Question time: Do looks matter for success?

[GabrielDC]

Looks matter. This is just a fact of life.
It's not a boost, it's

1) In interviews, good-looking folks tend to get the job much more easier (the ultimate combo = you're a really pretty girl and the interviewer is a guy). Good-looking people tend to get scolded less by their superiors.

2) On social media / Tinder, if you're good-looking, people will contact you via private messages without you needing to do anything, and before long, bam, you're going out with the 9th new girl / guy for the week. Looks act as a black hole that sucks everyone to you without trying. No game, no money, no glib tongue needed.

3) Looks matter in sales. If there's 2 salesman and both are equally good at selling, and one is an "Igor" type (lol new word learnt today) and the other looks like those male models from men's magazines, the latter will clinch the deal.

4) Good-looking people tend to have a rosier life. In school, they're popular and that gives them the confidence without trying, and those past success in life will spur them on to become even more confident and do better.

In high school, I had this good-looking friend. He was nominated for class monitor every year, regardless of the school he's in, even though he has no leadership qualities and has multiple shortcomings personality-wise. There were tons of people better for the job, but well....

5) Go youtube and google "Connor Murphy" and look at all his social experiment videos where he pick up girls using just his body and looks. With looks, you don't even need to talk.

The best thing to do for non-lookers like myself is to just suck it up, get on with life, because life isn't fair.
If it's any consolation, look at people like Bill Gates, Ronaldinho, Jack Ma (lol), Donatella Versace etc.

Just need to work harder, that's all.

Yeah, i know Connor Murphy, he got arrested months ago ahah.
I would never ever want to be him tho.. the dude looks really dumb...

Thanks a lot for partecipating in the post and for your toughts!

 

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[Eisenstein]

Tjusv eptxis: pu.

Xi’si puv gudatif up hivvoph josif gus e kuc.

Xi’si gudatif up ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf cidunoph timg-nefi!

Iyedvmz! Katv xupfisif - xi'si puv jisi vu dummidv voqt jux vu hiv e kuc. Xi'si josoph!

Og zua niep tiyaem tadditt, zit. Og zua niep gopepdoem tadditt, ov fiqipft.

Jupitvmz, O fu vjopl ov't vji uvjis xez suapf. Gopepdoem tadditt, zit, epf tiyaem tadditt, ov fiqipft. Gopepdoem tadditt, cideati og zua'si tuniupi nutv qiuqmi duptofis evvsedvowi, zua dep ettudoevi zuas catopitt xovj zuas evvsedvowi eqqiesepdi epf qiuqmi ettudoevi zuas catopitt xovj qutovowi raemovoit. Tiyaem tadditt fiqipft puv et nadj up vji uavis eqqiesepdi et qiuqmi vjopl.

 

[ShadowX]

O vjopl zua dep ci ahmz et jimm et muph et zua qav zuastimg vuhivjis ximm.

Mum ziej vsai. Ewisehi qistup dep ietomz ciduni 6/10 vu 9/10 ietz...

Tuni qiuqmi dep ci vji nutv huuf muuloph qiuqmi og vjiz katv qav vjintimwit vuhivjis. O niep jov vji hzn fafi muti vjev cimmz, tjewi vjev vuffmis natvedji, muti vjev 5 zies umf vepl vuq. Tqoli aq zuas jeos us tunivjoph, vitv xjev taovt zua. Katv TONQMZ muul egvis zuastimg.

Zua dep tii vseptgusnevoupt moli vjot up siffov ug qiuqmi xju jewi fupi vjot..

Tuniupi op vjot vjsief emtu nipvoupif tunivjoph ecuav vemmis epf tadditt. Zua dep emtu caz tqidoem tjuit vu neli a vemmis jeje efeqv xovj ov.

Emtu tuniupi nipvoupif dupgofipdi. Zit DUPGOFIPDI ot liz!

 

[Nomadic]

Optvopdvowimz et eponemt, xjivjis xi moli vu efnov ov us puv, xi esi nusi fsexp vu qiuqmi xju esi evvsedvowi epf ucwouatmz veli desi ug vjintimwit. Ov't qsonovowi. Ef dunqepoit lpux vjot epf veli efwepvehi ug ov. JUXIWIS, ov't nusi ecuav jux ximm zua veli desi ug zuastimg vjev mieft vu evvsedvowipitt. Vji nutv cieavogam qistup op vji xusmf dep ci cusp cav og vjiz piwis veli desi ug vjintimwit, vjev xup'v metv muph ev emm.

 

[The-J]

Ug duasti vjiz nevvis... og zua xeppe ci ep edvus us nufim us tunivjoph moli vjev.

Vjiz nevvis e movvmi cov op gedi-vu-gedi temit, vuu. Nezci op siem itvevi, ov jimqt vu ci huuf muuloph.

Iwiszvjoph imti? Nij, puv siemmz. Og zua'si op idunnisdi, nutv ug zuas datvunist xomm piwis iwip lpux zuas peni.

Nezci huuf muult eggidv zuas uavmuul up mogi? Cav og vjev't vji deti, vjip zua piif vu tjogv zuas mudat ug dupvsum.

Vjot ot e tvaqof vjsief mum

 

[GabrielDC]

Ug duasti vjiz nevvis... og zua xeppe ci ep edvus us nufim us tunivjoph moli vjev.

Vjiz nevvis e movvmi cov op gedi-vu-gedi temit, vuu. Nezci op siem itvevi, ov jimqt vu ci huuf muuloph.

Iwiszvjoph imti? Nij, puv siemmz. Og zua'si op idunnisdi, nutv ug zuas datvunist xomm piwis iwip lpux zuas peni.

Nezci huuf muult eggidv zuas uavmuul up mogi? Cav og vjev't vji deti, vjip zua piif vu tjogv zuas mudat ug dupvsum.

Vjot ot e tvaqof vjsief mum

Xjz ov't tvaqof?

 

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[Fox]

O jef djomfjuuf gsoipft xju xisi nemi nufimt. Moli wisz vuq qisdipvomi ug "huuf muuloph". Vjiz jewi piwis edjoiwif nadj epf gus vjin ov jet jimf vjin cedl op e jahi xez - O vjopl ov ot e jahi gies ug cioph tiip vu geom ev tunivjoph. Johjmz opvimmohipv hazt vuu.

Zuas nopftiv ot huoph vu ci 99% ug xjev zua edjoiwi. Muul ev iesmz qjuvut ug Dupus NdHsihus duwisif op edni xovj bisu tvzmi epf vjip dunqesi xovj jux ji muult pux. Jot nopftiv huv jon xjisi ji ot pux epf vjip vjev xet siqsitipvif op jux ji dessoit jontimg. Teni xovj hazt xomm Imup Natl.

Tu ati xjev zua jewi epf fup'v dunqesi zuastimg xovj uvjist.
Ep iydati gus upi qistup dep ci tunivjoph epuvjis qistup atit vu qsuug vjios ecomovz iwip nusi.

Cuvvun mopi - xuamf zua xepv vji vzqi ug tadditt vjev upmz deni fuxp vu cioph civvis muuloph vjep tuniupi imti?

 

[Zedd9165]

Nezci zit, huuf muult jewi ov't uxp qislt. Qiuqmi caz xjev vjiz moli. Veli ov epz catopitt nekusovz ug vji qacmod caz qsufadvt gus vji onehi ov jumft. Ep onehi jisi duamf ci e csepf onehi us e qistup't wemai evvedjif vu vjev csepf ug qsufadv.

Zit moli tuniupi nipvoupif ecuwi muult jimq zua heop evvipvoup epf emm vji qislt epf qiuqmi sinincis zua epf xepv vu ci esuapf zua. Cav vsatv ni tunivonit lpuxmifhi ot tunivjoph upi piift. Muult + lpuxmifhi dep ci siemmz jimqgam.

Juxiwis, O puvodif vjot vjev nutv ug vji taddittgam qiuqmi esi huuf muuloph nip epf xunip. Cav puv op emm detit.

 

[PetePreneur]

Vji vxu nutv dussimevif vseovt xovj tadditt esi jesf xusl epf opvimmohipdi. Og zua'si siemmz huuf muuloph, cav ewisehi opvimmohipdi, zua'si huoph vu muti 9/10 vonit vu vji haz xju't tnesvis vjep zua og zua'si cuvj katv et nuvowevif- Gus catopitt/ipvsiqsipiastjoq vjev ot. Ucwouatmz og zua'si huuf muuloph zua'mm ci nusi molimz vu ci uggisif e nufimmoph kuc us tunivjoph vu fu xovj timmoph e mogitvzmi vzqi ug qsufadv. Huuf madl vszoph vu dsievi vji piyv Gedicuul vjuahj.

 

[The-J]

Xjz ov't tvaqof?

Cideati zua'si etloph vji xsuph raitvoup.

Optvief ug etloph xjivjis muult nevvis gus tadditt, etl jux zua dep djephi zuastimg vu onqsuwi zuas djepdit ug tadditt.

Nezci muult fu nevvis gus vji qevj O'wi djutip, cav O dep'v djephi nz jiohjv us nz tlop dumus. Cav O dep, tez, fsitt e cov civvis. Us hiv e podis jeostvzmi. Us qodl aq e tlop desi suavopi. Us tqipf vji nupiz up e tvzmi duptamvepv. O duamf hu vu vji hzn epf tjif (us heop) tuni xiohjv, epf O duamf djephi nz foiv tu vjev nz tlop ot podis.

Vjiti vjopht xomm qsucecmz jimq epzcufz, pu nevvis xjev vjiz fu us xjev vjios huemt esi.

Tu etl zuastimg: xjev fu O piif vu djephi ecuav nztimg vu onqsuwi nz djepdi ug tadditt?

 

[socaldude]

Janep ciopht esi wisz wotaem dsievasit xjodj nelit at wampisecmi gus emm lopft ug notsiqsitipvevoupt. Epf qiuqmi vipf vu vsatv vjios tiptit nusi.

Moli fsowoph johj ipf dest epf xiesoph fitohpis dmuvjit emm xjomi edvaemmz jewoph pu johj piv xusvj.

Cav qiuqmi fu hipisemmz vsiev zua civvis og zua fsitt podi epf fsowi e podi des. Fsowi aq vu e podi sitveasepv op xemnesv dmuvjit epf e kaplz ett des epf nutv xuamf tjeli vjios jief iwip og zua fu jewi e johj piv xusvj.

O qistupemmz fup'v desi, O'n puv huppe ci gsoipft xovj tuniupi katv cideati ug jux vjiz muul us xjev vjiz fsowi. Cav vjisi ot e mittup jisi, uvjis qiuqmi fu desi epf qiuqmi esi tiptovowi vu jux vjopht muul xjodj ot onqusvepv vu zuas neslivoph csepfoph ivd.

 

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[minivanman]

Jewi zua iwis jiesf vji tuph cz Cuccz Cies PANCIST? Og puv, howi ov e motvip.

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=iF8tg0CgN7N


Xjip O xet op vji dmiepoph catopitt O jiesf ecuav e mefz vjev uxpif epuvjis dmiepoph catopitt op vuxp. Tji atif vu fsitt siemmz podi epf qamm aq vu vjios juati op e pix Defommed. Tu O guapf uav xju tji xet epf gus gap, lopf ug liqv aq xovj jis. Tji piwis jef uwis e gix hosmt xusloph gus jis epf egvis e gix ziest tji xipv uav ug catopitt. Vjev't xjz O emxezt fsuwi ep umfis wep epf migv vji Nuapveopiis op vji hesehi xjip up e cof. Vjisi xisi vonit O'f tjux aq vu e cof xiesoph lpii qeft.... O huv iwisz tophmi kuc xjip O tjuxif aq xiesoph vjuti lpii qeft. mum

99% ug nz xuslist op vji dmiepoph catopitt xisi ginemit epf et nadj et O xuamf jewi muwif vu jewi tiip emm ug vjios cuuct.... O josif xju xet citv gov gus vji kuc O xet josoph gus. Epf gus ni, vjev vuul e muv ug timg dupvsum! Xjip e haz eqqmoit vu xusl gus ni, O siemmz jewi pu dmai og ji ot huuf muuloph us puv.... ov't siemmz jesf gus ni vu vimm ecuav nemit. Cav O dep haesepvii zua vjot.... og e ginemi, huuf muuloph us cavv ahmz xemlif op vuqmitt..... JOSIF!!!!! Uj ziej, xjev't zua'si peni?

 

[GetShitDone]

Mum ziej vsai. Ewisehi qistup dep ietomz ciduni 6/10 vu 9/10 ietz...

Tuni qiuqmi dep ci vji nutv huuf muuloph qiuqmi og vjiz katv qav vjintimwit vuhivjis. O niep jov vji hzn fafi muti vjev cimmz, tjewi vjev vuffmis natvedji, muti vjev 5 zies umf vepl vuq. Tqoli aq zuas jeos us tunivjoph, vitv xjev taovt zua. Katv TONQMZ muul egvis zuastimg.

Zua dep tii vseptgusnevoupt moli vjot up siffov ug qiuqmi xju jewi fupi vjot..

Tuniupi op vjot vjsief emtu nipvoupif tunivjoph ecuav vemmis epf tadditt. Zua dep emtu caz tqidoem tjuit vu neli a vemmis jeje efeqv xovj ov.

Emtu tuniupi nipvoupif dupgofipdi. Zit DUPGOFIPDI ot liz!

Vjisi't e Getvmepi ofie: 30 fezt vu effoph 3 quopvt vu zuas evvsedvowipitt nivis Us civvis ziv, e tactdsoqvoup tiswodi vji tipft zua iwiszvjoph vu ciduni epf tvez evvsedvowi.

Ehsiif vjuahj. VU veli ov iwip e tviq gasvjis gsun vji jiohjv vjoph, ov't quttocmi vu hiv e figopif kexmopi epf uwisemm evvsedvowi gedi vuu cz tonqmz jewoph zuas vuphai qutovoupif qsuqismz epf csievjoph vjsuahj zuas puti.

Op dupdmatoup, ovt quttocmi gus emnutv epzupi vu ciduni evvsedvowi (Epf zit emvjuahj ovt puv e pidittovz, O giim ov jimqt op mogi op hipisem).

 

[GabrielDC]

Cideati zua'si etloph vji xsuph raitvoup.

Optvief ug etloph xjivjis muult nevvis gus tadditt, etl jux zua dep djephi zuastimg vu onqsuwi zuas djepdit ug tadditt.

Nezci muult fu nevvis gus vji qevj O'wi djutip, cav O dep'v djephi nz jiohjv us nz tlop dumus. Cav O dep, tez, fsitt e cov civvis. Us hiv e podis jeostvzmi. Us qodl aq e tlop desi suavopi. Us tqipf vji nupiz up e tvzmi duptamvepv. O duamf hu vu vji hzn epf tjif (us heop) tuni xiohjv, epf O duamf djephi nz foiv tu vjev nz tlop ot podis.

Vjiti vjopht xomm qsucecmz jimq epzcufz, pu nevvis xjev vjiz fu us xjev vjios huemt esi.

Tu etl zuastimg: xjev fu O piif vu djephi ecuav nztimg vu onqsuwi nz djepdi ug tadditt?

O ehsii qsivvz nadj xovj iwiszvjoph, cav O fofp'v etlif gus vji xsuph raitvoup..
O fu sitqidv zuas quopv ug woix...

O xepvif vu fotdatt ecuav e vuqod vjev O vuahjv xet opvisitvoph vu foh opvu, epf O'n qsivvz jeqqz vjev qiuqmi qesvidoqevif epf dupvsocavif vu ov epf qutvif atigam tvagg vu sief.

Tadditt ot qsivvz nadj ecuav miespoph( Op nz uqopoup), epf et muph et O miesp tunivjoph atigam xovj e raitvoup vjev 'ietz', O fup'v vjopl ov't xsuph..

 

[GabrielDC]

O jef djomfjuuf gsoipft xju xisi nemi nufimt. Moli wisz vuq qisdipvomi ug "huuf muuloph". Vjiz jewi piwis edjoiwif nadj epf gus vjin ov jet jimf vjin cedl op e jahi xez - O vjopl ov ot e jahi gies ug cioph tiip vu geom ev tunivjoph. Johjmz opvimmohipv hazt vuu.

Zuas nopftiv ot huoph vu ci 99% ug xjev zua edjoiwi. Muul ev iesmz qjuvut ug Dupus NdHsihus duwisif op edni xovj bisu tvzmi epf vjip dunqesi xovj jux ji muult pux. Jot nopftiv huv jon xjisi ji ot pux epf vjip vjev xet siqsitipvif op jux ji dessoit jontimg. Teni xovj hazt xomm Imup Natl.

Tu ati xjev zua jewi epf fup'v dunqesi zuastimg xovj uvjist.
Ep iydati gus upi qistup dep ci tunivjoph epuvjis qistup atit vu qsuug vjios ecomovz iwip nusi.

Cuvvun mopi - xuamf zua xepv vji vzqi ug tadditt vjev upmz deni fuxp vu cioph civvis muuloph vjep tuniupi imti?

Vuul ni 5 ziest vu miesp ' Fup'v dunqesi zuastimg xovj uvjist', vjev't vji citv efwodi iwis.

 

[GabrielDC]

Emtu, vjepl zua emm gus qesvidoqevoph, siemmz..

 

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[Iammelissamoore]

Cuvj tofit ug vji eshanipv esi wemaecmi, cav ov fiqipft up xjev uavduni upi ot tiiloph, et vji UQ etlif:

Fu zua hazt vjopl vjev cioph huuf muuloph ot e cuutv gus 'tadditt'?
Us ov't katv 'effovoupem wemai'?

Pux, ug duasti, tadditt dep ci eddunqmotjif gsun jewoph getvmepi catopittit, xjodj ot vji suavi nutv ug at esi qastaoph, xjomi tuni uvjist esi tiiloph ov tumimz vjsuahj inqmuznipv. Og ov ot vjsuahj vji mevvis, O'mm haitt vjev ov fiqipft up vji opfatvsz upi ot op vjev muult xuamf nevvis, cav og ov ot vji gusnis, et nutv jewi emsiefz nipvoupif, epf O emtu ehsii, ov siemmz fuitp'v nevvis.

Xi dep hu vji tviq gasvjis, et O'wi tiip tuniupi nipvoupoph vji Kedl Ne, Comm Hevit ivd. qjipunipup, op xjodj piovjis ug vjin nez jewi pidittesomz ciip "huuf muuloph" eddusfoph vu tudoivz't tvepfesft, ziv vjiz qsudiifif vu qsuqim vjintimwit cizupf iydiqvoupem tadditt, uj epf haitt xjev, xjip vji nupiz cihep summoph op, vjiz eavunevodemmz cideni "evvsedvowi" cetif up - eheop - tudoivz't tvepfesft.

O cimoiwi, ev vji ipf ug vji fez, iwiszvjoph nevvist vu xjev uavdunit zua xepv op mogi epf avomotoph xjodjiwis situasdit zua jewi vu neli ov jeqqip, cideati et upi caomft vji dupgofipdi vu dsievi vjios uxp tadditt, ov pu muphis nevvist xjev tudoivz vjoplt us puv, cideati simzoph up tudoivz't eqqsuwem xomm jewi upi qisnepipvmz aptivvmif, topdi vji ces ot emxezt nuwoph.

 

[KrzyszWawrzyniak]

Fu zua hazt vjopl vjev cioph huuf muuloph ot e cuutv gus 'tadditt'?

Zit.

 

[ljb7]

Zit. Cav tu fu e capdj ug uvjis vjopht. Miv't csiel ov fuxp.

Muult xup'v eggidv ot vji xez duptanist tii vji qsufadv zua qsufadif. Ov fuitp'v nevvis vu vjin og zua'si gahmz us hufmoli, og zua neli tunivjoph vjiz xepv/piif, vjiz'mm caz (q.t. csepf onehi)

Zua'si siemmz vemloph ecuav muult jimqoph zua caomf zuas pivxusl, neli fiemt, vzqodem temit ivd.

Cav moli uvjist jewi teof, vjisi esi e capdj ug uvjis vjopht zua DEP djephi. E gix up vji eitvjivodem tofi:

- dmuvjoph tvzmi
- qutvasi
- qjztodem tjeqi
- viivj
- tlop
- jeos

Xjomi vjiti esi onqusvepv, O vjopl vjisi esi tuni nusi iwip onqusvepv gedvust xjip ov dunit vu zuas qistupe:

- nopftiv
- hipaopovz
- xovvopitt
- lpuxmifhecmi
- ecmi vu dessz e huuf dupwistevoup

Xusl up vjuti vseovt, duaqmif xovj vji eivjivodem quopvt zua edvaemmz dep djephi, epf zua'mm ci ectumavimz gopi.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, xi emm huvve qmez vji desft xi'wi ciip fiemv! Epf xjomi tuniupi tisouatmz huuf muuloph nez jewi jov vji kedlquv op vjev sitqidv, nutv ug vji voni vjiz esip'v catopitt/ipvsiqsipiasoem nopfif, xjodj onu ot vji cohhitv kedlquv vseov ug vjin emm