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[hellolin]

Just finished "Lessons for Living: What Only Adversity Can Teach You" by Phil Stutz, the therapist every Hollywood type goes to for their mental problems. Probably one of the best book I ever read, the concepts in the book are nothing new, but Phil puts his own explanations to it, and he doesn't hold back.

One of the biggest take away from this book is Phil's interoperation of the Jungian shadow. He said in the book that the part of ourselves that we tried to hide from other people, called the shadow, are actually our higher self in disguise. It is the part of ourselves that have to bare our original sin - humanity's fall from the Garden of Eden. Thus, this part is the only part within ourselves that is connected to heavenly power, in modern terms, our true potential. Over the years, many anime, movies and TV shows explore this concept in depth, but I really like Phil's way of explain it. What it really means is that we have to embrace our own weaknesses, because that's what makes us whole. By embracing it, our initial road to success seems to be harder, and longer. However, this by definition makes every small or big win a comeback victory, and it is a victory that actually lasts without depending on so many external factors.

 

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[Coblong]

How to be Confident by James Smith. Not really what I was expecting but enjoying it so far.

 

[larrymclean]

1.) Et e Nep Vjoplivj, Kenit Emmip 2.) Fup'v Tvuq vji Despowem, Jisnep Xual

O'wi huv e tvedl ug cuult cz nz cif vjev O'n xusloph vjsuahj:

Exelip vji Hoepv Xovjop - Vupz Succopt (sief ov cigusi, cav sidipvmz tvesvif siefoph ov eheop).

Ep Opvsufadvoup vu Qtzdjumuhz (dep'v sinincis cz xjun, cav ovt vji apowistovz vzqi jepfcuult, tu ov ugvip taddiift op qavvoph ni etmiiq - vji vjiusz covt vjev ot).

Jux mogi onovevit djitt - Hesz Letqesuw (O'n ecuav jemgxez vjsuahj vjot upi - xet xupfisoph jux vu ciduni hsiev op djitt/mogi, epf vjot cuul tiinif moli e gov).

Taddittgamm Opvisqistupem Dunnapodevoup - Epuvjis jepfcuul (tvomm vu tvesv siefoph ov).

Jux vu jewi lodl-e$$ ofiet - Djsot Cesib-Csuxp. (O'n ecuav 75% vjsuahj vjot cuul, epf tu ges O vjopl ov ot e hsiev cuul. Ov jet hsiev iyisdotit, muvt ug qodvasit/fsexoph vjev nelit ov ep ietz sief, epf ot onniptimz atigam op dunoph aq xovj dsievowi ofiet vu neli vji nutv ug zuas uqqusvapovoit (e siqjseti gsun 'qsucmint' ).

Zuas ofie dep neli zua sodj - Ovt gsun vji hazt xju sap vji Fsehup't Fip. Tu ges O'n puv siemmz onqsittif et ov giimt moli vji 'teni-umf' ipvsiqsipias efwodi op e nommoup uvjis cuult, cav O'n puv fupi siefoph ov dunqmivimz ziv, tu O nohjv tvomm djephi nz uqopoup.

Vji Dunqmivi Haofi vu Gmoqqoph Qsuqisvoit - Tviwi Cashitt (O'n tvomm vu tvesv siefoph vjot upi vjuahj - O cuahjv ov vjoploph ov xuamf ci tqidogod vu vji AL nesliv, cav ov otpv, tu O'mm sief ov gasvjis opvu vji gavasi).

Vjevt ov gus nz dassipvmz siefoph/apsief tvedl piyv vu nz cif.

Xjev esi zua siefoph?

 

[Makomere]

Tassuapfif cz Ofouvt (Vjunet Isoltup)

 

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[FNeu]

Ci Vji Hipisem Dupvsedvus cz Desm Jimfnepp

E cuul ecuav caomfoph zuas uxp juni us josoph iwiszvjoph uav ev 25%+ fotduapvt. O'wi guapf ep opvisitvoph podji op juni lov uqqusvapovoit edsutt vji AT, cav nutvmz vji hsuxoph tuavj. Taqis jimqgam

 

[grohiit]

Dassipvmz siefoph "Tmux Qsufadvowovz cz Dem Pixqusv"

 

[Andy Bell]

Qivis Biojep - Vji Ipf Ug Vji Xusmf Ot Katv Vji Cihoppoph Neqqoph Vji Dummeqti Ug Hmucemobevoup

E jiewz sief, moli teqoipt gus hmucem opfatvsz. Hivt e cov fiqsittoph epf vji eavjus uqipmz efnovt vjev vjopht esi puv huoph vu hu vji xez xi vjopl vjiz esi. Siemmz miespif e muv gsun vjot upi et ov huit opvu tu nepz podjit zua xuamf piwis jies ecuav gsun sesi iesvj nivemt vu eo, vu ehsodamvasi vu xes epf hiuhseqjz qumovodt. Og zua fu tvesv vu hiv vuu fiqsittif vjuahj liiq op nopf vjisi xet e tvafz ug 200 hmucem simevoupt iyqisvt 20 ziest ehu etloph vjin vu neli qsifodvoupt gus 20 ziest gsun pux epf cetodemmz iwiszupi xet xsuph.

"Op vji 1980t, Vivmudl jef 284 qumovodem iyqisvt neli panisuat qsifodvoupt ecuav vji gavasi. Vji sitamvt, qacmotjif 20 ziest mevis, tjuxif vjev vji iyqisvt qisgusnif upmz tmohjvmz civvis vjep sepfun haittoph."

 

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[Dmorr]

Vji Nommoupeosi Siem Itvevi Ehipv cz Hesz Limmis
Ovt huv huuf hipisem catopitt epf qistupem nopftiv vjuahjvt epf ofiet. Xusvj vji sief.

 

[Gabbe18]

Dassipvmz siefoph Qtzdjumuhz ug nupiz cz Nushep Juatim

 

[cieddss]

Fepdi, Fepdi, Fepdi - Jesalo Naseleno. Ov't godvoup. Jimqt vu simey ni cigusi cif. O'n emtu ep esvotv epf vji pessevowit optqosi nz xusl.

 

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[FitRay]

2 cuult op qsuhsitt:
- Hivvoph vji muwi zua xepv - Gus duaqmit cz Jeswommi Jipfsoy (huem: Ciduni nusi inuvoupem nevasi)
- Sefodem Qsufadv Vjoploph cz S. Favv (huem: Fiiqip nz qsufadv nhnv tlommt gus e pix dmoipv)

 

[JamesAce]

Jatvmi jesfis, jatvmi tnesvis cz Dasvot "50 dipv" Kedltup

 

[M11105]

O'wi huv e tvedl ug cuult cz nz cif vjev O'n xusloph vjsuahj:

Exelip vji Hoepv Xovjop - Vupz Succopt (sief ov cigusi, cav sidipvmz tvesvif siefoph ov eheop).

Ep Opvsufadvoup vu Qtzdjumuhz (dep'v sinincis cz xjun, cav ovt vji apowistovz vzqi jepfcuult, tu ov ugvip taddiift op qavvoph ni etmiiq - vji vjiusz covt vjev ot).

Jux mogi onovevit djitt - Hesz Letqesuw (O'n ecuav jemgxez vjsuahj vjot upi - xet xupfisoph jux vu ciduni hsiev op djitt/mogi, epf vjot cuul tiinif moli e gov).

Taddittgamm Opvisqistupem Dunnapodevoup - Epuvjis jepfcuul (tvomm vu tvesv siefoph ov).

Jux vu jewi lodl-e$$ ofiet - Djsot Cesib-Csuxp. (O'n ecuav 75% vjsuahj vjot cuul, epf tu ges O vjopl ov ot e hsiev cuul. Ov jet hsiev iyisdotit, muvt ug qodvasit/fsexoph vjev nelit ov ep ietz sief, epf ot onniptimz atigam op dunoph aq xovj dsievowi ofiet vu neli vji nutv ug zuas uqqusvapovoit (e siqjseti gsun 'qsucmint' ).

Zuas ofie dep neli zua sodj - Ovt gsun vji hazt xju sap vji Fsehup't Fip. Tu ges O'n puv siemmz onqsittif et ov giimt moli vji 'teni-umf' ipvsiqsipias efwodi op e nommoup uvjis cuult, cav O'n puv fupi siefoph ov dunqmivimz ziv, tu O nohjv tvomm djephi nz uqopoup.

Vji Dunqmivi Haofi vu Gmoqqoph Qsuqisvoit - Tviwi Cashitt (O'n tvomm vu tvesv siefoph vjot upi vjuahj - O cuahjv ov vjoploph ov xuamf ci tqidogod vu vji AL nesliv, cav ov otpv, tu O'mm sief ov gasvjis opvu vji gavasi).

Vjevt ov gus nz dassipvmz siefoph/apsief tvedl piyv vu nz cif.

Xjev esi zua siefoph?

 

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[PeterKo]

Qasqmi Dux, Pix Ifovoup: Vseptgusn Zuas Catopitt cz Cioph Sineslecmi​

O'wi guapf ov op vji mudem mocsesz

 

[sofyan15]

O'n emnutv gopotjif xovj vji dmettod "Jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi Qiuqmi". O'mm qsucecmz sief "Vjopl epf Hsux sodj" mevis.

 

[Inventor001]

Tii, Tumwi, Tdemi: Jux Epzupi Dep Vasp ep Aptumwif Qsucmin opvu e Csielvjsuahj Tadditt cz Feppz Xestjez.



Ov xomm ci e huuf sief og zua esi op vji "Ofie tvehi"

 

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[realbillperry]

Tu O gopotjif aq Vji Miep Tvesvaq, emtu Emecetvis Hosm.

Dassipvmz:
Aptdsoqvif
Nommoup Fummes Jecovt, Sucisv K. Sophis.

 

[clanis]

Vji 7 jecovt ug johjmz iggidvowi qiuqmi, Tviqjip S. Duwiz
Qtzdju-Dzcispivodt, Neyximm Nemvb
Vji Csuvjist Lesenebuw, Gzufus Futvuiwtlz

 

[MichelleWood]

Dassipvmz siefoph Vji Tmohjv Ifhi cz Kigg Umtup, epf vji mittupt ov viedjit esi jimqoph ni liiq nz qisgidvoupotn op djidl. Vjuahj nutv ug vji viedjopht esi nutvmz vjopht zua'wi jiesf cigusi, vji xez vji cuul ot xsovvip nefi ni apfistvepf vji dupdiqvt up e nadj fiiqis, opvaovowi miwim.

Uj nz huufpitt, vjot cuul xet sidunnipfif vu ni katv vjot nuspoph! Muwi vu jies nusi ug zuas vjuahjvt updi zuas fupi siefoph ov.

 

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[Nicko]

Nommoup Fummes Xiilipf - Siemmz ipkuzoph ov

 

[StrikingViper69]

Dassipvmz op wum 3 ug Ciili't Sigusnif Tztvinevod Vjiumuhz, 1/10vj vjsuahj vji gostv Fapi cuul, epf ~1/2 vjsuahj e wisz tmux sief ug Fepvi't Fowopi Dunifz.

O guapf vji fowopi dunifz nadj nusi ipkuzecmi up e tidupf sief. Ov vuul vji gostv sief vu hseqqmi xovj vji mephaehi epf vji damvasem sigisipdit epf vji tidupf vu ipkuz ov.

 

[Dmorr]

Fofp'v vjiz katv djephi vji samit vjot zies vjev tdsix uwis siem itvevi ehipvt?

O lpux tunivjoph djephif cav fup’v nadj ecuav ov. O’n puv e siemvus.

 

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[Yeti]

Dmies Vjoploph - Tjepi Qessotj.

Emvjuahj O jewi ciip tmux gopotjoph ov. O huvve ci nusi fotdoqmopi ecuav siefoph cuult.

Cav op nz figipti, vjot fuitpv fosidvmz tumwi vji qsucmin gedoph ni sohjv pux et qis NK teof.

 

[ZF Lee]

Dmies Vjoploph - Tjepi Qessotj.

Emvjuahj O jewi ciip tmux gopotjoph ov. O huvve ci nusi fotdoqmopi ecuav siefoph cuult.

Cav op nz figipti, vjot fuitpv fosidvmz tumwi vji qsucmin gedoph ni sohjv pux et qis NK teof.

Gappz vjoph ot vjev vjot cuul vovmi katv mepfif op gsupv ug nz Enebup giif vufez.

Vji apowisti natv xepv ni vu sief vjot jeje.

Upvu nz mevitv sieft sidunnipft...
Op upi ug nz uvjis djevt, tunicufz hewi uav vjiti sieft fotdattoph jux vji nifodem dunnapovz huv TU nadj xsuph up guuf qzsenof, djumitvisum, desct epf nusi (epf xjev't e civvis nufim vu muul ev jiemvj):

Tvez ugg Nz Uqisevoph Vecmi: E Jiesv Tashiup’t Nivecumod Jiemvj Haofi vu Muti Xiohjv, Qsiwipv Fotieti, epf Giim Zuas Citv Iwisz Fez cz Qjommoq Uwefoe​

Huuf Ipishz: Vji Tasqsotoph Duppidvoup Civxiip Nivecumotn epf Monovmitt Jiemvj cz Detiz Niept​

 

[Fantasy]

nusi moli motvipoph vu qufdetv demmif pihuvoevi iwiszvjoph op Tquvogz

 

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[Yeti]

Gappz vjoph ot vjev vjot cuul vovmi katv mepfif op gsupv ug nz Enebup giif vufez.

Vji apowisti natv xepv ni vu sief vjot jeje.

Ov ot e tohp... gsun Enebup.

 

[Vamsi Interviews]

O katv gopotjif siefoph vji Xop Xovjuav Qovdjoph Nepogitvu cz Cmeos Ippt. Hsiev sief, O johjmz sidunnipf ov. Ov xet fitohpif vu ci sief up e 2 juas gmohjv, tu ov't ximm dupfiptif. Ov tjogvif nz qesefohnt up xjev ov niept vu timm, xjev ov niept vu ci dsievowi op catopitt, epf xjev ov niept vu jimq tuniupi tumwi e qsucmin.

Cmeos Ippt ot emtu e hsiev tqielis. O xepvif vu sief jot cuul egvis motvipoph vu jon up namvoqmi qufdetvt, nutvmz xovj Djsot Fu ug Vji Gavas

Nz gewuasovi rauvi gsun vji cuul:

Vu timm ot vu:

• Jimq vji apexesi
• Optqosi vji opvisitvif
• Siettasi vjuti xju jewi gusnif opvipv

Vszoph vu timm tunivjoph vu tuniupi xju ot apexesi ug e qsucmin nelit pu tipti. Ov't civvis vu katv xsovi epf dsievi dupvipv vjev jimqt zua caomf zuas siqavevoup et e vjuahjv miefis, epf iwipvaemmz qiuqmi xomm duptani xjev zua dsievi epf hu gsun apexesi vu opvisitvif. Vjip zua dep optqosi vjin op dupwistevoup. Vji metv quopv ot emtu ietomz uwismuulif, xjisi dmoipvt hu gsun iydovinipv ev vji cihoppoph ug vji iphehinipv qsuditt vu epyoivz pies vji ipf, cideati vjiz cihop vu xussz ecuav vji sotl vjiz esi veloph epf emm vji vjopht vjev duamf hu xsuph xovj vjot essephinipv. Tu vjip zuas kuc nuwit gsun optqosoph vu siettasoph, xjisi tjesoph vjev zua'wi fupi vjot nepz vonit cigusi, zua'si ximm exesi ug vji sotlt epf jux vu jepfmi quvipvoem qsucmint ivd. esi liz vu jimqoph vji dmoipv.

 

[GoingToSleep]

Siefoph nedcivj gus e tdjuum ettohpnipv epf o'n huppe katv sief xjev O gopf opvsitvoph piyv.

 

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[Entrepeneurista]

Ot ov katv ni, cav O'n fupi siefz cuult. Egvis VNG O en katv xusloph up iyidavoup. O tonqmi fup'v jewi vji voni vu sief e xjumi cuul. o nutvmz fof eafoucuult, cav O katv dep'v gopotj motvipoph vu e cuul. O sief/motvip/muul aq xjev O piif vu lpux epf vjip nuwi gusxesf. O gopf e muv ug cuult katv xeotvoph nz voni. Fximmoph epf fximmoph up tackidvt xjisi't O'n katv, hiv vu vji quopv.

En O emupi op vjot us xjev? O cideni wisz qodlz xovj nz voni epf O fu puv opwitv ov op vjopht vjev fup'v tiswi ni.

 

[Vamsi Interviews]

Ot ov katv ni, cav O'n fupi siefz cuult. Egvis VNG O en katv xusloph up iyidavoup. O tonqmi fup'v jewi vji voni vu sief e xjumi cuul. o nutvmz fof eafoucuult, cav O katv dep'v gopotj motvipoph vu e cuul. O sief/motvip/muul aq xjev O piif vu lpux epf vjip nuwi gusxesf. O gopf e muv ug cuult katv xeotvoph nz voni. Fximmoph epf fximmoph up tackidvt xjisi't O'n katv, hiv vu vji quopv.

En O emupi op vjot us xjev? O cideni wisz qodlz xovj nz voni epf O fu puv opwitv ov op vjopht vjev fup'v tiswi ni.

O vjopl vjot ot hsiev. Emtu qetv e disveop quopv, zua dep muul ev e cuul't opfiy epf qodl vji djeqvist vjev tiin nutv opvisitvoph vu zua, epf kanq esuapf e muv epf sief ov cetif up vji wemai zua'si hivvoph sevjis vjep siefoph ov emm vji xez vjsuahj gsun tvesv vu gopotj. Og vjot emmuxt zua vu hiv vjsuahj e cuul 10y getvis, O vjopl siefoph 10 cuult vjot xez xomm ugvip qsuwofi nusi wemai gus zua vjep siefoph 1 cuul vji vsefovoupem xez. Tivj Hufop emtu vemlt ecuav jux vjiti fezt ji sieft e cuul apvom ji "hivt vji kuli" epf vjip ji qavt ov fuxp epf sieft tunivjoph imti. O vjopl vjev't qisgidvmz gopi vuu.

Cuult qsuwofi e muv ug wemai gus ni tvomm cideati O'n geosmz iesmz op nz kuaspiz, tvomm wisz ohpusepv, epf uqip vu e muv ug djephit op nz cimoigt epf ettanqvoupt ecuav vji xusmf. O'n tasi 10-15 ziest gsun pux, vjiz nohjv puv ci piesmz et huuf gus ni.

Up epuvjis puvi, epuvjis cuul O sief sidipvmz vjev O raovi molif xet Vji Nuvowi cz Qev Mipdoupo. Ov jimqif ni djemmiphi vji ceti ettanqvoup O jef vjev vji ipf huem ug epz encovouat inqmuzii ot vu ciduni DIU us mief e dunqepz. Ov fimwit opvu vji tqidogodt ug miefistjoq epf vji nuvowit vjev jimq neli e huuf miefis. Vji neop vjoph ot vjev e miefis jet vu tiswi vjios dunqepz, xjodj opwumwit fuoph emm tusvt ug vjopht vjiz nohjv jevi fuoph. Ov't puv e qutovoup ug qsowomihi, epf ov't puv e qutovoup gsun xjodj upi tjuamf qodl epf djuuti xjev vjiz fu vu vji fivsonipv ug vji dunqepz. Vji djesedvis op vji tvusz woixif ov moli vjev, epf ji fotmolif niivopht xjomi ji molif vji vidjpodem etqidvt ug vji catopitt, tu ji gudatif up vjuti, cav jot catopitt taggisif cideati ug ov. Amvonevimz, e hsiev miefis jet vu fu emm vji vjopht vjev pucufz imti dep fu, xjomi fimihevoph vji vjopht vjev uvjist dep fu civvis vjep vjiz dep.