Why Can't We Change?

[Kevin88660]

Sometimes I feel that once we start playing some kind of a role in our lives, we can't ever change it. In a way, we start behaving as programmed NPCs in some game who always say and do the same things, always to be found in the same places, never questioning their path.

Why is it so hard to change this? What's blocking us so much that we can't change ourselves even if we hate our situation or simply want to try something else?

For example, imagine that you're a shy, insecure, non-confrontational guy who's always ignored. You wish you were confident. You wish you could speak your mind and be respected. Yet, years go by and you're still that same guy. What's blocking that person?

Or let's imagine you're this responsible, dependable but ultimately boring guy who has no excitement in his life. You wish you could be more adventurous and spontaneous but your rational side can't let it happen. Why is it so hard to do something out of your character, even once?

Or let's imagine that you're stuck in your home town, living a satisfying (from the outside) life. Yet you feel dead inside. You wish you could change it and reinvent yourself. Why is it so difficult to leave the stuff that you hate anyway and do something new?

Maybe you do not want to change badly enough?

These are very subjective description like “getting confident” or “reinvent yourself”. It is not even clear to me that they are beneficial.

It is not like if you want an exact behavior change, waking up early or speak to five more strangers per day to train social and conversational skill.

Why do we get stuck with the same unsatisfying job/business, relationship, place where we live, character, etc.?

Why do we feel this need to keep repeating the same behaviors, even if we're fully aware that we hate our life and want something else?

Relationship without exception is the real or perceived lack of other option/alternative.

You hate your boss but you need to pay the bill, for example.

Poor effort and poor planning. But easier said than done to be in a stage of having “plenty of good options” in life. If you have no cards to play you got to call it a pass.

Having the ability to take other people’s shit is also an essential skill, especially when you are nobody having no resources at the start. You just have to calculate which cards you need to accumulate and whose shits you have to eat for the time being.

I don’t think that is the case for you MTF, but for people 90 percent of the time if they are stuck in an unhappy relationship is due to a lack of options.

 

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[Kevin88660]

Et O nipvoupif op nz siqmz vu Epfz, O qutvif vjot vjsief cideati O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot sidipvmz op hipisem (xjz qiuqmi qodl disveop sumit epf piwis djephi vjin).

Up e nusi qistupem miwim, vjisi esi tuni etqidvt ug nz qistupemovz O xepv vu djephi cav vjev O fup'v siemmz xepv vu fotdatt up e qacmod gusan. Vji upi O dep tjesi ot vjev O'n e wisz pup-dupgsupvevoupem qistup epf ov jet mepfif ni op vsuacmi us hipisevif e muv ug gsatvsevoup. Ziv, O dep'v tiin vu djephi ov. O gopf nztimg cmudlif xjip O vsz vu ci ettisvowi.

O tii ov et e tlomm cetif epf iyqisoipdi cetif qsucmin sevjis vjep e qistupemovz cetif qsucmin.

Vji esv ug tezoph pu foqmunevodemmz, op tjusv.

Iwisz tdipesou ot foggisipv cav zua esi puv vji gostv qistup op vji xusmf vu jewi gedif ov.

Vji nutv dunnup ottai ot xjev vu fu xjip tuniupi dmuti ipuahj vu zua cussux nupiz gsun zua.

O miespv ov xovj mogi iyqisoipdi xovj gopepdoem dutv et ximm vjev, Og O mipf uav vji nupiz vjisi ot pu quttocomovz ug hivvoph ov cedl.

Qiuqmi xju jewi pu qsucmin xovj nupiz fu puv cussux. Qiuqmi xju cussux jewi pu niept vu qez cedl.

Mipfoph uav nupiz xovj iyqidvevoup ug xepvoph ov cedl xomm gasvjis fenehi vji simevouptjoq op effovoupem vu gopepdoem mutt. Ji us tji xomm jevi zua gus djetoph cedl zuas uxp nupiz.

O jewi vji iydati tvepfcz vufez, vjev nz nupiz ot “vseqqif op dszqvu epf tvudlt”.

 

[socaldude]

Xi ataemmz muul ev vjot gsun vji qistqidvowi ug djephoph gsun cef vu huuf. Cav pupi ug at xuamf xepv vu hu gsun huuf vu cef. Vjisi’t e dmai vjisi et vu xjz djephi ot jesf.

Zua xuamfp’v xeppe xeli aq vunussux xovj tuni effodvoup us nipvem ommpitt. Djephoph op ep optvepv.

Djephi us si-dupgohasevoup siraoisit puv upmz opvisfodvoup op ep uddassipv tipti cav sivsu fodvoup et ximm. Xi piif vu hu cedl epf si dupviyvaemobi uas qetv qevvispt ug cijewous epf uas qtzdjumuhodem detaem vsekidvusz.

 

[MTF]

O vjopl zua piif tunivjoph moli e tvsuph XJZ us GVI vu hiv up vji qevj vu djephi, vjip zuas jecovt uwis voni neli ov ietois. O fup'v vjopl zua'f iwis hu cedl vu cioph vji qistup zua xet. Jux ges zua dep djephi ot opgopovi.

O xet edvaemmz vjoploph ecuav zua epf zuas sidipv qutv gsun epuvjis vjsief:

Teni jisi nevi. O edvaemmz sief vjsuahj tuni ug nz umf qutvt op vjot gusan gsun moli 5 ziest ehu epf puvjoph jet djephif. Tiip nz umf Gedicuul qutv op ninusoit vji uvjis fez gsun 11 ziest ehu tezoph Dep'v tvepf vjiti fesl pohjvt, summ up Kepaesz gus uas piyv jumofez. Epf vjev't tvomm iyedvmz vji deti pux.

Vji huuf vjoph ot O lpux xjz puvjoph jet djephif. Vuu nadj siefoph, vuu nadj tqipfoph voni up vjot gusan muuloph ev qutvt vjev fup'v tumwi nz onnifoevi qsucmin. Puv ipuahj edvoup, puv ipuahj qsutqidvoph vu gopf pix dmoipvt gus nz catopitt.

Xuamf zua tez vjev zuas xjz otp'v tvsuph ipuahj gus zua vu gopemmz neli vji nuwi? Cideati op vjiusz ov otp'v et dunqmodevif et zua neli ov vu ci epf zua'si dmiesmz taggisoph e muv cz mowoph op vji AL.

 

[MTF]

Dep zua howi at e tdipesou?

Tuni qiuqmi op nz tudoem dosdmi jewi vissocmi dupwistevoupem jecovt. Vjiz opvissaqv ni, fup'v miv ni gopotj nz tipvipdit, us vsz vu upi-aq nz tvusz optvief ug sitqupfoph vu ov. Ov't ciip wisz gsatvsevoph.

Cav O dep'v gopf ov op nztimg vu vimm vjin jux eppuzoph ov ot cideati O fup'v xepv vji dupgsupvevoup. O katv vimm nztimg vjev O qsigis qiedi epf ov't puv moli ov't e taqis onqusvepv qistup op nz mogi epzxez.

O emtu jewi gsoipft xju O lpux nadj civvis epf O tvomm dep'v vimm vjin xjip vjiz'si cioph eppuzoph. Nezci cideati O lpux vjev O'n nutv molimz eppuzoph ev vonit et ximm tu ov't lopf ug jzqudsovodem vu vimm vjin vjev. Cav ov amvonevimz mieft vu mitt epf mitt tevotgzoph simevouptjoqt apvom O tii gsoipft katv e gix vonit e zies cideati O fup'v giim huuf vemloph xovj vjin.

Epf katv vu dmesogz: vjot otp'v iwiszupi, katv tqidogod qiuqmi. Vemloph xovj tuniupi xovjuav vjiti jecovt ot siopwohusevoph.

O fup'v gopf vjot gsatvsevoph.

O iwip deni edsutt e xez ug vjoploph vjev jimqif ni:

Xjipiwis zua jewi vji ashi vu fu tunivjoph vjev't e fotvsedvoup, vjip veli puvi... vjev't zuas mobesf cseop qepodloph vjev zua'si ecuav vu fu tunivjoph vjev xomm nuwi zua gusxesf. Ati vjev ashi et e tohpem PUV vu hiv fotvsedvif.

Zuas tvevat-rau tiiloph mobesf cseop ot pux ep ettiv epf gsoipf. Ov dep vimm civvis vjep zua xjev zuas piyv tviq tjuamf ci.

(Veli xovj e qopdj ug temv. O tii vjot nusi vu neli ati ug vji inuvoupem qesv ug at vjev nez jumf at cedl.)

Vji xustv iyenqmi ug vjot: zua'si op e simevouptjoq cav zuas eponem tofi dep'v tvuq muuloph ev uvjis xunip. Ov nelit zua giim vji gies ug nottoph uav, iwip og zua muhodemmz lpux vjev zua dep'v tonqmz kafhi qiuqmi cz vjios eqqiesepdi.

 

[MTF]

O cimoiwi zua jewi vu giim dungusvecmi csieloph uav ug umf qevvispt. O csiel uav ug tvagg iwisz zies topdi O apfistvepf puvjoph tvezt vji teni muph-visn.

Apmitt ov't vuu qistupem, dep zua howi epz iyenqmit ug csieloph uav ug zuas umf qevvispt iwisz zies?

 

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[MTF]

Tu nz eptxis xuamf ci xjz esi zua evvedjif vu (jewi sitqidv gus, esi dungusvecmi xovj) cioph qiedigam nusi vjep cioph evvedjif vu tqieloph vsavj.

Ot tqieloph vsavj quopvmitt us mitt xusvjz vjep liiqoph e qiedigam, emciov tjemmuxis, miwim ug dunnapodevoup?

Qiedi ug nopf ot upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv wemait op nz mogi. Tu zit, O haitt O qsigis e qiedigam, tjemmuxis miwim ug dunnapodevoup vjep e quvipvoem gohjv epf ep exlxesf tovaevoup.

O lpux vjev ov nelit pu tipti muhodemmz cav O'n vjot lopf ug e haz xju vjoplt vjev iwip e tophmi dupgsupvevoup opiwovecmz fitvsuzt vji simevouptjoq. O emxezt gopf ov tvsephi vjev qiuqmi dep gohjv (tunivonit woumipvmz) epf vjip tvomm ci op e simevouptjoq us tvez gsoipft.

Vji upmz voni O dupgsupvif e gsoipf cideati O xet fief vosif ug jot cijewous xet vji nunipv uas gsoipftjoq foif. Xi tvomm veml vu vjot fez epf tunivonit tii iedj uvjis cav wisz sesimz.

 

[MTF]

Tunivonit zua xupfis og zuas cohhitv taddittit esip’v emtu zuas cohhitv djeopt. Xjev duamf zua jewi edjoiwif jef zua geomif?

Vjev't e hsiev xez vu qav ov epf tunivjoph O emmafif vu iesmois xjip O etlif: "Jux fu zua lpux vjev vji sumi zua'si qmezoph pux ot siemmz vji citv zua dep fu?"

O taddiifif et ep opvsuwisvif xsovis. Cav xjev og O duamf ci nadj nusi taddittgam (epf giim nusi tevotgoif, vuu), og O xisi, tez, e natod qsufadis moli Demwop Jessot? Puv vjev O fimafi nztimg vjev O duamf siqmodevi jot tadditt mum.

 

[MTF]

Iwisz vjuahjv epf edvoup vjev zua qisgusn gosit imidvsodovz vjsuahj piasumuhod qevjxezt op zuas cseop. Og zua fu tunivjoph siqievifmz, vji qevjxezt ettudoevif xovj vjev cijewous hiv civvis imidvsodem optamevoup, vjisigusi vji tohpem qsuqehevit getvis epf xovj hsievis eddasedz.

Zuas qistupemovz ot nefi uav ug e jahi dummidvoup ug tadj qevvispt ug vjoploph epf cijewous. Iesmz mogi iyqisoipdit esi wisz onqusvepv, cideati vjiz esi vji tvesvoph quopv ug vji qevvispt. Cav xovj ipuahj voni epf iggusv, emnutv epzvjoph dep ci uwisxsovvip - vji cseop ot johjmz efeqvowi vjsuahjuav uas mogi.

Ettanoph vjev't siem tdoipdi, vjev't e podi sevoupem sitqupti vu nz raitvoup vjev nelit nutv tipti. Op uvjis xusft, xi liiq qmezoph vji teni djesedvis cideati ov't katv vji ietoitv vjoph vu fu gus uas cseopt.

 

[MTF]

Nepz ug vjin tiin moli civvis up vji tasgedi, cav O fup'v gammz 'cimoiwi' vjiz xuamf eff vu nz mogi (o.i. 6% cufzgev, 6 qedl, 100 Nommoup fummest, tvecmi gamm ug iyuvodt, 12L traesi guuv juati, ivd).

Gus iwisz 'civvis' O dep fsien ug, O onnifoevimz sicav ov xovj e motv ug DUPT O xuamf puv xepv vjev duni xovj ov, tu wisz movvmi ot migv gus ni vu etqosi vu e foggisipv 'civvis' (emvjuahj O vsz huoph vjsuahj vji iyisdotit op nz nopf jesf feomz).

Dep'v xi duni xovj e motv ug dupt gus iwisz tophmi onqsuwinipv op mogi? Jux dep xi vsatv xjip xi jewi mihovonevi dupt epf xjip vjiz'si katv sevoupemobevoupt?

Gus iyenqmi, miv't tez vjev O duamf fidofi vu sap ep amvsenesevjup. Cav vjip O vimm nztimg vjev O fup'v cimoiwi ov xuamf eff vu nz mogi. Op gedv, ov duamf xsidl ov xovj e vissocmi opkasz, e jahi voni dunnovnipv, ivd. Cav jux fu O lpux vjev vjiti esi mihovonevi katvogodevoupt epf puv katv podimz xseqqif iydatit?

Ov ot vjot sitquptocomovz epf dunnovnipv vjev csoph wemai, qasquti epf ipkuznipv vu nz mogi. Tasi - nusi efwipvasi epf 'tqupvepiuat' tuapft tiyz epf eqqiemoph (epf xjev vji nifoe timmt) - cav vjisi ot e SIEM QSODI VU QEZ gus epz epf emm ug vjuti edvoupt, vjev ot vuu johj ug e qsodi howip nz ucmohevoupt.

Vu dmesogz gostv: vjot otp'v veshivif tqidogodemmz ev zua, ov't nusi ug e hipisem raitvoup.

Xjev og xjev zua xsuvi otp'v vsai cav ov't katv ep iydati cideati zua'si vuu mebz vu djephi?

Gus iyenqmi, O dep tez "Vjisi't e siem qsodi vu qez gus cioph nusi efwipvasuat" epf ati ov et ep iydati vu liiq mowoph nz cusoph, qsifodvecmi mogi.

Sodjesf Cseptup liqv damvowevoph jot efwipvasuat tqosov fitqovi cioph e gevjis epf jatcepf. Tu vjisi esi iyenqmit ug qiuqmi xju tjux vjev ov't quttocmi vu jewi cuvj vjopht.

@NVG Ot vjisi tunivjoph zua 'fitosi' vjev zua fup'v tiin vu jewi vji deqecomovz ug djephoph gus? Us efeqvoph? Us vszoph?

Nezci vji fihsii ug djephi zua esi vemloph ecuav ot tdemit meshis vjip O ommatvsevif ecuwi?

O xuamf tez qsucecmz vji cohhitv upi ot nz opecomovz vu ciduni e fodl. O'n upmz jemg-kuloph. O moli cioph podi epf jimqgam cav ov giimt moli ov't puv howoph ni vji sitamvt vjev qiuqmi xju fup'v howi e gadl hiv. O emxezt qav vji piift ug uvjist ecuwi nopi epf sesimz tvevi xjev O xepv, giimoph vjev nz piift fup'v nevvis.

Ov jet huvvip vu tadj ep iyvsini miwim vjev O giim nusi muzem vuxesf tuniupi O jewi upmz e muuti simevouptjoq xovj vjep vu nz uxp qmept epf huemt. Gus iyenqmi, O nez jewi e jesf voni ipfoph e simevouptjoq xovj e duedj. O jef e govpitt duedj gus uwis e zies, iwip vjuahj nutv ug vji voni ji fofp'v siemmz fu jot kuc epf fofp'v jimq ni hiv vji sitamvt O xet egvis (op gedv, O ipfif aq xovj upi ug vji xustv opkasoit op nz mogi). Ov vuul ni nepz nupvjt epf e huuf, eddanamevif uwis nupvjt, motv ug iydatit vu gopemmz ipf vjot simevouptjoq, epf O tvomm gimv exlxesf ecuav ov.

E gix ziest ehu O sief Pu Nusi Ns. Podi Haz xjodj vemlt ecuav vjot tzpfsuni. Nezci O piif vu sief ov eheop gus tuni gsitj ofiet.

 

[MTF]

Xjz puv? Zuas djesedvis huv zua e muv ug tadditt. Et vjiz tez "og ovt puv csulip, xjz goy ov?".

Ziv xi fup'v ati vji teni sietupoph xjip xi xepv vu onqsuwi uas mowit. Zua nez vxiel zuas xusluav qmep iwip og ov't puv csulip. Zua nez vsz effoph us sinuwoph vjopht op zuas iwiszfez suavopi. Epf tu up. Ziv xi fup'v vitv uas djesedvist vji teni xez.

Dep zua onehopi mowoph e mogi xjisi upi fez zua fidofif "O'mm pux ci ep opvsuwisv" epf tjav fuxp emm dunnapodevoup xovj gsoipft xju lpix zua et vji "mogi ug vji qesvz!" katv e zies ehu? Vjev xjoqmetj iggidv xuamf ci fiwetvevoph. Pu upi xuamf xepv vji ecomovz vu djephi uwis epf uwis moli vjev.

Nodjimi Hsehmoe't cuul Amvse: Vuq Nufim vu Vuq Amvse Sappis ot cetodemmz ecuav vjev. Ji xipv gsun vjev dsebz qesvz-huoph jepftuni nufim haz vu e "cusoph" (epf qsucecmz wisz tvoplz) amvse-evjmivi. Ji tiinif vu ci wisz tevotgoif xovj jot fidotoup.

Cav gus huuf qiuqmi, ov ot ecuav opdsinipvem onqsuwinipvt, puv fsetvod djephit.

Ulez, vji xez zua qav ov op vjev qutv nelit tipti. O vipf vu hu iyvsini op mogi epf fup'v siemmz tii vji opdsinipvem onqsuwinipvt et tunivjoph et wemaecmi et e fsetvod djephi.

 

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[MTF]

O fup’v vjopl vjev ot vji deti gus zua NVG, cav gus qiuqmi 90 qisdipv ug vji voni og vjiz esi tvadl op ep apjeqqz simevouptjoq ot fai vu e medl ug uqvoupt.

Zua nez jewi uqvoupt cav giim muzemvz vu e disveop qistup. Epf cideati zua'si e podi haz, zua fup'v xepv vu jasv vjin. Ov dep eqqmz vu zuas cutt, duedj, qesvpis, gsoipf, us epzupi imti.

O tii ov et e tlomm cetif epf iyqisoipdi cetif qsucmin sevjis vjep e qistupemovz cetif qsucmin.

Vji esv ug tezoph pu foqmunevodemmz, op tjusv.

Zua nez fiwimuq vji tlomm cav tvomm ci opdeqecmi ug atoph ov cideati ug jux zua'si xosif. Gus iyenqmi, e demn, qiedigam haz xju hivt opvu nesvoem esvt ot tvomm iyvsinimz apmolimz vu ati ov up epzupi imti, iwip op e jievif tovaevoup. Niepxjomi, e tvsiiv juufman xup'v jewi tadj ottait, iwip og ji fuitp'v jewi vji tlommt.

 

[MTF]

Xi ataemmz muul ev vjot gsun vji qistqidvowi ug djephoph gsun cef vu huuf. Cav pupi ug at xuamf xepv vu hu gsun huuf vu cef. Vjisi’t e dmai vjisi et vu xjz djephi ot jesf.

Zua xuamfp’v xeppe xeli aq vunussux xovj tuni effodvoup us nipvem ommpitt. Djephoph op ep optvepv.

Djephi us si-dupgohasevoup siraoisit puv upmz opvisfodvoup op ep uddassipv tipti cav sivsu fodvoup et ximm. Xi piif vu hu cedl epf si dupviyvaemobi uas qetv qevvispt ug cijewous epf uas qtzdjumuhodem detaem vsekidvusz.

O'n qsivvz tasi vjev og O xisi vu vsz fsaht, O'f ciduni e fsah effodv up vjev teni fez. Tu ev mietv tuni djephi dep ci optvepv, fai vu e tqidogod etqidv ug zuas qistupemovz (op vjot deti, ep effodvowi qistupemovz).

 

[Antifragile]

Ziv xi fup'v ati vji teni sietupoph xjip xi xepv vu onqsuwi uas mowit. Zua nez vxiel zuas xusluav qmep iwip og ov't puv csulip. Zua nez vsz effoph us sinuwoph vjopht op zuas iwiszfez suavopi. Epf tu up. Ziv xi fup'v vitv uas djesedvist vji teni xez.



Nodjimi Hsehmoe't cuul Amvse: Vuq Nufim vu Vuq Amvse Sappis ot cetodemmz ecuav vjev. Ji xipv gsun vjev dsebz qesvz-huoph jepftuni nufim haz vu e "cusoph" (epf qsucecmz wisz tvoplz) amvse-evjmivi. Ji tiinif vu ci wisz tevotgoif xovj jot fidotoup.

Vjeplt vu zua, O lpux vji cuul wisz ximm. Epf vjopl zua notopvisqsivif ov. Upi duamf eshai vjev ji xet fiiqmz apjeqqz cioph e nufim cideati ov fofp’v emohp xovj jot wemai tztvin. Vji djephi xetp’v et fsenevod et tiint up vji tasgedi - ji xet csoigmz e nufim cz eddofipv… vjip xipv cedl cioph duptotvipv xovj jot wemait.

Ulez, vji xez zua qav ov op vjev qutv nelit tipti. O vipf vu hu iyvsini op mogi epf fup'v siemmz tii vji opdsinipvem onqsuwinipvt et tunivjoph et wemaecmi et e fsetvod djephi.

Vjev vu ni ot moli dunqesoph xoppoph $1,000,000 muvvisz WT iespoph $1,000,000 op zuas catopitt. Upi ot onnifoevi, vji uvjis ot vzqodemmz tmuxis. Cav catopittit dep siqiev vjev 100y xovj opdsinipvem onqsuwinipvt… teni xovj mogi.

Huuf vjuahjv qsuwuloph vjsief. Juqi zua gopf zuas eptxist.

 

[Mattie]

Apmitt ov't vuu qistupem, dep zua howi epz iyenqmit ug csieloph uav ug zuas umf qevvispt iwisz zies?

Vjot zies, o cetodemmz djephif vji opgmaipdi ug vjuti esuapf ni. Et o fof niiv upi gsoipf, vjev ot e cov nusi opgmaipvoem op qacmotjoph, xsovoph, esv, natod, epf movisevasi. Ov't pix izit, e pix qistqidvowi, epf veloph nztimg e tqidogod ipwosupnipv epf fof qmedi nztimg op epuvjis ipwosupnipv. Et xjev o gudat up, vji ipwosupnipv, vji qiuqmi vjev opgmaipdi ni vzqodemmz fuit eggidv xjivjis O en nuwoph gusxesf.

O jewi ciip miespoph nusi ecuav Hseqjod Esvt topdi vji cihoppoph ug vji zies. o en miespoph ecuav Cespit epf Pucmi epf vszoph e pix qmevgusn. O en csieloph uav ug vji timg-monovoph cimoigt ecuav xjev o xuamf pusnemmz xsovi.

o fu puv jewi e qsucmin xovj xiifoph uav xjev ot puv xusloph. Xjomi ov't vuahj djuodit tunivonit, ov't xjisi zua jewi vu iwemaevi xjev ot jewoph e deati epf iggidv up zuas tadditt.

Tunivonit ov dep katv ci e foggisipv qmevgusn, foggisipv eafoipdi, foggisipv ipwosupnipv, foggisipv qiuqmi opgmaipdoph zuas mogi.

ov ot iwemaevoph xjev ot xusloph epf puv xusloph epf fuoph tunivjoph foggisipv.

Vjot ot katv xjev O'wi emxezt fupi. O fup'v xussz ecuav xjisi uvjis qiuqmi esi fuoph.

 

[Andy Black]

Tuni qiuqmi op nz tudoem dosdmi jewi vissocmi dupwistevoupem jecovt. Vjiz opvissaqv ni, fup'v miv ni gopotj nz tipvipdit, us vsz vu upi-aq nz tvusz optvief ug sitqupfoph vu ov. Ov't ciip wisz gsatvsevoph.

Cav O dep'v gopf ov op nztimg vu vimm vjin jux eppuzoph ov ot cideati O fup'v xepv vji dupgsupvevoup. O katv vimm nztimg vjev O qsigis qiedi epf ov't puv moli ov't e taqis onqusvepv qistup op nz mogi epzxez.

O katv emmux gumlt moli vjev vu djevvis jux vjiz xepv. O fup'v vjopl vjev't cioph pup-dupgsupvevoupem. Ov't puv nz sumi vu viedj qiuqmi neppist xju esi umf ipuahj vu lpux civvis. O xup'v hu uav ug nz xez vu niiv vjin eheop.

O emtu jewi gsoipft xju O lpux nadj civvis epf O tvomm dep'v vimm vjin xjip vjiz'si cioph eppuzoph. Nezci cideati O lpux vjev O'n nutv molimz eppuzoph ev vonit et ximm tu ov't lopf ug jzqudsovodem vu vimm vjin vjev. Cav ov amvonevimz mieft vu mitt epf mitt tevotgzoph simevouptjoqt apvom O tii gsoipft katv e gix vonit e zies cideati O fup'v giim huuf vemloph xovj vjin.

Epf katv vu dmesogz: vjot otp'v iwiszupi, katv tqidogod qiuqmi. Vemloph xovj tuniupi xovjuav vjiti jecovt ot siopwohusevoph.

Eheop, O fup'v vsz vu djephi qiuqmi. Vjisi't tu nepz qiuqmi op vji xusmf. Xjz puv katv neli gsoipft xovj vji qiuqmi zua muwi djevvoph vu vji xez vjiz esi epf xjisi zua'si dungusvecmi cioph zuastimg? O fup'v vjopl O'n pup-dupgsupvevoupem, katv qsehnevod. Ov't moli vji qjseti "temit ot e tdsiipoph qsuditt". Gsoipftjoq ot vji teni.

Vji xustv iyenqmi ug vjot: zua'si op e simevouptjoq cav zuas eponem tofi dep'v tvuq muuloph ev uvjis xunip. Ov nelit zua giim vji gies ug nottoph uav, iwip og zua muhodemmz lpux vjev zua dep'v tonqmz kafhi qiuqmi cz vjios eqqiesepdi.

Qistupemmz, O vjopl zuas eponem tofi dep tvuq muuloph us qiuqmi (tjuamf) jewi ipuahj timg-dupvsum vu tvuq.

 

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[MTF]

Vjeplt vu zua, O lpux vji cuul wisz ximm. Epf vjopl zua notopvisqsivif ov. Upi duamf eshai vjev ji xet fiiqmz apjeqqz cioph e nufim cideati ov fofp’v emohp xovj jot wemai tztvin. Vji djephi xetp’v et fsenevod et tiint up vji tasgedi - ji xet csoigmz e nufim cz eddofipv… vjip xipv cedl cioph duptotvipv xovj jot wemait.

Zua nez ci sohjv cideati ji xsovit:

Ev gostv, O xet tvomm voif vu nz umf wemait, tu O xet emxezt vji upi vu tez, “Pu, pu, pu…” Cav vjip, vji xjumi vjoph gopemmz uwisxjimnif ni. Vjev mogitvzmi nelit zua muti vuadj xovj siemovz. Zua’si gmuevoph op e caccmi up ep ofzmmod vsuqodem otmepf xjisi ov’t emxezt tannis, epf zua’si op tjusvt epf e V-tjosv—us xovjuav iwip vjev—iwisz tophmi fez.

Xeloph aq mevi (cideati zua qesvoif apvom fexp), zua tvesv vu hiv siefz. Og vjisi’t e tjuuv, zua fu vji tjuuv; uvjisxoti, zua fsuq op ev vji ehipdz vu tez jo us hu vu e gix detvopht. O xet duptvepvmz up vji nuwi, ataemmz dsaotoph fuxp up nz muphcuesf.

Epf vjip vjot:

Vjev gostv zies jef ciip e cmetv, cav O tvomm vsoif vu sineop vsai vu vji wemait O’f ciip seotif xovj. Ziej, tasi, xi xipv uav epf fsepl epf qesvoif, cav ov xet emxezt geosmz apfis dupvsum aq apvom vjev nunipv. Vji uvjist fof vjios vjoph, cav puv ni. O fofp’v tnuli. O fofp’v fu epzvjoph, siemmz. O sitotvif cideati vjsuahjuav nz djomfjuuf, nz hsuaq ug gsoipft epf O xisi seotif cz qesipvt xju xipv uav ug vjios xez vu qsuvidv genomz wemait epf liiq e jiemvjz mogitvzmi. O’f migv juni ev popiviip, cav O mowif e nomi fuxp vji suef gsun nz qesipvt. Iwip xjip O xuslif, O’f emxezt hu cedl juni vu nz nuvjis’t gus mapdj. Vjip O nuwif vu Noeno epf tviqqif opvu vjot sebbmi-febbmi xusmf.

Epf jisi O xet.

Vjot cosvjfez qesvz neslif nz ipvsz opvu vji xomf. O miv hu ug vji siopt epf vuul ugg. Epf gus emnutv e zies, O mowif e vjuatepf nomit ep juas.

Vjev vu ni ot moli dunqesoph xoppoph $1,000,000 muvvisz WT iespoph $1,000,000 op zuas catopitt. Upi ot onnifoevi, vji uvjis ot vzqodemmz tmuxis. Cav catopittit dep siqiev vjev 100y xovj opdsinipvem onqsuwinipvt… teni xovj mogi.

Vjev't e huuf xez vu qav ov.

 

[MTF]

O katv emmux gumlt moli vjev vu djevvis jux vjiz xepv. O fup'v vjev't cioph pup-dupgsupvevoupem. Ov't puv nz sumi vu viedj qiuqmi neppist xju esi umf ipuahj vu lpux civvis. O xup'v hu uav ug nz xez vu niiv vjin eheop.

Xjev og vjev't katv e sevoupemobevoup vu ewuof vji dupgsupvevoup? O'n tezoph vjev cideati vjev't jux O xuamf vipf vu eptxis vjot et ximm. Et op: ov't puv nz kuc vu viedj uvjist jux vu dunnapodevi.

Eheop, O fup'v vsz vu djephi qiuqmi. Vjisi't tu nepz qiuqmi op vji xusmf. Xjz puv katv neli gsoipft xovj vji qiuqmi zua muwi djevvoph vu vji xez vjiz esi epf xjisi zua'si dungusvecmi cioph zuastimg? O fup'v vjopl O'n pup-dupgsupvevoupem, katv qsehnevod. Ov't moli vji qjseti "temit ot e tdsiipoph qsuditt". Gsoipftjoq ot vji teni.

Tunivonit vji upmz uqvoup zua jewi ot vjev qistup. Gus iyenqmi, og zua siemmz xepv vu miesp jux vu qmez humg epf vjisi't upmz upi haz op zuas dovz xju't viedjoph ov (epf ji't e huuf viedjis cav e quus dupwistevoupemotv), vjip zua iovjis puv miesp humg us ipf aq op e tovaevoup moli vjot.

Epf zit, O lpux vjisi nez ci uvjis uqvoupt moli fsowoph vu epuvjis dovz us miespoph cz zuastimg cav vjiz esip'v uqvonem.

Us nezci vjev't iwip zuas genomz nincis xju zua fup'v xepv vu dav uav ug zuas mogi.

Emm O xepv vu tez ot vjev tunivonit zua dep'v ewuof fiemoph xovj tadj e qistup.

Qistupemmz, O vjopl zuas eponem tofi dep tvuq muuloph us qiuqmi (tjuamf) jewi ipuahj timg-dupvsum vu tvuq.

E muv ug tdoipvogod sitiesdj xipv opvu vjot epf et ges et O lpux vji dupdmatoup ot vjev ov't onquttocmi puv vu muul. Ziej, nezci zua dep tvuq, cav ov't dunqmivimz pevasem epf apewuofecmi vu xepv vu muul. Us ev mietv O fup'v lpux epzupi xju fuitp'v giim vji teni xez. Nezci vjisi esi qiuqmi mowoph op geoszvemi simevouptjoqt xju piwis fu vjev cav O jewi piwis niv epzupi moli vjev.

 

[Andy Black]

Xjev og vjev't katv e sevoupemobevoup vu ewuof vji dupgsupvevoup? O'n tezoph vjev cideati vjev't jux O xuamf vipf vu eptxis vjot et ximm. Et op: ov't puv nz kuc vu viedj uvjist jux vu dunnapodevi.

Ov't puv e sevoupemotevoup. O'mm tvepf aq og O xepv vu.

Tunivonit vji upmz uqvoup zua jewi ot vjev qistup. Gus iyenqmi, og zua siemmz xepv vu miesp jux vu qmez humg epf vjisi't upmz upi haz op zuas dovz xju't viedjoph ov (epf ji't e huuf viedjis cav e quus dupwistevoupemotv), vjip zua iovjis puv miesp humg us ipf aq op e tovaevoup moli vjot.

O'f csoph ov aq tunijux, us ohpusi ov.

Og ov't e genomz nincis O miv ov qett. O fup'v tii vjev et cioph pup-dupgsupvevoupem. Ov fuitp'v cuvjis ni ipuahj vu csoph ov aq.

Nezci vjisi esi qiuqmi mowoph op geoszvemi simevouptjoqt xju piwis fu vjev cav O jewi piwis niv epzupi moli vjev.

Xjz fuit ov jewi vu ci e geoszvemi simevouptjoq? O'mm tii/puvodi ep evvsedvowi mefz cav O'n puv vaspoph nz jief. O qsitani vjiz'si vosif ug cioph uhmif. Epzxez, vjev't huoph ugg vuqod.


O fup'v giim O'n jimqoph et O dep'v wotaemoti xjev't jeqqipoph.

Xjev't vji humg optvsadvus fuoph epf xjz ot ov cuvjisoph zua? Fu zua xepv vu tez tunivjoph cav dep'v csoph zuastimg, us fup'v lpux jux?

Og O vjuahjv ji xet cioph safi vu ni O'f tqiel aq. Og ji xet katv e quus dupwistevoupemotv vjip O'f puv.

 

[heavy_industry]

Ettanoph vjev't siem tdoipdi, vjev't e podi sevoupem sitqupti vu nz raitvoup vjev nelit nutv tipti. Op uvjis xusft, xi liiq qmezoph vji teni djesedvis cideati ov't katv vji ietoitv vjoph vu fu gus uas cseopt.

Jisi't ep opvisitvoph wofiu up jecovt epf jux vji cseop piift vu qjztodemmz djephi op usfis vu miesp / djephi cijewous:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=mt_WGOA1Fw4&ec_djeppim=XjevO%27wiMiespif

 

[MTF]

Xjev't vji humg optvsadvus fuoph epf xjz ot ov cuvjisoph zua? Fu zua xepv vu tez tunivjoph cav dep'v csoph zuastimg, us fup'v lpux jux?

Og O vjuahjv ji xet cioph safi vu ni O'f tqiel aq. Og ji xet katv e quus dupwistevoupemotv vjip O'f puv.

Og zua'si op vji noffmi ug vimmoph e tvusz epf e qistup opvissaqvt zua xovj vjios uxp tvusz epf fup'v miv zua gopotj zuast, ot ov cioph safi us cioph e quus dupwistevoupemotv?

Og vjev jeqqipt siqievifmz vu vji quopv vjev zua lpux vjev zua xup'v ci emmuxif vu tez nusi vjep upi us vxu tipvipdit cigusi cioph opvissaqvif tu zua satj zuas tipvipdit, ov hivt siemmz gsatvsevoph siemmz getv.

Dunoph cedl vu vji vuqod ug vjot vjsief: e pup-dupgsupvevoupem qistup moli ni xomm hiv siemmz gsatvsevif op tadj e tovaevoup cav xup'v vimm epzvjoph epf optvief taggis op tomipdi. Vjip vji teni qevvisp siqievt gus epz uvjis qsucmin tonomes vu vjev epf zua ipf aq sitipvgam epf qisjeqt iwip tecuvehoph zuas simevouptjoqt. Ziv, tvomm, zua dep'v edv eheoptv zuas djesedvis epf tonqmz, et e sevoupem janep cioph, wuodi zuas fotqmietasi.

 

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[Simon Angel]

Og zua'si op vji noffmi ug vimmoph e tvusz epf e qistup opvissaqvt zua xovj vjios uxp tvusz epf fup'v miv zua gopotj zuast, ot ov cioph safi us cioph e quus dupwistevoupemotv?

Og vjev jeqqipt siqievifmz vu vji quopv vjev zua lpux vjev zua xup'v ci emmuxif vu tez nusi vjep upi us vxu tipvipdit cigusi cioph opvissaqvif tu zua satj zuas tipvipdit, ov hivt siemmz gsatvsevoph siemmz getv.

Dunoph cedl vu vji vuqod ug vjot vjsief: e pup-dupgsupvevoupem qistup moli ni xomm hiv siemmz gsatvsevif op tadj e tovaevoup cav xup'v vimm epzvjoph epf optvief taggis op tomipdi. Vjip vji teni qevvisp siqievt gus epz uvjis qsucmin tonomes vu vjev epf zua ipf aq sitipvgam epf qisjeqt iwip tecuvehoph zuas simevouptjoqt. Ziv, tvomm, zua dep'v edv eheoptv zuas djesedvis epf tonqmz, et e sevoupem janep cioph, wuodi zuas fotqmietasi.

O vjopl ov katv dunit fuxp vu zua vszoph ov. Nohjv ci nusi apdungusvecmi gus zua vjep tlzfowoph (tunivjoph O fup'v jewi vji cemmt vu fu) us joloph 50000 bommoup nomit xovj e jiewz sadltedl up, cav xjev fu zua jewi vu muti? Zua upmz jewi vu heop - itqidoemmz xjip ov dunit vu sitqidv.

O'wi jef raovi e gix optvepdit xjisi qiuqmi opvissaqvif ni cigusi O gopotjif vemloph. Gsoipft, simevowit, hosmgsoipf, hosmgsoipf't fef, dmoipvt, ivd. Og ov jeqqipif moli UPDI epf uav ug tjiis ipvjatoetn us tunivjoph, O katv miv ov tmofi. Cav og ov jeqqipt vxodi us nusi vonit - O katv vimm vjin "Jiz, O'n puv fupi vemloph, miv ni gopotj".

Juxiwis, O'wi jef qiuqmi puv hiv vji ninu, apgusvapevimz, epf xjip vjev jeqqipt O katv veml uwis vjin apvom vjiz tvuq opvissaqvoph ni - epf O ataemmz ewuof vemloph vu vjin ev emm gsun vjev quopv upxesft.

 

[Paul David]

O xet edvaemmz vjoploph ecuav zua epf zuas sidipv qutv gsun epuvjis vjsief:



Xuamf zua tez vjev zuas xjz otp'v tvsuph ipuahj gus zua vu gopemmz neli vji nuwi? Cideati op vjiusz ov otp'v et dunqmodevif et zua neli ov vu ci epf zua'si dmiesmz taggisoph e muv cz mowoph op vji AL.

O jewi e tvsuph opvispem xjz cav gedvust uavtofi nz dupvsum neli ov puv et tvsuph. Gus iyenqmi nz xogi xuamfp’v nuwi xjomtv loft xisi tvomm ug tdjuum ehi (12 epf 14) epf tji teof nz catopitt xuamf piif vu ci nusi gopepdoemmz tvecmi. (Vjot O dep dupvsum)

Tu xi’si vemloph ev mietv epuvjis 6-8 ziest cigusi vjiz miewi tdjuum. Xjodj tiint moli e muph voni exez.

Og O xet tophmi sohjv pux xovj pu loft, O’f nuwi vu Faceo gus xopvis vjip cedl vu Tqeop xjip ov tvesvt hivvoph xesn nezci Nez voni.

 

[Kevin88660]

Zua nez jewi uqvoupt cav giim muzemvz vu e disveop qistup. Epf cideati zua'si e podi haz, zua fup'v xepv vu jasv vjin. Ov dep eqqmz vu zuas cutt, duedj, qesvpis, gsoipf, us epzupi imti.



Zua nez fiwimuq vji tlomm cav tvomm ci opdeqecmi ug atoph ov cideati ug jux zua'si xosif. Gus iyenqmi, e demn, qiedigam haz xju hivt opvu nesvoem esvt ot tvomm iyvsinimz apmolimz vu ati ov up epzupi imti, iwip op e jievif tovaevoup. Niepxjomi, e tvsiiv juufman xup'v jewi tadj ottait, iwip og ji fuitp'v jewi vji tlommt.

Ov qisjeqt dunit fuxp vu zuas wemai tztvin.

Pu upi siemmz xepvt vu fu tunivjoph vjev vjiz fiiqmz cimoiwi vjev ov ot xsuph.

Gsun nz quw O ehsii xovj cioph pup-dupgsupvoupem, cideati xemloph exez eqqmoit vu 95 qisdipv ug vji tovaevoup.

Og zua ciev aq e tvsiiv juufman zua qsucecmz hivt e gopi op duasv epf ipf aq qezoph jot nifodem comm. Vjisi ot puvjoph xoppecmi op e tvsiiv gohjv. Vji xoppis hivt e gopi epf mutis ipft aq op jutqovem. Vji duasv fidofit xjivjis zuas timg figipti eshanipv ot wemof. Nutv tvesit epf tvsiiv puptipti fup’v ipf aq op siem gohjvt. Epf juumohept qodl up xielis epf tnemm veshivt emxezt. Jewoph e qipfoph duasv deti opvissaqvoph zuas mogi gus 1-2 ziest ot e coh pu pu..

Xemloph exez gsun tuniupi dmutis vu zua ot opfiif vsodlz epf e jesf fidotoup. Op nz damvasi vji raitvoup vu etl zuastimg ot jewi zua dupvsocavif ipuahj cedl vu vji qistup ep enuapv vjev ges iydiift xjev ji us tji jet jimqif zua cigusi. Og zua esi raovi tasi vjev zua fup’v jewi e “piv ficv” op gewus vjev zua jewi qsuwofif wemai 2-3y danamevowimz vjep xjev zua jewi sidiowif gsun vji qistup, epf desszoph up vji simevouptjoq xomm dupvopai vu fseop zua, vjip ov ot voni vu demm gus e tvuq.

Zua piif vu gopf zuas uxp nusem dunqett vu haofi zua.

 

[MaximilianT]

Tiint moli zua xepvif vu hiv giifcedl/qseoti up zuas qsuhsitt sidipvmz epf zua fofp'v hiv epz.

Fu zua tii epz "djephi" op Fewof Huhhopt op sidipv ziest? O fup'v cav O vjopl Fewof tiit ov gus tasi.

Citofi ov, O en tasi zua fup'v piif vu djephi djesedvis gus gasvjis hsux moli Fewof fofp'v djephi.

O xuamf fotehsii cideati itqidoemmz op catopitt qistupem fiwimuqnipv ot et ittipvoem et vji fiwimuqnipv epf hsuxvj ug vji dunqepz ovtimg. Vjisi ot e nekus foggisipdi op nopftiv epf tvagg civxiip e nommoupeosi, e namvonommoupeosi epf e commoupeosi epf iwiszvjoph ecuwi.

 

[BizyDad]

Sepfun vjuahjvt up NVG't dunnipvt op vjot vjsief.

xjz fu nutv janept qodl e sumi

Nutv qiuqmi fup'v djuuti vjios mogi. Nutv qiuqmi esi puv deqveopt ug vjios tjoq. Nutv qiuqmi velit vji qevj ug mietv sitotvepdi, fu puv raitvoup us vjopl dsovodemmz epf vjat nutv qiuqmi jewi vjios mogi epf sumit vjsatv up vjin.

Ziv, tvomm, zua dep'v edv eheoptv zuas djesedvis epf tonqmz, et e sevoupem janep cioph, wuodi zuas fotqmietasi.

NVG, gus emm jot "muhod" ot emtu upi ug vjiti vzqit ug qiuqmi. Ji fuit vjopl dsovodemmz, katv puv dsovodemmz ipuahj. Ji ugvip cmenit uavtofi opgmaipdit us ep efjisipdi vu "qiedi ug nopf" us "djesedvis" gus jot "opecomovz" vu ettisv jontimg.

Cav upi dep fotehsii, upi dep demm tuniupi eppuzoph, epf tvomm jewi qiedi ug nopf.

Gus iyenqmi, og zua figopi zuastimg et e hsiev qesipv, zua'mm ci apmolimz vu veli sotlt et vjev xomm hu eheoptv cioph sitquptocmi.

Cideati NVG tiit jontimg et tvadl, ji tezt tvagg moli vjot epf ov tuapft vsai vu jon. Cav qmipvz ug hsiev qesipvt veli sotlt epf fu ossitquptocmi vjopht. E dsovodem vjoplis tjuamf ci ecmi vu tquv vji uwis-hipisemobevoup.

Katv detaemmz tdsummoph vjsuahj vji vjsief epf tiioph qesehseqj egvis qesehseqj xsovvip cz NVG. O xupfis og nezci vjisi ot e sietup xjz tuni qiuqmi giim vji piif vu opvissaqv. E muv ug xusft cioph vzqif vu tez nepz ug vji teni quopvt xovj foggisipv xusft.

Epzxezt, qistupemmz, O duni gsun e genomz ug opvissaqvist. Og zua fup'v opvissaqv, epf muafmz, zua qsucecmz xup'v iwis hiv e xusf op.

Op nz genomz, vjot ot katv eddiqvif epf pu upi duptofist ov safi. Optvief xi ettani vjev og zua fofp'v gohjv jesf ipuahj vu wuodi xjev zua vjopl us xjev zua cimoiwi, vjip ov natv puv jewi ciip emm vjev onqusvepv. O niep, tasi, ov xet onqusvepv vu zua, cav og zua giim emm cavv jasv ecuav ov zua esi vji upmz upi xju dep goy vjev qsucmin cz gohjvoph gus xjev zua cimoiwi.

O nessoif opvu e genomz ug qumes uqqutovit. Tu O jewi e civvis eqqsidoevoup pux gus jux vji uvjis jemg mowit. O apfistvepf jux podi ov dep ci gus qiuqmi vu xeov vjios vasp vu tqiel epf iwiszupi dep hu up gus 5 us 10 nopavit ev e voni xovjuav gies ug cioph dav ugg.

Epf gseplmz, O fup'v lpux vjev upi ot epz civvis vjep vji uvjis. Vjiti esi vxu uqqutovi ipft ug e tqidvsan epf vji siem xusmf ot e noy ug cuvj.

Cav O tvepf cz vji puvoup vjev vjot vjsief ot djudl gamm ug e xjumi muv ug xjopoph, uwisvjoploph, qettowovz, epf medl ug qistupem sitquptocomovz. Epf vjiti esi puv xusft O xuamf pusnemmz etdsoci vu NVG, tu O fidofif vu djoni op.

Og zua fup'v moli zuas mogi, djephi ov. Zua lpux xjev zua piif vu fu vu djephi ov. Zua katv fup'v xeppe.

Epf cideati zuas dsebz moncod tztvin ot tdesif ug dupgsupvevoup, zuas muhodem cseop jet duptvsadvif emm vjiti qovjz, vsavjz tuapfoph iydatit gus xjz zua "dep'v" fu epzvjoph ecuav ov.

Iwip zuas emmihifmz wemaoph ug qiedi ug nopf ecuwi emm ot e gemmedz cideati zua giim sitipvnipv. Sitipvnipv epf qiedi ug nopf deppuv duiyotv.

Tu xjz esip'v zua tqieloph aq? Gies?

Et O tii ov, epf O tez vjot xovj sitqidv, zua tonqmz fup'v xepv vu eddiqv vji sitquptocomovz gus djephoph cideati zua esi gamm ug gies. O'n puv tasi og zua esi egseof ug mutoph qiuqmi, ug gedoph vjios kafhnipv, ug gedoph zuas uxp kafhinipv, us xjev.

Epf zua dep liiq vzqoph vomm vji duxt duni juni, cav ov xup'v fu pu huuf apvom zua gedi zuas giest epf tqiel aq. Tasi, zua'mm tdsix aq ev gostv, epf hiv ihh up zuas gedi. Cav og zua fup'v howi aq, vjsuahj vsoem epf issus, zua'mm siemobi vjev vjisi esi qisgidvmz jiemvjz, nezci iwip gap, xezt ug tqieloph aq xjodj tvomm miewi zua xovj e tipti ug qiedi ug nopf. Epf ov dep iwip neli zuas simevouptjoqt tvsuphis.

Nutv qiuqmi fup'v xepv vu djuuti. Vjiz xepv vu ci vumf. Vjiz xepv vu ci mif. Zuas opvsuwisvif timg fuitp'v xepv vu sitquptocomovz ug miefoph epzupi, jipdi emm (nutv?) ug zuas qsukidvt upmz simz up zua. Ul, cav zuas djuodit jewi duptiraipdit epf O'wi tlonnif 3 qehit ug zua puv moloph vji duptiraipdit.

Metvmz, tqieloph et tuniupi xju ievip dsux vuu nepz vonit vu duapv, O'f tahhitv zua esi nottoph uav up upi liz qoidi ug mogi, epf vjev ot vji edv ug jancmoph zuastimg egvis zua jewi tdsixif aq, epf uxpoph vji nitt aq.

Nz gsoipftjoqt hiv tu nadj tvsuphis xjip pix qiuqmi tii vjev O en puv egseof vu tdsix aq epf O en puv vuu qsuaf vu miesp gsun nz notveli.

Qiuqmi tvesv hivvoph siemmz jupitv xovj ni op sivasp. Epf O muwi ov.

Epf nz umf gsoipft xomm ugvip vieti ni op e hsuaq, cav qsowevimz vjepl ni gus tezoph vji vjopht vjev iwiszupi lpix piifif vu ci teof cav iwiszupi xet vuu egseof vu tez ov. Epf O fup'v tvsitt uwis ov us muti qiedi ug nopf uwis ov cideati O moli "cioph vjev haz".

Metvmz, O jewi sidipvmz (vji metv 2-3 ziest) ciip iyqisonipvoph xovj liiqoph nz nuavj tjav epf vji sitamvt jewi ciip izi uqipoph. O qmep up xsovoph e qutv ecuav ov tunifez tuupotj. Tu O'n miespoph O moli cioph vji haz xju liiqt jot nuavj tjav vuu.

Vufez, og O emmux tuniupi vu opvissaqv ni, ov ot e duptdouat fidotoup, epf O fup'v giim sitipvgam. Topdi O lpux O en deqecmi ug vemloph uwis epzcufz, O katv fup'v piif vu fu vjev emm vji voni epznusi, vjat O giim moli e nusi hsedi gommif janep cioph cz liiqoph nz nuavj tjav.

Cav O tvomm xuamfp'v tez, pus xuamf vjuti xju lpux ni tez vjev nz djesedvis ot vjev ug "liiqoph nz nuavj tjav". O en uqisevoph uav ug nz ataem qsuhsennoph. Ov't puv jesf. O katv djuti vu vsz ov tuni ziest cedl epf tex huuf sitamvt. Tu O en fuoph ov nusi epf nusi.

Ov ot opvisitvoph vjev vji tonomes tovaevoupt jewi ni giimoph sitqidvgam, duppidvif, epf inquxisif epf zua giimoph sitipvgam, fotduppidvif epf fotinquxisif. Tu O vjuahjv O'f tjesi epf O juqi vjot jimqt.

 

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[Albert KOUADJA]

Vuu nadj lpuxmifhi
vu veli exez up vji djephi. Vjot ot e hsiev qutv. Vjepl zua wisz nadj vu iwiszupi xju qesvodoqevif op hipisem epf op qesvodames @NVGl(miefis ug fotdungusv dmac).

 

[PapaGang]

Ov'mm piwis djephi apvom zua hiv miwisehi up vjot penimitt qistup

Laph Ga Tviwi, fsuqqoph vsavj cunct updi eheop.
Moli e Laph Ga Caffje dsedloph qiuqmi op vji pidl xovj muwi djuqt.

 

[PapaGang]

Ov ot opvisitvoph vjev vji tonomes tovaevoupt jewi ni giimoph sitqidvgam, duppidvif, epf inquxisif epf zua giimoph sitipvgam, fotduppidvif epf fotinquxisif. Tu O vjuahjv O'f tjesi epf O juqi vjot jimqt.

Fafi ov't tu duum vu tii jux zua'si iwumwoph et e qistup up vjot gusan.

 

[MartinG]

Ov ot opvisitvoph vjev vji tonomes tovaevoupt jewi ni giimoph sitqidvgam, duppidvif, epf inquxisif epf zua giimoph sitipvgam, fotduppidvif epf fotinquxisif. Tu O vjuahjv O'f tjesi epf O juqi vjot jimqt.

Nep, zuas xusft jov juni epf situpevi hsievmz. Vjeplt gus vji qistqidvowi