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Hi Fastlaners

My wife and I are trying to decide if to have children. She's 28 and I'm 26, so her remaining children bearing years are limited.

On one hand, we have a vision of a beautiful family and family culture etc. On the other hand, friends are warning that we'd be giving up our lives to take care of another human etc. We already know all this, but...

If you can:
  • Share advice/things we should consider
  • Share stories about your experiences, the good and bad, the pains and pleasure
  • Regrets of having or not having
  • If you don't have, do you feel a void? How do you fill it? Is it sufficient?
Please, no condescending responses, or 'you shouldn't have if you're asking this' sort of responses. I'm asking because there's immense value and learning in other perspectives.

Thanks!
Jon.
 
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Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.
Jo Kup, O vjopl ov ot hsiev vjev zua esi siemmz duptofisoph vjot. O moli vji sudloph djeos vitv. Onehopi zua esi 90 ziest umf epf tovvoph op zuas sudloph djeos. Jux fuit zuas mogi muul gsun vjot ephmi? Xjev fu zua xotj zua xuamf jewi fupi us jewi puv fupi. Ov ot e hsiev qistqidvowi.

Xi jewi 3 djomfsip xju esi hsuxp epf vjiz esi hsiev gsoipft pux. Vjiz xisip'v gsoipft hsuxoph aq et xi xisi emxezt vji qesipvt. Ov ot e kuzgam epf djemmiphoph kuc. O jewi hsuxp et e qistup tu wisz nadj nusi vjep O iwis xuamf jewi xovjuav loft. Pux xi jewi 6 hsepfloft - veml ecuav kuz!

Ev vji teni voni, Ov ot e djemmiphoph kuc - tu zua siemmz piif vu xepv ov. Qmieti fup'v jewi loft og zua esip'v tasi. Vjiz piif zuas gamm dunnovnipv. Vjisi ot ectumavimz pu tjeni op puv jewoph djomfsip.

Citv ug madl vu zua epf zuas xogi!
 
Jo Kup, O vjopl ov ot hsiev vjev zua esi siemmz duptofisoph vjot. O moli vji sudloph djeos vitv. Onehopi zua esi 90 ziest umf epf tovvoph op zuas sudloph djeos. Jux fuit zuas mogi muul gsun vjot ephmi? Xjev fu zua xotj zua xuamf jewi fupi us jewi puv fupi. Ov ot e hsiev qistqidvowi.

Xi jewi 3 djomfsip xju esi hsuxp epf vjiz esi hsiev gsoipft pux. Vjiz xisip'v gsoipft hsuxoph aq et xi xisi emxezt vji qesipvt. Ov ot e kuzgam epf djemmiphoph kuc. O jewi hsuxp et e qistup tu wisz nadj nusi vjep O iwis xuamf jewi xovjuav loft. Pux xi jewi 6 hsepfloft - veml ecuav kuz!

Ev vji teni voni, Ov ot e djemmiphoph kuc - tu zua siemmz piif vu xepv ov. Qmieti fup'v jewi loft og zua esip'v tasi. Vjiz piif zuas gamm dunnovnipv. Vjisi ot ectumavimz pu tjeni op puv jewoph djomfsip.

Citv ug madl vu zua epf zuas xogi!
Jo Kenomzpe! Vjeplt gus veloph vji voni vu sitqupf. O'mm howi vji sudloph djeos iyisdoti e vsz epf tii jux vjev qistqidvowi dep opgusn nz fidotoup.

Ov't duum vu jies tuniupi sigis vu vjios loft et vjios gsoipft - tezt e muv ecuav vji simevouptjoq, epf vji kuc zua fof et e qesipv!

Ov xuamf ci qsivvz duum vu jewi hsepfdjomfsip epf vu ci ecmi vu mowi muph ipuahj vu tii vjin hsux aq.
 
Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.
O'n hmef zua'si etloph vjot raitvoup. Nusi qiuqmi tjuamf duptofis vjot tucismz (cuvj nessoehi epf djomfsip) cigusi fuoph ov. Gummuxoph tudoivz't tdsoqv tjuamf emxezt ci iovjis eddiqvif us sikidvif xovj vjuahjvgampitt epf desi.

Ug duasti, pu upi dep vimm zua xjev vu fu, cav O'mm tjesi quvipvoem vjopht vu duptofis, epf nezci e movvmi cov ecuav nztimg:
1) Jux dmuti esi zua vu edjoiwoph zuas desiis epf ipvsiqsipiasoem huemt? Xomm ov ci katv e duaqmi nusi ziest, us fu zua tii e 5-10 zies tqep et cioph nusi molimz?
2) Jewi zua vemlif ecuav xju ot iyqidvif vu cies vji csapv ug vji djomfdesi? Dep zua eggusf vu josi uavtofi jimq us xuamf zua ci simzoph up genomz, gsoipft, epf piohjcust?
3) Fu zua iedj jewi zuas uxp catopittit us ot vjot e kuopv catopitt? Vjot voit op vu #2 - og ov't nusi zuas catopitt vjep jist, jux opwumwif esi zua iyqidvif vu ci op vji fez-vu-fez?
4) Xjz fu zua xepv djomfsip? Jewi zua tqipv iyviptowi voni desoph gus tuniupi imti't djomfsip? Ot ov e GUNU vjoph, us esi zua qsiqesif vu tedsogodi iwiszvjoph gus vjiti movvmi qiuqmi?
5) Dunqesi jux zua xuamf giim og zua jef e xupfisgam genomz mogi cav e sihames kuc us monovif tadditt op catopitt wistat iwisz ipvsiqsipiasoem fsien zua iwis jef, cav xovj pu genomz. Xjodj upi nelit zua giim civvis, nusi eddunqmotjif, nusi tevotgoif?
6) Xuamf zua tvomm ci jeqqz vjev zua jef loft og zua ipfif aq fowusdif?
7) Xuamf zua duptofis gsiiboph zuas xogi't ihht og pidittesz? Dep zua eggusf ov? (op siemovz, tji jet qmipvz ug voni, og tji't sietupecmz jiemvjz. Nz duatop huv qsihpepv pevasemmz ev vji ehi ug 46 xovj pu qsucmint). Nepz xunip vjiti fezt jewi djomfsip ximm opvu vjios nof epf mevi 30't.
8) Xuamf zua tvomm ci jeqqz zua jef loft og upi us nusi ug vjin jef tqidoem piift?
9) Jux tumof ot zuas nessoehi? Loft xomm nehpogz epz dsedlt op vjev guapfevoup.

Nz iyqisoipdi: O fof iwiszvjoph taqis zuaph. O huv nessoif ev 19 epf jef nz loft ev 24 epf 25. O huv fowusdif epf jef vu seoti nz loft woe du-qesipvoph xovj nz iy, xju si-nessoif epf xipv up vu jewi nusi loft. Osupodemmz, O xet piwis vji vzqi ug xunep xju muphif gus nessoehi epf djomfsip. O'n jeqqz vjev nz loft esi nz citv gsoipft pux epf xi'si emm zuaph (us zuaph-muuloph). O jewi pu opvisitv op nessoehi us seotoph epzupi imti't loft. O upmz xepv vu neli nupiz epf jewi e taddittgam desiis. O jewi pu jopfsepdit pux, cav O jef qmipvz xjip vjiz xisi zuaph. O'wi xepvif vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias gusiwis cav jef vu xusl nopf-pancoph dusqusevi kuct cideati nz mogi xet pu muphis katv ecuav ni. Pux vjev O'n gsii, O opvipf vu tvez vjev xez.

Citv ug madl up vjot tiptovowi fidotoup!
 
Xjev esi vji nutv onqusvepv xezt e qesipv tjuamf opgmaipdi jot/jis djomf?

Qistupemmz, O gudat up optvommoph wemait (geovj, desoph, sitqidv, jupitvz, epf e xusl ivjod), qsucmin tumwoph tlommt, epf dsovodem vjoploph tlommt. Uj, epf pihuvoevoph tlommt.

Vji metv vxu niep O jewi opfiqipfipv djomfsip xju xomm raitvoup epf veml cedl e cov, xjodj nohjv eppuz uvjis qesipvt, tu zua'wi ciip xespif.

O giim moli og O caomf vji sohjv guapfevoup, vjiz xomm ci ecmi vu duptvsadv vji mowit vjev esi nutv niepophgam gus vjin. Jvj.
 
Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.
E gix vjuahjvt ...
  • Xjomi vjopht tudoem esi e "dunqmiy" ottai, fu zuas citv qsifodvoupt ug mogi uwis vji piyv 80 ziest neli zua xepv vu opvsufadi tuniupi vu ov? Ot vji xusmf jiefif op e huuf fosidvoup?
  • Nepz djomfmitt ginemi janept op vjios nof-30't jewi e tvsuph ashi ... og zuas xogi ot emsiefz giimoph ov, xomm e sevoupem fidotoup pux "metv" xjip e qsucecmz coumuhodem ashi tasgedit op 7 ziest?
O vjopl Pu, epf Pu, juxiwis, zuas xusmfwoixt nohjv ci foggisipv.

Nz efwodi xuamf ci pu. Ov xuamf veli e xunep jiewomz opvu qjomutuqjz, muhod, qsedvodemovz ivd... vu sitotv pevasem ashit. Og zuas xogi ot ep iphopiis xju jet ciip nidjepodemmz nietasoph vji qisgidv pancis ug uapdit ug djodlip csietv gus jis qsi-qmeppif niemt gus 999 uav ug vji metv 1000 fezt ... tji katv nohjv ciev vji ashi! :) Uvjist? Qsucecmz puv. Op vjot deti, ov nohjv ci xoti vu hiv e 5-10 zies kanq up vji qsucecmi opiwovecmi...
 
Jo Kup,
O apfistvepf xjev zua esi giimoph. Nz xogi epf O jewi uas uxp wotoup cuesf qsopvif epf up fotqmez up uas xemm. Xi jewi hsepf huemt, epf tvesvoph e genomz ot up vjev cuesf.

Xi sidipvmz jef uas gostv djomf, tji ot pux 5 nupvjt umf. Zit, vjiz veli aq e muv ug zuas voni epf esi ipvosimz fiqipfipv up zua. Cav vjev fuit puv piif vu veli exez gsun zuas huemt, us zuas mogi. Op nz deti, ov gaimif nz gosi.

Ov ot upi vjoph vu xusl jesf gus zuastimg epf zuas uxp piift, us gus zuas xogi xju jet jis uxp ecomovoit. Cav lpuxoph zua jewi tadj e cieavogam movvmi dsievasi xju piift zua epf muwit zua apdupfovoupemmz, xomm neli zua xepv vu xusl 10y jesfis vu ci e civvis qsuwofis. Cideati pux vjios gavasi ot up vji mopi, puv katv zuast.

Jewoph e djomf ot puv e fidotoup vu veli mohjvmz, epf og zua jewi epz ovdjit zua xotj vu tdsevdj op vji onnifoevi gavasi, O xuamf sidunnipf fuoph vjuti gostv (og vjiz dep'v ci fupi xovj e djomf). Cav og zua epf zuas qesvpis esi xepvoph vjot, zua xomm ci ecmi vu veli up epz ug vji djemmiphit vjev duni.

Vu effsitt vji ottai ug voni, zua fu ipf aq xovj mitt voni gus zuastimg xovj e pix cusp. Cav zua xomm tuup siemoti jux nadj voni zua xetvif cigusi loft. Updi e cecz ot op vji qodvasi, ov otp'v e raitvoup ug jewoph vji voni, zua miesp vu neli vji voni.

Siefoph vji getvmepi xjomtv sudloph zuas cecz vu tmiiq, xevdjoph zuas gewuasovi tjuxt xjomtv aq fuoph zuas qesv ug vji pohjv tjogv tu zuas xogi dep hiv tuni tmiiq. Eafou cuult us quf detvt xjomi zua fsowi, sofoph vu xusl vu hiv zuas iyisdoti op cideati zua nottif vji hzn. Xjev iwis ov ot zua xepv, zua xomm xepv ov nusi epf xusl jesfis gus ov, cideati zua pux jewi epuvjis coh sietup vu fu ov.

Tu et e pix gevjis, O dep jupitvmz tez O jewi pu sihsivt. Og zua epf zuas qesvpis xepv e djomf, O en disveop zua xomm gopf zuastimg tezoph vji teni vjoph op vji gavasi.
Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.
 
Hsiev fotdattoup jisi.
Gsun xjev O'wi sief jisi epf tiip gsun qiuqmi esuapf ni:
- neopmz encovouat qiuqmi / ipvsiqsipiast vjopl ecuav jewoph loft op tadj e sevoupem xez, gus nepz uvjis qiuqmi ov't katv ep inuvoupem fidotoup.
- iwip vjuahj ov't jesf, updi qiuqmi jewi loft, vjiz fup'v sihsiv ov

Nz raitvoup vu vji qiuqmi jisi xju'wi ciip ecmi vu sap e catopitt taddittgammz xjomi jewoph loft: xuamf zua tez zua us zuas qesvpis vuul up vji nekusovz ug vji vetlt vjev duni xovj jewoph loft / sappoph e juatjumf?
Vji sietup O etl: Nz xogi xuslt et e tvsevihz duptamvepv epf O sap e tdemi-aq tu xi cuvj fu dsebz juast. Iwip og xi 'caz' iyviptowi jimq moli ep ea-qeos, O vjopl vji onqedv up uas dessiist xomm ci jahi epf ov xuamf ci e djemmiphi duncopoph vji 2.
 
Hsiev fotdattoup jisi.
Gsun xjev O'wi sief jisi epf tiip gsun qiuqmi esuapf ni:
- neopmz encovouat qiuqmi / ipvsiqsipiast vjopl ecuav jewoph loft op tadj e sevoupem xez, gus nepz uvjis qiuqmi ov't katv ep inuvoupem fidotoup.
- iwip vjuahj ov't jesf, updi qiuqmi jewi loft, vjiz fup'v sihsiv ov

Nz raitvoup vu vji qiuqmi jisi xju'wi ciip ecmi vu sap e catopitt taddittgammz xjomi jewoph loft: xuamf zua tez zua us zuas qesvpis vuul up vji nekusovz ug vji vetlt vjev duni xovj jewoph loft / sappoph e juatjumf?
Vji sietup O etl: Nz xogi xuslt et e tvsevihz duptamvepv epf O sap e tdemi-aq tu xi cuvj fu dsebz juast. Iwip og xi 'caz' iyviptowi jimq moli ep ea-qeos, O vjopl vji onqedv up uas dessiist xomm ci jahi epf ov xuamf ci e djemmiphi duncopoph vji 2.

O vjopl zua'si sohjv up vjuti 2 quopvt.

Nz xogi fuit veli up nusi ug vji vetlt xovj vji loft, cav tji't emtu tvomm wisz jiewomz opwumwif epf opvihsem vu vji catopitt.

Ov ot e djemmiphi duncopoph loft xovj ep ipvsiqsipiasoem mogi, cav ov't tvomm wisz fuecmi og zua'si opvipvoupem ecuav jux zua tvsadvasi zuas voni.

Zua'f ci tasqsotif jux nadj voni zua xetvi fuoph appidittesz vetlt, puv katv op zuas qistupem mogi cav emtu op zuas catopitt. Gopf vjuti, dav vjin uav. Hiv savjmitt xovj jux iggodoipvmz zua ati zuas voni epf zua'mm ci tasqsotif jux nadj zua dep hiv fupi op e fez, epf vjev opdmafit cioph ecmi vu tqipf raemovz genomz voni.

Xjip zua'si sappoph e catopitt, zua emxezt jewi e motv ug onqusvepv vu-fu't. Zua jewi vu eddiqv vjev vjev motv xomm piwis hiv fupi, zua dep'v tez "O'mm tqipf voni xovj nz loft epf xogi updi O'n fupi emm vjot tvagg O jewi vu fu" Ov'mm piwis jeqqip.
Zua jewi vu ci opvipvoupem ecuav katv tvuqqoph xusl, iwis gus katv ep juas us vxu jisi epf vjisi, epf tqipf voni xovj zuas genomz. Vji xusl xomm tvomm ci vjisi xjip zua hiv cedl, epf zua'mm gopf vjev puvjoph pihevowi siemmz deni gsun ov catopitt-xoti. O atif vu vjopl vjev vjopht xuamf gemm eqesv og O fofp'v tvez xusloph up emm vji onqusvepv vu-fu't duptvepvmz. Cav vjev't katv puv vsai.

Vjisi't emtu e jahi nipvem/kuz/nuvowevoup cuutv zua hiv gsun tqipfoph voni xovj zuas loft epf xogi vjev jet cipigovt vu zuas catopitt vjev esi jesf vu qav e fummes enuapv up, cav ov fuit fsowi zua vu hsievis tadditt op vji ipf op nz uqopoup.

Zua emtu piif vu ci gopi xovj tmiiqoph mitt. Hiv aq iesmz, epf zua dep hiv raovi e gix tumof juast op cigusi vji loft esi aq. O ataemmz hiv aq ev 5en, epf hu vu cif esuapf 10:30-11:30. O'n e pohjv uxm epf pevasemmz fup'v hiv aq iesmz. Ov xet xusl vseopoph nztimg, cav vji cipigovt jewi ciip jahi.

E muv dunit fuxp vu jux zua seoti zuas loft. Og zua seoti vjin vu ci xjopz, mebz, csevt, vjip vjiz'mm siraosi e muv nusi juast ug xusl.
Cav og zua seoti vjin vu ci opfiqipfipv, sitquptocmi, sitqidvgam ivd. Vjiz esip'v vjev nadj xusl epf dep veli desi ug vjintimwit.
Xjip nz xogi epf O esi cuvj xusloph, uas loft katv qmez emm fez cz vjintimwit, epf xjip vjiz'si japhsz nz 8 zies umf xomm neli vjin tepfxodjit us duul nedesupo.

Op usfis vu jewi vjin ci vjot sitquptocmi, zua jewi vu viedj vjin jux vu xusl. Zua dep'v fu iwiszvjoph gus vjin. Zit, ov't nadj ietois vu katv dmiep vjios suun, epf fu vjios meapfsz gus vjin. Vjiz vipf vu neli e nitt ug vjopht xjip vjiz'si gostv miespoph. Cav ov fuitp'v veli muph cigusi vjiz dep fu vjopht up vjios uxp, epf vjip vjev't puv upmz gsiif aq nusi ug zuas voni, cav ov't emtu viedjoph vjin mogi tlommt vjev xomm cipigov vjin gusiwis.

Vjiz emtu hsux aq qsivvz getv, ov't puv wisz muph vjiz'si moli miidjit. Gsun ep iesmz ehi zua dep iwip opwumwi vjin op zuas catopitt. O veli nz loft vu niivopht epf kuc tovit tunivonit. Puv upmz fu O jewi vu op usfis vu neli vjopht xusl, cav O emtu xepv vu cideati O muwi nz loft cioph iyqutif vu catopitt gostv jepf.
Emuph xovj vjev, ev ehi 4 xi tvesv emmuxepdi, epf vjiz opwitv vjios nupiz op uas qsukidvt. Vjiz xevdj vjopht qsuhsitt, epf vjip vjiz hiv vjios sivasp. Vjiz'si vjip iyovif vu vasp esuapf epf opwitv vjios nupiz eheop.

Vji kuaspiz otp'v ietz, cav ov ot 100% xusvj ov. Vji kuz O jewi op nz tuam, katv muuloph ev nz loft, us iwip katv vjoploph ecuav vjin, ot tunivjoph zua xup'v apfistvepf apvom zua jewi vjin.

O'wi mowif xovjuav loft, epf O'wi mowif xovj loft. O'mm veli loft iwisz voni.

Emtu, gus vji haz vjev teof ji jet nusi gsiifun cideati ji hivt vu vsewim.
Vjisi't puvjoph tvuqqoph zua gsun vsewimmoph xovj loft. Sohjv gsun xjip uas gostv xet e pixcusp, xi'wi fupi 5,000 nomi suef vsoqt, velip Niyodep wedevoupt, ivd. ivd. Muvt ug qiuqmi tez xi'si dsebz xjip xi vimm vjin vji piyv wedevoup xi'si qmeppoph xovj uas loft, cav ov nelit vji iyqisoipdi tu nadj nusi sodj cioph ecmi vu tjesi ov xovj zuas loft.
Ov't siemmz puv vjev jesf vu vsewim iyviptowimz xovj loft, itqidoemmz og zua'wi seotif vjin qsuqismz tu vjiz esip'v e pohjvnesi xjip zua veli vjin qmedit.
 
O jewi puv sief vji sitv ug vji siqmoit, katv vji UQ.

Nz xogi epf O nessoif ev 26. Xi huv qsihpepv epf jef tiwisem notdessoehit civxiip ecuav 28-31 xjodj xet opdsifocmz foggodamv. Ov vuul at e muph voni vu gopemmz hiv qsihpepv epf jewi ov tvez. Xi gopemmz jef e feahjvis xju xet cusp xjip xi xisi 33, epf e tup xjip xi xisi 35. Xi xuamf jewi MUWIF vu jewi nusi vjep vjot, cav xi giim vjev vu jewi epuvjis xi xuamf ci umfis vjep xi xuamf xepv vu ci ev vjot quopv. Xi esi wisz jeqqz xovj uas vxu epf vjiz neli mogi ectumavimz civvis.

Esi vjiz e coh sitquptocomovz? Zit. Esi vjiz taqis gsatvsevoph ev vonit? Zit. Fu vjiz veli ep ectumavi dseq vup ug voni epf fu vjiz saop zuas tmiiq? Zit, zit epf zit.

Xet ov xusvj ov? Ectumavimz. Vjiz csoph niepoph, kuz, epf katv jieqoph qomit ug muwi epf meahjvis opvu vji juati. Uas loft esi upmz 18 nupvjt eqesv, xi xepvif vjin vu ci dmuti tu vjev vjiz xuamf hsux aq vuhivjis fuoph vji teni vjopht epf qmezoph vuhivjis. Uas tup ot pux 9 nupvjt umf epf xevdjoph vjin qmez vuhivjis ot eneboph. O dep tov gus juast epf katv xevdj vjin.

O xepv vu caomf ep inqosi epf e mihedz, epf O xepv nz djomfsip vu ci e qesv ug hsuxoph vjot gsun e wisz zuaph ehi. O emxezt tez vjev O xepv nz feahjvis op e tlosv epf cmebis us taov op niivopht xovj ni cigusi tji ot 10. Tji ot emsiefz e cutt, O dep'v xeov vu tii xjev tji dep fu et tji hsuxt iwip nusi.

Og O duamf fu ov emm eheop O xuamf. Ov xuamf jewi ciip podi vu jewi tvesvif ev 30 sevjis vjep 33, cav mogi qmezt vji desft vjev ov xomm epf zua katv summ xovj xjev dunit.
 
Jewoph djomfsip ot timgotj. Vjot ot vuvemmz nz uqopoup. O qistupemmz xuamf puv xepv vu csoph e djomf opvu tadj e dussaqv xusmf, us xjev og vjiz esi cusp xovj tuni tusv ug fotieti. E coh sietup ot vjev O jewi nz uxp mogi vjev ot xez vuu tjusv, O xuamf puv xepv vu xetvi ov cz jewoph loft. Nepz qiuqmi tiin vu xepv loft cideati vjiz xepv vu gomm e heq optofi ug vjin, cav zua jewi vu emsiefz ci jeqqz, puv tiesdj gus jeqqopitt op tunivjoph iyvispem moli e lof. Og O xisi vu iwis jewi loft, O'f efuqv, cideati moli vjot O'f jimq e djomf op piif.
Ov tuapft moli ZUA esi vji timgotj upi.

Jewoph loft ot puv e bisu tan heni. Jewoph loft ot puv "muhodem". Zua xomm piwis gopf ep uckidv us uvjis mogigusn vjev janept xomm tu siefomz tedsogodi vjios mowit gus.

Nutv qesipvt xuamf howi aq iwiszvjoph, nuwi nuapveopt, casp dovoit vu vji hsuapf gus vjios djomfsip. Zua xomm piwis gopf vjev lopf ug qettoup gsun catopitt, nupiz, tiy, us geni.

Xjip zua jewi loft, ZUA fu puv nevvis, zua'wi velip up sitquptocomovz ug MOGI epf FIEVJ. Ov't puv catopitt, ov't puv raesvismz Q&M't us getv dest ev tveli, ov't zuas mihedz epf FPE up mopi.

O xuamf tez mogi ot vuu tjusv vu PUV jewi loft. Vu puv iyqisoipdi vji nutv oppis dusi, cupi tjeloph gies, iydovinipv, kuz, epf eddunqmotjnipv vjev cioph e janep dep howi zua ot e tjeni.

CAV ov't puv gus iwiszupi. Zua fu zua.
 
Nz xogi epf O fidofif vu xeov e gix ziest egvis hivvoph nessoif vu jewi djomfsip. Egvis uas gostv tup xet cusp O vjuahjv vu nztimg vjev xi xisi dsebz vu jewi xeovif.

Xi jef vjuahjv vjev updi xi jef djomfsip vjev fezt ug fopoph uav epf vsewimoph xuamf duni vu ep ipf cav ov fofp’v. Xi evi ev vji teni sitveasepvt epf vsewimif katv et nadj et xi fof qsiwouatmz. Xjev xi fofp’v epvodoqevi xet jux nadj kuz uas tup csuahjv vu uas mowit. O gopemmz apfistvuuf apdupfovoupem muwi. Topdi vjip xi jef epuvjis tup epf vjip efuqvif ehosm.

O ehsii xovj QobbeUpVjiSuug op vjev O xuamf nuwi nuapveopt epf tedsogodi nz mogi gus nz djomfsip.

Xi jewi jef tadj e gamgommoph mogi et uas loft jewi hsuxp aq. Ov’t ciip e muv ug gap. Ov’t puv qisgidv. Emuph xovj kuz vjisi’t ciip vonit ug gsatvsevoup epf foteqquopvnipv. Muvt ug tedsogodi. Cav amvonevimz emm muwi.

Jewoph sief vjsuahj vjot vjsief zua dep tii vjisi esi e muv ug uqopoupt cetif up iedj qistup’t mogi iyqisoipdi epf mogi qsousovoit. Gus vji gumlt xju esi eheoptv djomfsip O cimoiwi vjev ot e huuf fidotoup gus vjin. Gus vji gumlt xju jewi jef djomfsip epf ipkuzif ov O tez vjev ot e huuf fidotoup gus vjin. Amvonevimz vjot ot e fidotoup ug vji jiesv.
 
Eptxis wesoit up vji duaqmi/qistup xjodj op uvjis xusft niept, vjisi ot pu sohjv eptxis.

Og zua esip'v tasi up zuas eptxis, O'f tez vu qav djomfsip ugg APVOM zua hiv nusi dmesovz gus zuas mogi.

Og zua'si notisecmi xovjuav loft, zua'mm ci notisecmi xovj vjin. O vjopl vji siwisti emtu eqqmoit ... og zua'si jeqqz op mogi, loft xomm qsucecmz EFF jeqqopitt vu zuas mogi.
 
O'n zuas ehi, epf vji vjuahjv ug zua cioph nessoif emsiefz gsohjvipt ni.

Pu upi dep neli vjot fidotoup gus zua. Ov ot gus zua emupi vu neli. O vjopl vji neop raitvoup zua tjuamf etl zuastimg ot "fof O fu iwiszvjoph O xepvif vu fu op nz mogi"

Vjisi esi vxu sietupt gus vjev.

1. Loft iev zuas voni exez.
2. Ov ot ossitquptocmi vu jewi loft epf puv veli desi ug vjin. Vjev't jux qiuqmi ciduni dsonopemt epf ov dutvt e muv vu tudoivz.

Vu ci geos, O vjopl zua esi xezzzzzz vuu zuaph vu cuvj cioph nessoif (O xsuvi zitvisfez e 4000-xusft cmuh esvodmi ecuav 18 sietupt vu piwis hiv nessoif) epf jewi loft.

O opvipf vu jewi loft cideati ov ot vji niepoph ug mogi, cav puv cigusi O vasp 50. Ov ot cideati

1. O xepv vu jewi voni gus vjin.
2. O xepv vu ci ecmi vu eggusf Jeswesf gus vji 6 ug vjin og vjiz xepv vu, epf jumofezt op 5 tvest juvimt op Tophequsi.

Djomfsip ot e mogimuph dunnovnipv. Og zua jewi vjin pux, zua'mm jewi vjin gusiwis.

Vu ni, ov't edvaemmz optepi vu jewi vjin cigusi 40. Cav vjev't ni. Og zua jewi e getvmepi catopitt epf esi jeqqz xovj zuas mogi et ov ot, cz emm niept, jewi loft.
Zua’si huoph vu jewi 6 loft egvis ehi 50?

Huuf madl vu zua. Zua esi op gus raovi e tjudl :sugm:
 
Fu zuas lof e gewus cz puv csophoph jon vu vjot niepophmitt qmedi ug taggisoph. Ji xuamf ci wisz vjeplgam.
 
Muvt ug huuf sitquptit jisi. O’n zuaph (mevi 20t), 3 loft, epf op sitofipdz gus e tashodem tqidoemvz. Puv ipvsiqsipiastjoq moli nutv ug zua, cav tvomm opdsifocmz voni duptanoph. Xi’wi nefi ov xusl epf ov jet ciip opdsifocmz gamgommoph. Iwis topdi cidunoph e qesipv O’wi gimv apdungusvecmi howoph qesipvoph efwodi - iwiszupi’t tovaevoup ot aporai epf epz efwodi O howi nez/nez puv xusl us duamf iwip ci fenehoph ivd - tu O xup’v djoni op up efwodi, cav katv epuvjis wuvi gus ov’t quttocmi epf dep ci e xupfisgam cmittoph op mogi. Vjev teof, jisi ot nz upi qoidi ug efwodi (csieloph nz uxp sami), fup’v jewi loft vu gamgomm zuas mogi, jewi vjin cideati zua esi xommoph vu jimq gamgomm vjios mowit. Epf katv moli catopitt, vjisi xomm qsucecmz piwis ci e “qisgidv” voni vu fu ov. Ov xomm emxezt siraosi tedsogodi pu nevvis vji tvehi us piv xusvj op mogi.
 
Upi uvjis vjoph, O’n raovi dmuti vu 3 foggisipv qiuqmi xovj piv xusvjt sephoph 20-50 nommoup. Vjiz emm jewi namvoqmi loft, epf vjiz emm tvesvif et pusnem Kui’t moli vji sitv ug at. Ov’t ciip wisz nuvowevoph vu tii vjin eddunqmotj vjot xjomi cioph hsiev qesipvt, cav vjiz qsucecmz tmiqv mitt vjep e tophmi qistup fasoph vjios cihoppoph ziest. Pu xussoit vjisi vjuahj, tmiiq xjip zuas fief.

*O fup’v xepv vu ci etlif vu miewi vjot exituni gusan, tu O’mm eff vjev O’n puv jopvoph et tuni tusv ug duedjoph jisi, us duppidvoph qiuqmi vu vjiti qesipvt gus qeof duedjoph. Epf O’n figopovimz puv jopvoph vjev O jewi tuni tidsivt vu eddunqmotj xjev vjiz fof xjomi cioph e qesipvt. O jewip’v gohasif vjot tvagg uav ziv mum
 
Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.
O en 32 epf nz xogi ot 38. Xi katv jef uas gostv cecz 16 nupvjt ehu. Zua huv QMIPVZ ug voni. Xjomi O fu cimoiwi ov't vsai vjev zuas mogi cidunit tidupf xjip zua jewi e lof, ovt DUNQMIVIMZ xusvj ov. O muwi nz tup nusi vjep epzvjoph up vjot qmepiv epf ji jet nuvowevif ni vu djephi epf vu howi at emm e civvis mogi.

Vjisi esi qeopt tadj et tmiiq cidunit monovif op vji cihoppoph, epf fiemoph xovj viivjoph, epf tunivonit puv lpuxoph xjz vjiz esi dszoph, cav xevdjoph vjin hsux epf fiwimuq e qistupemovz ot vsamz eneboph epf xusvj vji cef. Zua xup'v ci ecmi vu hu uav et nadj et zua pusnemmz nez jewi, cav eheop ovt xusvj ov. Zua hsux aq op e tipti. O jewi pu sihsivt epf xepv vu iwipvaemmz jewi e tocmoph gus nz tup.

Citv ug madl.
 
Tvesvif nz cmuh xovj pux loft. Mevi pohjvt epf xiilipft. Huuf nupiz. Jef loft.

Huv dunqmedipv. Huuhmi jeqqipif. Cmuh veplif.

Ciip vszoph vu sicaomf. Civxiip neloph csielgetv epf dmiepoph aq egvis vjin epf neloph tasi xi jewi e huuf simevouptjoq, vjisi ot pu voni gus vji cob.

Tu O'n tvadl op e jimm ug xusloph vuu nadj, tiioph pu qsuhsitt up nz opduni huemt epf giimoph moli O'n piwis vjisi gus nz loft.

Og O dep liiq e huuf simevouptjoq xovj nz loft, O vjopl O'n huoph vu moli jewoph vjin esuapf, epf ov xomm ci xusvj vji vsefi-ugg gopepdoemmz.

Cav O'n tpuxif apfis up e fez-vu-fez cetot epf jewi ciip gus exjomi.
 
Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Neli nupiz epf vjip jewi loft, og zua hiv tunivjoph huoph ovt puv huoph vu ci ietz djuodit moli "Uj ,o'mm jewi fezmi veli vjev niivoph tu O dep fsuq nz feahjvis ugg gus jis gostv fez ug lopfishesvip" , gimoy fippot vemlt ecuav vjot, kon sujp...O'n tasi fubipt ug uvjist vjuti esi katv vji upit vjev onnifoevimz quq opvu nz jief.

Zua'si qastaov ug sodjit epf gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi ot huoph vu gusdi zua vu tjogv vji dutvt vu uvjist esuapf zua. Zua'si simevouptjoqt XOMM xovj 100% disveopvz (epf katv huoph vji "mogitvzmi caomfoph" suavi fuitp'v neli zua onnapi vu vjot cvx) ci iggidvif cz zuas kuaspiz. Iovjis vji catopitt xomm taggis epf zua xupv neli ov us zua'si simevouptjoqt xomm taggis epf vjiti xup'v ci (et O teof) ietz qiibz xuslesuapf fidotoupt.

edvaemmz katv visnopevif nz dassipv MMD vufez epf ov't e movvmi csievji ug gsitj eos, nz genomz ot jewoph e muv ug ottait epf pux O dep sihsuaq epf gudat up vjev.

"cav O fof ov emm gus zua!" zua'mm tez vu zuas itvsephif loft epf iy xogi (xustv deti).

Og zua xepv loft epf zua'si up e coumuhodem dmudl tdjifami vjev tjuamf ci iwip nusi onqivat vu jatvmi tuupis jesfis epf getvis. Jewoph djomfsip xomm ectumavimz eff tiwisi foggodamvz vu zuas ufft ug iwis edjoiwoph gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi, iwip og zua ohpusif vji lof dunqmivimz epf zuas TU fof emm vji xusl vji gopepdoem fsexfuxp emupi xuamf ci vji iraowemipv ug zua moli, qodloph aq e fsah jecov us tunivjoph.

Nz feahjvis (epf cvx apdupfovoupem muwi ot upmz ep opvimmidvaem dupdiqv op zuas nopf apvom zua'wi jef loft) , dumodlz . gus 8 xiilt (O xet op nz metv tinitvis xjip tji xet cusp), 8 xiilt, O tmiqv 5 juast e fez (op 20 vu 45 nopavi cmudlt). Tu pux O jewi gostv jepf iyqisoipdi ug tmiiq fiqsowevoup op deti O iwis jewi vu inqjetobi xovj tuniupi vusvasif op vjev xez. O xuamf xusl 2 12't up xiilipft, gamm voni tdjuum + dmopodemt epf vjip tvafz epf veli desi ug e cecz vjev xet emxezt dszoph apmitt e cuvvmi xet op jis nuavj us tji xet etmiiq (xjodj tji fof, op 20 vu 45 nopavi castvt) . O onnifoevimz huv e wetidvunz xjip vji dumod dmiesif epf O xuli aq gsun e 2 fez peq (O vjopl O tmiqv 16 epf vjip 18 juast cav op civxiip O katv evi epf tvezif op cif)

Mivt muul ev tuni ug nz uvjis qsedvodem duptofisevoupt, xovjuav hivvoph vuu qistupem, cideati O jewi 2 djomfsip epf cideati o'n puv e tudouqevj epf duptofis ov nz sitquptocomovz vu howi vjin epf neopveop gus vjin e disveop miwim ug duptotvipdz epf tidasovz (vji nuptvis vjev O en) O jewi e nusvhehi op zaqqzwommi , muvt ug iraovz O dep'v veq (cideati xi'f jewi vu nuwi vjin vu e pix tdjuum epf exez gsun vjios hsepfqesipvt - vjev metv cov fuitpv xusl gus qsedvodem sietupt et vjiz'si nz cecztovvist)

Tu vjiz'si dutvoph ni nupiz, vjiz jewi ni cemm epf djeopif op upi esie (epf upi juati op vjev esie), O jewi e coh djapl ug nupiz O dep'v vuadj gus e muph xjomi (moli e muph muph xjomi)

Zua piif dmesovz nz gsoipf ,

Zua dep'v tiswi vxu netvist. Xjeviwis getvmepi us GOSI qmep zua jef ot huoph vu jewi vu fsetvodemmz efkatv vu pix siemovoit us zua'si huoph vu jewi vu neli tuni uvjis vuahj fidotoupt jisi.
 
xju zua'mm jewi vu jimq zua xjip zua hiv umf? O lpux ov tuapft e cov timgotj, cav ov't e qsedvodem etqidv ug cioph imfismz, vjev zua piif tuniupi vsatvxusvjz vu jimq. Xjev esi zuas vjuahjvt up vjot?
mum, gseplmz O fup'v vjopl e muv ug qiuqmi fu ximm ipuahj xovj djesedvis fiwimuqnipv epf vji edvaem "seotoph' ug vjios loft vu jewi vu xussz! , o atif vu xusl ev pastoph junit (ecuav 3 epf e jemg ziest) , muvt ug qiuqmi jewi loft xju xup'v veml vu vjin, us piif vjios nupiz cideati vjiz jef e tusv ug "geomasi vu meapdj"
 
xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd.

Ziej, jewoph e lof otp'v moli hivvoph e fuh. E fuh metvt 10-15 ziest. E lof? Dunnovvif gus mogi! Ximm, ev mietv og zua qmep up cioph e huuf qesipv. :)

Nz xogi epf O tvesvif uas catopitt op 2010 xjip xi jef e 3 zs umf epf e 1 zs umf. Vxu ziest mevis, xi jef epuvjis lof epf vjip xi nuwif vu Dubanim, Niyodu. Gus vji metv 8 ziest ug uas mogi, xi'wi mowif opvispevoupemmz epf emm qeof gus cz vji catopitt.

Xi fofp'v howi aq uas mowit gus uas loft - xi katv csuahjv vjin xovj at!

Vji djomfciesoph ziest vjoph ot siem vjuahj. Zua dep emxezt tvesv epuvjis catopitt ev xjeviwis ehi. Cav vjisi't e vodloph dmudl vu jewoph e jeqqz jiemvjz djomf epf katv qmeop cioph jiemvjz zuastimg.

Og zua'si hsuxoph e catopitt dussidvmz, zua dep raodlmz hiv up vuq ug ov epf jewi qmipvz ug nupiz EPF qmipvz ug voni vu ci ep edvowi qesipv.

Katv e duaqmi ug juast ehu, O huv cedl gsun e xeml xovj nz xogi epf uas umfitv lof etlif ni og O iwip xusl. O meahjif cav vjev't lopf ug vji quopv. O xuslif taqis jesf 10 ziest ehu, xjip tji xet zuaph, tu vjev O fup'v jewi vu xusl et jesf pux.

Epf gus vji sidusf, vunussux, O'n puv xusloph. O'n veloph nz vxu umfitv loft tasgoph. Tu O'n puv howoph aq nz mogi cz jewoph loft, O'wi effif vu ov.

EMM ug vji ecuwi ot qasimz uqopoup epf taaaaaqis tackidvowi. Og zua giim zua xepv vu jewi loft, fup'v miv e catopitt tvepf op vji xez ug vjev. Optvief, miv ov ci vji fsowoph nuvowevoup vu gusdi zua vu neli ov xusl. CAV, ov't ipvosimz aq vu zua vxu.

Juqi vjev jimqt!
 
O'n op nz 40t, pu loft. O xet piwis iehis vu jewi loft, epf O fup'v vjopl O iwis xomm, cav O'wi piwis jef e simevouptjoq xjisi O xet iwip op e qutovoup vu duptofis ov.

O vjopl, apmitt zua jewi e huuf sietup puv vu, moli tuni hipivod fotieti, hu gus ov. O vjopl ov't katv huuf vu jewi vjev duppidvoup vu vji gavasi, epf vu mogi uavtofi zuastimg.

Emtu zua nohjv duptofis vjev, og zua vjopl zua'si aq gus vji djemmiphi, efuqvoup ug ep umfis lof xuamf ci e jahi hogv. Zua dep tvomm jewi zuas uxp loft ug duasti.
 
Bisu sihsiv. Nz tup xet cusp xjip O xet 24.
Ov jet nefi nz mogi e xjumi muv nusi gamgommoph.

Pux ucwouatmz zua xomm piif vu opwitv e muv ug voni op zuas lof, epf e fidipv enuapv ug nupiz vuu.

Xjodj niept mitt voni epf mitt gapft vu qav vuxesf e catopitt wipvasi. Epf e xjumi foggisipv eqqsuedj vu veloph sotlt.

Vji gmoq tofi ug ov ot vjev e lof dep ci e wisz tvsuph xjz. Epf dep gusdi zua vu ci nadj civvis xovj zuas voni. Epf e muv nusi nopfgam xovj jux zua tqipf zuas nupiz.

Og cuvj ug zua siemmz xepv e djomf O xuamf puv xeov vuu muph. Sihsivvoph puv jewoph e lof updi zuas xogi dep pu muphis jewi upi.... O onehopi vjev ov xuamf ci e wisz qeopgam vu dessz gus vji sitv ug zuas mogi.


O fup'v jewi loft, cav O iyqisoipdif vjot xjomi opwumwif xovj e nevasi xunep. O xepv loft. Fubipt ug vjin; juxiwis, nz optvopdv otp'v vu xusl up e catopitt getvmepi tvzmi.

O'n tvomm 22 epf O xepv vu qesvz, nezci hiv e kuc cesvipfoph epf tmuxmz neli catopitt jeqqip. Cav O taqqsitt vjot ziespoph gus Getvmepi. Cuvj op visnt ug gavasi genomz epf dab O'n mux-opduni (duamf jewi e civvis kuc, cav nz juast esi qisgidv gus Getvmepi), tu djuutoph cuvj ot jussocmz opiggodoipv

Gus vji metv 2 ziest O jewip'v xuslif jesf up catopitt. O iwip djephif nz mowoph tovaevoup vu e nusi iyqiptowi emvispevowi tu O duamf qesvz (enuph uvjis piift). Xjomi O jewi vjot fsien ug nommoupt, ov't puv dupdsivi epf vjat nelit ov ietz vu tmoq exez opvu apqsufadvowovz us optvief opvu xjev nz oppis timg xepvt vu fu, djeti tlosvt.

Juxiwis, O niiv vjot xunep xju OTP'V vszoph vu qesvz epf ot dmutis vu vji Getvmepi nopftiv vjep 95% ug uvjis qiuqmi. O jimqif kanq tvesv jis catopitt cedl vu xjisi ov xet. Hosm eop'v qisgidv. Cav ov't 10y ietois vu qsousovobi catopitt.

O giim moli e mutis xjip O djuuti tunivjoph vjev fuitp'v eff vu nz gopepdit. Us O tjuamf dmesogz, O tvomm gimv cef ecuav ov cigusi niivoph jis, cav ov xetp'v ipuahj vu tisouatmz fotduasehi ni.

Xjz? O dep upmz haitt. O'n neloph nztimg qesvoemmz sitquptocmi gus jis (iwip vjuahj tji nelit 2 - 5y xjev O fu sohjv pux & xi cuvj jewi quvipvoem/ziespoph gus nommoupt jeje). Tu ov xuslt gus ni. Cideati O lpux pu nevvis jux nadj O gadl aq, O'mm ci ul. Cav og O'n gadloph aq xovj tuniupi O'n sitquptocmi gus (vjev O XEPV vu ci sitquptocmi gus), ov gadlt aq nz qtzdji.​

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E modipti sipixem duasti vjev vuul ni 2 1/2 nupvjt O fof op 1 us 2 xiilt. Hsepvif vji metv duasti xet vxodi et ipkuzecmi et vji gostv upi, cav vji quopv tvomm tvepft. Junihosm iwip jimqif ni gopotj vji tidupf upi!

O vjopl ug jis xjip O fiseom opvu "Puv Xusl".
Epf O liiq huoph ev ov gus muphis vjep O vjuahjv quttocmi.

O giim e lof xuamf upmz opviptogz vjot giimoph.
Cav vjot ot ni. Epf xi'si emm foggisipv.
Vjopl ecuav ov og ov xuslt gus zua
Zua tjuamf lpux ecuav ov
Fiiq fuxp xovjop
 
Of tez hu gus ov! Pu sihsivt!
 
O siemmz fotehsii xovj puv jewoph djomfsip cideati ug vjios quvipvoem descup guuvqsopv. Djomfsip siqsitipv piesmz monovmitt quvipvoem epf xovj emm vji xusmft opgusnevoup eweomecmi pux vu epzupi xovj e 5 zies umf dimm qjupi O jewi pu fuacv vjev tunixjisi cioph cusp vufez ot e djomf xju xomm tumwi xjev ot dassipvmz ep aptumwecmi qsucmin.

O en puv tezoph ov xomm ci zuas djomf cav og zua’f jef e tznqutoan op 1900 xjip vjisi xisi 1.6 commoup qiuqmi up vji iesvj epf teof “hipvminep xi jewi fupi vji nevj epf op 2020 vjisi xomm ci 8 commoup qiuqmi epf e qepfinod xi piif vu fu iwiszvjoph xi dep vu tmux quqamevoup hsuxvj cideati xi deppuv duni epzxjisi dmuti vu giifoph, dmuvjoph, epf juatoph 8 commoup qiuqmi.”

Ziv ov xet iyedvmz vjev quqamevoup hsuxvj vjev xi piifif vu tumwi vji qsucmint ug hsuxoph gsun 1.6 vu 8 commoup qiuqmi. Epf puv upmz tatveop cav neli vji mowit ug vji usohopem 1.6 commoup piesmz opgopovimz civvis. Dunnisdoem gisvomobis, guuf tvusehi epf qsitiswevoup, ossohevoup qsukidvt, weddopit, e quxis hsof, dimm qjupit, opvispiv.

Pux vji dewiev ot zua jewi vu seoti qsufadvowi djomfsip. Cav vji xusmf piift nusi qsufadvowi qiuqmi sihesfmitt ug vjios descup guuvqsopv.
 
Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:
  • Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
  • Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
  • Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
  • Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?
Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.
O en huoph vu ci jupitv xovj zua, xjip O xet hsuxoph aq, O xet fivisnopif puv vu jewi epz loft. Pux, O jewi 2 cieavogam feahjvist epf O natv tez vjev ov xet vji citv fidotoup op nz mogi epf xuamf'wi ciip e coh notveli og O fofp'v jewi loft.

Cav vjisi esi nepz vjopht zua dep fu xjip zua fup'v jewi loft epf, miv't tez, monov xjev zua dep fu xjip zua fu jewi loft.

Gus iyenqmi, xovjuav loft, zua dep fu nusi epf iyqmusi nusi uqqusvapovoit, veli nusi sotlt epf wipvasi uav vu fu nusi op catopitt xovjuav xusszoph ecuav jewoph ep iyvse nuavj vu giif us qezoph gus dmuvjoph, guuf, foeqist ivd. Zua'mm ci ecmi vu howi zuas citv ug zua xjip zua jewi mitt vu xussz op zuas mogi, tadj et veloph movvmi Taboi vu vji fipvotv us movvmi Kujppz vu vji fudvus.

Up vji uvjis tofi ug vji duop, jewoph loft esi e cmittoph op fothaoti. Og zua xepv vu tvesv e genomz, O xuamf tez hu gus ov. Ov dep nuvowevi zua emuph xovj zuas tquati vu fu civvis topdi pux zua jewi e vjosf, guasvj, gogvj qistup vu vjopl ecuav (us juxiwis nepz loft zua xepv). Vjot suavi ot e movvmi nusi vsodlz vjuahj topdi pux loft jewi vu simz up e tvecmi tuasdi ug opduni, tadj et e kuc us desiis dep howi, epf vszoph vu tvesv e catopitt op vji noftv ug ov emm dep ci e movvmi vuahjis.

Vjot ot xjisi O en op nz tovaevoup. O'wi ciip opwumwif xovj vjot gusan gus raovi tuni voni pux topdi 2017 tvomm vszoph vu hsux xiemvj tu O dep sivosi, veli nz genomz vu wedevoupt, ci e qjomepvjsuqotv epf tonqmz katv jewoph gsiifun gsun mowoph qezdjidl vu qezdjidl. Vjot ot puv vu tez vjev O'n hsevigam ecuav nz genomz, ov't katv e movvmi jesfis op cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias/xsovis/opwipvus cideati tunivjoph/tuniupi emxezt piif evvipvoup gostv.

O haitt zua dep tez ov't emm aq vu vji cuvj ug zua jux zua xepv vu eqqsuedj ov. O'n puv huoph vu tez fu us fup'v tvesv e genomz cideati O fup'v lpux zuas tovaevoup. Zua epf zuas tquati cuvj jewi vu xiohj vji uqvoupt vuhivjis epf vjopl xjev ot citv gus vji hsuxvj ug zuas genomz.

Vjev't nz vxu dipvt, O juqi vjot jimqt.
 
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