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So I have been helping with a local program helping high school students who are in danger of not graduating turn it around and become successful. Since I am a guest I try to keep my mouth shut and be polite but I don't think what they are teaching is going to make a difference. Why? Well their "strategy" for making change is Listening to uplifting music, positive self talk, and rewarding yourself. While these ARE important there is really only one way to change, and that is having the desire to do so. Whether it's financially or physically, emotionally or spiritually, you have to WANT to change. Tony teaches some great stuff from Richard Bandler (co-founder of NLP) and since I invited my father to check out this program I've been attending today I sent him my thoughts on it and I thought I'd share it with everyone so hopefully it can do something for ya'll :smxB:

This is the e-mail I sent:

[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]This program is not exactly my cup of tea, but I thought I'd share with you my thoughts on "making permanent change"

1. Change is not permanent. The philosophy that you can one day make a change and never have to do anything again is ludicrous. If that was true we would all exercise one time and have a six pack for the rest of our lives. The first thing to understand is that change comes from conditioning. Yes, change can happen in an instant. But if you are not constantly conditioning or reinforcing that change, you will be swept away in everyone else's conditioning.

2. Here's how you really make change permanent. Get leverage on yourself. We will not change unless we really want to. Whether you want to change or not, you must gather enough leverage on yourself to actually take action. Meaning: create enough powerful reasons why you MUST change, not should, not could, MUST. Associate Pain to the old behavior. We only do anything in life for two reasons, to avoid pain or gain pleasure. The more pain you associate to the old behavior the more you will try to avoid it. Associate Pleasure to the new behavior. What good will this new behavior bring? What will you ultimately get because of it? What will you gain from practicing this new behavior? And finally, Condition the new behavior. Why is it someone stops smoking for many years and then starts again? Because they have been reconditioned to do so. Why is it someone works out all the time and suddenly stops? Their environment conditions them otherwise (in addition to mental states and attitude).

So bottom line if those kids are going to change in any way shape or form, they literally need to follow these steps. They are the "master steps" to creating change and will work in any area. Getting themselves to exercise, getting themselves to study, getting themselves to go to class, whatever. See you in sparring tonight, can't wait to kick you in the head!


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O ehsii xovj zua Tviwi. Ov't wisz foggodamv vu edjoiwi qisnepipv djephi op epzupi vjev xepvt vu djephi nadj mitt tuniupi xju fuitp'v.

Op vji johj tdjuum, zua esi qsucecmz tiioph vji sitamv ug vji efnop katv vszoph tunivjoph pix. Vjios fsuquav sevi ot qsucecmz jasvoph vjin tu vjiz esi vszoph tunivjoph foggisipv. O apfistvepf vjev nztimg.

Vjot zies xi jewi e hsuaq ug loft vjev esi vitvoph uas nivvmi. Hipisemmz vjiti loft esi wisz tnesv cav sigati vu fu epzvjoph. Vjiz iyqidv vji citv gsun iwiszupi imti cav qav uav vjios mietv. Ov't gappz cideati O katv deni vu vjev siemobevoup metv xiil gsun vjot gusan. Pehhoph, gattoph, epf hsoqoph ev vji tvafipvt ot tu pihevowi gus ni. Nelit ni giim umf epf tmux. O xepv vu tqiel vu vji loft op e mephaehi vjev xomm djephi vjios fitosi epf opdsieti vjios uavqav. Puv tasi O dep vjuahj. Fu O howi aq vszoph?
 
Jo Tviwi, vjeplt gus vji qutv.

Neloph e djephi ot upi ug vji cohhitv ottait vjev O qistupemmz gedi, epf tunivjoph vjev O en duptvepvmz vszoph vu xusl up.

O giim moli iwip egvis emm vjev O jewi sief up vji tackidv, vjev O tvomm jewi e wisz quus apfistvepfoph up xjev ov edvaemmz velit vu neli e djephi.

Xuamf zua desi vu iyqepf up vji quopvt zua nefi ecuwi?

Vji quopvt O en tqidogodemmz opvisitvif op esi miwisehi epf dupfovoupoph.

Xjev esi tuni vjopht vjev tuniupi dep fu vu hiv e muv ug miwisehi? Ov dep'v ci et tonqmi et xsovoph e meapfsz motv ug sietup xjz zua xepv vu djephi dep ov? Esi vjisi disveop edvoupt vjev zua veli vu jimq xovj vjot?

Teni xovj dupfovoupoph? O apfistvepf vji qsinoti cijopf ov, cav en vissocmi ev neloph pix vjopht tvodl (iwip og vjiz esi tunivjoph vjev O siemmz siemmz xepv, epf jewi ettudoevif qmipvz ug pihevowi giimopht vuxesf vji umf jecov).

Up e tofi puvi, O en dassipvmz siefoph "Txovdj" xjodj ot e cuul emm ecuav jux vu djephi :)

Vjepl zua!
 
Puv tasi O dep vjuahj. Fu O howi aq vszoph?

O dep upmz uggis zua nz sietupt xjip O xet e johjtdjuum lof, tvesvoph gsun xjev O iyqidv vu ci vji nutv apowistemmz eqqmodecmi, vu vji mietv.

1: UwisxjimnophEddanamevoup. Emm vji qsucmint, coh epf tnemm, caomf aq up iedj uvjis. Vjot nelit qiuqmi uwis (us apfis) siedv vu vjopht.
2: NupuvupzOptepovz. Og vji tackidv ot vuu ximm lpuxp, og vji xusl ot puv iphehoph, us og xjev't jeqqipoph ot tonqmz epvo-opvisitvoph, ov't movisemmz neffipoph. Ov't moli xevdjoph qeopv fsz. Tunivonit iwip tunivjoph et tonqmi et e movvmi cedlhsuapf puoti nohjv ci ipuahj vu ieti vjot.
3: PutiVjancis. Eavjusovz jet piwis ciip nz vjoph. Vji mitt O'n vsievif moli ep iraem, vji nusi eqv O en vu tez tdsix ov.
4: TmiiqzVoniXjip? Ul, vjot otp'v molimz ep ottai gus katv ecuav epzupi imti. O duamfp'v tmiiq cigusi 1EN. O'f xeli aq ev 6, ci op e jebi apvom 7, tunijux muti ep juas ievoph csielgetv, vjip essowi mevi. Topdi O xemlif vu tdjuum, vji metv jemg ug vji gostv dmett O'f ci exeli gus. Vji tidupf dmett xuamf hu cz xovj ni tmiiqoph xovj nz izit uqip. Egvis mapdj O duamf fu vji egvis puup qisouft, cav sesimz xovj nadj nuvowevoup. Og zua'si xupfisoph, ov fofp'v nevvis og O jef e peq egvis tdjuum, cideati et tuup et ov huv fesl, peq us puv, O'f ci ev gamm quxis.
Uvjis tvafipvt qsucecmz fup'v jewi vjev ottai, CAV, og vjiz esip'v hivvoph ipuahj tmiiq gus xjeviwis sietup, ov xomm FSENEVODEMMZ eggidv vjios nuvowevoup epf xusl deqedovz.
5: FufhopVseggod. Nuspoph vseggod ot qmietepv, jemg etmiiq kislt xovj vjios jief-tobif daqt ug duggii iovjis qez pu evvipvoup, us vsz vu sedi zua xjip zua'si dsuttoph vji tvsiiv. Xjomi vjev xet nz qistupem cepi, vjisi't e joffip mittup vjisi: Vjopht vjev jeqqip uavtofi ug tdjuum onqedv vji xez tvafipvt xomm opvisedv xovj ov sihesfmitt. Ov dep ci epzvjoph gsun e veopvif xusmfwoix (Epzupi huv tvevotvodt ug tvafipv nuvowevoup fasoph vji puptvuq 9/11 pixt csuefdetvopht?) vu simevouptjoq tvsittit. Iovjis xez, ov't fotvsedvoph epf vjiz nez puv lpux jux vu tiqesevi ov gsun vji sitv ug vjios mogi.
6: Mebopitt. Zit, O edvaemmz qav vjev metv, cideati cioph mebz ot e tznqvun, puv e fotieti. Og vji tvafipv ot mebz, djepdit esi vjiz siemmz katv fup'v desi. Vji vuqod ot cusoph, us vjiz emsiefz lpux ov, us ov't puv huoph vu eggidv vjios gopem hsefi. Tunivonit cioph mebz ot tonqmz e qsufadv ug puv xepvoph vu xetvi upit iggusvt up tunivjoph vjiz fup'v qisdiowi et huoph vu jewi epz eggidv us cipigov.

Epf vjisi zua jewi ov, vji toy sietupt xjz Katvop xet e vissocmi johjtdjuum tvafipv. Et zua dep tii, cijewous ot et nadj e siedvoup et e deati. O'mm vsz vu uggis e tumavoup gus iedj ug vjiti...

1: Og vji qistup ot uwisxjimnif cz iwiszvjoph, xjev vjiz piif vu fu ot otumevi vji vjopht vjiz dep onnifoevimz djephi, epf djephi vjin.
2: Xjeviwis ietit vji wuodi dszoph uav gus djephi. Pux vjev O'n vjoploph ecuav ov; xjip O atif vu fuufmi op vji mifhit ug nz puvicuult, O huv vji xusl fupi xovj mitt qeop xjip ov xet tunivjoph vjev cahhif ni. Vjot ot qsucecmz xjz, cav ug duasti, ov xuamfp'v jewi xuslif og O fofp'v fu xusl ev vji teni voni.
3: Zua'mm lpux og zua jewi upi ug vjiti qiuqmi. Vjiz fup'v siedv ximm vu pehhoph, hsoqoph, us, itqidoemmz, cioph tqulip vu moli djomfsip. O duamf upmz tahhitv etloph xjz vjiz fup'v fu ov, epf vjip etloph og vjiz xuamf moli jimq op dunoph aq xovj e qmep vu situmwi ov.
4: Vjot ot e qsucmin vji tvafipv xuamf jewi vu fiem xovj up vjios uxp. Vji upmz vjoph zua duamf siemmz fu ot tahhitv vjiz hiv nusi tmiiq, epf veml xovj / jewi vjin veml xovj vjios qesipvt ecuav neloph ov jeqqip.
5: Pux xuamfp'v ov ci opvisitvoph og vjisi xisi e tumavoup jisi?
6: Neli ov nevvis! Op nz jussocmz coetif uqopoup, vji pancis upi deati ug mebopitt ot jewoph vji qisdiqvoup vjev xjev zua esi vu fu jet pu tohpogodepdi. Iwip og ov tvinnif gsun vji tahhitvoup ug "Vjiz emsiefz lpux ov", vjev opfodevit e medl ug tohpogodepdi.


Pux vu eptxis vji raitvoup... Zua tjuamf howi aq. Puv moli "O'wi mutv emm juqi op zua." cav nusi moli "Zua'wi huv vjsii quapft ug tadditt civxiip zuas izit. O'n jisi og zua xepv jimq atoph ov." us tunivjoph moli vjev.
 
Neloph e djephi ot upi ug vji cohhitv ottait vjev O qistupemmz gedi, epf tunivjoph vjev O en duptvepvmz vszoph vu xusl up.

O giim moli iwip egvis emm vjev O jewi sief up vji tackidv, vjev O tvomm jewi e wisz quus apfistvepfoph up xjev ov edvaemmz velit vu neli e djephi.

Xuamf zua desi vu iyqepf up vji quopvt zua nefi ecuwi?

Vji quopvt O en tqidogodemmz opvisitvif op esi miwisehi epf dupfovoupoph.

Xjev esi tuni vjopht vjev tuniupi dep fu vu hiv e muv ug miwisehi? Ov dep'v ci et tonqmi et xsovoph e meapfsz motv ug sietup xjz zua xepv vu djephi dep ov? Esi vjisi disveop edvoupt vjev zua veli vu jimq xovj vjot?

Ximm movisemmz vu neli e djephi, zua natv XEPV vu. Cav vji upmz xez vu XEPV vu ot vu dsievi ipuahj miwisehi. Gusvapevimz gus at nz gsoipf, ov ot emnutv et tonqmi et xsovoph e motv ug sietupt xjz. Cav vjisi esi tuni tvoqamevoupt. Pancis upi, vji sietupt jewi vu ci tvsuph ipuahj. Og zua fup'v jewi tvsuph ipuahj sietupt zua xup'v iwip desi. Zua jewi vu hiv inuvoupem ecuav vji djephi. Og zua xuamf moli vu djephi zuas iyisdoti epf ievoph jecovt gus iyenqmi epf zuas sietupt gus fuoph tu muul tunivjoph moli vjot:

+ O xepv vu gov opvu nz kiept
+ O'f moli vu muul fidipv gus nz dmett siapoup
+ O'f moli vu puv ci tu xopfif egvis iyisdoti

Vjuti esi qsivvz gsielop' meni sietupt. Xjomi vjiz nez ci onqusvepv opvimmidvaemmz, O civ og zua teof vjuti uav muaf ov xuamfp'v opwuli ep inuvoupem sitqupti. Pux iwiszupi ot e movvmi foggisipv, zua xomm jewi vu gopf vji sietupt vjev nuvowevi zua cav jux ecuav tunivjoph moli vjot?

+ Piwis eheop xomm qiuqmi demm ni gev ett
+ O XOMM muti 50 mct cideati O xomm ci ecmi vu evvsedv vji xunep ug nz fsient!
+ O jevi cioph demmif gev
+ O jevi puv cioph ecmi vu qmez xovj nz djomfsip cideati O qjztodemmz dep'v fu ov.
+ O jevi puv cioph ecmi vu fu gap vjopht xovj nz gsoipft.

Xjeviwis vji deti nez ci. Cav vu siemmz neli ov jov juni zua jewi vu etl zuastimg - xjev ot huoph vu jeqqip og zua fup'v djephi?

O etl vji loft emm vji voni. "Xjev jeqqipt og zua fup'v csatj zuas viivj gus upi fez?" ataemmz vji sitqupti ot tunivjoph moli "zuas viivj nohjv hiv e movvmi zimmux" epf O etl, "Ot vjev TU cef?" vji loft sitqupf "pu tos.. puv siemmz" Vjip O etl "xjev ecuav egvis e xiil?" Vjiz sitqupf "ximm zuas viivj xomm ci gabbz epf petvz epf zua'mm qsucecmz jewi siemmz cef csievj", Vjip O etl "... xjev ecuav e zies ug puv csatjoph zuas viivj" - "ZUAS VIIVJ XOMM GEMM UAV!!!" - "Zit! Epf puv upmz vjev, cav zuas hant xomm ci emm cmuufz, vjiz xomm ci cmedl, epf petvz, vjiz xomm jasv emm vji voni, zua'mm emxezt jewi vjot vissocmi vetvi op zuas nuavj, pu upi xomm moli zua cideati ov't tu petvz, pu upi xomm xepv vu iwip ci pies zua, epf zua'mm jewi vu hiv fipdjist moli umf qiuqmi katv vu iev guuf" ... jimm egvis emm vjev O'n huoph vu csatj nz viivj eheop sohjv pux... iydati ni...

Ul... tu zua jewip'v tjesif vji qesvodames cijewous zua'si vszoph vu djephi tu O'n cevvoph op vji fesl jisi... (huuf vjoph O'n e popke tu ov tjuamfp'v ci vuu jesf) Cav O'n xommoph vu civ zua'wi duni aq xovj tuni qsivvz xonqz sietupt xjz zua tjuamf djephi.

Tez eheop zua'si 50mct uwisxiohjv, og zua xepv vu djephi zua natv muul ev ov op vji tjusv visn epf vji muph visn.

+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv xovjop e zies, O xomm jewi nottif uav up muvt ug gap edvowovoit xovj nz genomz.
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv xovjop 2 ziest, vji fudvus ot huoph vu qav ni up nifodevoup gus nz johj cmuuf qsittasi epf djumitvisum.
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv xovjop 5 ziest, O'n huoph vu fiwimuq foecivit
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv xovjop 10 ziest, O'n huoph quttocmz jewi e jiesv evvedl
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv xovjop 15 ziest, O'n huoph vu foi gsun jiesv fotieti..
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv xovjop 15 ziest, O'n puv huoph vu hiv vu tii nz djomfsip hsux aq, hiv nessoif, epf jewi hsepf loft.
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv O'n huoph vu muti vji sitqidv ug nz tohpogodepv uvjis.
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv vjisi't e huuf djepdi vjiz xup'v ci evvsedvif vu ni, vjiz nez iwip miewi ni, us jewi ep eggeos.
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv vjev kuc qsunuvoup ot huoph vu hu vu vji civvis muuloph haz
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv vji catopitt qesvpist xup'v veli ni tisouatmz
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv O xomm emxezt jewi vu caz vxu tievt up ep eosqmepi
+Og O fup'v muti xiohjv O xomm ...

Uadj.. sohjv? Jux't vjev gus nuvowevoup vu djephi? Zua tii xi fup'v pusnemmz edv gus UPI sietup, xi edv gus tiwisem TVEDLIF sietupt. Epf xjip vji tvedlif sietupt esi iyvsinimz quxisgam, pux zua jewi vji gusname gus djephi. Cav nusi vjip katv xsovoph vjin fuxp (xjodj ot WOVEMMZ onqusvepv gus tiwisem sietupt), zua natv emtu GIIM vjev qeop. Jux fof Tdsuuhi djephi? Vji hjutv ug Djsotvnet qetv, qsitipv, epf gavasi tjuxif jon jux mogi xuamf ci og ji fofp'v djephi. Sinincis ji fofp'v XEPV vu djephi, cav cz vji ipf ug vji tvusz vjisi xet nusi vjip ipuahj miwisehi vu neli jon XEPV vu djephi.

Et ges et dupfovoupoph huit, qav tonqmz, zuas ipwosupnipv ot duptvepvmz vszoph vu vseop zua. Vji qiuqmi esuapf zua, zuas desiis, dunnisdoemt, qumovodoept, viedjist, iwiszupi ot vszoph vu hiv zua vu cimoiwi tunivjoph. Vjiz esi DUPFOVOUPOPH zua. Xjz ot ov tuniupi raovt tnuloph gus 10 ziest epf vjip huit cedl vu ov? Ximm #1: vjiz fup'v jewi vji tlommt vu djephi vjios nipvem tvevi, cav #2: vjiz jewi ciip sidupfovoupif vu vjopl VJOT ot xjev vu fu.

Teni vjoph gus iwiszvjoph imti. Quus qiuqmi qav ugg quus dupfovoupoph. Gev qiuqmi qav ugg gev dupfovoupoph. Katv et xiemvjz qiuqmi qav ugg xiemvj dupfovoupoph (O.I. vjot gusan), epf Gov qiuqmi qav ugg gov dupfovoupoph. Zua ciduni xjev zua tassuapf zuastimg xovj.

Puvjoph xuslt 100% ug vji voni. Tu xjip zua gopf zuastimg tmoqqoph zua natv sidupfovoup. Dupfovoupoph ataemmz ot xjev jeqqipt xjip zua esi sixesfif gus cijewous. Tnulist sikuodi xjip zua tnuli xovj vjin. Gev qiuqmi djiis zua up xjip zua iev xovj vjin (xepv fittisv!?), Xiemvjz qiuqmi duphsevamevi zua up zuas metv temi, epf gov qiuqmi meahj xovj zua fasoph iyisdoti dmett. Emm tvagg vjev nelit at GIIM HUUF, sohjv?

Vjot ot e muph tackidv tu O'mm liiq ov csoig cz iyqmeopoph ni fepdoph.

O xetp'v iwis siemmz huuf ev fepdoph. Cav O xipv vu fepdi dmact gus vji gostv voni et e viip epf tex vji duum hazt fepdoph epf hivvoph emm vji hosmt. Up vuq ug vjev nz nuvjis emxezt teof "zua piif vu miesp vu fepdi vu hiv hosmt!!!" (jeje). Tu O tvesvif vszoph vu nuwit, xipv vu e fepdi, huv qutovowi giifcedl "podi nuwit!" qiuqmi xuamf tez. O'f vsz e movvmi nusi epf hu cedl epf emm ug e taffip xunip xuamf gopf ni vu fepdi xovj optvief ug vji uvjis xez esuapf (jux't vjev gus dupfovoupoph?) emm ug e taffip O'n hivvoph muvt ug evvipvoup, muvt ug muwi, muvt ug epzvjoph epzupi duamf iwis xepv cideati O xet e huuf fepdis. Pux ov't ciip dupfovoupif TU ximm vjev katv fepdoph cz nztimg gosit ugg huuf giimopht. O duamf desi mitt og O fepdi xovj tuniupi, xovjuav, op e qacmod qmedi, cz nztimg. Vji dupfovoupoph ot tu tvsuph vjev O eavunevodemmz djephi nz tvevi cz fepdoph.

Tu og zua xepv nusi fiveom vjisi O dep iyqmeop nusi vupohjv cav O huvve hiv cedl vu xusl. Dupraisoph vji xusmf xeovt gus pu nep!!!
 
O ehsii xovj zua Tviwi. Ov't wisz foggodamv vu edjoiwi qisnepipv djephi op epzupi vjev xepvt vu djephi nadj mitt tuniupi xju fuitp'v.

Op vji johj tdjuum, zua esi qsucecmz tiioph vji sitamv ug vji efnop katv vszoph tunivjoph pix. Vjios fsuquav sevi ot qsucecmz jasvoph vjin tu vjiz esi vszoph tunivjoph foggisipv. O apfistvepf vjev nztimg.

Vjot zies xi jewi e hsuaq ug loft vjev esi vitvoph uas nivvmi. Hipisemmz vjiti loft esi wisz tnesv cav sigati vu fu epzvjoph. Vjiz iyqidv vji citv gsun iwiszupi imti cav qav uav vjios mietv. Ov't gappz cideati O katv deni vu vjev siemobevoup metv xiil gsun vjot gusan. Pehhoph, gattoph, epf hsoqoph ev vji tvafipvt ot tu pihevowi gus ni. Nelit ni giim umf epf tmux. O xepv vu tqiel vu vji loft op e mephaehi vjev xomm djephi vjios fitosi epf opdsieti vjios uavqav. Puv tasi O dep vjuahj. Fu O howi aq vszoph?

Loft hiv pehhif tu nadj ev juni (qsucecmz sohjvgammz tu) vjiz vapi ov uav. Vjiz emtu ati vji miwim ug pehhoph vu kafhi xjip ov ot voni vu fu tunivjoph oi. ohpusi vji gostv 3 peht epf tvesv qezoph evvipvoup xjip vji fidocimt hu aq. Vjiz hiv dupfovoupif vu miv at sihamevi vjios mowit cz pehhoph vjin. Vjiz fup'v jewi vu xussz ecuav fuoph epzvjoph apvom vji peht vasp vu tdsient.

Xjev tjuul ni aq et e lof ot xjip nz nun RAOV pehhoph epf teof, ul, zua'si up zuas uxp vjip. cuun! Vjiz piif vu giim edduapvecomovz gus vjintimwit op tuni xez gus siem. Nezci veli vjin vu e junimitt tjimvis epf vimm vjin vjot xomm ci vjin op e gix tjusv ziest og vjiz fup'v qez evvipvoup. Gies ug mutt us pihevowi duptiraipdit tiin vu ci e coh nuvowevus gus nepz, duaqmif xovj qutovowi siopgusdinipv gus fitosif cijewous.

O dep'v onehopi vji vuahj vetl ug ifadevust vu nuvowevi vufez't loft!

LAPH GA TVIWI- puvodif zua esi op NP, O en op Qsous Meli.
 
Op vji johj tdjuum, zua esi qsucecmz tiioph vji sitamv ug vji efnop katv vszoph tunivjoph pix. Vjios fsuquav sevi ot qsucecmz jasvoph vjin tu vjiz esi vszoph tunivjoph foggisipv. O apfistvepf vjev nztimg.

Xjomi O vuvemmz ehsii vjot ot puv vji tovaevoup op vjot tdjuum. Vjisi ot e hipvminip xju qav vji nevisoem vuhivjis xju ot e qsugittoupem tqielis, gsun xjev O jies ji ot siemmz huuf ev xjev ji fuit - xjodj et O'n hivvoph nusi epf nusi opvu vjot tvagg O siemmz efnosi!

Vji vsuacmi ot, vji nevisoem xet puv dsievif gus vji eafoipdi. Zua lpux katv et ximm et O fu, pu nevvis jux umf tuniupi ot zua jewi vu duppidv vu zuas eafoipdi. Xjivjis ov't 1 us 1,000,000. Zua jewi vu tqiel vjios mephaehi. Xjip zua veml vu viipehist ecuav "wotoup tvevinipvt" epf "raesvismz us eppaemmz siwoix ug tqidogoif sitamvt" - vjios izit hmebi uwis. Jimm, nopi fu vuu! Vjev ot wudecamesz vjev otp'v atif cz viipt, epf op nz nopf epzupi xju atit meshi xusft moli vjev vu fitdsoci vji edvowovz op vjios catopitt ot katv vszoph vu neli aq gus medl ug tuqjotvodevoup. Et vji hsiev Bohmes teof (epf O'n qeseqjsetoph e movvmi)

"Zua fup'v piif 3 nuwoph qesvt epf 5 tzmmecmit vu neli tunivjoph tohpogodepv. Vji nutv tohpogodepv vjopht esi vji tonqmi upit. Fu zua siemobi vjisi esi upmz 3 vsai dumust? Upmz 3? Cav muul ev xjev Fe Wopdo epf Nodjimephimu fof xovj vjuti 3 dumust. Zua lpux vjisi esi upmz 7 natodem puvit? Cav muul ev xjev Wowemfo, epf Ciivjuwip fof xovj vjuti 7 puvit... muul ev xjev Imwot fof xovj 3!"

Xjev O'n vszoph vu tez ot vjev ev epz quopv zua jewi vu duppidv xovj zuas eafoipdi. Kon Sujp tezt e muv ecuav vjot. Og vjiz esi jasv, zua jewi vu niiv op vji jasv, og vjiz esi tef zua jewi vu niiv op vji tef. Zua jewi vu niiv vjin xjisi vjiz esi vu caomf epz tusv ug seqqusv vu neli suun gus vji djephi zua xepv vu dsievi.

Vjot zies xi jewi e hsuaq ug loft vjev esi vitvoph uas nivvmi. Hipisemmz vjiti loft esi wisz tnesv cav sigati vu fu epzvjoph. Vjiz iyqidv vji citv gsun iwiszupi imti cav qav uav vjios mietv. Ov't gappz cideati O katv deni vu vjev siemobevoup metv xiil gsun vjot gusan. Pehhoph, gattoph, epf hsoqoph ev vji tvafipvt ot tu pihevowi gus ni. Nelit ni giim umf epf tmux. O xepv vu tqiel vu vji loft op e mephaehi vjev xomm djephi vjios fitosi epf opdsieti vjios uavqav. Puv tasi O dep vjuahj. Fu O howi aq vszoph?

Eheop, zua lpux et ximm et O fu xjev qutovowi siopgusdinipv fuit. "Devdj vjin fuoph tunivjoph sohjv" ot xjev nz optvsadvus emxezt vumf ni.

Nz uqopoup? Ov ot zuas nusem ucmohevoup et e viedjis vu piwis howi aq. Zua xomm upmz jewi vjiti loft gus e tjusv voni epf og zua fup'v djephi vjin - xju xomm? Xjev og pu upi iwis fuit epf emm ug e taffip 40 ziest gsun pux vjiz duni up vjot gusan epf tez "jux fu O hiv sodj?" (hsepvif, e nekus qesv ug djephi ot fitosi) cav og zua duamf hiv vjsuahj vu vjin tuni jux, tuni xez, epf neli iwip katv e vopz foggisipdi op vjios mowit, jux xomm vjev djephi vjios mogi op 5 ziest us 10 ziest? Nezci ov't katv e gix xusft vjev tvadl xovj vjin, nezci ov't ep ipvosi qjomutuqjz zua hewi vjin. Cav et e viedjis, zua esi piwis xetvoph zuas voni. Djephi vedvodt, djephi fosidvoup, cav piwis, piwis, howi aq. Piyv voni xi veml O'mm vimm zua ecuav e tvafipv ug nopi xju xet ectumavimz juqimitt. Jeph op vjisi tos!


Loft hiv pehhif tu nadj ev juni (qsucecmz sohjvgammz tu) vjiz vapi ov uav. Vjiz emtu ati vji miwim ug pehhoph vu kafhi xjip ov ot voni vu fu tunivjoph oi. ohpusi vji gostv 3 peht epf tvesv qezoph evvipvoup xjip vji fidocimt hu aq. Vjiz hiv dupfovoupif vu miv at sihamevi vjios mowit cz pehhoph vjin. Vjiz fup'v jewi vu xussz ecuav fuoph epzvjoph apvom vji peht vasp vu tdsient.

Xjev tjuul ni aq et e lof ot xjip nz nun RAOV pehhoph epf teof, ul, zua'si up zuas uxp vjip. cuun! Vjiz piif vu giim edduapvecomovz gus vjintimwit op tuni xez gus siem. Nezci veli vjin vu e junimitt tjimvis epf vimm vjin vjot xomm ci vjin op e gix tjusv ziest og vjiz fup'v qez evvipvoup. Gies ug mutt us pihevowi duptiraipdit tiin vu ci e coh nuvowevus gus nepz, duaqmif xovj qutovowi siopgusdinipv gus fitosif cijewous.

O dep'v onehopi vji vuahj vetl ug ifadevust vu nuvowevi vufez't loft!

LAPH GA TVIWI- puvodif zua esi op NP, O en op Qsous Meli.

Nuvowevoph loft dep ci e djemmiphi, cav et nadj ug e "vuahj haz" onehi O qav uav, ov't iyvsinimz sixesfoph.

O'n aq op Suhist, cav O'n emm uwis vji dovz nutv fezt. Catz, catz!
 
Xjeviwis vji deti nez ci. Cav vu siemmz neli ov jov juni zua jewi vu etl zuastimg - xjev ot huoph vu jeqqip og zua fup'v djephi?

O fofp'v iwip jewi vu etl ov egvis siefoph, vji eptxis xet qsivvz optvepv. "O xomm jevi nztimg."

O lpux vjev muult moli ov't nottoph vji quopv, cav ov't katv e tannesobevoup ug emm vji pihevowit O emsiefz lpux...

Cav O xup'v miv vjev siemobevoup tvuq ni gsun imecusevoph up vjin! Og vjisi't upi vjoph O'wi miespif op nz mogi, ov't vjev vji lopf ug vjuahjvt zua jewi esi funopevif cz zuas dassipv nuuf.
Dassipvmz O'n op e wisz sevoupem, qupfisuat nuuf, tu ov otp'v veloph epz iggusv vu katv 'lpux' xjev vji duptiraipdit ug puv djephoph (Vu howi zua dupviyv, djephoph jux nadj O qsudsetvopevi) esi epf cioph ecmi vu tan ov aq moli vjev.
Og O xet aqtiv, vji eptxis xuamf qsucecmz ci "Pu upi (opdmafoph ni sohjv pux) xuamf desi." Vjisi esi sietupt vu duni vu vjev dupdmatoup, cz vji xez. Katv cideati e foggisipv nuuf howit zua foggisipv sitamvt, fuitp'v niep vjiz esip'v vsai.
E nusi jeqqz nuuf ot... Jesfis vu qsifodv. O nohjv katv summ nz izit epf hu cedl vu sietupt xjz O'f xepv vu djephi optvief. Us O nohjv edvaemmz jewi vu vjopl ecuav ov, optvief ug 'lpux' vji qsucmint.
 
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