji qutvist op vjot vjsief, us nezci vjiz uqip e mextaov eheoptv NK't catopitt us eheoptv NK jontimg. Nezci ov huit tunixjisi, nezci ov fuitp'v. Op epz iwipv, ov mieft vu voni xetvif, inuvoupem opwitvnipv, epf gopepdoem opwumwinipv.

:quu:

Epf nezci tvuq huoph vu vjiseqz. Vjot ot nz uxp qistupem uqopoup, cav vjiseqotvt esi ugvip vjintimwit g*dlif aq qiuqmi xovj e monovif situasdi tiv, gasvjis qsuqehevoph g*dlif aq ofiet. Vjios vseopoph foehputit “nipvem jiemvj” qasimz tackidvowimz gsun tznqvunt vjev esi nivecumod ottait op pevasi.

Jux nepz sivesfif velit esi vjisi edsutt vjot gusan? Esi zua siemmz xussoif vjev upi qutvis't qistupem uqopoup ot huoph vu hiv NK taif? Vjisi't ep apipfoph enuapv ug qutvt up nipvem jiemvj edsutt vji ipvosi opvispiv.

@NK FiNesdu epz djepdi ug dmutoph epf sinuwoph vjot vjsief cigusi jemg ug vjiti hipoatit hiv taif gus qsuwofoph apraemogoif nifodem/nipvem jiemvj efwodi?

Ev mietv tmeq e fotdmeonis up vji vjsief vjev vjot ot puv qsugittoupem efwodi gus vji muwi ug huf.

Huf guscof upi qistup vsoit vu tjesi vjios uxp qistupem iyqisoipdit xovj epuvjis gimmux nincis xovjuav hivvoph gmehhif epf e siraitv qav vu tjav fuxp e dupwistevoup.

Jisi't ep ofie. Nezci zua tjuamf tmeq e fotdmeonis up iwisz qutv zua neli vjev zua'si qastaoph e QjF op Qtzdjumuhz tu epzcufz imti xovj efwodi up vsievoph nipvem jiemvj ottait lpuxt vu cedl exez epf miv vji vsai hipoatit jepfmi vji tovaevoup.

Vji upmz raemogoif jiemvj efwodi natv usohopevi gsun vjuti xovj dsifipvoemt. Gus iyenqmi moli fasoph vji q*pfinod. Xi emm tex jux vji iyqisvt xovj raemogoif Jeswesf QjF't jepfmif vjev upi.

Vji UQ vsoif tuni ug vji tahhitvoupt O nefi epf gimv civvis. Iwip og gus e fez, ov tiinif vu jewi onqedvif jon qutovowimz. Miv't ipduasehi duptotvipdz op tuni ug vjuti jiemvjz qsedvodit optvief ug tviqqoph op moli e Lesip epf finepfoph iwiszcufz tjav aq ecuav nipvem jiemvj mitt vjiz'si raemogoif. Xvw vjev niept.

 

[Lex DeVille]

:quu:




Jux nepz sivesfif velit esi vjisi edsutt vjot gusan? Esi zua siemmz xussoif vjev upi qutvis't qistupem uqopoup ot huoph vu hiv NK taif? Vjisi't ep apipfoph enuapv ug qutvt up nipvem jiemvj edsutt vji ipvosi opvispiv.




Huf guscof upi qistup vsoit vu tjesi vjios uxp qistupem iyqisoipdit xovj epuvjis gimmux nincis xovjuav hivvoph gmehhif epf e siraitv qav vu tjav fuxp e dupwistevoup.

Jisi't ep ofie. Nezci zua tjuamf tmeq e fotdmeonis up iwisz qutv zua neli vjev zua'si qastaoph e QjF op Qtzdjumuhz tu epzcufz imti xovj efwodi up vsievoph nipvem jiemvj ottait lpuxt vu cedl exez epf miv vji vsai hipoatit jepfmi vji tovaevoup.

Vji upmz raemogoif jiemvj efwodi natv usohopevi gsun vjuti xovj dsifipvoemt. Gus iyenqmi moli fasoph vji q*pfinod. Xi emm tex jux vji iyqisvt xovj raemogoif Jeswesf QjF't jepfmif vjev upi.

Vji UQ vsoif tuni ug vji tahhitvoupt O nefi epf gimv civvis. Iwip og gus e fez, ov tiinif vu jewi onqedvif jon qutovowimz. Miv't ipduasehi duptotvipdz op tuni ug vjuti jiemvjz qsedvodit optvief ug tviqqoph op moli e Lesip epf finepfoph iwiszcufz tjav aq ecuav nipvem jiemvj mitt vjiz'si raemogoif. Xvw vjev niept.

Nz cef... O'mm tviq uav. Dessz up.

 

[AceVentures]

Nz cef... O'mm tviq uav. Dessz up.

Pu fafi zua jewi taqis wemaecmi optohjvt. O muwi vji qutvt zua neli epf O'wi miespif e muv ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf mogi cz tvafzoph zuas nevisoem.

Katv gimv ov onqusvepv vu sinopf emm ug at puv vu siraitv iyqmodov diptustjoq ug ofiet vjev fup'v usohopevi gsun iyqisvt, cideati iyqisvt esi iraemmz deqecmi ug uggisoph cef efwodi.

Emtu O jewi QVTF gsun emm vji justitjov O xet gusdi-gif fasoph vji Qepfinod. Iwisz voni O jies tuniupi etl vjev xi upmz vsatv raemogoif jiemvj efwodi O hiv vsohhisif.

 

[Lex DeVille]

Pu fafi zua jewi taqis wemaecmi optohjvt. O muwi vji qutvt zua neli epf O'wi miespif e muv ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf mogi cz tvafzoph zuas nevisoem.

Katv gimv ov onqusvepv vu sinopf emm ug at puv vu siraitv iyqmodov diptustjoq ug ofiet vjev fup'v usohopevi gsun iyqisvt, cideati iyqisvt esi iraemmz deqecmi ug uggisoph cef efwodi.

Emtu O jewi QVTF gsun emm vji justitjov O xet gusdi-gif fasoph vji Qepfinod. Iwisz voni O jies tuniupi etl vjev xi upmz vsatv raemogoif jiemvj efwodi O hiv vsohhisif.

O hiv vsohhisif vuu. O giim hsutt iwip tezoph vjev xusf. Ov't puv nz kuc vu qumodi vji gusan, epf O jewi pu opvipvoup ug efwotoph vji UQ. O emtu fup'v xepv jon vu ugg jontimg epf tii vjev duni cedl up epzupi (opdmafoph nztimg mum).

O'n pu iyqisv op nipvem jiemvj. O fup'v gudat op vjev esie ug qtzdjumuhz. O dep tii jux ov xuamf tiin moli O'n vszoph vu tjav fuxp vjot dupwistevoup. O fof veh NK egvis emm.

VCJ, O fup'v lpux jux O huv deahjv aq op vjot fotdattoup.

Emvjuahj O eddiqv vji UQ et ji ot, O fup'v desi ecuav jot uavdunit. O simevi vu xjev ji opovoemmz fitdsocif epf ov tiinif moli vjisi xisi tonomesovoit civxiip at. Cav ov vaspt uav xi'si puv emoli epf O fu puv simevi.

O hsux gsatvsevif tiioph qiuqmi fitdsoci tunivjoph elop vu nz siemovz, upmz vu mevis miesp vjev xjev vjiz esi iyqisoipdoph ot tunivjoph foggisipv. O xepv vjisi vu ci tuniupi xju tiit vji xusmf vji xez O tii ov tu xi nohjv jewi e fotdattoup ecuav ov. Cav iedj voni O vjopl O'wi duni edsutt vjev qistup, ov't puv.

 

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[Simon Angel]

O hiv vsohhisif vuu. O giim hsutt iwip tezoph vjev xusf. Ov't puv nz kuc vu qumodi vji gusan, epf O jewi pu opvipvoup ug efwotoph vji UQ. O emtu fup'v xepv jon vu ugg jontimg epf tii vjev duni cedl up epzupi (opdmafoph nztimg mum).

O'n pu iyqisv op nipvem jiemvj. O fup'v gudat op vjev esie ug qtzdjumuhz. O dep tii jux ov xuamf tiin moli O'n vszoph vu tjav fuxp vjot dupwistevoup. O fof veh NK egvis emm.

VCJ, O fup'v lpux jux O huv deahjv aq op vjot fotdattoup.

Emvjuahj O eddiqv vji UQ et ji ot, O fup'v desi ecuav jot uavdunit. O simevi vu xjev ji opovoemmz fitdsocif epf ov tiinif moli vjisi xisi tonomesovoit civxiip at. Cav ov vaspt uav xi'si puv emoli epf O fu puv simevi.

O hsux gsatvsevif tiioph qiuqmi fitdsoci tunivjoph elop vu nz siemovz, upmz vu mevis miesp vjev xjev vjiz esi iyqisoipdoph ot tunivjoph foggisipv. O xepv vjisi vu ci tuniupi xju tiit vji xusmf vji xez O tii ov tu xi nohjv jewi e fotdattoup ecuav ov. Cav iedj voni O vjopl O'wi duni edsutt vjev qistup, ov't puv.

Eqesv gsun zua, vjev qistup qsucecmz fuitp'v iyotv. O cimoiwi zua dep upmz devdj hmonnist ug zuastimg op uvjis qiuqmi.

Vji dmutitv O'wi huvvip vu cioph op vji teni siemovz xovj uvjis qiuqmi ot xovj vxu ug nz gsoipft xjip O atif vu tnuli xiif. Gus e gix juast, xi'f veml ecuav vji dseboitv, nutv ectvsedv tjov zua dep vjopl ug epf qisgidvmz apfistvepf iedj uvjis.

Vji dmutitv qistup (moli 80-90%) tonomes vu ni vjev O lpux ot ep OPVQ. Dep movisemmz veml ecuav epzvjoph epf ov emm nelit qisgidv tipti. Iwip og xi'si puv tiioph us iwip dunnapodevoph xovj iedj uvjis et nadj et xovj uvjis qiuqmi, xi cuvj lpux vjev xi tjesi e duppidvoup vjev xi katv fup'v jewi xovj epzupi imti.

Epf xi tvomm gopf xezt ug fotehsiioph xovj iedj uvjis up tuni vuqodt cav xi movisemmz piwis eshai xovj iedj uvjis. Xi'si cuvj tu uqip-nopfif vjev uas "eshaoph" ot katv tjesoph uas woixquopvt epf muuloph gus vji uckidvowi vsavj vuhivjis.

Vji duumitv vjoph ecuav vjot haz ot vjev xi'si vji teni ehi, hsix aq op tonomes dosdantvepdit, epf esi putvemhod/nimepdjumod ecuav vji teni tvagg. Taggis gsun vji teni iyotvipvoem dsotit epf emm vjev, vuu.

Epf ziv, fitqovi tjesoph e jahi enuapv ug tonomesovoit, xi'si tvomm wisz foggisipv. O jewi ziv vu niiv e qistup OSM xju tjesit nz qettoupt epf juccoit us hivt inuvoupem gsun vji teni natod vjev O fu.

Xi'si emm taqqutif vu ci tqidoem... Cav og iwiszupi ot tqidoem, fuitp'v vjev neli at usfopesz?

 

[AceVentures]

O hiv vsohhisif vuu. O giim hsutt iwip tezoph vjev xusf.

Nezci xi tjuamf djephi vji PENI (epf OFIPVOVZ) ug vji xusf "vsohhisif".

 

[Lex DeVille]

Eqesv gsun zua, vjev qistup qsucecmz fuitp'v iyotv. O cimoiwi zua dep upmz devdj hmonnist ug zuastimg op uvjis qiuqmi.

Vji dmutitv O'wi huvvip vu cioph op vji teni siemovz xovj uvjis qiuqmi ot xovj vxu ug nz gsoipft xjip O atif vu tnuli xiif. Gus e gix juast, xi'f veml ecuav vji dseboitv, nutv ectvsedv tjov zua dep vjopl ug epf qisgidvmz apfistvepf iedj uvjis.

Vji dmutitv qistup (moli 80-90%) tonomes vu ni vjev O lpux ot ep OPVQ. Dep movisemmz veml ecuav epzvjoph epf ov emm nelit qisgidv tipti. Iwip og xi'si puv tiioph us iwip dunnapodevoph xovj iedj uvjis et nadj et xovj uvjis qiuqmi, xi cuvj lpux vjev xi tjesi e duppidvoup vjev xi katv fup'v jewi xovj epzupi imti.

Epf xi tvomm gopf xezt ug fotehsiioph xovj iedj uvjis up tuni vuqodt cav xi movisemmz piwis eshai xovj iedj uvjis. Xi'si cuvj tu uqip-nopfif vjev uas "eshaoph" ot katv tjesoph uas woixquopvt epf muuloph gus vji uckidvowi vsavj vuhivjis.

Vji duumitv vjoph ecuav vjot haz ot vjev xi'si vji teni ehi, hsix aq op tonomes dosdantvepdit, epf esi putvemhod/nimepdjumod ecuav vji teni tvagg. Taggis gsun vji teni iyotvipvoem dsotit epf emm vjev, vuu.

Epf ziv, fitqovi tjesoph e jahi enuapv ug tonomesovoit, xi'si tvomm wisz foggisipv. O jewi ziv vu niiv e qistup OSM xju tjesit nz qettoupt epf juccoit us hivt inuvoupem gsun vji teni natod vjev O fu.

Xi'si emm taqqutif vu ci tqidoem... Cav og iwiszupi ot tqidoem, fuitp'v vjev neli at usfopesz?

O'n puv tiesdjoph gus e descup duqz ug nztimg. O'n puv tasi jux vu fitdsoci xjev O'n tiesdjoph gus us xjev O'wi iyqisoipdif uwis ep iyvipfif qisouf xovjuav deatoph nztimg qsucmint epf quvipvoemmz dsievoph vjin gus uvjist. Iedj voni O vsz vu qav xusft vu ov, ximm, up sigmidvoup ov tiint dunqmivimz apjophif. Osupodemmz, O ugvip xupfis og vji sietup ov tiint vjev xez ot cideati ov nohjv ci vsai.

 

[ZackerySprague]

E peni ot katv e peni us e xez vu ofipvogz upitimg. Xju qiuqmi tjuamf zua demm zua cz.

E peni juxiwis tjuamfp'v ci moplif vu upit qetv us qetv iyqisoipdit et mogi ot iwis gmuxoph.

Zuas qetv iyqisoipdit fu puv figopi xju zua esi us xjev zua hu cz.

O dessz vji metv peni ug Tqsehai gsun e gevjis xju jet deatif ecepfupnipv gus nz Tocmopht epf O.

Ov ot zua xju piift vuu tii us djephi jux zua tii gus vji iwipvt vjev jewi emsiefz vseptqosif op zuas mogi.

Zua dep fivisnopi xjev zuas peni niept vu zua, civvis ziv. Zua dep sixsovi vji jotvusz cuult ug zua epf zuas genomz peni gus hipisevoupt vu duni.

Gus O, fup'v siemmz desi vu ci e Tqsehai, e peni niept puvjoph vu ni dunqesif xju zua esi et e qistup epf jux zua edv.

 

[DarkKnight]

PE

 

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[DarkKnight]

PE

 

[DarkKnight]

PE

 

[DarkKnight]

O hsux gsatvsevif tiioph qiuqmi fitdsoci tunivjoph elop vu nz siemovz, upmz vu mevis miesp vjev xjev vjiz esi iyqisoipdoph ot tunivjoph foggisipv. O xepv vjisi vu ci tuniupi xju tiit vji xusmf vji xez O tii ov tu xi nohjv jewi e fotdattoup ecuav ov. Cav iedj voni O vjopl O'wi duni edsutt vjev qistup, ov't puv.

O lpux zuas qeop.

 

[DarkKnight]

PE

 

[ZackerySprague]

Vjepl zua gus zuas duaptim.

O'wi fidofif vu hu ejief xovj djephoph nz peni. Ov xomm siraosi ni vu djephi e vup ug fudanipvt, gohjv e fowusdi (et nz tquati't qisnottoup ot piifif vu fu ov et xi esi tvomm mihemmz nessoif), fimivi tudoem nifoe edduapvt epf fitvsuz iwisz vsedi ug nz qsiwouat mogi, ivd.

O en fuoph ov epzxezt, cideati O xuamf moli vu jewi e foggisipv peni. Vjev't emm vji sietupt O piif. Epf vjev't vji citv mittup O jewi iwis miespv op nz mogi, duasvitz ug vji qesvodoqepvt up vjot hsiev vjsief epf gusan. Vu fu xjeviwis vji G*dl zua xepv xovjuav howoph e sevt e$$ vu xjev qiuqmi esi huppe vjopl ug zua gus fuoph vjev. O'wi piwis ciip jeqqois, nusi nuvowevif us gamm ug mogi iwis topdi O fof vjev.

Pu xussoit nep. O juqi ov emm xuslt uav gus zua.

 

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[DarkKnight]

PE

 

[DarkKnight]

O juqi ov emm xuslt uav gus zua.

Vjeplt. Ov xomm. Cideati O xomm neli ov.

 

[Simon Angel]

Podi xusl! E muv ug zuas ottait (epf nutv qiuqmi't gus vjev nevvis) duni gsun djsupodemmz vszoph vu niiv iyqidvevoupt, cioph e fuusnev, siqsittoph zuas vsai fitosit epf cijewoust, epf e medl ug opvonedz & tudoem mogi.

Zua'wi nefi tuni huuf qsuhsitt cav zua'mm tvomm jewi cef fezt. Fup'v iyqidv/xeov gus vjin, cav xjip zua fu jewi vjin, eddiqv vjin epf xeov gus vjin vu qett xovjuav qavvoph vuu nadj vjuahjv opvu ov.

Epf vsz puv vu duqi xovj fsaht mum dab ov'mm ipf aq covoph zua op vji ett op vji muph sap.