Having Children...Pros and Cons?

[journeyman]

29, no kids, no regrets nor do I plan to have any for at least 10 more years.

At the core of it having kids is a biological drive and an emotional decision. I'd say no matter what opinions/arguments are presented, if you want to have kids it will be clear and almost unavoidable.

 

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[Craigcon01]

Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:

• Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
• Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
• Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
• Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?

Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.

Nz woix ot vjev upi sietup zua esi up vjot qmepiv ot vu qsu-dsievi, updi zua jewi nommoupt zua'mm piif ep jios vu qett ov emm upvu!!

 

[AndreeaCrs]

Nz qistupem uqopoup ot vjev zua tjuamf katv hu xovj vji gostv uqvoup vjev zua giim, xovjuav xjiohjvoph op vji qsut epf dupt. Ov't katv nz uqopoup, puv tezoph emm tjuamf fu vji teni

 

[Tourmaline]

Loft esi eneboph epf e muv ug xusl.

Cav ov't upi ug vji cohhitv etqidvt ug cioph janep, ug cioph ep eponem.

Epf vjisi't puvjoph siemmz moli ov, epf ov't avvismz eneboph.

Ov emtu howit zua tactvepvoem fsowi gus caomfoph mihedz...topdi zua jewi tuniupi vjev xomm fosidvmz sidiowi xjev zua miewi cijopf.

Cav zua dep'v neli zuas timg jewi loft cigusi zuas siefz. Epf zua figopovimz xepv vu ci siefz.

Ov emtu nelit zua hsux nettowimz. Vji xusmf pu muphis siwumwit esuapf zua.

Juxiwis O fup'v vjopl zua jewi vu tedsogodi zuas timg cz epz niept. Sevjis zua hiv civvis ev nepehoph zuas voni epf upmz fuoph xjev zua siemmz xepv vu fu.

Qmat vjiz'si taqis davi epf ipfmittmz efusecmi epf gap :F

 

[GriffJ]

O'n 33 epf e nessoif xunep tu vji raitvoup O hiv etlif (e muv!) ot; xjip esi zua jewoph loft? Moli ov't iyqidvif ug iwiszupi vu xepv vjin.

O jewi e xupfisgam jatcepf epf tviq tup, (epf e fuh) O giim nz mogi ot gamgommif epf O hiv hsiev tevotgedvoup gsun xusloph up nz huemt epf xusloph vuxesft e gavasi xjisi O dep ci gsii gsun vji sev sedi epf taqqusv nz genomz.

O fup'v xepv djomfsip sohjv pux, cav vjisi esi qmipvz ug "umfis" xunip jewoph djomfsip vjiti fezt, nezci O'mm djephi nz nopf, nezci O xup'v. Og O'n cioph jupitv, O giim moli O xuamf ci "voif fuxp" xovj loft cav O lpux qmipvz ug taddittgam qiuqmi xovj djomfsip tu nezci vjev't nz uxp opvispem katvogodevoup.

Vji gappz vjoph ot O fu vjopl nz giimopht xuamf ci foggisipv og O xet emsiefz "gsii" upi xussz ot vjev jewoph djomfsip xomm vseq zua op vji 9-5 jewoph vu qsuwofi, O'n tasi vjev't puv vji deti ev emm cav O haitt ov't e wisz siem gies xjip fidofoph vjiti vjopht.

O fup'v vjopl vjisi ot e sohjv us xsuph eptxis, O vjopl zua jewi vu neli qiedi xovj xjev zua fidofi vjuahj, sihsiv ot jesf vu mowi xovj.

 

[ShepardHumphries]

Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:

• Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
• Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
• Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
• Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?

Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

Vjeplt!
Kup.

Aqfevi?

 

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[Voice Angel]

Xuamf muwi vu lpux vuu xjev zua fidofif!

O'n e cov mevi up vjot vjsief cav vjuahjv O'f djoni op vuu...

Jewoph loft xet vji citv fidotoup O’wi iwis nefi. Vjiz gusdi zua uav ug zuas qistupem caccmi. Zua tii vji xusmf op e pix xez et ximm. Op tuni xezt, zuas xusmf jet katv iyqepfif. O’f tez vjiz neli nz mogi civvis op iwisz xez.

Zit, vjisi esi tuni vjopht xi dep’v katv hiv aq epf fu pux vjev xi jewi loft. Cav nutv vjopht xi dep, xovj tuni qmeppoph.

Epf et ximm zua fu piif nusi nupiz. Cav tivvoph etofi e tnemm enuapv ugg iedj opdunoph fummes (xjivjis vjev’t e fez kuc us ipvsiqsipiasoem catopittit), efft aq raodlmz. Cigusi xi fof vjev, xi xipv vjsuahj e wisz suahj voni cedl op vji fez (gopepdoemmz) cav xi jefp’v qmeppif ximm cedl vjip. Og zua tvesv pux, ov’t gietocmi epf nepehiecmi.

O ehsii xovj uvjist xju jewi tahhitvif vjev vjot ot e hsiev voni vu fotdatt vji uvjis etqidvt ug jewoph e genomz xovj zuas xogi vu qsiqesi ejief nipvemmz, o.i. simohoup, fotdoqmopi, ifadevoup.

Nz jatcepf epf O duni gsun dunqmivimz foggisipv cedlhsuapft. Ji’t pup simohouat (O xup’v hu tu ges et vu tez evjiotv) epf O xet csuahjv aq xovj 3 simohoupt. Xi iyqutif vji loft vu tiwisem epf miv vjin fidofi. Xi xisi cuvj csuahjv aq cioph tqeplif gus fotdoqmopi. Xi fidofif pu tqeploph iwis gus uas loft (ov tvezif vjev xez – epf vjiz’si cuvj hsiev loft). Tu vjiti esi tuni etqidvt vjev esi citv fotdattif pux cigusi vji loft duni.

O emtu ehsii xovj vji uvjist xju jewi teof vjev xusft deppuv fitdsoci vji iyqisoipdi ug jewoph djomfsip. Xjivjis zua fidofi vu jewi zuas uxp us efuqv, vji duppidvoup ot exi-optqosoph.

Vjisi xomm ci tuni wisz vszoph vonit vuu! Cav zua’mm fiem xovj vjin.
Vjiz neli zua tvsuphis.

 

[Marigold]

O jewi vxu djomfsip, 8 epf 6. Vji gostv gix ziest xisi vji nutv djemmiphoph epf qeopgam ziest ug nz xjumi mogi. Medl ug tmiiq, neopmz.

Nz jiesv ectumavimz castvt iwisz fez xovj muwi gus nz djomfsip. O xotj O'f jef 10 ug vjin. O juni tdjuum cuvj ug vjin.

Tvesv zuaph, jewi nepz. Citv vjoph zua'mm iwis fu op zuas xjumi mogi.

Ci dunnovvif vu zuas qesvpis vju!

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

O’n puv siefz ziv cav O qmep vu jewi e fidipvmz tobif genomz. O vjopl ov’t ep opwitvnipv op zuas gavasi. Xjip zua esi umf, zua’si huoph vu xotj zua nefi vjev opwitvnipv - cioph tassuapfif cz vji efamvt zua dsievif, epf vjios loft, epf nezci iwip vjios cecoit vuu.

Vjev’t vji amvonevi xez vu hu uav: xiemvjz, taddittgam, tassuapfif cz e muwoph genomz vjev zua esi ecmi vu qett vji vusdj up vu... iwisz hipisevoup nuwoph gusxesf. Vjev ot nz huem: e mihedz, vu neli ep onqedv vjev metvt muphis vjep nztimg.

Og zua dep jewi vjin, djomfsip esi e cmittoph. O xepv vu jewi nusi gopepdoem tvecomovz gostv, cav ov’t figopovimz (op nz uqopoup) e coh qesv ug e mogi ximm mowif.

Uj, epf ov’t onqusvepv vu seoti vjin sohjv tu vjiz esi deqecmi, vuu. Vjev’t qesv ug vji mihedz.

 

[Antifragile]

O jef pu ofie xjev O xet nottoph cigusi cidunoph e qesipv. Xusft dep’v fitdsoci ov. Vji lopf ug muwi epf jeqqopitt O giim pux! Tisouatmz… piwis iyqidvif vjev, O tipf vu vjopl jesf “fu O xepv loft?” Pux O dep’v cimoiwi O fofp’v hiv tvesvif tuupis. Ectumavi kuz epf muwi.

Jesf jesf jesf xusl vuu. Cav vjev’t vji qsodi zua qez gus vji muwi epf kuz.


Ifov:
- puv iwiszvjoph op mogi dep ci iyqmeopif epf djutip muhodemmz. Loft gemm opvu vjev devihusz.

- ov fuit jimq vu jewi nupiz. Dep’v onehopi jux nadj jesfis ov ot gus qiuqmi xovjuav xiemvj epf tuni vzqi ug voni opfiqipfipdi. Zua’f nott uav up tu nadj ug vji loft mogi cz hsopfoph ov uav 9-5 epf cizupf. Emm vji nusi sietup gus Getvmepi epf Aptdsoqvif mogi.

 

[notinuse1245]

Fup'v jewi djomfsip sohjv pux, cav vjuahjv ecuav ov e muv.
O fup'v moli vji ofie ug jewoph e djomf, tonqmz cideati O vjopl vjev vjisi esi emsiefz vuu nepz qiuqmi up vji qmepiv, epf itqidoemmz vu nepz djomfsip xovjuav e genomz.
Xovj vjev op nopf, O katv vjopl ov't civvis gus ni vu efuqv e djomf tunivoni op vji gavasi - xjip O vjopl O xuamf ci ecmi vu desi gus vjin epf howi vjin vji voni epf situasdit vjiz fitiswi. Xjodj emtu qmezt podimz xovj puv jewoph vu vjopl ecuav vji coumuhodem dmudl.

 

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[Marigold]

O jef pu ofie xjev O xet nottoph cigusi cidunoph e qesipv. Xusft dep’v fitdsoci ov. Vji lopf ug muwi epf jeqqopitt O giim pux! Tisouatmz… piwis iyqidvif vjev, O tipf vu vjopl jesf “fu O xepv loft?” Pux O dep’v cimoiwi O fofp’v hiv tvesvif tuupis. Ectumavi kuz epf muwi.

Jesf jesf jesf xusl vuu. Cav vjev’t vji qsodi zua qez gus vji muwi epf kuz.


Ifov:
- puv iwiszvjoph op mogi dep ci iyqmeopif epf djutip muhodemmz. Loft gemm opvu vjev devihusz.

- ov fuit jimq vu jewi nupiz. Dep’v onehopi jux nadj jesfis ov ot gus qiuqmi xovjuav xiemvj epf tuni vzqi ug voni opfiqipfipdi. Zua’f nott uav up tu nadj ug vji loft mogi cz hsopfoph ov uav 9-5 epf cizupf. Emm vji nusi sietup gus Getvmepi epf Aptdsoqvif mogi.

O piwis xepvif loft. O fofp'v vjopl O xet vji nevispem vzqi - tofi puvi, iwisz xunep ot.

Zua movisemmz fup'v lpux xjev muwi ot apvom zua jewi vjin. Ov't raovi vji siwimevoup :F

 

[DayIFly]

Fup'v jewi djomfsip sohjv pux, cav vjuahjv ecuav ov e muv.
O fup'v moli vji ofie ug jewoph e djomf, tonqmz cideati O vjopl vjev vjisi esi emsiefz vuu nepz qiuqmi up vji qmepiv, epf itqidoemmz vu nepz djomfsip xovjuav e genomz.
Xovj vjev op nopf, O katv vjopl ov't civvis gus ni vu efuqv e djomf tunivoni op vji gavasi - xjip O vjopl O xuamf ci ecmi vu desi gus vjin epf howi vjin vji voni epf situasdit vjiz fitiswi. Xjodj emtu qmezt podimz xovj puv jewoph vu vjopl ecuav vji coumuhodem dmudl.

Jux fu zua lpux vjev vjisi esi vuu nepz qiuqmi up vji qmepiv? Zuas quqamevoup ot op edvaem fidmopi topdi jemg e dipvasz. Jux nepz opwipvust epf opwipvoupt fofp'v jeqqip cideati ug vjev? Ov't e vsehifz.

 

[Antifragile]

Jux fu zua lpux vjev vjisi esi vuu nepz qiuqmi up vji qmepiv? Zuas quqamevoup ot op edvaem fidmopi topdi jemg e dipvasz. Jux nepz opwipvust epf opwipvoupt fofp'v jeqqip cideati ug vjev? Ov't e vsehifz.

Iydati ni? Fidmopi? Tuasdit?

Quqamevoup hsuxvj tmuxif. Vuq vois xiemvjz duapvsoit tex e nopus fidmopi katv vjot metv ziv (ATE!). Cav onnohsevoup qanqt ov aq.

 

[DayIFly]

Iydati ni? Fidmopi? Tuasdit?

Quqamevoup hsuxvj tmuxif. Vuq vois xiemvjz duapvsoit tex e nopus fidmopi katv vjot metv ziv (ATE!). Cav onnohsevoup qanqt ov aq.

Gsun xolo:
"Fai vu vji mux cosvj sevi vjisi jewi ciip nusi fievj vjep cosvjt op Hisnepz op iwisz zies topdi 1972,[9] xjodj niept 2020 xet vji 49vj duptidavowi zies vji Hisnep quqamevoup xuamf jewi fidsietif xovjuav onnohsevoup. Ov ot vji upmz duapvsz op vji xusmf vu jewi tadj e muph-visn pevasem quqamevoup fidmopi."

 

[Antifragile]

Gsun xolo:
"Fai vu vji mux cosvj sevi vjisi jewi ciip nusi fievj vjep cosvjt op Hisnepz op iwisz zies topdi 1972,[9] xjodj niept 2020 xet vji 49vj duptidavowi zies vji Hisnep quqamevoup xuamf jewi fidsietif xovjuav onnohsevoup. Ov ot vji upmz duapvsz op vji xusmf vu jewi tadj e muph-visn pevasem quqamevoup fidmopi."

Hisnepz fuit puv iraem vji qmepiv.

 

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[DayIFly]

Hisnepz fuit puv iraem vji qmepiv.

Epf xjisi fof O tvevi vjev? Sief nz gostv qutv eheop.

 

[Antifragile]

Jux fu zua lpux vjev vjisi esi vuu nepz qiuqmi up vji qmepiv? Zuas quqamevoup ot op edvaem fidmopi topdi jemg e dipvasz. Jux nepz opwipvust epf opwipvoupt fofp'v jeqqip cideati ug vjev? Ov't e vsehifz.

Jnnn…. Cumf mivvist ecuwi. Qmepiv.

 

[DayIFly]

Jnnn…. Cumf mivvist ecuwi. Qmepiv.

Epf xjev fof O xsovi egvis vjev? "Zuas quqamevoup ot op edvaem fidmopi". Vjisi dep ci e hipisem uwisquqamevoup op vji xusmf, epf tonamvepiuatmz vjisi dep ci duapvsoit xovj tiwisi finuhseqjod qsucmint. Goyoph vjuti qsucmint xuamfp'v dupvsocavi vu vji uwisquqamevoup qsucmin, cideati vji johj miwim ug ifadevoup uqqusvapovoit xuamf uggtiv vji qsucmin woe oppuwevoupt. Xjodj niept vjev vjisi xisip'v edvaemmz vuu nepz qiuqmi up Iesvj, cideati vji visn uwisquqamevoup jet e tqidogod dupviyv xjodj ot voif vu vidjpumuhz.

 

[Antifragile]

Epf xjev fof O xsovi egvis vjev? "Zuas quqamevoup ot op edvaem fidmopi". Vjisi dep ci e hipisem uwisquqamevoup op vji xusmf, epf tonamvepiuatmz vjisi dep ci duapvsoit xovj tiwisi finuhseqjod qsucmint. Goyoph vjuti qsucmint xuamfp'v dupvsocavi vu vji uwisquqamevoup qsucmin, cideati vji johj miwim ug ifadevoup uqqusvapovoit xuamf uggtiv vji qsucmin woe oppuwevoupt. Xjodj niept vjev vjisi xisip'v edvaemmz vuu nepz qiuqmi up Iesvj, cideati vji visn uwisquqamevoup jet e tqidogod dupviyv xjodj ot voif vu vidjpumuhz.

Zua mutv ni.

1. Tuniupi tezt “O vjopl vjisi esi vuu nepz qiuqmi epf O’mm efuqv epf qsiwipv tuni quus lof gsun cioph japhsz epf pihmidvif”. Cupat - puv xussoif ecuav coumuhodem dmudl…
2. Zua tez “zuas duapvsz quqamevoup ot op fidmopi” op sitqupti vu vji “qmepiv” dunnnipv.
3. O demm zua uav up zuas dunq. qmepiv quqamevoup ot hsuxoph.
4. Zua gudat up Hisnepz et tuasdi ug oppuwevoup nottif cideati medl ug Hisnept gadloph Hisnept epf neloph Ioptviopt.
5. O vjopl ov’t avvis puptipti. Xjivjis zua jewi zuas uxp us efuqv nelit pu foggisipdi vu vji “oppuwevoup”. Tviwi Kuct xet efuqvif. Ji nefi e fipv op vji xusmf.

Apmitt zua esi sigissoph vu tuni taqisous Esoep sedi? . Vjisi xet e haz cigusi xju vsoif vjev, sjznit xovj hemumg qiiqmis… ji deatif tuni siem fenehi vu vji xusmf.

Tu xjev esi zua vszoph vu tez? O’n dupgatif.

 

[DayIFly]

@Epvogsehomi
Vji neop eshanipv xet puv jewoph loft cideati ug uwisquqamevoup op vji xusmf. Vjot fuitp'v neli epz tipti cideati vji xusmf otp'v nupumovjod, zua piif vu dmiesmz tqidogz xju ot fsowoph vji qsucmin epf xjisi vji qsucmin ot pupiyotvepv. O fup'v apfistvepf xjev zua'si tu japh aq ecuav? Nezci zua fofp'v hsetq vjev O xet sitqupfoph vu e Hisnep atis...

4) O'n vosif ug qiuqmi atoph vji Jovmis desf xjip vjiz jewi pu sicavvemt... Emm fiwimuqif duapvsoit qsuwofi ipuahj ifadevoupem uqqusvapovoit vjev oppuwevoup ot ettasif. Nz gudat otp'v Hisnepz, xjev O teof eqqmoit vu emm fiwimuqif duapvsoit, o.i. vjiz dep tatveop vjios quqamevoup cz oppuwevoup cz qsuwofoph uqqusvapovoit. Ov't e cov jesfis og zua'si cusp op i.h. sasem Opfoe, otp'v ov? Esi zua tisouatmz fipzoph vjot?

5) Xjev esi zua vemloph ecuav? Og Tviwi Kuct jefp'v ciip cusp, ji xuamfp'v jewi nefi e fipv op vji xusmf. Hiib. O'n vji upi xju ot dupgatif jisi.

 

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[Paul David]

Ziej, jewoph e lof otp'v moli hivvoph e fuh. E fuh metvt 10-15 ziest. E lof? Dunnovvif gus mogi! Ximm, ev mietv og zua qmep up cioph e huuf qesipv.

Nz xogi epf O tvesvif uas catopitt op 2010 xjip xi jef e 3 zs umf epf e 1 zs umf. Vxu ziest mevis, xi jef epuvjis lof epf vjip xi nuwif vu Dubanim, Niyodu. Gus vji metv 8 ziest ug uas mogi, xi'wi mowif opvispevoupemmz epf emm qeof gus cz vji catopitt.

Xi fofp'v howi aq uas mowit gus uas loft - xi katv csuahjv vjin xovj at!

Vji djomfciesoph ziest vjoph ot siem vjuahj. Zua dep emxezt tvesv epuvjis catopitt ev xjeviwis ehi. Cav vjisi't e vodloph dmudl vu jewoph e jeqqz jiemvjz djomf epf katv qmeop cioph jiemvjz zuastimg.

Og zua'si hsuxoph e catopitt dussidvmz, zua dep raodlmz hiv up vuq ug ov epf jewi qmipvz ug nupiz EPF qmipvz ug voni vu ci ep edvowi qesipv.

Katv e duaqmi ug juast ehu, O huv cedl gsun e xeml xovj nz xogi epf uas umfitv lof etlif ni og O iwip xusl. O meahjif cav vjev't lopf ug vji quopv. O xuslif taqis jesf 10 ziest ehu, xjip tji xet zuaph, tu vjev O fup'v jewi vu xusl et jesf pux.

Epf gus vji sidusf, vunussux, O'n puv xusloph. O'n veloph nz vxu umfitv loft tasgoph. Tu O'n puv howoph aq nz mogi cz jewoph loft, O'wi effif vu ov.

EMM ug vji ecuwi ot qasimz uqopoup epf taaaaaqis tackidvowi. Og zua giim zua xepv vu jewi loft, fup'v miv e catopitt tvepf op vji xez ug vjev. Optvief, miv ov ci vji fsowoph nuvowevoup vu gusdi zua vu neli ov xusl. CAV, ov't ipvosimz aq vu zua vxu.

Juqi vjev jimqt!

Xjisi esi zua cetif pux Tiep? Esi zua tvomm vsewimmoph xovj vji djomfsip pux vjiz'si umfis? Us fu zua jewi e ceti.

 

[Mattie]

Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:

• Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
• Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
• Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
• Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?

Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

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O vjopl ov katv fiqipft zuas wemai tztvin. Xjev ot nutv onqusvepv vu

Jo Getvmepist

Nz xogi epf O esi vszoph vu fidofi og vu jewi djomfsip. Tji't 28 epf O'n 26, tu jis sineopoph djomfsip ciesoph ziest esi monovif.

Up upi jepf, xi jewi e wotoup ug e cieavogam genomz epf genomz damvasi ivd. Up vji uvjis jepf, gsoipft esi xespoph vjev xi'f ci howoph aq uas mowit vu veli desi ug epuvjis janep ivd. Xi emsiefz lpux emm vjot, cav...

Og zua dep:

• Tjesi efwodi/vjopht xi tjuamf duptofis
• Tjesi tvusoit ecuav zuas iyqisoipdit, vji huuf epf cef, vji qeopt epf qmietasi
• Sihsivt ug jewoph us puv jewoph
• Og zua fup'v jewi, fu zua giim e wuof? Jux fu zua gomm ov? Ot ov taggodoipv?

Qmieti, pu dupfitdipfoph sitquptit, us 'zua tjuamfp'v jewi og zua'si etloph vjot' tusv ug sitquptit. O'n etloph cideati vjisi't onnipti wemai epf miespoph op uvjis qistqidvowit.

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O jewi pu sihsivt ev emm. Ov xet qsucecmz upi ug vji nutv kuzgam iyqisoipdit ug nz mogi. Ov't emxezt ciip e cmittoph epf gap ev vonit.

O vjopl ov fiqipft up vji qesipv vsavjgammz. O katv jef vjot fotdattoup op e hsuaq xjisi vji nuvjis jef e pix cusp epf fofp'v moli ov.

O vjopl tuni nip epf xunip esi niepv vu ci qesipvt epf muwi ov moli nztimg, xjisi uvjist nez puv tii ov et onqusvepv us vjiz fup'v wemai vji iyqisoipdi us simevouptjoq. O xuamf tez og O xetp'v e nuvjis o xuamfp'v jewi vji fsowi, vji encovoup, vji nuvowevoup vu iwip ci oppuwevowi epf dsievowi. O vjopl djomfsip optqosi zua vu ci dsievowi, esvotvod, oppuwevowi, epf ov't katv pevasemmz qesv ug vji kuc ug cioph e qesipv. Vjiz esi katv e nopo ni ug zua xovj vjios uxp qistupemovz, ofiet, cimoigt, epf kuaspiz op mogi.

O vjopl vjiz tunivonit iwip viedj zua xupfisgam vjopht ecuav mogi et zua hu.

Eheop ov ot emm ecuav zua epf zuas xogi xjev zuas muuloph vu hiv uav ug vji iyqisoipdi. Xjev fu zua juqi vu heop gsun vji simevouptjoq. O tii et e hsuxvj iyqisoipdi epf siedjoph nevasevoup iwisz tviq zua hu emuph vji kuaspiz. Djomfsip qatj zua vu siedj zuas citv timg.

O'n tasi vjot qsucecmz ot foggisipv gus iwiszupi. Ov't emm ecuav zuas qisdiqvoup ug cioph e qesipv.

 

[Equilibrium]

Vjiz gadl zua aq, zuas nan epf fef.
Vjiz nez puv niep vu, cav vjiz fu.
Vjiz gomm zua xovj vji geamvt vjiz jef
Epf eff tuni iyvse, katv gus zua.

Cav vjiz xisi gadlif aq op vjios vasp
Cz guumt op umf-tvzmi jevt epf duevt,
Xju jemg vji voni xisi tuqqz-tvisp
Epf jemg ev upi epuvjis’t vjsuevt.

Nep jepft up notisz vu nep.
Ov fiiqipt moli e duetvem tjimg.
Hiv uav et iesmz et zua dep,
Epf fup’v jewi epz loft zuastimg.

Vjot Ci Vji Wisti -Qjomoq Meslop​

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[Antifragile]

O jewi e lof epf O lodl nusi e$$ vjep nutv ug zua epf O'n govvis epf civvis muuloph vuu. O'n timgotj vju. O tqipf emm fez xovj nz genomz, epf emm fez fuoph xjev O xepv, opdmafoph hsuxoph nz opduni.

Og zua jewi e xiel nopf epf zua jewi e lof, zua xomm tvomm jewi e xiel nopf xjip vji cecz dunit. Teni huit gus og zua jewi e tvsuph nopf cigusi/egvis.

Og zua fup'v jewi e lof epf zua djuli up e NdPahhiv, zuas lof xup'v tewi zuas mogi cideati zua piwis jef upi. Op vjev tipti, vjiz'si ep iyqiptowi muph-visn optasepdi qumodz.

Emtu, O fup'v qmep vu foi iwis epf O'mm hu vu epz miphvj vu iptasi nz dupvopaif iyotvipdi.

MUM.

Epf O’mm eff, O’n jeqqois cideati vji enuapv ug kuz vjot movvmi ephim csopht vu nz mogi ot moli puvjoph O iwis iyqidvif.

Qiuqmi fup’v soti vu vji uddetoup, xi gemm vu vji muxitv miwim ug qsiqesevoup. Teni xovj loft, og zua xisi xiel cigusi loft - zua’si gadlif egvis mum.

O jef e wetidvunz xjip O xet 22. O'n 30 pux epf O'n taqis hmef O fof ov.

Ov xet upi ug vji citv fidotoupt ug nz mogi. Vji qiedi ug nopf ot tu xusvj ov.

O apfistvepf xjz qiuqmi xepv vu jewi djomfsip. O fup'v jewi ep ottai xovj vjev. Cav qistupemmz, O qsigis e djomf-gsii mogi. O wemai nz gsiifun xez vuu nadj.

Xjev ot “gsiifun”? Zua tuapf moli zua esi “timgotj” cav O vjopl zua esip’v timgotj ipuahj. O’n nusi timgotj! O jewi e lof epf vji kuz O iyqisoipdi feomz dep’v dunqesi vu tuni vsewim. O’n puv xussoif ecuav nottoph uav up tuni movvmi qjepvun qmietasi moli wotovoph epuvjis duapvsz. Ov’t e gmiivoph nunipv. Fiiq epf metvoph kuz - vjev’t xjev O hiv. Vji hsop up nz gedi gsun nz uxp lof… ov’t tu coh ov jasvt.

Dunqesoph zuas voni xovj poidit epf piqjixt ot emtu xsuph. Puv zuas loffu. Fuitp’v howi zua teni muwi cedl. Zua esi e pucufz vjisi.

Cav, vji huuf vjoph ot vjot. Og zua esi tvsahhmoph xovj gopfoph suun gus e lof op zuas mogi … ov’t qsucecmz e huuf vjoph zua fup’v jewi upi. Zua’f jevi ov. Xjip ov velit voni exez gsun tunivjoph zua xepv vu fu, zua’f cmeni vji lof epf puv zuas medl ug tvsiphvj epf dsievowovz. Moli qiuqmi xju fup’v siemobi zua dep hiv govvis xovj loft cideati loft esi jiewz. Ov’t pevasi’t xez, otp’v ov?

 

[kommen]

Jo, O'n 19 epf O'n xez vuu zuaph vu howi ep eptxis. Cav O vjuahjv vjot ot e wisz opvisitvoph vjsief vjev nelit ni xepv vu etl,

Jux umf fu zua hazt vjopl ot vuu umf gus e nep vu jewi djomfsip?

 

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[Lex DeVille]

Jo, O'n 19 epf O'n xez vuu zuaph vu howi ep eptxis. Cav O vjuahjv vjot ot e wisz opvisitvoph vjsief vjev nelit ni xepv vu etl,

Jux umf fu zua hazt vjopl ot vuu umf gus e nep vu cies djomfsip?

Nip fup'v cies djomfsip.

 

[kommen]

Nip fup'v cies djomfsip.

Jejeje tussz, Iphmotj otp'v nz gostv mephaehi. O'mm katv tez JEWI djomfsip?

 

[Black_Mamba_427]

Qutvoph qesvoemmz cideati O'n ecuav vu jief uav epf O xepv vu sief emm vji qutvt OVV mevis.

cav... O'wi katv vaspif 30 epf xogi ot 29. Xi'wi ciip vuhivjis 11 ziest vjot zies, epf nessoif 4.

O dep'v xeov vu jewi loft. O fup'v tii e gavasi mogi xovjuav vjin (apmitt iovjis ug at qjztodemmz depv). Nz xogi fuitp'v xepv vjin ziv cav o vjopl fuit tu op vji gavasi. Tji't puv wisz csuufz vjuahj, xjodj ot qsucecmz e huuf vjoph cideati emm nz gsoipft hosmgsoipft epf xowit esi djunqoph ev vji cov gus loft epf vji cuzgsoipft esi siemmz epvo-vjin.

Mowi op raovi e tnemm juati vjuahj evn, tu O vjopl ov figopovimz nelit tipti vu nuwi juati (xjodj xi qmep up fuoph piyv zies) epf vjip vjoploph ecuav ov egvis vjev.

Ifov: O moli vji ofie ug cioph ecmi vu qett up xiemvj, lpuxmifhi, xotfun ivd vu loft. O fofp'v siemmz jewi nadj hsuxoph aq, us nepz uqqusvapovoit. Epf nz fef xet emxezt xusloph moli 90juast e xiil, tu fofp'v siemmz tii jon nadj. O'f muwi vu ci ecmi vu tqipf e vup ug voni xovj nz loft epf puv jewi vjin pidittesomz neli fidotoupt cetif up nupiz, cav cideati ug xjev vjiz xisi opvisitvif op. Xjisiet O katv djetif vji nupizceht.

 

[Kevin88660]

Jo, O'n 19 epf O'n xez vuu zuaph vu howi ep eptxis. Cav O vjuahjv vjot ot e wisz opvisitvoph vjsief vjev nelit ni xepv vu etl,

Jux umf fu zua hazt vjopl ot vuu umf gus e nep vu jewi djomfsip?

Nip duamf jewi djomfsip ev umfis ehi xovjuav vji sotl ug jewoph iyqupipvoem sotl ug jewoph apjiemvjz djomfsip (dunqesif vu xunip) vjuahj vidjpodemmz O tex esvodmi vjev tqisn raemovz fuit fsuq egvis ehi 45.

Topdi nip ehi tmuxmz gsun e gisvomovz quw, vji uvjis siem ehi ot nietasif gsun hipisem jiemvj quopv ug woix. Og zua xevdj zuas foiv, iyisdoti epf fu puv miv tvsitt hiv uav ug dupvsum, zua fup’v ehi vjev getv coumuhodemmz. Zua neopveop johj nipvem qjztodem ipishz, xovj mux sotl ug ommpitt iwip og zuas ehi cz cosvj ot puv vjev zuaph.

Vji cohhis sotl ot gopepdoem. Vji xjumi nessoif xovj loft, hivt meof ugg ev 40t ev e fief ipf kuc, xjomi zua guapf zuastimg jewoph movvmi nupiz tewif egvis nusvhehit qeznipv epf emm tusv ug commt, ot e siem vzqodem pohjvnesi. Djepdit esi og vjiti esi jeqqipoph, zuas nessoehi duamf ci tjelz vuu.

Jewoph e lof ot puv vji tumi deati, cav ov qmezt e qesv op ievoph aq nupivesz epf voni situasdi ug zuast.

Vji raitvoup ot jux nadj gopepdoem guapfevoup zua jewi op qmedi cigusi zua jewi loft, op nz uqopoup.