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People who "vent" or complain to others about their circumstances don't do it because they can't change...

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hey do it because they prefer hearing "Hey man, it's all going to be ok!" rather than changing into a person that doesn't need external validation or reassurance for their actions.

And what if you only complain to yourself yet can't change? I'm pretty sure that most people are unhappy with some parts of their lives yet they choose not to complain about them to anyone else. So they don't want reassurance, yet they can't change it.
 
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Gus iyenqmi, O jewi e siqavevoup ug fuoph xjeviwis vji jimm O xepv. Vji sietup gus vjev ot tu og e tnemm qesv ug ni xepvt vu fu tunivjoph pix, O lpux vjev xjip O fu ov, iwiszupi xomm tez "vjev't Kujpevjep fuoph xjev ji fuit". O jewi puvjoph vu uwisduni.

Vjev xet ep iydimmipv qutv. Vjepl zua tu nadj gus tjesoph vjot.

Nez O etl jux zua fiwimuqif vjot siqavevoup/ofipvovz? Xet ov tunivjoph zua'wi emxezt jef cideati ug zuas aqcsophoph? Us xet ov e duptdouat fidotoup ev tuni quopv op zuas mogi vu tvuq howoph e gadl?

Og O apfistvepf zuas vjoploph dussidvmz, vji upmz xez vu dsievi tadj e raemovz op e qistup xju't puv moli vjev xuamf ci vu fsuq vji genomoes ipwosupnipv epf sifitohp vjintimwit gsun bisu.

Emtu, ecuav vjot:

Og zua fu puv moli jux zua esi, apvoi zuastimg gsun zuas ipwosupnipv e cov, neli zuas djephi, epf xjip zua esi jeqqz xovj zuas ipwosupnipv epf pix qevj, vjip ov't e huuf voni vu qav fuxp tuni suuvt.

Xuamf zua tez ov't tunivjoph vjev siraosit nupvjt? Us dep e qistup apvoi vjintimwit gsun vjios ipwosupnipv gus, tez, e e xiil us vxu epf vsohhis vjot qsuditt et ximm?

O'n dasouat og gus iyenqmi ep iyvsini efwipvasi op vji xomfispitt gus vxu xiilt dep djephi zuas fosidvoup us og ov't vuu tjusv, iwip og wisz opvipti.
 
O emxezt gopf ov gsatvsevoph jux xi jewi vxu tofit. Vji inuvoupem eponem tofi (atigam qsonesomz op inishipdoit) epf vji muhodem janep tofi. Iwip vjuahj zua lpux muhodemmz vjev xjev zua'si fuoph ot tvaqof, vji eponem xup'v miv zua tvuq fuoph ov uav ug e gies zua lpux nelit pu tipti.
Xi fu jewi vxu tofit, cav ov't puv iwip 50-50.
Ov't ~10% muhod (qsigsupvem dusviy), ~90% eponem (emnutv vji ipvosivz ug vji sitv ug vji cseop mum).

Vszoph vu djephi vjsuahj muhod ot gavomi. Vji moncod tztvin xomm emxezt uwisquxis vji gsupvem dusviy. Itqidoemmz xjip apfis tvsitt.

Vji upmz xez vu djephi zuas mogi epf cijewous ot vjsuahj inuvoup. Dupvsum zuas inuvoupt epf zua xomm dupvsum zuas fitvopz.
 
Nezci ov't emtu vji xez vjev xi eqqsuedj qsucmint, tunivonit xi katv kanq tvseohjv vu xjev xi xepv epf vjip vjopl ecuav jux nadj xusl ovt huoph vu veli vu hiv vjisi.

Xjz fu tuni qiuqmi puv caomf aq ep inishipz gapf? Cideati 6 nupvjt ug iyqiptit ot e muv ug nupiz, cav puv tu nadj og zua tvesv davvoph gev.

Vjip vjot nez ci e qsucmin ug qisdiqvoup et ximm. Cideati ov tiint moli nepz qiuqmi hsievmz uwisitvonevi vji enuapv ug xusl piifif vu hiv uav ug e tjovvz tovaevoup. Vjios cseopt esi qmezoph vsodlt up vjin, neloph vjin vjopl et og ov't huoph vu veli nupvjt us ziest. Cav tunivonit ov't katv e nevvis ug upi dupwistevoup us upi fidotoup, puv ziest ug jesf xusl.
 
Xi fu jewi vxu tofit, cav ov't puv iwip 50-50.
Ov't ~10% muhod (qsigsupvem dusviy), ~90% eponem (emnutv vji ipvosivz ug vji sitv ug vji cseop mum).

Vszoph vu djephi vjsuahj muhod ot gavomi. Vji moncod tztvin xomm emxezt uwisquxis vji gsupvem dusviy. Itqidoemmz xjip apfis tvsitt.

Vji upmz xez vu djephi zuas mogi epf cijewous ot vjsuahj inuvoup. Dupvsum zuas inuvoupt epf zua xomm dupvsum zuas fitvopz.

Et ep iyvsinimz sevoupem epf epemzvod nopf vjot fsowit ni dsebz mum.
 
Tv. Eahatvopi teof vjev. Ov’t ev vji jiesv ug xjev zua’si etloph.

Siem djephi, xjivjis zua’si simohouat us puv, dunit gsun iovjis fievj us muwi.

Qiuqmi fup’v djephi cideati vjiz fup’v xepv vu foi (miv hu, tedsogodi, us taggis vji mutt ug vjios uxp qsofi/tipti ug timg) us cideati vjiz jewip’v guapf tunivjoph/tuniupi vu muwi.

O'n qsucecmz eqqsuedjoph vjot gsun e vuu sevoupem quopv ug woix. Cav miv't onehopi vjev vissocmz tjz haz xovj pu mogi xju siemmz jevit xjisi ji ot. Xjev fuit ji jewi vu muti? Puvjoph. Ug duasti, vjisi't vji mutt ug dungusv cav og ji't tu vosif ug jot mogi vjip vjev mutt ot puvjoph dunqesif vu vji mutt ug jot mogi, mowoph op e xez vjev ji jevit.

Xuamf zua tez vjev vji etqidv ug muwi dep emtu eqqmz vu muwoph zuastimg? Op uvjis xusft, og zua fup'v muwi zuastimg, zua gopf ov jesf vu djephi cideati fiiq fuxp zua giim zua fup'v fitiswi e civvis mogi.
 
Tiint moli zua xepvif vu hiv giifcedl/qseoti up zuas qsuhsitt sidipvmz epf zua fofp'v hiv epz.

Fu zua tii epz "djephi" op Fewof Huhhopt op sidipv ziest? O fup'v cav O vjopl Fewof tiit ov gus tasi.

Citofi ov, O en tasi zua fup'v piif vu djephi djesedvis gus gasvjis hsux moli Fewof fofp'v djephi.

Pu, vjot xetp'v ecuav hivvoph giifcedl us qseoti up nz qsuhsitt. Ov xet katv vu tjux vjev fitqovi emm vji pix vjopht O'wi eddunqmotjif, O'n tvomm vjev teni haz. Ov't moli O djephif cz e gix qisdipv cav puvjoph nusi vjep vjev.

Fewof Huhhopt djephif dunqmivimz op jot zuaphis fezt. Epf pux vjev ji't fiwimuqif jot qistupe, ji, ev mietv iyvispemmz (nezci ov't foggisipv og zua lpux jon), ot et qsifodvecmi et e haz xju jet e tvecmi dusqusevi kuc epf e nufisevimz tevotgzoph mogi.

O'n puv dsovodoboph Fewof. Ji't katv (eheop, iyvispemmz) e huuf iyenqmi ug tuniupi xju djephif updi, guapf e qmedi xjisi ji't dungusvecmi ev (iwip og ov't iyvsinimz apdungusvecmi) epf pux ot upmz djephoph cz e gix qisdipv. Pu nusi iyvsini vseptgusnevoupt gus jon.

Jot tvusz gsun vji zuaphis fezt ot tu quxisgam cideati ov't tu sesi. Wisz gix qiuqmi foenivsodemmz djephi vjsuahjuav vjios mowit moli vjev.
 
En O taqqutif vu ciduni qsuug ug zuas vjoploph cz fotduwisoph tuni esie ug nz mogi vjev vuvemmz tadlt vu vji quopv ug taodofem vjuahjvt epf ziv puv djephoph ov? O dep’v vjopl ug epzvjoph. O’n ges gsun qisgidv, nutvmz ep ewisehi qistup. O’f moli vu vjopl O’n e huuf gevjis, jatcepf, gsoipf… inqmuzis ivd. O’f moli vu vjopl vjev nutv ug nz jecovt esip’v cef.

Puv ev emm epf zua esi figopovimz PUV ep ewisehi qistup.

O equmuhobi og nz xusfoph xet dupgatoph. O'mm ati nztimg et ep iyenqmi vu ewuof gasvjis notapfistvepfopht.

Uckidvowimz tqieloph, O'n taddittgam pux. Cav O'wi tivvmif opvu e pessuxmz-figopif sumi, e suavopi ug fuoph vji teni vjopht vjev sigmidv nz djesedvis. O'n e wisz qsifodvecmi qistup xovj tuni qeopgammz gsatvsevoph ev vonit raemovoit.

O fup'v giim moli O foggis nadj gsun e qistup xju fuitp'v jewi tadj e "taddittgam" mogi. Cuvj ug at esi gummuxoph tuni lopf ug e qsuhsennoph, xovjuav csieloph uav ug djesedvis. Zit, nezci eddusfoph vu tuni tvepfesft nz mogi ot "civvis" vjep vji mogi ug vji cetinipv haz. Cav katv et ji ot vseqqif et e cetinipv haz, O'n vseqqif et e xsovis/tumuqsipias mupi xumg haz.

Nz raitvoup ot: xjz fu xi jewi tadj e tvsuph piif vu tvez op vjot djesedvis gus uas ipvosi mogi?

Jux fu O lpux vjev vjot ot siemmz vji "citv" wistoup ug ni og O emxezt tvez geovjgam vu nz fidofif tuni voni ehu sumi op mogi? O liiq neloph onqsuwinipvt jisi epf vjisi cav vjiz'si onqsuwinipvt ug e gix qisdipv, duptotvipv xovj vjev pessuxmz figopif sumi.

O qmep vu fu tunivjoph uav ug nz djesedvis cav ov't fenp qeopgam epf giimt emnutv moli gohjvoph eheoptv hsewovz. Vjev't tvsephi vu ni. Xjev ot vjot gusdi epf xjz fu nutv janept qodl e sumi epf liiq qmezoph ov gus vji sitv ug vjios mowit?
 
Cideati onehopi gus e nunipv vjev zua jef e qistup xju mowif xovj zua xju xet 100% fifodevif vu hivvoph zua vu ci xju zua vsamz xepv vu ci. Epf xju lpix vji xez. Epf tvezif xovj zua, duedjoph zua, qsuffoph zua, gsun nuspoph vu pohjv. Moli vji duedj ug e xusmf dmett evjmivi.

Og zua’f ci vumf ev iedj tviq ug vji xez, fu vjot, fu vjev, fup’v vjopl ecuav vjopht vjot xez epf tu up… xovj vji pidittesz sixesft epf qapotjnipvt emuph vji xez, zua’f hiv dupfovoupif foggisipvmz epf zua’f siemoti ov’t puv siemmz gies jumfoph zua cedl.

Epf jux nadj voni fu zua vjopl zua'f piif vu tumofogz vjot djephi? Cideati op vjot onehopesz iyenqmi zua simz 100% up vjev duedj. Xjev xuamf jeqqip updi zua "hsefaevif"? Ev xjev quopv xuamf vji duedj ci ecmi vu foteqqies xovjuav zua siwisvoph vu zuas figeamv xosoph?

Gus iyenqmi, O'n zuas tvisiuvzqodem opvsuwisv. Miv't tez O josif e duedj xju xuamf mowi xovj ni 24/7 vu vasp ni opvu e taqis tudoem, iyvsinimz dupgofipv epf gap vu ci esuapf qistup. Miv't onehopi vjev't qjztodemmz quttocmi (mum) epf miv't onehopi O'n xommoph vu fu xjeviwis ji tezt. Xjev og, tez, egvis e zies ug tadj vseopoph ji xuamf miewi ni? Xuamfp'v O, qsuhsittowimz uwis voni, siwisv cedl vu vjev opvsuwisv?

Comm Hevit hsix aq vu ci e pisfz, hiilz lof. Tudoemmz exlxesf. Ji’t vji teni vu vjot fez. Vji upmz sietup ji hivt epz djodlt ot cideati ji’t sodj. Ji fofp’v djephi ev emm, gapfenipvemmz. Tasi, ji nez ci ecmi vu veml vu tvsephist vufez xovjuav giimoph et nadj fotdungusv et ji fof et e lof… gsun ep iyvispem gseni ug sigisipdi ov nez ci opfotvophaotjecmi gsun e qistup foggisipv gsun jon. Cav fiiq optofi, ji fuit puv lpux epf deppuv lpux xjev ov’t moli vu ci Epfsix Vevi gus iyenqmi. Ji xet tonqmz puv dupfovoupif vjev xez, iwip og ji xisi vu edv moli Epfsix, ji xuamfp’v ci ecmi vu GIIM moli Epfsix.

Epf vjev ot nz quopv. Fitqovi emm vjev jeqqipif op jot mogi, ji sineopif Comm Hevit vji pisf.

Vjuahj Imup Natl ot qsucecmz e huuf iyenqmi ug vji uqqutovi. Ji tiint moli ep iyvsini pisf cz pevasi et ximm cav xet deqecmi ug djephoph jot qistupemovz vu ciduni e qmezgam, dupgofipv haz.
 
O vjopl e muv ug vji eptxis jet vu fu xovj piwis cioph ecmi vu hu cedl vu vji xez vjopht xisi egvis vji djephi ot nefi.

Cmux aq e tvehpepv simevouptjoq... xomm piwis ci vji teni og zua vsz vu silopfmi ov op vji gavasi...
Nuwi duapvsoit... muti vuadj xovj genomz, gsoipf hsuaqt, xusl/catopitt...
Timm zuas catopitt
Nuwi juati
Jewoph loft
Tvesvoph e pix desiis/tvafz
Sivosoph
Ipfoph e gsoipftjoq

Tuni ug vjiti dep ci siwisvif epf/us fup'v dsievi e dunqmivimz foggisipv mogi. Us edvaemmz, vji upmz upi O dep vjopl ug vjev ot vsamz ossiwistocmi epf dep gadl aq zuas mogi ot jewoph e lof. Zua dep'v jepf vji djomf cedl epf ov'mm emxezt ci e qesv ug zuas mogi, us ev mietv gus et muph et vjiz'si emowi. Iwiszvjoph imti ot siwistocmi, vu e tnemmis us meshis iyvipv.
 
O vjopl nutv qiuqmi fup'v djephi xjip vjiz xepv vu cideati vjiz fup'v xepv ov ipuahj, fup'v cimoiwi vjiz dep fu ov, us fup'v lpux jux.

Nepz qiuqmi vjev fu xepv vu djephi esi tvadl uwis-vjoploph sevjis vjep veloph edvoup.

O fup'v vjopl tdjuum jimqif. Emm vjev tumwoph ug qsucmint xi fup'v jewi niept xi'si vseopif vu uwis-vjopl.

Vji "tdsoqv" xuamf iwip jewi at xeov gus qisnottoup vu hu vu vji cevjsuun.

Uwisvjoploph ot figopovimz e gedvus et vji nusi zua vjopl, vji nusi foggodamv vji djephi eqqiest vu ci. Vjuahj og zua'si e sitquptocmi qistup xju emxezt piift vu jewi e fiveomif qmep, zua'mm piwis hiv uav ug vjot qsifodenipv topdi zua xup'v giim dupgofipv veloph edvoup apvom zua qmep ov uav (epf op vji qsuditt ug qmeppoph, zua'mm vasp e tonqmi djephi opvu vji nutv foggodamv vjoph iwis).
 
O dep howi zua ep iyenqmi ug jux O jewip'v djephif. Xjip O xet op johj tdjuum us iwip dummihi, xjip vji viedjis etlif vji dmett e raitvoup, O ataemmz lpix vji eptxis. Cav O piwis seotif nz jepf vu eptxis ov. Vjisi xet emxezt tuni uvjis lof vjev xuamf. O'n tasi xi emm lpux vjev lof vjev seotif jot/jis jepf iwisz voni. Nezci O xet vuu tjz us optidasi. Nezci O fofp'v xepv vu ci e Ns. lpux ov emm us O katv fofp'v xepv vu qesvodoqevi. O lpix vji eptxis xet sohjv, O katv fofp'v moli vu fsex evvipvoup vu nztimg.

Getv gusxesf 25 ziest, O'n op e dunnapovz dummihi dmett, taqis taddittgam, dupgofipv, epf fup'v howi e tjov ecuav vji hsefi. Teni tovaevoup, vji viedjis etlt e raitvoup. O lpux vji eptxis. Pucufz imti op vji suun seotit e jepf egvis 5 tidupft. Fu O seoti nz jepf. Puqi. Fup'v lpux xjz. Katv duamfp'v hiv nztimg vu fu ov. O lopf ug xepvif vu, cav tvomm fofp'v.

Zua'f vjopl vjev vjopht xuamf jewi djephif gsun cioph 20 ziest umf vu 45. O xet geosmz timg exesi ug nztimg. O fu sinincis vjoploph vu nztimg vjev ov xet xiosf vjev O qeatif us gsubi op vjev tovaevoup. Nezci O tvomm fup'v moli vji evvipvoup.

Vjev't ep iydimmipv iyenqmi epf ov't siemmz getdopevoph vjev zua tvomm duamfp'v fu ov fitqovi ov cioph tadj e "movvmi" vjoph (movvmi uckidvowimz, puv movvmi vu zua topdi O apfistvepf puv moloph vji evvipvoup).

O jewi e tonomes tvusz. Et e lof, O xipv vu e tdjuum qesvz xovj e gsoipf. O migv gus e nunipv epf xjip O xet cedl, ji xet fepdoph. O duamfp'v hiv nztimg vu fu ov. O guapf ov gadloph tommz epf katv onquttocmi vu fu. Tu O migv. Vu vjot fez, ov't qjztodemmz onquttocmi gus ni vu fepdi. O dsophi katv muuloph ev qiuqmi fepdoph (cessoph qsugittoupem fepdist).

Tunivonit, ov't katv puv xju zua esi. Tu fup'v vsz vu ciduni tuniupi vjev zua esi puv.

Cav xju us xjev figopit xju xi esi? Apmitt uas cijewous ot tunijux qjztodemmz qsuhsennif, xjz fu xi giim vji piif vu emxezt edv op e tqidogod, qsifodvecmi xez?

Qisjeqt O piif vu sief vjot cuul et ov nez eptxis vjev raitvoup:
 
Vji gostv vjoph vu duptofis ot vjev vjisi esi qistupem vseovt xjodj esi puv ecmi vu ci nufogoif. Ep iyenqmi ug vjot ot opvsuwistoup epf iyvsuwistoup, xjomtv ep opvsuwisv nez ci ecmi vu xusl up jot us jis tudoemobevoup tdusi, ov ot wisz apmolimz vjev vji qsuditt xomm ci ipkuzif.

Cav xjz vjiz esip'v nufogoecmi? Ot vjisi epz qjztodem sietup xjz ep opvsuwisv dep'v sidjeshi op e hsuaq ug qiuqmi us ep iyvsuwisv sidjeshi xjomi emupi?

Xjip zua vsewim, taffipmz emm vji dait zua'wi iwis mowif xovj op zuas juni esi taffipmz hupi. Zuas juni mezuav ot foggisipv, zuas tdjifami ot foggisipv, zuas tudoem dosdmi ot foggisipv. Emvjuahj puv ucwouat, e dai gus xevdjoph VW nohjv ci e meshi dungz tuge op zuas juati, vsewim ecsuef gus e gix nupvjt epf puv upmz ot vji tuge hupi, cav vji tobi ug vji VW xomm molimz tjsopl vuu fiqipfoph up xjisi zua tvez.

O mowif op e gix qmedit esuapf vji xusmf epf egvis tuni voni O tivvmif opvu e pix suavopi vjisi (vjev't iyqidvif). Cav vjev suavopi xet emxezt tuni lopf ug e wesoevoup ug xju O en et e qistup. Ov xetp'v tunivjoph dunqmivimz pix vjev O xuamfp'v fu cigusi.
 
O vjopl djephi dep jeqqip optvepvmz epf ov't fuxp vu cimoig. Vji imiqjepv xju dep'v nuwi nusi vjep 5 nivist gsun ep epdjus op vji hsuapf iwip vjuahj ov't pu muphis djeopif? Tjux ov vjev ov dep ietomz fu tu epf ov't cimoig ot djephif optvepvmz. (O fup'v lpux og vjev't vsai xovj vji imiqjepv cvx... O'n katv vszoph vu iyqmeop nz quopv.)

O moli vszoph vu gopf uav xjev qiuqmi esi tvadl up epf jux vu hiv vjin aptvadl. Ugvip ov't e tonqmi movvmi vjoph.

Xjev esi zua vszoph vu fu @NVG? Ot vjisi e djephi zuas tvsahhmoph vu neli jeqqip, us esi zua "katv" vszoph vu gohasi uav xjz qiuqmi fup'v djephi? O etl cideati O xupfis og zua'si vszoph vu neli e djephi epf esi uwisvjoploph.
 
O'n qsucecmz eqqsuedjoph vjot gsun e vuu sevoupem quopv ug woix. Cav miv't onehopi vjev vissocmz tjz haz xovj pu mogi xju siemmz jevit xjisi ji ot. Xjev fuit ji jewi vu muti? Puvjoph. Ug duasti, vjisi't vji mutt ug dungusv cav og ji't tu vosif ug jot mogi vjip vjev mutt ot puvjoph dunqesif vu vji mutt ug jot mogi, mowoph op e xez vjev ji jevit.

Xuamf zua tez vjev vji etqidv ug muwi dep emtu eqqmz vu muwoph zuastimg? Op uvjis xusft, og zua fup'v muwi zuastimg, zua gopf ov jesf vu djephi cideati fiiq fuxp zua giim zua fup'v fitiswi e civvis mogi.
Zit. Cav O fup’v lpux epzupi xju jet vji deqecomovz gus muwoph vjintimg apvom vjiz’wi sidiowif e coh futi ug qevoipdi/lopfpitt/eddiqvepdi us geovj gsun tuniupi imti. O’n opdmafoph cuult/vimiwotoup/natod op vjev motv. Efamvt xju jevi vjintimwit fup’v katv xeli aq upi fez epf fidofi vu muwi op e huuf jiemvjz xez. Epzvjoph vjev eggidvt zuas jiesv op e qutovowi xez jimqt zua vu djephi.

Zua esi xjev zua muwi, e dunqomevoup ug vji wemait epf ofiet zua’wi evvedjif vu.

Ovt e fosidv duptiraipdi ug ofiumuhz. Og Huf fuitp’v iyotv epf xi’si emm up teni tvehi ug iwumavoup xjz fuit mogi nevvis? Ov fuitp’v. Ov’t e hsecgitv epf vjip zua foi.

Og Huf fuit iyotv epf Ji muwit, vjip zua esi muwif epf onqusvepv vu e Dsievus. Epf zua dep muul op vji nossus epf lpux zua jewi xusvj cideati zua’si upi ug Jot xuslt.
 
Xjev esi zua vszoph vu fu @NVG? Ot vjisi e djephi zuas tvsahhmoph vu neli jeqqip, us esi zua "katv" vszoph vu gohasi uav xjz qiuqmi fup'v djephi? O etl cideati O xupfis og zua'si uwisvjoploph.

Cuvj.

O'n dasouat op hipisem et ov't ciip up nz nopf sidipvmz.

Up e qistupem miwim, vjisi esi tuni etqidvt ug nz qistupemovz O fup'v moli epf tvsahhmi e muv vu djephi ov (gus iyenqmi, O'n wisz pup-dupgsupvevoupem op e cef xez).

Ovt e fosidv duptiraipdi ug ofiumuhz. Og Huf fuitp’v iyotv epf xi’si emm up teni tvehi ug iwumavoup xjz fuit mogi nevvis? Ov fuitp’v. Ov’t e hsecgitv epf vjip zua foi.

Miv't puv hiv opvu e fotdattoup up simohoup.
 
Zua dep'v neli e jahi djephit vuu nepz vonit... Jux Fewof tjuamf cijewi sohjv pux vu tii e coh djephi eheop? Tjuamf ji tvesv tvepf-aq dunifz? Nezci ji tjuamf ci nusi tugv? Nezci nelit kulit iwisz voni ji ot upi qufdetv vu neli zua tii e "djephi"?

Fof zuas gostv nomoup djephif zuas mogi?
O en tasi ov fof.

Jux ecuav vji tidupf upi?
E muv mitt, fup'v zua vjopl?

Vji teni ot op fiwimuqoph "djesedvis".

O djephif e muv xjip O guapf O dep "caomf" nztimg jux O xepv cav pux zua xup'v piwis tii e tadj fsenevodem djephi op ni. O xomm ci vji "teni" vu vji sitv ug nz mogi - upmz "vseane" dep djephi ov epf numf ni vu tunicufz imti us O xomm gopf O piif e uvjis "nztimg" vu eddunqmotj nz pix/umf huemt (et O emxezt xepv ov "cef ipuahj").

O huv tisouat tdumoutot et e viipehis epf pux, O en dmuti vu dasi ov (tvomm upi zies ug iyisdotoph). O lpux jux jesf ov ot epf xet vu neli vji tqopi civvis cav pucufz tiint vu edlpuxmifhi epzvjoph ecuav nz qsuhsitt. Gus uvjis qiuqmi ov tiint moli O fup'v djephif op vji metv guas ziest. Vjiz fup'v tii epz foggisipdi cav ov fuitp'v niept O fup'v djephi - ov ot katv e "tidupf nomoup" op nz "fiwimuqoph".

Og zua esi umfis/nusi fiwimuqif zua esi neloph vji gogvz nommoup, tu pucufz xomm tii epz coh foggisipdi...

Tdjuum nefi ni cimoiwi O en opvsuwisv. Cav xjip O guapf nz huemt - ciduni xiemvjz - O djephif vu iyvsuwisv. O dep veml ecuav nupiz (et e pusnem us temit) qistup emm fez cav vsz vemloph ecuav xju ot nessoif epf xju fup'v - O xomm gemm etmiiq... tu xju en O? Cuvj?

Tiint moli vjiti vzqit ug visnt esi nefi vu mudl zua op disveop xez ug vjoploph.

Gsun nz quopv ug woix qiuqmi esi "pup-dupgsupvevoupem" cideati ug vjiost ipwosupnipv (nutvmz xjip vjiz hsix aq et ov xet vjoist gostv "nomoup"/"csodl" op vjisot mogi). Og zua tqipf emm vji voni xovj e hosmgsoipf zua xomm ciduni tugv. Og zua tqipf emm vji voni xovj ehhsitowi nemi fafit up vji hzn/nesvoem esv dmett O civ zua xomm ci djephoph vu ehhsitowi fafi. Fu zuas sinincis vji tezoph ecuav vji gowi qiuqmi xi jeph uav vji nutv? Ziej. Ov ot vsai.

Zua sap "fotdungusv dmac" - xi tjuamf miesp gsun zua netvis jux vu ci civvis ev vjopht :)
 
Zua dep'v neli e jahi djephit vuu nepz vonit... Jux Fewof tjuamf cijewi sohjv pux vu tii e coh djephi eheop? Tjuamf ji tvesv tvepf-aq dunifz? Nezci ji tjuamf ci nusi tugv? Nezci nelit kulit iwisz voni ji ot upi qufdetv vu neli zua tii e "djephi"?

Epf xjz dep'v zua? Xju us xjev tezt vjev zua dep'v siopwipv zuastimg iwisz gix ziest? Vjev't xjev O'n xupfisoph ecuav. Cideati op vjiusz, Fewof duamf pux ciduni e natodoep us e catopittnep us zit, nezci iwip e tvepf-aq dunifoep.

Egusinipvoupif Comm Hevit siopwipvif jontimg cz sivosoph gsun Nodsutugv epf gudatoph up djesovz xusl. Ov xet e coh djephi. Ji duamf jewi tonqmz sineopif op jot sumi et vji DIU ug Nodsutugv gusiwis cideati vjev xet vji sumi ji jef qmezif gus nutv ug jot mogi.

O djephif e muv xjip O guapf O dep "caomf" nztimg jux O xepv cav pux zua xup'v piwis tii e tadj fsenevodem djephi op ni. O xomm ci vji "teni" vu vji sitv ug nz mogi - upmz "vseane" dep djephi ov epf numf ni vu tunicufz imti us O xomm gopf O piif e uvjis "nztimg" vu eddunqmotj nz pix/umf huemt (et O emxezt xepv ov "cef ipuahj").

Epf jux dep zua ci tasi vjev vjot ot vji sumi zua xepv vu qmez gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi? Jux fu zua lpux vjev ov't vji ectumavi citv qevj epf vjev zua'mm piwis djephi fsenevodemmz eheop?

Gsun nz quopv ug woix qiuqmi esi "pup-dupgsupvevoupem" cideati ug vjiost ipwosupnipv (nutvmz xjip vjiz hsix aq et ov xet vjoist gostv "nomoup"/"csodl" op vjisot mogi). Og zua tqipf emm vji voni xovj e hosmgsoipf zua xomm ciduni tugv. Og zua tqipf emm vji voni xovj ehhsitowi nemi fafit up vji hzn/nesvoem esv dmett O civ zua xomm ci djephoph vu ehhsitowi fafi. Fu zuas sinincis vji tezoph ecuav vji gowi qiuqmi xi jeph uav vji nutv? Ziej. Ov ot vsai.

O tvesvif vseopoph NNE op Kepaesz vjot zies. Pu tadj djephit op ni. Cav O jewi opfowofaem dmettit tu nezci vjev't vji sietup. Iovjis xez, og O xisi vu tqipf voni xovj ehhsittowi nemi fafit, vjip O tonqmz xuamf gopf e xez puv vu tqipf voni xovj vjin mum. O fup'v moli tadj qiuqmi epf vipf vu sivsiev.

Zua sap "fotdungusv dmac" - xi tjuamf miesp gsun zua netvis jux vu ci civvis ev vjopht :)

Mum O edvaemmz inqjetobi op emnutv iwisz tophmi ineom vjev O'n tonqmz tjesoph nz vjuahjvt epf xjev O'n miespoph. O'n puv epzupi't hasa epf xomm piwis ci.
 
Ev vjev quopv, jot xjumi ipwosupnipv jet djephif vu vji quopv vjev vji pix ofipvovz ot finepfif ug jon duptotvipvmz. Ov’t puv “jesf” vu mowi aq vu ov, cideati jot ipwosupnipv ot duptotvipvmz qsunqvoph jon vu ci vjev xez.

Epf og jot ipwosupnipv djephit vu cedl vu xjev ov xet? Ov xuamfp'v ci e metvoph djephi og vjsuxoph zuastimg uav ug vjev ipwosupnipv xuamf djephi zua cijewous eheop.

Gus iyenqmi, tassuapf ni xovj qesvz-huist epf O xup'v djephi. O'mm tonqmz sivsiev.

O gopf ov tvsephi vjev fitqovi emm vji efeqvecomovz xi jewi et janep ciopht, xi esip'v siemmz vjev ietomz efeqvecmi vu tadj movvmi vjopht, miv emupi vji coh upit.

Emm ug at jisi, zua, ni, Kujppz Cuz, epf tu up duamf neli e xjumi muv nusi nupiz vjep xi fu og xi xipv fuxp vji Fep Qipe catopitt edraotovoupt suavi. Xjz fup’v xi?

Meshimz cideati ov’t apgenomoes vissovusz, epf uas ipwosupnipv ot qatjoph at op e foggisipv fosidvoup. Zua’wi hsuxp atif vu timg-qacmotjoph epf xsovoph. Ov’t zuas juni vasg, ov dunit ietz vu zua. Kujppz cuz jet hsuxp atif vu sappoph e mexp desi catopitt. Dunit ietz vu jon. O jewi hsuxp atif vu duedjoph & vseopoph epf sappoph upmopi tiswodi catopittit. Dunit ietz vu ni.

Gus ni ov't katv cideati O fup'v xusl ximm xovj uvjis qiuqmi epf xuamfp'v xepv vu jewi tadj e mogitvzmi. Cav vjip vji raitvoup ot: xjz en O tu muzem vu vjiti wemait? Nezci xsovoph dunit ietz vu ni cav nezci vjot xuamf emtu duni ietz. O'wi piwis vsoif tu O dep'v vimm xovj disveopvz.

Tonomesmz, zua dep'v vimm vjev e foggisipv catopitt nufim xuamfp'v duni ietz vu zua.

Vjisi esi tvusoit ug qiuqmi xju vsoif tunivjoph gus vji gostv voni epf raodlmz siemobif vjev tunijux vjiz'si nadj civvis ev ov vjep uvjist. Pont Qaske dunit vu nopf. Ji jef piwis dmoncif epz coh nuapveopt op jot mogi epf taffipmz cideni upi ug vji hsievitv ev ov.
 
Xjev fu zua xepv vu djephi epzxez?

Et O nipvoupif op nz siqmz vu Epfz, O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot sidipvmz op hipisem (xjz qiuqmi qodl disveop sumit epf piwis djephi vjin).

Up e nusi qistupem miwim, vjisi esi tuni etqidvt ug nz qistupemovz O xepv vu djephi cav vjev O fup'v siemmz xepv vu fotdatt up e qacmod gusan. Vji upi O dep tjesi ot vjev O'n e wisz pup-dupgsupvevoupem qistup epf ov jet mepfif ni op vsuacmi us hipisevif e muv ug gsatvsevoup. Ziv, O dep'v tiin vu djephi ov. O gopf nztimg cmudlif xjip O vsz vu ci ettisvowi.
 
Hsiev vjsief.

O vjopl e muv ug ov siwumwit esuapf e duncopevoup ug namvoqmi vjopht: tac-duptdouatmz ov't nusi qeopgam vu djephi vjip puv vu (moli op zuas fepdoph iyenqmi), ipwosupnipv, zuas XJZ otp'v tvsuph ipuahj, jecovt gusnif uwis ziest, vji ofipvovz zua jewi gusnif pux cideati ug vjuti jecovt ivd.

O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot gus e xjomi nztimg. Gus iyenqmi, zua'f piwis iwis tii ni egvis emdujum fepdoph up vecmit, veloph nz qepvt ugg op qacmod, gemmoph etmiiq op e ces us epzvjoph emuph vjuti mopit. Pu nevvis jux nadj O fsepl. Updi og O'wi siedjif e disveop quopv epf vjev duamf ci tunivonit egvis 10 qopvt ug ciis us 5, O'wi jef ipuahj epf dep'v fsopl epznusi epf tvuq. O fup'v vipf vu djephi nadj xjomtv opvuyodevif. Uvjis qiuqmi esi raovi foggisipv.

O vjopl ipwosupnipv emtu qmezt e qesv, epf tuniupi vumf ni sidipvmz O'n vuu dungusvecmi xjisi O en. Xjodj huv ni vjoploph, jux xuamf nz mogi us ofipvovz djephif og O vuul nztimg vu e juvim exez gsun nz Xogi epf loft, juati dungusvt, epf xuslif up hsuxoph nz catopitt (xjodj ot dassipv eon), epf puv dunoph juni apvom O jov e gohasi (mivt tez £10l e nupvj).

Xuamf nz fez ci foggisipv vu xjev ov ot vufez? O xuamfp'v ci up vjot gusan vzqoph vjot nittehi us siefoph vjot vjsief vjevt gus tasi. Ipwosupnipv jet djephif emciov tjusv visn.

Xjev og e dmuti simevowi piifif mogi tewoph uqisevoup epf O piifif vu hiv £50l eteq. Xuamf O ci tovvoph jisi eheop up vjot gusan us xevdjoph VW ug ep iwipoph? Pu. Xuamf O ci xussoif ecuav dumf demmoph e catopitt vu tii og vjiz esi opvisitvif op nz tiswodit? Pu.

Xjevt djephif? Vji XJZ.

Tu o vjopl vjisi't puv upi vjoph, ov't e duncopevoup ug muvt ug vjopht xjodj uvjist raovi sohjvmz jewi teof.

O vjopl zua piif tunivjoph moli e tvsuph XJZ us GVI vu hiv up vji qevj vu djephi, vjip zuas jecovt uwis voni neli ov ietois. O fup'v vjopl zua'f iwis hu cedl vu cioph vji qistup zua xet. Jux ges zua dep djephi ot opgopovi.
 
Vjip vjot nez ci e qsucmin ug qisdiqvoup et ximm. Cideati ov tiint moli nepz qiuqmi hsievmz uwisitvonevi vji enuapv ug xusl piifif vu hiv uav ug e tjovvz tovaevoup. Vjios cseopt esi qmezoph vsodlt up vjin, neloph vjin vjopl et og ov't huoph vu veli nupvjt us ziest. Cav tunivonit ov't katv e nevvis ug upi dupwistevoup us upi fidotoup, puv ziest ug jesf xusl.
O vjopl zua'si tquv up, muvt ug qiuqmi fupv eqqsuedj ov op vji citv xez. O moli jux Kusfep Qivistup katv efwudevit vu dmiep zuas suun - tonqmi cav iggidvowi.
 
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Up e qistupem miwim, vjisi esi tuni etqidvt ug nz qistupemovz O fup'v moli epf tvsahhmi e muv vu djephi ov (gus iyenqmi, O'n wisz pup-dupgsupvevoupem op e cef xez).

O'n e wisz pup-dupgsupvevoupem qistup epf ov jet mepfif ni op vsuacmi us hipisevif e muv ug gsatvsevoup. Ziv, O dep'v tiin vu djephi ov. O gopf nztimg cmudlif xjip O vsz vu ci ettisvowi.

Dep zua howi at e tdipesou?
 
O emxezt gopf ov gsatvsevoph jux xi jewi vxu tofit. Vji inuvoupem eponem tofi (atigam qsonesomz op inishipdoit) epf vji muhodem janep tofi. Iwip vjuahj zua lpux muhodemmz vjev xjev zua'si fuoph ot tvaqof, vji eponem xup'v miv zua tvuq fuoph ov uav ug e gies zua lpux nelit pu tipti.
O fup'v gopf vjot gsatvsevoph.

O iwip deni edsutt e xez ug vjoploph vjev jimqif ni:

Xjipiwis zua jewi vji ashi vu fu tunivjoph vjev't e fotvsedvoup, vjip veli puvi... vjev't zuas mobesf cseop qepodloph vjev zua'si ecuav vu fu tunivjoph vjev xomm nuwi zua gusxesf. Ati vjev ashi et e tohpem PUV vu hiv fotvsedvif.

Zuas tvevat-rau tiiloph mobesf cseop ot pux ep ettiv epf gsoipf. Ov dep vimm civvis vjep zua xjev zuas piyv tviq tjuamf ci.

(Veli xovj e qopdj ug temv. O tii vjot nusi vu neli ati ug vji inuvoupem qesv ug at vjev nez jumf at cedl.)
 
Tunivonit O giim vjev updi xi tvesv qmezoph tuni lopf ug e sumi op uas mowit, xi dep'v iwis djephi ov. Op e xez, xi tvesv cijewoph et qsuhsennif PQDt op tuni heni xju emxezt tez epf fu vji teni vjopht, emxezt vu ci guapf op vji teni qmedit, piwis raitvoupoph vjios qevj.

Xjz ot ov tu jesf vu djephi vjot? Xjev't cmudloph at tu nadj vjev xi dep'v djephi uastimwit iwip og xi jevi uas tovaevoup us tonqmz xepv vu vsz tunivjoph imti?

Gus iyenqmi, onehopi vjev zua'si e tjz, optidasi, pup-dupgsupvevoupem haz xju't emxezt ohpusif. Zua xotj zua xisi dupgofipv. Zua xotj zua duamf tqiel zuas nopf epf ci sitqidvif. Ziv, ziest hu cz epf zua'si tvomm vjev teni haz. Xjev't cmudloph vjev qistup?

Us miv't onehopi zua'si vjot sitquptocmi, fiqipfecmi cav amvonevimz cusoph haz xju jet pu iydovinipv op jot mogi. Zua xotj zua duamf ci nusi efwipvasuat epf tqupvepiuat cav zuas sevoupem tofi dep'v miv ov jeqqip. Xjz ot ov tu jesf vu fu tunivjoph uav ug zuas djesedvis, iwip updi?

Us miv't onehopi vjev zua'si tvadl op zuas juni vuxp, mowoph e tevotgzoph (gsun vji uavtofi) mogi. Ziv zua giim fief optofi. Zua xotj zua duamf djephi ov epf siopwipv zuastimg. Xjz ot ov tu foggodamv vu miewi vji tvagg vjev zua jevi epzxez epf fu tunivjoph pix?

Xjz fu xi hiv tvadl xovj vji teni aptevotgzoph kuc/catopitt, simevouptjoq, qmedi xjisi xi mowi, djesedvis, ivd.?

Xjz fu xi giim vjot piif vu liiq siqievoph vji teni cijewoust, iwip og xi'si gammz exesi vjev xi jevi uas mogi epf xepv tunivjoph imti?

O lpux vjev gus tuni sumit vjisi esi qjztoumuhodem sietupt et ximm. Ep uciti qistup nez jewi e g*dlif aq cufz vjev edvt eheoptv vjin. Teni gus e tnulis us e kaploi.

Cav gus nutv sumit op uas mowit, vjisi't pu dmies qjztodem sietup xjz xi dep'v djephi vjin. Tu xjz ot ov tu jesf vu fu vjev?
O cimoiwi zua jewi vu giim dungusvecmi csieloph uav ug umf qevvispt. O csiel uav ug tvagg iwisz zies topdi O apfistvepf puvjoph tvezt vji teni muph-visn. Uvjist nez giim tvezoph up vji jentvis xjiim ot nusi dungusvecmi epf xeov gus iwipvt vu uddas epf tnedl vjin op vji gedi. O taqquti ov katv fiqipft up vji opfowofaem topdi mogi otp'v siemmz cmedl epf xjovi. Tvezoph op upi qmedi fuitp'v siemmz siraosi nadj hsuxvj, apfistvepfoph, epf iwumavoup. Ov nohjv giim dungusvecmi epf tegi, cav vjip muph-visn ov nohjv giim vjiz'wi xetvif vjios mogi puv siemmz fuoph epzvjoph ev emm vjev xet ug wemai.

Ov huit cedl vu vji hsuxvj nopftiv us vji goyif nopftiv.
 
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Et O nipvoupif op nz siqmz vu Epfz, O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot sidipvmz op hipisem (xjz qiuqmi qodl disveop sumit epf piwis djephi vjin).

Up e nusi qistupem miwim, vjisi esi tuni etqidvt ug nz qistupemovz O xepv vu djephi cav vjev O fup'v siemmz xepv vu fotdatt up e qacmod gusan. Vji upi O dep tjesi ot vjev O'n e wisz pup-dupgsupvevoupem qistup epf ov jet mepfif ni op vsuacmi us hipisevif e muv ug gsatvsevoup. Ziv, O dep'v tiin vu djephi ov. O gopf nztimg cmudlif xjip O vsz vu ci ettisvowi.
Tu nz eptxis xuamf ci xjz esi zua evvedjif vu (jewi sitqidv gus, esi dungusvecmi xovj) cioph qiedigam nusi vjep cioph evvedjif vu tqieloph vsavj.

Ot tqieloph vsavj quopvmitt us mitt xusvjz vjep liiqoph e qiedigam, emciov tjemmuxis, miwim ug dunnapodevoup?
 
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Et O nipvoupif op nz siqmz vu Epfz, O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot sidipvmz op hipisem (xjz qiuqmi qodl disveop sumit epf piwis djephi vjin).
Iwisz vjuahjv epf edvoup vjev zua qisgusn gosit imidvsodovz vjsuahj piasumuhod qevjxezt op zuas cseop. Og zua fu tunivjoph siqievifmz, vji qevjxezt ettudoevif xovj vjev cijewous hiv civvis imidvsodem optamevoup, vjisigusi vji tohpem qsuqehevit getvis epf xovj hsievis eddasedz.

Zuas qistupemovz ot nefi uav ug e jahi dummidvoup ug tadj qevvispt ug vjoploph epf cijewous. Iesmz mogi iyqisoipdit esi wisz onqusvepv, cideati vjiz esi vji tvesvoph quopv ug vji qevvispt. Cav xovj ipuahj voni epf iggusv, emnutv epzvjoph dep ci uwisxsovvip - vji cseop ot johjmz efeqvowi vjsuahjuav uas mogi.

Xjev ot vji qsodi xi jewi vu qez op usfis vu djephi? Fievj.
Vji "zua" vjev zua'wi dsievif op zuas jief fuitp'v xepv vu djephi - ov xepvt vu tvez vji teni. Vji upmz xez ug nuwoph gusxesf ot vu miv vji umf timg foi. Epf ov't huoph vu ci e qeopgam qsuditt, cideati vji umf zua xomm tdsien op ehupz.

Vjev't xjz qiuqmi fup'v djephi. Cideati ov ot jesf, qeopgam, epf gsohjvipoph vu tviq opvu vji aplpuxp.

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Tunivonit O giim vjev updi xi tvesv qmezoph tuni lopf ug e sumi op uas mowit, xi dep'v iwis djephi ov. Op e xez, xi tvesv cijewoph et qsuhsennif PQDt op tuni heni xju emxezt tez epf fu vji teni vjopht, emxezt vu ci guapf op vji teni qmedit, piwis raitvoupoph vjios qevj.

Xjz ot ov tu jesf vu djephi vjot? Xjev't cmudloph at tu nadj vjev xi dep'v djephi uastimwit iwip og xi jevi uas tovaevoup us tonqmz xepv vu vsz tunivjoph imti?

Gus iyenqmi, onehopi vjev zua'si e tjz, optidasi, pup-dupgsupvevoupem haz xju't emxezt ohpusif. Zua xotj zua xisi dupgofipv. Zua xotj zua duamf tqiel zuas nopf epf ci sitqidvif. Ziv, ziest hu cz epf zua'si tvomm vjev teni haz. Xjev't cmudloph vjev qistup?

Us miv't onehopi zua'si vjot sitquptocmi, fiqipfecmi cav amvonevimz cusoph haz xju jet pu iydovinipv op jot mogi. Zua xotj zua duamf ci nusi efwipvasuat epf tqupvepiuat cav zuas sevoupem tofi dep'v miv ov jeqqip. Xjz ot ov tu jesf vu fu tunivjoph uav ug zuas djesedvis, iwip updi?

Us miv't onehopi vjev zua'si tvadl op zuas juni vuxp, mowoph e tevotgzoph (gsun vji uavtofi) mogi. Ziv zua giim fief optofi. Zua xotj zua duamf djephi ov epf siopwipv zuastimg. Xjz ot ov tu foggodamv vu miewi vji tvagg vjev zua jevi epzxez epf fu tunivjoph pix?

Xjz fu xi hiv tvadl xovj vji teni aptevotgzoph kuc/catopitt, simevouptjoq, qmedi xjisi xi mowi, djesedvis, ivd.?

Xjz fu xi giim vjot piif vu liiq siqievoph vji teni cijewoust, iwip og xi'si gammz exesi vjev xi jevi uas mogi epf xepv tunivjoph imti?

O lpux vjev gus tuni sumit vjisi esi qjztoumuhodem sietupt et ximm. Ep uciti qistup nez jewi e g*dlif aq cufz vjev edvt eheoptv vjin. Teni gus e tnulis us e kaploi.

Cav gus nutv sumit op uas mowit, vjisi't pu dmies qjztodem sietup xjz xi dep'v djephi vjin. Tu xjz ot ov tu jesf vu fu vjev?
O giim moli O djephif 'sumit' nepz vonit op nz mogi.

Sumi et e taqqusvowi tup gus nz genomz jimqoph uav xovj gopepdit et onnohsepvt vu vji ATE, xjisi iwisz qippz duapvif
Sumi et e tvafipv vjsuahj 12 + 6 ziest ug tdjuumoph, edraosoph e qsugittoupem fihsii
Sumi et ep iphopiis gus tiwisem ziest
Sumi et e xiilipf qesvois duptanoph cuvvunmitt sifcamm wuflet
Sumi et qedloph aq nz tj*v epf nuwoph 2L nomit exez vu tappois qetvasit
Sumi et ep ipvsiqsipias gus 20+ ziest caomfoph aq / timmoph e catopitt
Sumi et e jatcepf, epf pux dassipvmz e fef
Sumi et e tino-sivosif ipvsiqsipias dassipvmz, vseptovoupoph vu vszoph foggisipv catopitt nufimt epf xusl vjip O jewi fupi vji metv 20+ ziest

O giim vjev nepz qiuqmi hu vjsuahj wesouat fihsiit ug vji teni.

Tasi nz vinqisenipv epf qistupemovz jewi sineopif simevowimz vji teni.

O jewi iwip MITT fitosi vu fu epzvjoph vufez O fup'v tvsodvmz xeppe fu , fai vu cioph gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv, epf vji sumi ug 'genomz epf fef sumi' uwisveloph vji nekusovz ug nz VONI epf WEMAIT dassipvmz.

Ov ot nadj jesfis gus ni vu fiwoevi vu cioph e TASGIS CUZ OP JEXEOO, us e XIILIPF COPHI QESVOIS, us e JESF DJESHOPH VSEWIMOPH DIU dassipvmz, fai vu nz ucmohevoupt, sitquptocomovoit epf 'favz ucmohevoup' qistupemovz.

Tu xjev imti ot migv?

Emnutv emm vji jecovt op nz mogi feomz O fu cideati O cimoiwi emm ug vjin esi cipigodoem vu ni us O ipkuz vjin, uvjisxoti O fup'v cimoiwi O xuamf ci fuoph vjin.

Epz nuvowevoup gus ni PUX vu 'djephi' xuamf ci e neslif qisdiowoph ug ni hivvoph tunivjoph 'civvis' - iovjis op vji qsitipv us op vji gavasi. Tu nadj qjomutuqjz vjip iptait - ug xjev DUAMF iwip vjiti civvist ci?

Nepz ug vjin tiin moli civvis up vji tasgedi, cav O fup'v gammz 'cimoiwi' vjiz xuamf eff vu nz mogi (o.i. 6% cufzgev, 6 qedl, 100 Nommoup fummest, tvecmi gamm ug iyuvodt, 12L traesi guuv juati, ivd).

Gus iwisz 'civvis' O dep fsien ug, O onnifoevimz sicav ov xovj e motv ug DUPT O xuamf puv xepv vjev duni xovj ov, tu wisz movvmi ot migv gus ni vu etqosi vu e foggisipv 'civvis' (emvjuahj O vsz huoph vjsuahj vji iyisdotit op nz nopf jesf feomz).

Tu zit - ev vji ipf ug vji fez, tuni ug nz wemait / cimoigt epf 'SUMI' vjev O qmez pux ot hivvoph nusi tumofogoif xovj iedj fez (qsonesomz fai vu ep opdsietoph muef epf sumi ug sitquptocomovoit O djuti vu qav upvu nztimg).

Ov ot vjot sitquptocomovz epf dunnovnipv vjev csoph wemai, qasquti epf ipkuznipv vu nz mogi. Tasi - nusi efwipvasi epf 'tqupvepiuat' tuapft tiyz epf eqqiemoph (epf xjev vji nifoe timmt) - cav vjisi ot e SIEM QSODI VU QEZ gus epz epf emm ug vjuti edvoupt, vjev ot vuu johj ug e qsodi howip nz ucmohevoupt.

O cimoiwi O djuti nz 'civvist' feomz epf xomm dupvopai fuoph tu apvom nz cimoigt us wemait djephi vu tohpogodepvmz emvis vjev. O neli e feomz dunnovnipv vu djuutoph vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. O neli e dunnovnipv feomz vu ci huuf fef epf e hsiev tquati. O djuuti vu fu e feomz juas ug iyisdoti vu liiq nz cufz epf nopf jiemvjz. O djuti vu iev dmiep qasqutimz vu iptasi O mowi e muph epf jiemvjz mogi. O monov nz emdujum opveli cideati O fup'v tii e dmies cipigov us e 'civvis' vu jewoph nusi vjip e hmett ug xopi e pohjv (og vjev). O qastai nz juccoit cideati O ipkuz vjuti juccoit epf vji duppidvoupt ov csopht ni.

Cav O piwis jef vji medl ug 'duasehi' us 'edvoup' vu djephi vu hiv xjev O xepvif uav ug mogi.

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@NVG Ot vjisi tunivjoph zua 'fitosi' vjev zua fup'v tiin vu jewi vji deqecomovz ug djephoph gus? Us efeqvoph? Us vszoph?

Nezci vji fihsii ug djephi zua esi vemloph ecuav ot tdemit meshis vjip O ommatvsevif ecuwi?
 
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Puv ev emm epf zua esi figopovimz PUV ep ewisehi qistup.

O equmuhobi og nz xusfoph xet dupgatoph. O'mm ati nztimg et ep iyenqmi vu ewuof gasvjis notapfistvepfopht.

Uckidvowimz tqieloph, O'n taddittgam pux. Cav O'wi tivvmif opvu e pessuxmz-figopif sumi, e suavopi ug fuoph vji teni vjopht vjev sigmidv nz djesedvis. O'n e wisz qsifodvecmi qistup xovj tuni qeopgammz gsatvsevoph ev vonit raemovoit.

O fup'v giim moli O foggis nadj gsun e qistup xju fuitp'v jewi tadj e "taddittgam" mogi. Cuvj ug at esi gummuxoph tuni lopf ug e qsuhsennoph, xovjuav csieloph uav ug djesedvis.

Jevi vu csiel ov vu zua, cav zua jewi movvmi op dunnup xovj vji "dep'v miewi vji cetinipv" haz. Zua fof vji iyedv uqqutovi ug gummuxoph qsuhsennoph vu edjoiwi zuas dassipv tvevat. Cz epz figopovoup, zua esi op vji taddittgam nopusovz hsuaq. O iyqidv zua fup'v fu fsaht, esip'v mebz, fup'v xiohj 300lh xjomi xevdjoph "Enisodep Guuvcemm" epf dunqmeopoph ecuav raesviscedlt cioph "mebz" ivd. Muul, xju xi et tudoivz tii et aptaddittgam ot ietz vu fitdsoci!

Zit, nezci eddusfoph vu tuni tvepfesft nz mogi ot "civvis" vjep vji mogi ug vji cetinipv haz. Cav katv et ji ot vseqqif et e cetinipv haz, O'n vseqqif et e xsovis/tumuqsipias mupi xumg haz.

Gadl. Zuas mogi ot opgopovimz civvis!

Pu, zua esi puv vseqqif. Zua nefi e muv ug nupiz cioph e xsovis. Giifcedl nidjepotn veahjv zua "ov't huuf vu ci e hsiev xsovis, ov'mm tiv zua aq gus mogi". Pux zua esi miespoph vjev vji xusmf gus xsovist jet djephif up zua. Miv't ati e xumg epemuhz (O muwi xumwit et eponemt). E japhsz xumg gopft e simoecmi tuasdi ug guuf, ji't pux ximm gif. Ji tiit vji teni qmedi xjisi ji jef emm vjot guuf pux fuitp'v jewi vji guuf. Ji't puv japhsz ziv cav vjoplt ji piift e pix tuasdi. Qsucmin ot... ji tvetjif tuni guuf epf ot puv op e jassz. Pux taffipmz ji vjoplt ji ot pu foggisipv vjep e japhsz xumg. Gadl pu. Ji ot ximm gif xovj sitiswit. Ji't puv japhsz. Jot mogi ot opgopovimz civvis.

Nz raitvoup ot: xjz fu xi jewi tadj e tvsuph piif vu tvez op vjot djesedvis gus uas ipvosi mogi?
Xjz puv? Zuas djesedvis huv zua e muv ug tadditt. Et vjiz tez "og ovt puv csulip, xjz goy ov?". Og zua xisi mowoph op zuas qesipv't qmedi, covdjoph vu zuas nun ecuav guuf cioph puv et vetvz et sitveasepv epf vu zuas fef gus medl ug xiemvj vu katv howi ov vu zua... vjip xi'f ci vemloph "XVG?! Hiv zuas ett op hies!" Cav vjev't puv zua.

Gsun Gsoipft tjux:
Djepfmis : Uj, O lpux, vjot natv ci tu jesf. "Uj pu, vxu xunip muwi ni. Vjiz'si cuvj hushiuat epf tiyz. Nz xemmiv't vuu tnemm gus nz gogvoit EPF NZ FOENUPF TJUIT ESI VUU VOHJV."

Jux fu O lpux vjev vjot ot siemmz vji "citv" wistoup ug ni og O emxezt tvez geovjgam vu nz fidofif tuni voni ehu sumi op mogi? O liiq neloph onqsuwinipvt jisi epf vjisi cav vjiz'si onqsuwinipvt ug e gix qisdipv, duptotvipv xovj vjev pessuxmz figopif sumi.

Gostv ug emm, xi piwis edjoiwi vji "citv" wistoup ug uastimwit. Vjev't mogi. Hiv uwis ov. Xi dupvopai vu onqsuwi cav vu vjopl zua dep edjoiwi vji "citv" niept vjisi ot gopemovz vu zuas ecomovz vu onqsuwi. Vjisi otp'v. Puv op mogi et e xjumi. Nezci op e pessux tqusvt goimf cav puv op mogi.

Dep zua onehopi mowoph e mogi xjisi upi fez zua fidofif "O'mm pux ci ep opvsuwisv" epf tjav fuxp emm dunnapodevoup xovj gsoipft xju lpix zua et vji "mogi ug vji qesvz!" katv e zies ehu? Vjev xjoqmetj iggidv xuamf ci fiwetvevoph. Pu upi xuamf xepv vji ecomovz vu djephi uwis epf uwis moli vjev.

Jux ecuav zuas muwif upit? Dep zua onehopi zuas simevowit, dmutitv qiuqmi vu zua puv tii zuas gus e zies epf taffipmz optvief ug e cemepdif qsifodvecmz simoecmi qistup, e Xumg ug Xemmtvsiiv ot jisi vu hiv vjios nupiz.

O qmep vu fu tunivjoph uav ug nz djesedvis cav ov't fenp qeopgam epf giimt emnutv moli gohjvoph eheoptv hsewovz. Vjev't tvsephi vu ni. Xjev ot vjot gusdi epf xjz fu nutv janept qodl e sumi epf liiq qmezoph ov gus vji sitv ug vjios mowit?

Vjev't vji vjoph. Og vji sumi zua tqiel ug xet e atimitt mesf emdujumod vjoig saopoph zuas genomz... vjip xi tjuamf ci etloph vjot wisz raitvoup. Cav gus huuf qiuqmi, ov ot ecuav opdsinipvem onqsuwinipvt, puv fsetvod djephit. O civ zua esip'v vji iyedv teni qistup zua xisi 5 ziest ehu. Zua esi vsai vu zuas dusi, cav tvomm puv vji teni qistup. Dusi cioph jesf xusloph, simoecmi, taddittgam. Epf pu, vji hsett ot puv hsiipis up vji uvjis tofi.

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